How You Know The Relationship Is Over

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Coach Ken Canion

Coach Ken Canion

Жыл бұрын

How You Know The Relationship Is Over
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@justathought630
@justathought630 Жыл бұрын
When holding on becomes more painful than letting go.
@AJ-kb9hf
@AJ-kb9hf Жыл бұрын
Exactly this and then eventually you stop caring.
@susananavarrete2801
@susananavarrete2801 Жыл бұрын
Yyyyup! 🫤
@shaybuttersbm
@shaybuttersbm Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@lenapin6521
@lenapin6521 Жыл бұрын
Have you read about #Afflictions scriptures. I encourage if you like to read. #Truth
@justathought630
@justathought630 Жыл бұрын
@@lenapin6521 I haven't but I will. Thanks.
@variousblack7922
@variousblack7922 Жыл бұрын
When she's fighting with you you have a chance. When she stops fighting she doesn't see anything worth fighting for
@TG-nh6ni
@TG-nh6ni 10 ай бұрын
True true 💯...
@paulinebaylock8740
@paulinebaylock8740 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@yellowbone_baddie3353
@yellowbone_baddie3353 8 ай бұрын
@ladyT2Dwerl
@ladyT2Dwerl 7 ай бұрын
Unless a child is involved. We will argue for a child. Trust
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra 7 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏽 That’s me!
@breakitup5274
@breakitup5274 Жыл бұрын
Once we cry that last cry, it's just over.
@natural3362
@natural3362 Жыл бұрын
Aww the tears of closure
@VJ-zw7xz
@VJ-zw7xz Жыл бұрын
That’s it
@ladyt4478
@ladyt4478 Жыл бұрын
Yup, or when there are no more tears, you're done.
@paulinesimamane9968
@paulinesimamane9968 Жыл бұрын
That's it, I got up in the middle of the night whilst crying myself to sleep and said to myself, these are the last tears. It was over from that day.
@michie4872
@michie4872 Жыл бұрын
I agree that last cry is like his soul tie ripping out from your heart! You can feel the energy legit leaving like a demon being banished 😅 then your free and ready yo love yourself right❤😊
@crackerjacks6789
@crackerjacks6789 Жыл бұрын
When a woman fed up..There’s nothing you can do about it.😮
@jaywool9129
@jaywool9129 Жыл бұрын
True, she is done forever.
@WorkoutorWorkin
@WorkoutorWorkin Жыл бұрын
La La La, La...Laaaaahhhh!
@riri9134
@riri9134 Жыл бұрын
Kelly told y’all, y’all better listen
@MegaLadylove2012
@MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын
Chile when you start setting them up with your friends and even puttin in good words for the person they came to u about talkin abt how they wanna get to know this person, and thinkin u might be jealous and instead u tell them how cool tht person is and they should go ahead and get to know the person, and all you hear is radio silence 😅😂. Negro it’d been over 🤣. U jst found out
@tonyascreativespace3067
@tonyascreativespace3067 Жыл бұрын
@@WorkoutorWorkin 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@wecame2win
@wecame2win 9 ай бұрын
When a woman walks out, she was thinking about that moment perhaps for months, probably years.
@RebelLyfeBoxing80
@RebelLyfeBoxing80 Ай бұрын
Welp..I say let em walk😂😂
@user-yc7jr7of9y
@user-yc7jr7of9y 20 күн бұрын
True. I checked out 2 years before finally filing that divorce paper
@JETTSTACHI
@JETTSTACHI 10 күн бұрын
​@@RebelLyfeBoxing80And.....they do!
@nedrashereadywilliams9496
@nedrashereadywilliams9496 Жыл бұрын
When I no longer care, it's over. I don't talk, I don't text, I don't even see you no more.
@candyl1033
@candyl1033 Жыл бұрын
Fr...
@tiana2028
@tiana2028 Жыл бұрын
Current situation
@Nani-Afinarte13
@Nani-Afinarte13 Жыл бұрын
Can you change that with time?
@nedrashereadywilliams9496
@nedrashereadywilliams9496 Жыл бұрын
@@Nani-Afinarte13 IDK how long others breaking point is but, I don't like being miserable too long
@Nani-Afinarte13
@Nani-Afinarte13 Жыл бұрын
@@nedrashereadywilliams9496 i got dumped. We both knew we weren't compatible but I tried to work it out but eventually she pulled the plug because she knew I would not do it. We have a show on May that we both are going to, but idk how I should act around her. I'm giving her space that she requested but I really thought she was never going to dumb me. I'm 28 and she's 26.
@cheryllesene5942
@cheryllesene5942 Жыл бұрын
Baby that indifference hit men hard. They think that you aren't going anywhere.
@charlotteclark6061
@charlotteclark6061 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's what THEY think! 😂
@jazzyjay8545
@jazzyjay8545 Жыл бұрын
Yes hunni I just left a man of 15 years because of this he thought I wasn't going anywhere,I am free of some one who didn't appreciate me.
@carisdelapena3271
@carisdelapena3271 Жыл бұрын
But R.KELLY SAID IT BEST WHEN A WOMAN FED UP.
@SpiritualLifeCoach43
@SpiritualLifeCoach43 Жыл бұрын
​@@carisdelapena3271 That's the same thing.
@SpiritualLifeCoach43
@SpiritualLifeCoach43 Жыл бұрын
True 😂
@sheiladay-od2me
@sheiladay-od2me Жыл бұрын
Sometimes, you have to recognize that there is no relationship.
@sophiaansley-palmer340
@sophiaansley-palmer340 Жыл бұрын
When you've done all you've can. STAND,... for me it allows me to work me, UNTIL the Exit Door opens up for me to walk away with a clean clear conscious. Self Love
@robinlewisart_1997
@robinlewisart_1997 Жыл бұрын
Gawd yeah
@Tabetha.
@Tabetha. 11 ай бұрын
I love that quote.
@RoseMarrylove-lr6ge
@RoseMarrylove-lr6ge 7 ай бұрын
Hello
@lynnodonovan4204
@lynnodonovan4204 9 ай бұрын
Women will say over and over we need to talk…because we want to deal with issues. If men keep ignoring us and hurting us eventually we shut down. It’s sad but true.
@myeshalitt-lw3uo
@myeshalitt-lw3uo 5 ай бұрын
I swear!!!!
@cassumschannel2629
@cassumschannel2629 5 ай бұрын
Yes! This is so true!
@elizabethfindlay5752
@elizabethfindlay5752 4 ай бұрын
Yes. Him: "We'll talk about it later" Later never comes. Him: "You never brought it up later"
@ninarodriguez6158
@ninarodriguez6158 3 ай бұрын
​@@elizabethfindlay5752😅😅😅 I can't believe there are other people out here having this same conversation. That was us this week, the week before that, oh and YEARS before that. To the point that I don't even want to talk and hash it out anymore. I know what's coming 🤦‍♀️ They always try to avoid it until they face plant on hard reality.
@Renee_Giovanni
@Renee_Giovanni 3 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!! 💯
@Candycanecoup
@Candycanecoup Жыл бұрын
When a guy acts nonchalant and indifferent I walk away
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
💯
@rm5282
@rm5282 Жыл бұрын
That is the right thing to do. It saves everyone a lot of pain and suffering. If he left, either you or your friends will go damage his home or car. When you leave on your own accord, you are less likely to damage property. Maybe you are not like that. It was just my example.
@verypettygirl
@verypettygirl Жыл бұрын
​@@rm5282😂😂😂😂😂 or stalk him and find ways to ruin his career
@Tabetha.
@Tabetha. 11 ай бұрын
👍
@rm5282
@rm5282 11 ай бұрын
@@verypettygirl 💯
@adrihendricks640
@adrihendricks640 10 ай бұрын
Women know a marriage or relationship is over loooooooong before the man does.
@sonyadunbar3747
@sonyadunbar3747 8 ай бұрын
A woman can see it and feel it when it’s over. She will tell you what she sees and feels to give you a chance to fix it…if you don’t care to, she will eventually move on…as she should
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@bassinblue
@bassinblue Ай бұрын
Let's be real, most women DON'T tell the guy it's coming to an end and secretly wants him to screw up so she can leave. She has already entertained the idea of being with someone else.
@IlariLehtonen-oo8mv
@IlariLehtonen-oo8mv 7 күн бұрын
This is just stupid. Implying that its always the man that needs to do something or fix something . An actual adult woman would work with their partner to get the relationship on track AND ALSO be willing to equally change themselves if needed/if they are the problem. Instead of this childish "you must change or im leaving" bully attitude expressed in the first post here
@queenelueme8946
@queenelueme8946 Жыл бұрын
When a woman does not fuss about you. That's a wrap😮
@roshownabarnes880
@roshownabarnes880 Жыл бұрын
totally agree that indifference hit totally different, because you're sick in tried of being sick and tried. you just dont give a damn anymore. looking side ways now you see me, im done!
@melodieadorable
@melodieadorable 10 ай бұрын
You can say that again
@391Jordan
@391Jordan 10 ай бұрын
Some people are so blind to what’s right in front of them. Their loss.
@sharnelgezwint3990
@sharnelgezwint3990 6 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@ronnietoni7930
@ronnietoni7930 5 ай бұрын
The same with men when he no longer argue or snaps and he’s calm he’s gone
@adrianasoto5578
@adrianasoto5578 Жыл бұрын
When a woman stops arguing or fighting or caring. Its totally over.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 2 ай бұрын
I’m about there
@abassiyanda8179
@abassiyanda8179 Ай бұрын
Same here, may God help me
@lashanda8977
@lashanda8977 Жыл бұрын
When I don't give a damn...it's over.
@dorianroy7866
@dorianroy7866 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@GrapheneOxideIsInCVVax
@GrapheneOxideIsInCVVax Жыл бұрын
Women 🐸☕
@metamatata
@metamatata 5 ай бұрын
If you're asking yourself if it's over, its probably over
@GJCHSMM
@GJCHSMM 9 ай бұрын
I always say INDIFFERENCE is MORE deadly THAN HATE 😊😊😊
@T.D.8
@T.D.8 6 ай бұрын
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
@user-wc8ki5xf6o
@user-wc8ki5xf6o Жыл бұрын
Most marriages are over but most couples just stay together for the kids and finical reasons!!!
@ladymay7789
@ladymay7789 Жыл бұрын
Some marriages also stay together because one or both parties are too embarrassed to admit they're having problems and they want/need to separate.
@paulinebaylock8740
@paulinebaylock8740 10 ай бұрын
Or familiarity… you’d be surprised how many people stay together “strictly” out of fear of being with someone new…
@EnoughSaid564
@EnoughSaid564 8 ай бұрын
Many stay together because one of the partners is not able to sustain themselves & probably need his/ her medical insurance. Also some partners have Ben so devalued they have no self worth and believe there’s nothing they can do or even rebuild what they once had 😢
@HeyTripleJ
@HeyTripleJ Ай бұрын
Sadly yes
@kw3036
@kw3036 7 ай бұрын
The power of indifference 🙌🏽! I did not understand the concept UNTIL I became indifferent towards my ex husband and when I say I left and did not look back 💯😂! I never thought it was possible! Gods grace, I never had soo much PEACE in my life ❤
@jenniferbreidenbach579
@jenniferbreidenbach579 5 ай бұрын
When he starts being too busy, or won't communicate. I pull back, and if he doesn't come back, just keep walking. All further communications are ignored
@greenqueen2673
@greenqueen2673 Жыл бұрын
Part of that indifference is a devaluation of that person - they are no longer worth my time, effort, or emotions. When I see them, I feel nothing. They are ghosts that no longer exist in my world.
@greenqueen2673
@greenqueen2673 7 ай бұрын
@@tyasiamillender2817 Say what now?🤔 Not trying to meet nobody online. Good luck to your uncle tho.
@MsDestinydiva
@MsDestinydiva Жыл бұрын
Hate and love are not that far apart . Two sides of the same coin. Indifferent is 🗝
@shaybuttersbm
@shaybuttersbm Жыл бұрын
When he doesn't give the attention and she won't get upset with anything, she ready to go.
@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl Жыл бұрын
I’ve given him almost 5 years of my life he went from my hero to zero, having no emotional commitment to me, ghosting, not even taking any interest in both myself or our daughter. I love him with all my heart, but now i gotta protect my little girl and i from the inconistency
@SentilongJamir777
@SentilongJamir777 2 күн бұрын
I became comfortable in my own space after dating for 6 years i was going to marry her and she was ready as well but things changed when I gave her less time and attention because I was secured that she won't leave me and i always complaint when she asked for attention I thought it was childish and she left me i actually fucked up even more. She tells me to move on now 😢 I have tried everything in my power to get her back. She isn't dating anyone but she wants me to move on 😞 what's the best advice for me to win her back since I don't see myself with anyone.
@keepingmyfaith82
@keepingmyfaith82 Жыл бұрын
💯 He can get married today...an I wouldn't care 😂
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 Жыл бұрын
GOSPEL TRUTH. I saw a meme once that showed a man's clothes, and belongings thrown all over the front yard. The caption said; "This guy still has a chance" In the second picture the guy's clothes were folded neatly, and packed in boxes. That one said; "It's over, this guy is done". Once a woman gets to that point where you are no longer important enough for her to even get mad over, you're basically dead to her, as all the feelings that she once had for you are dead to. Best to just stop wasting your time, and move on.
@aidafigueroa3595
@aidafigueroa3595 Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@yahayrawho
@yahayrawho Жыл бұрын
Indeed!! After 21 years of marriage- I didn’t just nearly fold and pack everything. I washed it all first. He asked if he could have my goose comforter off of my bed, I gladly gave him that as well; AND I helped him load everything in my jeep, drove him to his cousins house and carried much of his stuff up 4 or 5 flights of stairs. I WAS DONE!! Ten years later, I am STILL SO DONE!!
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 Жыл бұрын
@@yahayrawho Good for you, most of the time people misinterpret your silence, and calmness as not being upset by them, and that all you need is time to cool off, and they can sneak back in. And while that IS true, that you are no longer upset, but ONLY because you're so over them, and their BS...that the feelings that you once had for them are dead and gone, and that you have no interest whatsoever in resurrecting them. One thing I've learned, and I'd like to HUMBLY advise everyone that has been through this, (male, or female) is to not dwell in the energy of what the past ex's put you through....you're wiser now, you've learned your lesson, and the LAST thing that you want to do is to unintentionally attract another person to you because you keep giving that same energy your attention. Let's instead concentrate on our ideal partner, and trust The Most High to bring Him/Her to us....and Also, don't forget to forgive yourself for allowing yourself to be mistreated and accepting less than you deserve...TRUST ME, I know, you thought that you could Love the BS out of them...like I said...lesson learned.
@yahayrawho
@yahayrawho Жыл бұрын
@@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 well stated, and vital reminders for us all. Thank you. 💛🙏🏽⚔️ I’d be lying if I said that I don’t struggle with fully forgiving myself. I am still a work in progress, but I refuse to attract the same demon with a different name in a different body. I did date on and off six months after I got him out, for the first couple of years; under the terrible advice of the other narcissist that WAS in my life, my “dad.” I realized that I had to heal fully and the only way to do that was to finish raising my son and focus on ABBA/GOD, my obeisance to HIM and myself. I have not dated in about 8 years now. I KNOW that if it had not been for GOD’S mercy, grace, guidance, love, gifts of discernment and wisdom- I would not have made it out!! ALL praises and glory be to ABBA/FATHER.
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 Жыл бұрын
@@yahayrawho Yeah, I know how that go...in my case it was my mother, and I started my healing journey about 6 years ago when I decided to not do Thanksgiving with my family. I've seen the woman who birthed me once in 6 years, and that's only because I ran into her at the gas station, and I handled it like a Boss, in my brand new car that was a gift from The Most High. I can HONESTLY say that the ONLY thing that I regret about cutting her out of my life is that I didn't do it sooner. Narcasist carry a poisioness energy that if you engage with them for too long will infect every part of your life. If you can't cut them completely off, limit your dealing with them as much as possible. And don't for one minute feel like you have to put up with them just because DNA gives them a title in your life. Maybe they are part of a Generational Curse that God is freeing you from, and they are MEANT to exit your life. But only The Most High can answer that For you, and she will if you ask for clarification. I'm still trying to forgive myself, I think for me that therapy is in order. I REFFUSE to be a bitter old lady like her. Best Wishes....😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
@Minyobiznazz
@Minyobiznazz 6 ай бұрын
I am a female .. and I am done and checked out! Divorce ..nothing else I can possibly do with this narcissistic man. He has done too way too much verbally, mentally and physically. It will never change ..this is for God to fix/repair his trauma/brokeness. I pray he figures it out, but just not with me.
@bobbysupreme1
@bobbysupreme1 Ай бұрын
U speak about God but forget God doesn’t do divorce. Sometimes u have to play the cards u have been dealt. Patience and faith are so big in the Bible because they are important to proving to God how much u trust and believe in him. Don’t divorce. Divorce is not an option. Learn to love. God will fix the marriage on his time when he feels u guys are ready and have learned whatever it is about “unconditional love” that he is trying to teach u. God so loved the world(through all our sin) that he gave his only son for us. We are not perfect but Gid still loves us. That’s how marriage should be. Eventually he will bless you and things will get better. Keep the faith 🙏🏼
@lala5061
@lala5061 Ай бұрын
That's riiiiiiiiiggghhhhttttt! 👏🏽🙌🏽
@TonyWedd
@TonyWedd Жыл бұрын
it got to the point where I don't even care anymore. that's how bad the silent treatment got
@candiwinger5351
@candiwinger5351 4 ай бұрын
I agree. I'm in this situation right now.
@AJ-kb9hf
@AJ-kb9hf Жыл бұрын
He's right. I stop caring and that's the point I want out. Once you get to that point nothing can be done.
@agnusdeiii
@agnusdeiii Жыл бұрын
My love for those who have hurt me in the past never die. That doesn’t mean I’ll give them another chance at hurting me again. When I go silent it just means I’ve tried everything and nothing worked. I either don’t trust you anymore or I’ve lost hope in our relationship ever improving. I can never be ‘indifferent’ towards people I’ve once cared about, no matter how badly they’ve treated me. I can distance myself and pray for them from afar, though. God bless. 🙏
@Trustthatvibe8228
@Trustthatvibe8228 11 ай бұрын
Yep! Walked away and left it ALL! I'm not arguing over a house, furniture or washing machines! I can buy more.
@wwych72
@wwych72 10 ай бұрын
I never hang around for a man. If they chose the other woman, let them go. I don't even care.
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@KilvenLee
@KilvenLee 5 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful ❤
@Coffeetime1991
@Coffeetime1991 6 ай бұрын
exactly! if there's no pain theres no love. Pain of letting them go will let you know you truly love them
@californiacitizenswatch
@californiacitizenswatch Жыл бұрын
indifference ... %1000 FACTS
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@adriane3978
@adriane3978 9 ай бұрын
It’s true, I go silent and I stop fighting. Do what you want.
@sherriwooddell7551
@sherriwooddell7551 Жыл бұрын
He said I shut down. No, I just didn't give a shit anymore & wasn't giving him my energy again.
@HeyPrettyCurls
@HeyPrettyCurls Жыл бұрын
Yep i can feel myself getting to that point i cry less and less i smile more when I'm away from him than with him. Yep I'm bout done
@queenking6735
@queenking6735 10 ай бұрын
Can’t no one tell you better than yourself. Consider, and/or tell, yourself to get & STICK with a game plan. Especially if you feel, or are, stuck in some kind of way. Stand up for yourself!! Anything dark, dims light 💡 🤔 ***NO ONE should be able to control our emotions or have us feeling so down, sad, hurt, depressed, weighed,etc., OUTSIDE of ourselves.
@louavillebilly2936
@louavillebilly2936 Жыл бұрын
IF A MAN CHEATS ON ME AND I FIND OUT, THERE IS NOTHING ELSE I CAN DO WITH THAT MAN. IT IS OVER! PLAIN AND SIMPLE! ASK MY EX'ES IF THEY GOT ME BACK AFTER F-ING UP ROYALLY!
@cdharding
@cdharding Жыл бұрын
True! When I stop asking questions… IT IS OVER!!!
@angelaspringfield5584
@angelaspringfield5584 Жыл бұрын
Holding on is hard to do when love is gone.
@anishawashington8970
@anishawashington8970 Жыл бұрын
And that’s no lie.
@gloriacarr2525
@gloriacarr2525 10 ай бұрын
The biggest problem is when a man is blind to the facts that she no longer cares were there physically but mentally we checked out a long time ago , no fussing no cussing ,it's a wrap & they still think you won't leave we left a long time ago we just waiting for you to catch the drift!!
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@gloriacarr2525
@gloriacarr2525 7 ай бұрын
@@tyasiamillender2817 awee I'm flattered but I'm in a relationship 🥰 I hope he find the right lady for him
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
@@gloriacarr2525 thanks ma’am 🫢
@danielleclaiborne1155
@danielleclaiborne1155 Жыл бұрын
All facts. I’m tired. I don’t have any fight left and couldn’t care less what you do.💅
@fayes9184
@fayes9184 Жыл бұрын
Truth…when u fed up u literally do not care. You talk more reckless, you act more reckless, because your issues with them went too long without being discussed or addressed, til you want nothing to do with them because they could have took the opportunity to try to fix it but they didn’t so the caring person you were for them you cannot give them because they neglected the things you cared about longer then they should have, so it’s done & over at that point.
@orchider143
@orchider143 Жыл бұрын
True, tue and true. You are living in my head.
@aidafigueroa3595
@aidafigueroa3595 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!👍
@yamiam24
@yamiam24 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could give you two thumbs up for the accuracy of your post.
@tiffyb1413
@tiffyb1413 Жыл бұрын
Amen to this ❤
@ISTAStala
@ISTAStala Жыл бұрын
If an issue went to long without discussed then you need to communicate the issue so people are aware of the topic that went to long without discussion. That's on you to bring up anything that bothers you cause quiet mouths don't get fed.
@elainecongo3827
@elainecongo3827 Жыл бұрын
I BELIEVE IN COMMUNICATION WHICH SOME MEN SAYING YOU ALWAYS WANNA TALK ABOUT THINGS AND I SAY WHEN I STOP TALKING YOU NEED TO BE WORRIED AS LONG AS I'M TALKING I'M TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT WHEN I STOP TALKING FOR ME IT'S OVER LOL
@kendal4452
@kendal4452 Жыл бұрын
Indifferent, he's right about that. When that happens, she has weighed the relationship and formed a decision to leave.
@patty8945
@patty8945 Жыл бұрын
The most "dangerous" place to be. Once you stop caring they have no longer power over you and there is nothing they can do to convince you to stay.
@S_Blunt
@S_Blunt Жыл бұрын
Mine still thinks it's a game...'she's quiet, but she'll talkto me eventually'....he has NO idea I really don't even have it in me to care anymore. A part of me feels like he already knows how our next conversation will end..because contrary to popular belief: Men are NOT stupid.
@KelvinTroyJohnson
@KelvinTroyJohnson Жыл бұрын
True words. The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference. When they don’t care, it’s over!
@meditationandrelaxationmot6121
@meditationandrelaxationmot6121 Жыл бұрын
Oprah Winfrey once said, 'The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference.' Agree 100%
@queenking6735
@queenking6735 10 ай бұрын
Lol, funny 😅 to agree with someone else……. on someone else’s page 😅😶
@justforlaughs5262
@justforlaughs5262 Жыл бұрын
When she's no longer arguing with you. Or words become limited... It's a wrap
@HelpMe-kj2kh
@HelpMe-kj2kh 9 ай бұрын
Not true bc on social media she shit talks you
@number-uz1es
@number-uz1es 5 ай бұрын
@@HelpMe-kj2khhe’s talking about in general- don’t be dense 😵
@the.f8th
@the.f8th 5 ай бұрын
I’m just here to say THIS IS THE TRUTH. When I stopped talking, it was truly over with
@tidizeltidizel5976
@tidizeltidizel5976 Жыл бұрын
What indifference this it, My man stayed out all night, I greeted him at the door this morning and said good morning because I don't give a damn, it's over!😂😂😂😂😂 He find out in a couple of weeks because I'm gone!
@dingdong6005
@dingdong6005 8 ай бұрын
He is lucky 🍀
@niather6201
@niather6201 Жыл бұрын
Facts, like if he jump off the cliff and you could care less it’s over
@pennyewing9511
@pennyewing9511 Жыл бұрын
So true. Indifference is the end
@kourtneyw8442
@kourtneyw8442 2 ай бұрын
I poured my heart out to him and he just stood there and looked at me. I told him how I felt he had nothing to say. Didn’t even offer that cliche to change…
@debrellecoleman4874
@debrellecoleman4874 11 ай бұрын
When I don't want to be intimate anymore, It's a wrap
@Cindy-wv1dp
@Cindy-wv1dp 6 ай бұрын
So true. The opposite of LOVE isn't Hate....it's indifference......you called that right
@SunShine-lq7yt
@SunShine-lq7yt Жыл бұрын
Truth is...u know b4 it starts if you see red flags but chose to ignore them..that is truly life changing.
@marquettashahid3328
@marquettashahid3328 Жыл бұрын
❤The Disrespect is the Closure ... 🚶‍♀️... bye 👋🏾....🚪
@jessa555
@jessa555 Жыл бұрын
When you don't care as long as you can live in peace for a change
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@jessa555
@jessa555 7 ай бұрын
@@tyasiamillender2817 That is so sweet of you to say. I wish your uncle the best, maybe when he stops trying it will happen for him💝
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
@@jessa555 thanks ma’am, you married?
@GoddessoftheDivine80
@GoddessoftheDivine80 Жыл бұрын
I'll leave WITHOUT warning! I know my worth & my sanity means everything to me! Ain't no getting me back once I'm done! I don't want your time, money & keep those ugly ass flowers for the next one✌️
@loyalty.2481
@loyalty.2481 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@lala5061
@lala5061 Ай бұрын
Bahahahaha not the ugly ass flowers...im dead 😂🤣
@GoddessoftheDivine80
@GoddessoftheDivine80 Ай бұрын
@@lala5061 😂😂😂😂 I'm dead ass💯💯
@Charvisgreen
@Charvisgreen Ай бұрын
This made me laugh no lie 😂😂 I just got flowers for my now ex girlfriend tryna save the relationship but to no avail
@dieschonen
@dieschonen Жыл бұрын
This happened to me...he said "I'm going to the gym," something inside of me said, "No he is not". I literally hunched my shoulders and said to myself, I dont care I'm glad he's gone. I moved out the next week.
@jeannettebrough3755
@jeannettebrough3755 Жыл бұрын
Yes being lied to has a certain ring to it... a certain vibe to it... A womans intuition surpasses his lies and deceit...
@bamboompowtv
@bamboompowtv 7 ай бұрын
You thought he was doing a different workout 😮
@ms.teitei338
@ms.teitei338 Жыл бұрын
I got like that with my ex narcissist and he could not take it...when i cashed that check he checked out... God is good
@trishag.971
@trishag.971 Жыл бұрын
May you continue to tell the story of how you overcome.🎉❤#exwife #narcissistabuseisreal #freeyourself #Godisgood
@ms.teitei338
@ms.teitei338 Жыл бұрын
@@trishag.971 Amen..
@TheMallyjoe
@TheMallyjoe 5 ай бұрын
A woman is done when she doesn’t want to work on the relationship anymore , and she gets on with her life with no contact .
@ulutasatilla
@ulutasatilla 5 ай бұрын
this is true.. i actually struggled moving past my ex but i’ve realized she’s done and past it all. I recently reached out to her but she’s real distant now and seems that she gets on perfectly fine with no contact. It actually helped ease my mind a bit knowing she doesn’t think about me or what we use to have..
@TheMallyjoe
@TheMallyjoe 3 ай бұрын
I totally agree if amworking at it I care but if I don’t care anymore it’s over.
@eevans1036
@eevans1036 Жыл бұрын
My soon to be ex husband is doing everything he can to make me feel that way again... NOPE Idgaf anymore
@prettyaprilgirl6970
@prettyaprilgirl6970 10 ай бұрын
Yep that is true Men become irrelevant when you are done with them
@maryl9180
@maryl9180 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely. The moment he lost the ability to disturb my peace (his presence/absence were the same), I knew he had to go.
@waterbabe759
@waterbabe759 Жыл бұрын
That's how i knew it was over for me . If you don't care it's over. I was indifference. Everytime all my relationships when i got too this stage . I ended the relationship . It can never ever be the same .
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@doreengolsby9825
@doreengolsby9825 11 ай бұрын
When a women become silence and block and cut u off they are done and gone 💯💯 when you sabotage that relationship why should the person stay 🤷‍♀️
@Nyc99
@Nyc99 11 ай бұрын
its over when a man give you many reasons to leave
@AlllyEatsVav
@AlllyEatsVav 10 ай бұрын
This is me, I'm so fed up I have just stop caring. It's getting me know where.
@verysiriuss
@verysiriuss 5 ай бұрын
When you are going through a breakup… work on yourself!! New hair, go to the gym loose weight! Make yourself shine!! I’m working on myself right now.
@pattykakes214
@pattykakes214 Жыл бұрын
As long as theres any kind of emotions there still a chance. But no emotions of any kind.. it’s dead 💀 , bye ✌🏼
@jasmineRN320
@jasmineRN320 11 ай бұрын
The moment I feel I can’t trust someone it’s over .. and I’m not looking back .
@tyasiamillender2817
@tyasiamillender2817 7 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@walkingbyfaith2885
@walkingbyfaith2885 Жыл бұрын
Nothing like a scorned woman, IT'S OVER!! no contact ❤
@florencebowden3980
@florencebowden3980 Жыл бұрын
Like when U find out they're narcissists..Run for your life, ain't got time for that!!!🙄
@queenesther4142
@queenesther4142 Жыл бұрын
Girl, you can say that again!!! 👏 💯
@bahatilicious
@bahatilicious Жыл бұрын
Run before it's too late
@ahappyguy7695
@ahappyguy7695 Жыл бұрын
I’m 1000 feet deep in indifference😂 I don’t give 1 fook anymore.
@paris_thee_aquarius5736
@paris_thee_aquarius5736 9 ай бұрын
Me either 😂
@gellofelix8854
@gellofelix8854 Жыл бұрын
Why does it cut offffffffff I wanted to hear the eeennndd 🤣
@empressstaceyjackson5375
@empressstaceyjackson5375 Жыл бұрын
The rest……, Mr. Coach…, we need the ending. ❤🙏🏾
@yardena1234
@yardena1234 Жыл бұрын
👣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TheRialGlamLife
@TheRialGlamLife Жыл бұрын
It how they make you go look for it lol
@annm.7176
@annm.7176 Жыл бұрын
The trouble with men is You tell them what is wrong and they don't even hear you for nothing They just keep on doing what they're doing.
@camillecooper1964
@camillecooper1964 Жыл бұрын
Yeah they take it for granted that you not going anywhere...so they increase the ill treatment and are shocked when you leave them for good smh
@lala5061
@lala5061 Ай бұрын
That's because they only understand consequences! 😂
@SentilongJamir777
@SentilongJamir777 2 күн бұрын
​@@camillecooper1964hahaha my woman left me like that 😂 I was too stupid and comfortable in my place because she was ready to marry me but I lost my purpose and gave her less time and attention. What's the best way to win her again my dear sisters 🙏 I have so many other options but i cannot see myself with anyone but her i always knew that she was my wife. But i was so lost in my own space.
@ICU602
@ICU602 10 ай бұрын
I just had this convo today. Men go through the same thing when you don't care no more it's time to go.
@MsLeah777_
@MsLeah777_ 10 ай бұрын
This is so true I told my ex- husband this very calmly! Then I came home packed my suitcase and my baby diaper bag took him and left and never came back! That was 8 years ago! #divorcedhisass he still shocked 😳
@lala5061
@lala5061 Ай бұрын
🙏🏽 amen glad u didn't have more with him whew u dodged that 👏🏽
@sfarr1285
@sfarr1285 11 ай бұрын
Why Would Anyone Listen To An UNGODLY MAN TURN YOUR HEART AND LIVES TO GOD. TRUST GOD WITH YOUR LIFE.
@winnieweru2454
@winnieweru2454 9 ай бұрын
SINGLE AND HAPPY😊😊!!.
@aidafigueroa3595
@aidafigueroa3595 Жыл бұрын
True Facts! When it goes to to far, and the disrepect is to much! Thats when you're done! Its no turning back from that!✌️🤨
@amyburke2989
@amyburke2989 Жыл бұрын
Yep! After being ignored for so long I walked away. Wasn’t crying over it anymore. I was totally 100% indifferent to whether I heard from them or not
@PeanutFairy
@PeanutFairy Жыл бұрын
The thing is that when we are indifferent, it's not an act to manipulate you to act a certain way. That indifference is legit real and there's no turning back from that point. No matter what you do.
@rubydejesus9119
@rubydejesus9119 Жыл бұрын
Their actions towards you is going to be indifferent, this is when you know you might have to move on or out.
@debrabarraza2310
@debrabarraza2310 Жыл бұрын
It's over because he threaten to hit me he has anger problems...
@monicahughes1297
@monicahughes1297 Жыл бұрын
HE IS CORRECT THIS MEANS YOU CLOCKED OUT. There is no coming back.
@joyjackson662
@joyjackson662 Жыл бұрын
On point . I ended a 30-year marriage after he committed ongoing adultery, and I was indifferent and clear on my decision. Waiting for a divorce trail.
@kellyglusovich6960
@kellyglusovich6960 4 ай бұрын
The opposite of love isn’t hate. It’s indifference
@Juggz2busy587
@Juggz2busy587 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha true but when I hate someone they can never get me back either lol
@MegaLadylove2012
@MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын
When they come to you about someone or something thinking you be jealous and instead you encourage them to go after tht person or situation and all you hear is radio silent 😂. Ninja it’d been over. U jst found out ?🤷🏽‍♀️🤣
@Yemaya888
@Yemaya888 Жыл бұрын
He ringing truth bells!😮
@alexrodriguez1100
@alexrodriguez1100 8 ай бұрын
I Messed Up With The Woman Of My Dreams And Man I Tell You What..... She Is Still The Love Of My Life And We Are Still Holding On Do To My Belief And My Visions.
@user-vr9le3dz6s
@user-vr9le3dz6s 4 ай бұрын
I'm so upset with my man but I f****** love him so much and all I really want is for him to be there for me and be accountable for the wrongs
@ninath13
@ninath13 11 ай бұрын
Its over when you see what you truly find out the Devil you been dealing with
@ebb6918
@ebb6918 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!! You’ve never lied keep it 1000!
@matildamcdonald2966
@matildamcdonald2966 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you it doesn't matter what they do has no effect on you indifference is when your done
@jasibae00
@jasibae00 Жыл бұрын
YUP! People need to realize that negative emotion towards someone is still emotion. In other words, you still care. But when you get to a point where you could careless-that's when you're done.
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