Single moms you need to hear this || STEVE HARVEY

Steve's good friend FRANK HALLUM serves as the Director of Male Mentoring and Empowerment at Steve's annual Boys' Mentoring Camp for the Steve .
Steve's son-in-law, Ben Raymond, has dedicated himself to breaking the cycle of fatherless boys going down the wrong path, one family at a time. As a way to .
Steve's good friend FRANK HALLUM serves as the Director of Male Mentoring and Empowerment at Steve's annual Boys' Mentoring Camp for the Steve .
Steve created his annual mentoring camp for boys being raised by single moms, to help combat the heartbreaking cycle of fatherlessness. One of his camp's .

[@IAMIB]

Video hasn’t even fully came on and I’m tearing up. I’m a 21 year old single mom with two girls and this shit is really hard. On top of that trying to be a human, be a happy mom, and have a separate life and continue on with the pain of not being with their dad. It’s a lot. To all my other single moms, just know it’ll be better and easier one day… Love y’all. ❤️‍🩹

[@itsRudeGal]

Thank you Queen! We love you too. 😘

[@nefertiti974]

🙏🏽

[@beastfromtheabyss666]

How are you 21 years old, with two kids, and no father in sight? Stop fxcking so much..Jesus.

[@MississippiGirl0103]

Thank you 🙏🏽❤️ I have 2 girls 22 and 9 and they are the most respectful young girls. I’ve never had a problem out of either and they’ve never been disrespectful to me or anything and my home is so peaceful. People that do come to my house which isn’t many because I’m very careful of that tell me how peaceful my home is so the negative comments mean nothing to me because being a single parent isn’t easy but it’s so rewarding. They teach me so much ❤️

[@ogunladeoluwaseyi7455]

Its better to go back to their father and continue with ur life

[@chelleweatherspoon2226]

Yes,. I'm a single mom and he is right. Single moms must expose their sons to positive activities where they can socialize with responsible men too. There are things boys go through and questions they have that only a man can understand and answer because they can relate.

[@home4life505]

Your comment enforces the reason why people should have kids in marriage. Why provide a mentor? Provide a dad

[@silentj624]

@@home4life505 sometimes you can't. Do you just not provide a positive male role model in the meantime or not at all before you find a suitable husband?

[@cachemoola2042]

Your son needs to forgive you. Until then he can’t be a man. Rev. Jessie Lee Peterson.

[@henrythehilux3963]

Single moms must not spread legs giving birth to dead beats kids I agree

[@cierarashell6740]

@@home4life505 it takes a village to raise one child. We need mentors too.

[@Queenbelieveit]

Seek God in everything. Thank you heavenly Father for guiding me to raise my children.

[@5tonyvvvv]

Single mom are not worth it! Self centered broken bitches!

[@henrythehilux3963]

Did god tell you to raise a bastard? I'm pretty sure he didn't that was just u

[@grezzer1427]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@MrNckissfan]

Tawana Martin: Seek an imaginary solution to real world problems such as putting bastard children in the hands of an unwed mother. Oh that’s rich.

[@happyheavenly4200]

These males are so bitchmade nowadays. They need counseling

[@MsNyree]

Shout out to the single Mothers that are able to raise their son's. Many Mother abort or give their child up for adoption, system, or another person because they do not have the help or support after the father leave or die. Being a single Mother is difficult, so if you have custody of your son and doing YOUR BEST to raise them to be productive citizens of society!! Pat yourself on the back....I salute you!!!

[@Silkravage]

@@ninabee4899 clown. Lol. You and your "new guy" ain't shyt. And your dumb butt believes him enough to repeat that foolishness. 😂😂😂😂 After he does whatever and gets whatever from your trash behind you will be looking for another "new guy." You are just another baby making parasite. You are common and basic. Both literally and figuratively. 😂

[@ejpatter]

Most retarded shit I've heard in my life. Yea let's congratulate a huge fucking mistake

[@henrythehilux3963]

It's not happening no single mother is doing anything without a cheque

[@henrythehilux3963]

Message to single moms close legs n stop giving birth to dead beats kids

[@brittanymyers9380]

Thank you!

[@beckygoody9829]

Spent 7 years with my significant other only to become single before the baby even born. It’s hard because I tried by best all my adult life to avoid this and walked straight into it either way. It hurts because my pregnancy was so physically tough as I was hospitalized numerous times, gave birth alone, doing everything alone. I still love him but he prefers the bars and clubs and young girls. Doing this alone while being heart broken is not easy! I break down so much during the day.

[@vanessagonzalez9403]

I can relate. Therapy is extremely helpful. You can do it alone, & one day you will be overfilled with joy with your baby.

[@sensun5039]

I never thought I’d be in that position too… hell I never even gave my body away and was always careful so when I had my children with my now ex husband at 30 I thought it would be alright.. guess i was wrong.

[@avantgarden2438]

"I still love him" stop being a Pickmeisha

[@cleovintora59]

Same here!! I think went 30 freaking years of being single and waiting for my husband before Chrildren...met someone I thought was right to find out hewabyed a family then he's abusive after I found out I was pregnant

[@teresa28ist]

My situation is not your situation but I understand. Get some counseling Sis. I

[@MB-iv4mq]

My DAD made me go to church and taught me that hard work pays off. He also taught me respect and honesty. I will forever love my DAD .

[@anitakeys6150]

It's not just a black thing, in some races/ cultures women are taught to stay and turn a blind eye to bad signs in a man who they have children with and/ or are married to.

[@tapiwakay]

Turn a blind eye before they have kids?

[@youngmaster2072]

THOSE WOMEN DO NOT GET TO CHOOSE WHO THEY LET BETWEEN THEIR LEGS AND MARYY

[@toniwilson5435]

there's no such thing as raising a perfect child , nobody's perfect

[@henrythehilux3963]

Single moms are the opposite of perfect single moms r ebola aids

[@prettypoisedproductions5757]

@@henrythehilux3963 it takes zero intelligence to come up with dumb insults hence the dumbass response you just gave. YOU men really are sick you have nothing better to do than to try to prey on the hardships of single motherhood. Newsflash men are the ones leaving their children , women are not trapping you idiots for a check or WHATEVER you think. You so-called men are sleeping around just as much as (typically more than) women and leaving women with the responsibility. I used to pray God have mercy on you guys but now I just pray for vengeance in the worst way.

[@Spiid1000]

Pretty Poised 🧢🧢 major cappage

[@shadowbanned3136]

Yes but there is better and worse.

[@eheheh3263]

Both male and female are responsible, and in the end it’s the kids that pay the consequences of their choices.... so unfair

[@artemisfowl4399]

Comments here are toxic. Everybody who is not a single parent and who never got lied and manipulated by somebody doesn't have a right to judge.

[@auriel8300]

Don't play the victim, you're on the internet here, the politically correct censorship has less power, it mean like it or not you will face the truth.

[@qweenkia]

Amen

[@carlivasquez6840]

@@auriel8300 hush

[@user-ii9xh5lz6u]

Yall aint all single parents because you got lied on some of yall were the problem and the older the son gets the more clear it is that many of yall were unfit to be mothers experience, wisdom, all lacking clothes and food arnt enough

[@302manman6]

Single parents need to leave dating alone, simple.

[@dmac8671]

Mothers baby their sons and be tough on their daughters and make them responsible..

[@CD-vv8wh]

dmac8671 I agree. I've said this for years.

[@sullivancountydays]

dmac8671 I said the same thing today.

[@karenb2873]

Unfortunately my mom has done this. All 4 of her girls have ALWAYS been independent/self sufficient. My baby brother (38) still sucks from her tit. I cant respect that and don't.

[@dmac8671]

karen b Single mothers tend to over compensate with boys, either they're too tough and nagg because they got to raise boys or their own, or they are real easy on feeling sorry because the father is absent

[@karenb2873]

We were raised with both mom/dad. My dad just NEVER took the time to show him what manhood is about. He dam sure made dam sure that his daughters knew how to take care of our selves with or with out a man........Funny- my dad raised all his daughters to NEVER depend on a man for shit and died 14 years ago without teaching my brother how NOT to depend on a woman (my mother) for any/every thing.....SMH

[@charlzwill495]

I am not a single mother but boy i need this raising boys is not easy even with a good husband

[@MB-iv4mq]

There is no book that can replace a father. I can't imagine growing up without my dad. He encouraged me all the time and I SAW his masculinity at work that brought our SUCCESS.

[@peninahgitamo8717]

What of the orphans?

[@theshenanigans545]

The ones who's dads have died should raise them from the grave?

[@ipheomamartins-aligwe538]

Thats so insensitive of u

[@irisodor]

I grew up without a father. He was in the household and completely silent and immobile. My heavenly Father held me down until now. God is the best father I never had

[@MB-iv4mq]

@@ipheomamartins-aligwe538It's only insensitive because you're too sensitive. An effect of not having a strong father.

[@spideranansi929]

A lot of comments on here bashing single moms. My sister is a single mom to one child. She was in a serious relationship, engaged to him. They were together for 3 yrs. Both worked hard, she worked up to 1 week before delivering the baby, doing 12 hr shifts. Only to find out that her man had been hiding a drug problem the whole time. Now, my sister was quite sheltered and naive and figured his mood swings were due to his job, her long hours away from home. Some of us wondered, but didn't say anything cause we didn't know for sure. To shorten the story a bit, she ended up leaving him with baby in tow. He doesn't see his daughter because all his money and focus is on drugs. My sister did try to help him and waited 2 yrs for him as she really loved him. She always welcomed him to visit their child as long as he wasn't high when he came over. He promised that poor kid for 3yrs every weekend and wouldn't show. I felt bad for my niece as it broke her heart everytime. I agree that children need a father, but in this case, my nieces father would have done more damage living with them as a drug addict. I don't see my sister as damaged goods. I see her as a hard working person and loving mom. She has never taken a hand out from the government and also manages to help look after our grandma. Any guy would be lucky to have her. My girlfriend and I have tried to set her up with friends, but she is happy living the way she does.

[@alimsylla5367]

Such problems are unsolvable... good she left.

[@AnonymousC-lm6tc]

Single moms are a disaster and neither situation is preferable. Your anecdote is an exception to the rule.

[@maxxvict2571]

Men need to start taking care o their kids and women need to start choosing men who actually want to become fathers.

[@Ravensabird]

You dont always know if a man will be the father or person he portrayed himself as in the beginning..... and it's not always black and white.. my sons dad started kicking my ass when he was sure I was pregnant (he lied like he couldn't have kids) and guilted me out of an abortion... hasn't been a father to him to this day.

[@maxxvict2571]

@@Ravensabird so sorry to hear that😔

[@brettb.coolin5627]

@@Ravensabird no its actually very black and white. women just dont take the initiative to really study the paterns a man before she chooses to get impregnated by him. understand that women are easily manipulated by a mans words. dont allow that to overshadow red flags just because you are attracted to him.

[@Ravensabird]

@@brettb.coolin5627 men go out of their way to manipulate women for the sole purpose of her believing the lies, then still find a way to blame the women. In some cases I do think its avoidable and there are obvious red flags, but in many cases there's not. In my case I noticed red flags and immediately got out of the situation I realized afterwards that I was 8 weeks pregnant already when I was told he couldn't even have kids and he showed me fake papers just to make me believe it (sounds psychotic but it's true). That's why I say that bc it's not always the womans fault.

[@brettb.coolin5627]

@@Ravensabird no. you know when a guy is bad news but you either like it or dont care.

[@MB-iv4mq]

I love my DAD so much thanks for all that you did for me. All the encouragement and guidance to keep me on a successful path. I will always love you!!!!!

[@rachelbourn5311]

😭struggles with my teenagers led me here! Prayers for all the single parents and all the kids that think they know… and have no idea 🙏🏽

[@frankthetank2284]

Single mothers that do their best and work hard no matter how many kids deserves respect above all in this world it is truly the hardest spot to be in life, the dating pool is narrow, cooking, cleaning, paying bills, and raising a young man, no leading father role, truly not easy. But me being a son of a single mom I truly can honor her for doing her best, and work harder so she doesnt have to struggle anymore, sons raised to be real men will always look after their mother's above all women.

[@theauthenticamateur]

I teared so much reading this. Thank you for sharing

[@hienienguyen6766]

this is so true. being a single mother is tough, and i never chose this path. sometimes the mistakes that we end up having to deal with makes us stronger. i want a better husband for my son, and my son biological father just isn't what i thought he was

[@andrew2393]

But you did choose this path and what you want from another man isn't gonna happen. Men don't want to raise another man's sperm ESPECIALLLY if he is still alive and comes to visit the kids in the relationship. Women need to understand that.

[@spideranansi929]

@Sjsj Sjdjsj Just curious, do you think a woman should raise kids that aren't hers as well?

[@crzune]

@@spideranansi929 No. Unless you want to adopt

[@dmvbawse4265]

Your a mother to a boy learn to take accountability. You chose this path, no child is born without a woman’s say. 20 contraceptives, day after pill, abortion. You made that choice, your body your right ?

[@jeb711]

@@andrew2393 YES!

[@MB-iv4mq]

My DAD was a ARMY veteran now I am as well. Thanks DAD I love you!!

[@thesunwillshineonme]

I love his energy. I want to do something like this for girls.

[@shunlondamccall1967]

That would be awesome!!

[@ceegabe1555]

Need to go to the ROOT of the PROBLEM: SINGLE FATHERS 101: Men- How To Participate in Your Children's Lives to Help Guide Their Futures. (They need a father's participation NOT just a book for the mothers alone.) Many women are tired of trying to be both mother and father. Men are intelligent also: How about Single Parents 101: (Male and Female/Baby Daddy's and Mamma's) WORKING TOGETHER FOR the Sake of THEIR CHILDREN. PLEASE STOP PUTTING HEAVY LOADS ON BLACK SINGLE MOTHERS alone. (Then one wonders why some of them become angry so often. They are tired and stressed out). They didn't make these babies by themselves. Please teach our young men to MAN UP and learn responsibilities which build positive character for their lifetimes.

[@marla79]

Cee Gabe 🙌🏾

[@sidjones16]

If women put standards on who they have sex with AND waited until they were married men would have no choice but to act right. If your job paid you regardless of whether you showed up to work what kind of employee would you be?

[@marla79]

Sid Jones negative. Men don’t respect women that make them wait. They call it playing games and then blame her for when he cheats on a woman who WILL put out. It’s unwinnable

[@erfbgu2643]

marla79 A man who loves God will wait...can you see that guy? They're out there.

[@marla79]

Erfbgu 2 hate to burst your bubble but most men in church are waiting on sex with other men or hoe hoping.

[@shelia4879]

Im a single mom to a 5 yr old son and let me tell youuuuuu...its definitely tuff

[@MyMalachi2010]

Shelia tough

[@nobody-iw1fb]

I ferl ya girl...stay strong ❤❤

[@dark_skindreamer4026]

Shelia ....im sure you are doing a wonderful job,, happy mothers day, keep it up

[@kemabyrd8273]

Tell me about I'm a single mom of 2 girls 14 and 15 and it's a big obstacle course.

[@AsiaticDisciple]

Where is his father? He should there to handle someone of that weight

[@Queenbelieveit]

It takes a village to raise children.

[@thehoodservative]

If you're a single mom it does

[@home4life505]

It only takes a mom and dad

[@welshhibby]

Wrong it takes a father and mother

[@henrythehilux3963]

What nigga

[@henrythehilux3963]

A whole village must work to be taxed so a nigga can raise a bastard

[@msprettykawaii950]

Some songle moms never learn too. I know some women who has victim mindset but keeps on choosing the wrong guy and ended up having a child with them and leaving them

[@thipimotsoare4228]

This is so true, the minute you see yourself as a victim you never realize your internal issues that need to be fixed so that you stop attracting the wrong dudes

[@LambertBowden56]

Self centered "women" who never think they are wrong. The "men" are guilty of procreating with these same women because they are attracted to their looks or because of easily they give it up. Just shallow relationships overall.

[@msprettykawaii950]

@@LambertBowden56 Im a single mom. I promised myself not to be a burden to anyone.

[@martigladi2696]

I am a new single mom , i need anyone , who can help me sometimes advice , is not easy sometimes I don't know what to do if baby cry

[@martigladi2696]

@@thipimotsoare4228 I am a new single mom , i need anyone , who can help me sometimes advice , is not easy sometimes I don't know what to do if baby cry

[@P-CROZIER]

Brillant man- Wonderful to see his Dedication!!

[@shondatory5684]

I will be purchasing his book soon because its never to late my son is 5 and I have a 7 year old daughter it's only so much a single parent can do within this lifetime but it's worth it 🙌🏾💕💕

[@MB-iv4mq]

When I small and caught cold and a headache my DAD gave me cough syrup and headache medicine until I got better. Thanks DAD. I love you!!

[@nicolewhitley3640]

He a fine older man

[@brittanymyers9380]

This is true.

[@dark_skindreamer4026]

Nicki Whitley ....lol OK I hear you Mrs. Nicki.... Lol I just realized we have the same last name

[@melliemel32]

Nicki Whitley true, inside and out, and of course in makes the difference. He was probably really cute when he was younger.

[@blackbeauty8034]

Nicki Whitley yes he sexy!

[@henrythehilux3963]

To good for you single mom

[@terrimilsap5276]

I am a 50 yr old mother of 2 men.. I have to learn to be supportive of these men.. I didn't get that support as a child.. but I know that I can do this.. Lord help us..

[@krystingrant6292]

This this this I didn't get it at all.

[@KMims747]

I am a never married lady with two sons. I choose the way I live for the protection of my sons. Not every person you meet has your best interests in mind. I chose to birth them so it ain't about me it's about them and always will be. I'll be single until they are old enough to defend and protect themselves.

[@jamesmitchell3496]

WHEN YOU LEFT THE FATHER YOU DID NOT HAVE YOUR SELF IN YOUR BEST INTEREST

[@WithloveTrinize]

Lol... you couldn’t figure that out before you had kids with them? Just asking

[@kayonnaroberts1988]

A lot of times it takes years to and sometimes a child to realize someone don’t have your best interest at heart. Reason why you see divorce 10 years lady funny how I see so many women beating up on other women

[@sketchpadangel]

Kayonna Collins be smarter before you get married. People don’t change after marriage. Most people don’t change at all so it should be easy to vet them. Pay attention to red flags, take the time to get to know them. Relationships 101. Some women have such low self esteem they will ruin their lives for a little bit of attention.

[@addisonb.1356]

@@sketchpadangel Nah people do change after marriage. After my Nana died( my moms mom) my mom kinda lost it and became obsessed with drinking and started to neglect everyone. After a few years my parents got divorced because my dad couldn't handle it anymore. People do change after marriage. Sometimes theirs a reason or none at all. My mom is fine now but my parents would never get back together since they don't see each other that way anymore. And that is perfectly fine with me

[@thomaso3102]

What about the fathers? Men empowering mothers to raise son’s. Sad!

[@jamillarose5294]

Exactly why is the woman always blamed for the father not taking responsibility.....he made those children...

[@amerhst1201]

@@jamillarose5294 because most of the time the women know he is a "bad boy" and they still sleep with him without protection

[@Brownsunflower]

Okay but nobody wants to talk about that. Sometimes i feel as if it’s always our fault.

[@mezazis83]

Sometimes,you "clearly see" that father of your children is "bad boy" only afterwards.Because, life expieriance takes time.Self understanding takes time. We all carry our own trauma history.Sadly I have seen man rarely take time to do their "shadow work",so that they dont pass on the pain what was caused to them over next generation.

[@mezazis83]

First of all I am not feminist in its crazy radical state as its positioned now.I belive that all women forst of all connect to their feminin cycles not trying to be man. I come from two parents home,I got married before had children. What I have learned that no "blame game" will ever win this argument. I never wanted to be single parent to my children. You see,there are "hiden predators" out there.Who look like charming,hard working,in community respected man.But once they "hook you" as family oriented and they close the private doors their mask falls. And then it happens.Abuse.Which is not hitting or anything outside world can see.Its deeply manipulative,filled with gaslighting,lies,cheeting,discard and cycle continues. So what options women in this situation have? I prioritised children wellbeing and applied for divorce. I am scared of rising kids by myself,hell yes.But I had no choise than step up my game ,wake up my "inner dragon" and protect the kids from someone who suppose to be "the protector".

[@lisasimpson8985]

How about raising these men to be better men instead of coming down on women

[@jesuschristthalordbitch6890]

What do you think he’s doing in the intro you fucking idiot

[@henrythehilux3963]

Single moms raised these kids n they did a shit job cause they are cancer tax drain's

[@lzl3lol]

Why don't you raise women to have better standards 🤔

[@shanedowling4214]

And the idiot that opened her legs for a looser is suppose to be idiot with no brain right?

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

You know, the #1 cause of single motherhood is women. Not men. Pick better guys and stop fucking losers that are going nowhere.

[@kelleybright3113]

Dads need 2 hear it 2 im over the single mom bash

[@pinkymaqungu2582]

Steve what you doing down there with those young men is terrific. GOD BLESS YOU MORE.

[@jacksonwilson2131]

God bless him a lot

[@betheone8292]

Damn I wish I had this book 7yrs ago.😥

[@trailsknight4246]

I'm a single mom with a 3 year old who fights me on everything. I've tried so much, it's so hard. He pushes me to the Max.

[@realteaqueen4799]

Some women are single moms by choice, others are widows. many single moms are in my country,are single by choice, when you have two three baby daddies and it dosent last something wrong with the woman not the man.

[@Decimation1030]

Women who are single mothers by choice are a testament to their stupidity and selfishness.

[@aleneabondo8561]

Lies...am 35 single with 2 sons...the father of my youngest son spend 4 years with me..but disappeared when I told him I was pregnant... how is that my fault???

[@aleneabondo8561]

@Monica58 Buttercups u r right...I played myself....but my eggs will not wait till forty for a decent man....am already 35..there is 75% chances that I will never get married...but I wanted children...

[@spideranansi929]

@@Decimation1030 That's harsh. There are many many different reasons, why women end up single parents. What about guys that end up single fathers? Is it all their fault too?

[@Decimation1030]

@@spideranansi929 I've never met a man that became a single father by choice.

[@stacysimon05]

he spoke the truth, I wish I had him in my life before my son got five years ( and he's still locked up) and NO I couldn't do it by myself, I wish I had help or the strength within to be a better disciplinarian

[@AllPro777]

You didn't need to be a better disciplinarian. You needed the ability to pick a better man to do be there and do the job a woman is not supposed to be doing in the first place, and more importantly, recognize what that better man looks like. Picking poorly is black women's #1 issue leading to single motherhood and turning out incarcerated or murdered male children.

[@MyThoughtzAndOpinionz]

Boys suffer from not having a father around. He’s probably expressing his anger about it.

[@soulstrength]

A strong man making a difference. I love to see that and when I do, I always try to encourage those. A lot of times, those who uplift need to be uplifted. They pour out so much, they need to be refilled!

[@henrymcgrew8149]

Hello beautiful

[@jacksonwilson2131]

That’s nice

[@MB-iv4mq]

When I was small and got over a cold my dad would cook my favorite meal for me. Fried chicken french fries and yellow cake with chocolate frosting. Thanks DAD.I love you!!!

[@missblessedbellablessed]

Being a single mom is hard but when God is there and you remember that a child can be broken more by having a useless father...YOU GET STRENGTH TO CARRY ON MAMA❤❤❤

[@dra6ke]

I agree. And people don’t look at the other stats that show that nonbiological parents (i.e. step parents-particularly men) are more likely to abusive their step children. I am living proof that a kid can be a masterpiece even if raised by a single mom.

[@riceshineshow]

All single mothers deserve the best at what they do, it is hard!

[@jacksonwilson2131]

You guys deserve the best

[@Gotcatt]

I had put my son in boxing as a young kid bc as a mom I needed him to learn how to defend himself, discipline, and surround himself around motivated men .

[@cullen2106]

Great job Steve Harvey for playing clip .!'

[@valeriedhodson3014]

Gosh its wonderful he wrote this book. My kids are 21,19, and 15. I made so many mistakes that lead to my kids believing I am just one of the kids. Its hard to rule the roost when your baby rosters think you are one of the chicks. I just do not have men in our lives to mentor my two sons. I feel so bad about that. Now its too late.

[@priscillajones7105]

Valerie Hodson Be encouraged. God has the power to change a young man's heart. God also delights in hearing and answering our sincere prayers. Blessings to you!

[@ga4650]

That was really honest. Knowing is powerful. Wayyyyyyy better than being niave.

[@nataliek1074]

Valerie Hodson I can relate. I need help with my boys also.

[@314BROWNIE]

Valerie I am a single mother of 3.. 2 from a previous marriage and one from a Nigerian who I thought loved me but he only wanted a green card. he left me when I was 5 months and could no longer help him.y two from marriage have autism and I'm one of the only.. (if not the only) person who truly understand them. they too think im one of the boys and it's tough because they also don't really have friends because autism is partly a communication disability. I will keep you in my prayers.. and don't let these mean posts who don't any thing make you feel bad. single mother and all your still a Queen 👑

[@valeriedhodson3014]

Sha Richardson thanks God bless you. I am here fighting through each day too. My boys don't have many friends either. Its on me to be their friend too.

[@chinesechina2296]

This man is doing great cause even with both parents in the home the kids or boy is still lacking...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK MAN🤩🤩🤩🙌👏👏

[@boejiden.1445]

Bless him

[@desroysmith2127]

I see a comment on here that says we need to be with men who want to be fathers.... That's ridiculous being a single mom ain't a choice it's a job... We have to do it.. Words are wind a man can say all sorts of shit n we know it

[@4chukwuebuka]

How come this doesn't happen to african women

[@RepuBlicOfChaD]

Putting boys in sports is one of the best things any parent can do for their child!

[@patricemelanin3721]

I am a single mom raising a three year old toddler yes I have my ups and down but I'm not going to blame myself because I slept with his dad and he left me when I was pregnant with his son and been in and out of his life going on for years now but I'm truly am blessed to have my son and I'm going to raise him to be a king to be a leader in the show other man that's being raised by single moms did never give up hope because it's going to take me has a strong mother to raise a a powerful young man so shut out to all the single moms who's raising their sons on their own don't blame yourself trouble doesn't last always don't give up Hope our kings 💋❤💯

[@bowmaredebrouchee4753]

Strong women do not raise kings. Strong women raise boys to only look for women to dominate.

[@fraukedefraeye6937]

@@bowmaredebrouchee4753 you think you're king 😂😂😂😂

[@r.i.proach7135]

@@fraukedefraeye6937 did he say that? Another lonely mother lol. Go bail your son out bitch

[@MISAO_SAO]

Thank you.

[@Nicki1969able]

Excellent!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@monalisawm]

Must read this book asap amazing...

[@jacksonwilson2131]

Yeah it’s nice 😊

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment...❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@Bloomcycle]

This is great. Keep up the great work for helping these mothers raise good men for the next generation 👏

[@Tapatioandchips]

For all you who are bashing single moms or commenting “ use condoms” etc etc you are nothing more than ungrateful to life. We single moms chose to give life to these kids, we chose to not kill, give up or in some cases throw our children in a dumpster! We decided with it without the dad and the world, that we’d bring these boys up to strong respectful men. Though sometimes life throws us some serious curve balls. While we working hard and late to put food on the table and a roof over their heads and clothing on their bodies, someone else is working hard to shove drugs into our babies hands and try to convince them that their true family is a gang. We must teach our children the word of God never think they are to young to know about drugs, sex, alcohol and gangs. You drill it in day and night no matter if they roll their eyes and you make sure you remind them how much you love them and what they are worth and why they are here. They see what you do, they know what you do because kids are very smart. So if you think dancing and drinking with the girls or having guys in and out of your life is t affecting them, damn sure it is. So you stay strong you show your worthiness, you are their pilot, don’t let that aircraft hit nose first onto ground. What we must do is instill gentleness from day one, but like everything in life, a sprinkle here and there. Tell them they never should fear anyone no matter how small or big they are. Tell them they can always say no if they want, because no is a strong word and silence is the power a weak person has. Yes yes yes put them in sports, piano, shit even ballet let them experience it all. ( you can’t afford it) there’s programs that will help you, have your kids do fundraisers for their stuff, with family, or friends even with your co-workers. Most if not all will support that. You can make and sell popcorn baggies, cookies, or banners for companies during your game. Go to your local park and put up a pop up tent and have sodas, waters and popcorn, chips and ask for donations for your favorite hobby. People always help if it’s for a good cause. You moms have a night in with your school moms, don’t be shy. Have them come over but a pizza or two and dust out the board games and movies, place photo albums out for them to view to get to imagine how your children enjoyed their time before they met each other. Take turns and help babysitting each others kids, help each other don’t bash each other. When you need food, you can get stuff from your local pantry or church. Remember God doesn’t let us die of hunger, look at the birds they don’t have hands, they always have food and water. Why wouldn’t we, we that have hands and feet and so many options. You can buy basics and so so many dishes with it. I always have these staples; rice, beans, peas, tuna, corn, tortillas, eggs, potatoes, tomatoes (canned or fresh) onions, garlic, salt, sugar, lemons, spaghetti, sauce, ketchup, butter, oil, milk, cheese, water, and bread. I make them potato salads, baked potatoes, rice, tacos, quesadillas, enchiladas, French toast, rice pudding, scrambled eggs, etc etc they and you will be fine. Don’t eat out it’s expensive and a waste of money. Do it as a treat once a week only. Have them cook with you so they appreciate the meal and time it takes to make. Have them do chores. Help them with homework and if you don’t know it, ( like my son said “ Sit with me support me just watch me it helps.” ) I thought telling them do your homework, going to conferences, making sure they didn’t miss school and helping them with project, your missing an assignment was enough. NO! They need ya next to them, refresh or learn something along them. You have the time even if you’re dead tired you have the strength and time. Sleep when it’s time to sleep, make use of the time you have with them. Spending time with them and gathering up special memories of a lifetime is a must, because you only have one chance and if you blow it for anyone else it’s never going to give you another chance. Take them to the zoo, beach, park road driving in towns you have not driven around in take silly pictures too. Take them to farms, petting zoos and to the dog pounds. Nourish their brains and heart. My boys are 19 and 14 they still hug me and walk with their arms around me and kiss me in front of people. They love going to get a pedi or mani with me, they even get their hair cut and eyebrows cleaned when I go. They don’t back down on any guy ( I’ve seen it ) but they respect people and they are loved everywhere. They’ve done some mistakes, close calls too, have had me stay up and worry and have made me cry or lose my temper, but we’re not perfect we are humans and anyone who is human must bleak with joy, cry with sadness, fear evil, etc etc because we are humans! Thankfully they are not gang related, or are drinking or using drugs , they are not hitting me, they respect God and know he is mighty. So ladies don’t give up, like I tell my kids every bad thing that happens to us weather it’s we lose our place, don’t have laundry money, gas money, etc etc we will be k because everything happens for a reason there’s always the bad side and good side in life and every bad thing that’s thrown out way is replaced with beautiful blessings afterwards be it in new people we meet, places, experiences and yes even moment in the future we will sigh n laugh about. You can do it don’t give up ladies and men be responsible- be ther for those boys they don’t just need, but they all wish they had a dad next to them.

[@rari2xx]

Hot Chilips you act like men don’t work you clown

[@jamloc7578]

Why don't you choose to keep your legs closed? Use birth control? Refuse sex until you get a wedding ring and get married? Refuse sex without the use of condoms? Your comment makes it seem like women are getting barebacked by force when we know that is far from the truth. If you choose to lay down unprotected and have a baby by a stranger or weird acting man that do not want you, you have serious issues and should raise your child while leaving that man and his resources alone. Any woman that puts a man on child support is a real piece of shit in my opinion

[@josephgaray6933]

@@jamloc7578 not only that. She is affecting the child as well by not growing up in a home. The child needs both parents. These women are selfish. They dont think of the children they only care about themselves.

[@lzl3lol]

TL:DR.

[@deydraniadiancecht8298]

Having and raising children is not the end all and be all of life. There is so much more out there in the world that is way more exciting than raising children. If a man wants to settle down and raise children, fine, but he should not do so if it means he has to give up other things he really wants to do- if they are his kids, that's different, but no man has any obligation to raise kids that don't belong to him.

[@karenwiggins8512]

The Power of Understanding.!! Give me more of you Lord, More Grace an Mercy, A New an Fresh Anointing..Grateful is Our Faithfulness. My eyes to see more Glory, Your Glory.you've .raised me up,order my steps.For you are a just an fair God.the finisher of my faith.My strenght, an desire. My all , purpose to live a life of righteousness. I honor, Praise an Glorify you in Jesus Name.

[@jacksonwilson2131]

That’s nice

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment..❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@lisasylvester5513]

Amen, we cannot do it alone, I joined my motorcycle club to get my son that quality time, the club has a mixture of the good, the bad and the ugly, the guys did for me what I couldn't do... he is cool and a lot of single parents admire our relationship.. I thank God every day for my son, I learned to ride, now he's going for his drivers permit, next we will be learning to dive together

[@Silkravage]

A "motorcycle club..." And you are proud of that?

[@crystaledwards6610]

@@Silkravage It works for her and her child and that's what matters

[@Silkravage]

@@crystaledwards6610 You don't know that and neither does she. She joined that club for herself. You clowns will defend the stupidest of choices. "Oh, I joined the penitentiary release club for my son..." And here comes your stupid butt, "That sounds great, that's what matters..." Idiot... It is plausible that she might be dumb enough to think that was a good idea. You are actually worse for defending it.

[@4chukwuebuka]

how come you choose the irresponsible father to mate with?

[@elijahgavin6706]

Lisa, it sounds like you tried to supplement a father figure as best you could…that is all any son could ask IF you had absolutely no control over his father leaving your marriage and life and abandoning his child

[@Pink_celeb420]

Lets start by addressing the elephant in the chat: Pregnancy CAN be prevented and we forget that! There is protection and if that doesn't work you have plan b, there's spermicide, birth control, etc. This is the problem! If a woman is against abortions knowing what risks come from sex, you should be doing everything in your power to make sure you don't get pregnant. Take proper precautions or stay abstinent! Stop having children because "I don't believe in abortions" or "oh it's my body and you can't tell me what to do with it". This is part of the problem as to why so many children are being raised fatherless and it some occasions parentless. Children should be brought in this world if both parents AGREE that are READY, and are secured in a loving/genuine/communicative relationship. Because at the end of the day, yes it's our bodies that bare children but are we forgetting that we SHARE this kid with someone else!? It's not just YOUR baby. It's a WE concept. And I've been realizing a lot of women who are choosing to keep a baby are based off of they're own( let's be honest) personal/selfish/temporary views and feelings, and really not thinking about the child being brought in the world and how PERMANENT this new life is that you will have to take care of and raise! At some point this conversation has to be had. We women have to start taking responsibility in acknowledging that we are CHOOSING to be a single mother knowing the other parent was NOT ready. Mothers you CAN NOT get mad if the man is inconsistent/not present in the child's life, if yall both DID NOT AGREE to have that commitment. It takes two to tango not one! So if you knew he wasn't MORALLY ready to be RESPONSIBLE and MATURE to raise a child, then it's our fault ladies, I'm sorry. Idc how bad you want a baby, you are setting your child's life up on a 1 sided foundation the moment you choose to keep a child knowing the other parent doesn't agree to it. You have to choose the rational choice for both you and the child. Not just yourself. Women aren't asking real REFLECTIVE life changing questions to themselves, like "Am I making the right choice for my child or just myself?" "Am I making a choice off of temporary feelings?" "How will my choice effect my child later?" "Am i really ready?" "How do I want my child to be raised?" "What foundation do I want our child to be produced from?" Etc.. This is why I can't always blame the man. If a woman is mentally, physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually ready to bring new life into this world on her own terms, but isn't solidified in a secured relationship, there's always the choice to go to a sperm bank and not deal with the stressful baby daddy drama/co parenting/child support issues! There are choices ladies! That way it's on the mothers own accord because she knows what the pros and cons are and willing to accept that choice. Because I get it as a woman(Nursery school teacher), we all have our bio clocks ticking and baby fever and want to have someone to call our own who we know will love us always. But there's a safe, unselfish, and rational way to do that.

[@ednaabilio1334]

Hope you never have a kid with someone you really love and feel secure the person leaves you with kid start making your life worse and you have no chance to terminate the pregnancy, you’re right but you’re acting like men when you’re a woman there’s different reasons.

[@ilovechristian39]

Honestly i agree.

[@shanedowling4214]

Thank you. Sadly we are not ready to have this conversation. It’s easier to shout reeee and blame everyone else

[@shanedowling4214]

@@ednaabilio1334 you’re not ready to have a logical conversation. You run on feelings. That my friend is the problem

[@Pink_celeb420]

@@ednaabilio1334 you clearly didn't read everything I said....I put " this is PART of the problem" I didn't put sole blame on one side. Both parties are responsible, but I wanted to point out the other side that women don't like to own up to and admit. Women at the end of the day hold power in if a baby is brought in this world, and I don't think its fair. Yes I am a woman, and it is my body, but I didn't make it alone. So the father should have a right to choose as well. I will only carry that child for 9 months. Once its out, I would need the help of the dad

[@ninabee4899]

Sounds bit bad I think being single awesome 😍 love it alhamdulillah I love everything about it I loveeee my son too everything is great alhamdulillah alhamdulillah But I disagree don't bully ur children they are children not dog 😐 treat them with love kindness and lots patients put urself in there place u choice to have them they didn't force u

[@henrythehilux3963]

Fuck single moms they r cancer

[@martaimeldarosales1097]

@@henrythehilux3963 who hurt you my brother ?

[@jamillarose5294]

I respect a strong single woman than a woman who stays with a man who sets no example to son, is voiolent or cheats!!! Respect to any woman who would prefer to go alone for the sake of their child!! 🧡

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment...❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@missempressloveandlight15]

Working single mother of 3 sons 20, 11 and 6 yrs of ages.. Im trying to raised the right, ive been on my spiritual journey bettering my self so that i can do better by my children ... I realised they need my time, sit and talk with them,how was school ?,what did you learn? ,which kids at beside you in class?., 1 hr a evening home work ,sit with them ,learn what they are learning, tell them i love them before bed .. i wake up half hr early before the kids wake, so that i can get up calm and relaxed and not rushed ,because its always drama once the kids have woken...i work night shift ,i am extremely tired in the morning after work,i still have to get home ,get kids ready for school ,two different school drop off ...i found myself taking my fustration out on the kids ,being snappy ,i have rid of that habit I think it really starts with the little things

[@tikieatroy545]

Wow! Really respect what he is saying and doing also handsome

[@jacksonwilson2131]

Yeah that’s true

[@konige-tochteru.9295]

Keep up this great work......God bless you

[@l.christinejones8164]

Beautiful!!!!

[@k.rachee7021]

I need this book.

[@jasminepina9058]

My son has his father but his father is a weak man. My baby is 1 1/2 yrs old but i attend to raise him strong like my grandfather.

[@martigladi2696]

I am a new single mom , i need anyone , who can help me sometimes advice , is not easy sometimes I don't know what to do if baby cry

[@jasminepina9058]

@@martigladi2696 you need a sport system of people. Learn your babe. Under his pop and pee schedule. Have bottle and clothes washed while baby sleeping. Its difficult when they your child is only a few months but it can be done. You got this.

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment..❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@chinesechina2296]

I'm just now seeing this and these comments are sad.. most people on these comments seem like they are offended this is not about taking the father out of the home this is about unfortunate situations happening to people where they become a single mother... yes boys do need a father but when it's not an option this is a handy book I never read it but I sure am going to buy it.... keep the positive love.... 😍😍🤩👏👏🙌🤩😍😍

[@ericasutton1666]

Amen

[@IAMWORLDBULLYCOMPOUNDGLOBAL]

SELF DETERMINATION IS THE ONLY TRUE SOLUTION...

[@BG-sq7zf]

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her soul. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

[@denzelthomas2314]

All facts. Especially your humble take. All facts

[@neshayrobinson]

Amen to all of thissss!!!

[@akstylez_ak5037]

Some women don’t want sting men like this because they can’t walking all over them. Some of these women prefer the illusion they are sold by a man at that moment because that is what felt good to them at the time. But a lot of boys grow up to be the man they are not just because their father isn’t around, but because of the example of what women allow when they start dating and bringing men home. If a boy witness momma bringing a man home that is knocking her down in the room and not doing anything else, momma just taught her son what to do when he get older that he can go to some woman’s house with her kids and knock her down because that is what he witnessed being done to his momma. Keep in mind some boys don’t stand up and do or be great to their woman because if his momma didn’t get it from her man she would be jealous with her son give another women what she didn’t have and there for sometimes don’t want her son to be that for his women especially if she don’t like the woman. These are some possibilities of things to consider. I’m just saying.

[@AllPro777]

I rarely find this problem with other women, it's black women that seem to revolt against a man in charge in such a direct and masculine way. This is why I stopped hiring them. I hire black men, but black women burned me way too many times on projects with their attitudes and "I'm taking over" personalities that I had to accept the reality that something is wrong there. Nobody wants to put up with Cookie Lyon every day especially when the woman is not on that success level to be playing that role in the first place.

[@gmanon1181]

Waoh, that's wonderful!

[@lunaticg2003]

props to the single mothers who are able to see that they need help understanding how to raise men, and take the action to help there kid succeed in life

[@martigladi2696]

I am a new single mom , i need anyone , who can help me sometimes advice , is not easy sometimes I don't know what to do if baby cry

[@lunaticg2003]

@@martigladi2696 i recommend you watch kevin samules , hope that helps ,god bless

[@FF-fd4tm]

@@lunaticg2003 how is Kevin Samuels going to help?? All he gonna do is make her feel like crap. He mainly works for young women with no children.

[@lunaticg2003]

@@FF-fd4tm adjust your lens, in the most profound way. Your not eager to learn so you don't absorb the value, or it hurts too much you become lost in delusion. Stay well. Go touch some grass

[@FF-fd4tm]

@@lunaticg2003 I love to watch Kevin Samuels dude. What u talking about?

[@shaunweiss3550]

Let’s talk a bit of men being barred from seeing their kids because vengeful exes wanting to get back at him

[@coldcity773]

Facts 👍🏽

[@PKBassPlaya]

...or the ones that divorce their husbands thinking they can do better.

[@derian9273]

I am trying to block my son's father out his life for good. But I'm not bitter. I have been very accommodating, even asking him to take him for weekends. But he's not stepping up and being very inconsistent. Does not help financially and keeps standing up our son. At this point I feel it's better if he just stays away. I have legal custody and he has always had liberal visitation. I'm just tired of comforting my son who feels like I'm keeping him away from his dad.

[@AgapeLove-fb5ph]

Most Man that make comment such as this are the worse type of man period, irresponsible, careless, never taking a accountability for thier actions...slaves to their flesh and wolves behind the mask... clearly a bad role model for the Child. Spend alot of time stealing souls, lying, deceiving and destroying lives...taking everything lightly, I mean completing destroying and altering the course of where life was suppose to go.and you only get one, some figure most spend it till the end still lost and confused. And a "I'm sorry is suppose to do." " bitter you say" .... it's about all of the demons she has consumed, the person she had becomes due to the lack of love, trust and honesty. Woman are internal creatures, we give, nurture and create life.. but when your pouring into the wrong person, lost your self, then when it's time to step back out there in the world you dont feel worthy, you've lost your identity and it's this constant up hill battle of your self vs your self, retraining the mind to be something different. I feel like I've lost apart of me I'm spending alot of time trying to put me back together while raising a child. I get so tired of waking and having to literally FIGHT WIH MYSELF AS IF THERE MULTIPLE WITH IN ME.. one is telling you useless, Pathetic... while the other it's trying to combat it. I mean my child's Father Dogged me, abused me mentally, physically and emotionally. I asked god to bring me a Good God fearing Man into my life after all of that and he did but after the damage was done, I was so damaged, he was so perfect but I felt like I wasn't worthy of him. Or anything good because of how I was treating. Your trying to rebuild yourself while trying to raise and be a role model for this innocent, pure little being. When you brake a leg you dont just slap a bandage on it and keep it moving it's the same thing with your insides. It takes a second to kill someone But 9 months to create a child think about that. 1 seconds to make a wrong move but the process of creating, investing in what ever it's that you are doing.. it's a process and it the same thing with healing. But the healing is much slower when you have another being to take care of. When you have a child that is what you are suppose to be focusing. NOT REBUILDING YOURSELF BACK ALL OVER AGAIN. I just hope God can repair me again.

[@AgapeLove-fb5ph]

Oh and I Never banded my child from seeing mines either. Most woman arnt being vengeful thet are trying to find themselves again, most people can get away from a toxic, manipulative, Ex partner it's whole another thing when you have a child with them, and you are the one that had to carry the child. Let it alone be life sentence to a generational curse, which affects the child unless you get lucky and find the right man at actually wants a woman with a child that already has a kid. Lol while yall get up and move that shit along like it nothing. And you either continue to keep making the same mistakes or better find another woman and she gets the better you, the man you help raised. I mean that's insane to me. But see I was raised old school, this new generation of Men and Woman are something else, woman are doing the same thing men doing now thinking with thier pussies. A very selfish, self serving, me me, what an I get vs what I can give generation.

[@howardmanley3388]

A man marries a woman hoping she won’t change , and A woman marries a man hoping he will change, and eventually it comes to a head ...✅

[@martigladi2696]

I am a new single mom , i need anyone , who can help me sometimes advice , is not easy sometimes I don't know what to do if baby cry

[@mariobryant8803]

I’ve gotten manipulated by mom and it’s frustrating and it’s affecting me trying to hold a job down. I’ve made some poor decisions, bad vehicle accident that almost destroyed my career. I never had a male figure in my life, having to learn things on my own is extremely difficult. My mother, sister and late grandma made fun of me about my life and wanted to mentally damage me, humiliate me. It’s super frustrating and I didn’t see the signs of the toxic behavior til now and now I wish I would’ve had a male figure back then to show me things.

[@andreasmith7990]

I’m sorry you had to go go through that.

[@krystingrant6292]

Omg I'm holding you sooo tight. We got to hold this man tight y'all. He needs healing 😢😢😢😢😢. This is why I never had wanted to be the mother I had as a child. I may not have the money to just throw at my son. But I give him so much love.

[@BlTCHBREATHE]

I’m about to become a single mom and am distraught. I feel so ashamed and have been trying to cope. Especially because I keep seeing videos of men saying “don’t date single moms, they lack value, they are baggage ect ect”

[@ant1724]

I wish I would have had this growing up. Ya got some mother's that would rather see their son's turn into women than to see their son's grow up to be men. Some women(not all) do this in order to control their son's and show some sort of dominance. A mother cannot raise her son to be a complete man and plus many women who would date a man raised by his mother would take advantage of him. Its a horrible and vicious cycle of vulnerability for a son to be raised by his mother. With that being said these youth mentorship programs are a must within the black community in order for the young men to be raised with a masculine touch and not to be taken advantage of. Some mom's want their sons to submit to female dominance an not have any backbone which i feel as though is some type of revenge against the father.

[@itsmek868]

Judging single parents is not gonna solve raisin kids... WTH.. People in these comments ignorant... Matter of fact why yal here ? Never know a person situation of why there single parents. Probably better than what they was goin threw..

[@sketchpadangel]

Kids from a single mom are a lost cause, let’s be real

[@martaimeldarosales1097]

@@sketchpadangel Lol bless your heart

[@jenniferwells9032]

Agreed👍

[@MississippiGirl0103]

@@sketchpadangel Kids from single parent homes become some of the most successful people be careful what you comment and write Karma is real

[@sherrikins3557]

There are alot of dads who smoke week and good off that their kids need to hear this

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment...❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@tooki3tv984]

Happy for you cousin keep doing what you doing love you 💟

[@jacksonwilson2131]

He’s your cousin ?

[@qhawegraham826]

Single mother can’t understand what it takes to be a man so how can you expect too. Some can sure but look at these punks nowadays be real. Plus some baby mamas are evil so men stay away. It’s hard. Father’s teach their sons how to fight when not to. All that bigger picture people

[@arreola891]

I can't stand seeing "happy fathers day to all the single mothers" like... no. Maybe you're an amazing Mother but you CAN'T be a father no matter how hard you try. I know a single Mom, in my life, that puts such quotes on fb every year but what she doesn't realize is that she has raised useless sons. I know she means well but the problem is, I think she overcompensates to make up for the fact that their father abandoned them. All she did was create 200lb babies. Sad really. 😓

[@moniquereid7161]

Nice looking brother 💯💜

[@joym824]

This is awesome!

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment..❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@MommyKnowsBest]

Yesss, love this!!

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment..❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@letstravel6386]

Instead of preaching to single mothers rather preach to men to be good fathers... there would be no single mothers if dads knew how important their roles are

[@ren6510]

amennn

[@eliasajuwa6462]

Naaaaa, it’s not that black and white

[@josephmaxamillion9791]

@Joy Morris women need to learn to close there legs, if they dont understand consciousness they shouldnt create it.

[@theanonymoustrader6852]

There are some variables you are not considering. One night stands, the ones who cheated and got pregnant, the ones who sleep with multiple men who themselves dont even know who the father is, all that is a mans fault? Whether you like it or not, women who dont want kids dont have them and those who have them wanted them.

[@maureenkiama9437]

@@theanonymoustrader6852 stop putting all the blame on women. Some men even after agreeing to sire a child change and become demons. Take a bucket of popcorn and listen to why women walk out of marriages and relationships even though they have children. It's not about being better than men or thinking that women are better than men. Some men can't just man up and take responsibility. And some just feel obligated and that's where they lose their manly sense. It's not all about the women coz if it were then they'd need no men to sire children. And men should also get that.

[@lagudaniel7892]

That is great job for our black kids

[@yangelthomas]

Lagu Daniel men need to stop having sex with them thus making them single mothers. If it happens be responsible and perform the father duties

[@thumper6425]

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[@tammysanders8893]

I need this book. I have twin boys 6 years old in chicago i know its going to be a hard road

[@DanielWetmore-xm9ct]

I like your comment..❤❤can we be friends because I'm new here.

[@kylayoung2666]

I’m 19 and a single mother of two GIRLS.. My girls need dads too but ok.

[@nylabellinger7779]

Exactly but um a single mother it's not are fault that we are single mothers the father left are. family to be out there and mess with Tom. Dick and harry

[@nylabellinger7779]

@SunTai look this so old

[@LornaSatchwell]

@SunTai These F boys are out here impregnating women under the guise of “I’m in fertile”, “We’re engaged”, all kinds of BS. Then when the child gets here. That F boy decides “I can’t handle being a parent”. Once he decides that, it’s a deadly situation for the mother. He could harm her and her child in various ways to avoid being held responsible himself.

[@LornaSatchwell]

@SunTai So you know future drug addicts, gamblers, mass shooters before they have that mental break to even do such things? It’s not normal to start a family and then walk away from it. It’s not normal to start a family and then decide to murder the spouse and children. That stuff is mental health stuff.

[@LornaSatchwell]

@SunTai the same amount that marry and have solid successful families. You’d be surprised the kinds of men and women that started off shiftless and then changed over for their family.

[@Futuristbillpicone]

Stop having kids out of wedlock. Chose the right person to have kids with. Don't expect another man to raise your kids. That goes for both genres

[@she-catlmothwingl3925]

People get married and have kids and the man leaves his wife to cheat.So what do u say about that?

[@Futuristbillpicone]

@@she-catlmothwingl3925 only married when you are sure sure. Then have kids

[@MarleneSchultz-xg6tt]

I would love for my son to go.

[@deja14]

Heavenly Father thank for letting me find this video!!!

[@ndleinahaystack2922]

Damn! Where were these type of brother's in the in the 80's and 90's when I was growing up. My mother put a pigeon hold on me. She kept me from doing all types of thing's that cultivates a young mans mind and purpose. She put me in karate class one time and I loved it. I was dedicated to it. I wanted to go everyday... I mean everyday. I practiced at home and even taught my little cousin some moves but that was about it. After that I didn't do anything else until I was about 13 - 14 and started playing basketball with some kids from around my way but not on a team. Just cooling with the fellas. I feel like I really missed out on a lot on life because I didn't have that positive male role model. But life goes on and I must progress the best way I can.

[@s.e.e455]

If you divorced, please examine your marriage, what mistakes were made on both sides. And don’t be quick to say, “oh, I did nothing wrong.” Because you still chose to marry him. If you can do that, then it’s safe to try dating again. Strive to get married and STAY MARRIED. Find someone who is mature and understanding. Please, give yourself and your kids a chance to experience full happiness and security.

[@cjdiamond1771]

My life..now but god got me

[@sebastiancastro3468]

Being a step-dad is the most thankless job in the world

[@BOBANDVEG]

Real talk....totally disposable, the money...gone, zero say in the end

[@neshayrobinson]

You are not lying. Step dads are blessings from God. To take on a job that was not assigned to you and YET you put yourself on the line. I always felt like step dads really don't get enough credit. I was raised by men other than my father and I'm forever thankful for that. It was only after my mom divorced these men that I live with an entire hole in my heart bc my step-dad always made me feel safe.

[@graciepooh7426]

We single Latino mother's need help for our young Latino boys as well. Why can't there be a group like that in Houston, Texas? That would be a blessing!

[@jacksonwilson2131]

Yeah I think there’s a group

[@quoteme.goddess2369]

Steve's face, though!

[@knightsalmon42]

My son is 21. I'm a single mother. I am done.

[@miriammurrey9352]

hello steve am a kenyan and i love you what doing on single parenting am a single but pregnant a after a relationship going sour but am scared for its a boy like how is this done