Nah this is too messy. Your point is valid and I agree taking on this role on your own is not a good idea. But don't spread the idea that every woman on her own without a man shouldn't get help from strangers when in need. Spread the message, but honestly people hold on to words and take what you said personally so instead of being helpful to a mother who could use some help in that moment, they won't cause they assume she must be single without a ring or man by her side. There are many reasons woman need to take a trip with babies without daddy there, we don't all expect strangers to step in and help but when they do if needed it's apeciated. Just don't encourage hatred towards a group of people, we can't stop to ask everyone the circumstances that got them where they are. Women with no kids and if you want them then definitely listen to the part about not doing it alone. I'm greatful to not have to do it alone and it is not easy, I can't imagine the scenario where I am alone.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
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@S1lverspike Жыл бұрын
Her message flew over your head I believe. It’s not the helping it’s the entitlement that turns men off.
@corvusglaive4804 Жыл бұрын
The only women on their own that should get help are WIDOWS. We are tired of the lack of appreciation, entitlement and disrespect.
@craxyman9025 Жыл бұрын
I don't get why you need men's help when women are so capable of doing everything alone and men are so toxic and problematic 🤦🏾♂️
@Detkc000011 ай бұрын
Faith, hope, love, charity, good will, etc. But that’s not what I hear in this woman’s complaint. I too hear a sense of entitlement, like he owes her. No mam!
@Mrjonezzz Жыл бұрын
If he offered to help she woulda called him all kinds of creeps, predators, groomers, did I leave any names out???
@dpbuc32 Жыл бұрын
yup, exactly damn if you do, damn if you don't
@Dweeble233 Жыл бұрын
@@dpbuc32 I'll take "damn if you dont" for 💯 Alex!!!
@hybridflu6-810 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me when I was cleaning my storage. This woman started begging me for help to clear her storage. She sells makeup, so her storage unit was full of boxes. I asked for $500. She tried to have me do it for free. I said no. I told this woman to get uHaul like me. She insisted I should do it because I'm a man. Then she asked " What's your number?"I said, why are you asking a married man for his number? After 20 minutes, I just walked away. I've always thought those women were 100% independent until that day.
@allartismental9319 Жыл бұрын
He is NOT obligated to do anything! Wtf!!!🤦🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️
@IbriyGad Жыл бұрын
She said it herself. She chose to be a single mother. Single means one. Single means stand alone. What’s the problem?
@markswift Жыл бұрын
🤡🥳🤯 A Goofy bunch of fefails
@pervertedalchemist9944 Жыл бұрын
I don't blame the man, to be honest. There was one case of a dude doing just that. Out of nowhere, he was put on child support by the mother - despite that not being his child.
@jaycesmith7899 Жыл бұрын
Yep, she stated that he was acting as a "father figure"! As a youth coach when my sons were growing up, I was the only positive adult male influence in some these kids lives but I wasn't being their father figure.
@jasminesaez5061 Жыл бұрын
What 😮
@izzo2998 Жыл бұрын
I remember that! I was going to mention that when I saw the title of this video.
@tonyjones1560 Жыл бұрын
I saw that too. I’m pretty sure (🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾) that this was thrown out. What’s…interesting…is that she attempted to use the power of the state to defraud that guy out of serious coin and walked smooth away from it. I’m not an attorney (never even played one on TV) but this looks like it would check several boxes for the definitions of wire fraud, mail fraud and grand larceny? Appreciated in advance if someone who KNOWS takes time to teach an old dog…
@stevesmith-ur6th Жыл бұрын
HOW IS THAT LEGAL?
@h.l.d.9988 Жыл бұрын
"Put your kid in the child seat" HELL NO, I'm not trying to catch a case!😂🤣
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😆
@MrBmic Жыл бұрын
Not his job. Not his responsibility.
@steviemak10 Жыл бұрын
These entitled witches pissed me off! 🫤💯
@royharris3380 Жыл бұрын
I have dated SINGLE MOTHERS, THREE TIMES, AND THESE MOTHERS ARE CRAZY, ENTITLED, AND CHILDISH! ILL BE 65 IN JUNE, NO CHILDREN AND NEVER MARRIED. THERE IS NO RESPECT, GRATITUDE, OR LOYALTY! OUT OF THE THREE RELATIONSHIPS, ALL I GOT WAS NOTHING FROM THE MOTHERS, BUT THE DAUGHTERS LOVE ME AND TO THIS DAY, WE STILL HAVE CONTACT!
@hdcvo2570 Жыл бұрын
It’s men’s fault! Imagine if you did help, and the mother got mad at you because something went wrong, she falsely accuse you. Gents, protect yourselves at all cost.
@mauricemartin2982 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. They nuts
@lordbison Жыл бұрын
Most Females Will Walk By Men, Turn Their Nose Up, Then When They want Something They All Of A Sudden Want Help! Let Them Suffer In Their “Feminist Ignorance “! 😮
@georginamcallum1324 Жыл бұрын
They complain about never needing a man but gets mad if the f word don't bend over for them.
@TheDweeb002 Жыл бұрын
I remember a story covered on Better Bachelor where a guy “stepped up” to help his single mom neighbor. He would watch the child while she was at work and after a few months of this she tried to get him for child support claiming he was acting as the child’s “father figure.” Thankfully it was thrown out. Single moms are a liability and it’s hard enough out here for decent people without taking on someone else’s burden. Pick your battles, gentlemen.
@marcushennings9513 Жыл бұрын
Imagine the time he lost from his busy schedule and life that he'll never get back just to deal with her nonsensical bull$hit due to trying to be helpful. Did she pay him for his help or penalized by the system in any way, heck no they keep it pushin to the next.
@ericdeadmon401 Жыл бұрын
I remember that story. I glad it got thrown out.
@markswift Жыл бұрын
The sistahood of Hyenas doesn't want to talk about that attempted theft. Frivolous cases like that are common.
@corvusglaive4804 Жыл бұрын
💯 Check my comment. Scary times fellas, spit game to the kids and keep it like that.
@TheRealMusic4Life Жыл бұрын
Can't make this ish up!!! You are spot on with how crazy a lot of these women are. And I'll also add the term "stupid". They don't listen and run around making the dumbest decisions, and then when it gets real - they're victims, and suddenly asking why men don't want to help. They are children.
@sirblack1619 Жыл бұрын
Nope, nope, nope and all the nope's in Nopeland!
@Rbhawk3rd Жыл бұрын
The boot is the trunk of the car.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
Thanks hon!
@Rbhawk3rd Жыл бұрын
@@MessyMichonLive I got Kiiiiddzzz🤣
@lilyrose7082 Жыл бұрын
She’s acting like she’s a hero for going somewhere, becoming impregnated by who knows who and now that the child is here, it’s our responsibility? I’m telling you that these days women are listening to other women just like their miserable selves on tic tok, utube and facebook! No! It’s your responsibility to do that sis!
@robertlunderwood Жыл бұрын
Donor conceived? So she intentional decided to bring a child in the world without a father? That's more messed up than the women who got pregnant because they didn't use birth control.
@tyeash7822 Жыл бұрын
Tired of wemen complaining about the choices they make
@michelsummers6108 Жыл бұрын
No more female judges in Family Court or female social workers😠😠
@primigenius6233 ай бұрын
Them "NOPES" were killing me. 😂😂😂
@michelsummers6108 Жыл бұрын
She wanted to be Chuck D!! FIGHT THE POWER BUTCH😂😂
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@tonyjones1560 Жыл бұрын
“I missed the part where any of this is my problem.” --Peter Parker (Spider-Man) Paraphrasing.
@waltonsmall5304 Жыл бұрын
im black , my neighbors dont want my help thank god ,
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@AlphamaleAO Жыл бұрын
Lool same
@areuarealman7269 Жыл бұрын
I'm white same my neighbors hate me too wierd world isn't it ?
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
@@areuarealman7269 lol 😆 😂
@blas4me50 Жыл бұрын
Not surprising how she's totally willing to leave her kid in the hands of a stranger.
@corvusglaive4804 Жыл бұрын
"No good deed goes unpunished". Helping single mothers today is dangerous. There was one single mother on twitter asking for advice as to whether or not she could put her neighbour on child support because he has been the primary male carer in her son's life by assisting her in looking after her son and babysitting him from time to time. Modern women are dangerous trash. I know it sounds awful but that really is the case. I just feel sorry for the kids.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
Smh!
@MikeNice4Ever Жыл бұрын
I saw that thread on Twitter a while back.
@PSYCHDEGREE63 Жыл бұрын
😲😲 that's crazzzzy, these modern women is doing to much,,,, I ain't babysitting, nothing don't ask me, and am a chick,,,, that's your kidddzzz to Rock, if the baby needs pampers I can do that, don't want to smell that, and if I buy some if I decide too, they will be genetic,,, that's on everythang , call the daddy for the good kind, it's he's seed
@PinkysMom.3111 ай бұрын
Eggzackly. So If she asks for privacy, give it to her.
@Thahighlife Жыл бұрын
I rather settle for a dog 🐕 or cat 🐈 before i deal with some kids im 44 years old im happily single and childfree by choice and i dont regret the choice that i made about my body
@dcoldestjenkins5868 Жыл бұрын
Where is the child's father?
@jonathanjacobs5783 Жыл бұрын
She went to the sperm bank
@dcoldestjenkins5868 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathanjacobs5783 Then she shouldn't expect help.
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@secret-garden Жыл бұрын
As KS told us, "The world does not owe you understanding" and that means help too. She should just nicely ask him for help - I mean really!
@NickM_FirstofHisName Жыл бұрын
She knows if she asks for help, he'll feel like he's owed a counterpart.
@secret-garden Жыл бұрын
@@NickM_FirstofHisName you’re right but then don’t write an article complaining. Women are insufferable (and I’m a woman)
@NickM_FirstofHisName Жыл бұрын
@@secret-garden We agree on that. A lot of W have a problem with giving men a counterpart.
@NickM_FirstofHisName Жыл бұрын
@@secret-garden I like to say that "Women don't want solutions, they want sympathy" She knows damn well that of she puts out or pays, she'll get help. But she'd lose victimhood points.
@yoshluv7 Жыл бұрын
No one owes her nothing!!!!!!!!
@mizzmolly7649 Жыл бұрын
It took me 20 years to decide I could take care of a cat. I sure as hell wasn't going to have a child. I'm convinced that single people who have unprotected sex just don't have the ability to think things through.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
Damn!!! Not 20 years on the cat!!! I’m crying😂😂😂😂😂
@mizzmolly7649 Жыл бұрын
@@MessyMichonLive What can I say? It takes me a while to ponder big decisions. 😄
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
@@mizzmolly7649 😂😂💯
@Dweeble233 Жыл бұрын
I thought women wanted to be EQUAL?
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@anythingforselenas806 Жыл бұрын
The audacity is shocking! Smdh
@yourstruly9978 Жыл бұрын
Men are hip to the game. If you spend any amount of time with a single mother and her kid you can still get put on child support. Men with money and brains steer clear of that crap in 2023
@acewilliams7917 Жыл бұрын
Not his problem. Strong and independent.
@flamingodahlia3703 Жыл бұрын
What in the. Put your kid in the house then go back for the groceries, get a folding wagon.
@PSYCHDEGREE63 Жыл бұрын
I don't have kidddzzz and I have a folding wagon I use it for everything , there's a will there's a way to take care of your kidddzzz
@ericdeadmon401 Жыл бұрын
The Entitlement is off the charts
@Allentox Жыл бұрын
Village? Where is the FATHER of your GREMLINS? NO ACCOUNTABILITY! NONE!
@KennyPeeples Жыл бұрын
It's not neighbor job to assist with your groceries
@truthseeker139 Жыл бұрын
In the words of Smokey from the movie Friday, " Most people ask to borrow some sugar." This Psycho wrote an article! An Article!!!
@jay-kq5kv Жыл бұрын
These heauxs crazy fr fr
@iceman_2360 Жыл бұрын
These fools have some misplaced aggression towards men who had nothing to do with making them a single parent. Personally I wouldn't life a finger myself. That's what these women get for doing things out of order. You wanted to be a single parent, now you gotta live with it.
@antares3097 Жыл бұрын
Need help ' get a man...my momma's words...
@Ladyhotfire78 Жыл бұрын
The entitlement is so arrogant. Wow. She needs to get over herself.
@waltdiesel Жыл бұрын
Some of these women will use you up and won't offer you anything that you actually need. This lady is about to created a little, "Hell Raiser!" Entitled women want all the benefits but rebuke reciprocity.
@scarrington Жыл бұрын
NOPE!!! 😆😆😆
@DamienKross20 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 you went in on her. As you should have 👍🏾
@OMichelle Жыл бұрын
Wow. Lol
@showbiz3190 Жыл бұрын
Naw she just want a community handout 🤣
@couldbeanyone8174 Жыл бұрын
She's looking for a simp to step up and be the father and take responsibility for her and the son, and she found the neighbor😂😂🤣🤣
@jeorgedavid3239 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😆 🤣
@peanutawesome1 Жыл бұрын
So she choose to be a single mom?!?!? Goofy as hell
@franknitti1190 Жыл бұрын
Another woman having a child like it’s a baby doll you can put away once they’re tired of being a parent.
@KiaraWyBradford Жыл бұрын
Beyond grateful that when I need to step out and run an errand or do something for my mom.. my son can stay at home with my husband his father 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
@jocelynstephens7058 Жыл бұрын
I am so looking forward to the first court case of a child born by a doner, tracking down their father through one of these genes sites (this has happened already) and then having him pay for their college education. The man would say that the mother signed not to come after the doner for support but this would not be the mother asking for support but the child, and would say that they did not agree to that, or sign to agree. California is about as crazy as it gets so it should start with the first case there.
@eternaldarkdragon8902 Жыл бұрын
This has occurred
@Teddy-fm9nt Жыл бұрын
It has already occurred. A lesbian couple got pregnant. The none baby carry woman left the relationship. The baby carrying lesbian tracked down the donor/biological dad and put on child support. I would never willingly give the baby batter to anyone. Women are selfish and scandalous.
@markswift Жыл бұрын
Men should also stop donating to Sperm Banks, too. Starve them out.
@matjebonklumen147 Жыл бұрын
Seeking to increase body count while in 20s, kid come accidentally, what do you expect, seallow that bitter pill
@reece1929 Жыл бұрын
I'll never forget that woman on the train who was angry that this man didn't give her a seat. Now, would it have been nice if he let her sit? Yes, but he doesn't have to. Her attitude got so stink, and had the nerve to look at me for confirmation. I said, "Maybe he's tired too, and his feet hurt. A lot of us did say, "We can do everything you do and better. There's even a commercial saying that." Boy, was she heated, and you know what? I was offered a few seats. But actually...they...don't...have...to. But I was so thankful. Those cute shoes was killing me! 😂
@reece1929 Жыл бұрын
Did I make a comment on something that had nothing to do with this video? 😂😂🤣
@Wormanatti Жыл бұрын
Thee entitlement! 😂😂😂
@tomarkocharity7017 Жыл бұрын
She bout crazy as hell……#NOPE
@commanderbracey7501 Жыл бұрын
Nope...........🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nvr2much Жыл бұрын
Single mom...by choice Won't ask for help...by choice Choose to get off social media and be a goooood momma! All dat to try to get a simp step daddy?
@steviemak10 Жыл бұрын
…by choice!! 😂😂😂
@m66di Жыл бұрын
Imagine if men actually asked if you wanna use the bathroom before we leave imagine all the names you would be creep and all
@michelsummers6108 Жыл бұрын
PAY CHILD SUPPORT LIKE MALES
@MCC876 Жыл бұрын
There is an incident of a single mom asking a neighbor, a man, to help with her son. He was nice enough to help. Later she sought legal advice to get child support from him because he had developed a fatherly role with her son.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
GOODBYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@markswift Жыл бұрын
Treat single mothers that choose that life-like ☢️
@michelsummers6108 Жыл бұрын
PAY FOR EVERYTHING USING YOUR MONEY😱😱😱
@izzo2998 Жыл бұрын
I mean, I know married, professional, well-paid couples with kids and their lives are PURE CHAOS. I don't understand the thinking that raising kids is easy. It's not.
@zoraidita2022 Жыл бұрын
This is so selfish, children need both parents. Dad and a Mom.
@kdub2229 Жыл бұрын
Thank U sis , 4 speaking the TRUTH .
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@royharris3380 Жыл бұрын
Since WE ARE ALL UNFAIRLY LUMPED INTO ONE GROUP, IM PISSED!!! IVE MADE NO ONE A SINGLE MOTHER, YET I STILL GET STEREOTYPED! DAMN! IM NOT PASSPORT BRO, I LOVE MY BLACK WOMEN, ALWAYS HAVE ALWAYS WILL, BUT THEY ARE SO DIFFICULT! NO MATTER WHAT WE ARE AT FAULT, ALTHOUGH WE HAVE DONE NOTHING!
@jupiterdeluna6519 Жыл бұрын
🎶 Don't wanna man ,Don't need a man Don't wanna man 🎶
@lilpinksliplee7310 Жыл бұрын
I took on the responsibility of taking care of my children after my divorce. Full stop, and as a grandmother, l have taken care of my grandchildren free of charge, bought their school clothes, xmas gifts, like l have a never-ending stream of income. Don't expect someone else to take care of YOUR kids. I get sick of my kid expecting ME to take care of HER kids. The oldest is 18 now, and she is still unstable although married.
@coldhardtruth333 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but those are your grad kids .. you don’t have choice ..
@andrealedet9541 Жыл бұрын
I hope her neighbor never helps her because once he opens that door it's going to be hard as hell to close it
@soulbrother1143 Жыл бұрын
If they locked the parents up you'd find it would be alot of single mothers locked up for what their children did...not fathers
@phillyb215 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 so she is looking for someone to help raise the kid she choose to have by herself!?! Make it make sense!!!
@countyourpennies8474 Жыл бұрын
You not gone tell me lmao
@KingCobra023 Жыл бұрын
Is he making a plate for him with those groceries he helped with? 🤔
@europeanbeautystandards3952 Жыл бұрын
The “villages of old” were a product of their traditional, conservative values. Our current progressive and secular society that many of us have strived for may have produced a more isolationist society, but in return it’s a lot fairer and the opportunities open to an individual are much greater. Unfortunately both can’t coexist, it’s the nature of systems. The system that has supported you to choose an independent lifestyle and to provide you with the opportunity to comfortably define your own definition of a family without judgement did not even remotely exist 100 years ago. If you invite a village into your home, you’re also inviting their values and their judgements.
@MkeB220 Жыл бұрын
WTH!?!
@gimpinainteasyАй бұрын
I am dying right now. I have a husband and kids so that I didn't have to do my chores alone. It takes a village to raise a child! Yes.. but ma'am. Get a partner.
@NickM_FirstofHisName Жыл бұрын
11:54 She's out of her damn mind!
@darrylnevels6141 Жыл бұрын
They never say where's the oringal father at?
@hardlessons9732 Жыл бұрын
Kids are a pain. Was a pain to my parents the day I was born
@kevelasdunn3736 Жыл бұрын
Men should absolutely not help women with kids that don't belong to them. Not unless there is some sort of competition. If you are are single mother just hire an assistant.
@sentimentalcharles7145 Жыл бұрын
I see they have 304's / baby mama's in the U.K. .. Crying about the same ole ish, trolling for sympathy and help from strangers.. She is definaely For The Streets - Choosing to be a baby mama by paying to get kocked up.. Selfishness on display, the modern woman is a mess and winter is here..R.I.P to the God Father K.S. !
@CarmellaStrock2 ай бұрын
Hello Michon, Love your content as always.❤
@sunsoza8320 Жыл бұрын
Nope!!
@lamarreerickson3502 Жыл бұрын
I guess she didn’t do none of that thinking before deciding to have a child.
@Xardion55 Жыл бұрын
Like deliberately removing your own leg and then expecting someone else to walk for you. The entitlement is disgusting...
@mauricemartin2982 Жыл бұрын
Shes gonna sue the donor. Watch. The court system gives them the kids.🤣🤣 they know they gonna f up scociety.
@middleofmars4347 Жыл бұрын
That’s just like saying, what you got on my 40oz
@MsPrice-pn2py Жыл бұрын
*I remember when I read this article a few weeks ago, I was like this woman crazy ass hell. Girl you did this commentary- Nope- had me rolling* 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MrLawrence7777 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I Get My Notifications I Rush to Click That LIKE 👍🏾 Button because I Know it's Going to be a Great 👍🏾 Video. Keep Up The Great Work You are Doing My Sister Michon👏🏾🧔🏾. Shalom 🙏🏾 Family ✊🏾🧔🏾👍🏾
@oneman5753 Жыл бұрын
I approve this message
@patrickduffey3061 Жыл бұрын
What is the world coming to when you buy a house for you and yours to enjoy, only to find out it comes with obligations to your neighbors to help raise they kids? It’s getting hard to compute the madness…
@BH-qh7yd Жыл бұрын
I’m gonna say this every episode, I love you you’re on point you make me laugh every episode. You should run for office to have a bigger platform
@robertbaskin5677 Жыл бұрын
I personally feel that older women need to acknowledge and accept that these younger women dont want to be married. There are enough women finding out the ways to exploit laws and government assistance to subsidized their living. They equate Marriage with being under a Man's leadership and direction, not building a family. People just need to wake up to the Truth. Marriage is over and done with something else will soon take its place.
@primetime8717 Жыл бұрын
This has got to be a fake story? So she chose to be a baby momma, and now she wants help from the community. Naw, she needs to figure it out.
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
Lol!
@katiewehrle2727 Жыл бұрын
Day #4 of being a subscriber - you are neck and neck with Judge Judy on being my idol! You ooze COMMON SENSE! Now I probably would have helped with the grocery incident. I also probably would help an elderly neighbor, but don’t try to put me in your village. There are reasons I didn’t want kids and you’ve listed quite a few. So to sum it up: Use Common Sense!!! NOPE! Lol!
@MessyMichonLive Жыл бұрын
Wow!! Being compared to JJ is awesome on its own!! Thanks hon, appreciate you💯🔥💕
@michelsummers6108 Жыл бұрын
So now SUFFER🤣🤣🤣
@nickelsdimes8643 Жыл бұрын
The audacity of feminism treating a man as a tool to be used and discarded as trash afterwards. That is in essence what this woman was expecting the neighbor to be, a tool to be used and later thrown out whenever she pleases. Too bad lady, that man already seen through your feminism bs..