Singleness, Sex and Self-Control | Steven Furtick

[@worshipthelord5887]

Still single at 28, waiting for that man of God who will get on his knees and pray with me. Praying for you everyday whoever you are.

[@clarencedialsjr.6337]

🙏🏿

[@johnpeters459]

Looking for that type of woman! Its amazing to know that someone else is desiring the same thing!

[@paytonmassey27]

Couldn’t have said it better myself < 3 I’m praying with you!

[@virginiamuthoki8288]

Trusting God for His perfect time... Always praying for that man..

[@annie-mate1546]

M still trusting in God's timing . Though the society is judging already including my family and friends sometimes I feel like m alone and on my own in this world but I still look up to you Lord. It might sound too late for people but to you its never late I know for sure. Man bring that Godly partner in my life

[@compactgirl]

It's not about finding the right one, it's about being the right one...

[@luyandathabethe7943]

True🌼

[@shantalbaker2630]

Wow...so true Makes alot of sense 🤔

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

Love this 👏🏼

[@davidisrael9412]

Yes...and when we know Jesus as our best friend we are married to Jesus be the right one for Him..Acts 1:8 live to share Him in His power and love.....then He will lead/guide us as we pray, not my will but thine/yours be done, if I am not willing to do it, change my will so I will be willing to do it, amen

[@donjazzy5510]

It's both

[@MyDreamLife]

I'm 28 still Single and was never in a relationship, not even once... It's not easy to be Single and not have stupid thoughts in your head!! God help me!!

[@masi1ja]

I get you..

[@blues05]

That's my life!

[@bigryy92free22]

My Dream Life I am 21 and have never been in a relationship. Take this time to get super close to God. God has always shown me through other people what I Was Not Missing” continue to submit and let God fill you ❤️

[@douglasescobarramirez9692]

Sometime it feel like Iam the only one.

[@AshaMae]

Okay well I

[@milo_thatch_incarnate]

Call it drastic, but I was so convicted by this message, I went and deleted my love songs playlist right off my Spotify. They are great songs, but they are serving ONLY to fuel the wrong fire. I can't have that in my life right now, when I'm single.

[@yestothetruth]

I recommend you lookup this message on KZbin: _"The Baptism Of Fire"_ by Zac Poonen. Peace to you!

[@melodylaila]

Not too drastic when you compare it to the Bible; "if you're eye causes you to sin, pluck it out"!! Good on you and may you live your best life in Christ Jesus

[@Sirchingsince]

Not drastic, but wise. Do not awaken love until the right time.

[@kadijahduarte]

Amen

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

I hate love songs tbh

[@saragirma3927]

All pastors should teach this. This is a key for young generation. Stay blessed forever pastor.

[@erinlorraine1402]

I agree 100%

[@esthershaningwa4928]

yes they should teach this kind of topic. They are more on married one and leave out the single ones

[@parkerpiterson9820]

Yes strong 💪. But weak when BUTS come in. Help me Lord

[@abaunajudith3901]

Yes,i agree, may the Lord bless us the young ones🙏🙏we just need Him more an more in our life,,,without Him our lifes would be destroyed, but thank Jezus Christ for He died on Calvarie 🙌🙌 ,Let us give all of us to God as Jezus did.

[@dannaha6240]

Applies to this single 60 year old too😂

[@twothirdsostrich]

When he said, “It is better to control your passion than to marry an idiot.” Yeah... I felt that. 😬

[@tiffanyfrazier1762]

I love it... What 🔥 are you feeding? God wants to set you on fire with his purpose, power and his plan for you

[@apocalypticlove]

I felt that too. Because I’ve been down that road.

[@Deborah-go3kh]

Steven Furtick got married at a very young age so not sure how he’s an expert

[@apocalypticlove]

Deborah Reece just because someone is married at a young age doesn’t mean he didn’t know temptation as a teenager or know temptation in other things as an adult.

[@Melisit83]

😆

[@moitshepisparkles]

A great message for Valentine's day 🎉. As a single lady, I've learned to not waste my singleness season. To fix my eyes on God, to trust in Him and He will keep me at perfect peace (Plsm 26:3).

[@LovinGodandmusic]

Amen! I'm 45 years old, and I've been single for 3½ years now. It's the longest I've ever been single. I've always felt that "need" to have someone to complete me, and make me feel validated. I still believe that, for me anyway, I have someone who will be my life partner... and I want badly to meet her. But the difference for me at this point in my life is that I know that I don't "need" her nearly as much as I need God. And that without God at the center, anything or anyone I have in my life will be incomplete. I still struggle with the fire of passion and desire some, but I know that... and I know that I don't want to act on that in and of itself. I have most of my life, and it's NEVER worked out! I know that God is working on me, growing me, and making me the best version of myself... so that when I do meet the woman whom God has been doing the same thing for, it will be His will, for His glory. He tells me to take heart, be patient, and love with ALL of my heart. And He will provide EVERYTHING that I need, and that He planned for me... and for her. Live blessed! ❤️🙏✌️

[@moitshepisparkles]

@@LovinGodandmusic Thank you for sharing, I loved it when you said "I don't need her nearly as much as I need God". That's so true. God bless you in your journey 💯❤️

[@K777angel]

Wow well said sister

[@lwinston5950]

Moitshepi plaatjie sane here sis

[@ivonneheredia1934]

That's my prayer put all my focus on Jesus Christ Amen 🙏❤

[@marypeaceprincess3819]

"While waiting for Your Boaz , don't settle for his relatives."😂 Thanks Pr.Steve.👏

[@swarnadasari8314]

🤣

[@sonyaleigh4048]

Love this :)

[@Grassman6900]

That was absolutely amazing!!!❤

[@dunagkazo]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alonsotorres165]

Gangster!

[@Chun-GD]

Being single is better than with a wrong person..

[@sydneyliz1923]

That is very true

[@stevewyche5232]

Amen to that

[@Chun-GD]

@@GROENAASMusic but now ur single again?

[@UmamiPapi]

I've seen that.

[@rosegundic3478]

Amen Amen and Amen all it takes is the wrong one to Start the fire

[@shikhatruth5204]

Just cut off a toxic ex a month ago...Single at 25 and happier than I’ve ever been. I’m okay with never being married

[@emilyrae8258]

I loved this. I wish teenage me could've seen this and avoided all the hurt. I'm happily married now with a beautiful baby girl. When she's old enough this will be the sermon I show her to help explain passions and God's plans for us❤

[@GonzoTheMystic]

Amen, this give me hope that i will find my soulmate soon and that she will be with god like me

[@cliveessuman8644]

@@GonzoTheMystic please Capital G great point tho

[@smallchopssnacks9109]

Moral- don't settle

[@joanwanja8260]

Amen hun....may God hear your prayer

[@damismilez7783]

I needed to read this! My little teenage heart is still going through the heartbreak and I can’t wait to meet the man that i can grow with

[@bilbobaginsk4626]

This sermon should be circulating like superbowl commercials..

[@Tessacndk]

Bilbobagins K actually yes

[@carlcarlson4828]

It would have to become suddenly interesting, relevant, helpful or true for that...

[@lydiakondo8607]

It should

[@user-wy9us9vq9n]

Amen.

[@tammyperzichilli8501]

Amen.

[@wanjirukarago9308]

Singleness is not as bad as society makes it look it 💯💯💯. You can be successfully SINGLE.

[@walteropiyo6510]

Yes Wanjiru...

[@noname-jh3bd]

I have been single for over three years now, and I honestly don't think I was meant to be in a long-term relationship. I have far more peace in my life now than I ever had when I was in relationships... for me, it just feels right being single

[@stellahrampeiyan5563]

True

[@kevindavis4709]

Dang right I can buy anything I want!

[@thecle_b7457]

🤯🤯🤯🤯Understanding that this is not about finding the right person but becoming the right person so God can put you in the right place so you can find a good person for you🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@ayandanyathi1331]

Sometimes we mistaken being alone with loneliness , then we go around looking for company in the wrong people and places. Only God can fill the void of desperately wanting companionship.

[@jennicebutts8965]

So true

[@samcampbell4204]

Preach!

[@nyaraisaidi2528]

Very true

[@mike-te7qd]

Amen!!!

[@misss7758]

So when Adam needed companionship God created Jesus and gave him to Adam.

[@beautybybri_2]

Seeing this in 2021 and God is teaching me. I'm so in love with God. I needed this!

[@irenecyp]

Same. Right there with you. Falling in love with God and Christ

[@beautybybri_2]

@@irenecyp Yes more and more everyday. Learning to trust them... even when the situation looks impossible at times:)

[@curtisacarter3284]

Amen🙌💙🙏🕊

[@miriamshelton6755]

YOU AND ME TOO🙏👍🏼😄🖐

[@miriamshelton6755]

Thank you. Not ready for men at all. Its been 5 months since my breakup in 10 years (ship). God wants me 💐💖💥🙏👋

[@jemimaosoro8843]

"When God is the center of your passion your life will burn bt it wont burn up."Amen

[@jemimaosoro8843]

@@rotola1268 hi

[@Ariel82137]

Wow I needed to hear this. Going through a break up with an unbeliever. I had to let him go because he was too toxic for me. I lost my peace and joy. Thank Lord for your word!!! I want to burn for you. I surrender all my passions to you.

[@oeyvind.7]

This goes out to all the people, who have broke up their marriage. I feel you, brothers and sisters. You have been treated bad. I pray that God will give you peace and lead you on the right way.🙏🏼 I and my wife broke up marriage 5 months ago. I thank God for everybody who prayed for us!

[@TysEditingStudio]

Why choose to burn?

[@TysEditingStudio]

God wouldn’t want you to burn

[@catherinenj20]

Am going through this right now.

[@zivaisinemani294]

Powerful message. I battled with Pornography for most of my teen years and now I’ve even fallen into sexual sin. I want to let it be known that I am counting on God to rewire my mind and cleanse my heart from all the baggage I’ve invited into my life before I get married. I pray for spiritual cleansing of impurities in myself and anyone else struggling too

[@latoyadagada1192]

Amen.

[@charlesstonerock3051]

I'm struggling with this to. I need God's help. IN Jesus name Amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@godandsarah1306]

"Most of Scripture is not about finding the right one, but Being the right one." Wow! .. "And being the right one, has this ability for God to put you in the right place. " - - Steve Furtick So good

[@lifeasbellaforest34]

I’m 22 and have been saving myself,lately I have been doubting myself/decision but this was the conformation I need !.God is amazing 🤞🏽

[@leanna107]

And there are people who are past 30 waiting which is when the doubt really does kick in. You might need to seek confirmation more and more but it can build strength

[@AlekieTush]

I'm about to let this sermon trend in Kenya!!!

[@akaims1738]

Alex lé Duke Sawa, tuko tayari

[@peterwachira4191]

tuko pamoja

[@brucepeace244]

Kabisa

[@brianmarv]

Itabidii

[@joanw.]

Go ahead!

[@Therealnickwalker]

BEATIN YO-AZ!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That had to be the funniest part of a sermon I’ve ever heard in my life hands-down

[@bigstunna2049]

I've never laughed that hard hearing a sermon

[@chad9487]

Same

[@Daysaum]

I agree. thats number 1 all time

[@milkmanproductions1837]

😂😂😂😂

[@daniellamoreno3616]

Its kinda funny but bad words.

[@lesliecastro4916]

A SERMON THAT EVERYBODY NEEDS TO HEAR!

[@ruthprophete5566]

I needed to listen to this. I am 26 and have only been in one short relationship. I am trusting on God. This year has been doubly hard due to the pandemic and living alone but it has strengthened my relationship with Him.

[@christwarrior-usa]

I miss this kind of message in the church. We need more of this.

[@LL949]

Actually, no... All these pastors (that cannot relate) their message is the same: stop being depressed over your barrenness and just “be on fire/work harder” for God (in the church ofcourse)... They’ll also keep twisting scripture to fit their narratives, implying that all the 50+ translations of the Bible are not accurate... Point is: they’ll lay hands on a barren couple (because the lack of a miracle is a bad look), but are never genuinely willing to lay hands on the most lucrative group: young single people... he didn’t really give any advice to those of us who have been faithful, productive, celibate and waiting for 20 years and are hurting because of loneliness and humiliation... Once again, these pastors are all about exploitation, not spirituality...

[@christwarrior-usa]

@@LL949 It also seems like a lot of churches are buying into the whole don't have kids thing. Why are there no get togethers for young adults? Why are we not encouraged to date other believers in the church? Why are so few saying "be fruitful and multiply". Why are so many adopting the LGBT agenda? I see beautiful young women that only talk to gay guys- that's not right. We need a shifting and transformation back to traditional Christian Bible values, ie straight masculinity and straight femininity.

[@LL949]

Amen!

[@QUMACreations]

I agree with you completely...

[@bigboychampion]

LL949 what more does he need to say than what the Bible's given us? Paul already told us in his letters- and Pastor Steven relayed the message in a manner that's more relatable for people to understand today. The answers are in the Bible so we just gotta read and keep faithful u know?

[@nusrahlynn1480]

I'm 30, single and never had a meaningful relationship and it's been affecting me a lot lately. God bless you for this wonderful message, I really needed it.

[@MsBeloved89]

I'm 30 and single too. Remember, you're not alone even if you FEEL lonely. Be in God's word daily and serve at your church if you're not already. Focus on God's Kingdom. You can be used greatly as a single person. "Seek first the Kingdom of God and everything else will be added to you." Matt 6:33

[@dTopnotes512]

I am 32 and single. I’ve had a lot of tough times but this message has directed me so well. I’m praying for you guys, I know it’s difficult ❤️🔥

[@iamvitria]

I'm 30 & single too!

[@sweetupbaaby1903]

Trust me, God is trying to protect you. It's not all that it's cracked up to be. I'm 27 and have had way too many "mismanaged" relationships to count. In my opinion, one relationship with the person you marry is all you need. You won't need experience when you're fit with the spouse God made for you!

[@davidisrael9412]

hope hehe you are lying. relax deep breath...you have the most meaningful relationship with Jesus. So you love yourself as is, for we cant love another more than we love ourselves ...others will see this a content person and meaningful friendship relationships (not toxic negative) will grow. let go...and let God....our shepherd I shall not want...then either way we cant lose....and He is there to comfort our heart ..through it all. not my will by thine be done, amen...

[@t3zzz2000]

This is actually good advise. I walked from a 5 year relationship because God Jesus called me. I was dating someone who was Hindu and I still love her but I've been able to get past my struggles by being passionate about reading God's word and helping out at my church. This season of the corona virus has allowed some of my old passions to creep inside my heart but today I am reminded to lean on God more and become more obsessed with things of God. This preacher did a good job understanding the struggle and what it takes to overcome. If your reading please ask God to keep me strong in my mind and spirit. I mean well but I'm human and the devil keeps presenting me with different opinions.

[@sushmithasunny1840]

I've been in the exact same situation n ik how you feel.. I'll pray for you God bless you.

[@davidisrael9412]

we are to be bond servants/slaves to Jesus....He has the perfect plan for each of us, pray not my will but thine be done, amen and be a witness to the lost Acts 1:8 in power and care, and yet don't be unequally yoked=don't get emotionally attached to an unbeliever even as a friend.....simply share care

[@latoyadagada1192]

God help you and give you strength to overcome.

[@LONEWOLF-sf9xs]

Single at 51 and staying single n preaching Gods word. I’ve never laughed soo much thru a preaching that you have a gift of making others laugh but also getting a serious word from God to others. Amazing video dear brother!! God bless in YESHUAS name!❤️🙏🏻

[@catherinenyaga5960]

Stop it. Come up

[@mariatripp]

🙏❤️🙏

[@imtheprize]

'Stop feeding the fire.' I'm guilty of this. Help me to feed my calling in You, Lord.

[@yestothetruth]

Please see this post that has information that will help you overcome (Revelation 2:7): _Freedom From Sin_ bitly[DOTCOM]/SalvationFromSin Please make sure to use an actual dot and no brackets in the link above. I hope this works. Peace to you!

[@malaysiaaugillard9552]

Amen 🙏🏾 .

[@lucylongti7938]

i have been in two relationships been single for the last seven years..and yes during this period i have lusted with my eyes countless number of times and still struggling..but i am not giving up this fight..God is working in me..i will continually submit to him even when i fall..brothers and sisters in Christ..remember me in your prayers🙏

[@toniahermon3489]

This is the first message I heard from Pastor Steven Furtick

[@cynthiawolff3742]

Tonia, I just started listening to him last year; and I've since found that some of my Facebook friends listen to him. He's really good. There is a "library" of his sermons.

[@josephgatere7616]

Key take away: "when consumed with the wrong passions, get more consumed with the right ones"

[@dee-handra]

This hits home. Had a pretty wild past but saved by Grace. Love this sermon. Thank you for being so real with this topic.

[@mphihlengmagoro2957]

My favorite sermon on being singles. Thee perfect Valentines Day message. It's not about finding the right one but it's about being the right one 🤔

[@stevenfurtick]

Before we open ourselves to others, we must first be capable of loving ourselves unconditionally. Happy Valentines Day, Mphihleng! 🧡 🥕 SF Team

[@angelsrwus8375]

I am a divorced mother of two now adult children. I always wanted to be a mother and wife ever since I was sixteen. After years of physical abuse, mental abuse and being cheated on over and over again it saddens me that I am single now. I've been praying and asking God if it is his will may I find someone who puts him first and loves me for who I am. Someone perfect for me and for me to him. Then I prayed and asked God if it's okay for me to desire to be married again. Through this message my prayers have been answered. Thank Pastor Steven Furtick. I've been wondering for years. Thank you Jesus.

[@elizabethjose5424]

Dear sister may the Lord bless you very soon.May He fulfill the desires of your heart to find romantic love once again and bless your union with the right man.

[@olayeo5002]

God can change anyone, even the heart of a king (Proverbs 21:1). Separation from an abuser to be single is okay (1 Corinthians 7:11), however, divorce is only permitted when the unbeliever departs (requests for it - 1 Corinthians 7:15). There is nothing God cannot do, he can save your husband, change him and bring him back to you. Love you. Please read Luke 1:37, Jeremiah 32:17, Job 42:2. You might pray for God to work on both of you, to enhance your comparability.

[@angelsrwus8375]

@@olayeo5002 Thank you for support. I have moved on from my ex husband. He was physically abusive, mentally abusive, attempted to harm me on multiple occasions, attempted to harm our daughter when she was a newborn because she wouldn't stop crying. He was a nonbeliever and told me he became to worship Satan. I thought I could change him but I was very wrong. Only God can change someone. I now wait for a man of God from our Lord and Savior. God bless and thank you again.

[@traceydiamondqueen9105]

So this notification has been haunting me and I've been saying "God I'll watch later". But now am in tears. Because God has clarified something that I've been struggling with almost all my life..... Every single depression I went through, every time I cursed God, was because I was failing to understand this even when he kept re-echoing it. I must say though, this is the clearest I've heard it!🙏🏽🙏🏽. And I am ready to keep going deep in God, being consumed by his fire , and then he'll find me tending to my usual business then light that other fire. I feel so much at peace. I feel so free and ready to serve and commune with God, because the junk off my mind has been cleared!!!

[@lebonhlapo2607]

The "I'll watch it later" response HAUNTS ME ALL THE TIME, THE HOLY SPIRIT BE OUTCHEA!!!!!😂😂😂😭😭

[@ebereezike3448]

Hallelujah!

[@tiffanymorgan6562]

I became a widow on Christmas Day, we were supposed to be planning our 20th wedding anniversary. 😢💔😭

[@marnitamitchell6931]

🙏🙏🙏❤

[@user-cj4sq6pb1c]

So sorry 😥, may God give you strength and his Peace❤

[@brittneyjohnson7066]

Tiffany Morgan , I’m praying for you. It is hard but every it gets better. I’ve been a widow for 10 yrs now..

[@naomia5475]

❤️

[@christwarrior-usa]

God bless you in Jesus Christ name

[@adaezefrancis2055]

Only God can set you on fire and keep you on fire and you won't burn out. Hallelujah

[@anthonypeterson7028]

Singleness is a blessing.

[@ashleyspurling5701]

Not always.

[@mariafeliza7356]

Wow this message is really what i need now being in 30's i feel pressured that im single, my friends, classmates have their own family but me still single though i used to remind my self that i should enjoy my singleness and God has already better plan for me and he prepare that right man for the right time.. and i do believe that God has a good plan

[@thevaldezfamily4605]

Amen. This is what my sister is going through. She is 31 and because I got married at 22 and I'm the older sister, it's been hard for her at times to watch my family grow and I'm approaching 13 years in a few months. I've been very transparent with her about all that marriage entails; the struggles, the heartbreaks and the joyful time. We lost our father tragically a few months ago as he was killed by a drunk driver. one of the most difficult things she's expressed is now our dad will never get to walk her down the isle. I've encouraged her to take this time to put Jesus Christ first in everything and make him the reason she does what she does. Glorify God in everything you do and when you delight yourself in the Lord, he will give you the desires of your heart. When you're married, the struggle to make time for God will intensify, and yet you'll need to lean on him even more. So i would encourage you to do the same. When it's no longer at the forefront, that is when you know it's no longer an idol and God can really move. That doesn't mean he's not preparing the other person, but that he sometimes is waiting on us to get out of the way. Praying for you. blessings

[@shannajohn5877]

Rackz Crazy channel I feel you, I too am in my 30’s,that feeling pressured is real....every time someone would ask “still single?” “When would you have a child?” And the insensitivity to go even further and remind you that you’re not getting younger and your biological clock is ticking 🙄. Well I have learned to ignore.... since I’ve started taking my Christianity seriously I have come to realize that I wasn’t ready for marriage, and I am the one that actually needs processing and preparing. I bless God for his revelation and for giving me the grace to finally endure and understand that being single is not that bad. He wants to be our first love. He does know our desires...... I’m allowing him to intervene in my life fully now.

[@mariafeliza7356]

@@shannajohn5877 being single is blessing. And only God knows our future.. God bless you sister

[@mariafeliza7356]

@@thevaldezfamily4605 thanks sis

[@shannajohn5877]

Rackz Crazy channel Amen and may he bless you also. Have an overcoming day in Jesus

[@AshtonHigbee]

This message was needed for me this morning. I have been so consumed in the trap of shame, guilt, frustration and anxiety of singleness that i forgot the person who I was really missing Jesus. I’ve been rejected by so many women in my life, and it’s led too extreme Disappointments in all my life. Thank you for this Message Pastor Furtick.

[@kattlagae2718]

Ashton let your heart be at rest.God is in control just trust him fully...

[@davidisrael9412]

when the devil brings up the past...don't listen...say 'the blood of Jesus rebuke you' to the thought then think on whatsoever is good honest and pure....Joyce Meyers...videos on good thinking....and put your expectation in Jesus and you will never be let down...the past is past....we have the gift of today...called the present..and be a witness to the lost at any cost in His power and love Acts 1:8

[@shanshaiza8609]

I'm with you.... I felt great this morning after listening to this sermon.

[@victoriaperez1702]

Just because you hide something in the sand doesn't mean it won't come back.

[@bishopjoshuamaponga2428]

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[@FishRFrenzNotFood]

I see many churches encouraging couples to speed up the marriage process instead of “burn”. But I see a fault in this because if the only reason you are getting married to avoid falling into sexual temptation then you’re not allowing the spirit to exercise His self control over your life. Because I don’t think sexual temptation will be cured inside marriage; temptation is a heart issue; therefore, it can even occur inside a marriage(ex:adultery)

[@hannahsitler]

I love this perspective! So helpful!

[@misss7758]

Sexual frustration is just one of the side effects of being single. The bible gave it as the main reason for marriage because it is a recurrent urge that does not go away but rather increases with time.

[@nelsonrojas978]

People should only listen to the word of GOD! Not what the church tells you to do. The church can’t save you only through Christ our lord. We need to follow the word as it is and not try to form it into our benefit!

[@aleece4]

“Most of the time in our sexuality, shame is the source of our problem, so it can’t be our solution.” Wise words right there! And SOOO applicable to more than just our sexuality. And than when he said that shame doesn’t make you better but just drives you deeper into your own dysfunction…man I FELT that! Only Jesus and His transformational love can redeem this brokenness 🙌🏼

[@queenmalaikawakingjesus2442]

😧😁you look 19 pastor Steven furtick, I recieve the message and i break the spirit of singleness and God make me meet the right person, thank you lord 🙌🙏🙏

[@markosteen9472]

Such a long message I almost didn't listen, then I received every word. I've been divorced almost 3years and through prayer have peace with it thanking God for taking care of me and All of my relationships. Thank God for your anointing Steven Furtick, in Jesus's name, Amen.

[@jennifer6833]

I complete me... I’m happily single and loving myself completely. We are love ❤️. Love is love ❤️.

[@Caydinator]

I am 66 yrs old & dating the truest love of my life. He is the one that led me to the light. We are practicing abstinence until marriage to honor Gods word. It’s hard as I love him dearly & am SO attracted to him emotionally AND physically. But I want to do this “right” & build this amazing relationship on a strong foundation as in God.

[@erinlorraine1402]

This sermon is soooooooo good and I wish I could put it on a loud speaker for the entire world to hear! It needs to be told!!

[@R2C2__]

This season in my life is a learning season. I barely noticed that my whole 26 yrs of living. I’ve never been single as I aM right now. I use to hang on to temporary people bc I thought it was what I deserved. Then I had my daughter. And it stopped me from having ties with people. Gave me love and faith to understand that temporary people aren’t worth it. God is worthy and he says I’m worthy. And there is a reason for being alone. You learn so much about yourself and you can finally hear Gods voice. He’s a healer. ❤️ I’m embracing this single period. It gets hard but Jesus will never leave us. He will guide us.

[@ginalanning5303]

This was such a revelation! I have become changed in my passion, and couldn't understand why the patterns had changed. I'm more centered on His passion for my purpose, that my passion for old patterns have been burned away. I have found my purpose, His purpose, my calling. I am here to tell you this is the true, I am homeless, but have never been more blessed. I WANT FOR NO WORLDLY THING! MYFATHER SUPPLIES IT ALL! And not like you would think, He does it in abundance, so that I can be a blessing to those around me who haven't got a clue what love, or compassion, or even kindness, genuine kindness looks like. I am so blessed! Thank you Pastor for being, brutally honest, and not giving Half a Hallelujah what the world thinks. Gods messages through you have helped to shape my perspective on things, and I am greatful! Bless you and yours!

[@scottbonney6576]

Gina Lanning Prayers to the most Holy Holy Living LORD GOD Heavenly Father Holy Holy Living Lord God Jesus's Christ and God Holy Spirit shine light strength courge guidance protection your way and bring the right people person into your path that will help you not be homeless anymore And guardian angels to watchover protect guide you and many wonderful blessing come your way soon in the mighty Powerfull name off Lord God Jesus's Christ mighty name l pray Amen Amen and Amen hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah

[@monsterfan4336]

Amen

[@QUMACreations]

Watching this during quarantine. This is a message I needed.

[@clarinetist18]

Me too. 💪❤

[@namgospelandpraisevideos705]

Amen that's good as it's very challenging as a person can end up doing mastubation.

[@brandonminor1412]

I was not expecting a sermon to be so fun and just what i needed too hear

[@sg8500]

I don't think any Pastor would have spoken so openly about this and explain it so well. Thank you Pastor Furtick! Consume wrong fire with good fire and not shame. What a way to see it 🙏

[@akotgenevieve4960]

Am 27, still waiting. Waiting is hard but when I look at the prize, I hold on. God help us

[@yestothetruth]

Akot Genevieve, I want to share this post with you to encourage you in your prayer life: bitly[DOTCOM]/prayinposition Please make sure to use an actual dot and no brackets in the link above. I hope this works. Peace to you!

[@priyankasurya1951]

God blesses🥰

[@wanjirulinet]

This will be my year to break the chain of singleness

[@hrietnasociology1493]

wow!! I think he is the only one who has spoken out the REAL struggles of single life. He does not simplify it, also does not negate the Passions, and does not judge. The whole sermon is full of empathy. The solution he suggests is also very practical. From the beginning till the end, love it. It gave me a new perspective. Thank you Pastor.

[@clarencedialsjr.6337]

Yeah. And that part about Boaz was beautiful.

[@manuelfrias7673]

This guy for sure makes my day and night 🌙

[@cocochannel3694]

Me too hhhhh

[@blessingchizema9154]

Manny Rose me too my man.

[@smitamhaske1338]

💯

[@geraldamcnab2845]

Amen... "Being the right one instead of finding the right one"🙏

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

I love this sermon!! I’ve been in many unhealthy & abusive relationships... I really needed to hear this ❤️ The only relationship I want to focus on is the one I have with God and myself 🙏🏼 I know He will send the right person into my life when I AM READY. But for right now, I am so happy and content with growing more in love with God and myself. 🥰✨

[@timrunkle5636]

Excellent approach

[@rihannafenty4203]

I just wanted to say that you’re so gorgeous :)

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

@@rihannafenty4203 Aww, that's so sweet! Thank you so much

[@walteropiyo6510]

Where you at

[@florencena2411]

LORD consume me with passions for right purposes and for my Boaz.and show me how to place my fire in the right place. Amen i will not burn up 👏👏👏.set me ON FIRE LORD 👐

[@jsings6765]

Honesty this is for me.. God has promised me that He's going to send a right person at a right time into my life but I am not able to wait it's already been 4 years. I'm 22 now. I feel like settling for wrong things. And when I ask God to deliver me, He's telling that His grace is enough and He's telling me to become strong and overcome what's trying to control you. Please pray for me that I will be consumed with the fire of God to fight the false fire in me.

[@AngelinaSkylove_719]

Ask the Holy Spirit to come into your heart and mind so he will have permission to take over your thoughts and desires. Satan is trying to throw you off course. Listen to God's voice and have faith in His Timing.

[@kellihanfield8642]

I say live by the spirit instead of flesh. Talk to God about it. I'm someone who didn't wait for God. I did my own thing. But now I'm learning to wait with perspective.

[@anaishekalea7754]

I’m 23 n in ur situation 😭.... I pray we understand his word n not settle for the earthly wrongs

[@Dd-po2ij]

Sugar. Marriage is about destiny for both of you like what you both are called to do together for. Christ .also it's not about love , love fades away marry you best friend, then you both will see things much lighter together you also need a partner who loves God I mean really loves. God then they can love you the right way. Divorce is like a death,,, which Destroy "s both lives. Marriage is about sacrifices daily. Only. God can teach you this. It is not something you enter into likely. Make sure you truly hear from God. God. Forbid something could happen anyone of you could end up taking care of the other. Physical injuries you have to make real sure they are the one. Blessings to you so much. Leave no stone unturned.

[@jsings6765]

@@anaishekalea7754 yes and I believe that God will be our strength while we are weak

[@joshlinus8493]

I am always blessed by Pastor Stephen Furtick. God keep you and give us food for our soul.

[@geraldamcnab2845]

God set me fire for your purpose... Amen

[@odevilasmikaeladenilem.6462]

I'm 20 and single... found the great awakening and realization in this early age. Thank you LORD for leading me in the right path. I will wait upon YOU Lord. I know you have a great plan in my life. I am trusting Your process.

[@sophykitagawa7667]

Waiting for the one Isaiah 60:22 When the time is right,I The LORD will make it happen 🙏

[@jaquelineturnee9234]

While my husband as been working away this is when I found my real, true love . I will always love my husband so don't get me wrong but never in all my life have I ever felt so much love as I do right now . Having so much time to myself , is when I found the Lord Jesus Christ and I've never felt lonely since he came into my life ... true story ☝️

[@ahexcuseme6936]

PASTOR! 👏🏻 I have a problem with infatuation. That's why most of my relationships (I've only been in two relationships) burned out. This false fire nonsense. I'm just going to keep praying, because I know that God will send me the right person when He sees fit; His time not mine. If you go out and seek relationships, chances are you will attract the ones that are not for you; not meant for you. Just trust in Him. I really needed this message this morning. Thank You, sir! 🙏🏻

[@willotoma1]

You will never understand what I mean when I write the next words. Your sermon has restored me, I am restored in his name, thank you Jesus. 🙏

[@ashgotcash927]

This message was so timely and exactly what I needed to hear this morning! Set me on fire with your purpose Lord!! Amen

[@barendfaber]

I prefer to be set on fire the old fasion way. With good ol' gasoline.

[@jimenabarrantes6575]

I’m 15 But this made this so much more clear

[@sebrina.samuels]

I'm 17 and I'm happy to hear this message.

[@bstm-delacruzangelicafaith3877]

@@sebrina.samuels same

[@manasmitadeka5111]

Now I'm 17 & feel very strongly..Wish God bless in future to get a good guy

[@waldeinsamkeit4]

Right on time!! I have ppl telling me “get married” all the time. I’d like to too if I could buy him from a grocery store.

[@yestothetruth]

I want to share this post with you to encourage you in your prayer life: bitly[DOTCOM]/prayinposition Please make sure to use an actual dot and no brackets in the link above. I hope this works. Peace to you!

[@jestercolindres7042]

The Kind of sermon I needed the most "Stop feeding the fire without nothing to contaminate it"😓

[@SharonRiungu]

In His own time, He will make it right! Hang in there 🙏🙏🙏

[@bishopjoshuamaponga2428]

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[@tovikaawomi281]

Best sermon at right valentine's day.praying for right women at right time.anyone out there 🙌🙌🙌😚

[@cindyhusselmann218]

Finding the right one and being the right and God will put you in the right place Amen

[@geraldineduldulao187]

Amen

[@Alma-ss3mo]

The first time I saw this, I didn't understand and wasn't receptive. Now I watch it and understand it. I've been wanting so much to get married and now I realize why. It's a safe place for the things that I want. And it's God who can lead us to control it with Him

[@405boy4]

This is the perfect sermon to possibly prevent young people from having alotta children out of wedlock, prevent HIV and and other STD spreading.. Great Job Pastor ☝️👍🙏.

[@klinndungu5936]

May the fire of the Lord burn in me. Amen!

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

Y'all, this is one of my favorite sermons. It never gets old. If Paul could be single, so can I. If I am to be married it will be to Boaz, and not any of the other Az's of the world. God, will always be my director. Amen! Bless you, Pastor Furtick!

[@Lala_Milli]

I love it. I’m 40 and single. I pray I get married one day.

[@zimasajam]

You don't have to

[@jodyann77]

43, and I've never been married either!

[@Syed4699]

Hii

[@Syed4699]

@@jodyann77 hi

[@sydneyliz1923]

Wow

[@hesterhorwitz4948]

Amen, get more consumed with the right fires, God will bless your obedience

[@leevikahulikambangura607]

I am also 41 years old and I am a born-again believer man, trying to live a pure life, holy life, praying for a God fearing woman like me, having the same vision of God's will to reach out to the lost souls, like I was a lost soul too. All the way from Namibia.

[@owusuphilipable]

The Lord is surely with you, HE will help us

[@dylanvondohlen9842]

It's 2021 and this spoke to me personally right when I needed it, God works in crazy ways💕

[@Mz.Becky341]

Truly enjoyed this errr ummm "Valentine's day message". No really it was timely in such a time as this. With two grown kids and have been married twice, multiple mistakes outside of marriage, God is the best husband for me- and I don't have to worry about STD's because He is as pure as the driven snow! God bless you and your family 💝✌️👍

[@K777angel]

Good for you girl. Better late than never beautiful lady!😊Inspiring.

[@JillAlexander]

Our God is a consuming Fire!! Set me on fire Lord with Your purpose & with Your plans!😍

[@dawnettahumphrey]

Don't focus on finding the right one, focus on being the right one! Love this!! Thank you for sharing this with us! ;) Powerful message!!

[@phalisatumblin1249]

I'm so happy my mother sent me your video thank you for the Boaz story🙂...I've been celibate for 10 years it was a struggle for the 1st 5yrs but now it's a way of life for me..when I meet a man and I tell him I'm celibate he runs for the hills...I'm still waiting for my Boaz.

[@marcelwilliams1736]

Congrats 2 U! Nothing wrong with your approach. Men just need to step up and match the level of relational goals. We also need to gain and understanding of true intimacy. Praying with and over a woman. Asking Jesus to guide our steps. Took me a lifetime to learn and gain the correct understanding and insight.

[@phalisatumblin1249]

@@marcelwilliams1736 Amen🙏

[@yestothetruth]

Phalisa Tumblin, I want to share this post with you to encourage you in your prayer life: bitly[DOTCOM]/prayinposition Please make sure to use an actual dot and no brackets in the link above. I hope this works. Peace to you!

[@Bmitchell10]

Father God I'm going thru my Singlness now. Tired of the headaches and pain. I know thar there's a One for me..Help me Lord to wait on the man you have for me and no sinning. Help me to hold on to your word in the name of Jesus Amen 🙏🏾 This Young Generation is in need of this word of 2022 and years to grow on Lord help us all🙏🏾

[@elizabethtuliatuinidau3698]

Can't stop my tears...help me Lord

[@naomia5475]

Elizabeth Tulia Tuinidau God is with you ❤️

[@tima1443]

"Fear not, for God is with you". Even when we feel lonely, disheartened, etc. God will show you the truth, and its better to see the truth of the pain and get over it then to keep your eyes blind and suffer that whole time. ❤

[@elizabethtuliatuinidau3698]

@@@tima1443...Thank you so much for the word of encouragement

[@dTopnotes512]

I am praying right now for you, Elizabeth. I know it’s been 4 weeks since you watched this but just know that tonight, I am praying for you.

[@cattsmahal1005]

Oh baby girl. Put your struggles on God. Pray for strength and patience. Be still. ☺️

[@MariaEduarda-jb4ts]

I didn't recognize him for a second 😂 God bless you

[@nizarr21]

Same here, I am used to the beard 😂😂 Great message nonetheless 💯

[@Iamstarstew]

Me either 😂

[@elizabethtuliatuinidau3698]

same as me...was confused then i heard his voice..great message

[@HairessBarbi]

The only reason I knew it was him was because he mentioned his wife's name, Holly and I heard it from a sermon before this one.. but I was like "maybe its his little brother". 😅🤣😂

[@elizabethtuliatuinidau3698]

@@HairessBarbiyeah..same thought...

[@cjames1816]

I needed to hear this. Love should be 365 days not just for 1 day. I am faithful and being patient. Thank you, Pastor Steven Furtick.❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️❤❤❤❤😥

[@marieberna687]

American pastors are very intelligent when their are telling discribe the bible .love it watching from Philippines 🇵🇭

[@irishtomas2150]

Dear Youth not just for single I believe. The world need this message. More power Pastor Steve.

[@apoorvanreddy]

Something much needed on Valentine's Day.

[@debihernandez8853]

Amen! Amen! Amen! Thank you for being real and teaching us single people and caring about the kids!

[@blackempress2391]

The message fits in so well for me because I have been fasting for God to send the right one and for God to open my eyes to those who just want to come to destroy me as oppose to love. . God will send godly husbands the way of single ladies in Jesus name.

[@yestothetruth]

Black Empress, I want to share this post with you to encourage you in your prayer life: bitly[DOTCOM]/prayinposition Please make sure to use an actual dot and no brackets in the link above. I hope this works. Peace to you!

[@indianelson4054]

I'm 33 and I can honestly say that marriage is a beautiful Blessing but it is also a very big challenge at the same time. It's good to find your mate but it's hard at times. That's why you have to have god in the mist of the union.

[@Archadzen]

Hi How are you doing?

[@luyandathabethe7943]

Lord.. Thank you for leading me to this lesson. Thank you for placing this lesson in my life days before my 21st birthday. If there was ever a video that spoke straight to me from beginning to end, it is this.. Woah🤯amazing. A preacher that I can relate to.. This dude.. God is a great creator man, no doubt. 🌼🙌🏽

[@taylorposs5675]

Great teaching! Crowd is so silent because of the great message delivered! Don’t burn the house down....all glory to God! 🙌🏼