Korean mom fighting, dating, shopping in Korea

hey guys
just a mom of 2 living in Korea
hope you enjoy :)
ssol
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[@lindsayxiong8696]

It seems like both you and your husband must have grown up in loving families, which is wonderful! As for me, I struggle to connect with other people. Instead of addressing issues in my relationships, I tend to avoid conflict and walk away. I'm such a passive-aggressive person, but only in a relationship 😂. Hope you are happy; sending you my ghost hug.

[@simplyssol]

I also tend to avoid conflict. I guess once in a while we have to let our inner beast out 😂 sending you many hugs and love 🩷

[@ayatahmad6545]

Hiii Ssol, I'm glad that you’re posting again, your videos bring me peace🥹 You and your family are so adorable 🥰

[@simplyssol]

thank you 🩷 wish you the best

[@guesswho4475]

Good to see you two found a way to show appreciation and support for one another through a date. I can imagine how you felt in the moment and I feel like a reason it hit you hard is because the things that were said were a result of not communicating sooner; things built up and everything you needed to get out did at the same time and made it be too much. On another note, maybe try rolling your hair up instead of down/in to see what curl it gives you. lol, typical to have options and end up with something that wasn’t an original choice! The second blouse had a very pretty style!! Thanks for your honesty, seeing someone be so real and true is what makes your channel the best!

[@simplyssol]

yes, I do agree communication is so important in a relationship. will try the hot rollers once again lol practice makes perfect 😂

[@tracyalan7201]

As a senior male viewer, don't sweat the small stuff. I've been married to my wife of 32 years. No kids. Trust me, you have kids and one thing is that they are sometimes, the glue that holds marriages together. Not having kids and blow ups, there is no glue. At the end of the day, after fights and how the other treats you, you wonder if it is worth it? I've had plenty of blow ups over nothing, but overreacting like it's the end of the world, step back and if the communication's there, no other stuff like infidelity, financial mis-management, abuse of partner, drugs, gambling, other partners which I would say are big warning signs, then it can be worked out. Saying sorry, talking, forgiving, accept the flaws of yourself and the partner are starting points. Then time is all it takes. I'm the Korean one which I can be Krakatoa when angry but trust me my Japanese wife is like Old Faithful at Yellowstone. Just be best that you can be. BTW, your husband and you look like a very attractive couple, so be good to each other. Mahalo.

[@simplyssol]

the glue that holds marriages together - I feel the same way. Your wife must be so sweet and understanding. it's hard to be the first one to say sorry but I realize after it has been said, everything seems to be ok from that point. thank you for watching~ love from Korea 😊

[@poochie7668]

I lost my husband in January of this year. How I wish he was here to argue with me😢. At times like these, it's good to reflect on what brought you two together, and how happy you were about it. Marriage is hard work, but oh so worth it. Look at what it has already yielded...a beautiful family of four. You two deserve each other... don't give up!!❤

[@simplyssol]

I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for your kind words. I truly hope you will heal soon.. and yes marriage is def hard work ! 😂sending lots of love from Korea 🩷

[@poochie7668]

Thank you....

[@jewel2586]

I’m happy to see you posting. This is so relatable! The period after unleashing the worst expression of raw emotion is hard, and I agree it takes time heal. Sending lots of love ❤, from Nyc!

[@simplyssol]

thank u... ❤ love from Korea 😊😊

[@user-uj3pj1qu1i]

Hello Ssol i really enjoyed watching your video it just popt up at my screen i can relate to your life as a mother of two myself i have been there i think we all get to that point in relationships and marriage but you seem like a great couple together and i can see the LOVE is there the both of you just have to work on it and there is no good or better way just is very important to keep doing what you do and dont forget that besides being parents you are still also your own self you going on dates or taking that extra time for yourself is very important keep doing the things you like and good communication .i hope you understand what im trying to say my english is not that good😅 but i have been where you are and believe me things will get better with time and hard work. i like soul hope to go there one day im already learning korean looking forward to another video greetings from europe The Netherlands ❤

[@simplyssol]

your English is perfect ☺I do agree as a mother, enjoying time for myself if really important... sending much love from Korea~ from another mom of 2 🥰

[@SimonCU]

OMG the last time I watched your video I think it was 6 years ago!

[@simplyssol]

welcome back 😊🩷

[@SimonCU]

@@simplyssol did you remove some of your old videos? I remember you had more old videos back then.

[@user1616vshsj]

i laughed so hard when u started removing the curlers as I experienced the same thing in the past! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@simplyssol]

haha u must understand how difficult it is then! 😂

[@laurencemartin5342]

I just "love" ALLLL your Videos...A+++ Continue:):)

[@simplyssol]

😊🩷

[@ilikewatchingfood]

yay song recs

[@yena7329]

Happens to the best of us!

[@simplyssol]

🩷👍🏼

[@meganpemberton332]

I love how you speak from the heart and then tell us your hair smells like feet🙂

[@MathsAintMathing]

😖 I'm sorry, but it just doesn't seem worth it for women. It's like marriage is a trap for women. You end up having to take care of him, you're having to think about how picky he is and buying him pants, take care of house & kids with little to no help, and then you have a fight and he explodes & says who knows what to you, and then the only thing holding it together is the kids. at the end of the day it just sounds like a life lived doing nothing but suffering. I'm child-free and not married, and every single day that goes by marriage/kids seem less and less enticing and not logical for women. Thank you for sharing because it really is a good reminder for the truth about marriage and helping keep that perspective. Much love❤

[@Bahara.ha11]

❤❤

[@Bahara.ha11]

I love this video

[@rezayaseri2790]

I think outfit #3 was better than other two, the name of movie was "Good Will Hunting" I guess. and you are beautiful either tie your hair or spread it like a waterfall ❤❤❤

[@poonammudaliar9554]

Hi ssol...love you ❤....I can connect with this one for sure....we also end up fighting and then make up❤

[@simplyssol]

sending much love from Korea as well 🩷

[@ilikewatchingfood]

hey big sis im male and love your female presence and modelling of social norms and such❤

[@shellyreynolds8948]

It is natural to have disagreements at times. Sounds like you both know how to argue in a way useful for growth. Very cool that you'll be enjoying time together soon. Look up how to use the rollers correctly. They really do work well.

[@simplyssol]

yes have to try the rollers once more! 👍🏼

[@vedac.9288]

Was the movie GOOD WILL HUNTING? Much love to you both. 😊❤

[@simplyssol]

yes!! 👍👍👍

[@laurencemartin5342]

You are so, so, so funny! how about..."PoneyTail?!?"

[@chauminh]

Merci, your back I thought you divorced this channel.

[@simplyssol]

yes thank u for coming back ❤😊❤😊❤😊

[@mckenzieta777]

No joke. Being serious. Has anyone ever told you or your husband that he looks like kdrama actor and/or a K-pop star? Also, if you had your hair straightened and had straight cut across bangs you would look like one of the pretty college age girls in a kdrama.

[@mckenzieta777]

You don’t need makeup your naturally pretty. Adorable slippers, keychains and stuffies. Cat boobs😂😂… koreas sandwiches always look better than the state’s sandwiches. Rollers were the rave when I was a child…. I think it’s great that it’s coming back. I think most healthy relationships have those disagreements. I’ve been married to the love of my life 34 years this year and we’ve had are fare share of those arguments and unkind words though it’s not always easier cause it takes work in apologizing and forgiving and talking it out. Also, your hubby suggesting a date night was a great idea. When hubby and I were first married our pastor at the time told us to date every two weeks and never talk about the kids on those date night and that we were to remind each other of sweet, cute and fond memories of things we said, did, and wore that ended up drawing us to each other in and made us fall for one other. Sweet memory type things that we did for each other and with each other the first two years of marriage that made our hearts happy.

[@simplyssol]

date night every two weeks and never talking about kids is such a great idea! lol I will def try this 🩷 thank you 👍🏼

[@mckenzieta777]

@@simplyssol It’s a wonderful thing that’s for sure. Enjoy 😊

[@guadalupearmenta2432]

What is the name of the movie??? 🤔

[@korean9325]

Good Will Hunting (1997)

[@user-vu8kr2ux8d]

I messed you❤❤❤❤