Signs He's NOT Mature Enough!

[@Curiosity83]

The more committed I became to myself. The more people uncommitted themselves to me. When my confidence increased, the people who were benefiting from me being lost left thank god

[@zakiyaray8587]

God upper case G

[@ITSRAYANNNN]

My homegirl told me that she said don’t let your boyfriend keep you from your husband

[@rocachick860]

“The higher your standards are, the more men you will disqualify.” I just watched a video short about this 3 days ago from Ace Metaphor.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Absolutely. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

You are absolutely correct. I'm even shocked at how much I allowed myself to be used and tolerated

[@joannewoodcroft1038]

😪

[@christineribone9351]

Hey thats right. I was 49, in excellent shape and still looking 30'ish. He was in his mid 30's and had a big crush on me. The physicsl and chemical attraction was intense but we couldnt get a conversation going. We were on two totally different planes. He wanted to do that cutsie flirtation thing, but Im 100 percent serious at all times. We just never saw eye to eye.

[@christines9227]

@ 11 minutes I have to agree. I said to my ex hey you want to work on your resume tomorrow when I get off work? He said sure, I get home and called him. I said hey are you ready to work on your resume? I said I will help you. He blew up on me got mad and said he was hanging with his boys and I'm stressing him?! Wtf I was like ok cool and I walked away. Thanks 🎉❤😊

[@ginalatimer1181]

❤ Derrick .... I got away from the narsasistic! Finally got away from him. I got my own place and got out but took me 25 yrs. I'll never get those yrs back but my future is great because I have a personal relationship with the Lord. Thank you for teaching me. I thank God and you! You helped me grow up and look for why I was unhappy and how to get out. Thank you! God bless you. ❤

[@satanyahenderson6283]

I've been with this person he tries to keep me down so he can feel like he better than me

[@dancer4christ100]

It's me! Got that right! I'm working on me. I feel good & God is good, all the time!

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Your thoughts are great Derrick! And i agree..wisdom is not about age absolutely! It's definitely so frustrating dealing with immature old people!

[@babydii3487]

💯💯💯

[@Diarrheagod]

They are the worst

[@Godpp171]

Older immature elder adults are the worst. 🤢 In reality the pickings are slim for the sisters.

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

@GodsFavor-IT What there is is that immaturity from any source hinders growth and the ultimate enemy to progress.

[@Godpp171]

@@maggiewanjiru2807 exactly, it's best to limit your circle to protect your peace and personal progress. I'm always just speaking from experience.

[@rarazjewel6952]

Showing up whole & consistently for self!

[@crazytracy71]

This was an absolute eye opener for me. I recently left my ex bf for many reasons, immaturity was 1 of them. Since I've left, I've grown as a woman already, n it's only been 2mos. Him...has been in the same place for a minimum of 8yrs.

[@Emily-ed6ed]

Great message

[@MindyNorvell]

Thank you Sir. I except my age with Grace and Thankfulness.

[@8mmel]

My lord are you talking to me. This is my current experience!!

[@dea-deephinney6434]

Absolute gold! And yes, I always feel relief when I tune into one of your videos!

[@ginalatimer1181]

Exactly Derrick! My ex was lazy and was never wrong. I got out!❤

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

Yes I do amen,I'm planning on going to school,I have noticed that about the dating.

[@T_Nice]

Amen!🙏🏽

[@tdJ4934]

I.. not even dates, alledged friends also!

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

I down, I'm busy doing so much work on myself. Its unbelievable

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

I'm still studying and in the tourism field.

[@aleyahyasin5502]

Thank you for this! Helps so much for me right now!

[@end-timeministrywatcher3588]

"I" I think I out grew my husband. I can no longer hold a decent conversation. I was told "I changed, you're not the same". When I thanked him for noticing he thought I was making fun of him and he got upset. 😢😢

[@jheavensfaith9713]

Wow so very gogeously true thanks for this amazing content bless ya sir

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

And I'm from South Africa 53yrs

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

Thanks so much Internet brother.

[@mariemarino8237]

You are always so on point!

[@User4god04hate]

Aman Aman Aman thats the truth lord help him n bless myself thanks again for u being u luv ya bro

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

Amen to that brother!!

[@adreannetorres7448]

I am I am not going back heading forward all the time

[@francescamiller4340]

💯%Facts Derrick!😼

[@starmccray4585]

Yes that is correct

[@MindyNorvell]

May the Creator of this Universe bless you entire family.

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

I get that a lot and I'm not even dating

[@tonyasimonescheurich4653]

This subject right here was almost the death of me more than once because of how much I put myself into another person and how I experienced love from myself through the other person only but the way that unconditional love works healthy full love is that I give full love and except no matter what mistakes I've made no matter what to myself because I deserve it I have a child of god I am a child of light I deserve that space I am doing that for myself I'm dependent on my from another person I'm drowning or that I can't breathe when breathe to another person it is a gift given it to anything that is done to purposefully hurt that person would make it not love at that point We all want that forgive when we make

[@tonyasimonescheurich4653]

The tablet I'm using botched last part of what I was sharing

[@vadra380]

The ego! I really can’t stand the ego…..

[@carolynwashington3004]

Amen, Caroly

[@jacquelineward7421]

Yes

[@adriennelarkin8188]

Yes He Says Things But Ready to Go All The Way As Fas As Taking me out to See News Places or Nothing What is his Excuse? Work! in Other Words That,s Practictly All He Knows Now.

[@rubyfullglam]

Dee, you describe the evolved leveled up woman perfectly.

[@blumenaue7590]

One of your best.

[@adriennelarkin8188]

Hello Derrick, I,m On A Relationship Break.

[@hilaryfalkenberg9348]

Amen Derrick 🙏

[@dbillops1]

Amen!! 👍🏽

[@DunnessaAlston]

I have get ready for work

[@annajacobs4943]

Amen brother D.

[@healthcoachtammytaylor7609]

Yes! Dead on

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

Amen this is so true

[@melisalercari4334]

Spot on

[@satanyahenderson6283]

I it's like my relationship went to hell

[@babydii3487]

They people be immature and full of drama 😢

[@latashahumphrey769]

Thank you not the same

[@christineallen450]

Excellent video ❤

[@MsKoolbeanz1]

Yep!

[@ginalatimer1181]

Amen!

[@silvermyst3081]

Truth.

[@adreannetorres7448]

Amen and Amen

[@laluna1043]

🙏 agree!!

[@laurasainz4836]

Cuz grown, emotionally mature men are few and far between

[@MindyNorvell]

Amen 🙏

[@pbfairley]

Amen

[@myraquick9691]

I!!

[@latashahumphrey769]

This is true

[@tanyamontgomery3172]

YES

[@Sherry-t1h]

Yessss 😊

[@sonyagray4261]

I.

[@wbey2692]

💯🙏🏾

[@robynhawthorne3160]

Amennnnnnnnn

[@MindyNorvell]

❤❤❤

[@lindamuniz5104]

Yessss

[@EMPRESS_MODE88]

❤💯✔️🎯

[@donnaflowers9100]

I 👍👍👍

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

Its male colleagues

[@brijay3009]

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[@NeffewLA]

The smarter you are , the dumber you are ????????????

[@jr38499]

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[@M.W.French-p2u]

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[@willietowns3917]

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[@willietowns3917]

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[@MARGO-ze3er]

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[@Amber-oc3nc]

👋👋👋👋👋👋

[@FaithInHealing3-6xg]

I but I am worth it all🫶🏾🙌🏾

[@Ianu5]

Amen!

[@khanyisilewotshela4748]

Amen

[@angelinaelder5474]

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[@chosen1liz]

Amen