should you forgive someone who cheats?

Summary of Sadia Khan's speech:
It's important to have a bigger picture perspective when deciding whether to forgive a cheating partner.
Without a broader understanding, the hurt and anxiety can cloud your judgment.
Merely collecting more evidence against your partner will only lead to punishment and potentially ruin the relationship.
However, if you have a secure attachment and a wider perspective, forgiveness and rebuilding may be possible.
Long-term relationships with shared experiences, like raising children and supporting each other through difficult times, can create a foundation for rebuilding trust.
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[@maryl9180]

That's a hard no. Trust gone, relationship over.

[@RobertGonzalez-hb6ft]

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[@johncampbell7219]

No. Once a woman cheats, it is OVER. If you try to get her back she loses respect for you… again it’s OVER. There is no coming back from that, ever.

[@phfscosta2]

As a man, i think that, when you build a family, and you have kids, it's your duty to honor that marriage, even if you're not happy. That said, if i ever find out a woman cheated on me, i'd end it all without a doubt. It's not about feelings, it's about disrespect and teaching your kid to not accept it.

[@DaveHowardSchiff-xe1xm]

Cheating is zero tolerance. Theres no big picture

[@davidallegro3395]

There's nothing left

[@henoshaile9087]

You can't take back a cheating woman

[@joanbennett4217]

But take back a cheating man ?

[@JackParker-cs4qq]

Cheaters don't deserve to be trusted...ever!

[@chrisfernon689]

move on. can not fix. never the same

[@NikkiBurnett]

Hard no, once I’m cheated on, lied to, or shown disrespect towards me, I’m DONE ✅

[@rell7471]

Cheating is a lifestyle, you don't just stop once you start.

[@sdrook6231]

If I heard my wife say this I'd consider the relationship over.

[@thetruther954]

Once you stop facing what you see of yourself in her. Ounce you turn tail and run? I really don’t think there’s a way to recover. Once you’ve chosen fear as the answer, the relationship is pretty much doomed. That’s how it has been for me. When reality presents itself to you, you have no choice but to choose it, if you wish to survive.

[@Imhotep397]

Yeah, that’s not something someone can come back from. If they were cheating they were already unavailable for the kids so the damage is done.

[@TruthSaying]

No. It’s betrayal. As psychologists you know that. I will stay with prof. Sam Vaknin content.

[@dougie6886]

Never ever trust a cheater ever again. Run fir the hills.

[@josephhale9198]

Get out ASAP!!

[@denisships2861]

This is good advice

[@davidallegro3395]

No go

[@housakos10]

Not acceptable It's over I don't wanna know their name or that they even exist..........

[@keithmoten8918]

It is a reason for it happening.

[@margaretking9777]

never 😂 adultery, tears the family apart to begin with. It was the cheaters choice … she is correct when she says it “depends” however, this is my personal opinion… and it’s one of the 10 Commandments

[@RedPillMuslim]

Love is strong. If u really love a person you dont let go. The masses, social media, and tv programming have pushed this idea of u can do better or dont forgive just let go. Very few times is that the right decision when you look at it in hindsight. The ex is married happy and becoming more then u thought possible because a person loved them enough and they took up the responsibility to protect that person and that love at all cost. Thats where the bond is built not detachment, leaving to teach a lesson, the silent treatment or becoming bitter and hateful. Those are worldly ideas to keep people apart because if ur home alone at night ull have your phone in your hand to feed the views and buy the products verse rebuilding trust and connection with a spouse that loves u but hurt you together without the products or videos. Wake up america

[@theeveresteffect]

thank you for this

[@MayuriPatel-iw5xo]

I’ve been saying this woman is spouting crap. Would she keep going even if she had kids???

[@ninalangaroudy9844]

Sadia, go tell that to your male clients to forgive their partners when they cheat on them. This nonsense does not fly with women any longer. You cheated and violated the trust, you are not a respectable man any more. That is it😂🤣😆

[@aaronwilcox974]

They already ruined it... so

[@joanbennett4217]

BOREDOM ???

[@bakerfarmmama]

I think people make mistakes. If you’re with someone and they mess up maybe you can give them a second shot. It’s when it’s 3 and 4 times it’s like ok now you’re just making a mockery of the relationship. I agree though learning experience for sure on what you could be missing.

[@M0SCON1Audi0]

One’s she cheats and you take her back you lose all respect meaning she will do it again and again but will try not to get caught next time. If you have children like a boy or girl, the boy will think it’s okay for him to except the cheating, the girl will think its okay to cheat on husband and just take advice from the cheater by repeating the cheaters advice. Wow what a psychologist tell the men or women cheating is okay and especially in front of the kids.

[@LIL.OK.]

May i smoke in room or not

[@AntonioLora-pr8yc]

Uffff 👀😏💀

[@LIL.OK.]

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[@briankipchirchir2762]

Bullshit