Why guys always end up falling in love with their female friends

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

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[@sarojbarikk6822]

Bhai apki determination k liye tahe dil se salaam... Kya ek k baad ek video daal rahe ho

[@mohdshadan1299]

Shwetab bhai You didn't explain about, what if that Male Friend has some genuine and true feelings to be with the girl. And wants to keep that company for life as a life partner and afraid of losing her when feelings arises and are very strong. And if that guy is a good person, then why not to give him A chance, then setting boundaries at this stage is also good thing, but how to tell her to consider the guy, if feeling are strong and then cutting him off can cause him moving on, which can ruin the time of 2 to 3 years of that Male friend in Moving on, what if that girl became his inspiration, wo to atak jayega phir. Please also took the side from the male perspective

[@kalpparashar5017]

I want to have friends who are girls but they seems selfish or they are not interested after a certain point or they don't keep up at all. I mean I am not asking them to be a guy but they most of them take the friendship with the guy granted

[@kalpparashar5017]

Also rarely there are girls available who are into intelectual and deep talks. Not in denial and not demeaning at all but that's 100% true

[@shikharjha3192]

For the first time, I thought the perspective was very narrow and ignored the variations of reality!

[@s.k3484]

Consistency of Shwetab Sir In This Year 📈

[@rotisabzi4822]

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[@prasoonchoudhary1026]

Abhi to saal shuru hi hua hai

[@prasoonchoudhary1026]

@Harshit i know

[@The_PitMan]

Stonks

[@Tom._.cruise-y3k]

@@The_PitMan KYA EK LADKA LADKI FRIENDS HO SAKTE HAI MUJHE IS BAAT PE DOUBT HAI PLEASE BATAO MAI BOHOT ULJHA HUYA HU IS BAAT MAI

[@saurabhkale5042]

I also once fell in love with a girl who became my friend. But I understood she wasn’t interested, I stopped myself and gone away

[@faizalmemon1947]

Cheers to that. That's the spirit bro. Move on with the life. There is so much to do

[@Kiith.69]

It's so hard to do but we have to do it for the sake for good friendship

[@AIIMS20242]

Well done bro.

[@jacksonripper-mp8dr]

You didn't fell in love with her, your biological instincts governed you to get intimate with her..... Use the correct phrase bro.....

[@namratabharadwaj824]

I noticed like a girl having male friends talking to boys freely.... Often are judged by saying she might sleep with every guy she hangs out with.

[@Kiith.69]

Few are like that! I too have this type of female friends whoes body count is more than 6 -7 and mostly with their own best frnd

[@NamanSinha69]

Dude, I don't know why but this video literally enlightened me bro, literally! I have been one of those boys who gets attracted to every girl they talk to, and I have changed myself for good.

[@jatingodara0002]

us bro us

[@debanikgoswami4834]

​@@jatingodara0002 Sirf unhi ladkiyo se friendship rakho Jo tumhe attractive na Lage.

[@क्रेज़ीबिच]

​@@debanikgoswami4834ladkiyo ko insan ki tarah dekho jo body ke peeche bhi ek insan hai, personality hai...

[@peteck007]

That girl needs to exclusively choose to become friends with boys who hangout with girls or have a lot of girl friends already. If you're trying to become friends with a boy who barely had girl friends, eventually he'll be crushing on you whatsoever because he barely had a female companionship and it would be hard for him not to fall for the only girl he became friends with. Be wise, and make your intentions clear.. Dont flirt, just stay casual or call him a bro.. a friend wouldn't mind a person of opposite gender calling them bro/sis.

[@randomuser7668]

💯

[@avisuthar5387]

If I'm having a conversation with a girl, and she straight up calls me bro, then tbh i will loose interest, i would not even care to reply even though i might not be interested in her,

[@santoshparajuli4080]

Yeah

[@ddm1912]

This makes no sense. If girls start choosing boys having many female friends as her friend, then boys who have no female friends will never have any female friend ever.

[@ashhyl329]

Bro it isn't necessary that every guy who never had any girl in his life will try to hit up on every girl they meet or become close with, it also depends on what type of person is he, kyuki aise to i have seeen people who have lots of girls in their life still they try to fulfill their desires and just use them for their time p pass

[@suryadevthakur5212]

Boy + Boy = bro chemistry Girl + Girl = different chemistry Girl + Boy = a completely different chemistry, That's why a boy and a girl can't just be friends, I hate my gf's male friends, because I know they will use the opportunity whenever it comes(because that's how the girl+ boy interaction works), It will take you to a physical attraction at one point(unless the girl is ugly) That's truth, period.

[@doperum8268]

That's why I don't like chemistry

[@heathen3278]

May be a gay boy with heterosexual female can be best friend

[@vivek8580]

Yeah obviously different chemistry but it would be just of physical attraction, that's wrong, U should be mature enough to know uur boundaries

[@kanika7422]

Well explained 👏🏻 Acharya Prashant had said the same thing. A girl and a boy can only be friends if their intentions are clear about their friendship.

[@vivek8580]

@@kanika7422 yeah obviously yaar they can be frnds bs ladko ko thodi maturity honi chaiye😂coz ladkiya phle hii mature hoo jaati hai😂 Different chemistry hogi but lust hoo aisa jaruri thodi hai

[@WittyScoop]

7:00 this is so true. If you've tell a man while networking to stay in his limits, he will probably do it again. A decent person would always maintain a certain distance or at least check if you are single or not before flirting. Some decent guys understand just by the way you ignore their first compliment and then they keep it professional but others deserve to be in the block list.

[@rabimsah3241]

ab flirt karne se pehle pucche kya madam aap single ho?? Flirt kar skta hu ? Baat krte krte to pata chal hi jani haii.. aur conversation ko interesting banane ke liye flirt karna padta haii.. warna hume bhi saukh nhi har kisi de rejection khane kaa.. aur tum ladkiyan to responsibility logi nhi baate aage badhane ka..

[@pallikarazdansingh7862]

I have felt this for so long, also have ended up like this so only could make guy friends who have been there since childhood but over the time never had a guy friend growing up like in college or later years who was genuinely interested in intellectual talks like life,finance,politics technology. This is 100% true. Eventually all would start flirting and propose which was hurtful as we genuinely try to have good friendships with some.

[@eklautasaquib]

Main character syndrome wali lgti ho ji aap

[@ManishKrSingh-ov3oe]

Sorry on behalf of boys community bt we boys at least i can say a few certainly r looking for the same needs beyond physical needs pura krne ka jo lust h. Some r definitely into for serious intellectual friendship instead of flirtatious. N even that type of frnd bad me liking n feelings dono ko develoo ho un values n respect k behalf pr to relationship bhi q nhi. Lekin as person kuch to jarur h ya honge hi jinhe bhi aise hi log chahiye.

[@shreyanghosh9381]

Because girls are never interested in science technology intellectual things or in arts or philosophical things .they only know how to make others fool or how to get attention in social media .So i don't you will ever find that boy because assertion is not true

[@ankitchaubey1293]

@@ManishKrSingh-ov3oe I don't need a girl as a friend at all If i have to talk politics I'll call one of my Bros and talk for hours if we wanna learn something of tech I'll call any of my brothers they'll teach me if a fight breaks out 10 tall guys with hockey sticks are behind me if you need a female as a friend or if a female is your friend get your testosterone levels checked chhakka bolte hai jo ladkiyo ke saath ghumte hai tum ladki ho mere se kuch sikhna aao sikho aur footo waha se chalte bano Mujhe tumse kuch sikhana hai mai sikhunga phir chalte banunga I don't know who you are kyuki dost gf ko chhod ke ek naata insaniyat ka hota hai ladkiyo se jo mere se relationship me intrested nhi hai mai rakhta hu

[@shauryasshorts7116]

to be honest dekh me tereko mera mind honestly batata hu...tereko merese kuch sikhna he to sikh i ll gladly teach you but in return tumhe bhi kuch dena hoga you cant just learn for free...and most of the times girls dont have anything to offer like literally...ek ladki swimming atti thi aur wo chahati thi ki me uske saath swimming aur jaab wo chahe and usse sikhau bhi... I agreed but after that now when i told her ki chal teri exam khatam hone ke baad skateboarding aa meresaath because uske paas bhi ek pada huwa he she said usko time nahi milega...and this is the second disrespect of my effort and time...mene to sabse pehele usko apna skateboard laake dikhane bola tha ki bhai ek baar jara dekh lu baas ki jamega ki nahi khudka kharidne se pehele paar usne wo bhi nahi laake dikhaya... i have shadow banned her now i dont talk to her aur swimming me bhi mili to ignore karunga aur apne round maarke nikal jaunga.. point i am making is lots of girls take friendship as for their entertainment and amusement and dont want to return the favour... and for god sake if you just want to be friends please dont share about your past truma and breakups with us for atleast a year...for me mujhe agar pata chalta he ki kisi ke saath bachpan me truma huwa he to i get very emotionally attach to that person mere protection instincts jaag jate he and thats how i fall for a person...so dost ki tara raho chill raho i am literally saying treat this as a business deal and dont try to be act cute and all...be very technical...i hope after applying this you will get some male friends

[@Burgersession]

Loved this. Please solve more problems sent by female viewers.

[@Cr-jr7fe]

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[@jatingodara0002]

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[@Burgersession]

@@Cr-jr7fethanks man

[@Tom._.cruise-y3k]

@@Cr-jr7fe KYA EK LADKA LADKI FRIENDS HO SAKTE HAI MUJHE IS BAAT PE DOUBT HAI PLEASE BATAO MAI BOHOT ULJHA HUYA HU IS BAAT MAI

[@debanikgoswami4834]

​@@Burgersession Ha bilkul ban sakte hain. Mein bas unhi ladkiyo se dosti karti hoon Jo mujhe attractive nehi lagti.

[@abbaschieff1261]

Sir the word "inspiring" will be very small to praise your personality, You are taking the minds of youth to the next level! More power to You❤️

[@vaishvikmunoyat7138]

Never compromise on your values. Learn to stand for your values, principles and morals. Great talk!

[@friendsandfamily2312]

I have many female friends but never developed feelings for them... But there was a girl with whom I spent my most time... She is leaving our hometown for her job... Now I am feeling heartbroken because I will never be able meet her again ... I don't know why I care about her so much... I don't want to...

[@noobplays4376]

Bro it's normal tbh even when I think of leaving my town for work i think about my friendship and get emotional that doesn't mean i am gay n have feelings for my guy friend It's a a normal feel. It's just human

[@friendsandfamily2312]

@@noobplays4376 Yeah bro in my case it also must be that.... I was actually confused about myself...

[@cursedtyrany8199]

​@@friendsandfamily2312 bro in terms of female friends don't listen to any one , if you love her propose and end things there if you are confused talk to her , i have 2 female frnds I treat them like sisters one admitted that she had 1 month crush on me on initial days but in the ends things got sorted out and we are friends again , main point is how to think about them and how clearly your point of thinking about them if this is clear then you shouldn't worry about anything

[@vampgaming4237]

Sometimes a man's first flowers are received on his funeral - someone There are men in this world who have genuine loneliness and the fact that if u are an average guy in almost everything then u ain't getting a dm ever. It's true life for men are really traumatic because u girls are never alone,u always have someone to flirt with or talk to but that is not the case with men. Shwetabh sir once said,"india me ladke life ko hard mode me jee rhe h..." Agar ladkion ki aisi thinking h na toh yt pr search krlo coz there was a hardcore feminist and she decided to live as a man just to showcase the society that men have so much privileged and later on few weeks she suicided because she couldn't bear the trauma and disrespect which regular men used to face. You can also read her book.

[@pranav6566]

Her name??

[@realavdhut]

What? 😶

[@mandeep3848]

Tate said this in a podcast (atleast give credit where credit is due)

[@arrow2380]

@@mandeep3848 nope

[@vijayvenkat8971]

Bhai tumhmey toh mujhe ruladiya

[@amritgupta585]

"I think I should apologize for ghosting a girl few weeks ago. We meet at workplace everytime and I just feel pretty rude to ignore someone who just tried to befriend me specially on a daily basis. "😔😔

[@saurabhkale5042]

Matlab?

[@keshabroy6094]

Ghost karte raho. Dont b a simp

[@mainaksen280]

@@keshabroy6094 sahi kana aapne🤚

[@usrr444]

Keep ghosting bro

[@RoshanKumar-xv8sh]

Thats the point. Girls know each person watching them. Once I was walking with my friend and all of a sudden she started abusing a person on bike who just went to forward on the path. I asked what happened to you and she said that the man was staring me through the mirror. I was like girl, are you sure you're not an FBI agent? They know each pair of eyes staring them. They understand everything and still choose to be silent because they are habituated to this.

[@LostinMango]

Yeah what's wrong in seeing your potential mate to produce a child's hahhaha.

[@ddm1912]

I don't think it is wrong to look at a girl if she is beautiful, just for a few seconds, and then move on with life. The problem arises when boys start creepily staring at a girl continuously.

[@arrow2380]

Or they are too self obsessed to believe everyone looks at them

[@mast76]

Sounds like something a Karen would do

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

@@ddm1912 exactly... We as human beings can be attracted to any beautiful thing.. Even if it is a handsome man.. Just need to understand that don't behave creepy

[@manabendrasikdar6086]

Nice sir, very beautiful thought, Hope all the viewers who watch this video, will apply this thought on their life for making their life beautiful 🙏🙏 Jai hind

[@Lakshyadadhich]

i love you bhai.... From last 5 year aapke saath hu me via youtube & book.... you helped in Changing myself & my thought system.... Abhi me mere liye aur mere aas paas ke liye free education provide kar raha hu government schools me jaha teacher nahi hai and me 100% ye kah sakta hu ki jitna hard work and smart work dono hum put in kar rahe he un baccho par... utna koi mehngi coaching wale bhi nahi karte... thats how i'm helping you for changing this word from myside.. Lots of blessings for you and your family... Thankyou launde 🌚

[@harris8948]

I have noticed something idk if everyone relates but whenever i have tried to genuinely be kind to girls they mistook that as simping... Lol

[@Yavin44]

Fr bro

[@saurabhkale5042]

Exactly broooo thats what I want to say. Ladkiyo ki help karne me bhi sochna padta he ki ye ise simping na samajh le

[@theguywhoasked294]

I think if all the girls you talk to have considered you as simp then there's something wrong. The way you present yourself in front of people also matters like even if your intentions are right people can misunderstand you

[@adityatepan9048]

​@@theguywhoasked294 So much enlightenment in the comment section

[@Heybudd91]

if u help everyone, i mean even if there was a guy and not a girl and u would still help him out ; its not simping. but if thts not the case then it is simping if genuinely helped or not, its clearly evident when u do it. The level of favour or help itself speaks tons.

[@STONEFALL0]

Absolutely fantastic video!! Absolutely fantastic perspective !! Just loved your words swetabh sir !!

[@best_bluray]

2nd half of this video is really fucking amazing. Applies not just to women but to all individuals in the society.

[@khan_rukayya]

I respect you❤🔥genuinely because you are so true to your morals❤ I have always been inspired by your honesty and straightforwardness 🔥 Love how you are never willing to compromise your values and your morals for money. 🔥🔥 hats off to u ❤ I aspire to be like you 💯

[@manashrox6315]

Thanks alot Shwetabh bro for opening the doors of my mind and thanks for being such a great guide for so many years.

[@sidjain0599]

I hope more women watch this video. Girls in our country especially need to understand how to interact with men. The same goes for boys as well.

[@richa2678]

How to interact I used to be polite with boys

[@Tom._.cruise-y3k]

@@richa2678 KYA EK LADKA LADKI FRIENDS HO SAKTE HAI MUJHE IS BAAT PE DOUBT HAI PLEASE BATAO MAI BOHOT ULJHA HUYA HU IS BAAT MAI

[@debanikgoswami4834]

​@@richa2678 Only be friends with a guy who has a girlfriend.

[@kdjoshi726]

As a girl I kinda agree girls do need to understand how to interact with guys but honestly guys, especially Indian guys need to understand it more.

[@cursedtyrany8199]

Treat your opposite gender friend as sibling , entire problem will be solved

[@kritika1367]

Hello sir..I have seen following ur channel since very. Just wanted to let u know this is the most best and needed vdo For a long I have this similar question but couldn't find a proper explanation n perspective. But today I have found my answer... thank you so much..plz keep posting such stuff 🙏 really needed and admired..u make us understand like an elder brother.

[@monurajput5608]

He's my favourite KZbinr .other than all the spiritual channels I watch only .

[@trailblazer9420]

Has anyone of your male frnd tried to hit on you ?

[@kritika1367]

@@trailblazer9420 yeah many , due to this friendship ruined,

[@monurajput5608]

@@trailblazer9420 that's because many guys have the mindset of making a potential girlfriend when they start to invest in talking to a girl. Most people only get near you when they want something ,is the rule they apply to themselves.

[@trailblazer9420]

@@monurajput5608 hn bhae ldke islie brbad h aur friendzone ho jate h

[@curvycalories9428]

You are so right about reviewing your past. I am 35 now and in my 20s I made so many mistakes and got into wrong friendships and relationships just because I wanted to fit in and not feel alone. Now I feel so stupid about mut 20s and I feel don't feel proud. Now I have decided to follow my heart and my values no matter how much it is against the norms of society

[@notrhythm]

let them know you're only seeking a friendship. refer to them as a "friend" during conversations. tell them how thankful you are to have a "friend" like them. do this from the very start. ask them "do you wanna be friends?" when you first approach them or ask for their number or some other shit. dont give mixed signals. i mean, if youre lonely af, and nobody ever asks for your number and then suddenly someone is tryna get close to you, you wouldn't assume that theyre doing it just to gain the knowledge you have lmao.

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Isiliye mein jitna jyada hon sake utna jyada ladkiyon se interact karta hoon . Kisi particular ladki mere liye special hain hi nehi,nahi koyi feelings hain .

[@notrhythm]

@@debanikgoswami4834 this is the way

[@usrr444]

​@@debanikgoswami4834 yup practise

[@holyswordsman8568]

as a guy i don't entertain people especially girls who have no value to offer as a friend. To those girls, if you find some over the top concentrated fully focused guy in your work spaces, try approaching them with value and not just being 'yourself' because when you don't then 99% of the time you are viewed as a future distraction ready to out grow the guys' focus.

[@suhanapriya7070]

can you elaborate on this?

[@tromboner6061]

@@suhanapriya7070 I think he is saying that focused guys are likely to maintain mere friendships with girls. And if as a girl you want to be friend of such guy, be of substance, intelligence, value to him so that he finds you valuable to befriend you. Else if you have nothing to offer and are a velli😅, he might not be interested

[@holyswordsman8568]

@@suhanapriya7070 agar kisi se bhi kabhi bhi ek friendship rakhni hai to disregarding the gender differences, it's always what you do for the other person. If you are friends with let's say the top 10% of the people in your workplace both men and women, if you just stay with them for the social recognition of being a top 10% or with them to learn something of great in value acting like an interviewer or anything where you provide zero value, you will never get in with those people because the see you as and outsider trying to extract value points, gai validation, or whatsoever. You need to bring something to the table of equal value in order to be 'friends' with the top, If you are not currently them you simply need to climb that ladder increasing your value and making your network even denser. If we put in a girl in this scenario and the person on top is a guy, then of course there might form romantic interests too, which most guys find it distracting hence he will not be interested if you are there with him fucking around wasting time and disturbing him at the same time unless you have something of value from the guy's perspective.

[@dedicatedstudent221]

@@holyswordsman8568 hey bro, what you do ? just asking

[@MrDeepakSahani]

Womens ki perspectives se baat inse jyada behtar koi nahi kar sakta...!❤️🔥

[@anshuraj5734]

Bhai dharti pe women almost 4bn hongi and you've written shivaay women ke😅

[@vinayakrokade9237]

I'm 18 rn i don't even have a single female friend from school days till college i didn't talked to girls as much my other guy friends do, there are 2 things that's the reason i think so i don't have female friends 1st will be I'm insecure about my looks I've considered myself as a dumb person who looks absolutely bad infront of them 2nd will be i don't initiate talks first i always think when another person will talk to me then only I'm going to talk to that guy/girl that's not because I've ego issues that's because i have this statement in my mind that why anyone wants to talk to me? I don't have anything good offer to them nor i look good nor i studious not I'm good at any sport or other skill like playing musical instruments.

[@_AkashKumar]

Kuch nai Hota bhai ye sab tension lekar

[@_AkashKumar]

Apne me mast reh

[@saurabhkumbhare3061]

Exact same case here 😅 Now finally I have a female best friend but I have developed feelings for her. It just keeps getting worse.

[@rishabhrathore3987]

Change your belief system about you.. Love yourself, value your worth accept the way you are, do positive self talk.. This will increase your self confidence and then you can talk to anyone easily..

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Bro, make a female friend only if you don't find her attractive . I also have a lot of female friends.

[@915himanshugupta7]

Baaki saari baate side main rakho 2 min ke liye bas ye banda ( respected sir ) jo keh ke gye h,.......socho usse..... Thank you sir,.....💙💯aapne jo baate batayi, main usse soch rha hoon abhi.....aur initial level pe apply bhi karne ja rha hoon.......aapne meri shayd 1-2 problems jisse main badi maan rha tha, unka solution de diya h,....ab main usse kitna achhe se apply karta hoon, vo meri responsibility h...... Aur aisi videos chhaiye sir,.....aisi baate aur sochni h,.......bahut achhi video thi sir No words 💯💯💯 Aur aisi videos laiye aap,.....koi aur ye dekhe na dekhe,....main zaroor dekhunga aisa content 👍

[@yashikapurohit6080]

Much needed topic of the hour...thank you for addressing this shwetabh sir....💯💛

[@atulyaroy8962]

Okay now I shall simp and ruin the point of the vid :) *Simps*

[@ipsitamishra7173]

U guide us like a big brother.. Thank you sir with lots of love and respect 💟🙏

[@debanikgoswami4834]

I have some female friends 😁 . As long I don't find a girl attractive she can be my friend.

[@Gulshansays_]

When shwetabh sir said- It felt true it's not just true it's dark truth "jis ladki ko like krte ho uske sath kahi bahr jaoge to jaruri nhi ki tumhe koi dusri ladki pasand nhi aayegi

[@ronnieketchum1241]

In all this controversy, we kinda ignore the actual good friendships. Those are the real precious ones.

[@kalpparashar5017]

I want to have friends who are girls but they seems selfish or they are not interested after a certain point or they don't keep up at all. I mean I am not asking them to be a guy but they most of them take the friendship with the guy granted

[@emperor01413]

Thankyou shwetabh bhai aapka-mai bhi college life me ek fresher hu aur girls se bhot flirty nd double minded baat krta hu but aaj ye video ke baad mera mindset change h gya n smj aaya ki aaisa krne se mai cool nahi bn jaunga!!also isse meri hi self-respect km ho ja reli hai!!🙏APKA DHANYAVAAD BHAIA❤LOVE YU🙏❤

[@mandeep3848]

Idk why but having deep platonic friendships between opposite genders is not some people's cup of tea. Just an opinion

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

To be able to put your penis aside and not let it rule your world is a thing every man must learn to do at some point of his life to become successful, mature, and wise. Otherwise, you might become successful, but there will serious deficits in the other two.

[@abhaykumawat195]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 😊

[@Anonymous-st3gy]

This is true but you have to conquer it

[@hafeezhmha]

Its not that having platonic relationships is not possible. It just that having platonic relationship JUST for the sake of it is not possible. I have had more female friends in my life than male friends. Its all about finding commonalities and friendships are sustainable only then. Have clear boundaries and clear intentions. Don't be desperate. Be as you are with male friends but more empathetic, gentle and light headed.

[@mandeep3848]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 I can't agree more on that. But bhai that's why I used the term 'deep platonic friendship' having common grounds, interests, actions, thinking patterns etc are very rare to be matched.

[@ONE.an.c]

12:15 - Loved this part. "Meaning of life" When I'd get old and I can say to myself "I'm proud of my life. No matter how grainy the situation was, I did not betray my value system. I did not make that cheap choice."

[@Faisal0512]

I don't have a female friend from my childhood till now .

[@sarthaksharma7668]

Uh... I completely agree with this guy's opinion. He's absolutely correct. But there are multiple layers to this thing. That girl who wants connections and networks , in reality she's not looking for friends, she's looking for acquitances. Only steps to climb up the ladder , nothing more. Now, I'm not saying that she did this. But from my personal experience, I've seen many MANY girls using their persuasive, manipulative and flirtation skills in order to achieve their desired outcome and once it is achieved, they don't want anything to do with the person. There's a whole psychological phenomena going on there known as rewarding friendship. Secondly, every relationship, be it friendship or a romantic relationship or any other kind of relationship, it's based on give and take, you need to give something to get something. She expects these guys to give her information, to provide her connections on a silver platter, what does she give in this scenario ? NOTHING! she believes her putting her time into the guy just for her personal gain is enough. Isn't it a form of entitlement? You're thinking your time is worth equal to the connections that guy will provide. First increase your value, learn something that you can give in return. You'll get those acquitances. And boys, stop thinking from your penis. You need to add value to yourself in order to get a girl to even be vaguely interested in you. Ciao~

[@nchl5340]

Listening to videos like these... I feel really sorry for people who cannot find a stable footing in friendship. when it comes to friends, regardless of gender, I have been extremely fortunate -- decency wise and intellect wise. Though two of my close buddies are basically f*k boys who sleep around, they never crossed the line with me or any girl in our gang.

[@shailendrasingh6265]

lol....those are your friends. beware

[@trueword4971]

Keep distance.

[@pluviophile5996]

Cool

[@amitjose3739]

@@shailendrasingh6265 as weird as it sounds theyre the ones who would not cross the line. They have an abundance of women they wont waste time with the ones who they have no interest in or with girls things wont work out with. They stay in "line" not coz theyre afraid of hurting anyones feelings but because they dont need to chase women that much.

[@shailendrasingh6265]

@@amitjose3739 lol what a logic.

[@faizalam8362]

I can proudly say that... in the current stage of my life I'm mature enough to distinguish between these things..... and focusing on myself rather than these bullshit. Aaj kal ke ladke toh ladkiyon ne jarah sa Hi, hello kya karliya phail jaate hai londe bilkul khud ki or saamne waale ki respect naam ki chiz hi nhi hai jeyse hadd hai!!

[@lakshyakumar1757]

I also fell in love with a girl who were my friend bt after some days I realised that I'm doing wrong bcoz woh muje sirf dost smjhti thi aur mein pta ni uske bare me kya kya sochta rehta tha. I fall in love with her when I saw her first time and she's is the first girl in my life who was special for me. agr me usko apni feelings bta deta toh mein yeh baat acche se janta tha ki she will never accept me and mujse hurt ho jati jo mein bilkul nhi chahta tha, apne se jyda always uske bare me socha h. bata toh skta nhi tha or frnd banke bhi ni reh skta tha toh I finally decided ki I will go away from her life and never try to talk to her in life. aisa koi single day nhi gaya abhi tak jab mene usko yaad na kiya ho she will stay forever in my heart bcoz I love her yes I do.. 😭💔

[@submatic1571]

Shwetabh bhai iss topic par dono taraf ke views hone chahiye mujhe relationships mein interest nahi hai mein girls se intellectual, deep aur society ke baare mein jab bhi baat karta hu vo ladkiya mujhe sweet ya sahi bolu to meetha samjhti hai yeh jo aaj problem aayi hai usme jo ladki hai vo one in a 1000 wala case hai

[@noleshkumar27]

5:34 I think he learnt this from Prakhar

[@realavdhut]

🙂

[@npric2883]

hahahaha i was about to comment this

[@felix12453]

Kinda felt SG went off topic at the end, not really complaining... It IS resourceful. As a guy I sometimes tend to simp girls but i withdraw quickly thinking I'm being cringe...

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

Well, the video is for girls, not guys. The 3 strikes, don't entertain flirting, and don't compromize on your values are pretty much the advice. I am happy you regulate the simping -- that's all you need. Test the waters, if it ain't working, pivot and respect their wishes. Develop a good human relationship. Not everything has to be sexual or romantic. There are amazing people a lot of guys miss out on because they can't help but push it to a romantic place. 8 billion people. Focus on building relationships, networks, be curious about people, invest in their stories, and the magic of relationships, romance will happen as an outcome. But if you simp, women will automatically not stick around because it is self deprecating and creepy.

[@rajeshthorve4629]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 thanks for such an amazing perspective

[@felixtownn]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 Well said. :)

[@mohdshadan1299]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 Shwetab bhai You didn't explain about, what if that Male Friend has some genuine and true feelings to be with the girl. And wants to keep that company for life as a life partner and afraid of losing her when feelings arises and are very strong. And if that guy is a good person, then why not to give him A chance, then setting boundaries at this stage is also good thing, but how to tell her to consider the guy, if feeling are strong and then cutting him off can cause him moving on, which can ruin the time of 2 to 3 years of that Male friend in Moving on, what if that girl became his inspiration, wo to atak jayega phir. Please also took the side from the male perspective

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

@@mohdshadan1299 I think if the attraction towards her is intellectual.. And not just physical... If u like her as a person... U should definitely approach her.. If ur intensions are good for her. . U just don't want to use her but make a good life... Plz go ahead... I think the girl would be really lucky if she could find a person who loves her personality and loves her from within and not just physically attracted...

[@TheLuciferHill]

*14:12** Indirectly "Acharya Prashant" Pe Prahaar ... 👌😂👍 👌🤣👍*

[@ajaymethani9802]

Bhai what a explanation fadu 100% related to everyone!!

[@richa2678]

Same problem it's very pathetic in professional places if m behaving sweet , guys start flirting and approaching now I am that much fedup that m becoming so rude to guys and hate when someone even gives me compliment.

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Didi, sirf unhi ladko se dosti Karo jinke pehle se girlfriend hain.

[@rabimsah3241]

​@@debanikgoswami4834 ye sahi hai..😂😂 lekin unse phir attention nhi milega naa

[@AbhaSoni-x1x]

@@debanikgoswami4834 vo guys still flirt karengee because it's her fault vo baat hi kyun kr rhi hain. kar rahi it means she is asking for it

[@061_arsh]

15:00 thank you so much for this. this last part about life's abundant opportunities trumping the vehem of ki kuch nahi milega. seneca : "dont't trouble yourself by thinking about your whole life at once."

[@tanishqjadhav3813]

Is it just me or did anyone realised that shwetabh sir merged two videos in one 😂

[@ddm1912]

Yes, he uploaded the last six minutes of this video as a separate video.

[@akashdutta7191]

Ya ..I feel like deja vu.. bcz he said the exact words in another vdo.🫠

[@unknown_aspirant_0123]

Bilkul ki hai 👍 , but i think ye poora video tha , or pehle wala video iski clip .

[@dr.jaideep112]

Han bhai 😂😂😂😂,

[@dr.jaideep112]

Jab action kiya naa shwetabh ne 11:37 pe tab pta chla 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ManishKrSingh-ov3oe]

Nowadays I feel k kitna difficult h mature n constructive, values based likes rkhne walo aur sath me growth n evolution ko pursue krne wale partner ko dhundhna. Ya to koi hme values based insan i mean gf nhi mil rha ya jo rha usme ye wo batein nhi h, unki bs upr upr ochhi batein hi unki pasand jo hme chahiye nhi. Is chij ko kaise explore kre kya perspective rkhe jb hm already time constraint wale phase me h

[@suvoranjanbanerjee4808]

I'm now 21+ and don't have that much experience about life and these things. But it always seems like those fake people who have no values, ethics literally nothing are happier in their lives. Why most of the time the persons who are real end up alone for some kind of values and other things , it just frustrates me that why people like fake people more than real one.

[@ManishKrSingh-ov3oe]

Just bcoz they respect values of themselves n others too so they never dare to play with it. So its ok to be alone bt they r certainly not lonely. They took more time to find that valuable company bt they don't compromise their value as Shwetabh said about complete man's feelings n his choices made before.

[@arpandas8296]

Both of them are not conscious.... that's why they fall for each other....that doesn't mean they are happier or doing great in life. They may look happy from outside but gonna get fucked in the long run. That's why it is said that don't compare with others... focus on your own life... story is different for everyone.

[@naman27001]

Sabke chehre ek time k baad saamne aate h.. fake people try very hard to maintain their image while real people don't bother about their image much..fake people due to their so called image get pleased by people around them but in the long run they will not get anyone who love them.. because love requires intimacy but since they have to save their image they can't be truthful with anyone. So here real people win the game.

[@suvoranjanbanerjee4808]

Thanks guys to make my belief in these things stronger...❤️

[@naman27001]

@@suvoranjanbanerjee4808 anytime!

[@X33R0]

Thanks man for addressing this.

[@Gagan12550]

Thankfully that's not a problem with me i have a lot of female friend , i only approach them as friends nothing more

[@felixtownn]

I'm sure that they appreciate you.

[@IamXenorex]

Arey Gagan bhai tum idhar????

[@shivanshmehra3365]

@@DivyankKaushik L

[@IamXenorex]

@@shivanshmehra3365 ‎

[@absolutepatil]

Most Powerful Line : Agar wo Person Thik nahi Lage , Toh Kat lo , Duniya mein 8 billion Log Hai , Dont give a fuck about that person

[@shubhmishra66]

Boys let me save your time. Don't waste your time in friendzone, try for sometime and leave immediately once it's clear and don't ever turn back! No matter what anyone says, do this for your better mental health.

[@ronnieketchum1241]

I'm a boy. And a single child. There are some girls from my childhood who're basically the closest thing to a sister as one can have. I never had these feelings for them. Ever. I think it's a mindset problem. If all your society does is say, "boys and girls cannot be platonic friends" then that's what you're gonna believe, isn't it.

[@nikhilKumar-rs5zp]

I am 21 but I don't have any female friend in my all life , and now I am in final year of college , still i haven't any friend or girlfriend

[@madhavconsistent2353]

Kyu chayiye vaise bhi koi female friend?

[@nikhilKumar-rs5zp]

@@madhavconsistent2353 bro mujhe chahiye hi nhi , meri life koi female friend nhi hai kyuki mai nhi chahta 😂

[@madhavconsistent2353]

@@nikhilKumar-rs5zp lekin khudai to chaiye na Bhai 🌚.. Iss Age me control karna mushkil hota hai.

[@Aryan-wl7mc]

@@madhavconsistent2353 😂🤣😂

[@rohitnayak9952]

Auntyoko patalo bhai🤭

[@AftabAlam-ef8ur]

Satya,Prem,Gyan, Fact. Acharaya Prashant.😇

[@Aiwiwna]

I cried when I was watching this video because I am only the one zhaatu who wants that girl even after rejection, she drew boundaries but I only tried for a relationship. She want me as a friend but I cannot kill feelings for her yaar🥺 I love you V❤️

[@saurabhkale5042]

I understood it. Same here. But we should stay away from those girls in such case and cry on our own cause nobody cares.

[@Aiwiwna]

@@saurabhkale5042 but bro she is my class mate and we have to spend 1.5 more year together till my 10th class 😩

[@saurabhkale5042]

@@Aiwiwna its better than being a colleague in same office. And you are too young if you’re in still 10th. Means you have a lot of time and place to find a new one. So think this way

[@Aiwiwna]

@@saurabhkale5042 I understand your pain bro ❤️ From how many years you know her

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Bro aur bhi ladkiyo ke saath baat chit karo. Unke saaath ghumo ,fb pe pic upload karo😁 . Phir dekho Kamal .

[@krishnakale2200]

17:00 this line hit really hard💥💥💥 Thanx man!!!

[@Anomander5622]

As an attractive guy who is also very introverted I have experienced the reverse happening with me. All the girls who appeoached me for friendship ended up having some sort of romantic feeling. I wont deny That I enjoy it but I don't really feel a need to have a " female" friend because it just isnt as fun as with a guy friend

[@womenwithwings6106]

Bhaiya thanks for addressing this problem because jitne bhi channels hain woh iss topic ko jyada touch hi nhi karte.

[@debanikgoswami4834]

That's why I only make friends with girls I don't find attractive enough 😁.

[@kalpparashar5017]

Also rarely there are girls available who are into intelectual and deep talks. Not in denial and not demeaning at all but that's 100% true

[@deadbutworking]

@@godson200 if all you see is one type of person all around you then you need to change your surrounding.

[@godson200]

@@deadbutworking bro.. the world is full of similar thinking people We live in a society. And how the society thinks, the people think the same way. Rarely anyone applies their own brain. This is exactly what shwetabh was talking about. Nobody really knows how to think. Rarely chalo 1-2% log hai but majority are always sailing in the same boat. And I'm talking about all kinds of experiences I've seen. 10-12 years kids wala relationship. 16-20 years teenage wala relationship. 25-30 relationship. Jitna mene notice kiya hai real life mein, it's always the same patterns and the same problems. Haa 25-30 wale phase m majority people atleast become mature in that aspect. But till age of 25 jitne bhi logo ko relationship m dekha h sab bekaar they, and materialism ke piche hi bhaag rahe they.

[@deadbutworking]

@@godson200 if you think you have more brains than the majority of materialistic people in shallow relationships then make your own league. Just like you think you're seeing the light there's a girl on the other side who thinks she doesn't fit in as well. Kinda makes your life easier since you know how to weed out those people who ll waste your time.. all the best

[@godson200]

@@deadbutworking now that you say about it.. yeah i did find that girl. And yeah we figured things out. My main problem is Indians, and humans in general are filled with mediocrity

[@deadbutworking]

@@godson200 yeah man. Mediocrity by definition is common to come across. Kudos to you for finding your girl :)

[@shubham_M7777]

2:35 true, True The thing is there are bhaynkr attraction and desperation in boy's. Girl Agr smile kre dekhe phir bhi londe pagal Ho jate h... 1 ladki pane ke liye 2-3 bnde khade Ho jate h. Even they are married and beautiful. That's why Girls took advantage of it.

[@trueword4971]

Ladko ko bollywood aur social media ne kutta bana diya

[@NitinSingh-ll3pd]

- thanks shewtabh bhai............. - internet is beautiful if you use it correctly - bhai 2 saal se upar ho gaye hai aur jab tak nibha paunga ka saath tabh tak nibhunga saath ...............koshish yahi raehgi ki anth tak saath chale - thanks shewtabh for all the wisdom that you given to us

[@Kiith.69]

So there is one of my female friend ! I am her only male best friend she have many friends but she is fully open and i am her first priority as she is single,. But fron the past few months things are getting complicated! Like she will sometine talk with me like she want me and sometime be like "mere shaadi mai jarur aana "! and thats the reason we are getting through rough situations rn! Ek dusre ko block karne ke baad bhi raha nhi jata and we start talking eventually! Its been 7+ years of our friendship !I don't know what to do now! Somebody help!

[@rashmii_kashyap02]

Sir selection of your topic is superb ☺️ its ok aisa i think kafi logon ke sath hota hoga , but galti unki v ni hai..hamari society hi aisi hai... thoda time lagega isse change mein , ek insaan kuch life experiences ke baad hi mature hota hai (it applies to both girls & boys)☺☺☺☺☺ so chill and relax experience and mistakes makes you a better person😄😄☺☺

[@rabimsah3241]

What a balanced approach

[@rashmii_kashyap02]

@@rabimsah3241 thankyou 😃

[@anshmittal3098]

Its not going to change Girls ladko ki dost ban sakti hai par ladko ke saath ye case hi alag hai Ladke lafkio ke samane alag dikhaye hai aur apne ladko dost ke samne alag Kuch ladke bas sex ke bhuke hai aur kuch ladke comfort ke Ladko ko ladkio jitna opposite sex se attention nahi milta excpet some chads islia jab milta hai voh desperate ho jaate hai kioki unke dimaag me rehta hai abhi nahi propose kia toh jindagi bhar single raha jaunga Its also because mostly man have to propose

[@rashmii_kashyap02]

@@anshmittal3098 ho sakta ansh apki baat sach ho..aisa hota ho but Apko uska reason janana hoga...bcz yahan India mein girls boys ki interaction kam ....and mostly jo hai woh sare new Generation Wale hein ...jo dosti relationship etc yeh SB krte hein.....but dekha jae toh girls ki population kam h..yeah true opposite gender attraction hoti h....aisa isliye hota h..shyd unki life mein kvi koi female friend na rahi ho 😯 society v kahi na kahi iske liye responsible hai....aur ladkiayan v propose krti Hein aur reject v hoti hein...i am one of them 😑

[@anshuraj5734]

@@anshmittal3098 not necessary dude. Mera khud ka ek dost hai jiski 4-5 achchhi female friends hain, aur wo itni achchhi friends hain ki wo apne bhasad ka sabse pehla solution isi se maangti hain(wo unse halaki nahin maangta hai), they call him anything and so does he. Toh hote hain aise ladke. Aur mera kehna hai ki agar nahin rakh sakte ho Sirf friendship tak cheezon ko toh dosti hi mat karo, this is the mantra that I follow. Hum baat hi nahin karte hain ladki log se.

[@rahulcharan4973]

If she starts flirting and eventually gives singnals and when i proposed her she told that i was just checking urs character becoz u r my friend. After this i felt very bad even cant eat food at some movement. She wanted to continue friendship but i doesn't think i will be long-lasting. Now what should i do 😔 please tell somebody..

[@anshgupta6986]

I’ll tell you what, I ignore girls these days they are attracted towards me. The more you work on yourself, the more girls you’ll attract, it’s simple. I recommend you all to read “Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene!

[@ayushrathore5529]

Can you elaborate about "art of seduction".

[@anshgupta6986]

@@ayushrathore5529 I would recommend you to read it whole heartedly. But in short this books talks about- “ignoring people(girls for us) and working on yourself will attract the others towards you, people with ambition/vision to do something in life develop natural seductive ability.

[@RAJJU24]

@@ayushrathore5529 hamza's recent 'how to attract ____' videos are literally based on this topic Not the book but the thing which @Ansh Gupta is talking about

[@LostinMango]

@@anshgupta6986 chup bsdk tuje kisne attention nahi diyaa hahaha juta bolna bnda kara tere gaand mae monster ghusa jayega

[@anshgupta6986]

@@ayushrathore5529 Amazon

[@AKJYama]

This is a must 💯video for all the boys or men's, this needs to be understand, Thanks shwetabh bhai for video on this topic 🙏🏻👍🏻

[@jai6954]

i think we need to be more mature to handle that friendship, from both side. cause things sometimes flow so easily that anyside pick that up for signal or more than friendship. so i think instead of calling bro and sis to each other ( to make sure we are just friends). we need to be more clear in our own mind, that would be more helpful not only in friendship but with other also. if your intention are clear you will automatically not cross that line , but if you are just using friendship as a tool to get her or him on bed ( or ore than friend) and she/he didn't know that, than things will go really messy . so be sure of yourself than proceed.

[@nayanabhsarma4439]

Shwetabh do make a video on NETWORKING? How to do NETWORKING? How to build relationship with people? And how to maintain that for the long term?

[@sumitsinghrajput9096]

Indeed it's a problem but it doesn't make all girls innocent, so many girls also use the boys until their job/work is done by taking advantages of his feelings. And when the job is done after using him. They will say "Ohh, I just wanted a friendship" But never ever even fullfill the duties of being a friend. They will become friend with someone who is smarter than them and also when they need something. So, at the beginning, whoever faces this problem, just set your boundaries as well. People also know that it's a mostly girl who losses interest even in relationship. Girls also do these flirting and friendship things to get close to a guy, whom in they are initially interested. But, after completely knowing them, suddenly their interest go somewhere. So the conclusion is that both sides face problem.

[@AKJYama]

One thing I want to add here, I am a men and I don't see every women or girl same(romanticaly or want any relationship) out there, I also want to build my network and majorly mens are in my network, whenever I try to start conversation or interact with a girl(a girl who is outside of my network or less known to me) to actually know about their experiences or from their learning, majority of girls thinks I wanted to date them or I am interested in them.I know the reason is the boys or mens have made this environment that their(womens) thinking also became like this.

[@Goldenfly737]

i think ur attractive thats why

[@Bharatiy_175]

He'll sir I am in 12th and no one is my permanent freind no female friend trust me even I am trusted... everyone use me I can't say No . And I am Diwyang also. I am little kind of sigma also . And my main problem is trust Plz help me

[@rajkittur1998]

Yes it takes time to understand and realise, why it happens every time with a guy and maybe some steps back from getting into any kind of shitty conversation or else does the same thing that most of them are doing, and those who want to be a good friend with a girl or any women, have to set boundaries for themselves in order to prevent any kind of self-harm (emotionally, mentally, etc.) Think a lot while typing or writing some messages or also physically when you're present in a crowd or at any place. Small things are difficult to get controlled.

[@seemranhoro]

It's hard to be friends with male cuz they don't have boundaries for themselves

[@FactsfactoryFQ]

@@seemranhoro coz they are interested in hitting Six lol😂 JK

[@seemranhoro]

@@FactsfactoryFQ choke chake mar ke kuch nhi hote aise londe ke kuch nhi ho sakta. Padh likh ke kuch Bano bhaiye lekin nhi inhe toh bass ek hi goal dikhta hai 😂😂

[@FactsfactoryFQ]

@@seemranhoro 😂

[@chayanshulalwani1613]

This guy is really the Top G

[@vikasbiliye5023]

Nah andrew tate is the real top g. Swetabh just became a sell out by converting the channel from male empowermemt to a female channel just for views.

[@rohitpinspire4545]

Each and every word has be motivated 🔥🔥

[@Bewhatuuwannabe]

I'm not even trying to talk girls nor guys i don't have a ego problem but it's like i don't need to or i don't wanna forced myself that's it .

[@anmolsrivastava1206]

Sach me , Shwetabh sir is the hero we need and we deserve,because sab ko zindagi me sahi karne ka mauka milna chahiye. great video 🙏🙏🙏

[@Anindita_Nath26]

Sir ... Chote shahar mai aur gaon Mai yeh aur bhi bada problem hai . Men khud se akar baat karenge ya kabhi kaam ke silsile Mai agar hum ladkiya unse baat karle to hasi mazak bilkul nehi kar sakte. Humesha strictly concious rehna padta hai. Nehi to flirt karenge aur phir we say "no" & ignore karte hai to kuch ladke/admi to ulta ego pe leke humko hi badnam karne lagte hai. But sab ladke aise nehi hai.. and I am thankful to God for that

[@android_dev404]

what do you mean by "Ignore krte"? That's kinda hard for me to understand, like do you say "hi" on their face and they just pretend like you don't exist or something?🗿

[@Anindita_Nath26]

I meant to say that when they start flirting then we say no and we ignore those men... & Then their ego gets hurt .

[@android_dev404]

@@Anindita_Nath26 Saying "no" then immediately starting to ignore them, ain't that a bit harsh? Even Shwetabh adviced to give 3 warnings then block the person. Anyways its your life your boundaries who am i to judge. I'm sure whatever you do must be right from your perspective.

[@Anindita_Nath26]

@@android_dev404 If a single man approaches a woman with respect and proposes.. then the woman or girl can say 'yes' or 'no' politely and then try to politely say no to them and follow the steps advised by Shwetabh sir. But the men who are married and have family life.. if they flirt with disrespect then how can we not ignore them? & Some men just do it for fun .. they are single but they are straight away disrespectful. Bro.. if a married woman approaches you in a flirtatious way or even if a single girl just flirts with you disrespectfully & wants just a temporary relationship & talks about you in a derogatory way with her friends behind your back & her friends laugh at you when they see you...can you still talk nicely with such a woman or a girl? Jaha jaha ignore karne se kam chal jata hai mai ignore karti hu. Jaha mere senior post ka aisa koi ho jisko ignore nehi kar skte waha politely bolti hu..but hurt hoti hu.. q k wo humara mazak banate hai 🥺 it's hard.

[@android_dev404]

@@Anindita_Nath26 Seems like you are more mature than the most married men around you. I agree it's creepy as hell if a married man is flirting with you. On top of that making fun of x just because they were rejected by x is just egoistic and immature. If they are married then they shouldn't have flirted or proposed to someone in the first place.

[@juszthumancrap]

thanks for such perspective I faced same issue while college and corporate life and honestly i never flirted with any of them ,I am just nice and respectful to every and each person ,i respect knowledge and intelligent person like to talk about my perspectives on my career ,politics and environments but those idiot just go to dead end of flirting ,I am introvert and below average looking girl and never approached any of them Now I don't talk to any boy other then its needed and I almost call all boys or men bhaiya or bhai eventually Desi lage to lage mereko farak nhi padta

[@preetitrivedi9791]

Muj agr mri life m kisi ki bat smj ati h to sirf shwetab hi h ... thank you so much sir..aj mri ek bot bdi problem ka solution Mila h... grateful

[@harshpatel105]

Kya likh rahi ho bahen, thik se likho, English ka egls kar dia

[@Rock-pr7ps]

@@harshpatel105 andha hai kya

[@Ghost-pu4yj]

Am an average guy and girls have never approached but I have mentally become so strong that whenever I see female being I just ignore IT .

[@ashwinnair0711]

Correct me if I'm wrong because It's just my opinion. I think most men don't look for a friend in women , they look for a partner or a companion in a woman .

[@ashwinnair0711]

@@rijfd and what is that ?

[@harishnetam502]

True that

[@luvguru8033]

The only 'girl' friend i ever had , she was dating someone's when i made friends with her, and it was fine with me cuz i was only interested in her as a friend , but then she broke up with him and after a year or two she proposed to me saying that she had very deep feelings for me I was like LOL , though she is very attractive, and i might even be physically attracted to her but I didn't have feelings so i declined, we were friends on and off for 2 years after and she even tried dating a few PPL but then confessed to me that she can't moveon and ended the friendship, it's just the way it is, a long term opposite gender friendship can always lead to one person developing feelings if they see the other as a viable dependable partner ,and by being close friends u can makeout whether they would be good relationship prospects or not

[@athenababy]

Dude i had such an amazing guy friend, we were like besties. I used to feel so comfortable around him. But one day he proposed. I was shattered! I never had such feelings for him so i politely told him that i love you as my friend only...he literally stopped talking to me after that. wtf man. I never flirted with him or anything.

[@trueword4971]

Maybe you are the first girl he shared his feelings openly. I know many guys who even never talk to any girl as friends even they are 20yrs old. They just do hi when any girl say them hi.

[@amitjose3739]

theres nothing wrong with what happened he confessed his feelings to you, you didnt feel the same he moved on. It sucks that friendship had to stop, but thats the boundary he had to set for his mental wellbeing.

[@soakedlemons9990]

@@amitjose3739that's a wise response right there, mate!

[@amitjose3739]

@@soakedlemons9990 thanks mate.

[@Myviwes-e7y]

As Ur expecting that he should understand Ur feelings then u should also understand his ..he proposed u but u said no he respected ur decision and got apart u should also respect the decision that he has taken ..why Ur saying wtf ??

[@arnavsrivastava4018]

What about when when girls check out men ? Don't they feel he may get uncomfortable or do they take it for granted ?

[@halocraze9839]

Lol it would be the best part of his day

[@tejassharma_raudra_hutabuk]

@@halocraze9839 who told u that buddy,most of time when girls approachs me it's for very shitty things which don't appreciate don't know they are acting dumb or they are dumb

[@VaibhavPuranik007]

Agar dosti or networking hi karni hai to satisfied laundo se karo single laundo se nahi.

[@HimanshuSingh-jc5qy]

Bhai ke liye dil se salam .🙏

[@milendrashrimali332]

Make a vid on....from male point of view...who are not pleasent to be with but till we get to know them we've became frnds....and now they are being possesive

[@TheInvisibleLady-2]

Shwetabh ji, aap kabhi ladkiyo ke perspective se bhi video banaya kare

[@sachinsarkate1137]

Firstly, boys hardly talk to girls that seem unattractive to them. As many as female friends I've ever had, I found them attractive. So you are already dropping the chance by 50%. Secondly, most of the boys most of the time are single. So you desperately need someone to rely. I remember I was hitting on one of my friends when I was single. But once you find someone you don't do that. Again with my first point that , when you are a friend with someone you find attractive is by chance in a relationship or falling for someone, you feel terribly jealous. And you end up screwing things.At some point you feel like that girl is just using you and you getting nothing in return. She also has a best friend apart from the bf who gets everything and one day that guy becomes new bf. But you just watch it from a distance. And by chance, if there's a girl you find unattractive and she is your friend, you just fucking don't give her time at all. So there's no chance of sharing knowledge. You're always busy to hit someone 😂😂 I can't explain anymore, this is how it's been for me at least. I would say, you compulsory have to have a gf before making a female friend.

[@lifeisnotfiction6175]

😂😂😂😂so true

[@1_RITIK_1]

I have female friends whom I find unattractive but still they are very close. So I think it depends from individual to individual, just like not every girl is same, the same way even not every boy is same.

[@Aryan-wl7mc]

Lmao 😂🤣

[@lifeisnotfiction6175]

@@1_RITIK_1 did you have gf already?

[@1_RITIK_1]

@@lifeisnotfiction6175 Nope, I wasn't in a relationship when I first met those girls. Yes, being friends with attractive girls feels good, but if I find someone unattractive and start losing interest, I remind myself why did I become a friend at the first place, not for beauty but for bonding.

[@ANILYADAV-kz5ot]

Very few boys and girls are clear about their prospective Set the boundaries if someone cross the line clearly told that but those who flirt with her might be their personal and selfish reason but morality and ethics are important , girls don't gives mixed singles clarity is important

[@debanikgoswami4834]

I have no problem making female friends as long as I don't her attractive enough.

[@RAportal111]

Okay so when I was in 12th standard there was a guy in my class who was freind with my benchmate at first I hated him for the way he'll argue with teachers and disrespect them and the way he used to flirt with every other girl of school but because of my benchmate I started talking with him a bit. My benchmate used to call him bhaiya so I also startes calling him XYZ BHAIYA. His behavior towards me was exactly different from what I asumed so I thought that maybe I misjudged him. Then after few months we came good friends but still not so close. Then suddenly I fall sick and didn't came scholl for almost 15 days and then when I went there he came to me and said WHERE WERE YOU YOU KNOW HOW WORRIED I WAS ATLEAST YOU COULD HAVE TOLD ME THAT YOU ARE SICK OR YOU ARE NOT GOING TO COME TO SCHOOL. I know for some people this can be normal but for someone like me who never ever talk with anyone this was so much. I felt so uncomfortable with the way se said that so I confronted him and said that I was sick but I'm sorry if you don't mind but I didn't felt good the way you said all these things to me then he apologize and said he didn't mean it. After that day I started distancing myself from him because I got to know that behind my back he told all his friends that he likes and and soon he'll propose me and he even said that I like him too and I'll become his girlfriend. After knowing this I never ever talked with him till now even now he sends me following requests on social media but I didn't accepted it. He was the only guy freind I had with whom I used to talk a bit not even alot but still he made me so uncomfortable that I had to break our friendship. And I also had the same thought that why a guy can't be just a friend. If a girl is feeling comfortable with him and is ready to talk with him then why they have to make them uncomfortable even after warning.

[@trueword4971]

Don't give boys too much attention. Just talk to them, how much needed. If they are making excuses to talk to you like practical or assignment. Don't reply them quick messages. If it's evening then reply them next day morning lately in one or two words. Or Don't reply

[@RAportal111]

@@trueword4971 bro i literally don't even have my female friends contacts to reply them how am I suppose to reply guy freinds 💀and about attention didn't I already mentioned that we were not close and after knowing his intention I distant myself from him BUT THANKS FOR ADVICE 🙏

[@sidhkon8543]

@@RAportal111 it's advise for future. Especially many boys don't know how to talk to girls if you pass smile to them they think very happy in their mind. Even I have seen many boys who have never talked to any girl.

[@debanikgoswami4834]

​@@RAportal111 Sis, only be friends with a guy who has a girlfriend.

[@ShavetaSharma13]

Love you shwetabh bhaiya 💜