Building a house in The Sims 4 but every room is a different pride flag. Socials - linktr.ee/SatchOnStuff BUSINESS CONTACT ONLY: satchonsims@gmail.com
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@silas_sandbox3 ай бұрын
i miss pre 2016 when woke actually meant something and wasnt just a term for whatever group annoyed you
@extrasupercoolbeans3 ай бұрын
Never read a truer comment
@jalapeno11193 ай бұрын
It did. It was co-opted and made into a derogatory term. It used to be a compliment.
@baoziday51783 ай бұрын
Of course the intolerant white people had to take it and change it into something else. They just hate toxic inclusivity, woke isn't what they think it is and people always sound stupid when they complain about being woke
@jeongbun23863 ай бұрын
REAL
@tonykun83703 ай бұрын
The term lost it's meaning unfortunately
@mojyoqueen3503 ай бұрын
Satch - Is gay bear Sims - Doesn''t have gay flag, nor bear flag It's official! The sims 4 is SatchOnSimsphobic!
@WhiteMageOfTheWind3 ай бұрын
Satch was giving me sassy otter vibes than a bear. 🤔
@myguitarwantstokillyourmama2 ай бұрын
calling Satch a bear is like calling him lesbianphobic 💀
@fateme81033 ай бұрын
This man is not scared of cancelation 😂 Edit : just wanted to add I love this man❤️. Don't come for him in replies😒
@vomm3 ай бұрын
Yeah but he is so right .. don't get it why people overcomplicate things and put the focus on genders and sexuality when people fought for hundrets of years that less focus is set on both.
@Elektrochoke3 ай бұрын
He low key wants it xD
@yeahyou...3 ай бұрын
@@vomm i guess thats true but i think peopel just like to identefy as somthing and are proud of it! Maybe its comforting for them! Still I understand why this may come across otherwise😊
@simssaves49803 ай бұрын
@@vomm have you considered that you don't understand it because its not about you, and if it's important to other people then why not live and let live
@hawkred25013 ай бұрын
Having specific words to express exactly how you feel on the inside is very important to understanding yourself and being comfortable in your own life. For the longest time, I didn’t understand that I was asexual and continuously pushed myself to engage in sex - something that I felt was expected of me because that is what society says I have to do when in a relationship. However, when I learned about asexuality, I finally had a word to describe the complex feelings I had around the act of physical intimacy, and why I would be pushed to tears after sex or why I had to consistently get drunk in order to just engage in sex even with someone that I loved. The amount of relief that I experienced finally having a word to explain my complex emotions was unexplainable. Having these classifications is very valuable for many people.
@Deadpool4president3 ай бұрын
Listen, the current lesbian flag is 100x better than the old one. It's like a sunset. There's also a few variations, but the sunset one is the main one now.
@TheDreamingBean3 ай бұрын
plus the creator of the old one sucks
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
@@TheDreamingBeanno they don’t imo.
@mitsuri_supremacy23423 ай бұрын
@@TheDreamingBean wait until you find out that they sell all variations at pride
@noorlita2 ай бұрын
The sunset flag is gross lol
@hannariel22 күн бұрын
Labrys flag is way better.
@AnAroaceCrow3 ай бұрын
A lot of asexuals use the split attraction model, so their romantic and sexual attraction are different from each other. The romantic attraction equivalent of asexual is aromantic, which is little to no romantic attraction. Some people can be asexual but not aromantic, aromantic but not asexual, or both (aroace).
@henrylo67733 ай бұрын
idk sounds like horny people with committment issues making a flag 😂
@indecisive.dice.roll.3253 ай бұрын
To answer Satch's amusing yapping, the purpose of all these flags is to identify groups within a group. We have the rainbow flag to represent LGBT+ as a whole, and other flags to represent different groupings within that label. Unless a person is within a certain group, they don't need to know a particular flag. The common person isn't expected to know all the different flags, but they know 🌈 = LGBT. Think of it like sports jerseys. The common person displaying a sports jersey of Team 1, the common person thinks "okay that person is a sports fan". A sports fan would think "Ooh! A Team 1 fan! We can talk about sports". And Team 1 fan will think "Omg someone like me!"
@PigeonPlays-zf3mq3 ай бұрын
Wtf is that aroace description. I’m aro and I’d more describe our relationships as “platonic but appears romantic/sexual to outsiders”. I admit, it’s very nuanced and difficult for others to understand, but it’s what some of us feel describes us.
@JustASillyReally3 ай бұрын
That's something called a queer platonic relationship, a relationship in all senses but no romantic and/or sexual attraction! I'm arospec and my best relationships have been qp
@JasonD7183 ай бұрын
My Mom has a flag that says “Proud Mom!” With I swear to God, no less than 30 flags on it. I’m happy she’s supportive but girl, even I don’t know what some of those flags are supposed to mean 😂😂
@Bones12203 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 that’s cute and hilarious
@lunarrstchАй бұрын
that is so cute, I wish her a happy mother's day 🥰
@pathogenofdecay3 ай бұрын
I have to wonder if the Sims team thinks the gay flag is synonymous with the previous LGBT flag (before the triangle was added) and didn't bother to do research on it.
@A2n7tA3 ай бұрын
The thing is, they must have done some research because they include 3 lesbian flags.
@ultraviolet382611 күн бұрын
It looked a little like the swatch down from the first one but missing a line? Correct me if I’m wrong and it belongs to another group?
@magdalenapsenickova6203 ай бұрын
i love this man he doesn't care about anything lmao
@freya87463 ай бұрын
As an asexual person I have absolutely no sexual attraction to anyone but i do feel romantic attraction. There are some people that dont feel either though.❤
@alvis68013 ай бұрын
@@MBJK_babythere are adults who are asexual too you know…
@alvis68013 ай бұрын
@@MBJK_baby not always. It’s more common than you may think.
@MaterMotely3 ай бұрын
Aro/Ace here!
@ottiilia3 ай бұрын
@@MBJK_baby attraction ≠ action, asexual people do not experience the attraction part but that does not mean they are incapable of having sex (they may like the feeling and have a sex drive but not experience the attraction, the urge to do it with a specific person), although most do not want to /nm
@HA-nj1qt3 ай бұрын
@@MBJK_babyok then. I don’t and have never experienced sexual attraction to anyone, I’m an adult and I’ve never experienced sexual trauma or any other kind of trauma. And before you say it’s a medical issue I’ve consulted to separate doctors and I’m perfectly healthy. So go on make another assumption. Believe me I wish my sexuality or lack there of was so easy to explain by simple assumptions you make.
@malinglad39433 ай бұрын
Satch, you are anti-depressant in human form
@sheatemyhearttАй бұрын
"Color-clashy" SATCH THESE COLORS ARE RIGHT NEXT TO EACH OTHER ON THE COLOR WHEELLLL
@Orenjen3 ай бұрын
not you skipping over the bi flag room design 😂😭
@Orenjen3 ай бұрын
fr the one I was most excited to see though (my flag)😢
@lauravivian90063 ай бұрын
Biphobic Satch confirmed
@Lizziguin3 ай бұрын
I feel like Bi people are always overlooked for whatever reason. I always found that weird.
@DuchessJabba3 ай бұрын
Around 9 he does it or Not?
@jalapeno11193 ай бұрын
It's so representative of the culture as a whole
@pottuboi3 ай бұрын
To clear some things out. A person can be both asexual and gay/lesbian/straight/whatever, because sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. There is also an aromantic flag.
@leonardobenelli193 ай бұрын
As an asexual, I will give you two easy examples: We are not here for the woohoo part*, but the cuddles, cheek kisses and cakes along the way. And being an asexual and gay for example, It just means you are looking exclusively for a male partner. I hope these little examples shine a bit of light in the confusion. *(some might do, but there is no happy moodlet, unless wicked woohoo).
@nossie45603 ай бұрын
this is so real omg
@sleepykitsune71703 ай бұрын
And we asexuals LOVE our garlic bread
@kieranmahon43823 ай бұрын
This is actually a really nice way of explaining it.
@regishel3 ай бұрын
Yeah, personaly (as an ace myself) I feel a lot LGBT don't really get the difference between Ace and Aro though. At least Satch is honest about his confusion🤷♀️
@JustASillyReally3 ай бұрын
I'm aroace spec, not here for the woohoo and only for the cuddles, kisses and cake if the other wanted the cuddles, kisses and cake first! ^^ (reciproromantic, only have romantic attraction if someone expresses romantic attraction to me)
@tmf8663 ай бұрын
Bears: One of my friends ran the very first bear web site, and he had to come up with an official definition for "what is a bear?" for the site. It's defined as "a bear is a person who says they're a bear." So if you want to be a bear, all you have to do is say you're a bear. Yes really anyone. It doesn't matter if they're thin and hairless, it doesn't matter if they're a woman, if they say they're a bear, they're a bear.
@LadyFrick3 ай бұрын
I am now a lady bear. 😊
@Bones12203 ай бұрын
Love that! 🐻
@Akkalia3 ай бұрын
Giving bear energy
@Fiemus92 ай бұрын
I feel suddenly bear 😂❤
@Julie-nv4hw3 ай бұрын
You missed such an opportunity to make the kitchen the pansexual room and fill the kitchen with pans..!
@dusty_blue2 ай бұрын
I saw what you did there 😂
@Orenjen3 ай бұрын
Can't wait for Satch's transformation into full Bear gay man mode over the coming months
@something68333 ай бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, I thought he was already gay
@Orenjen3 ай бұрын
@@something6833 he is lol
@something68333 ай бұрын
@@Orenjen Oh yeah, I could tell.
@pathogenofdecay3 ай бұрын
@@something6833I'm not sure if Satch is joking when he says that he's attracted to lesbians and especially butch lesbians though. I would suppose that Satch could be joking, but the more he says it, I get suspicious, and he even said that he'd make out with a butch lesbian in a previous video, so he may not be exactly gay if he meant what he said. Oh right, and Satch also said that he'd woohoo a butch lesbian if she had male parts, so yeah. I'm confused, and he may be confused too. lol 😂
@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken3 ай бұрын
@@something6833 he’s made it pretty obvious he’s gay. you aint getting any reward for being able to tell.
@Usernotfound312313 ай бұрын
I had a new appreciation for pride flags when it was explained to me that the intensity of the colors’ saturation & spectrum were intentional- paralleling how pride should be unapologetically ‘loud’
@shikonahserigala58593 ай бұрын
😂 That's a fun explanation, but here's the secret: we just like sporting pride colors/flags that aren't literal rainbows, it's not any deeper than that.
@Usernotfound312313 ай бұрын
@@shikonahserigala5859 you might just be speaking to your own depth babe
@shikonahserigala58593 ай бұрын
@@Usernotfound31231 lol nah fam. It's fun to be profound, but at the end of the day, this is just "the poet said blue so they're obv depressed" level analysis. A couple of the flags? Maybe vibrancy is the underlying intention. Vast majority? Not that serious. Even the literal rainbow flag doesn't have anything to do with being "unapologetically loud." Which is cool. Not everything has to have a big ol' substantial meaning behind it to be relevant or relatable.
@juicydaddymilkies2 ай бұрын
@@shikonahserigala5859 for me personaly, i like having a flag that i feel best describes me. it's more fun and personal than the rainbow flag which just means queer
@Namerinoyoyo3 ай бұрын
As a Bi person, I don't fully understand the difference between Bisexual and Pansexual either. I just Identify as Bisexual because I like the flag better lol
@demo28233 ай бұрын
A bisexual doesn't mind whether you are a man or a woman (and according to some, the central blended colour means they don't mind if you are a flavour of nonbinary either). A pansexual doesn't mind whether the inside of your pants is a p, a v, or a crocodile. Pansexual is more theoretical. Like in a world of aliens or cybernetic body enhancements, you'd still be down.
@OKBoomer2k3 ай бұрын
Hi. I'm neither bisexual nor pansexual so I hope what I'm about to say is correct. Bisexuality is the sexual attraction to cis men and women. Pansexuality is sexual attraction to all genders (trans, cis, nonbinary etc). The term I've heard them use is that they're into "hearts, not parts".
@lizziehepworth45003 ай бұрын
@@OKBoomer2k bisexuality isn't limited to only cis gender people, though.
@Namerinoyoyo3 ай бұрын
@@OKBoomer2k not true at all, Bisexual includes everyone not just Cis gender, that's what the purple in the flag represents.
@Akkalia3 ай бұрын
LOL. I identify will Pan because I like the flag, and I can pun with the Hellenic God
@orhaion3 ай бұрын
bear is a decade old term ... and it very much is a sexual thing (like twink, but the opposite) however it has always had such a huge community and specialized bars/meet-ups that a flag was created! it's like an identification so they could be easier to find. possibly because there really was no online spaces for it yet the blue-green gay flag is very new and not really "official" as it was created by a random on tumblr in like 2019/2020. gay man communities usually just go with the regular rainbow flag or twink/bear/leather flags! lesbian have their own because it is just as old as the other flags and have been widely used historically
@orhaion3 ай бұрын
basically the bear flag exists because so many fat gay hairy man existed and wanted to meet up decades ago lmaoooo. you could compare it to like how femme and butch lesbians have individual communities and meet-ups with the exception that it's not a sexual thing like bears and twinks
@christabelle__3 ай бұрын
Most of the various queer flags were made on tumblr! As a denizen of tumblr, I've done my research, and you'd be surprised how much of queer culture is made there, and how much queer history is preserved there.
@orhaion3 ай бұрын
@@christabelle__ actually aware :) but its therefore less known outside of internet spaces. unlike older flags… only exception i can think of is honestly the new lesbian flag because it replaced the lipstick one so quick lol
@demo28233 ай бұрын
I've found it's used more in order to explain what kind of person you're attracted to. I have friends who are twinks who are only into twinks, bears who are only interested in bears, and then the ones who would prefer a twink-bear pairing. Just like butch and lipstick lesbians. I do think, though, that it shouldn't be attached to homosexuality as much, because straight women can be butch and straight men can be twinks, yaknow?
@heath68023 ай бұрын
Yep! Gays spaces IRL are very different than the ones online. Part of me is nervous for what happens when the tumblr era kids get a rude awakening to what it’s like offline? But I’m sure they’ll settle and find their place
@parallel24653 ай бұрын
"The bisexual flag and bisexuals are boring and basic" That one feeling I had left is so hurt
@turky.on.ry32 ай бұрын
"I actually find lots of lesbians attractive" 😭😭 I can tell he's just not well informed but it's a lot /lh
@karmakameleon1133 ай бұрын
You aren't a proper bear unless you own at least 5 tins of mustache wax and 5 bottles of beard oil.
@sternentigerkatze3 ай бұрын
🤭
@jadedjhypsi3 ай бұрын
one more thing.... a lot of these classifications are more for the people in the relationship than how they announce themselves to society. My husband is asexual but is attracted to girls which is no big deal to anybody but me, who HAS to understand what an asexual is if I wish to stay in my relationship. Fair?
@JustASillyReally3 ай бұрын
As an ace person, absolutely fair. I think your husband is alloromantic, meaning he can experience romantic attraction normally (and allo isn't a label technically, it's just the umbrella for any non-aromantic identities), just no sexual attraction, which is honestly not talked about enough, someone being asexual but alloromantic
@jadedjhypsi3 ай бұрын
thank you for this comment. we are still trying to figure out our unique relationship =) it isnt all flowers for me since I LOVE sex but I also love him... lol better friends than lovers, right? @@JustASillyReally
@JustASillyReally3 ай бұрын
@@jadedjhypsi Haha glad to help! Hope you the best of luck with your relationship ♡
@jadedjhypsi3 ай бұрын
we been married for 14 years so .... me too. wishing you well too =)@@JustASillyReally
@jadedjhypsi3 ай бұрын
perfectly describes him.... thank you so much!!!! honestly!!! Aromanticism is defined as "having little or no romantic feeling towards others: experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction". The term aromantic was added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2018.@@JustASillyReally
@akitofan47263 ай бұрын
The aroace definition did us dirty 😭
@moehre86303 ай бұрын
just to clear things up, being pansexual means that you dont care about the gender of your partner while when you are bisexual you might have a prefered one
@bosselot.Ай бұрын
Thanks for adding “might” LOL As a bisexual I always find it super weird when people say that we “see gender” or so (makes it sound super judgy) when that was never even something mentioned in the original meaning of bisexual LOL. Bisexual is liking multiple genders just like pansexual but maybe with a few tweaks
@aruvius3 ай бұрын
the rainbow flag expresses pride as a whole while the individual flags represent their respective identities it’s actually so weird that homosexual doesn’t receive their own flag, but lesbians get both variations 😭 an embarrassing oversight for a game that really prides itself on representation
@notsayaka3 ай бұрын
i thought the flag representing gay men was the ‘homosexual flag’? and all the identities being the rainbow
@leoyakafudy3 ай бұрын
yeah lesbians get 3 different variations which is wild to me because 2 of them are literally the same, but one is the simplified design
@aruvius3 ай бұрын
@@notsayaka that's what I said
@fukhyu3330Ай бұрын
It doesn’t take much to realize that this game isn’t actually diverse. It’s only the stuff that’s trendy
@bingus.boingus3 ай бұрын
The pansexual should have been the kitchen, cause you know... pan... 😅
@skopec72883 ай бұрын
nooo I hate when people make that joke it's so old and so annoying
@RarelyAru25 күн бұрын
@@skopec7288 Womp womp
@jennamichelle54913 ай бұрын
i feel the sims just thought the gay flag is still just the basic rainbow one. lol
@Elektrochoke3 ай бұрын
5:31 you can find those toilet seats in Chinese convenience shops in Spain
@JoB8223 ай бұрын
this is so random XD
@Elektrochoke3 ай бұрын
@@JoB822 hahaha
@scarli97053 ай бұрын
So specific 🥲
@oroontheheels3 ай бұрын
I’m not spokesman on gender issues, but I believe genderfluid is not when you _do_ something that is considered masculine or feminine. It’s more about how you actually identify yourself, how you feel on the inside. And it’s not necessary two basic genders (male/female). But that’s info I’ve gathered trough years. I think actual genderfluid people will explain it better.)
@sternentigerkatze3 ай бұрын
Hi, genderfluid enby here! You got that right; there are three dimensions: 1. sexual orientation/preference e.g. ace/allo, gay, bi etc., 2. gender e.g. trans-/cis- male, female, enby, agender (all with loads of subcategories) and 3. gender expression = the way one dresses, talks, walks etc. 😊
@demo28233 ай бұрын
Yep, genderfluid generally means you identify differently on different days and may dress differently and prefer different pronouns on those days. Sadly they are often stuck with lifelong body dysmorphia because no set body will suit them every day.
@maigenef24453 ай бұрын
Btw, aroace is just the term for someone who is both aromantic (little to no romantic attraction) and asexual (little to no sexual attraction) !
@shikonahserigala58593 ай бұрын
Omg please do another of these with a second wheel of flags, I need it in my life.
@tashamcc6703 ай бұрын
I love how genuine you are, please never change xo
@guitaristshorts3 ай бұрын
we don't need to cancel this man, we must protect him at all costs😂 its honestly a breath of fresh air to hear someone just being real and freely talking about this stuff without being scared of offending anyone
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
Fr I’m bisexual and I’m not woke and that’s why I love satch so much.
@pierremiles3 ай бұрын
@@JokersD0llthere’s nothing wrong with being “woke” lol
@shreksoffspring3 ай бұрын
@@JokersD0ll pick me vibes are extreme rn
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
@@shreksoffspring not “pick me” have my own thoughts and feelings I like Blaire white u gonna start crying? Because satch follows her aswell - I like buck angel and Marcus dib being WOKE is bad because it makes you miserable Also pick me isn’t this - a pick me is someone who has extreme issues and seeks out validation from men. It’s putting other woman down for a man I have not done anything like that - I have my own brain and have my own thoughts and feelings. That’s not what a pick me is.
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
@@pierremiles unless u wanna look like a goblin be my guest be woke.
@ple83793 ай бұрын
Honestly, I wish to see more of you building/furnishing videos in the sims. I find the way you make the houses very refreshing. Other simmers they clutter the heck out of their houses and while it looks great and I like to watch them, the way you do it feels much more realistic, like the phone on the bed, a (not)storage room, less clutter in the kitchen as you usually need more space to prep. Idk, it's something different and not just all about the visual aspect. I really like it, I'll look forward for some more of these.
@loretta_883 ай бұрын
I like how it was giving you them in the same order as the acronym!
@bluejay-in-flight3 ай бұрын
think it would've been really cool if Satch had actually asked the people that identify with those flags what they meant than looking up articles and it couldve been a fun way to have guests and dynamic interactions then spreading more confusion or misinfo about the identities
@Fiemus92 ай бұрын
But the problem is there is no official definition and everybody I’ve met have their own take on it, it’s not mis-info for the people that care they will know and find peace in that
@fukhyu3330Ай бұрын
Most of these are unofficial and just more complicated ways of saying “I like penis” or “I like vagina” and honestly it doesn’t matter anyway. Frankly not everyone wants to know who you’re trying to bang and why. It shouldn’t be so important to you that people understand your vague terms, because really nobody cares.
@togoxo3 ай бұрын
oh reddit coming for you with so bad about this they will clip this video and try to get everything so out of context
@marlabrowne67853 ай бұрын
I think the labels give those who are unsure or marginalized in their communities and homes a safe place to belong and know they aren’t alone. Knowing you aren’t the only one to feel this way is so powerful. Especially if those feelings single you out for abuse.❤
@solarclock3 ай бұрын
the thumbnail baited me into thinking you'll make an ace room 😫
@72perseids3 ай бұрын
I think Satch is def late 20's maybe 30's even, the way he's confused about all those screams gen y and I feel you bruh. I remember the times when it was just lgbt 😂
@fukhyu3330Ай бұрын
I’m gen z and were confused too. It’s not a generational thing, it’s an attention seeking thing
@cheekypigg3 ай бұрын
5:05 it’s called Frutiger aero 😄 those dolphin toilet seats were so cute🥹 I wonder if they still do them
@csubab53393 ай бұрын
Let's not forget there's like 3-4 f*ckin lesbian flags but not a single homosexual one in the game ❤
@emiliai3 ай бұрын
I mean technically lesbians are homosexual too but true lmao i saw 3 lesbian flag and no gay man flag pahaha
@fukhyu3330Ай бұрын
Oh nooo the most accepted and least oppressed part of the lgbt community doesn’t get a flag in a silly game 😢
@xx_cigarette_daydreams_xx32833 ай бұрын
As a lesbian: slay king you did us right with that room imo
@Orenjen3 ай бұрын
Giving a whole new meaning to Brother Bear 😂
@ry3i0t3 ай бұрын
"we all vape" ur killing me😭
@BubbleGumTasteGood2 ай бұрын
we r talking abt genders, not sex, there r more than one gender (nonbinary, demigender, ...)
@TheGoldenAngel823 ай бұрын
This was such a fun video! I had a blast watching this, and I LOVE your laughter haha. I like the idear of using the wheel to randomize rooms or buildings, I think I will start use that more - perhaps even when creating Sims to shake things up.
@mjuksa3 ай бұрын
no joke - there a lot of dumb toilet seats on aliexpress... wanted to show some to my friends and found a lot of them there!!!
@AJ-tiltagirl3 ай бұрын
Satch being color-fluid in that kitchen with the blue and red. 😂
@liyagrimm2920Ай бұрын
as sarcastic as he is, he really just is confused HAHA
@Lizziguin3 ай бұрын
I think the Sims team assumed that the rainbow flag was the gay flag 😆
@Ana86Lucia3 ай бұрын
I think you are more of an otter than a bear.
@TheElegantNinja3 ай бұрын
Why is no one talking about how well you did this challenge?! My favorite is the kitchen, I think you nailed it! But the rest of the house was done really well too!
@heath68023 ай бұрын
Oh my god, the ally flag is there, but not the one designed for gay men. The Hecking couple exists, but they don’t get any in game rep
@No-vq1iv3 ай бұрын
This concept would be right at home in The Sims 3, with the CASt tool you can paint a single room in all 400 flags.
@FinalFrankie3 ай бұрын
As a gender fluid person I’m not bothered that you don’t understand. It’s been a very confusing existence for me personally so I get it.
@TrashBinSouvenir3 ай бұрын
I love you Satch and everything you stand for 🤣
@whitneywilson29903 ай бұрын
Omg I adore you! I laughed the entire video 🤣🤣 spot on with everything
@bcray25483 ай бұрын
Woke-ification😭😂😂😂 I'm here for it
@priimrei1833 ай бұрын
You’re so real for this
@mimosa51743 ай бұрын
As a genderfluid person, I interpret it as not feeling like a good fit for either binary option. I mostly present as my assigned at birth gender (biological sex) but I feel most comfortable when using gender-neutral pronouns and feel discomfort when other people project their heteronormative expectations on me. The happiness I felt when first using “they/them” was liberating. As a pansexual, I used to identify as bisexual and once I recognised my own gender fluidity, I knew that I actually was pansexual (otherwise I wouldn’t be attracted to someone like myself and that felt… wrong). I still do plenty of things tied to my biological sex and there’s a lot of people like me from what I see in online communities!
@matildalitsey1432 ай бұрын
So, the difference between bisexual and pansexual is that bisexual is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction towards more than one gender. There are a ton of Genders, by the way, and this will come into play for pansexuality. So pansexuality is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction for all genders, every single one, with no preference. A common misconception is that they are attracted to personality. That's not true. Also, there are a lot more gay people than we think, there's just a lot of homophobia still, sadly. Also, I totally agree with you, the bear lfag seems like a fetish. With a more uplifting note, I'm so glad you're getting adapted to the community! Once you learn enough about it, you can see it for what it is, most times it's just very wholesome. (::
@Aroesena3 ай бұрын
Off topic but I love watching you clutter everything. It feels realistic but not too overdone.
@Sannive3 ай бұрын
This was hilarious, thank you Satch :D
@Hppjohg3 ай бұрын
the lesbian room is so 70s i love it
@Areayea3 ай бұрын
Hey Satch, I'm going to educate and hopefully help you figure out the differences... These are two different categories, Gender and Sexual Orientation: Gender: This says what you feel your gender is, for some it's cis (whatever your body was at birth), trans (when you are the opposite of what you were at birth), intersex (this can be from birth where you have traits for both like breasts on a man or woman without breasts or larger female genitalia to look almost like a man) nonbinary (where you don't feel like you are either gender) and genderfluid (where you are more of go with the flow with your gender). Both of the last two are basically not putting a label if they are a man or woman. Orientation: This one gets tricky... you know the basic 3 gay lesbian and trans, pansexual is basically bi but more specific since bi can mean your gender and not your gender and some people affiliate it with men and women and pan is everything (trans, nonbinary, etc). We further have descriptions of how much you can love as well, aromantic is you don't date anyone because you don't feel connections like others, demiromantic is you need to have a deep emotional bond before being romantic with someone, asexual is you don't want sex with anyone sometimes its revolting or sometimes you just have no interest in it. demisexual is like demiromantic but with sex. aroace is a short way of saying you don't want to date you dont want sex you just want to live your life in this hypersexualized world. Hope all this helps, Bears are just beefy gays or gays with dad bods.
@Rabellaka.3 ай бұрын
Educational and entertaining. I knew a few of these flags, but not all, and the comments section has been helpful for clearer understanding about a few orientations.
@mochanutpayne83963 ай бұрын
asexual you are still attracted to people just not sexually.
@OKBoomer2k3 ай бұрын
I love this challenge. Great idea!
@Why.238253 ай бұрын
The fact that sims team is too lazy to put a gay pride flag swatch 🙄
@iamakumquat3 ай бұрын
Heres a quick, and more understandable rundown Asexual: feeling little to no sexual attraction Aroace: feeling little to no sexual AND romantic attraction (aroace is a mixture of asexual and aromantic. Aromantic being feeling little to no romantic attraction). Pansexual: sexual attraction to people regardless of gender. Basically like saying you like all genders --nbs included--, and is kind of a subset of bisexual. Bisexual is sexual attraction to two or more genders. Honestly bisexual/pansexual really confuse me but theyre often interchangeable depending on the person, and its basically the equivalent of saying "i like pizza" and "i like all pizza". One implies you like it all across the board, and the other could imply preferences or no preferences -- again, depending on the person. Nonbinary is anything outside of binary gender, but is technically still a type of trans. Its an umbrella term. Meaning you identify outside the binary of just a girl or just a boy. Theres a whole bunch of microlabels inbetween, such as genderfluid, which means the fluidity of gender. One day you may feel like a man, the next day a woman, and another day like neither. Honestly there are so many microlabels that i dont 100% understand or personally believe in, but yk whatever. People can identify however they please. I personally agree, however. I dont really like too many labels. I understand why some people would but i find them kind of boxing people in and more dividing, if anything. I dont understand why we cant just like girls as a girl, or boys as a boy, or no one as a person and just vibe with it for what it is without labelling it. And with all the microlabels we have today, it makes it confusing even for people *in* the community. No one is ever going to take gay or trans people seriously when were over here labelling what kind of gay we are down to being a brute, hairy man.
@anthropomorphicpeanut61603 ай бұрын
Satch, you are great!
@pianoneko92793 ай бұрын
The rainbow flag makes the most sense because the whole idea is the rainbow is a representation of the entire colour spectrum. By design it encompasses everybody.
@lavendyre3 ай бұрын
satch i really need to study your brain in a lab, this is so fucking funny what do you MEAN you didnt know
@Thatprrrr3 ай бұрын
Genuinely lol. I'm just glad he isn't like a raging bigot, just very uneducated for whatever reason
@you_were_a_good_boy13123 ай бұрын
nah he's just a normal sensible person, it's not bigoted to not support a million genders 🤡@@Thatprrrr
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
@@Thatprrrr”waging bwigot” 🤓 he follows Blaire white, if you don’t like that get tf out 😂
@JokersD0ll3 ай бұрын
Sorry he has no idea about all chronically online new flags lgbtqiop+ flags he’ll do better next time I pwomise!🥺
@iam8783 ай бұрын
@@JokersD0ll you mad
@ola90492 ай бұрын
i love your honesty
@misssavage.gaming3 ай бұрын
Yaaaayy missed these building videos!
@jadedavanzo69403 ай бұрын
satch is giving messy realness
@Katra213 ай бұрын
You are correct, the rainbow flag is meant to represent the whole lgbtqa+ community. A newer, progressive pride flag, the rainbow with the additional triangle represents including racial diversity among the community. But most of the flags are more about the individual letters, and subdivisions.
@WhiteMageOfTheWind3 ай бұрын
I was wheezing endlessly when EA forgotten about the Homosexual's flag. Also I didn't even know we had a gay flag. I always thought the rainbow was our united flag.😂
@IAARPOTI3 ай бұрын
Congrats Satch for educating stuffs. I am so proud of you.
@sammidoneff3 ай бұрын
I think the blue/green gay pride flag is much more recent than the others. Originally the rainbow one was the gay flag, but since it’s become all encompassing, a specific flag was chosen to mirror the design of the lesbian flag. The Sims team hasn’t updated the flags in a few years, so that’s probably why it’s missing
@lucindaleal8020Ай бұрын
The fact that a gay guy only thought there was 1 LGBT flag and has not been sucked into current ideology culture is restoring my faith in humanity
@occultpriestess3 ай бұрын
In agreement! Woke used to mean, "spiritually aware", like enlightened. Now it means the opposite.
@jeongbun23863 ай бұрын
💀💀💀
@shreksoffspring3 ай бұрын
It never meant that
@demo28233 ай бұрын
@@shreksoffspringMaybe you're young, but it definitely did. We used to contrast "woke and broke" in memes, where the educated take was woke, and the trashy take was broke. And even conspiracy theorists called themselves woke because they believed they were the only people 'awake' to the truth. Then it started being used sarcastically by people criticizing the left.
@shreksoffspring3 ай бұрын
@@demo2823 woke was never about "spirituality" it's always been about supporting human rights and wanting equal rights for all races and sexualities. People use woke as an insult and say they're "not woke" when all they're saying is they are a bigot
@feenprinz3 ай бұрын
All the labels that fit me have the ugliest flags, yes. The other day I learnt there is actually one for my super woke niche-y orientation. I'm almond-/berri-sexual and yes apparently this is a thing
@Anyaaaah3 ай бұрын
What's that orientation meant to mean? No hate, I'm just genuinely curious lol
@idkkkk75883 ай бұрын
It feels like most of the flags weren't designed by people who have experience in art or design. I've also been an artist for years so I think I'm allowed to say that
@feenprinz3 ай бұрын
@@Anyaaaah It means being mainly attracted to male/masc people and occasionally also to female/fem people, but rarely. Didn't know there was a label/flag for it, I usually just use "pansexual, 90% gay" for myself 😅 Not taking all these flags too seriously, but I love all these nuances in humans tbh.
@feenprinz3 ай бұрын
@@idkkkk7588 I'm absolutely not a designer but I agree. Not very pleasing to the eye, most of them.
@Anyaaaah3 ай бұрын
@@feenprinz ohhh that's cool, thank you for explaining ❤️
@megsmith6758Ай бұрын
My poor bisexual self being relegated to a tiny bathroom 😂
@fogscreature2 ай бұрын
is satch not gay😭😭whys he acting like that
@jeongbun2386Ай бұрын
attention probs
@beigecat80115 күн бұрын
cause he’s normal
@jeongbun238615 күн бұрын
@@beigecat801 so edgy!
@beigecat80115 күн бұрын
@@jeongbun2386 How is it edgy to have different beliefs than you people ? You have pansexuality and bisexuality and you think these two are different which is so woke lmao.
@jeongbun238615 күн бұрын
@@beigecat801 God this useage of woke is so cringe. 💀 Also who said i did? Idc what people identify as. I am bi. I don’t have a preference. Some people just like the term pan more. Imagine caring more about shitting on people’s individual labels than actually fighting for our own freedom. I encourage you to read more and relaise the majority of social progress in society has been and will be made by whatever you consider ‘woke’. Edit: Always moving the goalpost with you lot aswell. ‘How is it edgy to have a different opinion’ You never stated a differing opinion. 💀
@konfidentlykeiko19973 ай бұрын
I 100% agree satch…I was confused when I found out all the flags isn’t that what a rainbow is for🤣😂😂
@kintsugidragon3 ай бұрын
As usual, bisexuals are disregarded. /s
@IAARPOTI3 ай бұрын
You guys are way too common. lol
@jalapeno11193 ай бұрын
Bi erasure lol
@jalapeno11193 ай бұрын
@@IAARPOTIwe make up about 40% of the LGBT community
@henrylo67733 ай бұрын
@@IAARPOTI Thats why bis are relabeling to pans, same shit different label, but the community recognizes pansexuals as ✨special✨
@Hazmatti3 ай бұрын
Asexual here, it's a bit of a grey area so to speak and some of the descriptions of it online are very vague, for me personally I find guys attractive and can be romantic with them but find the thought of sex with them or anyone both grosses me out and freaks me out, just a big no to that side of things.
@ashio43653 ай бұрын
I'm nonbinary and aroace. To me being nonbinary means I just don't give a shit about my gender so I really don't care if people refer to me as a women or man. Being aroace means I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction to anyone so I don't have any desire date or woohoo with anyone. The asexually part is a little more complicated but I won't get into that. Also the nonbinary and ace flags are cool but I don't like the aroace flag.
@straenmusikant74023 ай бұрын
satch ohw to be a grifting pick-me
@jeongbun238615 күн бұрын
As sims youtuber, grifting is crazy
@fridawarnemyr60252 ай бұрын
A basic psychology explanation of gender and sexuality: the human brain has several parts that look a particular way depending on your gender, sexuality and romantic attraction. These develop separately from the gonads and gentials (which develop in the later part of the first trimester). The boost of testosterone that an XY fetus experiences affects this "organising" process quite greatly. It continues quite intensely for about two years after birth. Due to gender differences not just affecting a single part of the brain, this results in a large natural variety of genders and sexuality.
@fl0werfi3ldz2 ай бұрын
He is so mean to intersex people and bisexuals and genderfluid people. Why does he think he's on top of the world..?
@Vendetta_s14 күн бұрын
Pick me behaviour
@fl0werfi3ldz8 күн бұрын
@@Vendetta_s how ☠️
@NyleJeevas3 ай бұрын
About what you've said that you've never met anyone who identifies as one of these in real life - just wanted to share my experience, don't know if it's similar for other people or not. So I'm a trans-masc agender person who's panromantic and greysexual, but I usually just say that I'm a pansexual trans guy to most of the people I meet and who aren't my close friends, cause I just don't want to bother explaining all of that stuff every time and it wouldn't matter any way in 99,9% of interactions with these people. Finding my labels was mostly useful for understanding myself and to explain what I am to people who are interested in me romantically or sexually. So it might be possible that you know a lot of people like these and just don't know about that. Oh and I like these interior designs 😁
@RayvenLunaNite3 ай бұрын
I'm pansexual and the easiest way I describe it is I'm attracted to WHO you are not WHAT you are. Personality based attraction. Plastic surgery can change looks but not personality. So that's what I fall in love with.
@jalapeno11193 ай бұрын
And...no one else is capable of considering personality when choosing a partner or...?
@ThatsMagical3 ай бұрын
@@jalapeno1119of course, but when choosing a partner their gender will play a part. Pansexuals just skip the step because they have the capability to be attracted to EVERYONE, aside from personal taste/types
@user-vk7rj5yy7l3 ай бұрын
@@ThatsMagicali’m confused cuz you’re literally just describing bisexuality…?
@Mitchell48923 ай бұрын
@@user-vk7rj5yy7lbecause it is lol
@RayvenLunaNite3 ай бұрын
@@user-vk7rj5yy7l I'm with a man who doesn't believe in sexuality. I'm pansexual, attracted to personality, not gender
@lumauve3 ай бұрын
this video is hilarious, love it! as a bisexual person i don't 100% understand pansexuality either, but if people are comfortable with the label, go ahead and vibe with it.🤎 pan people usually describe their attraction as "not being affected by gender (or being genderblind)", while us bi folks say we're attracted to "any gender (so it can be anything between two, multiple or all, depends on a person)". which can, technically, be the same thing in some instances, but bi appears to be a more broad term while pan is very specific? at least that's how it was explained to me... hope it helps!
@Elektrochoke3 ай бұрын
Yep, you explained it better 😄 I think im bi but who knows
@Serendipity92x3 ай бұрын
I'm bisexual but I'm only attracted to biological males and females so I understand why there's the term 'pansexual'.
@lumauve3 ай бұрын
@@Serendipity92x totally fine! i’m bi and can be attracted to anyone so, it depends on a person. (plus, sex and gender are two different things anyways.)
@Elektrochoke3 ай бұрын
@@Serendipity92x pansexual has nothing to do with trans people, I’m bisexual and attracted to every gender not to a certain combination of gender genitals and transition boxes
@voxnihili49603 ай бұрын
No. All these labels seem to confuse young people. Bisexual means sexual attraction to both (bi means two) SEXES. Biological males and females. If you enjoy sex with multiple or all genders, you are pansexual.