Should You Marry A Nigerian Man? Stereotypes, Tribalism, Differences Etc.

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[@CrystalOTv]

Hey! Thanks for watching. Lets chat in the comment section: Would you marry a Nigerian person or a person from a different race/ or tribe?

[@danisacademiccorner4493]

I'm open to it! I love the asobi fashion at Nigerian weddings😍

[@happinesscourt5809]

Hey! Yes I actually want to marry a Yoruba or Igbo man lol. My parents are from Rivers but I was born in Benin Republic. So I’m open to a different tribe hubby lol

[@siVertueux]

It’s really not my first preference. I have a strong bias but the most Nigerian men I know are really not open minded as far as doing adventurous things and are open to other cultures/experiences. The ones I know aren’t bad at all... they are just traditional even as Nigerian Americans. I just want to marry outside my culture (I’m Yoruba and love it) and merge cultures!!! I feel like I’m about to marry an American though 😟

[@CrystalOTv]

Merging cultures is always fun tbh! Wishing you the best ☺️💕

[@CrystalOTv]

Ayee ! 🎉💕

[@CheeOkereke_]

I am hybrid literally but according to Nigeria classification "I am Igbo". My dad is Igbo and My mum is Yoruba. The language barrier and tribalism issue is real but thank God for His mercy. Food wise, I am more accustomed to Yoruba meals than Igbo meals.

[@CrystalOTv]

My kids will be hybrid ! Ayee 🎉 Yes! Thank God for His mercy 🙌🏽

[@amaka5562]

me too! my dad is igbo but my mom is yoruba! Hybrid ganag!!!

[@goldieb.8013]

Can you do a video on how African tribes feel about their sons marrying a African American woman 🌹💯👑

[@CrystalOTv]

I definitely think their are families who are open to it and some who aren’t. It just depends on the family of the one you meet. 💕

[@milamilah6746]

As same I would like to marry Nigerian

[@milamilah6746]

@@wisdom385 Benin republic but living in Ghana

[@milamilah6746]

@@cassidyddon74 am fine

[@jimohmuradiff7861]

I think it’s depends on family.. but I believe majority of them always feels happy cause they all would love to teach you their culture.💝

[@wambuigitau6020]

Tribe is a huge think here in Kenya. We are over 40 tribes. I am dating someone from another tribe . my sister is getting married to another tribe. Our parents are okay with it. As long they are the right people we chose.

[@CrystalOTv]

That’s awesome ! So glad your family is open to intermarrying ☺️💕

[@asheikarhoden491]

I'm jamaican and would love to marry a Nigerian man 😁 Most of my friends are Yoroba so I learn a lot daily! I love ya'll!

[@CrystalOTv]

Aww Yayy! Love you right back!💕

[@siVertueux]

Yoruba* loolll sorry had to!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤣

[@niquesencouragementcorner7349]

I getting a dna test soon to see if im jamaican my grandpa had an jamaican accent before he passed so i just want to know im already in love w/ the food & culture Jamaicans rock after I get my results i will keep you posted Godbless you sister💝

[@asheikarhoden491]

@@siVertueux hahaha sorry 😄

[@godsonnzube7988]

Interesting my dear!!

[@tiaraanice]

Can you share more about your experience completing school in Nigeria? Transitioning there and transitioning back? Pros and cons? I'm currently dating an Esan man and we've had this conversation about future children possibly completing school in Nigeria. I'd love to hear more about your experience!

[@youkendehunique6317]

I’m African American and my boyfriend is Nigerian a Yoruba man as well and before you’ll start (he already has papers in the U.S so that’s not the case), I love his culture how it’s so rich and everything about him I am humble and willing to learn everything I’ve even leaned to make all his traditional foods and I’m currently learning his language by Gods Grace we will make it 🙏🏽 God bless you and your union my sister.

[@olawaleawoniyi6862]

Love your comment 👍🏾

[@deemichelle477]

Keep up the Great work! Also please feel free to join our Facebook group “Married to Nigeria” it’s a group for mostly married American women who are married to Nigerian Men! A great guide to learning more about Men from the Nigerian cultures

[@martins3942]

GooD🇳🇬👑👈🏿

[@karmekia4764]

Love your comment

[@urchel100]

Hey hey girl I smiled so much when I heard your husband is yuroba because my boyfriend is yuroba aswell and I’m from Swaziland 🇸🇿 two opposites! But His a great man and honestly can’t wait to tie the knot 😚 to see the interesting combo... I’m more calm I feel I’m arguments and his Nigerian loud lol but obviously changing to remain calm aswell. Inshort I’m inlove lol I enjoyed your video girl!

[@CrystalOTv]

Aww congrats ! Thank you and wishing you the best 💕

[@chidolueonyinyechukwu7708]

Yoruba *

[@urchel100]

chidolue onyinyechukwu lol thanks 😝 I always make that mistake

[@derrickawilliams8313]

My boyfriend is Nigerian. I love that man to death 💜

[@godsonnzube7988]

Easy ohh...Lol

[@joycereeves2766]

Interesting! 1st of all, you're a beautiful woman 😊 2nd, I'm falling in love with a Nigerian man who's from Benin City. He's explaining to me what his entire name means. He told me his tribal name from mother's side is Ayodele and mom is Yoruba. His dad his Ewaen. His English name is Tyler but he prefers me to call him Ewaen (Eh-wine). He said he loves that I say it correctly. Now why is that he listed Ewaen as his 1st name on his ID? Anyway, your video is helpful. I haven't dated any black man, not even a Nigerian- but he's the sweetest guy I've met. Hope he's true to heart. I'm in the USA and he's still and Benin. We talk everyday. Seeing each other soon! I want this to work out so I'm learning what I could about him, his famolyand country before I see him in October 2021. 🙏

[@frankyb4249]

I'm a Congolese girl and I love Nigerian people!! I wouldn't mind marrying one someday:)

[@CrystalOTv]

Ayee ! ☺️💕

[@imhotep1613]

Bilandalanda. Malanda ngulu

[@frankyb4249]

@Churchhouse Cool lol hit me up:)

[@frankyb4249]

@Churchhouse Cool fb: Frankline Busime

[@godsonnzube7988]

What interest you most about Nigerian men? Let me know please??

[@farfromacurse7402]

Oooo I love this video. I'm Nigerian too but I'm Edo. You taught me a lot in this video. Thank you!!

[@CrystalOTv]

So cool🇳🇬 ! Thanks for watching ☺️

[@dolapoo.7896]

Lmaoo you’re so cute describing the talking drum

[@CrystalOTv]

😂😂 I’m pretty sure that’s what it sounds like.😭

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

Hi

[@Wokeafricantvs]

Right

[@suabellaamanteidowu986]

See I grew up Igbo and Yoruba blood but I really was only raised with Yoruba traditions cause my grandma didn’t force my mom and her siblings to master Igbo... but I love both sides

[@naomisreflections3484]

this video was hilarious Crystal!! especially when you talk in your Nigerian accent

[@CrystalOTv]

😂❤️ thank you!

[@wurldreddem]

hi NaomisReflections are you single am a Nigerian living in Dubai,can we chat private maybe WhatsApp or emails

[@raimoore4945]

I am American. My ancestors were slaves. We come from Nigeria. I wish I knew what tribe my earlier ancestors were.

[@kstyles6210]

Send me your picture, am from nigeria, i can tell what tribe by just looking at you

[@abdulmalikkoiki]

Use the ancestors DNA search and wish you good luck in your search.

[@anniecurry3900]

I met a Nigerian I love your video I m a bit older thanks than him but we fell in love now I m very much inspired

[@CheeOkereke_]

Most Yoruba music have the "talking drum" instrument that just make you start dancing.

[@CrystalOTv]

Yes !! That’s what it’s called.

[@CheeOkereke_]

The greeting style for both culture confuses me sometimes. I grew up in a Yoruba environment, as a girl I go on my two knees to greet elders (Yoruba culture) on the other hand in the igbo culture you don't have to knee to greet elders. The first time I knelt down to greet the elders they were looking at me strangely till someone explained to them that I haven't been around them(igbos) before.

[@CrystalOTv]

So True! It takes time to adjust to. I see that you first and last name is igbo. Do you have a Yoruba name?

[@CheeOkereke_]

Yes I do, EYINJUOLUWA (The apple of God's eyes).

[@CrystalOTv]

Love it !!

[@danisacademiccorner4493]

I clicked play instantly! I was dating a Nigerian (Yoruba) guy last year😆

[@CrystalOTv]

Oh wow ! How did that go?

[@danisacademiccorner4493]

@@CrystalOTv it was actually a great experience for the most part. One of the things I admire about Yorubas ( and Nigerians in general) is that you guys are so confident and wherever you are in the world you guys are proud to share your culture with others- especially music and food! Naija nor dey carry last 😁🇳🇬

[@Obalufon]

@@danisacademiccorner4493 You're Appreciated!

[@toospiritual1083]

This video was amazing! Loved it!! I loved what you said about your husband about his identity primarily being rooted in Christ first. Also, that you kept your name so that tour kids and future generations can track their lineage. Culture and tradition is important to preserve, but God has different ways of doing that. Ultimately what is important is God's will.

[@CrystalOTv]

Thank you ☺️💕

[@ABa-ve3ul]

What about DL ones? 😣

[@dhurbaacharya5261]

welcome thanks for your love . Nigerian women civilization Rights Knowledge.

[@Daraax]

Yes girl ❤️ Love when you speak Yoruba and in a Naija accent here and there👌🏾

[@CrystalOTv]

😩 i try! Thank you 💕☺️

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

Hi dara

[@jimohmuradiff7861]

I love your video my sister 🥰❤️ I’m looking forward to dating a non-Nigerian 😂 . Your husband is my namesake “OLA😂😂.. Iyawo 😂😂 I hope your husband do cook 👨‍🍳 for you cuz we most Nigerians guys knows how to cook very well. You re so nice !

[@CrystalOTv]

Aww, thanks!!

[@Wokeafricantvs]

U intelligent, love the name

[@anniecurry3900]

Thank you so much 💓 I needed this so much. 💗

[@Wokeafricantvs]

Mad! Deep

[@FShexa]

I know who to share this with lol #notificationGENG

[@JordynNoel]

Not only was this video helpful, but YOU ARE sooo hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂

[@CrystalOTv]

🤣🤣 thanks!

[@Brodauyot12]

Nice one dear, new subscriber. I like your contents!

[@shantelbaleena6154]

Loved this sis Thankyou sooooo😌

[@CrystalOTv]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@kaylahood1000]

My ex was Nigerian never again will I date that culture. Not for me just being honest.

[@CrystalOTv]

Thanks for sharing.

[@yolondav]

woww I love you! your personality is awesome!

[@CrystalOTv]

Aww thank you ☺️💕

[@wurldreddem]

hello Yolanda renee am a Nigerian proudly igbo, are you single would love to chat with you privately maybe WhatsApp or on mails

[@atthismoment3006]

short answer YES

[@sheltonmackey6449]

Tribalism is what holding Africa back

[@anniecurry3900]

I m American my fiance is yuba man what is it like?

[@rosethomas7841]

Is it possible for a Nigerian man to fall in love with you in a little time and want to marry you.I am an American

[@NiceGirlsFinishFirst]

What's so little time sis? I'm American and dated a Nigerian man. He fell hard and was very adamant about us being a couple. All while I found out he was married lol. Does he got his green card? Is he a citizen?

[@didi7680]

Proof right here. I, an American,am being pursued relentlessly by a Nigerian man. But...I am married. So tempting. He swears I am meant for him, that God gave me to him. He can't sleep, eat, cries a lot. All from a picture. What to do.

[@Entergalactic]

Dianne Rothenbuehler sis be careful might be a scsmm

[@gbolahanakinwanle8158]

Well, I'll say base off our culture and relationship lifestyle, we tend to fall in love quickly and want to bring the woman within our friends and family irrespective of where she might be from, notwithstanding this isn't the case for everyone who professes their love online because some of them are just to either want to brag about you to friends and family or just wants you as a visa ticket off the motherland, whichever way make sure you tell him to take things slow and steady and if he's still love/marriage bombing you in a short while then bid him goodbye.

[@leslietiwari8625]

Yeah, it's possible because it happened to me, but you have to watch out for scammers.

[@deemichelle477]

Great video..

[@chris37115]

Great video!

[@CrystalOTv]

Thank you 💕

[@naagilbie5786]

Love it😍😘

[@CrystalOTv]

Thank you 💕

[@atthismoment3006]

a believer demon? lol

[@WesWessey]

i was very eager to listen but she is just very EXTRA and exagerated with her words and facial expressions. couldn't sit through it didn't make it pass one minute and thrity second mark. AWESOME TOPIC though. i'm yoruba and so is my husbannnnnnn.

[@CrystalOTv]

I’m not for everyone and that is okay 👌🏽 ☺️

[@WesWessey]

@@CrystalOTv amen. az we are all created equally and interpret/receive the church sermon differently. remain positive my sista🙋🏾‍♀️.

[@Obalufon]

@@CrystalOTv Love u sis. Good job!

[@DelightfulSweets]

No

[@isadore9793]

Sorry we are not looking for someone to marry,we have our girls.

[@malaysiacollins8543]

Hi

[@easternblood9207]

Mtchewwww..Rubbish

[@CrystalOTv]

What exactly is rubbish sis?

[@easternblood9207]

@@CrystalOTv Inter-tribal marriage is rubbish...Read my reply on your pinned comment

[@jimohmuradiff7861]

@@CrystalOTv my sister Enjoy your sweet home and I pray for you jareee ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰