Sins Of The Tongue | Gossip, Slander, & Flattery

[@32ninjavanish]

Gossip is next on the list of things I need to work on.

[@taniadenise5145]

The fear of God is the first step of wisdom.

[@unkown312]

Amen. I agree.

[@jenayaha1386]

One of the most common sins that rarely is talked about.

[@CharcoalCinema]

You'll reap what you sowed .

[@JesseCamera]

I really appreciate the bold preaching pastor Joel. Clear, concise and biblical. This is the kind of teaching we all need.

[@lobsterbisque7567]

Jesse Camera Amen!! it's so sad to see so many 'teachers' go soft at critical times when the flock is in need of guidance & encouragement. May we all speak out boldly on behalf of God's truth and to be well studied in his Word when we do so. Keep Holding lone, Brother!! Never give up! May The Lord keep us close throughout our Lives!

[@RightResponseMinistries]

Thank you!

[@taniadenise5145]

All Glory to God. 🕊

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Gossip is not always true. Gossip is when someone spreads lies about you because they don’t know the whole story.

[@altheacarls9572]

Fully agree with this. It's the carrying of a story heard, regardless of whether true or false, with haste, without establishing the veracity of it, without thought of whether or could be damning against the person being spoken of. I aliken the carrying of gossip like a hot coal in the hand of the hearer - they just can't wait to drop it off into the next carrier's hands (or ears). The hearer also engages in the "tale" and adds his or her own flavor to it.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

@@altheacarls9572 And slander is malicious. The person that slanders you hates you. It’s sad!

[@joeyrose1245]

Great words, Pastor Joel. I recently, like last month, got caught up in the crossfire of a gossiping situation which 2 wives of church leaders slandered another church leader and other members (including my wife). I brought these issues to our Pastor and he basically told me to not let these women’s gossiping bother me. Nothing was done about this issue, so we are leaving this church. Pray for us.

[@clintonmoyah7086]

I'm learning to be a better person to learn not to be toxic by trying not to be around thes type of people I need to learn to except positve wisdom such as this message teaches to be better in life

[@CharcoalCinema]

In the past twenty five years , I haven't spoken to you not even twenty times . TRUTH .

[@sambrewster7090]

Amen praise God

[@PowersFamily2011]

I was under the impression that gossiping is telling secrets that you agreed not to tell. Slander is telling something negative (true or false) while a person is present or absent, in order to harm their character or reputation.

[@PillarOfGrace]

I needed this.

[@glenwatkins5351]

I saw the title and was scared to look because I really could use some encouragment. I clicked on it anyways and I am glad I did. I grew up in a group that relies on flattery and slander to control the narrative and relative positions of people. And you get one or the other depending on whether you talk about truth or not. It took so many years for me to even realize I was in a fog.. I pray for my family. That they are able to know how loved and accepted they are as is, and that the truth is the way, is the life. What you said helped me so much..

[@marcoac5246]

we all done it lets try and see life thru jeshua's eyes our best, may he forgive us and have mercy on us. 🙏

[@DoctorCarrieHall]

Good morning, watching from Tulsa Oklahoma It's amazing how much this goes on in leadership in churches. I experienced this recently in the church I attend. I was hurt but forgiving toward them. Our pastor doesn't have a clue what they are doing with their tongues.

[@CharcoalCinema]

If God's for me , who can be against me ?

[@FdUPOSTK]

I will NEVER forget or forgive the lies they continue to spread!! They ruined me emotionally and i HATE them!!

[@kanobutcher7849]

Forgive so the LORD can forgive you. God bless you

[@danielfaithmade]

If you don’t forgive, you will not be forgiven. Make no mistake - every sin ever committed will be punished in one of two ways: either in Christ or apart from Christ. If you want your sins to be punished in Christ, but you want your enemies to go to Hell for the sins they committed, especially when they’ve sinned against you, then you’re a hypocrite. I say this out of love because I used to think the way you do, which is a completely unholy and unloving mindset. Jesus shed His blood for the sins of the whole world, even for my enemies, and I fully embrace that concept. I also challenge you to pray for strongest enemy for 30 days and see how tender your heart becomes. It really works.

[@CharcoalCinema]

I stood still and my intuition let me know .

[@jodyt3060]

The Bible says that the people who practice gossip and slander, complaining and criticizing will not inherit the kingdom of God.. These are works of the flesh according to Galatians chapter 5.. Also refer to 1 Corinthians chapter 6 9 through 11

[@seanmick3093]

I trusted in the Lord of Jesus Christ as my personal savior into my heart through faith alone, and not of works, by accepting his free gift of salvation, by his grace on February 16, 1996, each day, I confess sins for process of sanctification, to receive Jesus Christ as your personal savior, please refer to Matthew 10:28, John 3:16-18:36, 5:24, 6:37:47, 10:27-29, 14:6, Acts 2:38, 16:30-31, Luke 15:10, Roman's 1:16, 3:23, 4:5, 6:23, 10:9-10:13, Ephesians 2:8-10, and Titus 3:5. God bless the world, and thank you for sharing.

[@Veckoza]

I'm happy to see Matt Walsh's brother is getting work.

[@lobsterbisque7567]

😆😆😆Intelligent Liberal...😆😆😆 Thank You, Pastor Joel! May The Lord continue to Bless Your minstry! Your Boldness is much needed! And Thank You for speaking out against Woke Pastors like Tim Keller! I didn't know he openly endorsed clinton in '16, and was a registered dem. I have one of his books, and stopped reading it immediately after hearing that from You! Praise The Lord for his Truth, and Objective Justice!

[@CharcoalCinema]

I ain't apologizing for anything that I didn't do .

[@CharcoalCinema]

Amen .

[@CharcoalCinema]

I'm your CONSCIENCE.

[@CharcoalCinema]

Remember now , no lies .

[@dande19]

The comment “intelligent liberal” ironically was an example of slander.

[@Tylerstrodtman]

This understanding would have prevented a very unfortunate, massive church split in my prior church where the pastor thought any encouragement toward improvement or expression of concern for his own wellbeing and that of his family was gossip and slander. In fact, those two terms were used singularly, "gossip and slander," never separately, always together. It turned into aggressive, baseless witch hunts and endless threats of church discipline for vague ideas of "gossip and slander," with no timeline for actual resolution. In my opinion, all for the sake of preserving the reputation of the pastor. It became very abusive very quickly, private conversations were quoted out of context during sermons, and those who were targeted by this knew it immediately. The pulpit was being used as a weapon to keep the supposed dissenters in line. Rules about fellowship at the church building even on the Lord's Day were tightened so that the elders could monitor conversations. Ugly stuff. And all because one church member, in love, went to an elder with a concern for another elder's wellbeing, owned their own words with integrity, never said anything privately to others, but simply asked an elder to check in with the one in question.

[@CharcoalCinema]

A lesson to not be naive . This man took me to a bar about twenty five and when we walked in , there was a Confederate flag on the wall . I'm with him , so I can't leave and I can only suggest .

[@KevinKake_]

“Intelligent Liberal” 😂

[@CharcoalCinema]

I don't smoke weed and I've never tried drugs .

[@CharcoalCinema]

Went to the restroom inside the bar and got surrounded by two red necks with pocket knives , with menacing looks and not using the restroom .

[@flower18777]

Hi! I have a question, how can I tell a coworker who says she is a Christian but she curses and uses the Lord's name in vain all the time. Should I reproof or keep quiet? I'm not perfect but I know I don't use the Lord's name in vain 😞😔it's so exhausting to hear her everyday. Thank you Pastor Joel🙏✝️God bless you!

[@32ninjavanish]

Cursing is kinda like smoking. Once you do it enough, it feels natural and it gets hard to quit. Plus, being around it makes you wanna do it. I have to remind myself all the time when I slip up. It's usually at work when I'm around other people who curse. I never take the Lord's name in vain though. You could politely ask her not to curse so much. 🤷

[@taniadenise5145]

Speak the truth to her in Love. At one stage I used to do it as I was not aware. Iron sharpens iron. 🕊

[@CharcoalCinema]

I had one beer this month , one .

[@CharcoalCinema]

You didn't know I went to Lincoln did you ? Exactly .

[@OathKeeper1506]

Let the truth be the truth. If a coworker for example isn't pulling their weight day after day, venting to another coworker is just that. Venting! Their lack of contribution shouldn't be your problem but often times is. I cause enough of my own frustrations and shouldn't have to deal with continual frustrations from others. They're lack of contribution should be no one else's problem. Gossip would be demeaning their character and harming their reputation. We need to vent otherwise it will come out in other negative ways maybe toward family members, ourselves or even God. What Paul was saying is that everyone should be doing what they have been assigned to do. Paul vents all the time in scripture.

[@CharcoalCinema]

Thought I forgot ? Driving your little maroon Grand AM .

[@CharcoalCinema]

That bar was in Sikeston , Missouri , near Bo's Barbeque or something like that .

[@CharcoalCinema]

I stay sober .

[@CharcoalCinema]

I never drove a car intoxicated .

[@CharcoalCinema]

I drink COFFEE, morning , noon , and night .

[@BigBenFactor7]

This is my first visit here. I thought I was watching a clip of Matt Walsh here, but you call him Rob? I checked About, but do not see any names. The photo above shows several speakers. Give me a little big more about this channel. I enjoyed today's message. Thanks. :)

[@foghornleghorn262]

In a word "Facebook".

[@user-tt1pm2uc6z]

Gossip is unconfirmed information not true information.

[@kevindavis4709]

Is it gossiping when you say your friend is an awesome child of God building a legacy?

[@CharcoalCinema]

I don't drink alcohol any longer .

[@mermelada1327]

Why did I think this was Matt Walsh😂

[@scripturehelps]

Deut 16 to 21 "if a false witness testifies against someone, accusing him of a crime, both parties to the dispute must stand in the presence of the LORD, before the priests and judges who are in office at that time. The judges shall investigate thoroughly, and if the witness is proven to be a liar who has falsely accused his brother, you must do to him as he intended to do to his brother. So you must purge the evil from among you.c Then the rest of the people will hear and be afraid, and they will never again do anything so evil among you. You must show no pity: life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth,d hand for hand, and foot for foot. This why Jesus promises to send (or allow) a great delusion in 2nd Thessalonians).

[@CharcoalCinema]

Correction, about twenty two years ago .

[@sayyyhai]

Where is the full message, please?

[@CharcoalCinema]

You've never been my friend and I've never been yours .

[@marchelridgeway]

I agree with you on most things and I think this teaching is overall great, however, I find it hypocritical in a sense to have a video about slander and talk about intent and slide in a joke tearing down liberals. I’m a conservative myself and I understand it was a joke but I feel like it wasn’t the best fit in this context however true it may or may not be. I appreciate your message though, discernment and learning about how to best honor God through our words and actions is definitely something we need in the world to be taught on.

[@marchelridgeway]

I also realized this was a year ago and that’s a long time to grow and change. I don’t expect an apology by any means but thought you should be aware.

[@JohnWelcome-cq1ce]

I never did that that not way I am

[@maddyupchurch8917]

Thank you for this message but is it necessary to make it political?

[@CharcoalCinema]

You're barking up the tree . I'm standing on ten toes .

[@gibsonlespaul6135]

Remind me when Jesus preached hate towards others

[@technodan3083]

John 8 with the Pharisees.

[@CharcoalCinema]

I don't drink . I've had maybe eight beers in the last ten years .

[@CharcoalCinema]

Normally it's the drunk one with the lose tongue .

[@user-kevincharley907]

Malice and slander cohorts.

[@CharcoalCinema]

The chapter is over , ending this story . It's time for the new book .

[@roquerincon3722]

Matt Walsh’s brother?

[@CharcoalCinema]

Oreo cookie dude .

[@CharcoalCinema]

I won't say your name . I DON'T HAVE TO .

[@CharcoalCinema]

That man lied on me .

[@CharcoalCinema]

You are who you were thirty years ago .

[@Rusticsewing]

bacon, bacon, pancake!

[@EchelonDon]

Is that matt Walsh?? Lol

[@micahlantz905]

So have you been gossiping about Tim Keller and the BigEva types?

[@RightResponseMinistries]

Nope. Calling out error is a valid biblical category.

[@micahlantz905]

@@RightResponseMinistries exactly right! I think when talking about gossip, it's an extremely important qualification to make the distinction because when you defined gossip here, all I could hear was the libs saying that you have gossiped about so many. That much of your ministry is gossip. This is a major misunderstanding in a vast majority of the church in our culture

[@RightResponseMinistries]

@@micahlantz905 you’re right. It’s an important qualification.

[@CharcoalCinema]

That's man drinks and drives drunk .

[@CharcoalCinema]

That's man drinks alcohol and gets drunk .

[@CharcoalCinema]

Trying to make yourself seem ,,". Hood " at my expense .

[@CharcoalCinema]

Don't slander my name to another family . Understand ?

[@JordanEvansMusic]

It’s such a shame that a powerful message was tainted by a snide political joke. Totally out of line and really turned me off to this guy. It just has no place in these types of discussions to take a shot at your enemy who could be a fellow Christ follower

[@CharcoalCinema]

But the people in this bar were kind of fond of you .

[@CharcoalCinema]

That man smokes weed and experiments with drugs .

[@michellement2158]

I needed more examples explanations and how to stop doing this pastor

[@Inverted.surfer]

You never mentioned murder and destruction of another.... This was a weak exposition on this subject.... #"*';?(!# Uhmmmm i'll leave it at that....

[@theresaread72]

You chastise Women that are unsaved in culture around us. Paul said that he did not judge outside the church. And then you appear to blame’s Christian women for this sin also. You mix categories. Pastor teach the World of God, it’s up to the Holy Spirit to convict of sin. You are accusing Christian’s of evil but you don’t know they are sinning in that way. Dominionism is unbiblical. Jesus and the Apostles preach the Gospel, and how to live holy.

[@A_Flourishing_Life]

Im not exactly sure what you are saying but As a Christian it helps me to know what the specific sins are so that I can ask the Lord to cleanse me and take steps to please Him.

[@misskrish5930]

Intelligent liberal?? wow

[@CharcoalCinema]

Oreo cookie dude .