Signs A Guy Likes You

[@p-l-u-t-0]

Im a bisexual male and I can’t believe how accurate all of this actually is because i have a crush on a boy and I find myself doing many of these things

[@fahim_betaa]

Sameee but for me it's a girl

[@batrishaiscute]

I'm bi too but I have two crushes at the same time a guy and a girl is this weird ?

[@p-l-u-t-0]

@@batrishaiscute oh absolutely not,I was in the same situation a few years back. And I have a friend with a similar problem;it’s just a thing that happens lol.

[@enrikas__4944]

@@batrishaiscute No, it isn't. It's totally normal. You can have more than one crush, it's ok. Just think how many beautiful people are near you and you can crush on them at any time it doesn't matter than.

[@batrishaiscute]

@@p-l-u-t-0 omg, thank u for supporting me

[@ronnie6902]

i think one sign to know if a guy likes you is he looks or even stares at you often. He can't get enough of you. He may be so attracted to you because of your looks or what you do, or the way you dress. It is natural for men to look at each other, but if the guy is always looking at you more intensely, you realize that he is attracted to you and likes you more than just friendship.

[@briansyusufsekitibivanskim855]

I have had this awkward liking for this guy and I know he knows but being in a country where you just can't express it. I feel like an idiot all the time...

[@jamessanders145]

Even when I was in denial, deep denial during high school, I still could not stop staring at my guy crushes. I found 1000 reasons to justify my need to look at them as much as possible but the need to stare is just so primal, why wouldn't you want to stare at something gorgeous?

[@doug1863]

There is a gentleman with I think who has a bf. But this one gentleman will see me on occasion and will shake my hand d and will hold on , even when I try to pull away, he holds on tight. He also has hugged me before , in front of his bf. He is always saying, you lost weight .

[@iamspadesx4433]

Did he just gave us a twirl to show off his cookie monster pj's? ALREADY LOVIN THIS DUDE HAHAHAHA 😂

[@Courtney-Jai]

They're one of my favourite pairs

[@iamspadesx4433]

@@Courtney-Jai and because of that, u are my new fave person lol 😂

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@iamspadesx4433 just wait till I bring the storm trooper PJ's out 😂😂😂

[@iamspadesx4433]

@@Courtney-Jai Cant wait to see it, bring. It. On. Lol 😂

[@jonathanlorio3265]

@@Courtney-Jai they're*** sorry grammar police here, couldn't help it =P

[@stephm4047]

9:13 « Look at the signs because they are important because you might find someone who absolutely adores you, rather than you chasing someone who does not like you at all » 😀👍🏻

[@hamartiacarmona6317]

No one ever gets a crush on me. Im very shy and awkward 😂

[@hamartiacarmona6317]

@John Rosas 😂 same here

[@Ana-vz3uj]

I bet there have been people who have crushes on you! Maybe they are just shy and awkward too. Don't worry you'll find your confidence eventually xx

[@hamartiacarmona6317]

@@Ana-vz3uj oh, that's sweet. Thanks 🤗

[@ivanmanos8221]

Hamartia Butterfly I have a major crush on you.

[@hamartiacarmona6317]

@@ivanmanos8221 That's sweet but please, don't say things you don't mean.

[@lucynavarro1628]

I’ve done this. I have this friend who has talked to me about her being bi, and she kept asking me my opinions. I didn’t think much of it. I was like Thank you for trusting me, and I’ve just tried to be supportive. She has gone out her way to talk to me, be in classes and projects with me and everything. She now gave me a heart made of wood she made. And she confessed she has the biggest crush on me. And I didn’t know what to do because I’m not lgbtq, so I told her I appreciated her trust in me, and interest but I couldn’t return it. I hoped it wouldn’t affect our friendship. Thank fully it didn’t.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thats the only thing you can do just keep telling her you respect as friend and you will always be there for her

[@Courtney-Jai]

Hi everyone hope you like the video, what video would you want to see next im thinking Q & A

[@Micah_nm]

Your unpopular opinions

[@JefferriAndrews]

Your first time, don’t know if you already did that video though

[@langa2903]

What's your advice on toxic relationships? I know its a broad topic so maybe you can give us some warning signs and what to do when we encounter them❤

[@ricocervante9146]

A video on being gay at a young age and/or how to find the right person for you.

[@Ibinaboo]

How to not be single

[@greggtilghman6349]

And if you are giving all these signs, and being completely ignored at times and brushed off at others and just seemed tolerated. Take the hint. Move on. I've learned the hard way.

[@zanecomarmond4425]

I was so ready to hear you say you held their hand because theirs were cold

[@Micah_nm]

Me too lol

[@johnlondonbimeetup7961]

@@Micah_nm+1 me too

[@suleb1]

Lol literally me

[@brendonlure801]

SAMEDT HAHAHA

[@bramzwaan8769]

I’m a bisexual guy and I’ve recently fallen in love with a boy for the first time! I absolutely adore him and think he’s stunning, but I don’t know whether he’s in for a queer relationship or not. However, I feel like he’s been giving me signs lately: for example, he held the door open for me a waved his hand to show that I could go first (this happened actually two times in one day), he gave me a compliment on my Dutch speech, which was specifically meant for me and lastly, today he turned around just before our test and said: Good luck with your test, Bram. And that while his friend were sitting around him… So anybody, what are your thoughts on this? Are these clear signs or not? PS: I had to read the first question on my test about five times because the sound his so beautifully saying my name kept buzzing through my head and accelerating my heartbeat😍

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I wouldn't say this concrete just sounds like a good friend at the moment with very manners. That's just my opinion at the moment, I think you need alot more intimate interactions more compliments more wanting to spend time with you.

[@bramzwaan8769]

@@Courtney-Jai thank you! I’ll keep it in mind!!!

[@bramzwaan8769]

@@Courtney-Jai I told him I am bisexual and that really went well… Then he told me today that his father is an Hungarian squire and his mum is a Dutch baroness, and he was being for real😳 Well casual Friday, am I right…

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@bramzwaan8769 well that's pretty cool

[@MrCassett]

@@bramzwaan8769 How did it go? I hope everything turned out well 🙂

[@squamousthomas3267]

I am guilty of every one of these signs. They know who they are. I love you

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I'm glad I've got them right

[@jaydenmaxwell8140]

So I asked my crush if he wanted gum because I was facing him and sharing with this girl next to me. He really awkwardly said no in a grumpy kinda way. So now I think he doesn't like me yet every time I walk into class he looks at me like every morning. IM SO FUCKING CONFUSED.

[@jaydenmaxwell8140]

@CHILLNESS Noob Yesss he is. Ive only known him for awhile because I just moved to his school late last year. And its sad bcz im only in one of his classes (form class) which is only like 15 minutes long. And I can't talk to him because social anxiety tingz and causehis friend is kinda homophobic.

[@RyanPage-ym7oy]

He probably thought you meant that his breath smelled bad

[@johnlondonbimeetup7961]

Its a risk to take any one single sign as a definite, but I'd say if a guy does several of these things, its going to be worth saying hi and getting into more of a conversation, breaking the ice or asking more about maybe say... shows with queer TV characters and see if they mention them, or favourite music artists, or ....

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's very true

[@markk4473]

I’ve been in situations with a few the eyes looking /looking away whilst working and even got to point bumping into each other and just stood for literally in front of each other and eye contact for about 5 secs and carrying something then knodded and walk off. Next time I c him, he would over proclaim by randomly talk about his ex. Same I would caught staring at me , sometimes would have eyes turned away but would sense feel him staring whilst working or see in corner of my eye him looking at me

[@skyhunk]

I'm in the wrong place. This is for late teens or early twenty-somethings. Best of luck to all - may you find the one of your dreams.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I already found my perfect girl but somtimes modern problems call for modern solutions 😋

[@manuel1663]

Omg the staring thing is true I just realised I frequently stare at one guy in my class and now I feel dumb :D because he probably noticed

[@Courtney-Jai]

It's happens I remember in school having it happen a few times

[@josephtrujillo9095]

Thanks for the shout out jai.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Glad u liked it thank you for supporting the channel

[@calvindavis3641]

Got really tired of the dating scene for whatever the reason. Just been me alone for six months now. And it feels strange going back out there, so I just wait around to see if it just happens. So far, nada, and I don’t do dating apps.

[@TracyBaker-y3w]

When I first met this person, he was extremely flirty, and all over me. Then a few months later he refused to talk to me, won't even be around me when I'm near. He avoids me totally. I feel his boss did this. Do I just move on or keep tring.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'd move on sound like either someone who's doubting themselves or he's been influenced by others. I think if you try to force it , you will only end up worse off.

[@abr2365]

Dude a friend of mine is so extroverted and he talks to girls alot in a flirty way ,but i have noticed that he looks deeply into my eyes whenever we are near he doesnt tur shy but looks into my eyes often and after that he somehow tries to touch me and once when we were standing in lab i noticed him looking at my eyes sideways ,is he attracted to me ?

[@enrikas__4944]

Im bisexual and my fist real crush was on girl, i did all these things, now i have crush on boy and i do all these things.

[@yeeted9466]

Thx, I’ll stop doing this things

[@brendonlure801]

Hahaha samedt

[@rishawnedwards3753]

There's this guy at my job who is a sales rep. He's never around but still he finds ways to pull small talk with me every now again. When sometimes in conversation with other co-workers he will mention my name jokingly and be like "You should let Nathan do that" or Nathan would be good at that" stuff like that. Then once he asked me about a product we sell and he came into my personal space for a few minutes well. Like the only thing he didn't do was touch me , I swear, he was that close. Damn I got so hard. I'm not openly bi I wonder if he's into me. He also is almost always looking at me even when I'm not looking at him he looks my way or at me when I'm walking in his vicinity. I just know. He called the work phone and asked my coworkers to speak with me , then he asked me to send pictures of a product for him which forced me to end up asking for his number and giving him mine in exchange. He could have asked anybody else for that. Why me? He also called my phone and then came to the office asking me if I got everything organised for him even though there is a girl he deals with directly to sell stuff in another department, like dude you don't have to speak to me about that stuff but it's like he wants to involve me in whatever he's doing. I'm not very talkative I never really spoke to him like that alot. He's hardly around, but he's cute af but I think he has a gf. Anyway I'm not gonna out myself it's too risky and I don't think he will so 🤷‍♂️.

[@MrDeep0103]

I relate to this because there’s a male co worker who does this with me and on top of what you mentioned this guy at my work seems to compliment me every now and then about the way I look. And I’m beginning to feel people at work are suspecting something between us even if it’s not spoken as I get the vibe of other co workers looking at us whenever we talk to each other

[@jethrojackson6023]

Another point: He will ask people who know you, more about you.

[@johnmonkus4600]

It's not a good idea to overheat a TV in front of a radiator.

[@anjelocarey]

There's this guy at work who's almost always around me. He always talks to me and even if he gets a phone call he would answer it in front of me. He wouldnt say excuse me and leave. He would just stay and then continue talking after. He asks me lots of questions and he tells me personal things about himself as well. He seems to be very comfy with me. But He has a girlfriend. Is he just friendly or could he be attracted to me. 😕 I mean im gay and im the obvious kind. My friends tell me to just enjoy his company and not to expect so much

[@Courtney-Jai]

I would say just keep it planktonic one he has a girlfriend no one like someone who breaks up a relationship in that situation you looks like the bad guy and 2 he could just be very friendly with you and sometimes it better to have a really good friend who you can trust.

[@anjelocarey]

@@Courtney-Jai thanks for the advice! I really enjoyed the video and your accent is so cute ❤️ yeah imma just keep it platonic and just enjoy his company. He is a really nice guy and im lucky he seems to like being around me. :)

[@Ian-cf6ct]

Lots of guys do this to me, but i don't know if they think that it's because they feel that i'm gay or bisexual or they wanna rape me or do things to me. I feel so confused...

[@seufimeaqui9034]

OH MY GOD DONT JUST ASSUME THIS ABOUT SOMEONE PLZ, unless theyre some old guy following you places

[@DerekMckean]

Although your video covers strictly romantic relationships, my perspective regarding friendship might slightly differ from traditional social norms. I enjoy building deep relationships with people because I want to know a little about them. While I believe most males do want to have deep relationships with their peers, certain stigmas are attached that stop them from doing so. Hence, cases of depression and even suicide can be traced to a lack of good relationships. It is a strange male hierarchy. You want friends, but out of fear of losing social status, we deny what we truly do deserve. Males believe that they have to act masculine and not show any aspect of femininity. Hence, forms of power and privilege come into play that stops us from getting what we want. Hence, men feel like they have to act like a real man so they do not lose their status as a male. However, the sad truth is, all males and females were not built to run independently but rather inter-dependently. Males need feedback from other males. There are only some things that only males can understand as well there are some things that only other females understand amongst each other. However, instead of appreciating difference, social norms that come into play of masculinity and male privilege impede our own identity. Although most plutonic male social circles consist of joking or even getting drunk, I really do not have the share the same cultural social norms. I do not get drunk. I confront people who make jokes about other people. While most guys may say “Derek, you just got to chill,” I consider this form of communication to be under-accommodating. Paths of least resistance would have people just go with the crowd. However, I do not value dominant beliefs when it comes to male privilege or even just building friendships. All friendships should be deep, not just the ones we have with our partner. And just because we desire this it does not change our identity. Just because a male wants to hang out with another male does not necessarily mean that they are gay or bi However, because of dominant social norms, our collective consciousness from our society becomes invaded with nothing but lies. That is why if I knew you in person, I would want to take you AND April out because I know that you guys are 1 unit and mean the world to each other. However, just like any human being, you might find out that April and you might want to have some alone time with your individual social circles since it is friends that help keep us afloat. It is sad that most people have to see a shrink since they lack same gender relationships. Hence, if I took you and April out to dinner, it is because I want to show it as an act of benevolence because I want to make BOTH of you feel special. And I think this world needs to change some of its social norms and drop the whole macho attitude of trying to act like a real man. However, I do believe that a real man has their own beliefs, and it is these beliefs that can change social norms. Have you heard of the Paradox of No Effect? It is a believe by Ghnadi that states that people do not think they can change the world even though they want to therefore they end up doing nothing. It is true. 1 man cannot change the world. However, the collective actions expanded over generations can change the world. And 1 belief that I wish society could hold on to dearly is that same gender forms of discourse, symbolic and verbally, have no set way of communicating amongst each other. A male who shows interests in another male does not mean they want to have sexual relationships, but it can simply mean that they understand and know that building deep relationships with each other can help to build an emotion support network, both in forms of social capital but as EMOTIONAL capital as well. There is nothing more powerful to know that another male shares similar feelings as you do, and this feels bestows power upon you Maybe, for example, you could be going through a divorce, hopefully not, but sometimes having that male support network from same gender relationships can actually even SAVE a divorce. A shrink cannot do that. A friend can. We may not know the words to say. But sometimes even taking a couple out to dinner communicates this same idea that a single male can support a relationship between a husband and wife. Even a woman who is a friend with your wife can have that same power.

[@Phineas1626]

I am flagging your comment as “too intelligent for the internet.” Beware the throngs of “Like & Subscribe!”-ers who will soon be at your door in protest... While I appreciated your comment enormously, I would like to ask if you could give an example or two of what you described as “...things only males would understand...” I would be much obliged. In any event, thank you for your comment.

[@SnakeButtz]

shiet i wanted to read this but it is deadass gigantic

[@DerekMckean]

@@Phineas1626 Even jokingly shared amongst all sexual orientations that bodily dysfunction or bodily dysmorphia may nor nay not matter, there seems to be a correlation between mental health and biological function. Although redundant, I purposely used the word dysmorphia to avoid being specific AND to illustrate that dysmorphia is a mindset related to what you think about yourself. Unfortunately, talking with other males about such reproductive inadequacies is usually only shared with a doctor. Males feel uncomfortable talking with other males when it comes to this. I'm not sure if this is part of the bro code, but it's definitely goes against a path of least resistance. What is a purpose of making friends? Although sports, get-togethers, parties, and formal engagements are ways to built trust and comraderrie amongst males, such relationships can only go so far. Especially if you are a married heterosexual male with body dysmorphia thinking your wife is not happy, you NEED to talk about this just do you can maintain your mental health! Yes, you can talk to a doctor, but your doctor doesn't really know you. He or she just knows your medical history. You need to tell a friend. Although not meant for comical effect, the people who may have your problem are other males. Well, whoop-de-doo. Although I've discussed mostly medical issues, there are other areas dealing with mental health and your overall happiness which brings forth confidence and a sense of self-esteem. Marriage issues not related to dysmorphia need to also be discussed with a male friend. Let's say you and your wife just had a fight. You think she overreacted but she claims it's you who overreacted. Yes, you can go to a marriage counselor. And yes, you csn talk this over with a female. But who do you think can relate to your problem and not judge you? Another male! This has been mostly about males. This can also be applied to females. They have their own struggles too regarding mental health, but their support networks ate generally stronger. However, they can get into fights too, even fights about guys they like. Yes, if they don't sort things both of them may never agree to talk to each other again. We need to build these strong support networks, but unfortunately, our uwn superficial relationships is what is secretly destroying us. Sometimes you need to fight against the path of keast resistance to help out others and thus build deep relationships. After will, thoughts like "is he gay" are more asinine to our mental health because it takes away what can rejuvenate our own stability as mankind (that includes womankind, and they-kind).

[@DerekMckean]

@@SnakeButtz you probably would want to read my reply to Phineas. I do apologize for it being "deadass gigantic," but despite its length, you will start to realize hie both my reply and my original post are related. Why do I think you might like my reply yo Phineas even though you might nit like reading? I just read the title of your latest video. Again, I know you may be more of a audiovisual learner as opposed to purely visual, but you might take a gander st it and see how far far you can read. Here's a trick. Read the first sentence of each paragraph. This is what you call preview reading. Just by following thus advice, you can get an idea of what I said without reading every word. Just like even writing a documented essay, you will know its not necessary to read every word. Read from what you can hrt out of it.

[@dirogue7132]

You seem to have a deep perspective on this matter and I must say that I have agreed with you on this topic for a very long while. It is disappointing to me in society that platonic same sex relationships are dwindling due to the perspective that is increasing today that everything emotional or “feminine” in platonic relationships are a sign of someone being gay or bi. I think it emphasizes the stigma of emotionality in men as well as increases the support of macho men and people having to act manly. This creates a feedback loop of supporting gay relationships while degrading the importance of platonic deep relationships with people who love each other very much perhaps even deeper than a romantic partner but platonically

[@mauriousb.]

I'm so awkward to the point where I'll act like I don't notice at all lol

[@adrian3747_]

SAME

[@petrisorblaga5506]

Yes is true i did all these beutiful things for my crush my boyfriend but he fiind someone who dose not all this things but he likes him better and first he ceated in me with him and now he is with him even If i forgive him told him i want him back and tried evrething to work it, he could'nt seen how much i loved him and IT was totaly absorbt by that guy

[@easymac24]

I get what you're saying with girls liking you. When I was young girls would tell me they think I'm cute and I always just assumed they were messing with me or I was just like "ok". 😂

[@ZeePark21]

I knew he always liked me even back then. The signs were clear as day. But I was too cold and didn't know how to act around him (or any guys for that matter) so I put on my daily resting bitch face when they're around. That was 4 years ago. Now I'm in medical school and hadn't dated a single person even though a couple of guys have tried it, and it turns out that I want him and only him. There's nothing like him and I regret my behaviour back then. I'mma daydream and cry my ass again on the 5th of February 'cause that was basically the exact date I met him in 2017. I still hope that I'd see him again. He's still single and never dated either (we have common friends plus I still check his social media lmao).

[@user-gp5ot2xb7t]

I know what you mean, I hate guys who'd tell me they like me. I much rather prefer we just start kissing before we start chatting, if we like each other then take it from there.

[@Courtney-Jai]

It's what ever floats your boat I think it's just important to creat a connection

[@ricocervante9146]

Oh well I'ma be forever alone. No signs from anyone near me.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Or maybe you haven't noticed them

[@jonsnor4313]

Have a low opinion of one self can let you miss a lot of signs. There are ways to trick yourself slowly to like yourself better like saying in the mirror regulary, i am attractive, or you devlish handsome bastard. Biut i have no right to talk about myself, but it works in small steps.

[@joshua2764]

I feel u bro

[@loudort9874]

As a guy who likes A guy I can verify I do all these things😭🤚🏾

[@aemjay7225]

I've recently known a guy for about 1 month now. I do really like him but I don't know yet if it's mutual too. It's always me who tries to chat him up. He's like a different person when we are chatting online vs physical meet up. I noticed that he was quite clingy to me when we went out for a movie last week. Then we went for dinner right after where we talked for hours. Then, when I was leaving in my car, suddenly he called me and gifted me with a box of cheesetarts (he is a baker). But then, when we're not physically together, he never initiates any chat with me. It's always me who do it. I can't take this anymore. I'm about to come clean about my feelings for him this coming Saturday. But before I do that, does anyone here have any words of wisdom for me? Maybe someone who's been in a similar situation? Thank you in advance.

[@justmeajah]

Been in similar situations. Just be clear, talk about it, prepare for the worst

[@aemjay7225]

@@justmeajah Too bad for me that it didn't work out. As if he knew what I was up to when I initiated that second date. He responded by dragging it on and on maybe hoping that I would give up. So I saved myself some dignity by totally cutting him off. I vowed to never reach out to him again unless he initiates it. I took it that he wasn't at the right place to proceed further with me. I have come to terms that everything has its place and time. Interestingly, he still views my story from time to time which I guess means nothing nowadays 😅 Yup so that's it. What's your story? Were the cupids on your side?

[@justmeajah]

@@aemjay7225 no it's not hahaha. But at least we've tried right

[@HollywoodF1]

Totally right. I think people like me who have no interest in me, and I am the last one to know when someone is trying to pick up on me. I think I'm more straightforward when I approach guys.

[@markk4473]

Had some situations with noticing features and complimenting like eyes, hair , body muscles ripping tight in shirt, have u been working out (saying in jokey way like looking sexy showing some chest pecs but low key mean). Whether it’s towards me or me towards others I like showing interest I like them.

[@Benzyl_Penoxide]

There’s this guy I’ve been friends with for over a year, never really thought of him liking me or vice versa. Now I’m just starting to like him more than friends, what can I do right now to get closer to him? I’m going to try to hang out with outside of school but then what do I do then...

[@erossummer9344]

I have done things that you were saying here and at the same time I have been ignoring so many guys who had been doing exactly what you were saying here. I feel so dumb!

[@yazanlavigne]

Second for the 1st time lol, I see the hair got longer looks good, and love your accent btw. 🙂

[@absolitly]

There is a Guy I really like and I cant stop staring at him. I really want to ask him out but I am way too afraid because I am not out yet. Does any of you know how to give him a sign to show that I like him without he getting it if he is straight?

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's a tough one especially if your not out yourself yet

[@jonsnor4313]

Did you get closer? Good luck.

[@jonsnor4313]

Probably subtile manipulating the conversation with reaffirming things to dig deeper in in topics regarding if he is interested in gay activism or similar, or whom he likes. But i guess honestly a bit honesty would be easier.And dont try to think, just do something like what if i like you if he is an understanding person especially. But if not, talk to him and subtile ask him out, while youre a good active listener. I guess that could do something.

[@absolitly]

@@jonsnor4313 thank you

[@S01-k9z]

Bit late , but it's all in the eyes , see if he looks at you and holds your gaze

[@JefferriAndrews]

I love your video, thank you so much for uploading dude. Your content is so good.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well thank you for sticking around and watching it

[@MarMar-yd5oo]

If I like someone. First thing first I get them to notice me and get to know their family member and friends. Then tell them I like that person and they tell that person I like. The hard part is getting to like someone who is already taken but still want to get to know me and look at me when I'm not looking.. which is why it's hard for me to let go of that person if that person won't let me go.. I tried to let go but it's hard to let go cuz my feeling is just too strong to dislike a person.. what should I do?... My crush is already taken and just wanted to get my attention even friends of that person talk to each other when they see me from a far....

[@GoMrFrosty]

I’m bisexual man and it’s kinda hard me finding a boyfriend ( I’ve recently came out) but when I was “ straight “ it was easy ( I never had a boyfriend btw )

[@ViolentRainbow]

I think it's easier for straight people because they get to at least assume the opposite gendered people they meet are also straight, with gay people you just don't get that and on top of facing possible rejection you also face possibly falling for a straight person which I have done so many damn times it's not even funny and it's really soul crushing to find out they're straight and it will never happen. Honestly I've given up trying to meet men in my normal life, I pretty much only meet guys on apps.

[@GoMrFrosty]

@@ViolentRainbow as someone who use to be straight I can say it’s even harder to find love ( well for me it is because I have adhd and autism so conversation is hard for me and keeping a relationship is even harder

[@seufimeaqui9034]

@@GoMrFrostyim autistic too its soo terrible, i never even did anything romantic with anyone even though im probably attractive but i just can’t easily make connections with people

[@King-ev3cx]

I honestly feel a bit weird.. Im a freshman in high school and this guy from another class keeps looking at me.. kind of like how you described it.. Idk how to feel abt it honestly. I would like to know him he does start conversations with me by asking for a cig or stuff like that ( Mind you that I dont smoke ) So yeah im in a bit of a pickle.

[@King-ev3cx]

And he keeps looking at me and glancing away.. Yeah idk Just wanted to get that out there. I mostly came to your video to get informed I dont have anything against Lgbtq people in fact im friends with alot of them. But yes just wanted to get that out honestly you got my subscription.

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@King-ev3cx well the real question is do you like them back or do you just want to be friends

[@King-ev3cx]

@@Courtney-Jai Well I do like the attention I guess.. But I havent tried talking to him.

[@King-ev3cx]

Idk It feels weird but kind of ok at the same time i dont mind him. Im always open to ideas tho

[@King-ev3cx]

Id really like to talk about it tho as it has been just staying in the back of my head

[@AcralysticMonkey95]

Totally relate with the whole someone in my face and me completely blanking it! Literally only start to realise when I am older those were the signs haha. Good video bro! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

[@citroville1366]

you're such a handsome guy💕😁😍

[@punchieeiy]

I am a male and still minor I have sexual fantasies with men but never had imagined a life I want romance and sex but not whole life but with girls I have crush I confused and am I bicurious or bisexual!!?

[@punchieeiy]

I don't look at people I like becz If I look at agirl it's creepy still and a never look at a man or boy becz in India it's horrible !!!!!

[@punchieeiy]

Like to share becz people don't know me !! And I am free to care

[@philiporlando2052]

please can you make a video, how to get a guy to notice you

[@Rey3518]

Been a fan of your vids for quite some time now and I found this video so useful like damn sometimes I really look past things like compliments, conversation starters and so many stuff woah. No wonder why I'm single still ugh lol

[@Courtney-Jai]

Somtimes this is straight in front of us and we don't notice till someone tells us

[@jjtint]

Never picked up on some of these clues before 😊

[@Courtney-Jai]

Me too haha I guess it's part of growing up

[@angelsantos3590]

Thanx for the advise, although I wasn't really looking for that kind of information but your video just started playing and as soon as I heard you talking, I fell in love with your accent, and we'll you're really good looking guy as well. Take care handsome!

[@chriscripplercruz1833]

Lol I was in the army for 12 years and retired now from getting injured in Iraq and if we didn't tease someone or make fun of them we didn't like them one bit lol because we had 90 percent of down time being a combat soldier so that's all we did was joke on each other

[@Courtney-Jai]

Its general human interaction if we want someone's attention most the time we will do anything to get it , very sorry to hear about your injury.

[@adrian3747_]

I tend to ignore em to the point that they think i hate em

[@Courtney-Jai]

Maybe hold off with such intensity then

[@adrian3747_]

Courtney-Jai i just tend to get overwhelmed with emotions that’s why i do that. I know I’m one the only one lol

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@adrian3747_ of course it's a confusing time you haven't got the experience to react with confidence but it's all come with time

[@Courtney-Jai]

what is your favourite super hero , mines SPAWN

[@mannyj4751]

Courtney-Jai ....You!

[@Micah_nm]

My mom!!! lol

[@youngking4941]

Flash

[@JefferriAndrews]

Captain America and you

[@jaymesnelson4329]

Storm of the Xmen

[@ollyhendrickx7901]

Always enjoying following you 💛

[@Idrick]

I don’t know if u remember me but I was struggling in coming out well not any more I am out an u r right I do feel so much better watching I thought was was going to happen didn’t thanks

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's brilliant. If I'm honest, I speak to so many people it can be hard just going by user names, but it's still doesn't change the fact that I'm very proud and so happy for you

[@Idrick]

The only problem I have when I see a guy I like , how do I bring up to him I am gay and like him an how can I bring up to him is he into dudes , without confrontation

[@Jc_2mild]

My friend that I sat beside me touched my hand right I said why are u touching my hand he said idk 🤷‍♀️ I thought he was gay and I was confused I’m gay but like idk if he is I found him handsome though and have a crush on him

[@Courtney-Jai]

Best thing to do is have a conversation with him about it

[@caillew]

so say now if someone in your class was throwing stuff at you, making jokes etc in class cause they know you like them but they're kinda flirty does that mean anything or is it just them being mean

[@Courtney-Jai]

Its hard to tell if their constantly trying to get your attention i would say yeah , but if there generally trying to upset you then no

[@caillew]

@@Courtney-Jai trying to get my attention they all just think it's banter haha, but tbh i Don't rlly think so, thanks!

[@Dhiraj-May8]

Hello!! CJ!!..if anyone starts liking you..is only because of your " COOL PERSONALITY"...btw I fear of girls..I don't want to them showing interest in me in sexual way☺️

[@Arcturus24]

You should have mentioned unnecessary physical contact too

[@johnmoon3848]

Loved this!

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'm happy you liked it

[@christianlopez7686]

it's really helpful thank you😘

[@markk4473]

You’re very accurate, I’ve had quite a lot of situations with the looking at someone looking away when they look…..also had someone going out their way to get me to go for drinks with colleagues on a Friday when I was finishing late, kept calling what’s left to do how long will u be, even going back to work to get me when I was pretending I was confused how to get there cos wanted to go home, went out way to get me there so I ended up going….😂

[@zacattack3513]

Im bisexual and I likea boy but i told him and he said he was straight and he WAS MY DREAM BOY Edit: I like how he was strong kind protective and he had anger issues and a stuttering problem but I saw past that and everytime he stuttered it was ssoooo cute

[@markh4926]

I was out with a younger couple and during the evening the guys gf asked me if I wanted to have sex with Jay. I was a lot stunned because I do but wasn't sure what to say because I'm almost 70 years old and wondered if she was just teasing us or just me. I'd like to get with him but the age difference confuses me. How to tell if it was a real question without coming out and asking the guy or girl. She sometimes likes to tease me and give me half answers and then says "That's all you get!"

[@Courtney-Jai]

Fair enough I mean couples can be open to all kinds of new things you just never know

[@lhiakali9437]

Hey!! 💯% Courtney-Jai I'm a new subscriber to all contents of you'res am from Oxford City, UK in England🇬🇧and I'm really enjoying this content "someone liking you sights" please do make a part2 of this version of the video, i would really appreciate it as well and in what not and that.. Amen👍👌

[@talansmith1342]

Hey can you help me come out as gay to my parents cuz I wanna but I’m scared

[@Courtney-Jai]

Message me on Instagram and we can have a chat

[@jhudedeg1705]

I bet u wont pin this bruh....but i just want to say u made ma day.💫

[@lostboidavid9126]

Jhude Deg oh look you were right

[@girijaj4853]

Wait the first one I do for my friends too?

[@Slavic_Evi]

I'm suffering like to much from something, that which is i love my friend from the middle school exaggeratedly but what i know is he is straight and religious in addition, I don't like the LGBT stuff + we're living in a third world country , for that reason i can't tell him the truth that i love him , it's been more than 4 years and i have got really tired , I fell into a state of depression.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Unfortunately you have to move on , there's no other advice then that you can't change what won't change and you won't be happy until you move on and change

[@Slavic_Evi]

@@Courtney-Jai I'll try to do my best at least this year, Thx bro for the response into a 5ys old vid

[@OLDS98]

Courtney you enjoy your pants.. You cleaned up your face. Looks great! You really have invested in your channel and it is paying off. I do not use social media. I have no way of contacting you or connecting with you. A lot of what you said is true. I miss all the signs... you are not the only one who misses them. Informative video.

[@MrLatimer91]

A guy I met at a new job, he's married and hasn't said he is BI, but I am BI all we talk about is our privates and how we would make out together and I always say do you want to come over so I can ravage your sexy body, he doesn't have an answer kinda thing, but yet we go on talking about sexual positions that only to men can have together, we never talk about women sexually, does this sound familiar for two guys if only one of us is BI ? great video thanks keep it up.

[@adanklord4103]

As a guy, I annoy everybody. I like poking and making fun of people. Not because I like them, I just genuinely like to do it XD

[@Courtney-Jai]

Fair enough i do the same occasionally

[@COVID-19_Crab]

We all do

[@tinalarsen6059]

I liked your video😀you said a lot of clever stuff😝tina

[@bradbiles952]

Good job!! You always speak the truth, love it. Hi April!!! See you next time :) Have fun

[@samuelcarnall309]

😂 look for the subtle signs like get literally saying 'yes I'd go out with him' while you're right there to hear it 😁😁😁

[@robertasliutas2903]

It's like listening to a 10 years old child giving advices on dating and atuff😂😂

[@Courtney-Jai]

@robertasliutas2903 Well, this 10 year old has 10 year long relationship and is engaged , sometimes, you have to not take life so seriously.

[@quininnboysusvillarocero9837]

The lovely fish are not in this video. 😭😭

[@an_avocadothanks4949]

Where you get those Cookie Monster pjs? 🍪🍪💙

[@Courtney-Jai]

I got them as Christmas present

[@jonniefesto3715]

You are real kind of guy rare to find in LGBT community.

[@jackroberts9788]

Well Alone forever yaaaaayyy!!😂😂😯

[@Courtney-Jai]

Come on little darlek you won't be alone forever

[@jackroberts9788]

@@Courtney-Jai unlikely, but awww thanks😁😁

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@jackroberts9788 darleks always come back and their never alone

[@jackroberts9788]

@@Courtney-Jai i need to change this dalek pic ay😂

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@jackroberts9788 maybe ask rose Tyler first 🤣😂😊😅😂😅😊

[@tanastans2245]

Literally no guy I know shows any of the signs listed 😭😭 damn

[@Courtney-Jai]

There's alot more but there's only so many I can say in one video haha

[@spadrine]

I love you Courtney-Jai, but what is it about British men and bad hair styles? Anyway, I would love videos about meeting British men and what they like and don't like. I'm American, so I realize there's lots of cultural differences. Oh, and I too have had in retrospect lots of hints people have given me that they liked me and either I didn't realize it or didn't think it was real. Oh well.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Can't work out if your saying I have bad hair or not haha but yeah I can see if I can some of my friend involved

[@spadrine]

@@Courtney-Jai I won't say "bad hair" just different than American men in general. Older British men keep their hair long...those who still have hair and it looks very strange. Maybe because they don't regularly use barbers much. I just know it's not attractive to me at all.

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@spadrine I'm growing my hair because I've always wanted to but my hair style isn't the common hair style in England it's would either be top knot with a beard , curly poodle hair short back and side or finally short back and sides with a partying to the left or right

[@spadrine]

@@Courtney-JaiSounds good! I actually love long hair on guys. But styling it the right way is so important. Otherwise, it looks like no thought was put into it and it comes out looking messy instead of appealing.

[@jkwellness1639]

My common sense and dating skills are so bad I have to Google everything. Nothing makes sense.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Just takes practice typically the worst thing that can happen is rejection but then you just move on

[@alex_offtheza]

It really help me thanks now they are crazy for me

[@ChicagoGuyLivingLife]

So young and knowledgable about human interaction. Excellent advice! I wish I had paid attention to the signs 20+ years ago. Oh well . . . life goes on. :>)

[@Courtney-Jai]

Still time to live my friend

[@Imayebrook]

you should just do love spells, they work

[@izzyyellowhair7117]

Omg I am bisexual too. .I just felt like a same thing trying to get a attention..about guyz and girlz too even they start to look at me a lot too lol .I just felt a same thing too

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's good they say great minds think alike

[@izzyyellowhair7117]

@@Courtney-Jai thx..

[@izzyyellowhair7117]

@@Courtney-Jai thx..love

[@jascqueshere28]

yo are you that youtube guy from heartstopper?

[@Courtney-Jai]

Yes I am

[@J_Neptun3]

Yh um I really liked a guy and did pretty much everything but annoy him and kind of talk to him in a way. Like I was just too awkward to do it and I think he would have told me to piss off anyway. But I tried to talk to him a couple days before I told him I liked him so I could just build that bit of confidence up. He was so difficult to talk to holy shit. He typed how he spoke and it had 0 grammatical correctness. But he found out through his mate that I liked him and he went bat shit mental at me. Then didn't let me explain my side of the story and just blocked me on everything. I'm still blocked to this day.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Maybe he wasn't gay that's the problem I lot of men are insecure but, that's not your fault that's his own

[@J_Neptun3]

@@Courtney-Jai oh god I know. I wasn't expecting anything but when I say he was a dick about it, he was a DICK about it. He straight up avoided me for the first 2 weeks of year 11. Then he spoke to me one to one when we had our first school football match that he wanted us to just forget what happened. Also I'm new and I really enjoy your videos. This was definitely a surprise seeing a reply from you 😊.

[@Courtney-Jai]

People can be that way , and yeah I try to reply to everyone after all you take the time to watch my videos and comment it's only right you should get a reply back

[@scaroe89]

all of those...everything you said is me!

[@scaroe89]

well that settles it...im in love with my friends Joshua and Corey. (they are 2 awesome guys in a relationship together)

[@vincentmallette4908]

You're so cute.

[@saranox7319]

Bi guy at my job does this to me. Yas! :D

[@teeraponkiengkaew5247]

I am falling love you from Thailand.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Awww that's cute

[@Jay_mm2uwu]

K ngl I'm confused I have like 1 boy that works with me in like school we do leadership team ship all day and like idk if I'm gay or not bc people don't really pay attention to me bc people just call me quiet boy in class that's all I hear so idk what I expect I feel like I'm bi bc like I like being around both people but at the same times I don't really have alot of girls in my life but my sis bc like girls don't talk to me but a boy will and when I found out my friend was aro ace he was my parner in school I kinda got sad bc he only sees me as family but we are still friends so like I don't really know and when somebody shiped us her name is Ava and he said "ew" but there are like 1. Ather boys that are kinda trying to get my attention but idk but this is a problem bc I never grown up in the lbgtq so that kinda gets me a little worried so I just feel like I won't have a partner bc I just don't know if I'm gay or not I know this is just my zodiac but Gemini in me I can kinda feel like I'm more of attractive to both genders so I just do not know ty who ever reads this.

[@paulwilks6864]

I'm Gemini ♊ and I Am bi

[@sorickrohithhutheram3878]

Omg😮😍love the pants

[@Courtney-Jai]

Me to 😁

[@chriscripplercruz1833]

Lol cookie dough magic I'm most definitely stealing that I hope that it isn't copyrighted lol haha I finally found someone interested in me since I started dating again since my divorce in September and I watched your videos to get back lol and thanks to these videos I'm back at it with the confidence that I lost

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I'm very happy to help , hopefully you find someone as lovely as you to.