Are your friends ACTUALLY Good Friends?

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

Buy 'The Rudest Book Ever' by Shwetabh Gangwar: On Amazon India: www.amazon.in/Rudest-Book-Ever-Shwetabh-Gangwar/dp/9388754433 Amazon Worldwide: www.amazon.com/Rudest-Book-Ever-Shwetabh-Gangwar/dp/9388754433 Flipkart: www.flipkart.com/rudest-book-ever/p/itm19a872deed2d1 Follow me on Instagram @mensutra and Message me there if you have a problem, I will make a video on it. Join the family: Follow us on fb: facebook.com/mensutra Instagram: @mensutra Follow Shwetabh directly here on FB: facebook.com/mezzinshwet For discussions, direct chat, and joining the community: facebook.com/groups/945763678846476/??

[@abread1094]

Bhaiya pls i have sent you my problem on my instagram pls you haven't made the solution

[@amritborah7690]

Eagerly waiting for the next 2books.

[@veeru2407]

Thanku guruji bht kuch sikhaya h aaapne🙏

[@godson200]

Guruji aap daily video daala kare... Hum ko maza aata h aapka video dekh ke..

[@godson200]

@shwetabh bhai mera dost mere se door ho gye.. I am now studying for jee now.. I have to work on myself thats why they are detached from me... My friends dont talk to me.. I feel left alone sir... Pata nahi kya karu... I am working on myself instead of hanging out with my friends

[@raag6059]

"If you look at your friend circle and don't get inspired, you don't have a circle. You have a cage"- Nipsey Hussle

[@amritborah7690]

Nice one.

[@karhisab]

Hey Man, I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :') kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWZp36kmZZrr6M

[@rockman1537]

#sushantsinghisbest

[@negi-ji]

Rest in peace! Rip nip...the marathon continues

[@ojasadhikari8486]

Well said

[@satyampandita5229]

He is the most logical person I have ever seen in my life

[@shreyash366]

Not wrong but he is just like any of us just got his priorities clear

[@shubhamlahoti9758]

Being logical is easy - but being logical as well as emotionally intelligent is his forte. :)

[@smitdholakiya5957]

swethabh sir and Sandeep sir are most logical people I ever seen...

[@kuldeepjoshi2063]

U haven't seen me yet

[@noyl4855]

Yeah he is.. So is sadguru ☺

[@srisharanupadhyay3506]

A friend is one who has the same enemies as you have. --Abraham Lincoln

[@pvr10]

Nice quote true💯

[@bharatsinghrawat4536]

It's an arguable quote

[@GameZero2]

Who is enemy ?

[@narutosheep1239]

Unbox Gamer life

[@zzzzzz1510]

Diplomatically **

[@adarshsaxena6572]

Summery of the video is: "KAAM KARTE RAHO DOST SIRF WAHI TUMHE AAGE LE JATA HAI"👍🏻

[@shubhamrane6126]

I rewind a year back and just think how stupid I was to destroy my 10th grade creating imaginations of the friends who don't even talk to me now

[@supernova1552]

Same dude

[@devenarya5766]

So True

[@Askij182]

Same thing bro my life 7th,8th,and 9th grade were terrible years.. Being depressed, always angry with myself, for not having many friends.. Now when I think it feels so stupid.. I could have done something better in those years

[@praggyab]

Well, 10th grade friends mostly don't stay friends after school. Just saying.

[@shubhamrane6126]

@@praggyab actually I don't really care about the friends.. it's the grades I care about (I could have done better)

[@mayurprasad7140]

People complaining about their friends.. Me: you guys having friends 🤨🤨

[@rajattripathi8599]

Friends are curse

[@dreamsanddrownie2672]

I got my phone...which is most intellectual.

[@ishanhardia]

@@dreamsanddrownie2672 not true....it's arguable

[@Midnight_vocals]

Same brother

[@balajikamalesh3338]

lol.......same here!!!!

[@UtkarshPhilosophy]

Wondering why no one talks about this and there's this man reading my mind!

[@abhijeetpandey7891]

I just love his intellectuality of Dealing and understanding things very clearly ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

[@apoorvtripathi1079]

Truly

[@aryankumar-technical6720]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/iqaTfp2XiLSnmsk

[@Ronithimself]

Bhai sab research ka kamal. Hai uske mann se nahi bol raha ye. Samjhe?

[@devjyotbrahma9279]

It seems like he contemplates alot

[@bhageshtiwari1034]

I follow shwetabh sir since 2 years and literally this person has totally changed my life . God bless uhh sir ❤️

[@jigar2238]

Two things you never have to find : true friends and true love -A person.

[@karhisab]

Hey Man, I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :') kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWZp36kmZZrr6M

[@bunny-ie2mq]

I have both

[@jigar2238]

@@bunny-ie2mq nice :)

[@Zendarkdagger]

i have a true friend luckily

[@am_i_blue]

Two things you always have to get away from : fake friends and fake love. -another person

[@rajdip6324]

AUR LAUNDE, KYA HAAL CHAL?? MISS THIS MAN😌😌

[@Abovedamatrix3352]

Bold of you to assume I have friends.

[@lostworld9607]

🤣🤣

[@abhayxo]

& you are...? 🤨

[@helloworld2054]

Lol

[@shresthaditya2950]

0:55- 1:45-Friendship's foundation is trust and. Friendship Allows you to share things which you are not able to share with someone else 2:37-Stress Relieve and Fun 3:13- 3:28-Friendship Helps you Psychologically 3:57-Balance b/w work and friendship 5:12- 5:30- 5:47-Being able to have fun and share things which is in your mind is the most important thing which makes friendship healthy as it is therapeutic in nature. 6:45- 7:45-8:20-Bad Friends 8:37-9:45-70% work + 30% fun and don't ruin your work for friends and don't ruin friends for work 10:25-

[@alkatiwari6650]

All introverts will be imagining their friends. We introverts want good friends but we are unable to make them. We also need a true friend who can understand us but there is no one. It really hurts sometimes. Sometimes We do not want to go out and meet new people. We want to live in dark shade.

[@lthegreatestdetective5568]

Yes..same here

[@nayanghimire5663]

But family and society will come up with words like: "Tu toh akela hai kuch honey wala nahi hai tera. Zindagi mey dost chahiye."

[@alkatiwari6650]

@@nayanghimire5663 Yes but you should say that "Main akela hi kafi hun " sometimes we also need a true friend who can understand us but we can't force anyone to be our friend. We should stay in solitude rather than being with fake friends.

[@nayanghimire5663]

@@alkatiwari6650 yeah bro. But people around us dont understand the word "solitude" or "individuality" they only understand either "lonely" or "desperate". Well nothing to be gained from typing this n nothing to be loss. So, kitney ghantey kam kiya bhai aaj?

[@selfconquermannat2027]

😭💔💔

[@utbhav]

I believe, everybody needs good listener. Everybody is willing to tell something, but no one is willing to listen

[@manik9024]

I have 5-6 friends.. actually we are brothers more than friends.. we help each other in every situationts..and we have one golden rule bnde ki burai uske muh pe kro aur uski achaai uske peeth piche.. i feel lucky.. m blessed with the best😇😇😇😇

[@iqbalkour5435]

My friends inspire me to push harder in life. There are good 😌

[@Manishpandey-kc2om]

True friend will not criticize demean or judge you not in your face neither behind your back. They will take you as you are. Guess what there no one that is capable of that, then there is not true friends today. A dog or any pet will be a good friend!!

[@AshTheDuke]

Manish pandey yes pets are always better friends than humans

[@saveearthplanttrees4209]

But I have

[@tanishqagrawal9753]

That's just anothee way to say the one who criticizes me is not my friend because i believe criticism means hating someone and not actually trying to help someone also yes it varies in the tone in which A FRIEND criticizes another

[@pulkit21]

So if i want my friend to be the best version of himself I'm not a true friend. Noiicceeee

[@tanishqagrawal9753]

@@pulkit21 haha that's just what i said thank you for summing it up xD

[@Sachin.9045]

Bhai aapki wajah se bht jyada motivation milta hai kaam krne ka!!! Love from uttarakhand bhai nd stay blessed...❤️❤️❤️

[@zzzzzz1510]

I'm friendless !!

[@crazyjourney3963]

u r wrong

[@rajattripathi8599]

I have many girlfriends and I am happy. I always fight with all boys

[@dinasuarsenpai]

@@rajattripathi8599 ehhh kya kuch samajh nahi aya bro tera situation

[@Thakur_Hemendra]

@@dinasuarsenpai uske kehne ka matalab hai voh laundo ko pelta hai jo uski girlfriends ke peeche hote hain 😂

[@kishore369]

@@rajattripathi8599 Wtf "girlfriends" or "girl friends".. There is a huge difference.

[@sharonyoroychowdhury8562]

Sir! Your alarm clock technique changed my life... More power to you... God bless

[@mania20]

I literally don't have anyone to talk to.

[@shreyashshinde9538]

Me too😑😑😑

[@shashankpawar7755]

Both give ur insta I'd,we are friends now,I will share my whole story

[@mani5448]

@@shashankpawar7755 wah bhai😂

[@amanpunia6103]

@@shashankpawar7755 😂😂😂

[@rameshsakaray9366]

Lone wolf

[@unknown_thoughts]

Some people seek validation from other people and not themselves

[@karhisab]

Hey Man, I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :') kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWZp36kmZZrr6M

[@SammyLogan]

You mean everyone by some people?

[@classicalvoice3144]

Bhai mai bahut frastrate or depression mai chala gaya tha love ke chakker mai.....dinbhar bas uski ke bare mai sochta tha....even mai padh v nhi pa raha tha.....kisi ne apka video suggest kya.....apke video ne mujhe ye samjha diya mere priority kya h..bas isbar maine apna pt qualify kiya ..ab mains ki tayyari kar raha hu......thans bhai.......

[@jack76thegamer30]

No, and i know that, that's why I'm happy, i don't except much from them from beginning, so what i get is better or worse near to that scale

[@abhayxo]

Yes , kinda same scenario wid me. My friends (most of them) keep on calling me to play PUBG & CoD wid them, & I always say "NO!" to "em , widout getting hurt & making them hurt as well. 😇

[@soulfulhuman8724]

I am lucky that i have a very good friend who is always there for me when i need him and vice versa. He is like my brother and he is a well defined example of a true ' FRIEND' Thank god.

[@nawindss]

Fact is that . My friends are also watching this..😂😂🤣🤣

[@ehtshamnaeem]

Sath bath k? 😂

[@sm0000]

I always help my friends and don't need anything from them in return ✨🙏. Otherwise I don't really party or hang out with them. I spend a lot of time with me, but also listen and care for them. 🌞🤸

[@thatsthething3218]

10:00 yes I fell in that trap when I was jobless. my friends would say: oh it is our day how can you...? and later advised me that I shall manage my time to meet friends else I will be burnt out. but they didnt say for my benefit, they said for their benefit because they found fun in meeting me. so they were saying for fulfilling their own emotional needs. meanwhile, I was getting exhausted all this while. and, these people will bring you gifts, help you a lot-doesnt mean they want best for you. it is complex. I wish I had watched this video earlier so that I didnt waste my whole 8 months of youth.

[@matangpandit2519]

This hita differently after seeing what prakhar did to you.

[@Joemama70minus1]

🍺

[@khalilonline3564]

Shwetabh Gangwar....sir you are really a good guidener ever...your word are so easy to understand and clearly ..love from pakistan

[@shwetasharma5598]

Thanks shwetabh for clarity for perception b/w career &frnds🙏❤

[@pallaviuniyal6355]

I had been thinking about this for past few days....thanks for clarifying my confusion about my friends

[@tanmaysharma1364]

Well explained brother. 👏🏻 Glad that my circle is already like this. ❤️

[@anistanszaynie2608]

I have been without friends since November Have gone outside home just for 5-6 times You know the life of a Jee/Neet aspirant 🤘🔥 I dont complaint for it Prepare today Have a better life tomorrow

[@apkiaka6793]

SAME HERE ... 😆😅😅like srly my ppl are just counting on like Aka you missed total some 11 hang outs 🤣🤣😃

[@Shirokokun]

Yes bro!! I know!! I am a jee aspirant

[@hiteshwarsingh8219]

U guys are going outside 😱

[@SandeepMeena79]

@@hiteshwarsingh8219 U guys are even alive😱😱

[@hiteshwarsingh8219]

@@SandeepMeena79 that's how we roll

[@ojasadhikari8486]

Sometimes having no friends is great

[@ligira2.092]

Bhai... Apki video se clarity mil jaati hai hum sabko Thank you Shwetabh Bhai

[@mrx..8379]

Shwetabh Is Writting 2 More unfictional Books My Excitement Is On Top Level.....😯

[@juhiazad3108]

I bow down to your logical reasoning....this is something I was realising..your logics concreted it.

[@AimanIqbal]

Bro, you said you're gonna uplaod a video for women here who can see red flags while dating men. We're desperately waiting for that one and we know you will release it. Just wanted to let this out. We stan you bro. Thank you for imparting your wisdom 🙏

[@shykhabdull52]

This Video Opened my Eyes in many Ways. 💕💕💕💕

[@divyanktrivedi9082]

Your are my game changer for my life thought structure and process and in whole aspects I thankful to you for that you doing these

[@mintusawant]

A proper perspective on ourselves, our friends & friendship! Awesome 👏

[@aayathussain6002]

I have two friends but they always makes fun of me and they make jokes on me but when they needs my notebook they always says that "You are our best friend , please give us your notebook .

[@ashmit6718]

Unse dur hojaiyeh tab jyada attach mt. Hoaiyega

[@ihatediscipline4355]

Fuck man same 🤣

[@haanbhaimaigalathoon8844]

Run awayyyy

[@TruecriBge]

Us moment lol

[@clawlynx967]

Today's work- 1 chapter, 10 sums, 4 subject school homework and last learned something new today by ur this video♥️👍 Total- 5hrs👍👍👍

[@sarbartharoy6277]

I have 5-6 friends whom I can actually trust.... I am so lucky to have them♥️

[@rishavsingh6339]

Bro I love your intelligence and the perspective of seeing things in a different manner

[@SJ-xg7xw]

I am friend with anyone who needs me but no one is there when i need them.And friendship is like two way no one ever messages me without me messaging them first so are they really my friends?

[@shyamsundarpanigrahi6057]

Same here😔!!!

[@roshan1345]

That's how this world works , it s just meter of need , for every person his life is his no 1 priority , not his friends life

[@pratikc588]

Logo se umeed rakhna hi q.. Khudse umeed rakho na.. Expectations hi bc dukh ka sabse bada karan he..Duniya mei tashan se jeena padta.. logo ko apne weaknesses dikhaye na toh poori duniya fayda uthane pahuch jati hai..

[@happyminions3615]

Yeah same,,

[@literallymasculine]

when you are always available for someone 2 things happen at a time 1] the person takes you for granted 2] subconsiously a message is delivered to ourselves that when we need him he will always be available. thes 2 things fuck up a healthy mind. Just be loyal and Honest to your Parents coz afterall they are the one who would always be there for us.

[@akhlakmirza2051]

fab explanation🔥🔥🔥 don't blame ur frnds if u yourself r not doing anything to improve ur life💯💯👌

[@priyankashete8232]

I needed this. I have exam coming up and I suddenly started feeling that I am missing out on all the fun my friends are gonna have on coming weekend. Thank you I am going to study from now on. Feel much better. :D

[@rahulpal974]

Didi ab koi nahi hai trust ke layak na ladka na ladki except mother and father

[@bliss5522]

Deep down each guy knows there is nothing such as real friends!

[@rishabhmalhotra1542]

There was a night, I was standing in middle of nowhere far from home, with a broken foot, in tremendous pain. I called my friend he just said one thing "Tu jaha bhi ho me aa rha hu, tension na le". That time i realised i have great friends

[@Natashaæà]

𝙳𝚞𝚍𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚑𝚒𝚝 𝚖𝚎 𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚍!

[@rishabhmalhotra1542]

@@Natashaæà its a true story

[@rohithreddy2018]

Man.....ur videos are completely changing my LIFE. Thankyou, and keep motivating us.❤🔥✌

[@sharvani_0779]

“A friend in need is a friend indeed. “😁 It is so ironical that in spite of having millions of friends on social media, but very few of them are ‘good’ , and very very few will help us in need. 🤕🤕🤕🙂❤️

[@karhisab]

Hey I hope you been holding well. I know i would be perceived as a bug that just keeps promoting my music and sending long ass messages. But you are all i got :') kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWZp36kmZZrr6M

[@roshan1345]

Social media is profetic world , just like movies it has nothing to do with reality

[@asmitajadhav4845]

So true

[@BHAVYAGUPTA2421]

really bhaya mai abhi 19 years ka hoon aur aapne mera sare questions ka answer kar diya hai, thanks a lot for be on the youtube, keep making videos like this.

[@pawankumar2666]

Thank you sir, just when I needed this type of guidance

[@dhruvisanghvi9022]

Who'll thought he's the most valuable person in our life. ❤️

[@Bookskiduniya]

Yeah right.

[@zzzzzz1510]

Valuable but not the most....

[@kunalsr5151]

@@zzzzzz1510 yeah bro

[@neverquitattitude7641]

Who will... 😂😂... English 😂😂 top level

[@Azamkhan-np1in]

English wali video dekho didi

[@shivamIIT]

You are my inspiration yaat or tmhri ye book best thing in the lockdown it's really wow ❤❤

[@krazzysg763]

Ive been thinking about this since morning ,and here i got this video. Thanks mate

[@rahulsbhatt]

This is the exact mindset we need right now 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@sangeetjoshi2164]

I watch his videos just to know his opinions and he always has something great to offer!😍

[@doctortanmay]

Shwetambar Is OG motivational speaker ,he changed life of many ppl ❤️

[@sayaedtaj5777]

Sir, u r a gem i have been following you since 2017. Ur adviced have always helped me.. Thank you

[@nadinprabhu8480]

Rip Sushant😭😭😭

[@aadyasingh7860]

Thank you for making videos on diverse topics like these , really needed it ,commenting before even watching the video

[@tapaspaul9547]

I have learned lot of thing from u and ur book.. thank you so much ❤️ sir and i am eagerly waiting for ur upcoming book

[@shikhakumari0818]

Much needed topic❤

[@bunnyrawt4681]

Today onwards I'm going to loose my a few friends 😂😂

[@sharedhara9116]

Lots of love brother I was searching for it.

[@LovepreetSingh-rn4id]

thanks for expanding my knowledge in life ♥️🙏

[@sakshamp007]

1 priority ...my life ,my goal,wellness,health,wealth Then 2 freinds but not destroy your life for frnd, and manage them ...don't be slave . Make your work priority the. Freindship.

[@thegodfather6860]

In a Nutshell, Keep everything Balanced in Life.

[@pranavjakhale5794]

I don't have lot of friends I know lot's of people -heath ledger In this one line he told everything

[@ankitsharma9852]

Always be helpful to your friends. And please make friends carefully

[@gauravkumarsingh3458]

This video taught me to how to manage friendship.

[@anshulbangadkar6522]

I just ordered the rudest book ever from amazon... Keep up the good work

[@darshanabhujade906]

Thank you shwetabh bhaiya..! You always change my mind and perspective for the things 😇.. your intellectuals that u share in videos just help a lot to vanish out the worng perception abt peoples and get a clear thoughts... Just wanna know from where u get this high level of maturity..?? 🙏 Keep sharing..,✨✨

[@saptarshimallick5662]

I know many people won't take head of this message but if you don't have anyone to share your thoughts with then start reading books for they have the potential to become your best friends and most trusted source of inspiration knowledge and mental peace(albeit you are reading the right ones and not sensationalistic bs)

[@karangangurde5232]

Watching your channel since 2017! Your thoughts and speech have made me very selective ultimately leading to better choices and preferences! Now living a decent and contended life👍🏼 Live long brother!

[@a.t9211]

Friendship is based on "Aukaat" I still remember when I didn't have as much money as them , than I changed my path Didn't went to parties , places because my social status changed but I will work hard to get my normal life back... "Galti meri nahi thee , lakeen mahanat meeri hoogi"

[@mnemonicsformbbsbds6252]

My most of friends are loyal bcz I m loyal to my friends....Dost bahut jaruri hai zindegi me....😍😍😍

[@jahidlaskar2114]

Shwetabh should do more podcasts?? How many of you think 👇❤️

[@kingrecord7209]

No.1 Priority hain Meri Zindagi 👌

[@souvikmitra6161]

Don't point your fingergun towards us Bhai, I'm scared.

[@justheretoruinyourday9499]

Lol

[@tech_to_know]

@@justheretoruinyourday9499 😂

[@d1nkar]

Views paane ki ninja technique

[@MayankKumar-qp4wr]

@@d1nkar jo kaam nhi kr rhi

[@anuragawasthi8848]

Ye aadmi humesha meri hi baat karta hai.. RESPECT BROTHER.....

[@UCSGudduKumar]

i have just passed my class 12 and i have no one to talk to. sometimes i feel sad

[@rajattripathi8599]

It happens

[@itsme7321]

No brother u should enjoy your own world talk to yourself understand yourself.. exprcnce evrythng.. and enjoy you will get many one day best wishes :D

[@rajdip6324]

Same feeling here, preparing for IITJEE , studying 12-13 hours everyday, lonely and cold, no one even asks me how I am, but that's okay.

[@adwaid3007]

@@rajdip6324 how are you bro?

[@dinasuarsenpai]

ahh peri bhi kuch esi hi situation h tu family par jyada dhyan de sakta h rather than ki kisi aur ke bare m soche esa hota h bro ki apka soch auro se alag ho is karan tu special h is karan apne kam par jyada dhyan do padhai par jyada focus karo aur enjoy karne ke liye gaming kar sakte ho ya agar family ke sath time spend kar sakte ho

[@kabir6788]

Thank you bhaiya , finally kuch practical aur saccha video mila kuch English video dekha usme kiya kiya altu faltu bolte hain saccha dost ye hain wo hain mera dimaag kharap ho gaya. Thank you so much for this video now I know all the friends I have are actually my true friends, the problem is with me I am expecting wrong things from them

[@alpha_rishabh]

I love these type of discussion becuase it's actually improve our life thanks bhaiya 😊🙏🙏

[@rajattripathi8599]

Don't make friends. Make girlfriends

[@alpha_rishabh]

@@rajattripathi8599 ya 😂but a good one

[@monjitrajkonwar6043]

Thank you 😊 for letting us know that you are writing two new books.

[@badarikrishna3169]

One of the topics I was looking for..!! ✌️✌️

[@chinmaydeshpande5046]

Simply , love you bhai ♥️

[@GameZero2]

I don't even have friends to begin with 😞

[@shashankpawar7755]

Give ur insta id

[@lakshaykumar8216]

Same bhai

[@drshahmina6412]

That's really good 😂

[@vaiishnavi9057]

You must be happy then..... I don't have friends either..... Less people, less bullshit

[@shreyash366]

Hey u have this guy

[@rkgamer2950]

i read some comments and i realised that i am not the only one going through this...

[@MrWhite-ru3oz]

I'm lucky to have 1 good bestfriend from 1st class to college 2nd year. He is my only friend

[@akashchandra1681]

We are not alone ,let's unite together and grow together 👬👬👬

[@techtonex5680]

Ohh the color grading 🔥

[@amit.yadav.57]

Bachpan Mai mabap samjhate hai Kya galat Kya sahi But koi 18+ k baad koi nahi samjhate , that is where this channel comes into existence #Respect

[@ananyarath1879]

How can u be so intellectual ❣️👀

[@decentshredder]

Level Of Work Ethic ;: 3rd Video in A Day 🙏💯