Shy Girl Stopped Being Nice |

A shy girl, who always battled with her lack of confidence, was stuck in a toxic relationship with her boyfriend. However, their anniversary dinner at a restaurant made everything worse! First, he passed gas as a joke, and then he didn't even bother buying her a gift to celebrate the occasion. That was the last straw for the girl, who developed enough courage to stand up for herself right there and then! She broke free from him and his toxic grip, but did her journey continue at her workplace? Did she embrace her inner strength and stayed in the path of self-love?
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[@DramatizeMe]

Is being a people pleaser a red flag?

[@neddyconstant5816]

Yes it is. I saw a episode of Tales of The Crypt that there was A nerd character who was a Peoples please the only friend he Had was a made up friend he could See but towards the end his character was a jerk. Time 5:46PM Wed 9/20/23

[@JadennN882]

Yes it is,if it is to showoff or for fame.

[@Mr12tom1234]

Yes and no. Being mean isn't good but being too nice isn't good either, there has to be a balance.

[@sharptoothtrex4486]

More like my 1990 summer job restaurant workers ripped me off for not paying me the money even up to one month after I quit the job. Talk about a bunch of rotten restaurant scammers and swindlers! Why would I want to work in a restaurant when I am better off working at Woolco or Zellers in 1990?

[@sambamurthy999]

No As long as one dont loose self respect n own freedom...n take advantage of it..

[@simranjeetsingh1755]

We're being told from childhood to be nice and good, To agree and not to disappoint someone. But maturity is when you realise that being nice got you nothing but people taking you for granted, You don't disappoint someone but people always disappoint you, Being nice is a curse, I've experienced it too...😊 Always love & stand for yourself first😅😅

[@queerantine69]

There is nothing wrong with being nice and doing things for others but the intention behind it and learning self respect is what is important because I feel the same way

[@DramatizeMe]

We all have the right to be treated with education, respect and consideration, @simranjeetsingh1755 👋🙂 We too should feel satisfaction in treating others well🤗 Maybe, in the end it all boils down to that🤔❤.

[@comecorrect1]

Yup my life was ruined being too nice so now I became a recluse until I move to another state.

[@harrisoncarranza41]

I'm never nice 😂😆 actually I have those good intentions to only my family and friends. Those outside don't. I have a radar that detects auras so I see whether or not to be nice or not. That's probably why I'm still single and have few friends bc it's common that ppl are taken advantage of for things. Me I stand my ground and evidently it scares off many meaning they're not worthy of the time I have.

[@durvanaik7012]

Being nice to people isn't wrong but don't let people take advantage of you

[@LadyL31786]

This is a classic example of being able to speak up for yourself when need be because if you don’t, then you’ll explode and people are going to walk over you. I too am a people pleaser and it’s hard for me to speak up for myself.

[@patl5604]

I have also been a people pleaser. Taken advantage of and not able to speak up for myself. I wish I would have because what this woman at my work did to me was verbal and emotional abuse. That made it a hostile work environment and I should have reported her. My point is that you have to be an advocate for yourself. No one can do it for you unless you also do the work of self-care.

[@banmanashah]

That is where you HAVE to Set Boundaries. Let people know that you mean Business. Otherwise, they’ll take you as a joke and not take you serious. And not give you the respect you desire.

[@banmanashah]

I used to be a people pleaser, until I learned to Stop giving a fvck about what people think or say about you. You’re only a people pleaser because you care about what they think about you and how they would feel about you. But you have to realize, who cares??? Stop giving a fvck. Snap out of it. Once you stop giving a fvck about what people think about you and how they feel about you, you will feel Free. You wouldn’t feel ashamed to lose people. Because it’s all part of learning in this cruel world. And you can’t trust everyone. If you’re friends with a lot of people, then you’re doing something Wrong. I could care less about having friends. I had to learn how to defend myself, how to stand up for myself. Cause I know No One would do it for me. You gotta face the reality and accept the fact that you Will lose people whether it’s family or friends. Family will be your worst enemy. That’s why the saying “Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer”. This is All from what I experienced in my life from being a people pleaser to snapping out of it.

[@youbelong2me]

SHE HAS THE BAD STOMACH?! Says the man who let one rip in the middle of a restaurant 🤣

[@zakihanif9286]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@browhyaregarfield]

HAHAHA REAL

[@shakakaperry6034]

Anxiety still haunts me everyday even when things go wrong

[@jeffreyconner2937]

Then you are the problem for letting it control you.

[@WideSmiles]

This is soo good. Self-confidence, self-esteem, and self worth needs to be recognised. When I decided to improve those things, the change I saw was superb

[@dianalayne4803]

You know everytime I see Alexandra I know this is going to be a great video ,she always play her roles so well and she took it to higher heights ,thanks as always you never disappoint

[@yamagata008]

I totally agree.

[@DramatizeMe]

We think you're absolutely right in what you think of Alexandra🤗 Thanks for saying so over here, @dianalayne4803😍❤

[@shadowx2652]

@@yamagata008 Same

[@oliviahope3728]

Good lesson all girls should learn… I’m working on becoming more confident so I am able to express what I want and not allow others to use me 💪🙌

[@DramatizeMe]

Keep it up @oliviahope3728!! 🙌❤️

[@imy1813]

LOL, this actress kind reminded me of myself 😂. Totally right ✋ EVERY girl should love herself so much that when she hear something wrong it becomes nonsense❤️

[@gracenzwili4989]

Wow that statement really touched me " I need to love and respect myself" I'm a really shy person and most times I've noticed I really let people take advantage of me but that is ending as from today. Thank you guys # Dramatize Me 💗💗

[@stevefreeman9265]

Alexandra just played her best role yet and great job to everyone in it also

[@marcellespencer124]

Alexandra, always plays good roles. 🇬🇧💕

[@yamagata008]

@@marcellespencer124 I agree.

[@DramatizeMe]

We're so glad you enjoyed Alexandra's performance and also that of the entire acting team, @stevefreeman9265🤗 Thanks for commenting😊👍

[@TheRivrPrncess]

This was very sweet and neat. The person who talked to Emily was actually who she was meant to be-the "real" person inside of her.

[@hinnaahussain4269]

No girl should have to put up with a jerk who tells her how to live her life Someone who is willing to accept for who u r and what u r is the perfect person for u

[@filmsensei]

This actress is just stunning. I love her in all of these!

[@Aruna_RamKumar]

Beautiful drama of battle between ego and alter ego. And who can do more justice to this than Ms. Alexandra. Love it

[@lilachesniak9687]

I love it when you take these stories outside the box.

[@AnastasiaIsabella]

You guys never disappoint us with your amazing creativity contents . Thank you .. Alexandra is brilliant in playing double roles too !!

[@justiceleagueteam8716]

I agree and she is great actress

[@yamagata008]

You always write so succinctly! It takes me a paragraph to write what you say in a sentence...

[@DramatizeMe]

Thank you so much for your kind words @AnastasiaIsabella! So glad you like our work ❤️

[@sleepwalker310]

Alexandra is so great. She plays her roles perfectly

[@bri-zy4ty]

Lol this is literally her higher self talking to her 😂 we all need them at some point in time in life ♥️

[@SpeedUpThatComputer]

Her shadow took control. This is why you shouldn't repress it but rather listen to it and learn. The shadow was teaching her that she needs to stand up for herself. The moment she did embrace it she actually ended up in a way better life. Shadow work tends to take years and a ton of self awareness and self forgiveness.

[@Animeguy300]

Sometimes being nice don't always bring peace but might go to other way

[@ScreenBlaster13]

Great performance from Alexandra. It seems her character Emily's personality changed for the better, it gave her more confidence and self-esteem.

[@sambamurthy999]

What a wonderful narration..circumstances are not bigger than u but ur bigger than circumstances..alexdndra nailed the role...lot of love from india..

[@rubyrose7858]

I wish I could talk to my higher self in a mirror 😊 it would be awesome and help me get over my low self esteem and quietness. xD

[@rainysunset2009]

Ngl, I can relate to this video(except for the schizophrenic personality)

[@dstar1166]

'What To Say When You Talk To Yourself' is a great book and might be of help 😊

[@bethmainagakunga4017]

This beautiful girl is a real actress..great video🎉❤

[@DramatizeMe]

It’s good to know you enjoy her acting, @bethmainagakunga4017. We appreciate it! 😊

[@aaronramos4178]

We can all agree... Alexandra is a top tier actress Pure cinema 🚬🗿

[@yamagata008]

There is an old saying, nice guys finish last. This episode very effectively shows this. What is amazing is that Alexandra Soroka plays a schizophrenic role of two personalities which is made so effective by make up and clothing and creative camera work. I always write that the Amomama make up people have to be the best, because of the high def cameras, but they when beyond in creating the two faces of Emily. And, the name shows the writers continue to name their characters aptly for the stories. Emily means laborious, earnest and eager -- all qualities of this character. Once she learns to exert herself, the world is her oyster. All the other actors are marvelous, as is the direction and the camera work. DramatizeMe, you continue to come out with videos with superior writing Thank you for continuing to entertain us with episodes that continue to change and push the boundaries. Outstanding Excellence!

[@yamagata008]

Alexandra really out did herself. This has to be the fourth time that I did not know that it was her in the role, because of her look and her acting. That is award winning acting and she continues to do this. This time it is even better in that she played two alternate versions of herself. This is a great actor! Also, Kudos to the actor that played Mr Brown. It is always great to see him in these positive, strong roles. The boyfriend character was well played by Mr young Russell Crowe. He was perfectly funny and I would not change a thing!

[@DramatizeMe]

Although we welcome positive comments (and non-positive ones too) with great attention, it is not always possible to read such a complete, well-argued and complimentary appreciation of our work as the one you have given us, @yamagata008😊 With those words you set the bar higher and higher, but we like challenges!👏👍

[@aminataceesay2772]

The main actress is super awesome, her acting skills are amazing. Congratulations team it’s yet again a master piece

[@claudiazanabria9783]

That’s how I have learned to value myself…speak up and stand for myself💪🏻and I know I can do better🙏Thank you DramatizeMe 🫶🏻Greetings from New York🤗

[@pauldm5222]

OMG! Alexandra is beautiful af with her straight hair.

[@annihilatedbutcomingback1119]

Can't say it enough yall just keep on changing things up...AND I LOVE IT🥰

[@yamagata008]

Thank you for writing this. You took the words right out of my mouth.

[@annihilatedbutcomingback1119]

@yamagata008 I really have seen this channel grow . Other channels get stuck on the same predictictive story line .... I'm proud of Gary and the team, I love every actor/ actress ❤️

[@rimzaa]

This is exactly what i should do. Yh i have to stand for my self ❤ thank you for this reminder ❤❤

[@DramatizeMe]

You got this @rimzaa! ❤️

[@TheRealMadamBlackWolf]

I will say this: Alexandra Soroka is ADORABLE! 🥰🥰🥰

[@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams]

I think that everyone else, including myself, has an alter ego. Like the shy woman, the confident self would help you overcome shyness...

[@DramatizeMe]

As long as that Alter Ego helps us to be better people, we think that theory is great, @Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams😊👍

[@zach7193]

Well, this is something else. Emily released her inner self.

[@paolotorres8537]

Her inner self represents everything she’s not-outgoing, mischievous, and beautiful

[@robbiescheid4127]

Great video that was a beautiful tale about the importance of having courage she was waiting for her life to take control of itself when she needs to take control of her life and that Spirit or whatever she is in the mirror was so awesome I wish I had a friend like her in my mirror

[@DramatizeMe]

Surely you do have it, in the mirror or in the back of your mind or soul, whichever you prefer,@robbiescheid4127😊 That other self will help you to be a better person🤗👍 every day.

[@mandeepsheera6272]

Brilliant video. Alexandra Soroka in another excellent role. How she overcame her shyness was just so beautiful to see. ❤❤❤

[@queerantine69]

This was really amazing and seeing Alexandra again made it twice as good❤ . People pleasing trily is draining

[@arleneromero8811]

So happy to watch you again Shasha. Big screen is where you belong too. an excellent actress❤️

[@FATIMA-by1hb]

Thank you DramatizeMe and your fabulous Team' headed by dear Gary. Love you all

[@dallasyap3064]

This video definitely got some creativity in the storytelling. Alexandra's acting in this one is much better. It's good to be nice, but it's also good to not let others constantly trample over u.

[@aliciasukati5600]

I just love her she is always good in every role ❤❤

[@GodFollower2409]

Always Treat people the same way you want to be treated🥰 Never Judge people without getting to know them first🥰 Love ya'll:)

[@sakaiahreign3365]

3:51 😂😂😂😂 When she called him fatty to Mr. Double I was so happy!

[@Menino3199]

Kevin james from Grown Ups 2

[@Forever-iz2dv]

This is amazing! Thank youuu!

[@danielamariafazio1091]

I admire this actress a lot, she is very professional and also espressive true beauty

[@rhondawalker2020]

This is great! I need to stick up for myself as well! Thanks!

[@Bymtip]

Yesss she's back .. I hv been missing this actress alot.. I think She's the best 👍💯 of Dramatize Love Buster.. Her voice her acting her style ❤❤❤

[@emmymorris7648]

Love that last conversation with her reflection in particular! My guest thought when I saw the title was, “There’s usually a reason we shy girls stop being nice!” Loved that she stood up for herself! 👏🏻👏🏻

[@strangelola]

Alexandra is so beautiful 😍 😍. She's the best!! 💙 She's been my fave DramatizeMe performer since the first vid I saw with her. She's extremely talented. Also, where do I get one of those encouraging reflexions? I could really use one xD.

[@djokorda]

I can't agree more that Mr Gary and team produced a lot of awesome videos with great casts! Soo natural deep down to the last minute! What a wonderful work! Greetings from Indonesia great people ✨❤

[@DramatizeMe]

Thank you, @JokoUmar. We're so glad you're part of our community 🤗👍

[@erickbuckner4485]

Confidence can help you overcome shyness

[@DramatizeMe]

Thanks to you, @erickbuckner4485, for sharing that important message 🤗🤗🤗

[@mrinalaniteotia6235]

I really got tears in my eyes... Such a self love depicted indirectly 💛💛🥂🥂

[@ameliawilson1053]

Amazing content, thank you for sharing these awesome videos with us all.

[@CCCYP]

What's up DramatizeMe guys? You figured out that we want more of Alexandra and you got her to play two roles in the same episode? You got it right! Cheers!

[@MaryLeslie-lu9ot]

Morning Gary and team that was lovely a change always makes a difference may you all enjoy a lovely day lots of love ♡♡♡♡

[@markkenneth505]

I died when he took the flower from the table 😂😂

[@yamagata008]

So did I!

[@Menino3199]

The part where he three things at once reminded me of Kevin James from Grown Ups 2

[@oliviam.5754]

When the guy say "Im not fatty" 😂

[@ameliawilson1053]

You guys never disappoint us with all of your magnificent videos.

[@DramatizeMe]

Dear @ameliawilson1053, thank you for your kind words❤🌹 Messages like these encourage us to keep going🤗

[@Anonymously_yoursupporter]

No they disappoint a lot With their unrealistic stories 😂 you really think bosses would react like this to public humiliation??

[@Anonymously_yoursupporter]

​@@DramatizeMegrow up

[@idontmatterr]

That man has no manners or remorse 🤦🏻‍♂️🗿🍷

[@user-pf3uw8oh9d]

This was such a great episode! One of the best!

[@DramatizeMe]

You r so kind @user-pf3uw8oh9d! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@chandrakanthakapuge5670]

Excellent plot. Highly dramatic. Great acting. Congratulations from Sri Lanka.

[@eugenelau3927]

She was on a date with her BF when he started to fart before sitting back down. Something in this shy girl stopped her being nice altogether, it was probably the darn BF's stinky and controlling attitude!! She met her reflection in the washroom, it was telling her to dump the jerk!!! She should dump Joe if he doesn't treat her like a queen, his ego was doing the talking and making him feel too superior everywhere he went!!! Resolutions will be out the window, Emily deserves so much better than him!!! Office should take action against him as precaution but they are making her do overtime for umpteenth time regarding week's work!!! Mr Brown is just as bad, HR will be on his case!!! Time to say bye-bye, pigs!!!

[@glynisseldon-vx9pl]

She's absolutely amazing,

[@loisawortwe6657]

Self love is the best ❤

[@Amipoojadas]

She is enchanting ❤

[@Sunflowercircle77]

LOVED this one!!!

[@1208MD]

This should be a series! LOVE EMILY!! ❤ Even if it's just a part 2!?!

[@errolthomas9426]

This story needs a part two with Joe trying to win back Emily's heart after her transformation as he turns into a great big loser

[@themaneidea]

This was a really good one!

[@chrisdavid4083]

I just love Alexandra soroka scens very much

[@louloua5252]

lovely topic!!! thx a lot

[@melanielawrence9757]

Amazing work as always dramatize me. I love your videos and awesome actors ❤❤❤

[@DramatizeMe]

Glad you liked it, @melanielawrence9757 🙂 Thanks for commenting! 🤗

[@pratilekhabhattacharya1257]

It's so touching for me actually. I have been having problems at work. Now i am thinking of applying for another job but this time i really want to do what i love. Since a teenager i had the dream to become a translator and a writter. I want to focus in it now. Thanks to my Mum i got the courage to persue this different path and disdain the financial problems for now. She inspires me saying "How could you be able to help me during my senior years if you don't know how to help yourownself at present?" So thank you @Dramatizeme for bringing such unique yet pragmatic concepts. ❤

[@DramatizeMe]

Go for it @pratilekhabhattacharya1257! Always believe in yourself ❤❤❤

[@pratilekhabhattacharya1257]

@@DramatizeMe thank you so much. It means a lot.❤ and best wishes to you guys to for your success in upcoming videos

[@Wen_hao_chuang]

I so love your videos. I watch every episode.👍👍👍

[@jesikebiking]

Alexandra's acting doesn't seem like acting = it seems like real emotion that's why I love her in these videos

[@elizabethleedy4386]

Very good portrayal!

[@benouzgane1929]

Be nice, though not too nice.

[@mauricesmithjr4050]

Where were you yesterday and Monday? You had me worried about you I'm not even upset but I'm just curious but I'm also glad to see you today

[@SSVianEra2004]

Most relatable story

[@madkittyjoey70]

Great video! Alexandra is such a a wonderful actress. 😊

[@ocean0158]

loveee this video!!!!!!!

[@user-ex4zx8rp2k]

Wow I watched this more than 5 times ❤ keep it up guys

[@Beun007]

That was a good one!

[@innovbrain]

I love Alexandra Soroka acting and her roles. I just believe that in real life, if you burst on your boss, even if you are working too hard and you are way too stressed, they'd rather ignore your anger and give you more tasks because they know they are benefiting from your extra work or they will fire you immediately because they don't want to be disrespected

[@phoenixcapricorn8702]

4:15 best scene of the video. She deserves more than just a rose

[@yaminisingh4076]

Wohoooo ❤❤ amazing as always ❤

[@DramatizeMe]

Thank you @yaminisingh4076!! 😊❤

[@bingchilindotnogo]

This is such creative work!

[@DramatizeMe]

We are very glad that you think so, because indeed, we try to make original stories and we put all our creativity to that end, @thegamingmartian1912👍🤗😊

[@aigi2gamer239]

Excellent job

[@AljunemonerPlayz]

I understand this feeling Being used and people stay me when they need something but if I need something to them they just gonna ignored me and pretending that I'm here

[@pamelajohnson9810]

Alexandra was so great I loves this channel you all never disappoint.😂😮😅❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@DramatizeMe]

Thanks for commenting @pamelajohnson9810! Glad to see you here ❤❤❤

[@clareobrien3265]

This would be even better as a full length movie

[@mydanny6523]

As a new subscriber i first time watch this episode, i really love it reminder for us always love, respect and priorities yourself first because once you did that , you become powerful than circumstances and peoples good lesson for us to not become people pleaser and take that power back👍

[@SaniyaKhan-wg1dl]

It is very important to love yourself and improve yourself for better version with the safest boundaries not too much high and not too much low btw amazing video which taught us to love ourselves

[@HanghuhKonyak]

OMG 😳 my reaction at the first part btw really enjoyed watching this video

[@JamesOberst-zr1zo]

Emily - Alexandra Soroka Joe - Vadim Lisyanoi Waitress - I don’t know Mr. Brown - Gennadiy Svitich

[@chrismc410]

Refuse to sign stuff like that. If they really want to fire you, they won't bother with "voluntary resignation forms". They'll just do it and try to defend themselves at a unemployment insurance phone call and/or trial. Another one experience has taught me. They know its not worth trying to defend at a phone hearing, let alone a proceeding via the bench or a jury. Its why.they try to ask you to quit or make you quit rather than fire as that requires explanations if unemployment is filed

[@high16200]

Hi DramatizeMe team, Alexandra Soroka is an amazing actress, she is so talented and very dedicated in all her roles she plays. she is just so amazing. This was a great plot with a great story and it kept me going until the end of this exciting video. I enjoyed watching greetings to all of you brothers and sisters on DramatizeMe.🙏🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓💓

[@mikebuncak1271]

I kind of want them to make a movie with all these great actors/actresses. Because these are great.

[@GoldenXiviaz]

WE NEED PART 2!!!!!!

[@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams]

He does not deserve whatever the shy woman gives him.