7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid

Are you having a crush on someone right now and wonder if they are toxic for you? When you have feelings for someone, it’s easy to see everything they do in a positive light, but not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with. For example, it is not a good idea to develop a crush on someone who treats you and other people badly. So to save you from being in a toxic relationship in the future and heartbreak, we made this video to help you identify the different types of crushes that might not be good for you.
If any of these types describe your crush and you're looking for tips on how to stop liking them, we also made a video on that: • 10 Tips to Stop Liking...
Credits
Writer: Carley Swanson-Garro
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone]-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or www.thehotline.org/.
References:
Dubrow-Marshall, L., & Dubrow-Marshall, R. (2017). When your life is not your own. Therapy Today, 28(9), 24-27.
Johnston, P., Tankersley, M., Joenson, T., Hupp, M., Buckley, J., Redmond-McGowan, M., Zanzinger, A., Poirier, A., & Walsh, A. (2014). Motivations behind ‘Bullies then offenders’ versus ‘pure bullies’: Further suggestions for anti-bully education and practice. Education, 10(3), 316-325.
Knopp, K., Scott, S., Ritchie, L., Rhoades, G., Markman, H., Stanley, S., Rhoades, G. K., Markman, H. J., & Stanley, S. M. (2017). Once a cheater, always a cheater? Serial infidelity across subsequent relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(8), 2301-2311. doi: 10.1007/s10508-017-1018-1.
Popescu, Adam (January 2019). Why people ghost - And how to get over it. The New York Times. Retrieved 29 April from www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/sm....

[@Psych2go]

Who here met their crush this year? Comment below the first letter of their name ;)

[@asquarededits9261]

I wish, I found out I’ve had a crush this year.

[@breadaroo]

Me, *and I didn't like it-* (it's an ex crush-)

[@Roxyy_Foxyy]

Me, it was the worst experience ever... Agh stupid A

[@Mi-Nasuno]

M

[@signna]

All of mine are fictional :,)

[@chungkrixx1279]

“The Bully” Those bully love stories: *Imma pretend I didn’t see that*

[@phantomlordxd124]

XD

[@crocsaretasty4613]

enemies to lover 300k slowburn is sweating

[@D1SPLEAS3D]

LMAO

[@mariunfabregas7533]

Drarry shippers, I'm looking at ALL of you!

[@D1SPLEAS3D]

@@mariunfabregas7533 UH HI- TOTALLY NOT LOOKING AT Y/N HEHE

[@abandonedchannel9803]

"Does your crush just dissapear?" My crush doesn't even exist

[@haloanimations167]

Your lucky, unlike me knowing we can talk but she doesn’t respond 🥲

[@cherubvomit]

ME

[@4rtyst538]

Meee

[@LuciaArts]

LAMO same

[@doraelog690]

Ur not a human...

[@mushforbrains.]

I had a crush on this girl who had a very adult demeanour. We were in year 7 and she always talked about intercourse and adult topics. Being autistic, I thought this was normal. Then in March that year, I got a crush on her. I messaged her a lot, and confessed to her multiple times. She always said “I’ll think about it” and had crushes on different people every few weeks. Eventually we dated. She started sending me very s3xual messages so despite being uncomfortable I sent them back thinking that she’d like them. She then broke up with me by pretending to cheat on me then claiming the way I talked to her was weird, despite me only doing what I thought was correct. A few months after that, she posted screenshots of everything that I said, censoring the context and not showing her replies for her friends to see. When I tried to report it, obviously they didn’t care because she reported me first. if you’re starting highschool, do not be friends with someone who acts like they know everything about s3x. Stay with the people you know and trust. Or stay in your own personal circle.

[@Taffy143_]

I'm sorry you had to go through that

[@DrXmaQueen.]

So true thx for showing this bc kids needed to hear this (I am a kid lol) BTW DONT CALL YOUR SELF DUM OR AUTISTIC OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BC THAT CAUSE MENTAL ILLNESSES OR DOUBTS AND I HATE THOSE Mainly bc I have a friend and her friend commited suicide

[@emilyhemsworth77]

Sex is fun though. Instead of criticizing women. Just clearly stay away from a grown adult woman. Geez, its not that hard. Go hang out with ugly woman even they don't talk about Sex. 🤔

[@emilyhemsworth77]

​@@DrXmaQueen.I mean he is autistic and woman can also talk about sex. Its not that hard. There are so many gay people, transies, ugly girls you can have a crush on. Why not the woman who loves to talk about sex. Those type of women are known and just looking for mature men.

[@lerolero6948]

@@DrXmaQueen. yk autism is neither a mental illness or an insult, right?

[@JohnField-cr6tv]

To sum this up: make sure they're a nice, caring person who wants the best for you

[@samdwimch7345]

Psych2Go: **has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute** Romance dramas: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

[@untrustfulsoldchannel9238]

666 likes

[@samdwimch7345]

@@untrustfulsoldchannel9238 not anymore 😔💔

[@eatmyshortsnoobs3282]

Even the ones that don’t exist? 🥺😩

[@kat74055]

@don’t worry bout it BAHAHAHAHAHA

[@rejilalohithakshan7620]

How about this one? Psych2Go: *has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute* FFs: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

[@LennyTheHopeless]

Me who hasn't had a crush in 7 years: "Yes, this seems like a good, _relatable_ video to watch."

[@jyjaeskz]

Oof same but only 4 years for me

[@stardust5606]

I've never had a crush in my life xD

[@blipster0074]

Aiming to not have one for a long time

[@HistoricBlock84]

@@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world

[@blipster0074]

@@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it

[@droopystar]

i adore the fact you called out an isolator. As a half one, my issues are NOT purposefully and ive been working very hard. I try my hardest, and im glad you made this. :) your voice is very sweet btw

[@C.D14]

Its not about beauty, its about personality ❤

[@arnand6636]

Hell naw. I am NOT dating someone unattractive.

[@legosi2736]

Exactly @aliyahrapahferenal216.

[@legosi2736]

I prefer personality over look's

[@Sezaru29]

​@@arnand6636💀

[@SophiaTheSecond123]

HAHAHAH@@arnand6636

[@chrissy1250]

"THE BULLY" Wattpaders: nah, I'll pretend I didnt see that

[@rejilalohithakshan7620]

Lol Relatable

[@jeckechavez410]

lOoL

[@GINSHOTGUN]

True tho lmao

[@coke3cake753]

Lmfao tRUe

[@meilen8829]

:>

[@jjmaybankswife4957]

"does your crush just.. disappear?" my cursh being in a whole ass different reality: yes.

[@exandier4810]

BESTIE- LMFAO IM SO SORRY THAT SUCKS Hope you can visit soon!

[@Majin_Xavierras]

@@exandier4810 what?

[@oceanti6791]

Wait I relate to this and had a crush on a character or something but I don’t remember who I had a crush on

[@exandier4810]

@@Majin_Xavierras I assumed the OP was referring to reality shifting lol

[@lightyagami8517]

Anime? Because yeah-

[@ash1570]

I'm glad my crush is kind, caring, funny, and supportive. And most definitely cute. They don't do any of these bad thing or anything else

[@AlfredMarionMartinezDucu-tu7fy]

👇people's who have no crush

[@PlanetPsych]

Toxic Crush Quote: "I'm not ignoring you, I'm just waiting to see if you'll put in the effort to talk to me"

[@cruzcastillo6227]

Woooah, word bruh

[@ponchoshop854]

Good one ;)

[@creativetech1701]

Yea, i guess that's toxic

[@omghighlights1366]

@@creativetech1701 Lol yeah

[@shrek8339]

@Sinochi ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! wtf

[@remyhavoc4463]

8. The Actor The type where you won't see any red flags because they're good at pretending since they've done the same things before

[@epcza13]

That’s when you develop skills to notice when someone is acting. >;)

[@charmaine7781]

I'll watch out for them

[@YourHomieHenry]

That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.

[@amberb.6395]

YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be

[@user-rq3zy3li4q]

Omg ikrrr!!!!

[@keopijelli]

this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?

[@xenongd6974]

1 "the ghoster" Well shit. 3 "the humiliator" Well shit. 6. "The user" WELL SHIT.

[@willamfitzgirld7111]

Yep

[@plou1858]

You still love somebody who humiliates you well that means I guess I should love somebody that’s tryna kill me RN 🤨🙂🙂🙂

[@simpyydimpyy4715]

double kill.

[@jessetheking5756]

6: The user **Vietnam Flashbacks**

[@beidoulvr4217]

NAH CAUSE LITERALLY

[@Son-Deniz]

How to avoid bad crushes : Step 1 : Don't have a crush

[@spoon4976]

A man of great wisdom.

[@sponge8868]

I have followed this step since the day I was born and yes, this is great wisdom 10/10 would recommend

[@rtertth]

Well i have been doing that for awhile

[@arianaganguly]

Great

[@cookie_crossing4020]

I can’t 😩

[@RileyWolfLynx]

POV: you haven’t told your crush you had a crush on them for a year until the last day of school:😅😅😅😅

[@user-wx7go5vy8y]

UR VOICE IS SO CALMINGGG

[@Ari-pf9qn]

Me just having a crush on a fictional character like- 👁👄👁

[@hyo_unbf]

Bokutos ass is my crush-

[@SamElle]

i can relate LOOOL

[@Ari-pf9qn]

@@hyo_unbf bahahahahha

[@Ari-pf9qn]

@@hyo_unbf I have a crush on salt😂

[@teenshii]

At least, our crushes can't avoid or break up with us, lol

[@hypercaat9531]

Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed" Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏

[@yaboi4587]

Well that's not very fun.

[@confusedcat4387]

Well my feelings won’t be crushed because she likes me back

[@douk990]

@@confusedcat4387 see you in a couple months

[@jacklarson8049]

@Confused Cat Me too, it’s a nice feeling

[@rainbowgirl3973]

Ikr my crush liked me, my friend, my enemy and then dated my enemy! And he still likes me -_-

[@Mydnight21]

Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know

[@DeffinetlyNotEgg.]

THIS ART STYLE IS JUST AMAZING

[@goofser]

Unused crush: The self pitier. They say bad things about themselves, and threaten to hurt themselves to try and convince you to date them

[@brrxtchp4799]

lol hate those ones

[@warioware5745]

Fell for this one

[@austinfondren2590]

Man this one's just flat-out annoying tbh

[@gamesquid427]

Roblox role players:

[@joaquinkolomatangi1216]

i have a friend that acts like that

[@caseyperryx]

7 types of crushes you should avoid: *A boy named Ryan*

[@justinpereira8589]

Who’s Ryan

[@milodious6319]

That’s my brothers name... he’s really chill and nice tho

[@Boondoggle4213]

Like from the Office? Because that Ryan sucked.

[@islandk.6917]

What did Ryan do

[@victoriawhite6157]

my exes name is ryan... he cheated on me for his step sister

[@KrowsVeil]

Love your content! Your voice is so calm and beautiful and it makes it so easy to watch your vids! Absolutely love this channel, new sub ❤😊

[@caidenrykerjaxjohnson2273]

Not everyone deserves love.

[@T355V]

1. The Ghoster 0:31 2. The Bragger 1:03 3. The Humiliator 1:41 4. The Bully 2:06 5. The Cheater 2:35 6. The User 3:15 7. The Isolator 3:45

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for putting this together. This will get a lot of likes by the end of the day :)

[@Haventplayedgenshin]

Still pretty much fine 3 week ago ;)

[@Matthew-vs8iz]

@princess gamer My Bestfriend Has A Crush On One.. Best To Tell Him To Let Go Of Her

[@gianragandan6532]

My crush doesn’t even know me :’D

[@bozhanatoneva1973]

Ah the ghoster sounds familliar- W a I t ;-;

[@Chipsanimation]

This is totally the reason on why I like fictional character Edit: okay maybe that was a lie

[@AZRARICCIARDO]

same chiaki **sad kinnie noises**

[@lovetyti5746]

Now I love the person on your profile ! I actually just got done playing that game

[@anadraguleanu8710]

Same.

[@justnlminderhoud1425]

Chiaki is always best girl

[@Gamingbrothers-ve4br]

Because Chiaki makes real characters look like crap in comparison.

[@Jac2214onyt]

I'm happy people like you post these because they help me out emotionally which rarely happens in the real world. There was this one time where there was this girl I liked and I slid her a note, and she liked me back (or so I thought) and she seemed really committed but during the relationship I was really nervous to talk to her. When she told me that she didnt like me and she was doing to be nice I decided to not chase love anymore so I could not get my heart broken again. It's people like that that give love a bad name.

[@supersizedbannanaprivitedu8088]

I like the design , it’s so good!

[@DocDoge.]

Hey bro, this helped me, tysm for recommendating this video😁

[@divinity2306]

When your crush is fictional: 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@honey9060]

Mine is fictional bully. Shame on me.

[@Jewel_Man_Kisser]

i have one

[@vilscheonit8457]

Lol my heart broke 🤣😭🤣😭

[@born2ded16]

Thats honestly so fucking sad

[@saney4728]

Ha,ha same ;-;

[@theshywolfie6655]

ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs

[@dfquartzidn6151]

Especially the humiliator, she was the narcissist in the one of the ‘signs of a narcissist’ videos.

[@donjohnston1536]

My bisexual self: *bi panic*

[@rosemarie5719]

* my lesbian self crushing on all the female designs *

[@emiliasantos6638]

the bully one was lowkey kinda fine tho

[@dfquartzidn6151]

@@emiliasantos6638 I know right?

[@Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire]

When I have feeling for someone, I don’t want them to love me back. They are too perfect that I can’t reach….I don’t deserve them….I can never ask them to like me back else…..it’s too overwhelming for me😢

[@Elthan-Fam]

As someone who's damn polar opposite of you, I suggest we should be friends and play roblox sometimes. Hahahahahhha

[@Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire]

@@Elthan-Fam lmao, if you want to that is

[@diligantlydistracted3542]

0:57 this visual little comic part here though! This HERE! I feel like it’s very often that people will have a friend who gives support and care, and the person will seek comfort from the friend, when often the friend has a crush on the person I know it sounds like a movie but this happens in real life more than you’d think.

[@peecondom6729]

My crush is a 31 year old man that doesn't shower and likes cat- and he is an anime character- Edit: 1 year later and I still like him

[@MEOWMEOW-mu8gx]

HAHAHAHAH

[@peecondom6729]

@@MEOWMEOW-mu8gx 😔👌

[@tulips4192]

Aizawa??

[@pinetreepinfel8833]

😂

[@cimonim439]

Ah yes, Aizawa.

[@user-dt8eu9wy9v]

1. The ghoster 2. The bragger 3. The humiliator 4. The bully 5. The cheater 6. The user 7. The isolator

[@lol-qb1ez]

I got 💞the ghosted💞

[@Some-Rage-Inducing-Provocateur]

And a person with all of the traits from all of the seven is a total narcissist.

[@444zza6]

wattpader : *clears throat*

[@thepettiestbitch7332]

@@lol-qb1ez sameeeeee 🤡🌹✨

[@EnosCountryballProductions]

I got a bragger for a crush and i got used DO NOT DATE ANYOME NAMED DEVYN JAYSON WILLIAMS AND HAS DITRY BLONDE HAIR AND GRAY BLUE EYES OK

[@P_stelz.]

I’m just gonna state my opinion. I don’t see how any one can manage to “fall In love” with someone who is clearly a jerk or a mental/verbal abuser. Physical abuse is harder to spot, so I can understand that.

[@cg15150]

physical abuse is not hard to spot

[@P_stelz.]

@@cg15150 ? Wdym? I mean, I don’t expect a physical abuser to just SMACK LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER OR SUM IN PUBLIC- how would you know right away?

[@cg15150]

@@P_stelz. because the bruises r apparent

[@P_stelz.]

@@cg15150 sometimes they aren’t. From what I’ve seen, a lot of people hide their bruises and scrapes and stuff with clothing.

[@chuckisnthere]

i love how these videos have a different artstyle each time

[@Therabeeee]

"The bully" Gacha Community, wattpad:"ima pretend I didn't see that."

[@phantasm5840]

a c c u r a t e

[@misslove6693]

I'm in the community and I hated the "bully" ones

[@iliodora25]

every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot: ''i hat u'' ''but i luv you'' ''no ful'' '' :((((( *cries cutely* '' '' (that was hot and coote) '' at bully home :((( ''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force'' ''yes fathah/mothah'' ''don't bully me'' ''haha nub'' '' n o why me'' at hume '' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic '' '' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! '' ze next day uvu '' i luv you do you want me as ur bf '' '' omg yes '' 10 years later '' will u marry me '' '' yas '' 4 months later '' i needdo go to beach '' '' okie doki uwu '' at beach bish '' oh luk @ my ex '' '' which ones '' '' you know the cars that go '' '' i hear you hit it!'' '' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS '' technical diffuCULTies uwu '' when i was lesbian i was with gurl '' '' i was trans once and dated le boi '' '' seems like they together '' '' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live '' '' i fel dab ;-; '' " holup dat mah brothah " " oh me good " " im gunna go buy lemonade " " o k " " P A P I T O " " ew an ugleh gurl " " l u v e m e " " no 💖💋 " " c h o c o l a t e " " omg she hut " " yas " " Kamukra kamukra yas queen " " why " " omg you're me ex " " GASP " " wow look the gay couple " " hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. " "Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi" " hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 " "Oh uh... W-w-w-were good." "You sound very sas" "No im hap" "I no trust e-you" "Im very hap i promise" "Prumisee meh." "Okaye...." "You guyth luk very familier" "I danno wae boot chu do to" (IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)

[@allylovely]

@@iliodora25 lol

[@Shichi_arts]

Very accurate

[@xxrandom_weebxx1989]

Most people here: * Talking about crushes * Me: * Taking notes on the amazing art style *

[@Mianashya]

Ngl it's really good!

[@starphobia08]

The person that made this art is named Madhattey!

[@xxrandom_weebxx1989]

@@starphobia08 Ooh thank you!! I’ll definitely check them out! :D

[@sarahlange9029]

Same, It just looks so FRICKING AMAIZING! >:3

[@windtoons5295]

IKR? I love it ❤️

[@thatoneguyintheback123]

Im really impressed by the art style

[@AxlAro]

you fricking do masterpieces so much-

[@ellatheuntalented2126]

I accidentally read the thumbnail as “types of Crackheads you should avoid”

[@EnchantedStardust]

What's the difference? 😂

[@Rosanilla]

Noice

[@lillyshooby4083]

I mean.... what's the difference....

[@ellatheuntalented2126]

These replies have me dead 😂

[@sethzimmerman7601]

NAH BRUH ILL RATHER DIE ALONE THAN HAVE A GF AND THEN GONNA LEAVE U ANYWAYS

[@itsmsfantasy1608]

i like how psych's crushes doesn't only focus on one gender

[@Shichi_arts]

Sorry i gotta ruin the 101 likes

[@nukaberry447]

There’s only male or female, you cannot turn into one or the other and you cannot just not be made or female

[@officialentrapta427]

@@nukaberry447 Leave

[@billieismybsf153]

@@nukaberry447 wha- that isn’t true...😭 i am very offended.

[@billieismybsf153]

@@officialentrapta427 thank you 😊

[@SebPearson-zw9iu]

Thanks this really helped ♥

[@The_most-Enthusiastic_Loser1.]

I LOVE THE WAY THERE'S SUCH A LIVELY AND INTRIGUING ANIMATIONS TO SUCH A PAINFUL TOPIC❤🎉😂😊🤩👌👏

[@Shreksgyatt27]

Me who doesn’t have a crush: interesting Edit: Holy shit! thanks for all the likes :)

[@louishuxtable3322]

Me who knows I have no chance with my crush interesting that's what it's like having a chance

[@xian9201]

Same lmao

[@sharkmeansno7464]

When all of your Are fictional

[@slash_jay4576]

Same😂😂

[@ashsghost9399]

Same

[@mxxriie2004]

"the isolator" Gacha kids with a yandere boyfriend: i'm going to pretend I didn't see that

[@DUCKMANOG]

Your comment speak truth and nothing less

[@tsukasayugi4282]

vibes in slightly yandere I don't have a problem with people hanging out with my girlfriend but people have told us to shoot ourselves before and that was overboard

[@wonderlandsshowtime]

@@tsukasayugi4282 whoa thats very overboard

[@deadaccounut]

As a Gacha person: This is accurate

[@Veriosity]

*Le gacha logic* ✨ That's what they say. A *AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH IT.*

[@bruh5680]

Ur voice is so calming i love it!

[@NAH87245]

omg you helped me so much i had crush on user and he / she just say : "busy" , "can you do the dishes?" , don't be lazy " and much much other thank you!

[@alfalifr]

"Avoid having crush with the isolator, instead have it with the conductor" - science joke

[@seaweeb2258]

After playing A Hat in Time, I did not read that correctly.

[@seabass1428]

@@seaweeb2258 Holy crap, I thought I was the only one.

[@TheGreatWallOfJapan_]

That's not isolator in science its insulator

[@leleste5465]

@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ ok

[@notrecognizedyt739]

@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ thank you

[@katsudon7791]

Psych2go: Don't crush on these people Me: crushes on them because of their great character designs xD

[@koifish4276]

I felt that

[@emanessa8795]

IKR

[@jilsanimated928]

There’s an artist @madhattey on Instagram that I believe is the animator! Her artwork is seriously amazing

[@mediatorraptor3349]

I hate to admit it but I do the same

[@iambutterpuppy1143]

The humiliator was hot, like, like, likeeeee

[@Rubix_cube809]

Ok, for real, why is so calming? Like, currently, I’m trying to get to sleep, and.. how did I find myself looping this video?

[@Just_._M3]

Really good video Thank you You probably helped a lot of people

[@wisteriashika]

"4. The bully" You hear em! Now throw all those "I fell in love with my bully" books

[@ascended1802]

It reminds me of Nagatoro

[@yoongistoenailclippers]

*looks at the bakudeku ships* ITS A JOKE BTW

[@bestless862]

G a c h a m i n i m o v i e s b e l i k e

[@Mikaelaxie]

@@yoongistoenailclippers LMFAO- WHY AM I LAUGHING - BakuDeku shipper

[@daphneolivia6197]

Dnf

[@cheesedoosh]

You cant be toxic crush if no one ever crushes on you lmao

[@bemotivated8443]

@Benjamin Tay I usually unconsciously walk around with a angry frown and it turns quite a few people away 🤷‍♂️

[@twins2936]

@Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible

[@johnnycripplestar5167]

@Benjamin Tay shit i'd end up looking like a psychopath with the smiling.

[@moonchild8477]

*BIG* *BRAIN*

[@s0Cc]

I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the perfect 400 🥺

[@03v45inroblox]

Her voice is so calm!

[@Cloudy_vibes1]

This really helped thank you for making thix❤(I have a friend like that btw)

[@z4c_602]

7 types of toxic crushes you should avoid Me: My lonely ass watching this at 4 am :)

[@aqsem9073]

rookie number, only real lonely people (like me) watch stuff like this 24/7

[@SpaceMonkeyBoi]

Destroy the children

[@z4c_602]

@@SpaceMonkeyBoi LMAO

[@Ok-hr4oh]

I am watching at 2 am and this is the reasing I will never care about someone dearly

[@z4c_602]

@@Ok-hr4oh Same dude

[@ilovecheeseandtoesd834]

"7 crushes you should avoid" Me who never gets any: "man I am nailing this"

[@gabi69420]

I- SAMEEEEE

[@gabi69420]

@Madeleine L idk as i didnt write the comment, my perspective yes. i just dont get crushes on people idk why.

[@yippeeyahoowoohoo]

Same.

[@eddroll9824]

ABHAHA- SAMEEEEEE

[@dogu_east4593]

I started thinking I had a crush but didn't even notice it from the lack of crushes

[@imgood-sf6ty]

Thanks for showing this video

[@gabrielisah703]

Thank you for the tip, it helped❤

[@mr.dickbutttheog2064]

Me: *Laughs in having fictional characters as crushes*

[@glitchydood1558]

Yea lol

[@justlearn7136]

Ty Lee

[@FarrahKeks]

I like your' profile picture! 😁 It's cute

[@w1ll0w45]

SAMEEEE

[@gilliancastle5106]

I've literally never had a crush on a real person before. I've only had 2 crushes in my entire life and they're both fictional. The current one isn't even canon.

[@cinta4985]

Vids: “avoid the bully” Wattpad: *a story about a girl who fall for the bully/bad boy* ACCURATE LMAO

[@ItsKim_Him]

Anna oop-

[@lil_is_dum]

*wattpad and gacha

[@myfuturelife4445]

And gacha to they be like: "Omg bully is mean" Bully:"I bully cause I love you" Tf?!

[@remytate6498]

You're missing episode

[@FarrahKeks]

@@myfuturelife4445 that moment when I actually liked these kind of gacha and still do

[@2drippy697]

You are speaking facts 🗣️🔥

[@Limit_living]

This voice helps me calm down

[@rin.j]

Me who’s only had crushes on fictional characters for quite a long while now: interesting 🤔🤔

[@oneway-hasan5240]

Having a crush on fictional character is the best cuz they won't ever hurt u

[@rin.j]

@@oneway-hasan5240 exactly 😌🖐🏼 u won’t be hurt from jealousy or them possibly leaving u

[@hatstick312]

true..

[@kmrnnj1]

Freak

[@magniloquenting.wlspoetjt1808]

@@kmrnnj1 It's actually normal to have a crush on fictional characters. People may like them because they have personalities or characteristics that real people don't have. So don't you dare call someone who's in love with fictional characters 'freak'. It's totally normal!

[@iwontminddoingyou8857]

'"THE BULLY'" K- drama and c-drama fans: well suddenly I lost my sense

[@ahgazenity.aliverse]

them c dramas forreal lol. i just recently got into c dramas and it's so different from kdramas, much more dominate male. I'm both shocked and amazed

[@webcomiclulu9056]

Lmaoo true. Tho I'm glad they are showing healthy relationships in the recent years.

[@LennyTheHopeless]

Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore. I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore. Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...

[@Yanniezzz]

C drama sooo true like I cnat even explain omg 😂

[@jisooturtlerabbitkimseolam7888]

You didn't have to expose me like that

[@user-dd5lu4qj4n]

Your voice is so nice!

[@Alex-jm4ed]

Why is this so soothing to my ears

[@BlightedOmen]

The video: Avoid these people The animators making them look as attractive as possible:

[@justanotherman6419]

Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone

[@BlightedOmen]

@@justanotherman6419 Very much a good point

[@samtheman5176]

King is the best character

[@LogicPsycho1]

Never put yourself in a situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person's life!

[@onlyhuman5669]

This is so true ;-;

[@marqueechan]

I wish I saw this years ago... But thanks for sharing this now then never.

[@elmiyk]

but how can i prevent this?

[@Sallyskin]

Sometimes you just can't choose who you crush on

[@ok.4877]

I do this all the time , it actually increases my anxiety.

[@JB2Rulz]

Ok ik that the video is supposed to be helpful with other stuff, but GOD THE ART IS TOO GOOD

[@AmimeFanOver9000]

I love how this person is giving real red flags

[@ochakouraraka3113]

"When you're looking at red flags through rose colored glasses they just look like flags." 😑

[@ochakouraraka3113]

@Violet Ford lmao😭😂😂

[@manifest29]

ant that what pj said?

[@neeiarayfa]

8 type of crushes you should avoid. 1. Anime characters. They aren't real.

[@neeiarayfa]

@@nana-q6062 ◻▫◻▫◻▫◻▫◻

[@gaildahlas]

...but that means they can't hurt you, which is surely a positive

[@cafers6607]

*uh oh*

[@Orea_The_Dazai_Slut]

NUUU YURI FROM DDLC LOVES MEEEEEEE XD

[@ArtBlock0]

Anime characters are better than people😂

[@minakukit6903]

i enjoyed and learned!

[@nicholasposthumus9452]

Thanks this really helped me

[@Sghgyv]

“the bully” me who has a crush on draco malfoy: i’m gonna pretend i didn’t see that (thank god i’m over that now)

[@BytzDrawz]

Hehe

[@Allucario]

Well, he's not a bully anymore

[@preciousmagpili1463]

Same I have lots of non-existed and i didn't even notice meT^T

[@Official_Acelynn]

**laughs in having a crush on an anime boy**

[@Memiokoa]

Jotaro?

[@Official_Acelynn]

*How did you know?*

[@Memiokoa]

@@Official_Acelynn Pfp

[@Official_Acelynn]

@@Memiokoa Okay, makes sense

[@marii4413]

i agree with jotaro statement ^^^

[@letran9446]

Thank you for advice👌🏻

[@3DANimator.213]

idk why but i kinda like her voice! It's so soft

[@aseel7457]

The bully: rude to others, hits, yells a lot Toradora: imma pretend I never saw that

[@aseel7457]

@Kayla Echols no I meant the anime toradora ahahah

[@xxprogamerxx7770]

Taiga isn't really a bully, more like an angsty teen. She's more mature after Ryuji and friends supported her and made amends with her family

[@aseel7457]

@@xxprogamerxx7770 lmao I was joking ;-; hope I don't sound that dumb

[@lexie1287]

@Kayla Echols She-ra and The Princesses of Magic? because if so they got together

[@carlogustavovalenzuelazepe5774]

Taiga is such a horrible girl, but the anime makes her bad behavior looks good

[@Kindred_Lamb]

"The bully" Tsundere enjoyers: Imma pretend I didnt hear that

[@user-xm8ve2kc1e]

well..

[@firstnamelastname3375]

I seen the title of the video and immediately thought of this

[@skrrskrrrr99]

sorye ge ton

[@bbilia]

aphelios gaming

[@cupcaked8949]

heheheheh

[@user-ng3yi2xn1i]

This popped out of fucking nowhere in my recommendations, i dont even have a crush nor do i want to have one, yet this video was entertaining, congrats.

[@user-qb3jh6fw2e]

I needed this😂😂

[@mangos__mangos1352]

“The bully” Bakugo: *an Attractive person for almost 90% of the my hero academia fandom* Me: *Cough* Bakugo Is a bully and people still like him.

[@missmoon0184]

I don't think Bakugou is SO bad and I hope that in the anime, and in the manga as well, he will became better. Bakugou has good reasons for behave like this (except for the part of his bad character, took by his mother). But he is a good person, he is not a bad guy. I think that he can mature and be, yes a bully, but a true hero and a very good person i the future, that would never act like this with his crush. Remember we are talking about an anime Character. I'm totally sure he will be better in the future anime acts. People can improve, yes some people are shit, but others would try to understand why their realtionship has gone wrong and try to found their errors and then improve themselves. Let's try to be more positive, especially in this period... Of corse if that person don't have the intention to become better well...Say goodbye, It's the only right thing to do.

[@steph6141]

season 5 begs to differ 👀

[@mangos__mangos1352]

@@steph6141 Legit- 👀

[@kayeaok]

Bakugo was blind by his quirk soon after he started to changed,had respect for Uravity,and the other characters,He had insecureties,He Regreted everything for being his past self,I have the Proof of the manga fight me!😂

[@mangos__mangos1352]

@@kayeaok Y’all do know this comment wasn’t directed towards people who do like Bakugo but actually have a reason right? and didn’t have to come at me with your evidence- 😐 I already know what happened. Because I already saw the anime, read the manga, and knew exactly what happened, and I do realize that Bakugo does start changing, this comment was only directed towards people who have no reason to like him or only like him because he’s hot or cute. Their either simps or either people who haven’t watched the anime, haven’t read the manga yet and just likes him for no apparent reason. This comment was not only directed towards fangirls but also directed towards people who think bakugo is a bad character.

[@user-iv1no3xn8z]

Even though I don’t have a crush, I love to watch these videos so I know that I’m not doing anything wrong and how I could be better.

[@SirKingdomC]

I couldn't read the words fast enough but overall, that helped me really well. i had a crush on a bully once but since you made this vid i dont like them now

[@mehakverma7043]

"the bully" Bakugo Fans: I'll pretend I didn't see that

[@marinettedupaincheng4749]

You just called me out virtually I-

[@choocli]

ANYWAYS

[@MichaelKeaveneyYouTube]

Not sure if bully is the perfect word to describe him.

[@hotshoebox9693]

o o p -

[@adrianag.114]

don’t call me out like that 😭

[@ignoreme2275]

The Toxic Crushes: *1.) The Ghoster* *2.) The Bragger* *3.) The Humiliator* *4.) The Bully* *5.) The Cheater* *6.) The User* *7.) The Isolator*

[@RiskierGoose340]

*9.) That one guy in school who seems nice but his behavior is all over the place*

[@LilCat_UwU]

10.) The one that mental age is like 5 but is actually 18

[@YourAverageNormalHumanBeing]

11. The insane one

[@pachimoki3679]

*12. The Killer One*

[@Spring_15]

@@alter_jerry_conner5176 way to ruin the chain mate

[@Child-ec8vw]

Is this your real voice if it is your voice is really comforting

[@matilda.j]

I never had a toxic crush like that but I used to be a "Ghoster crush". When I know somebody who I was friend with had a crush on me I would slowly stop talking to them and hope for them to move on. I am not proud of it and I am not like that anymore. I did that because I was a chicken and didn't have balls to rejeckt someone and hurt their feelings. This video made me think about my past actions and I realized how it actually might've been hurted someones feelings. I never thought about it like that before. So thank you for the video, I will definitely be more careful about not doing this again😅❤

[@goddess_of.harmony]

The thumbnail: Left: Worried Middle: Tsundere Right: Stalker

[@Majin_Xavierras]

Isn't it more right to say "yandere" instead of stalker if we have "tsundere" as the middle?

[@mixar4457]

Justice, the high prosecutor then left is dandere

[@user-hx2lq4xu6m]

@@Majin_Xavierras Maybe because theres not another word for tsundere and yandere can be completely different then a stalker? A yandere can stalk, but a stalker might be a lot more sane then a cold blooded yandere. But I mean the thumbnail does look like that person got issues so I would say yandere, but being a stalker can be different then yandere witch is somebody who is blinded by love with no return or just borderline insane for someone.

[@ss-nx7ml]

The video: nah, bruh

[@lizz.303]

4: the bully Gacha tubers: I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that

[@sudeshnaghosh2824]

Lmao true😂😂

[@laziness852]

Lol true

[@kruzzz4852]

Gatcha tubers be like:NO THATS NOT TRUE MY BF WILL KILL YOU

[@gonnagohate3230]

Dont forget to give them different colors for both eyes and make them secretly an angel who has fallen as a cool edgy demon

[@zomb2531]

@@gonnagohate3230 they also have to be a big boy so big that they’re mom let’s them watch paw patrol now

[@diannasdaughters]

I'm definitely the user. whenever someone has a crush on me and i can see some advantage on them, like when they have money or a motorcycle, I would order them around. I'm not proud tho, but I can tell you more about this behavior. i was once a tolerant of poverty from my exes and I received nothing from them even if sometimes, they have something to share. i told my self that I wouldn't be a victim of poverty when it comes to relationships because it was hard and draining. that's why it would be refreshing for me if someone who has something courts me. I'd take advantage of them but I won't like them or something. that's why it is important for you to show absolutely nothing of your wealth or helpful skills (like drawing or writing ot whatever academically) to your crush when he or she is STILL a crush

[@LolaGirl257]

I can relate to this from a 3rd person perspective. My best friend is crushing on a guy that I was in a toxic relationship with and I told her he's just a player who will break her heart and I told her this because I didn't want her to get taken advantage of like I did. She kept going after him even though I told her he was bad news and this has happened so many times, not with my exes but with types of people in this video. After a while realized that it was HER problem and that it doesn't matter what the person is like or if I warn her about what she's getting into because she just wants attention from anybody.