To even think about an office romance. You have to be strong enough to separate work from romance. When two people are strong in this area. It could be the most beautiful thing. Just don’t let everyone else in on it, that’s the key!!!🦋
@LinarbrАй бұрын
I think when people are closed several hours by day 5 days in a week its like a coping mechanism having a crush on someone. Its a way of scape from feeling bored and overhelmed by work. Knowing that no one should give importance to feelings that born in that circunstances. Work is priority. Its from where it comes the money to pay our bills. Co workers are not supposed to be our friends or lovers cause when the relationship goes wrong so our job. Always think about consequences before jumping by impulses
@aleccopileАй бұрын
I have a crush on my co worker, so much so that I've dreamt about her three times this month. 😊 She's a gorgeous girl.
@estaire1654Ай бұрын
Not for me. I keep my work life strictly professional. The thought of dating a colleague, or even the boss is too distracting. I need to focus on my job, and anything else feels like a major productivity killer. Office romances are a mixed bag. I've seen it all the secret flings, the dramatic break ups, the lingering awkwardness that hangs in the air like cheap perfume. One time, I witnessed a couple arguing about whose turn it was to refill the coffee machine during a crucial client presentation! That's the kind of drama i want to avoid. For me, keeping work & personal life separate is key to productivity & sanity. I'd rather focus on my projects than navigate the minefield of office relationships.
@gmrairai7449Ай бұрын
In my opinion No !! having an affair with a coworker is generally not a good idea. Office romances can have negative consequences including decreased productivity ❤
@psychedelicmedic6949Ай бұрын
Wow you must be a manager
@AMEsteves-b8cАй бұрын
It's not nice to get involved with your coworker because once you fight or have misunderstandings, your work will be affected. Be smart not to be attracted to a co worker
@jackyloudoble808Ай бұрын
Yes!
@AMEsteves-b8cАй бұрын
@@jackyloudoble808 true
@Just_JelleАй бұрын
There’s a difference between being attracted to someone and acting on it. I will take one heart-stopping attraction, please.🙋🏾♀️ we spend most of our time at work, and it’s nice to feel alive, and like I’m a teenager again when attraction is mutual.
@TiyaLeonard-jf7og22 күн бұрын
I’ve met 2 long term boyfriends from work. Idk, what you’re talking about?
@mariahwondersalot1980Ай бұрын
My story sucks. I developed a crush on a guy at work and later heard he thought I was cute. I had been trying to link up with him before that. But we had conflicting schedules. He acted like he wanted to do stuff together but didn’t initiate much of anything. I thought he was shy and I didn’t have a problem perusing him for a period of time but now I’m emotional drained (for a lot of reasons) and lost interest in even maintaining a friendship.
@dianazmathewsАй бұрын
Hey, I wish I watched this in my 20s than now. Now, work is like very professional and less interactions, setting boundaries, consciously not to get friends from work, etc. And if this kind of flirting may happen, but personally I really run away from that, because that makes our workplace very uncomfortable eh. But these tips are valuable for young people or single ones who are open to relationships. In that way, these tips are very exciting, and they might have potential impacts, too. Great appreciations to you for your time and effort in bringing up podcasts with relevant topics and thereby sharing your thoughts on that. Keep posting my Love and Keep Smiling 😊 Much love always Po Um, and God Bless You much more 💖 Have a wonderful day ahead 😘
@JessGomez-dl2bdАй бұрын
I have never been a fan of the idea of mixing pleasure with work. Sometimes things can go wrong and create very difficult situations at work and at home.
@maldivelasquez7022Ай бұрын
You don’t sh** where you eat! My absolute rule in my work area. If it blows up then it will become awkward for all in the department.
@antianti4147Ай бұрын
good morning mr.ivan...let's have coffee thanks for the video 😂❤
@SiriratPreedaАй бұрын
Never had that experience of office romance in my life and never be interested in this kind of matter. But anyway, thanks so much for this beneficial video. You’re always the great Ivan. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@MonicaPanaguiton-d3s22 күн бұрын
In my real life here. First of all I will do. I avoid. I avoid everything that could bring us together..
@FranciaBalonАй бұрын
Yes, it's true, I saw it with my own eyes and I said to myself, I wish there was a man like that who also likes me 😍😊✌️
@MonicaPanaguiton-d3s16 күн бұрын
Hahahaha...I know you said that. Those are my friends, they know that I am the only one who tells me how and what to do. My dapat I have no one to ask. I have no one to approach and the people there are all telling the truth and not harming their neighbors, the advice is not to act like this. might be misunderstood by you.But whatever they say, others will.
@hanifahannie8018Ай бұрын
Good afternoon.Sir Ivan Nicholo thank you for sharing on vedio. You're talk very good words to advice and inspiring for our us. Woow very amazing Ivan. Thank you so much. Good luck and good Jobs for you😍😍❤❤❤👍👏🙏🤲
@ivannicholomenesesАй бұрын
So nice of you
@ronelraubenheimer5581Ай бұрын
My boss is so loving, but i know his intentions are good, because he married with lovely wife and baby and sometime you just need that attention attention so that you feel you doing great for this company..then otherhand the other coworkers know they get piece of my mind, if they get overwhelmed, and they stay out the office..😂😂
@lennaalsaeed6256Ай бұрын
كلامك يحمل النور لقلوبنا...شكراااا لك💕💕
@WendaAbalayanАй бұрын
Wow! what a great thoughts of you..wonderful insights🥰
@ivanekovekАй бұрын
What about a video on approaching a girl you're interested in? For me, that feels impossible. It's like the waters I'm unfamiliar with, and I get overwhelmed with anxiety. I get too concerned about how it might play out, the future.. it would be a nice video if you make it, especially the way you make all your other videos. They're hopeful and beautiful and a topic on approaching would definitely help many of people, me including, haha
@sedromelenny8818Ай бұрын
Good morning Mr ivan! Yes, but for me I avoid that kind of feelings. Becouse I don't want to change their work with me. Especially my position. I want to work with them normal. Usually if you give the attention their work change , so better to respect each and work normal... Have a nice day Ivan.. thanks for this vedios... God bless ❤️
@RosalieParagas-f6xАй бұрын
Its okay to office romance if they are both single but most of the time their flirting one another they forgot that they both have family 😢just for my expierience ✌️but i like your topic😊
@wintercy4444Ай бұрын
Thanks for all your words of wisdom. I'm interested to hear about the attitude of an ex in work. If he 8s still likes me. Almost all of these signs you've shared was in him. He is a Japanese and we broke up when suddenly after 5months of relationship he asked me to broke up with him.
@marleneoliveira6019Ай бұрын
Vim aqui hoje só pra ouvir tua voz. Você não sabe,mas te ouvir me traz tanta paz! Sua voz traz tanta doçura.. 🥰🌻🥰🌻🥰🇧🇷🌻🇧🇷💞
@dianazmathewsАй бұрын
True eh, his voice and the newer vocabulary are the bestest part of his videos eh😊
@MonicaPanaguiton-d3sАй бұрын
Good evening everyone.. In my real life. When it comes to men, I avoid them. Even if I think I avoid them. And when it comes to my speech. It depends on the conversation. When it comes to work, I do it.When speaking I don't joke around with guys. I don't go to hang outs or anything. When it comes to things just to get exposed, I don't go. I avoid things like that.
@RowenaBolivarАй бұрын
I am so amazed how you create content everyday informing us about love and other things❤ thanks for all the learning my love❤ rest in time okay ❤Iloveyou always❤
@gingcuaboАй бұрын
It's true the have men do like that but I don't care that kind .
@WaiKo-t9hАй бұрын
Thanks Sir Ivan Meneses 🦋
@MelyneBertlАй бұрын
💗🤗Nice Ivan I don't believe it is so weird 😂
@MiriamFranco-h3qАй бұрын
Hi sir .ur a Filipino most of the pilipino women arevery shy she cannot first move u ur aman.
@PoornimaBundhooАй бұрын
Good morning Ivan Thanks for your fascinating advice that's why I love you so much❤
@AnnieRice-kc7feАй бұрын
I'm jealous of you now 😢😢😢
@IsushmasagarАй бұрын
Thank you.
@malouredome3213Ай бұрын
If your workmates are into you, you'll get princess treatment definitely. They do all the work for you. Who wouldn't want that? 😂 Just dont break hearts and be honest always of how you feel.
@jeas729Ай бұрын
hahaha 🤣 i experienced this .. he so stalker to me .pag uwian na mabilis siyang naglalakad para bumuntot sakin or magpapansin. lahat ng mannerism ko ginagaya niya move & likes. then bag ko na lagyan ng obentou nilalagyan sinulatann ng first letter ng name niya ng sakin. playful with groupsfriend.. then 3 years na pala may gusto sakin hindi ko alam🤣😂😅parang narcissist. pero ako deadma..tapos nung nalaman friend lang kaya kung treat sankanya hahaha manipulated ako sa faceboo masasakit na patama😂😅🤣 but dont mind.. i treasured the good sa bad.its 4 years ago 😅..maybe im conservative thats why he is so galit sakin😅😂🤣kasi babae lumalapit sa kanya.. ako mahirap ma chase.
@lenalopez2988Ай бұрын
Maybe you have sir ivan in your work office
@okraybakekang7382Ай бұрын
HOW DID YOU KNOW? THERE' ARE TONS OF THEM .. COULDN'T BELIEVE YOU A STALKER.
@NamugeereDamaliАй бұрын
I honour you all I am appreciate
@MonicaPanaguiton-d3s16 күн бұрын
And when I was told what was right, I asked him to follow it. He was there for me, just as it was right.
@НурзатКалдымолдоеваАй бұрын
Добрый день, мистер Иван Николо надеюсь у вас всё хорошо. Я просто поражён где вы берёте такую тему... Служебный роман у меня не было никогда такое, если попросили бы. Я бы всё равно не согласилась бы потому что это твоя работа, ты должна знать кем работаешь, и с кем работаешь. Я не хочу чтобы за мной там сплетни, обсуждали, ведь ты проводишь на работе почти с 9:00 до 5: 00 часов значит это почти твой второй дом. И надо иметь себя достойно. Я вас хотела спросить мистер Иван Николо но скажите мне я не обижусь, но только честно. Моё мнение такое Всегда я буду готова выживать в одиночку некоторые люди внезапно меняются. Сегодня я важна для них, а завтра Я для них ничего... И это реальная жизнь. Так что без любви я обойдусь. Надо двигаться вперёд! Без любви без страданий я уже не хочу никому верить кроме себя! А вы служебный роман на работе имели бы ответь пожалуйста но только честно...
@preetipukale7834Ай бұрын
Thank you for the video
@jennyramirez4822Ай бұрын
God bless you all
@WendaAbalayanАй бұрын
You are so blessed Ivan. Hoping you had a good day..take care and keep praying. u ti amo❤❤❤
@SugarHigh-p3mАй бұрын
CAN YOU PLEASE DIRECT YOUR MESSAGES TO THE RIGHT CELL PHONE
@joanna_beautifulАй бұрын
I just wanna be alone most of the time bcoz I'm done with that and I know that it will only make destruction to your work, you came to work, you should go home just for work, I don't wanted intrigues, chaos or any teasing in my work bcoz this is not helpful but it will only cause me shamefulness bcoz I don't wanna be teased to someone That I only treated as a friend bcoz I might develop lol😂😂😂 but bcoz of God I have self control not to fall in love with unbeliever❤🙏 not to equally yoked with unbeliever❤🙏 Ived learned from my mistakes never allow yourself be tempted again to non follower of Jesus Christ❤🙏 That's what I did that's why I prefer to be alone and happy being alone and just an Introvert girl❤️🙏💯💯💯💯💋💋💋🥳🥳🥳🥳
@กัลยาปัตถาวงษ์Ай бұрын
🥹🥰👍🏻👍🏻🙏
@เรณูพิมเสนАй бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Love you
@WendaAbalayanАй бұрын
AND ARE YOU IN IVAN?
@charitonoche1871Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@wandamartinez6935Ай бұрын
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@HelsiVicenteАй бұрын
❤❤😂😂
@MonicaPanaguiton-d3s12 күн бұрын
I don't know about that, I don't know anything about that. As long as I'm quiet and I don't care about anything around me, Aya.......w I'll just keep quiet. You're a gossip who's out of order. I immediately turned to you when I heard something even though I didn't know anything.
@herlinasubroto7141Ай бұрын
👍👍👍
@elisadumaganАй бұрын
🙇🙇is you -my _
@grace0516Ай бұрын
My heart and my eyes are only for my right one🥰 Focus on work! Take good care because I care🥰 God bless🥰💕
@corinaniculescu6771Ай бұрын
It doesn't matter the place and the time you fall în love. If it doesn't affect your work, it's more than good to love. I hope you're better now. Be very careful. You work hard. I kiss you. We talk later. I have a lawsuit în 15 minutes. I'll kiss you again Ivan. I love the dynamics of your ideas and their presentation în your podcast. Kiiiisss... you....