Nozipho Ntshangase finally Xpose deepest shocking secrets we didn’t know about her husband😭💔

The mommy club Nozipho Ntshangase

[@angelk3912]

I will never ever sbwl people’s relationships 😭

[@loratomoalosi7560]

Instagram life

[@yy.unlimited]

Biggest lesson I learnt this year 💯

[@cebile1493]

@@angelk3912 I learned this 10 years ago with a couple I knew that time I was still young, naive and impressionable

[@SPM-uq4br]

even marriages😢

[@Leetso]

Hai😢

[@ezy78667]

Wee need to draw a line between being generous and lacking boundaries/being naive. Nozi needs to love herself & understand that self sacrifice doesn't mean love... Self love is important, she needs to love herself because if you lack self love, this is how men will use you, for your energy, domestic labour, emotional labour, giving birth & then when they're done, they'll trash you in the bin will 8 kids. This man kept showing her who he was & she chose to ignore everything.

[@sipandrelax]

I agree 1000%

[@sipandrelax]

I agree 1000%

[@loratomoalosi7560]

She should have ran when she found out he had 3 kids he lied about. Forgiving a cheating man is letting him continue making you a fool

[@Ithabeleng_Kopo]

I also feel like she didn’t open up, there’s probably more that went down in that marriage, and shame she looks tired/fatigued nje. But I think she’s still in the early stages of it also, the denial… I hope she lets it all go

[@loratomoalosi7560]

@@Ithabeleng_Kopo she has bekezelad and it didn't help as usual. Men choose themselves always.

[@andilengubane5178]

Pure hearts and pure love does not mean anything to a broken man!

[@sipandrelax]

I agree

[@nbee6217]

Injalo nje.

[@beershebagiwu3527]

Having pure hearts will satisfy you but won’t protect you from terrible situations. She needs to chose herself…

[@NyrahKudu]

Faaaaaaacccccccttttttsssssss!!!!!!!

[@buyisiwenzima5639]

Very true

[@lindalove]

She was doing too much as a girlfriend .. this was were he saw that she was a walkover.

[@sipandrelax]

True

[@sibusisiwemzoneli3665]

True better if all this happened when they were married. I would understand it's part of building a family instead of kids living without structure if there is an opportunity for structure.

[@nelzg5819]

No woman gets treated like a fool and a walk over than an understanding wife or understanding gf. A man perceivws u to be weak. Check how thwybtreat the Crazy and wicked wives and or gfs. They respect and fear those

[@LuyandaAugust]

Imagine sacrificing you studies to become a Dr. That man was jelous of her from the start. Also raising boyfriends kids was a no no

[@loratomoalosi7560]

@@LuyandaAugust never park your life for a man.

[@musakhumalo4358]

No, she wasn’t doing medicine, she was doing psychology at Wits and she graduated but never looked for a job she remained a house wife

[@pheladi6348]

Sometimes we are meant to be with the people we love for a certain period & then when they chose to leave we must release them.

[@sipandrelax]

I hear you ❤️

[@FineWine.]

Let them go !

[@buyisiwenzima5639]

You can't force them any way , let them go

[@ramogohlotebatso5039]

honestly you must just let go...you are never gonna find peace

[@nelzg5819]

My opinion agrees with yours. This guy didnt change on her now. He has beeeeeen a walking redflag. Its better to let go and choose your sanity and happiness

[@sipandrelax]

He was never honest and Nozi chose to stay, so sad.

[@sheilladovle4969]

She knew exactly the kind of guy she was getting married to but she decided to ignore all 🚩🚩🚩.

[@nelzg5819]

​@@sheilladovle4969exactly. The red flags were there long before they said their, "I do's" she just chose to continue to love him. Im so selfish nge ntliziyo yam angduni ngami. Amadoda will leave u in the desert without water with all eight kids most if which r his. Men for u. Women must wake up

[@TsoareloKobue]

Yey guys Its not easy when love you down for anything 😢😢and it's heartbreaking

[@nelzg5819]

​@@TsoareloKobuenot at all but the blame game isn't going to work there's no room for it. She says the lady did something to him, muthi but the truth is this guy left his very young kids , babies and slept around cheating. This him she must not make excuses for him. He chose to leave all those young women he impregnated and cheated on to marry her now she is the victim decades later. There's no foul play, its her mans character nje

[@koena.kreates]

I totally agree with you, she was definitely forcing to be married to this guy. She should have never gotten back with a grown man who lied about having not 1 but 3 young kids. If a person can easily lie or withhold the truth about something so important early on in the relationship, then they can truly do horrible and unexpected things to you later on.

[@nomvula573]

After the 3rd child him keepin secrets & lies i would have packed my bagsand left...i feel most women stay because of material things until its bad...period😳🙌

[@nelzg5819]

They do stay for material things and we must feel sorry for them . no ways. We respect honest women who put themselves first and love themselves now. Not this nonsense of posting lies and a perfect life built on a lie

[@dineosibiya2123]

saba imali she stayed

[@Zee0126]

This Man is a player is for the streets.Wish Nozi well

[@sipandrelax]

He is, He had 3 babies and 3 baby mamas at 25 👀 I forgot to mention

[@sethembilegwamanda4819]

​@@sipandrelaximagine. I worry about the virgin girl he is marrying now, women don't want to learn history, they choose to be blind because of glitz in front of them. What goes around always comes back around

[@amahKebonang]

They had a beautiful home,I don't think that man's life will ever be the same again, women like Nozi aren't easy to find....

[@hloniphasibabalwengubo2405]

The is nothing admirable about self sacrificing bafazi . We really need to pray this demon out of us .

[@yv1234]

I wish her well. She has a good heart ❤ Hope she finds someone who will love her for her

[@sipandrelax]

I think she must love herself first ❤️

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

And good heart they step on sad part

[@no_prisoners6474]

Or just raise her children

[@nelzg5819]

She should focus on her kids . they have all these kids who r now broken. Mjolo cam wait

[@patriciakhumalo6977]

Life lesson: never ever mother a man he will show you flames😮

[@MsSwanlake]

True, send him back to his mother to mother him!

[@sibongilemngomezulu3454]

I once read that most men don't marry a woman they love most but always choose the one they can walk over and they always stay😢

[@buhlempungose552]

So true

[@rachemolefe6687]

Exactly

[@MsSwanlake]

Men like these love nobody including the new lady He's like Lebo M, they leave their victims with PTSD

[@nelzg5819]

They marry the one they will feba on and she will tolerate for the rest if their lives

[@nosiphoradebe6297]

What he does to others, he will do to you.

[@sipandrelax]

True

[@cebile1493]

@@nosiphoradebe6297 exactly!!!

[@gracedrosie5127]

absolutely, i like how most bitches be delutional and think other women are problems.

[@absolutelymissrati7584]

Oh yes, she's no exception

[@nelzg5819]

Yep. He left his baby mommas and one kid was still a baby. He did that to her with their last born and lefr her for the other woman. Karma

[@1phindy]

So this guy doesn't mind risking other people's health just so he can get off? Selfish

[@no_prisoners6474]

To say the least

[@bongiwemfengu-tn3ob]

A true narcissist

[@MsSwanlake]

This man is deadbeat and phara in nature, Nozi helped him get himself together and build his wealth but good luck to the next supply cause Woooow🔥🔥🔥

[@bongiwemfengu-tn3ob]

“Supply” spot on 👌👌

[@lmx113]

And there are potentially more kids 🤔

[@charlottenyalungu5956]

Don't change who you're Nozi, you're such a loving beautiful human being God is good rewards it's on your way I'm really understanding your story you really loved this guy unconditionally ❤❤❤

[@faithkhanyile2579]

Why did she stay? He lied from the word "go" about big things. continuously . He's a selfish and irresponsible man. She needs to seek therapy to establish why she thought this man/relationship was good enough for her.

[@LorraineHlazana]

They say wise people learn from the mistakes of others. I'm learning. The first red flag is when he lied about his kids and the second was finding out that he has 3 kids from 3 different women. She loved him and she thought he'd change. The mind probably told her one thing but the heart told her something different

[@nelzg5819]

Sadly Nozipho is the woman our black society, our aunts ,mothers and grandmothers advise us to be. She is also the woman no woman who knows their value wishes to be especially not in this era. She is everything we do not want to be. Be played be lied to, sacrifice your own comfort life and happiness to be a good wife and a good mother to his other kids only to and up like the baby mamas he has left after all these years. No ways

[@mathabomaabane5689]

Too many women allow such.is sad that she had to go through it but she chose to go through it.

[@sipandrelax]

It’s really sad

[@cebile1493]

It's giving Reesa Teesa but in this version there was financial stability and many infidelity kids

[@andeevoyi4853]

😂😂😂😂

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

But the kids were done not while they were dating

[@cebile1493]

@@murielmoyahabo6078 this guy hid the 3 kids before he got with her and she found out after and you expect me to believe he didn't make kids outside while they were dating or married yoh guys yekelani😂😅😭😭😭

[@cebile1493]

@@murielmoyahabo6078 we not sure about that because he hid the 2 while she was preggy plus that third one while she was preggy that woman was preggy too....sometimes the the little details tell u alot about a person

[@zandilemnisi6771]

She needs therapy because at some point she knew he was a red flag but proceeded with the relationship instead of leaving and starting afresh now she’s bitter that she stayed for nothing because he is leaving her anyway. She has no boundaries and needs therapy to fix that. When is enough enough kante?

[@dineosibiya2123]

well said injalo she did too much ..saba imali

[@maphanganomcebo4584]

No wonder this kids love her so much .. 😮

[@dot510]

And kids are hurt.

[@rachemolefe6687]

They adore her❤

[@MsSwanlake]

Exactly 💯 They'd be fatherless kahle kahle if it were up to him

[@no_prisoners6474]

She needs to love herself. It implies that she had no room to love another

[@reneilwephala1997]

She was not forcing, she thought he's going to change bcz it's normal or should I say it happens for your partner to have children 🤔outside ,she didn't know it turn out like these

[@loratomoalosi7560]

@@reneilwephala1997 men never change

[@rachemolefe6687]

Men never change but if love him u convince yourself that he will change

[@reneilwephala1997]

@@rachemolefe6687 which is normal for every woman or wife out there

[@Ma_Khumalo]

What's normal?

[@onalennamothibi5483]

Lol normal in which world? Thinking u can change a GROWN man is delulu

[@nokwandankosi560]

But this man saw that Nozipho is gold. He left all them baby mamas, very wrong, but they didn’t have the maturity Nozipho has. Now he’s a present father of the 3 kids cause of Nozipho. He made a lot of bad choices this guy but marrying this woman was the most brilliant decision he ever made.

[@cassandrayolanda4220]

Iheh lapho I thought uCoco was the one who is Nozipho’s blood child 🙌♥️ love their relationship

[@sipandrelax]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@bongiwemfengu-tn3ob]

But it’s understandable, she was only 3 years old when they took her

[@chosen1afrique304]

She stayed though ... That's crazy

[@sipandrelax]

It it 💔

[@MosaM632]

Imagine !!!😮👏

[@MologadiMakhafola]

There have been incidents over the years of her texting side chicks, threatening them etc, this could not have been a surprise. She just never thought he would go on and want to marry someone else. It really sucks but it has been toxic from inception, the marriage was never rosy

[@nelzg5819]

If this is true, then my theory regarding this type of behavior still stands tried and tested to be true. She is another one of those who threaten side chicks and ends up loosing the CraY man she should have dealt with and or left. We of these type of women even get beaten up a lot by their men. I think their men loose respect for them as they behave like srraatmates calling aide chix etc

[@molebohengmokoena9486]

I don't believe she was forcing things she loved him and she wanted it to work he probably ticked all her essentials boxes and these things were not a train smash to her... it's unfortunate that guy didn't value her like she did him

[@tumit8473]

It makes sense why the kids loves her dearly..they'll be forever grateful 🙏 ❤

[@nancymwanza1066]

She chose to stay.. run after seeing red flags.... 3 baby mammas and you stay.. no amount of love can make me stay .. please

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

Baby mama was not a red flag to her the issue is now the guy wnat isithembu. Maybe even cheating is not a red flag for her

[@Peachcobler22]

With all due respect, why would you be excited that a man doesn't have kids when you have a kid yourself. Make it make sense.

[@sipandrelax]

Preference perhaps?

[@Peachcobler22]

@@sipandrelax Odd preference, you expect someone to step parent, but not be willing to step parent yourself. Imagine all the good single parent men she potentially passed over while settling for a fraud who hid his kids. I'd rather date a man who openly co-parents and embraces his kids, especially where he doesn't have them with multiple women.

[@WNdaba]

Exactly. Most people with kids are so selfish. They want people with no kids while they have kids. She was trying to scam and got scammed. Men have also been scamming us by settling with women without kids when they already have kids. Virgins when they aren't virgins themselves. Once there is no balance, it's a scam somewhere. He/she is using the other for their selfish intentions

[@RubaJust]

Wild!!

[@refilweriri2473]

Right??! Sometimes we victims kakulu🙄

[@innocentiasibeko4894]

Oooh Nozipho sending her strength 🫂❤️

[@sethembilegwamanda4819]

Nozipho is a God. His been a red flag from a get go. Ubezele ukuzo hurt lentombazane nje emhlabeni. He doesn't deserve Nozipho.

[@Qveeqvee]

Money....money makes people decide this way.

[@nelzg5819]

Chelete chelete. U love the soft life more than your own mental stability

[@dineosibiya2123]

truth ,she's kind and good mom,but there were red flags for the on set

[@sharronmats645]

Wish that guy could do an interview also so we hear and choose

[@lebogangmokwape33]

And do you think he would be honest

[@sharronmats645]

@@lebogangmokwape33 and why would he lie?

[@nelzg5819]

​@@sharronmats645sharon, the man lied about many things. He eve lied about not having kids. So what makes u believe he would tell the truth

[@mphosolomon7476]

But naye she saw the red flags but wahlala with this man, that's why the guy doesn't respect her at all.

[@Leetso]

I certainly agree with you it’s quite sad, women don’t learn

[@_Ninjawarrior]

Well she stayed knowing very well the type of man he was. That's on her tbh. The problem with us as women is that we want to be 'the one' to men. 'The one he changes for' 'The one he treats well' ohooo mxm men will show you flames if you don't love yourself.

[@Lebza7]

They say you lose them.the same way you get them.

[@rosegold6209]

And she still went an married him, sorry but that was her choice. Choices have consequences, she knew the type of mam she was dealing with. 🤷🏾

[@nelzg5819]

True. She married exactly the man thats leaving her now

[@lesley_lezley]

He denied his offspring (3 whole kids and 3 whole babymamas) and STILL married him.

[@tseepi5019]

The love for money is the root of all evil, wud she have stayed if Mo guy was broke?

[@nelzg5819]

​@@tseepi5019nope she wouldn't have. Its all about the moola

[@EmmahMtshwene]

Nozioho you were there to make the marriage work big up to ,you forth the fight❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MpumiDlamini-ft5de]

*fought

[@thandomkhabela525]

How does one ignore so many red flags kodwa bakithi 😮

[@KgaogeloKgasago-n1b]

Money

[@Leetso]

@@KgaogeloKgasago-n1beish true

[@nelzg5819]

The love of money . a woman's weakness

[@tshephomanyothwane1916]

I personally think Nozipo is a problem. 1. How do you settle with someone who managed to hide 2 kids from the beginning. 2. Where do you get the adaucity to ask your boyfriend to bring such young kids to come and stay with you in a fatndset situation. Maybe she didn't want money to be sent to baby mamas. 3. You find out about the third child, jiki jiki you are running buying stuff and taking swabs, jiki jiki you put husband in a corner for DNA. Next you want the kid to be brought to your house, why not ask him to send money to baby mama. 4. Next up and about IVF... 5. I will not be surprised if this man has other kids out there, what was she expecting? This man never changed, he maintained who he is. He never fooled nozipo Nozi... maybe was thinking keeping everything that links him to other people under 1 roof, will also keep him under this roof with him. If this man is the only1 making money in the house, i think nozi is so soft spoken yet very controlling. And its clear she controlled every thing. I might be wrong she didn't want hubby to send money to baby mamas. She also thought she can control him. But a leopard will never change its spots.

[@nthabisengdlamini4971]

She said in the podcast that she asked for the kids to come live with them because their living conditions where not good and their living conditions where better

[@nelzg5819]

This could be true😢

[@_COCOgal]

I understand why she stayed. She had broken up with her first baby daddy so she wanted to keep this one. Bla bla bla we all know how baby mamas are, not all but majority. May Nozipho heal and find peace ayi kade bamqala shame u cc kodwa wakhetha ukubekezela

[@nongcebomchunu3894]

Nooooo she was doing too much from the beginning.....she was trying too hard to make it work 😢😢Wish her all the best

[@amanda3081]

So she takes these childten because she felt she could raise them bettrr then their mothers, tjooo

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

She was forcing coz brothers has money.

[@nelzg5819]

Exactly

[@bongiwemfengu-tn3ob]

The fact that her whole family was even involved it was because of money, maybe it’s even her mother that suggested she takes those kids so she can secure the man

[@ntombenhlezungu4257]

There are 2 sides to the story if they could play happy family on thier KZbin channel for us and now this lets just mind our business guys please.

[@lovelylady6341]

Why did she stay mara😢, life can be so cruel you know. She deserves so much better. I wish her nothing but the best. Talk about the worst husband ever! Yhoo.

[@zandileshangase8405]

Kanti when did they meet?thought they have older kids😢

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

Can I ask. Where did Nozipho reveal this? I wanna go listen too. Hayiii guys this man is so wrong for this

[@nthabisengdlamini4971]

Mo and Phindile podcast on KZbin

[@tryphosatlotlo6539]

This man has been a walking Redflag which Nozi chose to ignore and is now paying the price. This man did not start today with all his shenanigans. Nozi saw them and knew exactly who that man was and wants to act all surprised today????! Come on now ladies. Signs are always there and we choose to ignore them! Nozi has low self esteem. How do you allow someone who claims to love you treat you this way for such a long time and gets away with it! I don’t think she ever receive a fatherly love growing up. If she did, she wouldn’t have allowed this to happen to her!

[@wendynemukula7721]

I fear love but I am for love Every human being has red flags even us woman and men do also marry women with red flags ,small red or big red ,red is red and we can never be complete for a human being because we are not perfect ,we even fight with our parents and sisters that r biological to us ,this lady did bring this aporn her self but its very intense and insensitive for me to say to another woman,she was inlove and believed he would change with her and its ok,most of us commenting here thinking she played her self are also going through our own shit hiding behind comments acting like social workers who can solve issues love is love and red flags can sometimes bring U closer to a man until years later U realise no ways this is not me who kept up with all the nonsense We all ladies r fumbling in our relationships too😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pamelakubeka5424]

Facts! 🤞

[@Zeh______________n]

Wow, men!🥺

[@thembekangcobo6651]

Not to be rude but where is the clip of this interview, I thought you were gonna insert it but uyasichazela

[@sipandrelax]

I did mention the podcast name at the end

[@nokwandasbiya6462]

Umuntu unezingane with more than one person 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@sipandrelax]

And imagine ezingane ze few months apart 👀

[@nokwandasbiya6462]

@sipandrelax ayi khona it's not make sure.

[@tseepi5019]

Women like taking on projects, that's a broken man and all these years she's been trying to fix him, she stayed fos guy had money

[@prudencetladi2318]

I never sbwl other people things jo hectic

[@nbee6217]

Weeeee kanti 😢😢

[@nobuhlemkhabela6420]

thanks for sharing❤

[@londekalisa]

Love is blind

[@kulaniful]

who are these people

[@nhlanhlanzimande4001]

Yooh woman nabo. Then she goes to have many many many kids this guy.. Now she is left with all 8 ..yuuuu Have self love and worth ladies ngeke phela

[@no_prisoners6474]

Yoh the guy is demonic

[@portiatyulu5258]

The main reason this man left you it's because ungumfazi ongamameliyo you went against his words telling you he doesn't have kinds and you collect all of them wazohlala nabo he left them for his personal reason kuningi sana you have no idea what was his deals in life wena you have destroyed all his life plan and bring him too much responsibilities now he is leaving you for someone who is simply and single hz not the 1st or the last man who's running away from his responsibility you even went extreme to do a DNA he will never trust you and he also made it very clear he doesn't want children wena wazithwala it's your fault

[@bongiwemfengu-tn3ob]

😢😢😢

[@christianaffirmations5639]

Classic Narcissist

[@nhlanhlamokoena7678]

This boy o na le nawa. Pointing his mthondo everywhere

[@WNdaba]

😂😂😂 Yeheeeni babymama's and wanting people without kids. Women with kids are so selfish. I always say if you have a kid you need to look for someone with a kid. The minute you discover a lie about the presence or absence of kids that's a one way ticket out of that relationship. She chose to stay because she probably had told family and friends that she won a lottery by scoring a man without kids so she had to continue with him. When you are looking for a partner you need to look for someone who is like you. Has the same baggage as you, because along the way one will be dissatisfied and feel they were shot changed and settled with someone with more baggage than the other. The scammer will always feel they can do better. There is no pure heart here, she wanted to tie down someone without baggage when she had baggage. She was trying to scam and got scammed.

[@cassandrayolanda4220]

Washoke mbhemu

[@ayandasam2269]

She stayed cause she loved him, she could have chosen for those kids to stay in secret like most women do but she chose to blend them.

[@hlengiwehadebe_]

Ikaka lento oyithethayo

[@WNdaba]

@@ayandasam2269 nonsense. It starts with you. There is no way you can love anyone when you are not making decisions that prove you love yourself. You stay with a Narcissistic individual and you call it love? She proved to herself that the marriage was empty when she said she knew it wasn't gonna last, yet she continued. Self love is choosing decisions that keep you in love. Women are delusional and you choose to be delusional to gain something.

[@WNdaba]

@@hlengiwehadebe_ babymamas are always defensive. You want someone's son to live with the consequences of you own actions to make it easier for yourselves. Fortunately men are starting to unpack the bull dust and they see through all of you.

[@PatriciaChabala-m3y]

Good woman deserve real Kings nozi didnt deserve this

[@emilymolaudzi5206]

Narrator is boring

[@sipandrelax]

@@emilymolaudzi5206 okay then don’t watch

[@ABCDEFG12163]

Damn ..