Shuler King - Was Cam Newton Wrong?

[@Aaron-sv1rm]

If a man or woman marries someone that doesn't add value to their life, they are a fool! Being pretty and having lot's of likes on your IG page doesn't add value in my opinion. If the first thought you have in the morning is checking your social media page...you the damn problem!

[@charrissetaylor3323]

Amen

[@brittany261]

Amen!

[@barbarawilliams5130]

Agree

[@mariohall2631]

Amen to that. I don't have Instagram, Facebook or Twitter. My life is full with working, my husband and my 2 children and a few friends.

[@terrytaylor1928]

Truth be told! It takes two to make the relationship work not one.

[@FT-db3ty]

As a married woman of almost 4 years I’ll simply say... anyone can be quiet while the other person speaks, but it takes humility to listen. That’s the key.

[@titeofcpt2867]

Takes humility to listen? God bless you and your husband Sis. 🙏

[@CeeSparks]

@West west lol. It's really not separate. It applies to both parties, for a successful marriage or any relationship really. People don't want to listen. Everyone wants to talk and think only what they say matters or is more important. Selfishness kills any relationship

[@Nic_Soprano]

Listening and Hearing is two different things ! But you preaching a word there, Brother Shuler ! No lies Detected here.

[@LRamey]

Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@AnzalduaFantastic]

💡💡💡💡💡☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️💡💡💡💡💡💡💡

[@sixfour8087]

As a man who has been happily married for 21 years..I approve the message. No lies detected! EDIT: Thanks for all of the thumbs up!

[@victorious1929]

Find a lot of them in his statement but I’m just watching and writing a book, 34 years plus married , you all are missing a simple key point... but carry on

[@teefree8041]

@@victorious1929 enlighten us please

[@dibonaa808thegreat7]

Just celebrated my 21 year’s anniversary married.Always know when to take the lead and fall back and let her do her part as well.

[@Cheray_]

Okay...all of us with 21 years of marriage💃🏾 I, too, approve of this message! Only the hit female dogs hollering about this🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Ginab3001]

Thank you, Mr. happily married man👍🏼

[@cjackson788]

Shuler, I totally agree with you. My husband and I have been married for 28 yrs and that’s because we took the advice of the elders in our family. I was a hot head in the beginning of our marriage but my mother had to pull me aside and teach me how to be a strong wife for my husband. She told me that a man would rather sit on the top of a roof than to deal with a nagging wife in the home. I took her advice and became his help mate. God made women to be a helpmate to her husband not a slave. I treat him like a king and he treats me like a queen.

[@nclick1]

Ma'am that's the same thing Cam....said .. maybe he didn't articulate well.... but can you honestly say your mother or my mother would be walking around twerking and saying I'm a boss...because a lot comes with that terminology as it relates to the young girls today...turn on the radio...you wouldn't want a man saying a boss nigga....it can't be said for one and done by another...you just said your mom had to school you...he is saying he wants a woman like you...

[@mindfine908]

Yes ma’am! Your mother is right and “A man would rather sit in the top corner of a house than deal with a contentious woman” is a Proverb (25:24) 🤍

[@garrygraves3848]

Well said . More women need to listen to this advice cuz I've been married just as long to a wonderful woman. Unfortunately, in today's "progressive "society, Alot of women, NOT all want to run the show and it's the "I don't need a man "mentality that is one of the reasons why most men and women can't get along anymore. Shuler King and Cam Newton are both right.

[@glorymosbyfloyd3878]

Indeed, Indeed My parents were married for 52 years before my father went Home to be with the Lord and they both worked hard to maintain their marriage by always having TMH God in the midst

[@dgw2490]

Momma got that straight from the bible! Amen.

[@courtneywitherspoon8584]

The problem is that everybody wanna talk about submission but dont nobody wanna be submitted to God. To me, its dangerous to talk about this Biblical principle without Biblical context. BUT! Shuler you knocked this out of the park, as usual.

[@robinnewton1061]

Best statement of all time🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏿👏🏿

[@Gsoup83]

Thank you!!!!!

[@romelleb8590]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@vickibyrd2043]

#FACTS!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@jontemccants]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@BridgettS]

This man needs to write a life lessons book. I love his perspective 😂. Within the comedy he drops gems every time.

[@godsbabeborn-again5945]

Facts!

[@missnene8339]

You know Shuler had something to say about this because he went pass his normal time of 3-4 minutes LOL

[@aplan4u328]

This needs to go viral. After 22 years of marriage I co-sign Schuler's message.

[@misslauraj2756]

After 10 years of divorce, I co-sign Shuler's message

[@Redeemed2000]

20 years of Marriage AND a Pastor! I co-sign as well! ❤️❤️❤️

[@richardhardaway7813]

Do you consider your husband leader of your home?

[@shannanmilligan8949]

Yep!

[@anitagaka]

After 35 years of marriage,I co-sign Schuler’s message.

[@sashapoage7110]

Kudos to you Shuler.. As a woman I co-sign with you on this whole message.

[@justinebailey5333]

Yassssssss if it goes both ways

[@kelvinmorris1991]

@@justinebailey5333 did you listen to the WHOLE THING?

[@justinebailey5333]

@@kelvinmorris1991 yasssss I did egg in your face

[@tarawalker7193]

Absolutely

[@anissamiles1782]

Yes Lord.........Shuler......"Preach" 😂💖😂💖😂💖😂💖😂💖😂

[@yvonnewood7757]

Shuler, you said the word I have used for years. I am a *"self-sufficient"* woman. I've never been independent. No man...or woman is an island. No one stands alone! Amen!

[@theacartwright2504]

I agree with Shuler....everyone has to know their place if they want the relationship to work. We as men and women must respect our differences and appreciate one another.

[@janedough6410]

Some don't know their place because they didn't witness. At least be workable and build on the weaknesses with strengths. If folks selfish and self centered, it won't work.

[@theacartwright2504]

Totally agree..

[@YahsLoveisEnough]

I have to be honest, black men don't get the submission they desire especially from black women, because their behavior in general is not trustworthy toward they women. The single parent woman headed families, the lack of gainful employment, the incarceration rate, and the least ability to thrive in America is the reason women feel they can't depend on black men in general. I know plenty black me good and bad. However, would you respect a teacher takes roll call and leaves the rest of the class. No you'd feel your on your own and until that teacher show up and teaches or does their job you won't think their worth the respect of a teacher.

[@shellaeross797]

@@YahsLoveisEnough Great analogy!

[@glorymosbyfloyd3878]

FACTS

[@Johnchi02]

I had this talk with my mama years ago. Something I realize is that as much men like to use the Bible to say how women is suppose to "submit". Those same guys never finish that scripture, and state how husbands are to love their wives like Christ love the church. You have to give a woman something to follow. In my life I never a a strong woman (a secure woman) have a problem follow her man, when the man is doing what he suppose to do. She will feel comfortable in letting go and allowing him to take the lead. The respect work both ways.

[@rop8331]

Marriage = submission in that order

[@souschef4489]

If you marry her, you should love her. If she married you, she should be submissive to you.

[@Johnchi02]

@@souschef4489 yeah what are actually asking when you say being submissive. Because that may not be what you really want. It's a give and take. It's not just a woman doing what you say.

[@YenChosen]

@Johnchi02 this is the most perfect comment right here. And I appreciate the fact that it is coming from a man. The man that understands what his responsibilities and role is that he plays in the relationship. Unfortunately I just had to have this conversation this week with my husband in reference to the fact that it's not that women won't submit it's just that there is nothing to submit to when you have a man that is not taking full responsibility to lead his family it is hard for a woman who has been responsible in her life to feel comfortable with letting you be responsible for something that she knows that you do not have the capability of managing. There is an actual fear and anxiety that comes along with that for her that I don't think a lot of men understand. It's not that she doesn't want to submit, she is afraid that things will not be taken care of properly and their lives will fall apart if she gives things over to someone who has not proven to be responsible.

[@prn72271]

Well said. It is referencing submitting to the Christlike ways of the husband. It is more about Godly influence not simply ordering.

[@c.l.9344]

Preach, Shulers post is far better than Cam's interview. Shuler you need a podcast. 🙏🏼✝️♥️

[@unfiltered_reaction952]

Probably didn't listen just typing🧐

[@andimurray2896]

No doubt!!

[@Pouringmyheartout4u]

Say it again Shuler! You have broke men wanting a good woman, and women that can't cook and clean looking for a man to take care of them. Stop the madness!!

[@tashaulmer9073]

I second that...podcast time

[@tw9946]

@@tashaulmer9073 LONG OVERDUE and its needed.

[@lesfleurs9369]

He lost me at the "I have 7 kids & want more" from the BR interview. This community is afflicted with a sickness. The baby mama ism really needs to stop.

[@mkb5984]

Is he male or female now..? What is he/she dealing with/ What happened to Cam?

[@veronicathompson6802]

Preach King, a lot of people need to hear this.

[@lashawannajoyner5993]

Ikr frfr... I guess no one reads n believe in God's Word? 🤔 It tells us about husband and wife and how n what to do .. Help Mate... On period 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️

[@legslipsandlashes9831]

@@lashawannajoyner5993 Yeah but Cam ain't married to nobody and he ain't tryna get married either. I know Shuler wants to clarify for Cam but he meant what he said the way he said it. These two men are living totally differently, which is why I can respect what SHULER said. Cam can go scratch. 😏😏😏

[@dannyisjuan4706]

King?

[@angelac7837]

Good lesson. You preached a whole word here. I’ve been married for 26 years and agree with this entire message

[@geministwin6074]

As a woman I see nothing wrong with what he said

[@ArtLee68]

Thank you Sister

[@amyjohnson6482]

As a married woman of 33 years, I agree with this message 100%!! Great message Schuler!

[@dedrachambers8722]

But, Cam Newton and His Ex- GIRLFRIEND have 4 Children....He didn't Marry This Woman. FINALLY after 7 years they Broke up. He Never made her his WIFE and gave her a Commitment and Solidified and Secured her and their Children. Now, he has Another Child with Someone Else. 🙄 STOP Making Baby's and Be A Husband.

[@msfancy9280]

And he said hes NOT done making babies. Another Nick Cannon, broken homes everywhere but want to speak on marriage. He needs to be quiet

[@faithbishop1444]

Someone needs to open their minds more than their legs 🤷

[@MrsAK.Simmons]

And he's still not wrong in what he said, so no buts. If it's "your body, your choice" then start choosing to NOT give a man a baby before he gives you a signed marriage license. They been told us back then that men do exactly what you allow.

[@msfancy9280]

@@MrsAK.Simmons If the guy isnt right, what does marriage really mean. Mariah Carey got the ring and is still now a single parent and her kids gotta split daddy time 7 ways

[@MrsAK.Simmons]

@@msfancy9280 Cam wasn't wrong in my book. Mariah Carey accepted Nick Cannon as her husband out of all the men she could have been with. Although Mariah still receives more respect from us than the other women Nick got pregnant. They all signed up willingly at the end of the day. There's a reason why a man can leave one woman, then go to another woman and do everything right with that woman. There for a good time, not a long time. Nowadays it doesn't matter if a woman is living section 8 or in a luxury condo. Both find it more beneficial to be a baby mama rather than a wife. So Cam and Nick can have more babies if they want to for that reason alone. Try guarding your womb, and see if you get a different response.

[@AuntieKnowsKitchen]

I’ve been married for 35 years, we both had careers, I retired from 32 years criminal Justice, he still works😂, we married at 20 & 21. Marriage is about compromising, submission does go both ways. I’m a country girl at heart, raised by my grandmother (cooking since 8). He served in the Air Force early in our marriage. We listen to each other, we respect each other. We raised to respectful children (34/19). We compliment each other. I don’t have an issue about what you or cam said!

[@Chris-lx7xs]

I am an unmarried woman but feel very happy hear you say this, because this is exactly how I feel about a relationship/ marriage. One day I will be blessed with my chosen one.

[@anissamiles1782]

In Jesus name, yes you will 🙏🏿💖🙏🏿💖🙏🏿

[@dajewel1982]

And so it is

[@TheLisak234]

@@anissamiles1782 Amen

[@godiswithyou.5358]

Yes you will! Praise Him in advance ♥️

[@mellymell33]

Married my husband at 23. Im 41 now and we wouldn't have progressed this far in life without my husband leading our family and my living by his example. We've seen highs and lows but God really has blessed us simply from living a cooperative submissive Life style. It's a simple equation, listen and learn FROM EACH OTHER!!

[@kiarahart3114]

You are the ONLY PERSON to hit this nail right on the head that I've heard!

[@ayeflippum]

*kiara hart* That's probably because you don't *listen.*

[@antoinettesingleton9935]

The issue was with the way Cam said what he said. Now, the way Shuler explained was correct. He explained it as more a give and take rather straight submission. I agree with the way Shuler explained it. The way words are put together matters a great deal.

[@amissterie9704]

But these brothers don't want to be a HUSBAND, Shuler. But they don't mind being the type that creates broken homes. He can say what he wants, but his track record speaks a whole lot louder...... You want a great woman, become a great man.

[@lalarequestprayer.phil4and26]

Hallelujah ‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌

[@bigstevepreston]

Which brothers. Cause I can speak for myself when I say bullshit. Im.a great msn. Go to work. Go to school. Take care of mom dukes. Try to get my own and I stay in my lane. Yet these so called sistas rather be eith Tyrone with the multiple records and baby mama drama. Talk about some bullshit.

[@lalarequestprayer.phil4and26]

@@bigstevepreston I don't think they meant "all". We know there's still some good men. God bless you, keep doing your thang 🙏🤍

[@jaycesmith7899]

Women file for divorce 80% of the time often for b.s. reasons but it is always the husband's fault. Yeah okay!

[@favorjamal1856]

There are more married black men than women let’s stop this. I wish people would do their due diligence. I’m sorry if you had bad experiences but stop judging men as a collective it’s dismissive and unfair.

[@Hhopiuygv]

As a married woman for 25 years I don’t have a problem with what he said at all. If he’s a good man worthy of me . I have no problem at all.

[@brandyhalabi819]

Mr.S said…... “Submission go both ways” that was put well fr… I’m not mad or offended by Cams comments, how when tha man is stating his opinion, he being direct n saying this is what he like n how he feel.. In tha end, he was simply stating his opinion on what he like and tha type.. An opinion is based on how one feels/views a certain topic, aspect n more in life n is not a fact… To everyone everywhere, stay safe stay blessed 🙏🏽✨🙏🏽✝️

[@mm-zy6qx]

Thank you

[@mayanking339]

No it doesn't A man submits to God

[@sugalovely1238]

I agree! If that's what Mr. Newton wants in a woman, then who is everyone else 2 get upset, when it doesn't fit their narrative. I have a list of things i expect from my man, & i really don't give a crap with others think of it.

[@brandyhalabi819]

@@mm-zy6qx You are most welcome 🙂.. You have a nice weekend, stay blessed 🙏🏽

[@brandyhalabi819]

@@sugalovely1238 Exactly 💯.. You have a nice weekend, stay blessed 🙏🏽

[@whyanubis2848]

Perfectly explained. We balance each other. Our traumas are different so communication is key to be able to be on the same page in how to allow yourself to react. We are a reactive people when it comes to each other. Figuratively speaking.......

[@leeslove1999]

To each is own Cam Newton is entitled to his opinion just like everyone who makes a comment on this KZbin platform.

[@shalanthamoore704]

100% correct

[@ari333]

Exactly

[@Tri.dawg1]

Facts

[@papasmackyourhat5333]

It's a prescription that make a healthy relationship.

[@latishabuckner8231]

As a self sufficient woman with my own car, home, and decent income I have no problem with what Schuler is saying. However if I am going to submit, the man in question needs to be worth submitting to.

[@AnzalduaFantastic]

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[@cela9852]

Nothing wrong at all with what he said BUT his track record certainly doesn't back him up lol

[@k.junior7792]

Might be the cause of his track record??🤔

[@JoeTraxx]

You live and you learn that how you obtain knowledge

[@mr.h1389]

None of them became wives

[@cela9852]

@@JoeTraxx not to knock off the importance of knowledge but it is important to understand that some of the best advice can come from people who will never practice it. If I remember right, Cam Newton left his long-term GF and baby mama for a stripper. Same with my uncle, I love him dearly because he looks out for me and gives me life advice but he is honestly a bad husband to my aunt. I have never seen him follow most of the advice he has ever given me when it comes to relationships.

[@JoeTraxx]

@@mr.h1389 because you can’t turn a 304 into a wife, just because the man didn’t wanna give up half of his trap doesn’t mean he was the problem

[@deborahprater6004]

As a woman who is 74 years YOUNG, you on ON POINT YOUNG MAN, ON POINT, OK!!

[@kayyb]

A wise person once said.. “you get what you think about rather you want it or not” You get what you expect to get and what you have vibrationally acclimated to is what you generally get. It’s important to do the inner work first! Go hard on your self work! There are a lot of men and women that are so used to the drama or whatever that when a good one comes they’re bored. Balance is key!

[@gwenmcnabb9290]

It's so much dysfunction in the the black family it's sad. That's why your by yourself and will always be because you know everything.

[@gwenmcnabb9290]

We let money rule our lives and not God. Let's seek God for his leadership and not ourselves. Doing this people you can't go wrong.

[@chevyboi600]

This here hit different like a good church sermon that put your attention in headlock and feed yo soul at the same time. Big ups my G 💯💪🏽

[@janedough6410]

People need to be flexible -- know your role and expect to take leadership when needed. If one has strength in specific areas, it's okay to switch roles.

[@Gsoup83]

Bingo!!!winner, winner chicken dinner!!!

[@angellee9307]

Some women are superior and the man knows she is the true MATRIARCH ! “ DADDY JUST DRIVE AND PAY THE BILLS.” “ YES MY QUEEN.” Now kiss me on the jaw and I won’t embarrass your sensitive sexy behind.🏀🥂🌞

[@YenChosen]

Yes, that's why understanding what submission is and how it works is so important. Because a lot of times these simple-minded black men are not really understanding that that's how submission works. We both have an understanding in the relationship that the man is the head however that doesn't mean that you should not listen to your woman because of most men will admit that their woman has the best ideas. God made us that way and some men because they lack understanding they try to demean that in women by saying that she is not submissive because she is sharing her ideas giving what would be the best interest for the family. She has the ideas it's up for you as the man to implement them that's how leadership works.

[@mamakarin8592]

Did y'all think for one minute that Shuler was going to keep this serious? He is so crazy!

[@malikahharris8810]

It’s not submission it is rather utilizing effective communication. Two people communicating by listening and responding

[@tiffaneyroseboro5161]

Real talk from the pulpit of Shuler King!!! I truly appreciate this breakdown. I couldn’t have said it better! Hallelujah!!🙌🏽

[@soniaward807]

As a black self sufficient woman I approve this message 💯

[@mothertwinkles4198]

No person is self sufficient. Someone assisted you in some fashion...good, bad, or indifferent. And don't leave out God's grace and mercy.

[@Keepdapocket]

I’m confused on why you mentioned “self sufficient”. That’s what Cam newton was saying. Why prove you’re a “boss”? That’s like me saying “as a black leading man”. I don’t need to say it. I do it by example for 22 years with my wife and our two kids. I don’t say “I’m the man of this house”. I say “ I’m the man in this house, but this is your mama’s house”. I believe the woman runs the home. I believe the home should be how the woman wants it. My wife is sho nuff a boss, but she doesn’t just do whatever to our home because that’s how I feel. She includes me. I usually just say “whatever babe, just let me know”. I’m a lawyer and she is an accountant. I make more, but she is a numbers woman. I handle our savings and CD and IRA. I lead in that, but I run it through her. Just be a boss, don’t talk boss like. These new school women kill me

[@indigoGoddess7]

@@mothertwinkles4198 You don’t know people’s lives and or their experiences. You’re invalidating their life experiences and that’s not right. P.S. not everyone is religious….

[@bin579]

yo, please.. there are 8 billion people in the planet.. not even a third of them a YT jeezus believers @@mothertwinkles4198 -respect!

[@bin579]

you doing EGGAXTLY what you are on her neck capping on @@Keepdapocket you do you boo boo and respect when another human being does hers!

[@nancybreaux9684]

As a man you have to be worthy to be submitted too. A woman needs to chose wisely.

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

I agree with Cam Newton and Shuler King....some women are out of control and embarrassing to be around some men are out of control...just avoid people who you are not compatible with.

[@brandyhalabi819]

You said that perfectly fr!!

[@cleanchannel3029]

Amen! This is WONDERFUL commentary!!!😀😀😀 Especially coming from a man! I as a woman 1000% agree👍🏽.

[@andersonsr81]

FACTS!! 100%......About time someone (A real married man) took the time to break it down and give true insight! Been married for 20yrs and what Cam said is true.

[@Gsoup83]

Did you miss what Shuler said. It goes both ways. Both

[@aprilshowers7553]

He missed all of that obviously 😂

[@cherylgirl9625]

Great Message Shuler King! 👑

[@deedee-ew6so]

SHULER Well said!!! CAM well said!!! Whether in agreance or not. Define & understand what u truly need in a HEALTHY relationship.

[@trinjuwan4422]

Shuler...You're ALWAYS on point❤🙏🏽💯 REAL adults LEAD by EXAMPLE

[@curiousart42]

We fight because we try to be right instead of trying to be happy.

[@kra.7671]

And if being right makes u happy?

[@kj7682]

@@kra.7671 be alone

[@sierramilan4322]

THANK YOU!!!

[@angelheaven2826]

He was not wrong, that was just his opinion, I am sure he meant to let the man be a man when he need to. I heard it I did not get offended by his remarks.💯💯 Sometime people are so woke they need to take their a$$ back to sleep. I'm out✌🏽

[@kekedouluvm3109]

Take they butt back to sleep 🤣😂. I like that one

[@glynislouis7331]

J U S T S A Y I T ❗

[@twin4life]

For real some ppl so woke they really sleep dreaming they woke

[@angelheaven2826]

@@twin4life This is straight facts. 💯

[@justinebailey5333]

Cant nobody make you not feel like a Man. Blk men got that shit down packed. If a woman can take away your man hood thats on you.

[@DollHouseMadam]

Beautiful! This needs to be a mandatory video at the start of every high school day for all 4 years. Instill wisdom when needed the most.

[@mlledj22]

The key phrase was "IF it makes sense." Half the time it doesn't make sense. Going along blindly is being foolish and usually leads to problems.

[@kra.7671]

See when u get into the subjective topic of making sense.... Who's to say whose making sense and what value system is used to "make sense"..

[@kj7682]

@@kra.7671 the Bible, he’s speaking on Biblical principles.

[@dwillhight]

The best way I’ve ever heard it said King. They are self sufficient not independent! FACTS

[@purplesoul9927]

Choose the spouse that will help be the best version you can be💯🎯

[@MzDeez]

VERY WELL SAID, brother Shuler!!!! This NEEDS to be on a T-shirt or SUMN!!👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@obsidian00]

It's just easier to be single Shuler...just have to worry about ONE person!

[@sparkytoday8455]

Yup, that’s me, perfectly self-sufficient, and life has never been better at 65 years old!

[@obsidian00]

@@sparkytoday8455 Yes Sirrrrrrrr!!!

[@chase321]

@Sparky Yes Sir.You and I are the same age and single.Life is beautiful,no stress or drama.I wouldn't have it any other way.

[@sparkytoday8455]

You are right on. I’m a female, been single since 1989, raised my boys, dated a bunch, but in the end there’s nothing better than my own company, this is MY time!

[@obsidian00]

@@sparkytoday8455 PREACH ON IT!!!

[@mzwisdom7504]

Preach, Teach, Educate us. Love this Brother Helping and Breaking down some relationship knowledge.

[@vanmckinley7936]

This is the realest shit I've heard on internet today!! Come on Shuler 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Michael-qz6ld]

I've been married 26 years, Nothing but FACTS HERE!

[@PopsieLouisiana59]

Master Class instruction and information right here.

[@misslauraj2756]

PREACH Prophet Shuler! PREACH and Teach 😇🥰😍

[@aleshapaustin4492]

I totally agree with Cam, Cam had the balls to say it💯🎯

[@themindofsam]

Exactly

[@kj7682]

He’s just the wrong messenger. You can’t tell women what they’re doing wrong when you’re not the man to lead a good woman. No good woman wants to deal with multiple baby mamas. JS

[@TriBeccaDesigns]

OMG, Thank you so very much for speaking on this from the perspective of a real man. I totally agree👍🏾👆🏾🙌🏾

[@wandaalston859]

I agree with you SK 💯 %

[@richardwoolridgejr5771]

Outstanding message MR KING with humor love it

[@feleciablac]

💯. But it’s the “that’s why you got all them cats” part for me 😂😂😂

[@lerham99]

😂😂😂😂

[@luckyhatt8895]

Amen,keep bringing the Word Be Blessed

[@ladycapricorn]

Sage words and advice as usual from Mr Shuler👏👏👏 Hope it reaches who it needs to reach and has a positive impact. Wish more men saw things the way you do Shuler, keep it up👍

[@shanacooks2796]

Shular, you hit all the important points, and in 6 minutes and... without bashing anyone. I love it. ❤ Everyone everywhere that desires to be in a relationship should watch this short tutorial.

[@joycewashington4925]

You are absolutely correct, you're doing what you do teach preach and reach someone.thanks Shuler 🥰🥰🥰

[@DaOvaseea]

Let da chuuch sey Amen…Rebum Dr Shuler Luther Kang has delivered another word….#GovernYoSelfAccordingly

[@altheawarren729]

I was with Shuler 100%, until he mentioned the cats!!🤣 Me:😸😸😸 Edit:😸😸😸😸🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jemmamarshall6857]

You are 💯 correct.

[@anniacopeland8321]

Me 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 whilst my cat looks at me

[@vickibyrd2043]

😂😂😂😂

[@Railzilla]

😆😆

[@LoveAlwsys]

Wise Counsel! Listen Brothers And Sisters 👍🏽💕

[@Laria4life]

That’s why being equally yoked is VERY IMPORTANT🤔.

[@sheraii]

AMEN 🙏🏽 Shuler, it goes both ways! PERIODT!!!! 🥰

[@DH-mf6jf]

Ain’t nothing wrong with what he said… just a little odd, and hypocritical, that he wants what most would describe as a “traditional woman” when his track record shows he isn’t a “traditional man”. None of the “traditional” women i know would give the time of day to a man with multiple kids and baby mommas.

[@bevelinternational7527]

Hmmmm...I disagree a lil bit. Cam from the south. Mom and dad...church...family. He took on a woman who had a daughter and then had kids to her. He did end up leaving and having one kid...openly claims and raises all the kids. Provides for all and seems involved. Not a perfect guy but very oldschool... If a man like cam can't say he wants a woman...a real woman...than who can haah?

[@chocolatebeauty9131]

@@bevelinternational7527 making single mothers every where he goes. Cam had real women and chose to be disrespectful and run off to the bad bhhh he claims he doesn’t want anymore🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ he may have grew up old school but he’s definitely has new school behavior.

[@MaLiArtworks186]

@@bevelinternational7527 If she is good enough to sleep with, she is good enough to marry. When my son was in high school, he said that guys can be whores too by messing around with a lot of girls.

[@Bigpound76]

Maybe he's tired of the nontraditional

[@Angel-lt1sh]

I hear you Shuler, great advice coming from you! I know myself though…if I’m taking advice I like to hear it from someone who practices what he preaches. I would never go to a doctor who smokes, an out of shape trainer or get driving lessons from someone who has only been a passenger. It’s always easy to tell someone else what THEY should be doing - that’s why it means something coming from you than him.

[@kingjah6420]

Would u listen to a crackhead that said hey dont smoke crack

[@mekaphilly5148]

You speak as a well- adjusted man. Some people don't understand creation roles. Thank you.

[@Lady.Tijuri]

yes, 20+ yrs here & my husband & I communicate with each other, we're on the same page majority of the time, yes we sometimes don't agree but we explain the situation & move on...looking forward to many more lovely yrs with him 😊

[@lego4virgo]

I think I'd rather listen to what Shuler said, than what Cam said, no cap.

[@lynettebodiford3525]

Shuler 👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽the WHOLE TRUTH...KEY Word Marriage,husband, wi🙌🏽

[@trixieturtle1]

He a day late and a dollar short ain't he? He done gave children to some of those types and that's an entanglement indeed. But Shuler you are absolutely correct.

[@janedough6410]

Better late than never. Maybe it took entanglements to derive to conclusion. Sometimes we reject "dated" imagery & examples within our own homes, only to come full circle after multiple mistakes.

[@lisastrange6754]

Thank You! I could've used this advice 17 years ago🙏🏽. Good advice Sir! Also, Great post from Courtney because that's Truth!

[@alondakennedy1725]

You funny AND the good common sense the Lord gave you. Message received

[@elaine4937]

Preach and teach Shuler. I hope those who listen, learn and grow from your inspiring words.

[@carlawilliams2049]

I agree with, I understood what he meant but everyone just so ready to take offense...smh

[@kekedouluvm3109]

No, he's not wrong. That's his preference and it's kinda true. Some people don't take accountability. How they gon get mad at him?

[@pietrycranberry6621]

The problem with preference is that a preference is taught and not something preprogrammed when we come into this world. You can prefer things that aren't good for you.

[@shermandudley5548]

@@pietrycranberry6621 a preference is something that can be changed due to certain circumstances. In the past my preference was to only date Black women. Circumstances have changed my preference to the point that I will date any woman regardless of race

[@pietrycranberry6621]

@@shermandudley5548 True. But didn't explain how you came to that conclusion. A circumstance is usually never constant so that situation would have to impactful for such a change.

[@shermandudley5548]

@@pietrycranberry6621 well for me, it was a realization that I am limiting myself by dating only Black women

[@pietrycranberry6621]

@@shermandudley5548 Technically you aren't. Though stated vaguely, I wasn't really speaking about you directly. I don't know what state or city you live in,there are more women/girls than Black men/boys. Also in the U.S, there are more women/girls than men/boys.

[@crs53]

It's called compromise. Amen, amen, and amen. Can we help bring out the best in one another 🙏

[@amichel1873]

Preach it Passah Shuler. You need another channel just for this type of commentary. You are sharing mad wisdom & more of our people need to hear it. We have all the colors of the rainbow pill channels out here. Your channel would add a healthy perspective.

[@mingtoiisaac4623]

Self sufficient vs independent. Thanks for the wisdoms Shuler ❤

[@sevenskies7900]

Naw they listen Shuler.. They listen to the wrong people.. they listen to everybody but the person they with!! and that goes for men and women.

[@GreedyBedies]

Straight facts! Not everyone but I know exactly what you mean. That’s a lot of folks downfall. Listening to the wrong people about YOUR business.

[@SWANNBEATMAN]

U been on my feed, but THIS one made me subscribe! THE PEOPLE LOVE FACTS! 👀

[@sophie13.wright10]

I agree with you 100% there are times when either partner will have to lead.

[@momoshiggles3631]

Thank you!! That’s not “submission” from either partner; it’s called cooperation.

[@shonbenjamin5973]

A Wife is never to lead according to the Lord. She is created to be a "HELP MEET" GENESIS 2:18 "And the Lord God said, it is not good that the Man should be alone, I will make him an HELP MEET for him"

[@sophie13.wright10]

@@shonbenjamin5973 that doesn’t say a woman or a wife should never lead.

[@shonbenjamin5973]

@@sophie13.wright10 SMH Sis...... I was trying to be direct yet subtle for my Sistas to learn. But now you need the hardcore truth. GENESIS 3:16 "UNTO the woman He said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy Husband, and HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE"

[@shonbenjamin5973]

@@sophie13.wright10 Now you have to ask yourself if you Love the Lord to obey His Commandments to receive the Kingdom?

[@NewWorld-ks9io]

So smart you are blessed and wise. Thank you for saying

[@RepentImmediately]

Only righteous men are worthy of a submissive wife. And being a righteous man is a VERY tall order.

[@pureblack3363]

Who are you to say what's righteous?

[@faithbishop1444]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Check your facts

[@LynRuiz]

Submissive to what? A woman can’t be useful, intelligent, helpful , etc? Just trying to see your point. If a man is an abusive alcoholic, a woman should submit to him rather than be strong, supportive, carry the weight and help the man seek treatment?

[@kj7682]

@@pureblack3363 the Bible says, but if you don’t follow the Bible you shouldn’t expect your woman to live by God’s principles either 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@pureblack3363]

@@kj7682 God? You still got imaginary friends?

[@HenryJrUzor]

Preach Shular.......you're damn right. Ain't no such thing as "being independent". I totally agree.....we all need each other.

[@JohnMarshallProductions]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS ONE SHULER 💪🏽

[@nancyyoung1209]

Speak Sir! Goes both ways. Choose wisely on both parts! ✊🏾

[@wutttheheckler2094]

The mistake isn't wutt he said in the interview, it's wutt he wore to the interview. Cam and Russell Westbrook got the worst fashion sense!😂👎👎👎👎

[@ktay2124]

Seriously, the fashion or lack thereof is what I thought this clip was going to be about. 🤣

[@feefs5423]

You made this sound so simple!! Both parties should be able to hold themselves accountable! Submission goes both ways! It’s unfortunate that this generation is so selfish and entitled. Recipe for disaster! So frustrating

[@terrellbowdensr.9540]

I've been married for 12 years and all it takes is communication, listening, and understanding and a lot of patience without these tools there will never be concrete establishment.

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

Thank you! Like consider the source. A man with multiple baby mamas, no wife or godly way of living blaming his failure to secure a healthy relationship on submission. Typical.

[@GODMAMASHOUSE]

I thank GOD for my AMAZING husband... I've known my hubby for 35 years and been married to him 18 wonderful years. Give and take is key. Shuler, you wore this topic OUT! YES INDEED! Totally right... Thanks. MAD LOVE!