Im guilty of getting my jokes off and making fun of people for their choices too, but we have to be more kind. At the end of the day, most of these people are hurting and want to be loved. All of the jokes and negative comments have already been said at this point. We get it, some guys are pookies, some women are ratchet, some pple have unrealistic expectations, and some are unattractive. Lets move on. We're human and again, everyone's hurting.
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ Spread the love! But it's so hard bc it's so fun to criticize 😈
@unbiasedtv6525 Жыл бұрын
@@SweetEssiewe all wanna get our jokes off 🤣
@tattqueen1494 Жыл бұрын
@@unbiasedtv6525Until the joke on you! Grow tf up!
@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын
Accountability is the word. Then self awareness will and should begin. Maybe a change in the black community will start but I highly doubt it. This is decades worth of damage.
@bryanbeeman5256 Жыл бұрын
Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. It doesn’t invest in groups of because groups don’t change unless they have to. We have to want to do better as individuals. My faith is not in people or groups of people… far too many bad apples for that. But each one reach one, that I can go for.
@chichichic Жыл бұрын
OMG Kendra looks GORGEOUS with blonde hair!!!!!!!! I cannot I love it!!!!
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
3:47 Too skinny to change a tire? 😂😂 I hollered. It's because he didn't know how 😂😂
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
Sis, sleeping with a man and trying to get him to go to the church don’t go together. 🤷🏾♀️
@nancyfancy1956 Жыл бұрын
I can't 😩 She is a fornicating Christian but she goes to church as if that makes them a good Christian. As a Christian how can you sit there and say that you will fornicate as in make it part of your daily life wth. God-fearing people don't fornicate willingly without shame like it's part of their lifestyle. When a Christian fornicates it's because they failed to flee from sin it was a point of weakness, it comes with a lot of shame and regret but they gotta come back with a repentant heart and strive to do it the right way. I'm glad that fornication isn't something I'm struggling with. But I'm pissed. the audacity of so many so called Christians asking for a God-fearing men or women when they are the opposite
@isaacpowell1408 Жыл бұрын
That part..he ain't even going to respect you.😂😂
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
@@nancyfancy1956 Fornicating sinner. Christians don’t practice sin.
@erehistruth2356 Жыл бұрын
You better preach. All these half steppin ass Christians.
@leshawnharrell558 Жыл бұрын
She's beautiful 49 looks great on you
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@LovelyM404 Жыл бұрын
Erica looks amazing!!! I think her outlook on life keeps her looking young. She said she’s in the prime of her life and she looks like it! Where the mind is the body follows!
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@DEBBIEME1200 Жыл бұрын
Thank you EDorsey as an classy lady, this is what education does it gives standards, confidence, healthy mentally, pride, dignity , self worth.
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
based on the amount of student debt we're in, i would think most of the female guests would act this way
@matthwscott80 Жыл бұрын
She's stuck in herself and you call that standards I hope she has a dog or cat.
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
@@matthwscott80 I don’t need a pet. There are enough dogs out there.
@masculinitymatters9030 Жыл бұрын
Shout out again to Vunya, she was the best candidate by a landslide. She gets it...simple, realistic, attainable objectives. I'm a huge fan and know she will be a success story.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
I like her too she don’t have kids and don’t want a man with them cause she wants all attention on her she said all her attention will go to her man so I’m sold so far 😂😂😂I’m one state over she need a real man like me😂😂😂
@masculinitymatters9030 Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARD Go get her. You can't lose if you get some time with her. A lot a factors have to play out favorably for both sides but you won't know that without a pursuit.
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
You didn't check that IG. LOL. She sticking birds like a deli. Lol.
@brianfreckles8542 Жыл бұрын
I think she's pregnant. Probably why she looking for dark-skinned- the baby daddy Probably dark-skinned - a lightskin guy would be like "wtf? This ain't mine" 😅😅so the next dark-skinned dude won't know the difference- that's why she has the sweatshirt- women play chess while we men are still trying to figure out checkers
@dannie1020 Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARDgo get her. So what, those are just pictures, she seems nice enough. ❤
@davidemerald7690 Жыл бұрын
Dayo is a Keeper y all 👍one of the few sane men I have seen here in a while
@shonb989 Жыл бұрын
Yup, and handsome
@besmithj167 Жыл бұрын
Erica is a wonderful catch but for a woman of her caliber, she needs to pay a match maker. This show won’t give her what she’s looking for 🤷🏾♀️I wish her the best🚶🏾♀️
@Lifeisgoodonearth Жыл бұрын
Vanya was so cute and not fumbling for the Kendra cam. I feel bad that young ladies have to ask for manly men that are not sassy. The pool is so small🫤
@J_Abdi Жыл бұрын
Chillle Erica the finest & wholesome 49 yr old I EVA did see. You're a great wife in the making 😍 your inbox will be celebrated
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@annacobbs4717 Жыл бұрын
Lulu is a beautiful young lady who is a true miracle. Be blessed always 🙏🏾
@marquishajeng8606 Жыл бұрын
Erika is beautiful and classy! What a great example of living life to the fullest, unapologetically, and with unshakable faith! 🥰🥰
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤️
@Lifeisgoodonearth Жыл бұрын
The minute Gideon said truck driver I rolled my eyes. Smh and this is the reason why I don’t go for the BS when men say they have female friends gtfoh Gideon is not looking for a relationship.
@ayanessa7879 Жыл бұрын
Loved the last lady, she is absolutely gorgeous. Good luck to her.
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@bryanbeeman5256 Жыл бұрын
“ANYTHING is possible when you DON’T have a choice…” Lulu Robinson
@3tents93 Жыл бұрын
True
@yaalove3736 Жыл бұрын
Some folks need to relax and think about what went wrong in between these relationships. Sit down somewhere… understand yourself! Learn about who you are and who you are not. It seems like men have a harder time being alone than women🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
If that was true. This show wouldn't be packed with women every night.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Noooooo,most men can be alone they just can’t go without sex 😂I know it sounds bad but it is what it is,men have to have sex so they have to have women around I know it sounds crass but it’s still the truth
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
@@kevinlee9929 not only that. its mostly baby mamas. some haven't even healed physically.
@Bee-sp7mb Жыл бұрын
Seeeee that best friend bullshit will never be okay with me
@MadebyKarenM Жыл бұрын
Gideon wasted his wife’s time for over a decade 😮 wife was second choice, then he went there with the friend (allegedly after divorce) and that didn’t work out and now he has nobody 🙃
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
Wasted time? 😂 Not at all. She stopped doing some very important things, I'd spoken on it, she didn't improve, I offered here, I did so much for her (by HER admission) and anything she wanted was hers. Time wasted? Nah. Never that
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
6:20 Her 3 flaws are: attitude, patience, and anger. But the next sentence is that she's an all-around happy person? 🤔
@mashenka6189 Жыл бұрын
Next sentence was she brings “peace”
@AAM2011 Жыл бұрын
I say 🚩🚩🚩🚩
@AminahMight Жыл бұрын
Yea she’s happy, just don’t piss her off! 😂
@londonnway Жыл бұрын
and i am 😂❤
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
@@AminahMight it clearly aint funny to the men she tried to date 😂
@Sunny_jae Жыл бұрын
Lulu was a breath of fresh air! Beautiful woman! Tonight was the least ghettoest live 😂
@DEBBIEME1200 Жыл бұрын
totally agree, as sometimes i leave the show as the persons come its to pathetic truthfully an embarrassment to themselves.
@ldkea05 Жыл бұрын
Not the “least” ghettoest lol 😅
@subiraaisha5695 Жыл бұрын
The last woman was beautiful but people in the chat was talking about her wearing a waist trainer. Whether she was wearing a waist trainer or not she is still beautiful for age 50 and looks way better and younger than people who were trying to drag her in the chat. The audacity of you when majority of ya'll look old and hard af for your ages.
@charlesedward5216 Жыл бұрын
Pray tell, how do you know how the majority of people in the chat look?
@keepsit100atalltime9 Жыл бұрын
Why can't she just look beautiful instead of looking beautiful for her age?
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
If a guy wore a waist trainer. How would you feel about that .... ?
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
@kevinlee9929 I would think he was sassy, effeminate, exactly what women don't like.
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
@@SweetEssie Cause you know damn well women would have a problem with a guy hiding his fat. Men got a problem with it too.
@rubycubez1103 Жыл бұрын
Its interesting when ppl give long winded vague answers when being asked about the reason they divorce...then they answer the dealbreaker & flaw question and you see why.
@donnareneedd Жыл бұрын
Erica, Capricorn ♑️ alright noooow Lil Sis aaah aaah black don't Crack👑 ❤🙏🏽
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
❤
@KevinSamuelsPowerBottom Жыл бұрын
I know I did not just listen to a formerly-married man conflate listening to/hearing one's partner with spoiling them. What a hellish romantic reality we reside 😂
@Techsi751 Жыл бұрын
I feel for Kendra sometimes, because I feel like women are irrationally coming at her neck. I don’t agree with all of her advice, but 70 percent of what she says is honestly correct when it comes to men’s desires. However Kendra is a very attractive woman surrounded by elite men and she has different life experiences. So somethings aren’t applicable to us average folks. The problem is, is no one thinks they are average anymore it’s like that word is a curse word to people. This message is not just for women, all of us average peoples standards are too high.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Preach the truth in here today you didn’t tell 1 lie,a lot of women don’t like that Kendra tell them what men want they hate the truth even when a woman tells them
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
What about Kendra’s life experience makes her advice not applicable to average people?
@PFlaw317 Жыл бұрын
@@Roccofan She's attractive by most people's standards, and earns more than the average woman..c'mon now
@PFlaw317 Жыл бұрын
As much as people hated Kevin Samuels..he was actually starting important conversations. The very notion of an 'average woman'..in 2023 you can't even say that in mainstream discourse..it's not a very lucrative concept in a world where corporations want to make everyone feel exceptional..even though they know everyone isn't -- all in the effort to extract money. There's nothing wrong with being an average, normal every day person who has stability..the original American middle class after World War II is he actual American Dream...not getting stupid rich. But we have now turned into zombies who worship the one percent on our smart phones. If most men were asked, "would you give up all social media & most of this fancy tech to have a great female companion"?..we would give it all up in a heartbeat. But I don't think as many women would give up social media for a solid relationship.
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
@@PFlaw317 You didn’t answer the question. What does money and her attractiveness have to do with any particular piece of advice? Marry before you carry, look for someone in your area/circle, etc. Pick a piece of advice and tell me what about it makes money and obstacle?
@Themarketplacegirl Жыл бұрын
Gideon was justa lying!!! He been giving eye contact the whole time till Kendra asked if he dealt with his friend while he was married. That man swallowed so hard,words got stuck and then looked off to the side. And how he gone provide for his kids the new woman and her kids 🤦🏽♀️
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
😂 No, no lies. I kept it real.
@Thatbul Жыл бұрын
Vunya, chauntel, Aleyah where amazing catches. I have many cousins and homies that fit what they are looking for and I hope they reach out.
@Divalicious83 Жыл бұрын
They was on it, tonight! Everyone seems to really know what they want and confident. Love it! ❤ hope you all find love 💕
@princerob610 Жыл бұрын
Ain't nothing wrong with a wiser older man don't let her discourage you you are right my dear older better
@NandiJohnston-p6f Жыл бұрын
Hey y'all. Tamia, seems sweet... something about her smile reminds me of singer #KellyPrice 🙂♈ 11:20 Gideon, I know the pain of divorce... hope all heals soon. #Libra rules the 7th House. 16:51 See... *Libras* & that *Seventh House!* ;-) ♎ Vunya seems sweet. 32:55 note: *Libra rules Journalism.* 41:41 his sweatshirt is dope! an #Aries, it's a surprise he's single! Handsome. 45:00 #BobMarley picture in the back... warms me heart. ♈ 52:19 Kendra, this has indeed been a classy night...no shade to the Non-Classy-Base nights; why? Cause those are usually funny! In short, both styles makes for worthy viewing! ♋ 57:26 💖 58:19 💗❤🩹💓♊Lu Lu vibes as good Ppl! near 1:16:00 #DebbieAllen #Sade` the late great lovely #Aaliyah... really made me partial to most #Capricorn women. ♑💜💟💜
@SHES5543 Жыл бұрын
Lulu had that cashapp ready! Her quest for "emotional support" reminds us that even those who care for others can carry their own burdens.
@Themarketplacegirl Жыл бұрын
When people can’t name they flaws just hang up! Smh we too grown not to be self aware
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
Erica knew full well the kind and caliber of man she married. If she knew he was a dog (if he was a Q then that was literally and figuratively true….haha) then she knew deep down he wasn’t going to get brand new when a ring went on his finger. I’m thinking a lot of superficial thinking went into her accepting that offer of marriage.
@acebutterfly2725 Жыл бұрын
Right, she knew what type of man she married. She also said they met the first day of college. Did you have the same level of knowledge and self awareness you have now than you did at the same age? She didn’t come on here bashing him. She acknowledged that he was/is a ladies man and that was it. Obviously they tried to make it work, look how long their marriage lasted.
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
@@acebutterfly2725 Did I have the same level of awareness? Lol. The answer is no, but I’m the WRONG person to ask that question. I went to college to go wife hunting. We’re still married 25yrs later. That said, my criteria were far from superficial. I had a road map for my life with wife and kids already sketched out in the 11th grade.
@romeosdaughter8 ай бұрын
@@Roccofan Rah rah
@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia Жыл бұрын
The so-called Boss Women need to be like some Boss Men. Rent a boyfriend, or learn about the value of a man's present. Boss Men do not want a "Boss Women", because they act and move like men.
@brianfreckles8542 Жыл бұрын
I make 375k as a portfolio risk manager at a wealth management firm. I'm not single but if I were, there is no way in hell would I consider a 50yr old modern woman boss chick - kids or not. It's a recipe for disaster- when her mouth and disrespect starts going, I'll end up paying alimony to her so she can increase her wealth and I get nothing out of it, not even children. I'm older than her and in pretty good shape- I wouldn't waste any of my resources and body on this
@aubreyredditt7714 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia Жыл бұрын
@@brianfreckles8542. Congrats on the salary, any advice for men? With that salary, I buy a rental every year and own a small contracting company with all 1099. Plus a property management business too, that uses your own 1099 people for the service.
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
You must’ve been a fan of Kevin Samuels. The rhetoric sounds really familiar.
@aubreyredditt7714 Жыл бұрын
@erikadorsey I'm not a fan of Samuels but as a MAN who wants A 50 year old boss chick. Being a 50 year old successful black woman may get you want your looking for just saying.
@smack8531 Жыл бұрын
Ekundayo (Dayo) seems like a catch. Chicago singles ladies who fit his preferences should definitely hit him up.
@damion5785 Жыл бұрын
I just want to hear Dayo sing 🗣 Too Be Loved by Eddie Murphy🫂 Someone to missss, someone to kissssss😘😘😘🤪😜
@garymartinez1460 Жыл бұрын
That dress Kendra, Aleya is gorgeous but Lulu is a phd…😳🤔 😍🥰🇪🇨🌎🙏🏽
@marcusyoung2081 Жыл бұрын
A jack of all trades is a master of none!!! Seek a person with a scattered mind, and you will surely find one.
@Whole_Lotta_Substance Жыл бұрын
That saying is very misused and misunderstood. A jack of all trades is a Master of none......but is still better than a master of one. 😅
@pollyeffinpocket1644 Жыл бұрын
They killing me with these fake flaws that make them look good 😂 “ i give too much” or “i spoil my Man/woman too fast” lol chile please
@Thatbul Жыл бұрын
The sad truth is that every women desires to marry up but only black women get backlash for having that standard. I see where both sides are coming from. I understand a women not wanting to be with a guy that makes way less than them and tbh, some men be in competition with their women. I also understand the male side point of view, they believe “ why should my income matter to you if I’m able to take care of myself”. At the end of the day, we have to accept that men and women are pre wired to have certain standards. Just be nice to everyone, even if their standards don’t match you.
@charlesedward5216 Жыл бұрын
Everybody, not just BW have to answer the question, do you qualify for the man/woman you want? For a woman that means can you deliver what the man you want, wants?
@PFlaw317 Жыл бұрын
A lot of BW do not approach dating like women of other groups. Many lack a key word - *humility* If you want to marry up, cool..if that's the case then character & competency need to be the biggest priority..and really the only priority. But you'll see sistas in their 40's with childish expectations like they are still in high school. If a man is taller & cute, that's just a bonus black women!. .looks is not a man's primary job..other women understand the assignment and act accordingly. You don't see women of other groups loudly talking about how they don't need a man, even if they are doing well financially..because they know it's *unattractive* - Why would a rare man in the prime of his life choose a chick who would proudly tell him she doesn't need him , when he has so many women who absolutely understand that they are coming into *his* situation, and not vice versa. That last woman is attractive at 49, but she lacks the humility & self-awareness to understand that it's not all about her. Also - soley looking at one's present day income is extremely short-sighted. I personally know several brothers in that 70 to 100K range, they manage finances well, have little to no debt, minimal expenses, good credit, savings in the bank with real portfolios & upward mobility. In many cases they are actually doing *better* financially than some of these high earning women, especially the women with children (they are spending less & saving more) These men could no doubt hold their own with whatever lifestyle these so called six figure women are purporting to live. But they exercise discipline, require respect, and know that they aren't just some women's entertainment for social media, they know their self-worth. They can get with a woman who will exponentially appreciate what he can bring to her life. A lot of women of other groups seem to have less trouble respecting a man who makes less, and they don't care about the outside optics of how it looks. Sisters need to get off social media and plug into the real world. The last chick will most likely have to either get with a man who is 60+ years old , or be with a guy who doesn't give her 'tingles'. A man the same age in the mid six figures could easily get multiple women in their late 20s/early 30s - she can't compete with them.
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
Didn't you know you were gonna get push back about your comment? Look at these above comments. Nobody wants Black women to have higher standards. They can have them for themselves but not for the men they choose. 😒
@HumptyMcFly Жыл бұрын
Have you listened to WM complain about their women? It’s not only BW, bruh.
@Thatbul Жыл бұрын
@@PFlaw317 I agree with some of your points. A lot of women in our community don’t live in reality but the narrative that other women from other cultures respect their man even if he makes less is not true. One thing I see from black people, they love to talk about how other cultures do this and that and love to put other cultures in a pedestal. In every culture you have people that are delusional and act a certain way. It’s hard for women in our community to accept that they might not get all the traits they have on their list but if we’re being honest, people make exceptions everyday.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Any woman that don’t have kids is a potential partner in my opinion but if they have kids cancel all plans 😂😂😂
@sammie8854 Жыл бұрын
Exactly why I don’t believe in the opposite sex best friends …
@AAM2011 Жыл бұрын
Dayo is cool for a Nigerian dude GOOD LUCK BRO!!!
@k.thompson1943 Жыл бұрын
Yes ladies y’all must jump on Dayo. He’s a catch. Great brother, well-rounded and cultivated.
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
yall stay dissing africans on here 😂. what if someone said you're cool for a blk person?
@smack8531 Жыл бұрын
@@meloran2571 Right!
@AAM2011 Жыл бұрын
@@meloran2571 you seem triggered 😂 I was actually giving this brother a compliment. Get out your feelings fool 🥴🥴
@callmeruthieruth Жыл бұрын
"Anything is possible when you dont have a choice" damn thats real
@CourtneeMoon Жыл бұрын
The sassiness is at an all time high
@sm.r3751 Жыл бұрын
It really is lmaoooo this dude gave me a fake flower on Valentine’s Day and I had the audacity to ask him why a fake one and then he said what about me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂boy gtf on 😭😭
@rupertpeters7909 Жыл бұрын
Tima contradict herself throughout the interview. I doubt they think, no listen to themselves when talking.
@londonnway Жыл бұрын
It’s called nervousness 🙃
@StephanieSmith-lg4ow Жыл бұрын
Yall so mean, I like Ms Tamia n what she had to say. Shelooks like she is relaxing at home , comfortable.
@arryvul Жыл бұрын
Wow Gideon...you kinda gave your wife a bum deal. You never actually chose her. You settled for her because you were REJECTED!
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
Not true. I actually did very well by her. I STILL take care of her and our child. Better to ask questions than assume answers.
@arryvul Жыл бұрын
@@gideoninc8687 that's commendable! I'm specifically speaking of life partnership and commitment. Just an opinion bro from someone who could care less. It's the comment section🤷🏿
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
@@arryvul I'm avoiding saying why I divorced her because I don't want to have footage my son's can see of their father bashing their mother online. I feel a man shouldn't do that to the mother of his child but she knows the issues we had and that's all that matters
@And1one757 Жыл бұрын
That literally every man in history what you talking about... you marry the chick that your at the very least attracted tooand the women that gives the most access and says yes unless your like a celebrity guy or top 5% that how the game goes
@arryvul Жыл бұрын
🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢😂... your options sound extremely limited and almost desperate. Speak for yourself!
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
18:54 Gideon gave a lot of vague answers to serious questions.
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
Like what? I'll give a more detailed answer here. I just don't want to bash anyone else. I'll hold the L on some stuff
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
@@gideoninc8687 How did your marriage end? What did your ex do with some other man?
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
@@Roccofan marriage ended because of communication and I'll just say a hygiene issue. I don't want to go hard on her online because she's still the mother of my kids. With my last ex, well she booked and is going on a cruise with another man so I had to leave. If I let that go she will NEVER respect me
@romeosdaughter8 ай бұрын
@@gideoninc8687 You already said enough that is ugly and disrespectful. Whatever you put out in the metasphere regarding your children's mom should not embarrass them.
@TheCakediva08 Жыл бұрын
Im gonna holla at Gideon. He is my type
@erehistruth2356 Жыл бұрын
Watch out for them female friends girl.
@Ronni-hh1vj4 ай бұрын
So Lulu thought Albany Ga would be a place for her....how can she be impatient, with all of health issues.....wrong place.
@yaalove3736 Жыл бұрын
Everybody wanna move to Atlanta but I PROMISE we ARE full!!! We are overcrowded!!! We are stuffed!!! Signed an Atlanta native!!! Sigh…. Did y’all know we have like 49 other states… ijs
@crazyDayz27 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 they are going expecting a huge life change that the media feeds them. Lol
@keepsit100atalltime9 Жыл бұрын
I thought everybody was moving to Texas.
@lisac12 Жыл бұрын
😂 They all coming to my city Charlotte N.C.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
I advise only men to move here to take some of these single women off the streets here cause if you a woman and come here get ready to COMPETE!
@lynnbroxton3527 Жыл бұрын
Don't come to TX either... WE ARE PHULL FULL....LOL
@Montfresh24 Жыл бұрын
I love blonde Kendra!! 🥳
@ga9100 Жыл бұрын
These women are asking for all these wonderful things,what are the guys getting besides being someones step dad ❓️
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
Listen to the "Why would a man be lucky to be with you?" part
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
@@SweetEssieYou mean 1 of main the parts that they normally struggle with ....
@yellowbears1 Жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. If you don't want to be a stepdad, dont date women with children as simple as that. But stop sounding stupid like black men run from the responsibility of possibly being a stepfather. Black men already have enough negative stereotypes to contend with.
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
@kevinlee9929 No, I mean the part that answers the question for every red piller like you: What you do bring to the table?
@indianajones443 Жыл бұрын
@@kevinlee9929 you ain't lying. That question really opens your eyes up to the fact that men really don't benefit from being in a relationship other than bearing kids.
@bossibunz8143 Жыл бұрын
This live was great. Vunya & Alexis stood out most to me. Good catches tonight tho. Good luck!
@Leonard-c9m Жыл бұрын
It amazes me that people who don't smoke can't keep a relationship...WOW
@vincentmartin1863 Жыл бұрын
Erica is a beautiful woman with great personality
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
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@aubreyredditt7714 Жыл бұрын
Rescue? Where could you possibly be meeting men at that you have to rescue. Maybe it's your choices.
@zziz6137 Жыл бұрын
Vunya is not a good woman when she judges someone based on the color of their skin.
@Vunya9 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t judge she asked me MY PREFERENCE I told her
@zziz6137 Жыл бұрын
@@Vunya9 she didn't ask you about your preference, she just asked you does he HAVE to look a certain way and you said what you said.
@Vunya9 Жыл бұрын
@@zziz6137 I’m not here to argue I said what I said I just said I don’t like light skins I don’t care about his race white Mexican Japanese idc just not light skins you must be a light skin ?
@zziz6137 Жыл бұрын
@@Vunya9 I'm not trying to argue with you either, I'm just stating my opinion about it, you can like whoever you want at the end of the day.
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
@@zziz6137It's just funny how it's OK for women to flat out say what skintone of men they don't like. But if men do the same. All hell breaks loose.
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
Erica looks like Rihanna with the forehead. She might be some kin. If you squint, you can see the All I see is signs. All i see is dollar signs" singer.
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
Haha! Okay
@BassickSounds1 Жыл бұрын
Lulu, they get it without the diabetes and hypertension and heart disease
@Kensane12 Жыл бұрын
She has issues with her lack of patience and has anger issues but then says she’s drama-free…..riiiight.😅
@sheenaturner1939 Жыл бұрын
I like Gideon. He seems like a good guy and a great communicator. He was also very honest. Good luck ladies
@gideoninc8687 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm far from perfect but I own my flaws
@siddaye Жыл бұрын
Kendra just said corpus crispy haha
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
Sounds like the name of a chicken shack 😂
@ManVag-k7g Жыл бұрын
Corporate crispy lmao
@KendraGMedia Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jay-t1030 Жыл бұрын
If this show proves *anything* is that the 80/20 rule is very true. 80% of the women are only interested in top 20% men
@SweetEssie Жыл бұрын
Maybe those men need to do better
@JAYWIL01 Жыл бұрын
Average men need to be passport bros.
@Techsi751 Жыл бұрын
I mean that kind of goes for everyone, ig has made men believe there are more beautiful women then there actually are and women believe there are more men with higher incomes then there actually is. You could go to most targets or Walmarts and find out that both are not true.
@JAYWIL01 Жыл бұрын
I get your perspective. Beautiful women are everywhere and guys will sleep with almost anything. The issue is women for some reason think that men making money will only be with them. Broke men want to sleep around too. Most of the women that come on the show that are divorced blame it on infidelity. Women will never have a problem obtaining a man, now him being faithful will be the problem.
@_astraeus_9045 Жыл бұрын
@@SweetEssiemaybe those women need to choose better.
@wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын
❤❤ that color looks good Kendra!
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
1:13:42 I love it. Erica is looking for me. LOL. My wife isn’t into sharing. I wish her the best, but men that make it to that level of earning are rarely single. We married early because we saw the benefits and found someone that was ready to support our goals to provide at that level. As lovely, fit, and youthful looking as Erica is, I can’t imagine a 50+ yr old man wanting her dynamic in their lives. Boss babes are a lot to handle. Their jobs aren’t feminine and they didn’t get to those heights by turning off their level of assertiveness at 5:30PM. Best of luck, Erica. Send me one of those cool umbrella’s when you get a chance. 😂
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
This comment was thoroughly entertaining. Thank you.
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
It is easy for me to let a man lead if he has the character of a leader. I will give honor where honor is due. By the way, I was a great wife and a super mom. I cooked, cleaned, took care of the home and rocked it at work. It’s not that difficult to do it all. AND… I didn’t have to be a man to be successful. There’s a lot of diversity training out there, and I will be glad to recommend some resources if you would like. In fact, I’m writing a book about it so check for it later.
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
@erikadorsey Sooooo is that a “no” to the umbrella? :) Again, I wish you the best. Also, I’m good on the diversity training. That said, have you sensed/witnessed any change/shift/unease in your organization after the supreme court ruling on affirmative action?
@Itzsheila3087 Жыл бұрын
Love Erica🔥Capricorn Twin🤣🤣
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
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@10_door_tycoon Жыл бұрын
Kendra, the western world mainly Western Europe and the USA are two of the main places on earth where women don’t date older men in massively higher numbers. In most of the rest of the world women have usually dated older men for hundreds if not thousands of years. Especially in Africa! My ex from from Brazil shot me down in the beginning because she thought I was too young even though we were both the same age! I think 10 years older is a good combination for a woman looking for something serious.
@acebutterfly2725 Жыл бұрын
The request for an older man is not largely about the AGE, it’s about the MONEY. These wmn, especially in poorer nations, equate a man of their age with not having the ability to provide. Instead of saying they don’t date men that cannot provide, they say they date men that are older. The only difference is in 🇺🇸 most wmn don’t have a problem with letting it be known that they want you to have 💰
@10_door_tycoon Жыл бұрын
@@acebutterfly2725 My ex would disagree. In her words it was due to what she called “experienca.” In Brazil women think older men are more likely to know more in general than younger men. So if you are a woman who really wants to learn something from her man then you probably aren’t dating someone younger. Especially if you are in your 20’s.
@acebutterfly2725 Жыл бұрын
@@10_door_tycoon You misunderstood my comment this is why I used the word “largely” instead of “always” meaning, more often than not, my comment is true. Yes, wmn may fall outside that reason and truly want an older man (as you claim, that was the desire of your ex girlfriend). But “experience”, “prefer older” etc are code words for 💰. It is a matter of being polite. Are you telling me these wmn in Brazil and poor nations are going to choose an “experienced” broke man over a wealthy man their age? Nah
@londonnway Жыл бұрын
OMG I was not prepared at all and she picked me first 🤦🏾♀️😂, I feel like I looked a mess but I could’ve been worse so I thank God for that 🙏🏾, & y’all negative people, your life probably shit anyways. & and I bet my life yall wouldn’t approach me in real life 🥱 but proceed gremlins 👹 anyways, thank you Kendra for the experience
@mwoods2375 Жыл бұрын
EDorsey....girl you look gooooood!
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
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@JoyT01 Жыл бұрын
Wow! EDorsey77 you look amazing! Can I get your skin care regimen lol
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
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@shawndaniel5503 Жыл бұрын
Gideon’s Best Friend Is His Dream Girl
@lovein4k2066 ай бұрын
Gideon will spoil you then ask yo borrow $100 until he gets paid…😂
@safia9536 Жыл бұрын
Men don't care about the money she makes.. and women wont submit because she will NOT be played by being broke.. then she gets carried away and demands equal income or better than her supposed 6 figure salary.. Because somehow, money makes up the content of our character nowdays.. Good luck yall
@princerob610 Жыл бұрын
Dam!!! You look amazing!!
@khrisstake2210 Жыл бұрын
The amount of women that wants a super successful men AND he's attractive AND has the amount of fun he has to have???? Ok....
@MzConcept13 Жыл бұрын
Erica needs to drop the skincare routine for real!
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
And thank you so much for the kind words
@MzConcept13 Жыл бұрын
@erikadorsey girl!!!! Those are not kind words only, I'm dead serious!....let me know here in the comments what you use mama! 🤔🤔
@GIRLY4293 Жыл бұрын
Why is it always a problem for black women to require certain things; especially a provider and a man with a good career. They never question other races of women or are confused when they require the same standards though.
@erinjohnson4954 Жыл бұрын
Yunya that's a pretty name this girl has her head on straight 👍👍👍
@thais1780 Жыл бұрын
This was the best live in a long time!
@latoyaracquel1680 Жыл бұрын
Dayo seems like a solid candidate
@SoulrebelZay Жыл бұрын
Dayo and Aleyah should consider dating.
@FrenchJae Жыл бұрын
Dayo had on a "Jollof University" shirt on. 🤣🤦🏾♂️ These tethers boy.
@Ronni-hh1vj4 ай бұрын
Lulu, no one wants to be bothered with all of that.
@hollicarr6317 Жыл бұрын
Erica is dope. Boss babes I love it.
@matthwscott80 Жыл бұрын
Lol really ok let's see how that works out for her. Single over 2 yrs now. Empire for what she's 49 just live and enjoy life. Time is of the essence her kids in college who are you building for at this stage of life
@ED_711 Жыл бұрын
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@marquishajeng8606 Жыл бұрын
@@matthwscott80 this is the stupidest comment I’ve seen. What do you mean who is she building for? I need men of today to release themselves from the shackles of being content with the bare minimum. Good grief. 🙄
@LifeofDestinyB Жыл бұрын
I know what Tamia meant cuz i had a dude talkin about why you dont come around and open my door blah blah…like some of these dudes wanna be treated like queens lmao
@mscartersjourney4210 Жыл бұрын
Ms. Kendra done went and bought her some Beyoncé hair.
@PFlaw317 Жыл бұрын
The 25 year old was coo for a girl of her age. But when asked what she would do to spoil her man. She said i'll cook and show affection 🤣🤣Um...yeah..that's the bare minimum in a relationship.
@rosemiller462210 ай бұрын
Lulu says shes been through a lot, and now she wants a man to add to the "alot" , chiile
@crazyDayz27 Жыл бұрын
A man "significantly in the 6 figures" aint choosing no Damn 50 year old. When will this click in ur Brains????? 😂😂😂
@crazyDayz27 Жыл бұрын
Before yall get mad. I'm not saying it can't happen but more than likely it won't happen. Whether u ask GOD or not. Lol
@theurbanphilosopherz Жыл бұрын
😂
@JAYWIL01 Жыл бұрын
@@crazyDayz27And she's independent, lol
@brianfreckles8542 Жыл бұрын
It's a Gen X female disease. The younger ones are learning but it's too late for GenX blk women
@gemeaux2000 Жыл бұрын
No man wants to date another "MAN".... And that is exactly what she is..
@mscartersjourney4210 Жыл бұрын
Vunya sounds like she’s in a job interview lol.
@Lifeisgoodonearth Жыл бұрын
Dayo was refreshing. Seems like a very nice man.
@JaysRandomnessChannel Жыл бұрын
5:25 it NEVER fails...🤦🏾♂️
@jay-t1030 Жыл бұрын
Ratchet AF & very low class 😷
@bellamonroe7322 Жыл бұрын
God bless LuLu but all men are gonna do is use her Kendra giving her cash app that’s going to another man 😢😢😢
@ericanderson7059 Жыл бұрын
Vunya was sweet and simple , prepared and concise , well done young lady .
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
You must haven't been to her IG tho. Middle fingers pointed up looking ratchet.
@PFlaw317 Жыл бұрын
@@Rashaadthegr8 dang..that's disappointing
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
@@PFlaw317 huh?
@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын
Aleyah weakness: patience and cutting off people quick.
@an9513 Жыл бұрын
Erica is 49!!!!!!??????????? Woooow but I think she needs to use her recourses and hire a matchmaker.