How to AVOID being a SIMP

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Shwetabh Gangwar

Shwetabh Gangwar

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@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 9 ай бұрын
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@sumitdutta7043
@sumitdutta7043 9 ай бұрын
Bhai aapne Swami Sarvapriyananda ji ka Who am I? Lecture joki 8 saal pehle IITK me diya tha vo dekha kya? Aapko shi me achha lgega. He gives great talks on Vedanta on KZbin.
@saurabhverma25
@saurabhverma25 9 ай бұрын
Please make a video of :- How to study perfectly for gainning a skill with ADHD issue.
@noobkamleshyt5195
@noobkamleshyt5195 9 ай бұрын
​​@@saurabhverma25who told you that you have ADHD
@yatharthmendiratta5884
@yatharthmendiratta5884 9 ай бұрын
Bhai abhi do ladkiyo par simping chal rahi hain lage pade hain
@yatharthmendiratta5884
@yatharthmendiratta5884 9 ай бұрын
Thx 🙏 bhai aur jyaada is par baat karne ke liye
@abhi-tm7ey
@abhi-tm7ey 9 ай бұрын
Relationships now a days are myth they leave u like u were nothing.
@KrishDas-y1r
@KrishDas-y1r 9 ай бұрын
Man I used to think like that to, but its only untill u realise it was not their but your and u let go
@Abhi1793
@Abhi1793 7 ай бұрын
only money have power to hold the relationship because the girl also think that he have more options to choose
@-LaukikSawai
@-LaukikSawai 9 ай бұрын
"Absolutely! Let's shift the focus to valuing genuine kindness and respect in relationships, rather than perpetuating negative stereotypes. Respect and empathy should be celebrated, not ridiculed. Let's promote healthy interactions and appreciation for each other's feelings."
@ankursingh6272
@ankursingh6272 9 ай бұрын
Wah kya baat kahi h
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@lakshya3245
@lakshya3245 9 ай бұрын
Feminist??? bhai abhii chorr usse, wo kahi bhi maar kha jayegi, kaha kaha bachayega usse. Chorr bhai, Koi mentally stable ladki ke saath reh aur khud pe toh focus karna hi hai. ​@@ashishpandey1288
@Rashu661
@Rashu661 9 ай бұрын
​​@@ashishpandey1288 bhai mai ek larki hu apne perspective se bol rhi..agr usko nhi man h to chordo ....leaving mutually is best thing u can do..otherwise aage jakr sara blame aap par aayega ki maine to tmko bola tha chorne tmhi mere piche lge hue the ...aur tb tk bhut late hojayega u can't focus on yrself...achi relationship vhi hoti h jisme dono saath mein grow kre smjhe ekdusre ko aur compromise ek tarfa nhi hota..
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
@@Rashu661 Good advice thank you tanvi
@debadipti
@debadipti 9 ай бұрын
In >3 years of relationship (nearly married), I felt like shit, just like this for over a year, NOW I HAVE BROKEN UP! I kinda compromised on the basic rules of a healthy relationship, and because of that everything you have mentioned in this video, I have suffered. Compromising on sleep, health, friends, work, every fucking things were affected, and the funny part is unless you are OUT, you won't realise the severity of these things.
@sigala2376
@sigala2376 9 ай бұрын
Was about to write the same 🫥
@thewalker338
@thewalker338 9 ай бұрын
Did she let you sxx in this type of relationship? When you put that much effort???
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@debadipti
@debadipti 9 ай бұрын
@@ashishpandey1288 Bro leave! Don't think that there is only this person I can spend my whole life with. Agar dhamki de rahi he .. please leave. There is no respect left, and you should not feel hurt continuously. If someone is hurt and the other person understands and make it right, stay with that person. And, please have some dignity and leave.
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
@@debadipti but bro I'm attached yr🥺 I don't want to cry and get depressed bhot kuch socha tha sath me uske sath future ka + her past memories will haunt me everyday it's not that easy. Pls help if you can by any suggestions to improve or to leave her
@avirupmukherjee6904
@avirupmukherjee6904 9 ай бұрын
Shwetabh always posts the right video at the right time. It's incredible how he gets it every single time!
@KrishDas-y1r
@KrishDas-y1r 9 ай бұрын
exactly dude, because he works on problems which are very alarming and almost ppl have that problem + without any red pill shit.
@prjjwlsharma0
@prjjwlsharma0 9 ай бұрын
I was once a guy like that but i broke through the chains of simping and now I'm much happier, i have more girls that i go out with and more friends because I don't waste time chasing around one girl.
@kunaljha64
@kunaljha64 9 ай бұрын
Teach me brother
@Iron_man220
@Iron_man220 9 ай бұрын
@@kunaljha64Bhai, it is not something to teach directly. I think most of us pass through that phase. I used to simp too when I got into relationship when I was 19. I didn’t wanted to lose her no matter what. Tolerated all the shit until she cheated and left. We will go through bad phase and eventually move on. Just do things every hour that you value the most. If you need to choose between valuable hour or someone who doesn’t care, you would choose valuable hour and good company.
@yamansinha5157
@yamansinha5157 9 ай бұрын
True bro​@@Iron_man220
@thewalker338
@thewalker338 9 ай бұрын
​@@Iron_man220 Did she let you having sxx??? In this type of relationship
@thewalker338
@thewalker338 9 ай бұрын
Would she let you having sxx in this type of relationship??
@debadipti
@debadipti 9 ай бұрын
PROTECT THIS MAN 🙏
@akkysha3896
@akkysha3896 9 ай бұрын
Man!!!! I needed this video, because I am in similar relationship. And not getting the attention I deserve. Still trying to fix the relationship hurting myself. It's time to take control of my life and get out this one sided relationship.
@nishantmohapatra8113
@nishantmohapatra8113 9 ай бұрын
Much needed video... Thank you for showing the mirror for singles especially guys like me since 29 yrs who is without relationship. So Now.. The Essence of this video is to get out of the compulsion of getting into male-female relationship .
@asmita_s_g
@asmita_s_g 9 ай бұрын
Have been in this situation! Totally relatable!! The best solution given to come out of this pattern and maintain strong boundaries! ✅
@riffxo
@riffxo 8 ай бұрын
Don’t chase my boys, be a guy that attracts. (love can’t be chased, it comes on it’s own at the right time) .
@elizamochahari
@elizamochahari 9 ай бұрын
Young people are lucky to have you.. I needed this in my time..
@Rashu661
@Rashu661 9 ай бұрын
Yepp exactly..bhaiya ne bhut ache se gender neutral hokr smjhaya h ..💫
@BelligerentChad
@BelligerentChad 8 ай бұрын
​@@Rashu661bhen ki ghodi bdi aayi gender neutral waali.. Sb museebat ki jad tum laundiya log ho.. Mrro kahi jaake
@Ray-pd2or
@Ray-pd2or 9 ай бұрын
Bro I can't believe I faced everything that you said in this video and I was so depressed and kind off lonely. I told her one time that she has to give efforts but it did not change and then i decided to break up and told her that if she changes(starts giving efforts) then only this can work otherwise I'll be gone. And then she started making efforts and now my condition is way better than before ;)
@thewalker338
@thewalker338 9 ай бұрын
Did she let you having proper sxx in this type of relationship??
@AbhishekSharma-hn9em
@AbhishekSharma-hn9em 9 ай бұрын
No words you save life,💯💯💯
@varun5050
@varun5050 9 ай бұрын
Logical brain ki slavery kaise strong kare ? (Context - attack mode)
@subhojeetacharjee4501
@subhojeetacharjee4501 9 ай бұрын
Kyu bhai?
@Chaddest_Maximus
@Chaddest_Maximus 9 ай бұрын
Kisika bhi slave mat bano.
@Ghost-pb4ts
@Ghost-pb4ts 9 ай бұрын
​​@@Chaddest_Maximusexcept GOD
@subhojeetacharjee4501
@subhojeetacharjee4501 9 ай бұрын
@@Ghost-pb4ts God ko mano but no slavery even if nark ki aag me barbeque hona pde
@bablumalla5190
@bablumalla5190 9 ай бұрын
By exercising in problem solving , you can read book" the scout mindset" .
@unlucky9515
@unlucky9515 9 ай бұрын
Bro's gonna save us from simping behavior 🗿👍
@drstrange404
@drstrange404 9 ай бұрын
I wish I had discovered this channel in my teens...however, I'll make sure my children understand this by the time they hit adolescence...
@suchetamandal3095
@suchetamandal3095 9 ай бұрын
Its been my experience. Totally relatable. Thank you for this. Luckily I'm out of it now.
@gaminguceyt
@gaminguceyt 9 ай бұрын
Best Relationship Advisor Shwetabh Bhai❤
@vaibhavkerkar18
@vaibhavkerkar18 9 ай бұрын
Pitch perfect, please bring more videos as this🙏🙏
@shivleenkaur6307
@shivleenkaur6307 9 ай бұрын
I agree with Shwetabh. it was really hard for me to leave a long-term relationship but I'm so glad i did.
@Karma.02
@Karma.02 9 ай бұрын
i think BOLLYWOOD and cinema has ruined the true essence of love. coz in our childhood, in movies we saw that the male or female just suffer nd suffocate herself/himself in love in order to get the other partner attention or to get acknowledge by other partner and in the ending they both comes as one for a happy ending. BUT IN REAL LIFE things are not like that coz in real life most of the times the other partner leaves the relationship leaveing the other half to just suffer in pain which truly opposite to a fake movie ending. we need to stop romanticizing the pain nd should more care about our mental peace.
@Hyperactive1101
@Hyperactive1101 Ай бұрын
All MahaPurus Vedas upanishads holy books told Love relationship is ultimate Goal of human life ? No
@dipa0076
@dipa0076 8 ай бұрын
Bro you opened my eyes. Jo aap dant fatkar k bolte ho aisa lagta hai literally real me humse face to face baat kar rahe ho.. Apki batein sunke dimag kaam karne lagta hai.. You are motivating many people. Keep sharing such content. God will always bless you 😇🙏🏻
@galacticgamer9764
@galacticgamer9764 9 ай бұрын
Man, had this video come out before. A very close friend of mine was doing this. I had to indulge in a hour long yap session to convince him that the girl is simply using him and that he should step out and simply let her go.
@prathambhardwaj7038
@prathambhardwaj7038 9 ай бұрын
Bhai pyar andha kr deta h logical brain dead ho jata h muskil se hi smjhega vo
@gamezone1226
@gamezone1226 6 ай бұрын
till the age you are building your career supressing your emotions is necessary.
@immigrationadviser4711
@immigrationadviser4711 9 ай бұрын
I heard this from somewhere. Why do we take abuse from our partners because our body is corrupt. As it tries to keep us enslaved in a sexual yet toxic relationship. Yet our soul suffers because our soul is pure and it tries to revolt against the injustice against our partner.
@sayakmukherjee7274
@sayakmukherjee7274 9 ай бұрын
Thank you brother for saving us from this disaster 😄🙏🏻
@Harsh-oj2pr
@Harsh-oj2pr 9 ай бұрын
bro just gives so genuine advice
@codliverwell1832
@codliverwell1832 9 ай бұрын
Thanks bud. Sometimes people need a reality check. They know this all within but need a friend to say this outlook to them. It na zyaada self doubt hoti hai toxic relationships mein k puchho mat.
@Dr.dineshmeena
@Dr.dineshmeena 9 ай бұрын
Be alone and improve yourself for long term quality Life partner ❤
@WhiteMetal_
@WhiteMetal_ 9 ай бұрын
Probably becouse love is sacrifice which is true but wrong perception of sacrifice gives birth to simping. Subconsciously some people purposely want to destroy themselves for the sake of love because this gives them sense of entitlement that they've completely given their ego for one person. Maybe by doing this they experience depth of something which very few can experience but nothing good will come out of this in material world
@Home-o2v4h
@Home-o2v4h 9 ай бұрын
Simping comes from submissive ness. Those guys who simp put their partner at a higher pedestal ( it's just like humans put gods ). What do you think will happen if you snatch away someone's god or when you threaten someone's belief in a God ? That person will get scared and feel lost. Because he lost his purpose. He was following someone and was not thinking for himself and that made him feel safe ( thinking someone is there to lead him so he needs to relax ) . Thats how simp people are
@arpan9937
@arpan9937 9 ай бұрын
They are just a masochist. That's it.
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@arpan9937
@arpan9937 9 ай бұрын
​@@ashishpandey1288 Have a serious conversation on whether she's serious about your relationship or it's just a fluke. If you cannot do that, Leave her. Uske liye break up kuch bhi nahi hai. Take it she threatened you with "giving up" which literally means she thinks you are replaceable. If that were me, I would have cut off my connections at that very moment. Tali hamesha do hatho see bajti hai.
@ashishpandey1288
@ashishpandey1288 9 ай бұрын
@@arpan9937 brother it's not that easy yr🥺 I'm attached and in love what should I do step by step pls help if you can I'll appreciate you from my heart
@im_rishabhjain
@im_rishabhjain 9 ай бұрын
This video should trend on KZbin 🔥🔥🖤
@yogaceraiofficial
@yogaceraiofficial 9 ай бұрын
I just love this man !
@HumanityNotDoomed
@HumanityNotDoomed 9 ай бұрын
The boss is here 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@amanrazthakur6874
@amanrazthakur6874 9 ай бұрын
Aagae bhai 🔥🔥
@DestinedToWin27
@DestinedToWin27 6 ай бұрын
When I was in that relationship, even after knowing all this which shwetabh told, i wasn't able to leave her. Ultimately she left me with very inhumane behaviour as if i was just her slave and nothing else. Now i want to train myself such that I breakup asap when i realise that this person is not my type.
@sheetalseth6334
@sheetalseth6334 9 ай бұрын
My advice stop being in this hookup or ONS cultures or whatever this bullcrap they have introduced. If you genuinely like someone go with it or just stay out of this relationship saga. What kind of drama is this where you keep dating other people's and then one day you were like you know what among all the choices you're the best so let's get married 😐
@shreddershrade1859
@shreddershrade1859 9 ай бұрын
This man is diamond pure diamond of this world ,protect this man at all costs ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@IndiaTimeLapse01
@IndiaTimeLapse01 9 ай бұрын
Your videos really too much help in coming back on new arc of life very effective way ❣️some distraction comes making away to dream but these information too much help ❤
@raider_ffx_
@raider_ffx_ 2 ай бұрын
Once a legend said, "India me jab tak cinema hai, log chutiya bante rahenge."
@vlogtypea3201
@vlogtypea3201 9 ай бұрын
13:20 you are the real hero❤❤🎉
@meetabhani2129
@meetabhani2129 9 ай бұрын
you are the big brother every young boy needs
@thecontrarycontrarian4230
@thecontrarycontrarian4230 9 ай бұрын
Simping should be criminalized. All men who protect women should be sent to jail
@shreyassharma8277
@shreyassharma8277 9 ай бұрын
ayo bro 💀
@wedner_12
@wedner_12 Ай бұрын
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@AapkePapaAyeHain
@AapkePapaAyeHain 8 ай бұрын
Don't be in a relationship with her : 1) see if the girl is showing her body (in short clothes or in obsene postures or just posting gym videos showing A#s etc)most of the time in public or on social media, that's a huge red flag. Don't just accept her by her looks, or get despo for a night, she ain't worth the relationship 2) If she thinks she is a 10 but expects too much from you, run away as fast as you can. She is delusional 3) If she has a lot of guy friends, a huge red flag. See, deep down the mind, those "best friends" are a line of candidates for her. Maybe she'll cheat on you with one of them😂😂 4) If she expects you to pay all her bills. You ain't her father. Let her pay for something once/twice in a while. 5) If you are in a relationship and she expects you to let her go clubbing alone or with her friends, and it's not the same other way around, leave her, she doesn't deserve. 6) If you pay all the bills and still feel that she disrespects you or she still has the audacity to complain about silly things, that's a big no-no. 7) If she is fat and expects you to be fit/ good-looking, etc, BIG red flag right there. 8) If she gaslights you or guilt trips. Even when it's her fault, leave her immediately. 9) If she expects you to act in a certain way, which is not you or it feels uncomfortable to you, and doesn't fkin care, leave her right fkin now. 10) If she looks super hot, she has an Instagram page where she posts her half covered body or bikini pictures, etc. That is a red flag in itself. But if you get to know that she has multiple breakups, etc, leave her without a single thought. ALL THESE POINTS ARE TO SAFEGUARD THE MEN FROM THOSE WOMEN WHO DON'T CARE AND JUST GO AFTER MONEY, SELLING THEIR PHOTOS ON KZbin OR INSTAGRAM FOF LIKES( OBVIOUSLY EARN MONEY THROUGH THAT, SO I SAY SELLING) SHOWING ATTITUDE WITHOUT PUTTING EFFORTS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP ETC. NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THESE BUT ALL OF THESE ARE WOMEN.
@themessi7088
@themessi7088 9 ай бұрын
Bro talked about my situation last year (complete) in the starting of the video to finally living peacefully 😃,it took one year.
@vedantmillion
@vedantmillion 3 ай бұрын
Bhai 1.5 sal se ese hi mental pressure me raha finally usne zuth bolke kisi tisre k pass gayi and break up kar liya
@39himanshuzilka62
@39himanshuzilka62 4 ай бұрын
I used to do this stuff when I was in my 1st sem and 2nd sem, then I decided to take revenge, I stopped talking with her, I got 3 backlogs in my 1st sem, from 3rd sem I came across shwetabhah's content, my life transformed to 360 degree, at the end of the 8th sem I was topper in my college. Thanks a lot shwetabh... Going to Germany for my master's studies and got a fully funded scholarship from the German government. Thanks a lot man.... ❤❤❤❤❤
@itsaditya2162
@itsaditya2162 9 ай бұрын
The only video I needed for clearing my doubts... Thank You so much Shwetabh Bhaiya.
@mayankgupta9841
@mayankgupta9841 4 ай бұрын
Loved every bit of it.
@abirroy7161
@abirroy7161 7 ай бұрын
Literally felt like it was for me. Thanks man 🙌🏻
@milanchauhan242
@milanchauhan242 9 ай бұрын
Please make a dedicated video on 'what if both the partners who are married and have extra marital affairs? In detail
@suvajitdas8321
@suvajitdas8321 9 ай бұрын
Love you man ❤ lots of love to you shwetabh bhai❤ these simps are the reason of womens thinking hurting a man or cheating with own partner is absolutely normal. .. Stop putting womens on a pedestal treat them how they treat you .. let them get the taste of their own medicine
@lathaiyer8065
@lathaiyer8065 9 ай бұрын
Once married I was showing extra attention and care towards husband. Not sure if he was reciprocating. Though it seemed get care in the traditional way but I think he did... in some ways
@hrishibajpai6446
@hrishibajpai6446 Ай бұрын
You're like a big brother. I don't get to hear this from anyone❤
@Yash-td6dt
@Yash-td6dt 9 ай бұрын
u explained this problem like 1000 times and still peoples did not get it.What are they DUMB ? Your explanation is soo easy to understand and still peoples do not get it ?
@aryan5072
@aryan5072 9 ай бұрын
Pichhle kuch saalon mein, meri zindagi bahut uljhanon se bhari rahi hai. 2020 ka lockdown aane ke baad, maine padhai karna bilkul chord diya. padhne ki jagah, shortcuts le liye, copy-paste karke exams mein pass ho jata tha Is bekaar adat ne mujhe padhai se door kar diya. Phir, itne saare porn dekhne se mera dimaag bhi distract ho gaya aur mujhe padhne ka mann hi nahi karta tha. fir 9th me maine ek ladki se pyaar kiya (uske sath khud imagine kar kar ke pagal hua hu ye sabh mene 4 saal keeya ) par usne mujhe reject kar diya (25june2023). Uske baad se toh har jagah sirf failure aur disappointment hi nazar aata hai. 10th mein compartment aa gayi (may2023). kisi ne suggest kara ki diploma karle uska entrance deeya vo hogaya tha par chodh kar aagaya kuch reason ki vajah se fir naye school mein bhi yahi kahani, yahi dard. Abhi tak kuch nahi padha , sab mein fail hoon. Ab final exams hai aur mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha.or mujhe dar hai fail na ho jau kyuki me kyu padhunga? pdha jo jata hai nhi mujh se... Zindagi ki yeh journey, ek sad reality ban gayi hai, jismein sirf disappointments aur failures hain.
@Odd342
@Odd342 9 ай бұрын
One thing you can do is to: 1)sit and initiate the act of studying You have that starting problem for sitting for long hours Switch off your phone and sit with a book infront of you,I am sure you will start studying something and you can increase the number of hours later World's greatest boxer Mohammed ali said *I h@ted every minute of my training but I did it* Every one in this world have this problem of laziness but you should push yourself Btw What's your age now? Note:Read my answer again
@aryan5072
@aryan5072 9 ай бұрын
@@Odd342 16
@sabyasachichakraborty6637
@sabyasachichakraborty6637 9 ай бұрын
Tereko samjh aya matlab tune Tera mistake identify karliya , ab same galti maat karna kabhi bhi, aur mehnat kar. Baas make sure that you are improving on a daily basis.And kabhi hope maat loose karna.
@aryan5072
@aryan5072 9 ай бұрын
@@sabyasachichakraborty6637 ha kal raat yahi soucha mene ki mera downfall akhir shuru kaha se hua ab realisation hogaya ab me aapni preparation kar rha hu ye exams ki or fir 2025 me jee mains bhi nikal na hai
@justintigga4580
@justintigga4580 9 ай бұрын
Bro himmat mat haro I'm in the same state like u padhna chalu kardo baaki cheezon pe dhyaan mat do phone se Durr raho
@screensafari17
@screensafari17 9 ай бұрын
I agree but yaha ladko k simping zyada hai kyuki apni country bahut conservative hai. Badi mushkil se koi ladki milti hai. Dating culture hai nahi. West k kisi college me jaoge to mushkil se 10 bande milenge ek class me jinki koi girlfriend na ho. Yaha to ulta hai.
@Daddy_Of_soraML
@Daddy_Of_soraML 9 ай бұрын
We are shy and conservative but still 1.5 billion...
@shivamsingh-cl4zw
@shivamsingh-cl4zw 9 ай бұрын
Ever heard about incel culture bro ? West mei bhi ye wali problem hai just search about it
@screensafari17
@screensafari17 9 ай бұрын
@@shivamsingh-cl4zw problem hai par sirf kuch ladke milenge ek class me jinhe koi ghas nahi daal raha. Yaha to majority single rehte hain.
@Devil..09
@Devil..09 9 ай бұрын
​@@screensafari17yaaha par bahut ladke single hai.
@Mortalbeing22
@Mortalbeing22 9 ай бұрын
I’m a girl and I can relate to each n every point that Shwetabh bhai has mentioned. I’m 16 and was in my first relationship at the age of 15 ( nibba nibbi shit I know) that was the worst decision of my life I swear. Ahh that shit still haunts me, even thinking about the incidents makes me anxious. I was very much inspired by the bollywood presentation of what Love is! Now when I think about my perspectives I really feel embarrassed 🥲 I could see the red flags in the boy ( he had been a famous play boi..who used to have 6 gfs at the same time. I really don’t know how I thought that he would be loyal to me) I was naive to comprehend anything critically as a result now I can’t trust anybody. I used to be the topper, that all rounder kid who used to be the PERFECT in everything be it academics, fashion, dance, singing, video editing or creating. People used to wonder how I could manage to do so much :) However, that event (heart break) made me much mature and I realised that being too ridden over emotions is extremely disastrous. Also no one is permanent in life. People will come n go so don’t assume that they are going the be forever coz forever doesn’t exist. Career banaao pehle chaahe bhai ho ya behen yeh hormones ka chakkar hai babu bhaiyya pyaar vyaar kuchh nahi hota hai :) Apna dhyaan khud rakho, kisi par bhi dependent mat rehna dost otherwise last m bohot hurt hoga.
@Travel_Junkie007
@Travel_Junkie007 9 ай бұрын
Ok nibbi,
@user-vu5hj8np7o
@user-vu5hj8np7o 9 ай бұрын
Ur this comment made me more anxious As i m 17.5 boy I want one girl throughout my whole life but want to be forming first relationship for both Preparing for JEE so didn't engage in any thing till now although got 2 chance in itself but priorities were diff Now I regret that will I be able to find such girl in 19 or 20s Hope so I will
@thewalker338
@thewalker338 9 ай бұрын
Did you already lost your virginity to that guy?? Would you let you husband know that??
@drstrange404
@drstrange404 9 ай бұрын
​​​@@user-vu5hj8np7o Bhai...discourage nahi karna chhahta...but ye perspective ki uski bhi 1st relationship ho aur teri bhi...(some people loosely define it as no seal no deal or 0 body count or whatever...you get the point)... ye aajke zamane mein milne ki possibility extremely low hai. And let's say even if you get one... it can also be because that person also had some really big behavioral issues or emotional instability and so she did not get along anyone...warna aajkal 6th-7th ke bachhe shuru hue pade hai... Toh 1st 2nd ka nahi sirf quality ka filter rakho... kya person emotionally available hai, considerate hai, kahi narcissistic tendencies toh nahi.... Baaki maine bahut jagah haath jalaya hai red flags ignore karke...tab jaake ye strict criteria develop kia hai... to safeguard my mental health...😊 P.s. Jab bhi kisi relationship mein ghuse ...yeh mat sochna ki "she's the one" like immediately shaadi, bachon ke naam mat soch lena... pehle observe karna then gradually apna stake 10% se 20,30,50,80 aur phir 100% leke jaana 😅😂
@Mortalbeing22
@Mortalbeing22 9 ай бұрын
@@Travel_Junkie007lol as expected reply That’s why I mentioned (nibba nibbi shit) 😂 Alright! You can say I was a nibbi but I ain’t now, I’m a much mature and practical person.
@learnphysics6455
@learnphysics6455 7 ай бұрын
Brother you are the person who brings dignity and self respect in men.
@FrankShubh
@FrankShubh 7 ай бұрын
Mere sath same aisa ho rha bhai Thankyou aapne aankhe khol di Ab mujhe pta h kya karna h Love you bhai ❤️
@abhishekdasgupta5875
@abhishekdasgupta5875 9 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏 Sir kabhi aapse kabhi milne ka mauka miley toh apke charansparsh karna chahunga ... aur ek hug bhi... aap aise hi logon ko jagruk karte rahe🙏🙏🙏🙏
@actingpurpose9979
@actingpurpose9979 9 ай бұрын
Please continue on this type of topic please 🙏
@RoshanKumar-ep6ox
@RoshanKumar-ep6ox 9 ай бұрын
Bro.. our youth is full of that kind of shit in their head. They need ajaye such kind of guidance. Great effort.. bro 👍👍
@abhaykanwasi881
@abhaykanwasi881 8 ай бұрын
5 months and guess what after 4 years still stuck and thinking about why she did this why? slowly I realized that she never put any effort in the first place it's only me who romanticizes things so much... And yes Shwetabh is right these short-term relationships and endurance have a bad effect.. I totally destroyed my health because I ate too much, had no exercise, Had so much stress and lost hair, had No preparation for my career and now searching for a job.. She is happy she never thought about me in fact 2 years earlier I got to know it's never my fault it's just she got a new guy and because she wants to get rid of me she just uses and manipulates romantic moments to guilt like all that hugging kissing etc all became the reason like I just want her body I can't see her happy...etc etc. What all that endurance gives me at the end it's not like anyone will see how much I try to make her stay or how much I love her or am loyal to her and In my current state how I'm capable of having someone else in my current state.. and How I can expect to someone to choose me... My moods are not in my control nights became hellish because 70% of the time crying over it.. Know everything that it's not my fault but unable to handle myself. Please if you want to leave just leave them don't make an unnecessary excuse that becomes a guilt for him/her. And believe me, this guy is saying the truth no matter how much you put effort if it is not two-sided you will hurt, and if they leave you it will be so difficult for you.
@abirroy7161
@abirroy7161 7 ай бұрын
Thank you brother for this video ❤️. I have moved on in life and exactly following this. And today I came across this video.
@kyadekhrhabhai
@kyadekhrhabhai 9 ай бұрын
Bhai mere boards chal rahe hai. Nuke mode has helped me in consistency with my studies. Thanks shwetabh Bhai🙏 i reccomend everyone to buy no promo
@PriyankDixitYT
@PriyankDixitYT 9 ай бұрын
mere sab dosto ke gf h bus m hi single hu ... I am not mad about it.. mujhe ghanta farak nhi padta h par kabhi kabhi Dost hi majak udate h ki tu bas gf nhi bana paya... krupya margdarshan karr 🙇‍♂️😊
@ashfaquehussain2716
@ashfaquehussain2716 9 ай бұрын
Ultimate Video Sir 🔥
@Music_Nostalgiaa
@Music_Nostalgiaa 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for helping us ❤
@krish5278
@krish5278 4 ай бұрын
Bhai Love Your Content🔥
@animationpro2126
@animationpro2126 9 ай бұрын
Aap ki videos ne mere bhot help ki hai corona time ka baad se mein kuch ni tha aaj bhot khuch ukhad reha hoon. thankyou shwetabh bhai ❤
@jyotiranjangiri5162
@jyotiranjangiri5162 9 ай бұрын
You described my whole 11 years of relationship.. she left me .. going through same situation
@the_success_hindi_hub
@the_success_hindi_hub 9 ай бұрын
Most of youth is trapped in this type of things nowadays please make more videos like this
@sakshammxd
@sakshammxd 7 ай бұрын
Shwethabh always give me what i need in anytime and idk how bhai ko pata chal jata hai what i need in life right now
@Bikkufootballtalks
@Bikkufootballtalks 9 ай бұрын
mene 3 years hogaya bina simp kare usko not she started watching my stories aur recently ek ladki ne porpose kiya mene thoda test kiya ki i'm not confident kuch bola than woh v response karna band kardiya 😂😂😂😂 WOH V AAB STORIES DEKHNA SURU HOGAYI HAI KI MEH KYA KAR RAHA HU
@Priyaykanth2
@Priyaykanth2 9 ай бұрын
When entering into Relationship 👩‍❤️‍👨 Both of you ask Yourself & each other are you here for Fun get in - get out according to your mood with no Restrictions Then it could be Recipe for Disaster 😵‍💫🤯💥 Because if no Promises are made or Responsibilities are not taken Then you get attached to other Person & because no promises, responsibilities are there Suddenly one of your Mind Changes & break-up then other Partner will Suffer 😢 Many times they start taking Tobacco, Alcohol, Drugs & doesn't focus on there Life (Career) sometimes if things go too much wrong they even do Suicides 💀 So, before going into relationship First make things Clear Advice for Me - If you want to go into Relationship go after 18 Year's of Age Otherwise you will be distracted too much & you will find difficulties in focusing on Career You can be Friend's if you are comfortable with it but remember you have to balance between friendship & relationship it could be difficult in current scenario So do it according to your capabilities or raise your capabilities according to need
@mrluciferff1720
@mrluciferff1720 9 ай бұрын
Swetabh ❌ Kratos ✅ !! 💖🔥 Love You Sir..!! Thanks For Always Standing For Uss..!! Maybe Your "Swetabh Gangwar" Gang Is Not With You ... But Your "Mensutra" Titans Who Are Watching Your From Last 6 Years Like Me , Iss..!! 💖
@tanmayranjan3882
@tanmayranjan3882 3 ай бұрын
Love you bro ❤❤❤
@chahal27gs
@chahal27gs 9 ай бұрын
🕉नमः शिवाय् 📿🔱🛐🙏💞
@IlmiMulhid
@IlmiMulhid 5 ай бұрын
5:51 crux of the video😂🤣
@justabitangrythatsit
@justabitangrythatsit 9 ай бұрын
Welcome back ..we dont want red pill from you not antifem...we want just old shwetabh .. jenuiwin...reality ....bhai apki 27 min ki old video abhi bhi hila deti hai kasm se
@justabitangrythatsit
@justabitangrythatsit 9 ай бұрын
@6:20😂😂❤
@Saurabh24776
@Saurabh24776 9 ай бұрын
I love this man ❤ you helped me a lot
@rohantripathi6669
@rohantripathi6669 9 ай бұрын
Love you shwetabh bhai❤❤
@samirbhalerao5579
@samirbhalerao5579 9 ай бұрын
Very good approach Shwetab ji . I like the natural language you use. One small feedback is that you used the word "gobar' ( cow dung ) nearing end of the video. Next time please use a different word. Reason is that there are news about India may export cow dung to gulf countries soon ( please don't ask me why ). If that really happens then gobar perception will change.
@sigala2376
@sigala2376 9 ай бұрын
Whats the relation? Out of general curiosity
@samirbhalerao5579
@samirbhalerao5579 9 ай бұрын
@@sigala2376 in video gobar wird is used in a negative sence to represent shit. Now when cow dung gets exported in future and revenue starts comming from it than people may not perceive gobar as negative. So better use another word like shit or gu to represent bad.
@Muzuki-p4k
@Muzuki-p4k 6 күн бұрын
thank you big bro you save my life 😇😊
@Sagar-vp7yr
@Sagar-vp7yr Ай бұрын
right video on right time.
@wedner_12
@wedner_12 Ай бұрын
this was literally my relationship, quite LITERALLY. and yes, my partner broke up with me because of course she wasn't interested in the first place, and i was 'enduring' all that pain lmao
@hardikpatel9001
@hardikpatel9001 9 ай бұрын
Bhai, I am lucky to have your video in time.
@RkKhan-vu2yp
@RkKhan-vu2yp 9 ай бұрын
😅
@Fitmanco
@Fitmanco 9 ай бұрын
Real top g, True brother.
@rishika7722
@rishika7722 7 ай бұрын
Feeling relaxed after watching it
@Home-o2v4h
@Home-o2v4h 9 ай бұрын
Simping is more common among guys. Girls know already a lot about relationships and its dynamics.
@Mortalbeing22
@Mortalbeing22 9 ай бұрын
Naa bhai I have been a great simp (I’m a girl btw)
@wtf_22
@wtf_22 9 ай бұрын
​@@Mortalbeing22and I am starting to become a simp, lol. Also, I am a woman as well.
@raja-jl9os
@raja-jl9os 9 ай бұрын
​​@@wtf_22 bollywood movies m aurat ko akdam sarif nazuk dikhya jata h specially in family drama
@wtf_22
@wtf_22 9 ай бұрын
@@raja-jl9os arey bhaiya jitna iss Desh ke youth ka bedagark Bollywood ne kia hai utna to kisine nahi kia😌
@sigala2376
@sigala2376 9 ай бұрын
​@@Mortalbeing22uss
@DeepakKumar-ym1wr
@DeepakKumar-ym1wr 9 ай бұрын
5:50 💯
@sxishty
@sxishty 5 ай бұрын
Bhai aapke baaton mai point to h 👍🏼
@samareshgayen4991
@samareshgayen4991 9 ай бұрын
Very nice video ❤❤Your videos have been helping me a lot for years 😊😊
@aniketsingh5570
@aniketsingh5570 9 ай бұрын
I have decided to break up with her, after listening to you. Whatever you said on this video , is being the case for me. I gave my best for her ;(
@azeemcr37
@azeemcr37 Ай бұрын
Pyaar wyaar Gaya tel lene... To my fellow Men, let's standup for ourselves and put ourselves, our aspirations and our worth first..! Let's be successful and happy again. Let's reclaim! Hold your grounds, I repeat hold your grounds soldier 🪖
@ShreyaGoel977
@ShreyaGoel977 9 ай бұрын
Nice!! Looking good in white coat shwetabh !!
@leisuretime9089
@leisuretime9089 8 ай бұрын
Shwetabh bhai you are simply great 👍 👌 ❤
@RanbirWaalia
@RanbirWaalia 8 ай бұрын
Exactly saying from what i m going through
@shubham_M7777
@shubham_M7777 9 ай бұрын
Sir please make video on career confusion or how to choose career?
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