Sib Nrauj Tag Menyuam Tu Siab Tag. 6/17/23

[@pkcyang2910]

Please love each other until the end when you married so your kids dont have a hard life like this brothers and sisters.

[@mommyblue27]

I don't understand these Hmong parents and step parents mentality. You know the person you are marrying has baggage. If you're not willing to accept their baggage, don't marry them. Also, parents who allow their new spouse to treat their kids like shit, grow some balls. Never allow anyone to disrespect your kids. A spouse can always be replaced but not your kids. This is why I refused to get married again. I refused to allow toxic people into my children's lives. No one is more important than my kids.

[@may1581]

It is unfortunate to have unsupported parents/stepparents, but young kids, you got hands and feet and a 🧠 Work hard for your future when you know there is no one to love and support you. Learn to be independent and never depend on anyone (even your own parents), this is America the land of freedom and endless education. Marry when you know you have enough and buy a house when you can afford. Good luck! ❤ 🍀

[@dewmo5626]

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[@dewmo5626]

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[@ThePrincessWorrior]

I say the same.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

Well said!!! I was going to say the same thing.

[@lubpaaj]

Good lesson for hmong people .

[@Loves_GodSR]

If only divorced parents can co-parent and let their issues stay between them. If only they don't get the kids involved. If only....

[@baolee945]

Girl you are too good

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Koj hais yog kawg me ntxhais

[@caaspasvang7427]

Tej niam tej txiv Tsi txawj ua ces tej menyuam muaj kev tu siab li no mas hmoob Aw…😭😭

[@aexiong4632]

Sounds just like my siblings and I growing up. My mom is gone now but my dad is still around complaining about child support and blame for my mom. I consider myself an orphan. 😪

[@Ohcheena]

Be glad both your parents are still alive.

[@Peter123969]

These stepparents are the kinds that you let the county handle their funerals.

[@thaomailee]

Ok as sad as the kids are at their parents but they need to also support themselves a little. Knowing that Noone loves and care for them. Your real dad is also right about one thing, you guys chose your mom over your dad why go ask for his help after so many years. He's still love you and try to help you at least...

[@vdrtkrato1115]

It breaks my heart when thinking about that life for my kids. Some people just don’t know how to resolve a problem. Either just don’t want to or want more of their own pleasures for themselves. Sorry for your life being that way. Learn from your parents love your own

[@maylee9765]

Bad video today start over twice it got me thinking did I rewind the video 😂

[@Lolelanie]

It's so sad but divorced parents should be there for their kids whatever issues they have. But the step-dad and step-mom are so selfish and childish

[@mzlynnhaven]

Both parents are cowards to their new spouses. They are taking their anger out on each other. Pitiful and what a shame

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Koj Leej txiv tshiab ko siab me dhau Lawm es koj tsis thas hlub koj Tus txiv tshiab Li nawb tej zaum koj niam yog Tus phem ntau dua,

[@maylo8993]

I hate greedy hmong men's and step mom so much. We hmong people have a small heart and can't never love anyone else, that's why it's so sad.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

...can never or can't ever...

[@crystalxiong735]

Yus txawm yog niamtshiab txivtshiab los yog yus hlub cov menyuam ces menyuam yeej txawj hlub yus rov qab. Good story. Thank you.

[@beelee6572]

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[@leelaiyah789]

Your real father isn't that great, he refused to help his kids and be jobless just so he doesn't have to pay child support. Your stepfather his jealous that he had to look after another man's kids so he won't help. No need to love them all.

[@NkaujneebYang-qb3wy]

Very true. Their don't give a shit about them until he knows he will benefit. A good father would continue to work and pay child support. The step father at least allow you to live and support you. Heartless children to turn back to their dad.

[@Almxo]

What a sad story. ❤

[@seethoj2082]

Feem coob cov niam txiv sij nrauj ces tus niam yeej yog tus txw menyuam ntxub leej txiv coob dua vim tus txiv yog tus xub ntxeev siab coob dua thiab. Tab sis kuv yeej agree nrog koj tias cov parents tsis txhob txw menyuam li koj hais ko thiab. Tsis tag lo ntawv yog hom menyuam smart tiag2 niam thiab txiv txawm yuav txw nej npaum cas los tsis txhob ntseeg tus twg kiag vim yus yog menyuam yus tuav tsum hlub ob leeg li qub xwb tsis txhob tuas yus nrog tus twg ces yus yuav tig ntxub tus yus tsis nrog. Yog nej cov menyuam coj li no ces nej kuj ruam dhaum lawm thiab xwb. Nco ntsoov tias yog nej hlub nej niam ces txawm nej tsis nyiam tus txiv tshiab pes tsawg los nej yuav tau respect tus txiv tshiab rau nej niam. Yog nej hlub nej txiv lawm ces nej yiav tsum respect nej niam tshiab rau nej txiv xwb. Vim yog nej hwm niam tshiab txiv tshiab ces yuav ua rau nej rus niam tshiab txiv tshiab hlib nej nej niam nej txiv ces nkawv yuav tau lub neej kaj siab tgiab. Tsis tas li ntawv nej los tseem yuav muaj lub neej mus nej yeej tsis paub xyov nej yuav tau lub neej zoo li cas mas yuav tau txhov ntxub niam ntxub txiv. Yuav tau hlub ob leeg li qub yus thiaj tsis tau kev npam vim lub neej sib nrauj sib tso yog nkawv ob tug laus xwb. Yog nej txawj respect nej cov niam cov yxiv nej haj yam tau kev hlub ntau os.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

It's heartbreaking for the children. Your stepfather has no right to dislike your biological dad unless he was the cause of their divorce! Live & Learn sister...Live a good life with your spouse.

[@pajthao4813]

Tim koj niam vim koj niam txeeb nej tabsis nws twb tsis tivthaiv hlub koj txiv yug koj mog nws yeej tseem hlub nej nws thiaj kam rov tham nrog nej pab nej cov nus muag mog niam tshiab siab me zog lawm txiv tshiab los qia dub siab me2 tas zog

[@เวียงเทิงมือถือ-ย6ป]

mi ntxhais niam tshiab thiab txiv tshiab tsis hlub yus los kuv hlub lawv li yus hlub tau mog kom txhob npam mog

[@159nightangel]

Your mom is in the wrong. She won't help your brother with his wedding but take the money of your wedding. That is sooo wrong

[@maythao7961]

I agree

[@wandererrogtshaj7977]

Yup totally agree the real father would be a better choice imo on this one

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

If no money, shouldn’t look for honey. If you can’t even feed your face, you have no privilege to bring over another person for someone else to feed. If you are a dependent, they have the right to drive you away, parents or step-parents. Your parents divorced is because they couldn’t stand each other. Daddy didn’t do his part, so he was the 1st of the two to let go of his responsibility. If he didn’t do his part, why should he enjoy the fruits of your mother’s labor.

[@mongher103]

Immature and extremely childish of your parents that they could not resolve their differences and make it livable for the children. They were selfish only thinking of themselves and how to get back at each other and didn't care about how it would effect three children. Don't be too harsh on yourselves and don't blame yourselves for the way things ended. You don't have to live in their shadows. Just be there for your siblings and teach each other not to be like them. Hugs to you all. Life is tough as is. To have parents and feel like orphans is sooooo sad. You make your own life and own your own future. You are better than your parents so live it to the fullest.

[@bgr4669]

This why I don’t like it when adults bring their kids into their adult problems. This story resonates with me as I’ve also been in step-family dynamics & vowed never to remarry should anything happen to my spouse.

[@hlubkojxwb8441]

Thaub,ruam ua cas yuav siab pheem ua li os,nyiaj neeg ruam yuav ntxim ntxhub ua li.

[@juli3annl33]

The adults or "parents" in this story doesn't need to be parents. They might as well not have kids or ever marry again.

[@wisteria4550]

Hais rau cov niam txiv tias yog yus sib hlub tsis taus es nyias mus nyias lawm, txhob foom tej lus phem rau cov me nyuam. Yuav tsum foom lus zoo zoo kom tsuas ciaj kub ciaj kaus. Khwv tsawg los tau ntau es qhov phem ces cia yus ris kom mus pov rau ntuj kawg, tiam no muab xaus raws li qhov pib es fab lwm tiam yug dua, pib dua kom tsuas muaj zoo. Yog pheej sib foom ces tsuas muaj phem xwb. Yus twb tau txaus qhov phem es yus tseem foom ntxim rov muaj phem dua. Hnub twg mam zoo na lawv? Cov neeg phem ces yeej xav qhov phem. Yus qhuas yus zoo mas yus hais qhov zoo kom tsuas muaj zoo xwb hos.

[@pacificfurious257]

Hmong Og are crazy ...make sure get a good job before get married.

[@nyobzoshavtaischannel9304]

School laon ces yus them yus xwb tsis txhob mus taij niam taij txiv them rau yus nws tsis work!

[@janessathao9108]

This story is wayyy too innocent. Ain’t no way you never stood up to your step dad or your step mom. I don’t believe it.

[@ChueVang-xx2rt]

hauv lub qab ntuj no tus neeg yug yus thiaj lis tsis tsub nuj tsub nqi rau tej me nyuam xb o hmoob dhau ntawv lawm ces luag yeej hlub g tag

[@nkaujntse5196]

If you are not ready to pay for your own marriage don’t get married. Even my own children I will not pay for their wedding. Parents shouldn’t be hold responsible for your wedding.

[@kaciewanh1986]

Cov niam/txiv sib nrauj yeej coj cwjpwm hais rau menyuam li ntawd. Yog ho hwm tus txivtshiab niamtshiab npaum li ces twb tsis sib nrauj.

[@mathewvang1431]

The sad thing if u got gf got pregnant I understand that u will have to marry her but u want to freaking marry when u have nothing some kids jux don’t understand when it come to Hmong wedding it all about money money think before u marry damn these kids👀

[@amazinggrace8136]

When you take God out of your worldview, what’s wrong with the step dad not wanting to love you? Why and who said he has to? Since you believe in karma/npam, Instead of complaining why don’t you go find out what you did to deserve all this and ask for forgiveness?

[@magicalunicorn5853]

The immaturity of the step father is beyond selfish and disgusting. Children never ask to be born and if you have them - protect them and support them no matter how much you screwed up your life. The one who isn’t you’re real parents will never love you.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Your dad is wrong for getting mad at you and your siblings for not choosing him. A child can be without a father, but they cannot be without a mother (in most case)... he shouldn't be jealous because he pay child support. You guys are his kids, child support is his job. I'm sorry that you and your siblings had to go through the divorce with your parents.

[@zonchuemoua195]

xab mais no nkauj laug nkauj hluas los tsis ua cas os cov tib tej mivnyuam tías laug lis ub lis no mas yeej yog siab phem thiaj hais lis ntawm. Yog cov txiv siab zoo mas tsis hais tej ntawm lis os.

[@TheFreshkid0]

Same for Molli Xiong and chai Adam lee. Both of them comes with baggage but only chai Adam lee act as if his baggage should matter and molli shouldn’t love/support her own kids. He’s pure evil and set bad intentions towards molli kids.. now the kids don’t even speak to their mom bc of their step dad. Yet he uses her kids to do all the heavy load of work as if his kids are meant to eat of her kids I hate Hmong people poor mindset

[@cheexiong1634]

How sad🤧🤧🤧

[@aplaceinmyheartyang4664]

Tsis muaj nyiaj es yuav poj niam dab tsi na. Khwv kom tau nyiaj mas yuav poj niam vim yus twb paub tias yus ua lub neej nyuaj nyuaj.

[@MissPeachie]

I am very blessed that my parents stayed together until my father passed away. I could see from both step-parents’ side as to why they don’t want to help with the wedding. Firstly, your brother should not have gotten married if he can’t afford it. 2ndly, your mother should have agreed to share custody so your father would be able to support you and your siblings. Everything is your parents’ fault.

[@kellielee9829]

Wow. If you’re that siab dub can’t love her kids than why marry her? Dude, your step kids don’t love you because you never warmed up to them 🤦🏻‍♀️ hate Hmong men like that. Only a handful of them could love their wife’s kids.

[@mainhialee5754]

I think is your mom fault cuz if she’s a good mom she should have stand there for everything happening in you guys life shouldn’t have been let your dad help if she brain wash you guys

[@pajthao4813]

Me nyuam tsis muaj kev txhaum os hmong aw !!! Thov txhob rau txim loj2 rau tej me nyuam os me nyuam tsis muaj kev txhaum leej twg. Tsis txhaum li os me ntxhaig koj tsis tau ua dabtsi yuam kev rau koj txiv tshiab es

[@maryly09]

How sad for u guys. It's your parent's fault that u guys are in such a complicated situation. Parents don't know how to be parents at all.

[@xaiher9236]

tu me ntxhai aw ob niag ntsej muag lau ko ce kuv xav tia tsi txhob hlub ob leeg kiag yu hlub niam lo tub qaug txiv yu ho hlub txiv tub lo tub qaug niam yu hlub yu tu kheej xwb thiaj li tsi tub qaug nkawd xwb os tej teeb meem ntawm nim yog tij nej lo ua ca na nkawm ua nkawm teeb meem xwb es

[@hlubmykids5119]

I hate parents who divorce and put the kids in the middle teach the kids to hate one of the parents is so toxic 😤 and it's harder for the kids too...selfish mother and selfish father your parents are both very selfish

[@yangblong8595]

New father always a dog😂😂😂 because it's hmong carma ..

[@yangblong8595]

A Hmong will bé always still a Hmong 😅😅😅

[@kaoxiong6148]

For the step father, you only reap what you sow…you never accept your step children, so don’t feel bad if they don’t love you…😩🤠!

[@nouxiong3620]

Don’t think this man has the brain cells to understand that

[@payongvue9130]

Why are these adult parents so immature? Grow up for the sake of your children.

[@Lee-zw9rn]

Yep, your parents are prime example of hmoob laus noj quav nyuj xwb...

[@maiseeyang3788]

Yog Tim koj niam brainwashed nej cov me nyuam lawm xwb os. Nej niam hais tias nej txiv tsis hlub nej tab sis ho Kom nej uv nej txiv tshiab vim nej niam xav nraug nej txiv es xav tau cov child support mus yug nws tus kheej xwb. Yog twb Kom nej uv txiv tshiab ces kuj xum uv nej txiv yug nej tseem hlub nej dua. Kuv xav mas nej niam tshiab lub siab tseem zoo dua koj niam lawm vim nws twb Kam pab koj tus nus yuav poj niam los hauv tsev txhob khib txog qho nyiaj ua koj txiv tuaj tsis tau tag nrho vim hmong li nqhi tshoob Kim dhau lawm thaib nej yeej ib txwm ntseeg nej niam es ntxub nej txiv ne yog nej txiv pab ib nrab los yeej zoo lawm los mas vim tej nyiaj twb muaj pay child support nej lawm ne

[@hlubtushlubkuv9881]

Yog vim li cas koj ho hais tsis tau 1 los rau koj txiv tshiab tias koj nyob ntev los koj twb tsis thov nws mov noj, koj tseem nrhiav tsis tau2 tus kuv nyiam koj hlub xwb no rau koj txiv tshiab kom seb nws ho yuav teb li cas rau koj ma. Niam tshiab txiv tshiab yeej muaj 1 co zoo2 kawg thiab os tu siab tias cas koj ho tau 2 niam siab phem 1 yam.

[@sunnygirl973]

Koj yog tus ntxhais, txiv tshiaj Xav tau koj PoB nyiaj. Koj ob tug nus ces yog yuav poob nyiaj ces nws tsis kam nta. Hope karma will got him. Koj niam los phem koj txiv los phem. Kuv yog koj ces mus yuav txiv lawm ces tsis thas nug nug moo lis lawm os nawb. Tus siab dhau lawm. 4 tug niam thiab txiv Liam thiab dev xwb os. Sorry to said this.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Your parents don’t love you guys

[@pangher8903]

Txivneej hmoob lub siab mas phem, qia dub, siab hlob tshaj plaws. Txhua yam mas lawv ua kom lawv tau tagnrho. I am through right now, I know.

[@kovang1840]

Both of these parents are selfish..they need to stop using their anger with the kids