Signs Someone Dislike You, Even If You Don’t Think So

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

Do you suspect someone may secretly dislike you? It's hard to tell when they are hating you in secret because they may try their best to act like they don't hate you. When pure instincts fail us, it’s time we use our knowledge in Psychology and examine the universal language that is - body language. To help you answer that question, we've made this video to discuss the signs someone may secretly dislike you!
8 Signs You're Secretly Disliked By Others: • 8 Signs You're Secretl...
#psychology #friendship #relationships
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Drew Baillie
Animator: Evelvaii
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
Here's the full video! We had to reupload to include the rest of the points. The previous video was cut off and didn't have the full information. Comment below and share your experience if you ever sense someone dislike you and why do you think so? Friendly reminder, it's ok to be disliked by others. Everyone have different perspective on who they like as friends. It's ok not to be liked by everyone but most importantly surrounded yourself with people who like you :)
@Ecktor
@Ecktor 3 ай бұрын
I don't really dislike anyone. I might dislike acts carried against me or against others I care about.
@PlagueDoctorCosplayer
@PlagueDoctorCosplayer 3 ай бұрын
1:47 in my country crossing legs is seen as a very respectful thing, I don’t know why it wouldn’t be..
@JemmaThomas-se7sb
@JemmaThomas-se7sb 3 ай бұрын
I don't care if someone dislikes me I'm not gonna stick around and wait for them I'll find better Friends
@katrin712
@katrin712 3 ай бұрын
⁠@@PlagueDoctorCosplayerIt more a sign of being closed to talks/ideas like crossing your arms on your front. When someone does both it s usually that they are not opened to discussion, for whatever reason. In my country it was more women crossing legs because of tight skirts. Guys often don t do that, I suppose because it s not the most comfy for them ^^’ (I m a woman and I do both 😅)
@far6311
@far6311 3 ай бұрын
Who is this new persons voice?????????? Why did you change your voice over actress????
@Sharr.
@Sharr. 3 ай бұрын
It hurts worse when your not a social person and can read them personally
@mr.vargas5648
@mr.vargas5648 3 ай бұрын
Next they call you an introvert.
@Gmanwonderswhy
@Gmanwonderswhy 3 ай бұрын
When theyll specifically go where they know youre at that they dont normally go to while tellin people they love you. Only wanting to make you not be around anyone at said place who they know......
@teegutta4689
@teegutta4689 3 ай бұрын
HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIEND, I HAVE TO SAY THAT YOUR SO RIGHT, I CAN TELL, TO FEEL IT, SLEEP WELL MY FRIEND TEE 💯🙏💙
@Sklatte
@Sklatte 3 ай бұрын
Yes….
@petrbartik1229
@petrbartik1229 3 ай бұрын
Hi
@OnCloudMind
@OnCloudMind 3 ай бұрын
sometimes, we pay more attention to those who dislikes us, rather than someone truly likes and loves us. :(
@justephemeral
@justephemeral 3 ай бұрын
If someone dislikes you, don't let them know it all immediately. Just by time start avoiding them and surround yourself with people who loves you - you're amazing and you need be in a place where your worth is appreciated. Be strong ❤
@justephemeral
@justephemeral 3 ай бұрын
@@Scorpio_25 Well there are still good people in this world. If that's the case for you it's better to be alone. But get a puppy if you want. Dogs are damn loyal and trust me, he/she will be your best friend.
@Scorpio_25
@Scorpio_25 3 ай бұрын
@@justephemeral unfortunately I study at university and the thing like social interaction is very important I have no idea why some people don't like me and they treat me like I'm some piece of shit
@justephemeral
@justephemeral 3 ай бұрын
@@Scorpio_25 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sure that they're not worth your time buddy. You keep focusing on your growth and it's totally fine if you have one loyal good friend. You know, we all prefer a dollar than 10 pennies :))
@susanlisson7066
@susanlisson7066 3 ай бұрын
Yes true, I had to do this with my sister sadly. 😔
@akirayuki68
@akirayuki68 3 ай бұрын
everyone that i know act like most of this to me even my family and in online group are..
@animewink758
@animewink758 3 ай бұрын
Timestapms: 1:00 #1 make you wonder 1:23 #2 Non verbal language 2:05 #3 act differently 2:55 #4 back handed compliments 3:25 #5 self absorbed conversations 4:00 #6 social exclusion 4:28 #7 missed call left or read
@vent1392
@vent1392 3 ай бұрын
thank you ❤️
@user-ld5sb5tq4g
@user-ld5sb5tq4g 3 ай бұрын
I choose quality friendships over quantity. I keep my circle small. Everyone you meet isn’t a friend. Facts
@LuLuSprings
@LuLuSprings 3 ай бұрын
Best comment of all🎉
@ZeroKyle
@ZeroKyle 3 ай бұрын
Most of 'em are acquaintances, not 'friends'
@piegirl8263
@piegirl8263 3 ай бұрын
I'd like to point out that I'm autistic and I fidget, cross my legs and arms, and don't make eye contact a lot. These are very good points, but in neurodivergent people things can be a little different, especially if we don't operate on these same social cues
@avrithorn
@avrithorn 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Can agree on this one
@shahzad1815
@shahzad1815 3 ай бұрын
I have adhd but also do this. Main difference is I can't sit still and I have very scattered thoughts that don't line up.
@vanillabean7832
@vanillabean7832 3 ай бұрын
I have GAD and social anxiety and I also do these things
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that insight. Neurodiversity adds unique perspectives to social interactions. How do you navigate and communicate your needs in social situations to ensure understanding?
@garchompelago
@garchompelago 3 ай бұрын
If I notice that a person dislikes me, I just do what I can to avoid them myself as much as possible. I wont even bother talking to them as to why they dislike me. Waste of time. As soon as I notice that a person dislikes me. I walk away. Plain and simple.
@markvd1008
@markvd1008 3 ай бұрын
I do feel sorry for those who did that unintentionally.
@serenesongs
@serenesongs 24 күн бұрын
It’s harder to walk away from close friends of decades.
@gopremiummedia29455
@gopremiummedia29455 3 ай бұрын
It’s not uncommon for me to come across individuals who displayed politeness, but there’s this feeling that their friendliness was more of a facade than an authentic interest. It just seems they’re following social norms than they truly want to connect with me.
@missplainjane3905
@missplainjane3905 3 ай бұрын
Mostly do that
@MissSirenita
@MissSirenita 3 ай бұрын
I honestly don’t care if someone likes me or not, but I struggle reading the room. If someone dislikes me and I can’t tell, I’ll still go on and on. It becomes awkward for those around me and someone usually has to tell me. But if they don’t like me, it’s not my problem 🤷🏻‍♀️ people have called me cold hearted for cutting people left and right, but why put energy with people who won’t do the same back?
@kurthanke5788
@kurthanke5788 3 ай бұрын
I try not ro make enemies. With that vehng said, the older I get, more I could care less if people don't like me. I'm sorry, but I will NOT change, just so that certain people will like me. As far as I'm concerned, I am much better off, without them
@horrormovievibes
@horrormovievibes 3 ай бұрын
Yeah if you have to question if someone likes you or not odds are they don’t.
@Insecure_baddie
@Insecure_baddie 3 ай бұрын
It’s so frightening specially when you’ve been not social for like years and you start a work with people
@fenonymouz2010
@fenonymouz2010 3 ай бұрын
Me
@danteerskine7678
@danteerskine7678 3 ай бұрын
I don't care anymore if someone dislike me and wants to stay away from me. In the end, it's his or her decision. There were a time I used to care but that time has gone to hell.
@UssiTheGrouch
@UssiTheGrouch 3 ай бұрын
As an HSP I pick up these signs pretty easily and it makes me mad when these individuals lie straight in my face. Modern people are twisted. I'd like to live with a native tribe somewhere.
@ahweee140
@ahweee140 3 ай бұрын
I am also an HSP. I get you. You’re not alone
@brennathecatlover4360
@brennathecatlover4360 3 ай бұрын
Hsp?
@jonasshiujunhimgsps6078
@jonasshiujunhimgsps6078 3 ай бұрын
@@brennathecatlover4360highly sensitive person, i believe
@brennathecatlover4360
@brennathecatlover4360 3 ай бұрын
@@jonasshiujunhimgsps6078thx lol
@Everlost_Nation
@Everlost_Nation 3 ай бұрын
Wait till you realize this isn’t a modern trait.
@fubytv731
@fubytv731 3 ай бұрын
People can like you and still try to avoid you. And to complicate things even more, people can also like you and hate you at the same time...
@A55a551n
@A55a551n 3 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Make you wonder 0:54 2). Non-verbal language 1:24 3). Act differently 2:04 4). Back-handed compliments 2:53 5). Self-absorbed conversations 3:26 6). Social exclusion 3:59 7). Missed calls or left on read 4:27 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. I love hearing your voice Drew Baillie. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@Subject-032
@Subject-032 3 ай бұрын
And that is why I succumb into self isolation, it is quite lonely but I don't trust people anymore... I always get left behind or forgotten.
@khrisbreezy3628
@khrisbreezy3628 3 ай бұрын
It was when my high school friend circle came and picked up my friend across the street for a social outing and never invited me (who was interacting daily with them at school) that I realized they didn't consider me a friend and that one moment has stuck with me most of all my memories of school. And why I've never tried to interact with any of them since graduating.
@SoldierOfFate
@SoldierOfFate 3 ай бұрын
I finished high school over 13 years ago and I don't interact with anyone from there anymore save for 4 close acquaintances. Sad to say, the school environment is mostly a toxic and treacherous one.
@khrisbreezy3628
@khrisbreezy3628 3 ай бұрын
@@SoldierOfFate yep. That's the nature of those relationships and anyone that sees this and misses those days, try not to. People change and move on and there's no shame in it.
@susanlisson7066
@susanlisson7066 3 ай бұрын
Good riddance! Now you can find better friends. ❤
@MrJBest78
@MrJBest78 3 ай бұрын
I try to be the best person I can be and I try to be the kindest person I know how to be but I also have boundaries and I don’t want to let my kindness get misconstrued for weakness. Not everyone is going to gel. Not all personalities will get along. If people like me, then that’s great, and there are lots that do, if you don’t like me, (there are also lots that don’t) cest la vie 💁🏼‍♂️ it really doesn’t make any difference in my life. The ones who matter don’t mind, the ones who mind, don’t matter!
@IzzetNilson
@IzzetNilson 3 ай бұрын
yeah i think I'm having a falling out with my friend group and it sucks. The people who I hung out with for years who know my hobbies and interests are the same as theirs not inviting me to things when I said I want to do stuff with them and they do stuff anyways without me. I don't even know why, but i've been delegated to "spectator" for things these days and it freakin sucks. I just want to confront the issue and if its clear i can't make amends meet i might as well leave then.
@debargha0_0
@debargha0_0 3 ай бұрын
Social exclusion was very relatable for me, it happened to me. But I don't think acting differently with someone generally means they dislike you. Because, as a semi-introvert, I talk very little with those I don't know. However, no, I don't dislike them; I just don't know much about them.
@OO-jf9zm
@OO-jf9zm 3 ай бұрын
"make you wonder" spot on ..... Notice that and disappear without a further notice.
@themonroes4
@themonroes4 3 ай бұрын
I struggle a lot especially when my friendships end…but i truly think that I’ve only weeded people not meant for me out of my life…im confident in my past decisions even more after watching this video. Thank you
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I'm glad you found the video empowering. Reflecting on past decisions can be a valuable part of personal growth. What lessons have you gained from those experiences?
@seanstoltz6957
@seanstoltz6957 3 ай бұрын
The funny thing is my body language is just closed off as a coping mechanism to my social anxiety. it may not be you, it might just be the crowded room or the other people I don’t like in the room 😂
@TamagoEgg
@TamagoEgg 3 ай бұрын
Don't focus too much if someone dislikes you or try to make them like you. As long as you like yourself, it's enough.
@briannamccarty5373
@briannamccarty5373 3 ай бұрын
I think these are probably all good points. I just can't get past the fact that these could all be examples of something else. Like someone with social anxiety/neurodivergency or even major depression may exhibit a lot of these behaviors. I'm definitely stand offish and it's hard for me to open up to people and make connections. But that also doesn't mean I dont want to. I can understand a bit more now why it has always seemed like people think that I dont like them 😅 I'm really just out here struggling to connect with people.
@averycanicus6092
@averycanicus6092 3 ай бұрын
I am so socially awkward! I have done a bunch of the stuff on this list to people I like. No wonder people think I’m stuck up.😅 Thanx
@HackersSun
@HackersSun 3 ай бұрын
For my friend its not that I don't like him, its when he gets sappy I don't know how to respond or understand how or why he sensitive about a topic I have the opposite about being too insensitive about topics so working with sensitivity is challenging 😅 Like he cried over the Columbia space incident one day and I didn't know how to console him properly, because it seemed so insignificant, but I care about him and so I sucked conveying it to him with a consoling pat
@PrettyGirlRock1115
@PrettyGirlRock1115 3 ай бұрын
I just want to say that number 2 can also be wrong because I do all of these out of anxiety or comfort etc. so it‘s not always disinterest or dislike
@Nova-sd4dj
@Nova-sd4dj 3 ай бұрын
Very interesting, yet useful information!
@mergingrayquaza3462
@mergingrayquaza3462 3 ай бұрын
needed this last year
@Nayavio
@Nayavio 3 ай бұрын
0:55 1.Make you wonder 1:24 2.Non-verbal language 2:05 3.Act differently 2:54 4.back-handed compliments 3:26 5. Self-absorbed conversations 3:58 6. social exclusion 4:28 7.missed calls or left on read
@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@Corelightt
@Corelightt 3 ай бұрын
Ty for such wonderful videos!!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for being here! Hope this video helps you!
@Corelightt
@Corelightt 3 ай бұрын
@@Psych2go it actually does! Your videos always manage to calm me down! Thank you!
@PerceptionVsReality333
@PerceptionVsReality333 3 ай бұрын
I'm not a likeable person even though I'm polite & respectful with everyone & never start trouble. I could never figure out why but now I couldn't care less.
@lovebaejins
@lovebaejins 3 ай бұрын
the social exclusion hits hard for me because one of my friend groups would plan hangouts without me and they would only include me in plans if i reach out to them 😒 they would make excuses saying that they only met up because they all happened to be free at that very moment… but this was an ongoing thing :/
@BuckledFlea99
@BuckledFlea99 3 ай бұрын
Great Video!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
How did this video go for you? :)
@sharkcrazzeey5476
@sharkcrazzeey5476 3 ай бұрын
dawg i needed this thank you
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
Any time! :) did any of these signs resonate with you?
@ZiggaZilla024
@ZiggaZilla024 3 ай бұрын
Every time I have a crush, I get really shy, which is normal right? Well, when I get nervous around my crush I try to counteract it by acting nonchalant around them. I think this has lead to me actively ignoring them and being unfriendly to them. I’ve only realized this recently. And as soon as I did, my crush started ignoring me in the same kind of way. Now, I’m trying to recover. I didn’t think of it, but we were kind of friends but I was just shying and pushing away from it, I was just scared. Please learn from this, if you’re shy around your crush, just be their friend. It’s ok to be nonchalant with them, but remember to be their friend. That’s what relationships are built on; how well you get along and like each other. So if you like them, show it, but don’t be too obvious, like just be chill. If they act friendly back, great. They might like you back or at least want to be your friend.
@Raylight5068
@Raylight5068 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion. I used to ignore my crush just so he wouldn't know that I like him. So whatever you said does make sense.
@tdesq.2463
@tdesq.2463 3 ай бұрын
Excellent!
@BTSarmygirlindian
@BTSarmygirlindian 3 ай бұрын
Lol I am the person who got ignored first and now I ignore them cuz I’m tired of them being friendly to others but just ignoring me. Funny thing is that they were my crush, maybe still are but I have started to keep distance a lot from them, and unfortunately I have to sit with them in atleast 3 of my classes which just makes this 10x harder 😂
@OneBoredCatbug
@OneBoredCatbug 3 ай бұрын
Humans are complicated like that, I'm all about not bothering people but if I lean too much into that there's gonna be a point when I just lose that person because I stopped speaking to them, it takes strength but sometimes you've got to say something even if it's uncomfortable, for me even vaguely suggesting that I'm not happy is scary enough but I can't just sit with it. This applies to other emotions too but you need to find it in you to let it out somehow, bottling it just causes isolation and anguish. If you get to know each other well enough muster up some courage to share these feelings, sure if you get rejected it'll hurt but it's better to experience that pain and know you tried then to never try and wonder endlessly about what would have happened if you did.
@tdesq.2463
@tdesq.2463 3 ай бұрын
@@OneBoredCatbug This is very good advice. These are the words of a mature adult ... that much is clear. 🦉👍
@amygradybsw
@amygradybsw 3 ай бұрын
Shared ❤
@toger42
@toger42 3 ай бұрын
Strong message
@Zikriyt1
@Zikriyt1 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips. I guess that's the sign they dislike me, no wonder why.
@loonaless
@loonaless 2 ай бұрын
I freaking need this
@lofihiphopexpress6132
@lofihiphopexpress6132 3 ай бұрын
How funny,i have this Problem right now( I was ignored and scared away .Thank u.
@mikesmith6594
@mikesmith6594 3 ай бұрын
Thanks Psyc2go
@user-bg7gc7hs9x
@user-bg7gc7hs9x 3 ай бұрын
I have a feeling my crush just dislikes me for no reason We used to be very good friends some time ago but... she just randomly shifted personalities again, she ignores me most of the time, no eye contact, and she's very quiet and calm for the extroverted type of person she is. And i dont want to make anything big out of it but... it honestly hurts a lot...
@clawtygerz7983
@clawtygerz7983 3 ай бұрын
Amanda's voice!!!
@emilschonemann6344
@emilschonemann6344 3 ай бұрын
This video explains, why no one wanted anything to do with me during school.
@MeAndWolfOriginal
@MeAndWolfOriginal 2 ай бұрын
I have ADHD and my friend thinks I’m annoying even though she says I’m not but I can tell because when I talk to her she doesn’t reply unless I say something like “Nvm” or “Sorry I talked to much” or if I say sorry I’m being annoying. She isn’t really great at hiding it but yeah so.. the reason ADHD matters is because ADHD people are shown to actually tell the emotions of people. Kind of like who dies first in a movie.
@Absolhunter251
@Absolhunter251 3 ай бұрын
This hurts 😭😭😭😭
@akarijiang9191
@akarijiang9191 3 ай бұрын
useful!
@sonzai5162
@sonzai5162 3 ай бұрын
You don't have to tell me, they all dislike me
@samwisefieri6696
@samwisefieri6696 3 ай бұрын
I feel that..
@AmanyAhmed210
@AmanyAhmed210 3 ай бұрын
I found that I was the one who dislikes them all, without knowing 😂
@Dezxmm16
@Dezxmm16 3 ай бұрын
Nah they hate me bro😂😅
@mr.vargas5648
@mr.vargas5648 3 ай бұрын
Yeah its better just admit ppl hate your guts.
@Lu84746
@Lu84746 3 ай бұрын
I love your original narrator voice Amanda. Where is she?😢
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
She's here! :) We have a small voice over team giving others a chance to shine too!
@firstnamelastname1606
@firstnamelastname1606 3 ай бұрын
I actually act different around every person I know, even if I know them💀
@AmelityshTV
@AmelityshTV 3 ай бұрын
Finally, a video for me
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
I hope this video helps you!
@arandomperson7824
@arandomperson7824 3 ай бұрын
Finally, a psych2go video i can somewhat relate to
@sirpiddlefartiii
@sirpiddlefartiii 3 ай бұрын
According to this, nobody I meet likes me. Sounds about right. 🤷🏼‍♀️
@sirmister1827
@sirmister1827 3 ай бұрын
I'm a male, and I do act more polite around women, especially at work. I do the same thing with male who act polite and friendly, but it doesn't mean I dislike them. I enjoy my time the most with someone who I can just talk with without having to fear of being misunderstood. Just casually throwing insults at each other and laughing about it.
@JoshuaRWorkman
@JoshuaRWorkman 3 ай бұрын
I guess my coworkers like me, they sometimes give me food and hand-me-down clothes. One time, one of them bought me a new pair of shoes because I happened to mention it was getting to be about time to get new shoes. It doesn't hurt as bad that other people might not like me, but then I'm not the most social guy around and don't really want to be around people when off work.
@lim10_
@lim10_ 3 ай бұрын
It's me. 😅 I always try push the person I don't like away from me.
@EdwardNavu
@EdwardNavu 2 ай бұрын
Now I'm even more paranoid about it. I start to suspect those signs in core members of my social groups. Also, I don't have enough energy to socialize, so I tend to be passive in convos, and it's hard for me to think of responses, and I appear leaving people on read. F me, right?
@BeautifulWorld-3
@BeautifulWorld-3 3 ай бұрын
Currently i am in this situation. Very hurtful ! How can i get out from this toxic situation ? Blocking ? Stay away ? But we are colleagues ! Whatever harsh thing that i did will make me the bad guy.
@Ania76bae
@Ania76bae Ай бұрын
When we face something harder than before you lose your mind so you tell people who love to leave you even in your heart don't want. Then they leave, you back them to come back, you apologize but never return. Leave massage on read , reply but avoid the replying of apologies, don't call back.
@hugom.g.6500
@hugom.g.6500 3 ай бұрын
I, honestly, had to use subtitles to understand the audio.
@lovesunnyskies
@lovesunnyskies 3 ай бұрын
ive noticed that i do this to my best friend, specifically the second poibt where im not focused on what she's saying. but she makes it very hard to listen when she goes back and forth on her topics for example, she's talking about something that happened, topic A but then she jumps over to topic B, then C, back to topic A and then topic D. And i have a hard time following along so i find myself checking the time, listening to other conversations when im trying my best to listen to her, what do i do?? TLDR; i do the second point on my best friend, what do i do?
@kylesmith6144
@kylesmith6144 3 ай бұрын
Good video! Although.. it probably would have been more accurate to title it: SIGNS someone doesn't like you. Not REASONS someone dislikes you. One states its a possibility based on behavior of OTHERS, while the latter states its YOUR behaviors causing it.
@Karubii
@Karubii 3 ай бұрын
I usually do these to show someone I’m uncomfortable around them, or does not like what they do. Cause Y’know..feels rude to say it to their face, especially if you know they’re the type to start crying, telling everyone you hate them, play 100% victim, it’s- really annoying. For example, if someone continuously sneaks up to me, drags me around, does a lot of physical touch, or make themselves seem superior compared to me, I may throw in one or two signs to tell them to stop. Usually, I’m more silent around them, with a more “shy” personality(replying to questions/statements with a few words, trying to leave their side whenever I have the chance, etc.) I know most people watching this wants to know if someone dislikes them, and may hate people who show these signs, but uh, just sayin.
@AsifImran
@AsifImran 3 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Tundraviolet
@Tundraviolet 3 ай бұрын
Well I cross my legs and arms all the time so guess I am spooking everyone away 😆 And I am not going to stop crossing my legs and arms since in my case it serves as a self soothing mechanism in or out of social situations. I would take the advice from this video with a grain of salt and say that you should look for multiple subtle signs not only one or three and after a long period of time not just first meeting.
@DazaiGotLost
@DazaiGotLost 3 ай бұрын
It hurts to realize
@LiamNoblet95
@LiamNoblet95 3 ай бұрын
I have a friend who’s like this but only around me AND our other friends, what does that mean?
@margaretjohnson6259
@margaretjohnson6259 3 ай бұрын
i've learned to assume people don't like me until they prove otherwise.
@redheadbelle
@redheadbelle 3 ай бұрын
Yes this is insulting. First, no one has the power to do that. Secondly, I discover immediately who is one of my true friends. And secretly harboured Ill feelings don’t affect me at all. I choose my friends :) My friends know that one sided conversations don’t work with me. I don’t give attention just to give off attention. And be sure I can feel if there is inadequacy involved. So, in conclusion, I cannot have fake friends 🙂 and if I catch in bad gossip, be sure this friend is excluded immediately. Same with backhanded compliments & arrogance. Either you participate or not. Nothing in between :)
@kiraelin
@kiraelin 3 ай бұрын
(long comment/rant warning!!) i have to confess, i act like this (or at least similar) to an online friend of mine. i... don't exactly enjoy chatting with them, and one of the main factors of this is because my friend likes to spam me. a lot. everytime I didn't answer by 3 seconds, they would immediately start spamming me. it annoys me so damn much, i began acting more distant, and lately even more cold to them. i guess it kinda worked since they've been spamming me a lot less lately...? but they still do, and everytime they spam me, i ask them to stop and even clearly state my dislike towards it, yet... they seem like they're ignoring my discomfort. i don't understand if THEY don't understand, or just refuses to stop for some reason. that's why i've been trying to act as distant and cold as possible (i've never been this bad of a friend and honestly i feel a bit guilty), so they'll back off and _finally_ come to their senses that i don't like them. it may be harsh to hear, but i honestly think it's a waste of time for the both of us to engage with eachother if one is disinterested, and the other has a terrible friend. i have no idea why until now they still decided to chat me... even if i've made my dislike pretty clear. i don't know if they are that dense, or.... they still somehow want to be friends with me. i'm honestly so confused
@xarielgonzalez9001
@xarielgonzalez9001 3 ай бұрын
I saw this notification rigth after I finished talking with my crush for a while. It felt horrible to see this after talking to her...
@1CE.
@1CE. 3 ай бұрын
Pretty sure I’m going through something like this at the moment It was eating at me I’ll admit but now that I’ve sat on it longer. It’s their loss Not even upset anymore I just wonder why others haven’t noticed
@dil7508
@dil7508 3 ай бұрын
Yeah my friend would give advice whrn he felt like it, but then ghost me when with his girl, or even by himself
@emptyspacesocks
@emptyspacesocks 8 күн бұрын
I do some of those things in part 3 where they twist the legs around each other or advoid eye contact, but if i do the opisite and stare into the other persons eyes thats weird. I dont not look at people because i dont like them just cause I have to think about eye contact
@mwatson4970
@mwatson4970 3 ай бұрын
I think this was an interesting video but I have some salt to add to it. Like one commenter said, ppl can like you and not want to be around you. Just bc they like you generally doesn't mean that certain aspects, habits, or topics that person brings up can give the impression of dislike because they don't like those things. And unfortunately sometimes it's a matter of the person not picking up that every time that happens it turns us off or that, bc the thing is not itself bad, we avoid the person via messages or in-person bc we don't want to hurt their feelings since it is an "us" thing.
@cincostann
@cincostann 3 ай бұрын
Im a VERY socially aware person, i notice right away if someone doesnt like me. i also can notice when a person dont like someone else. it feels like a curse and a blessing because i can get my shit away as soon as possible, and also wondering what did i do :(
@deathvortex6935
@deathvortex6935 2 ай бұрын
That social exclusion I'm glad that never happens, my friends whenever I can't come they would want to be like swat team ziptiding down a helicopter towards my place 💀
@ky7299
@ky7299 3 ай бұрын
Avoiding any meaningful conversation with you and changing the subject to more superficial things. Not engaging and acting aloof when you try to talk about yourself or things that matter to you. Noticing that common friends are suddenly starting to keep a distance from you after having talked to this person. Any behaviour that can be attributed to plausible deniability like unnecessary vagueness. When a person talks almost exclusively about themselves this is a red flag for narcissism. Best stay clear of such people.
@U_quintessential.K
@U_quintessential.K 3 ай бұрын
In my school, I've been in this one for a year. I'm a extrovert n I do get attention easily. So there's this girl, she acts like she likes me but I feel like she's jealous of me n hates me inside. Like the thing is her best friends also talk to me alot n I can feel her giving me a jealous look.
@toyadiinae9800
@toyadiinae9800 3 ай бұрын
What about if you've picked up on these things that are going on in your friendship, but you also know that this person would rather ignore the dislikes for you rather than be without you in the person's life?
@TechyCatz
@TechyCatz 3 ай бұрын
For everyone here taking this personally, that is a sign that something needs to be worked on within one’s self.
@carlente9083
@carlente9083 3 ай бұрын
I have this person, left me on read, cant maintain eye contact or even acknowledge my presence and make me wonder, do they dislike me, chances are yes
@richyrodriguezberezov2052
@richyrodriguezberezov2052 3 ай бұрын
I'm the one that dislikes someone lol, though I still respect them and wish them the best.
@janelle4700
@janelle4700 3 ай бұрын
Tbh I never know even with signs of someone likes me or if they show those signs. I live and grown up in CA and a lot of people don’t have real openess of emotion or how they feel unless they r close to someone, so honestly I’m not sure if my friends or coworkers like m it’s tough to understand other people let alone myself 😐
@galateojlatteo
@galateojlatteo 3 ай бұрын
Now, we are talking.
@srgio_rl
@srgio_rl 3 ай бұрын
"i forgor 💀" 💀
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 ай бұрын
:D
@be1tube
@be1tube 2 ай бұрын
The body language cues may be misleading with neurodiverse individuals. "Looking over your shoulder," "avoiding eye contact," "facing away from you when talking to you," and "lack of physical contact" can all come from someone who likes you but has autism.
@NotThisAnonymous
@NotThisAnonymous 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, as someone who has autism I do like all those things. Also (idk if this is an autism or anxiety thing bc I have both) I need to know the time like all the time, if I dont know it roughly then it makes me uncomfortable so I have a watch and I check it all. The. Time. Just because I want to know the time, not because I’m not enjoying myself or want to be somewhere else.
@Cloudyrain21
@Cloudyrain21 3 ай бұрын
I have bpd and it upsets me when someone doesn’t like me because I just be minding my own business.
@lapeaches8006
@lapeaches8006 3 ай бұрын
It was the victory dance for me 😂😂🎉🎉
@Stella4539
@Stella4539 3 ай бұрын
Im just terrible st texting and social cues. I like them.
@callme_v8789
@callme_v8789 3 ай бұрын
Im sooo so glad these are unfamiliar signs...
@Mal09802
@Mal09802 3 ай бұрын
Where’s our favorite voice Amanda?🥺
@jowprower8467
@jowprower8467 3 ай бұрын
I mean most of the reasons you provided may be true but...there's kinda situations where people have different interactions with each person depending on uncertain mutual things that developes uniquely with each person and doesn't necessary mean they hold something against other people....and for instances if someone dislike other someone it's just because there's a lack of mutual interests or other personal reasons(not on a personal level for the other people)
@bulletmagnet1664
@bulletmagnet1664 3 ай бұрын
Social Exclusion really hit hard...
@crazygeorgelincoln
@crazygeorgelincoln 3 ай бұрын
With dpd and cptsd its no wonder iv experienced a fair amount of these, thing is theres not many people left and i dont especially like a number of them.
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