Q & A : GENDER SELECTION, WHY I HAD MY BABY IN 🇳🇬 & MORE

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Location: Lagos, Nigeria (West Africa)
I'm a Nigerian Food and Lifestyle Blogger documenting bits of every other day in my life with my son, Tito and husband Bobo.

[@ayopetv]

Who says "abroad" is a sure route to success? Having a child abroad definitely doesn't guarantee the child's success. Many are a child born and living abroad but sent back home because they are not being nutured in "the abroad". There are so many people (young and old) who are suffering in this same "abroad" but will never go back home. Abroad has it's pros and cons, it's not a do or die matter as many make it to be. As believers we know that anywhere we place our feet, we shall possess. God bless you sis, your children are blessed. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@eselamiafegbua78]

Ayope Davies I believe I was meant to see this comment,been married for close to a year and as we plan on kids we had a discussion and I we agreed we want to have out kids in America and calculated the cost,I prayed to God about it and asked his will be done despite my desire and for him to provide. I had this thought in my head like I’m a believer and it dosent matter where my kids are born. To be honest I just wanted best medical care and for them to have their citizenship. Seeing your comment has me wondering and asking God is this what u are saying to me? Hmm

[@oluyinkakumapayi3685]

Ayope Davies God bless you for this!!!

[@chan2009ify]

Abroad is still a lot more better due to numerous amount of reasons, but if you'd like me to post them I will. Everywhere you go will have its pros and cons but they're certain places you go that will have more cons the pros.

[@delindawilliams3935]

Ayope Davies I agree 100%. Trusting God for one's success and one's child's success is what counts. Those that believe and put their trust in God,he'll be with them anywhere they are,if they live intentionally and not recklessly.

[@delindawilliams3935]

I love your channel content and I'm sharing with my family and church group. 👍

[@theayoemmanueltv]

300 likes if you love Sisi Yemmie

[@LilyMutamzTv]

Your child will be president in Nigeria 🇳🇬 so must be born there. You are doing well in Nigeria stick there. Am Zambian and I can tell you this living in the UK is not easy. 3 of my kids are born in the UK and I want to relocate to Africa because home is best. You have answered the questions well. Love you..

[@safiyayusuf2047]

I don’t think being born abroad determines how successful you will be. It’s just the number of opportunities that are high.

[@ogunkan1]

All my siblings were born abroad except me. Being a Nigerian citizen did not limit my success all praise to God. However things were a lot easier for my siblings in terms of finding work opportunities, qualifying for scholarships etc. There is definitely an advantage to having the blue passport but I wouldnt advice anyone to break the bank for that reason. Your success in life isnt tied to the passport you carry. But also the type of medical care and attention to detail you get from the medical staff in the US is far superior to what you get in Nigeria. Sadfact

[@folushoadeniyi]

The speed of a man is dependent on what he is pursuing or what is pursuing him.It's really a complicated issue but if you can afford it and God helps you to birth your kids where they can have access to ample opportunities in life that's great and perfect.There are two sides to a coin.It's a question of choice.

[@gloriakings3778]

Being born abroad has nothing to do with success in life...however, the child gets gets more opportunities ..education, healthcare, job etc. By and large, no need breaking the bank or taking out loan for this...

[@oliviaseed1199]

I disagree on the part of medical care being superior. You can get the same care here for less, compared to what you pay in the USA. Please research.

[@Stephanie-id7ut]

"Why didn't you have your baby abroad?" I think that is a very strange question thanks for explaining why people may have asked that question.

[@frankytalks7941]

Quite strange question but then again Sisi Yemi kept on posting birth packages in USA while pregnant, so maybe that implied she was optioning for that, dunno

[@loveprevails7080]

Stephanie I live in abroad but go home to give birth...Africa is best way to raise a child in early stages

[@chichi5541]

opinions please tell more.. what's the advantages of going back home. Pls educate me.. I am in the abroad too.

[@chichi5541]

opinion

[@LydiaIsaacTv]

I just love your personality and maturity. If you love sisi yemi more after this video hit the like button 😍

[@SoraAdams]

This video translates to "I can't come and kill myself". 😀

[@obianujuikeaka9947]

Seriously

[@Chizzynec]

Nigerians chant Abroad, abroad, abroad everywhere and every day. Until you get to some of "the abroad", you'll be shocked. I saw a documentary online that says maternal mortality (death of women after delivery) is very high in the US. So everything is in God's hand.

[@MillicentXandercsTV]

It is a lie oooo ! i live here and have 3 kids and there is nothing like that here

[@bibbiana4Lyfe]

That is true. Especially for Black Women.

[@Sarah-vl4mq]

The US has the highest number of Maternal mortality than any developed nation. So you are very right about that!

[@michannel7478]

The data on material mortality pregnant related deaths in the US is talking about death occurring within 42 days to a year after the end of pregnancy which most is preventable. New moms are so busy taking care of the baby and everything else that they don't take care of themselves, like going back to their doctor for their 3-6 week appointment. Most don't go back until it's too late.

[@pelumioluwa9601]

@Black To Grace No not UK never heard of such

[@jay_m4160]

I do think having foreign citizenship is beneficial for children, a US/Canadian passport opens so many doors. With the state of Nigeria, an escape route is needed. I personally have dual citizenship and I’m very grateful I’ve been able to apply for scholarships, travel around the world freely. My foreign passports have opened so many doors for me

[@Jenny-hk6eg]

Jay_M if only they know.

[@StephIlaumo]

When Sisi yemmie's channel calls, we answer. Now, let's watch

[@fadojubeatrice3378]

Honestly you're a model youtuber. You are the only youtuber that I listen to and don't fast forward... I just always listen to everything.. New mummy looks good on you

[@kehindeaderibigbe1]

“Only God determines one’s success”!!!...Btw, receive the anointing for Twins 👯 😬❤️

[@loveprevails7080]

The Mummy Champs God has given us all the success is for us to knock for the door to open,..as in working hard ..

[@ngozidibia7278]

You are right. Having a child abroad does not guarantee his / her success. On the flip side, the state of the nation is the reason why mothers try to have their children abroad. As you said, everyone's life is in God's hands.

[@aureengabrielatv8969]

HI NGOZI DIBIA! I SCHOOLED WITH ONE NGOZI DIBIA IN UNIVERSITY OF UYO. PLEASE DID YOU SCHOOL THERE?

[@DoctorNosa]

OMG You're soo real sisi yemmie! It's really a weird/intrusive question to be asking why you did not have your baby abroad?! & International passport does not guarantee success! loving this Q n A! xxx

[@Stephanie-id7ut]

Yes very intrusive.

[@KwamyPrincess54]

Speaking as an American born with parents who moved from Kenya, yes I have privileges but it's still hard especially being black in America. Come on, those days of escaping are over, let's make Africa better instead of outsourcing ourselves. Health concerns makes so much sense I understand, but also securing the future thing has its cons as well. Anyway, the choice is to the person, just trying to provide another opinion. I love this honest and heartfelt video. Love you Sisi Yemmie!

[@Samantha243D]

I love your hair in this video, can we get a tutorial? 😊

[@graceelumugo1509]

Yes d hair what's d style

[@itoroumoh8047]

Yes pls seconded

[@Abiandfamilyy]

I love your honesty sis!!

[@atinukedada]

Heyyyy Abi I see u love u and sisi yemmie

[@hansatuariwa1276]

What if you break the bank and have your baby abroad and then the child grows up and refuses to move abroad. Any one can make it anywhere it is God that determines our future

[@idaraakwa5274]

This glow is blinding, Sisi yemmie you are looking gooooooooooood😍

[@Chika10279]

Nigerians we just know how to hunt ourselves if you have the money to go fine and if you don't do not kill yourself a child who is going to become something or successful in life will surely be no matter where the child is, its not by passport but by the Grace of God

[@Lushmoments]

Sisi. Nothing but the grace of God guarantees success in life. Society pressure makes people do irrational things. A friend borrowed 10 million naira to have a baby in the US. I had my first born in Nigeria due to different reasons and all. I can remember a friend of mine called me and said Fade, how can you your child in the Nigeria? You of all people? You used to live in London now, what happened? She didn't even ask if I was okay and if my baby was ok too? Sisi your kids will be successful regardless where you give birth to them. The grace of God is enough. 💖💖

[@diysense]

Oh so emotional - the part where you said you drop the baby to cuddle Tito. You're such a great mum.

[@EverydayMoments]

Very wise answers. You always look on the bright side. When a child can make it in Nigeria, she can make it anywhere. No worries my dear. Tiara will come forth from Naija like fine gold🌟💖

[@tomiladeadeyeye5919]

You are a model for me. Love watching you. I just got married and anytime a feel lazy to do thing(cooking, cleaning etc). I tell myself sisiyemmie is strong and gets it all together I can too

[@CordiallyCornelia]

“Their success does not depend on where they are born” words to live by❤️❤️❤️

[@realgistwithEbony]

Looking beautiful Sisi. Am not on contraceptive, had my baby last year May after almost 8years of waiting. I saw the Doctor at my 6 week appointment and she spoke to me about contraceptives and options available, i refused the coil, then she prescribed the pill to get at the pharmacy, Still in my house up until now. I have refused to use it.i don't need contraceptives abeg. No be my type dey use contraceptives. Baby is 11 months now and hoping for another pregnancy.

[@olutosinagbede4790]

Please don't use any contraceptives for now because of the earlier long wait. We have almost similar story,. I had a long wait too before baby came, and when my son was barely 10 months, I found out I was pregnant again..... It wasn't easy, but I was happy... And if you see them, they are both like twins now.. 😅❤️. So I advise, no Contraceptives please.. Love to our cute baby.. ❤️❤️

[@amma0811]

It doesn't matter where you have you child, its down to parenting to ensure the child lives a great life. I live in London and immigration laws don't allow a baby born in the UK to have citizenship unless one of the parents had an indefinite stay or British passport. So if that's the case, don't bother with the UK unless you meet the criteria. But like I said it's all down to parenting.

[@Chizzynec]

How you doing? Thank you for having this thought there is no need going abroad to give birth. To me, it's really not worth it. I thank God there are still Nigerians like you still thinking like this. People abroad send their children back to Nigeria for Secondary school.

[@endurancelanre-ahmed3439]

I totally agree with you and study have shown that US has the highest mother/ infant mortality rate in developed countries.

[@Chizzynec]

Children's success in life is not dependent on geographical location where they were born. There are some people born in "the abroad" living in "the abroad" and still their future is still not secured. Their lives are not moving forward...so this our mindset in Nigeria is all messed up.

[@khandowando2399]

Adiel 💯💯💯

[@LuvMattazTV]

*First of all, I love your earrings* 😍 You are very correct, the future of every child is in *God's* hand. Am also *_scared_* of any medical form contraceptive 😣 The last point is the most important for me, giving *attention* to the big ones as well. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@salomeolukorede5958]

I love the last part the most. And I'll hold on to that advise too. To care for the older child's needs and emotions too, because he'll remember those moments. That's a mistake a lot of parents make. They push the older child away and expect him to understand. It's not easy (especially for the mum), but one just has to be fair on the older children too. Thanks Sisi. I'm growing to love you and your content more and more. God will continually strengthen you Momma.

[@AdaezesSpace]

You are looking so beautiful Sisi! ❤❤

[@fortune4020]

Very radiant!

[@susanh881]

So they can be an American citizen! However, I would sponsor you to come to America! As far as getting a Visa!! So glad you’re giving attention to Tito! Mom & son has to be very special and you don’t want him to feel left out because of the baby.❤️

[@zwashebangani8328]

Sisiyemmie you wished for twins and the twins are now here❤❤

[@foyekealayande2096]

My sweet aunty what I will tell you about giving birth abroad is just by God's grace because me too I am like that I was born in UK but grew up in Nigeria. I moved to UK last two years and what I will tell you is that the rules change so much so don't feel you have to give birth abroad because it's not 100% sure that they will pay home fees.

[@abosedefapohunda7966]

Yemisi, you are right, many blacks in Europe are regretting their actions by coming abroad because their children are facing discrimination that they loose focus of what they want to achieve and become dropped out. There's no where you can't be blessed. Is a Pity that most Nigerians are feeling inferior, not patriotic and not having confidence in Nigeria systems. We are all going to build Nigeria together like other people are building their countries.

[@NelosHalo]

The only reason people are going to America to have babies, is to get an American passport for their babies, PERIOD! People need to stop pretending biko. If someone was really concerned about the maternal healthcare, with all that money you put into going abroad, you will get the best standard in Nigeria, in private specialist hospitals. In fact with less than that self. Or you can go to the UK😂😂😂(no citizenship) whatever makes people happy. But no need to shame anyone for having their kids in Naija. Had both my kids here in the best hospital. One needs to research and choose hospitals wisely. Nurses play a big part. I don't do wicked nurses😂 Twins ke? I hail you o sisi

[@NikkiBNatural]

America is the worst place to have a baby at. You have no help like you do in other countries.

[@ifeojora1925]

I sincerely appreciate her honest replies. Truth be told, if she can make out time and money to be abroad for holidays, and spend some good quids for education abroad, she could as well have made out savings just for the babies to have a less stressfuL future. Y'all can famz her all you can, the green passport is not as delightful as most passports. It is so stressful using the green. Let us even forget for a sec about how well the future of our kids will turn out, that one is in God's hands. But, let us atleast do the one we have power to control if and only if we can just plan their future by the savings and sacrifices that we make now. My advice: if you want the blue passport, you do not even have to stress about the US or such places, just go have your child in a caribbean country, you get a blue passport for your baby immediately after birthing. That passport gives access to almost all the countries in the world, visa free to all of europe and so much more. If in doubt, google "visa requirements Saint Kitts" Besides, you do not need a visa to go to that country, and so many other caribbean countries. Cheers!! much love from me

[@darasimieri5548]

Nelo's Halo pls can you recommend a good hospital Lagos

[@jeunkoku]

You have stated nothing but facts.

[@chisomudezue]

True talk

[@oreoye6408]

Thank you so much for this video Sisi yemmie. This Nigerian mentality sha, it is never always green on the other side. Success is only in Gods hands

[@Nemeo]

sisi this video came at the right time,my younger sister was asked to buy thermometer and tape before she was attended to, it took 6hr before she was seen under emergency and was asked to get a 2month scan before she was even talked to,all these is happening right now at FMC abuja, on top of that the soo called doctor was complaining that he is about to go home,Nigeria is hell on earth,if you've the money travel abroad and get better health care,seeing the way things are done here in the states puts me to tears on how horrible the Nigerian health system is,is soo disheartening.once again congratulations on your new bundle of joy.

[@nuwill-rising6222]

There you go again, another awesome video. You look beautiful. I had an older woman to tell me when my son was 2 1/2 that I wasn't really a mother until I had more than one child. I didn't understand her at first, but I later realized that I actually became a better mother when I had another child. I also learned to teach my son and daughter to share and have a cohesive brother/sister relationship, not to mention all of the attention that my son craved from me when he was an only child changed. He focused a lot of his attention on his sister. So, having a sibling for him to play with somewhat freed me up do do other things. I felt less stressed, really. Also, I had the "Mask of Pregnancy" the dark spots and a really big nose with my daughter, who took my looks toward the third tri-mester along with one wisdom tooth, this didn't happen while pregnant with my son. I just thought I would share this with you. :-) Again, I miss your videos and really appreciate your always sharing when you can. I so look forward to your wonder stories. Give the family my love.... from a devoted subscriber. :-D

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

You have nurtured your first born since birth and continue to do so now that he is 4 years old, however he needs to learn that he now has a sister and has to share your love and care. You need to build a bond with your daughter and dropping her because your first born is calling and can talk will disrupt this. The first few years in a babies life are critical, not just physically but emotionally, this is the time that she is learning who her carers are and more importantly where her source of comfort and nurture comes from. Not putting her first at this time may sow the seeds of her not feeling as though you are a reliable source of comfort and love and that you are there when she needs you.

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

My baby sister was born in our house. She was delivered by our neighbour and she is healthy, smart and beautiful. She is now in varsity. If a child is meant to be yours, nothing can stop u from holding that child. Maternal death can happen in any hospital even if the care is the best.

[@ariellengozi2597]

Purleeeese tell them jare! Who on earth says success is only born abroad? I was born abroad and success has not come yet (it's coming sha😂). God decides, NOT PASSPORT!

[@amaka3632]

It depends on the country if you have your baby in France no citizen except if the father or the mother have citizen's if not the only thing you'll have is the birth certificate that shows your baby is born in France 🇫🇷 that's all.

[@yakubuaminaladi284]

These are part of the many reasons i love Sisi Yemi,imagine some questions asked just too personal and mostly not for us but still she smiles and still answer them. Thank you so much for being who you are. Managing two kids is a task one needs to be careful in dealing with, i experienced it with my younger sisters,back then. The older one got really jealous and mommy just wasn't good in handling it, we later lost her though although medical reasons. So when i see a mother with two kids i just advise love them both and make the older one a mini mommy or daddy so he or she feels a sense of responsibilty towards the child while you have more time to show love to the older one while he or she is busy loving d younger one.

[@adisaakomolede3039]

You are giving your kids the very best , my friend listened to Tito speak in one of the videos and she was ‘wowed’ . God is a God of miracle and he never fails . Awesome vlog as always #adisawashere

[@ritaekhaguere8769]

My opinion is given birth abroad is not assurance of the future of the child we can't choose our destiny but God will

[@frankytalks7941]

Sisi Yemi you look stunning, Being successful is not determined by where you are born but just like money does not guarantee you happiness it gives you options, same as dual citizenship gives you options.

[@adaego3254]

Success has nothing to do with location.

[@lolaj1592]

Sisi yemi has acct inspired me to start my own channel. Like if u love sis yemi

[@MillicentXandercsTV]

Congratulations again SiSiyemmie. I live in the United States of America and honestly giving birth here is not beans. You have to have at least $20k cash to have a single baby and that is not even including your accomodation, and flight ticket to this place. I had my 3 kids here in Dallas Texas and it is definitely a great investment. Your child can still become successful no matter where they were born. Meanwhile, America is very strict now with visa so if one is not given visa, they should just invest the money in the best hospital in Nigeria. Meanwhile Sisiyemmie, don't worry about the citizenship, if we become besties, Tito can marry my daughter Dior and he will become a citizen by marriage (winks). Ps: I love you and your family.

[@sylviadurueke6023]

nice plan😆👏👏

[@DeeDee-wl7tb]

Haha

[@NigerianWifestyle]

The Xandercs Family I agree 100% but I want Tito for my Iwalewa lol jk

[@CookingWithVoluntas]

There are just so many reasons to why people should come give birth abroad if you can.Especially the health care system in Africa.I love how you said your success is not base on where you were born. I hate that people think that you have to come to the US before you can be successful. Visa is hard everywhere ohh

[@oluwatoyingbadamosi2288]

Beautiful Sisi Yemmie thank you for this video. It should be very instructive for those who are desperate to have their babies abroad. Firstly it is not a big deal. Secondly like you said God is the author of our lives and takes vate of us as He wills. I am a British citizen who was living in Nigeria when I had my children but travelled to the UK each time I had them. When I had my second child, it was by CS and believe it or not the next day after I had her, I was given wrong meds which made me have Bells Palsy. Through the grace of God, I got healed. So that's just to say there are no guarantees regarding medical care abroad. It could happen anywhere. It's only God my sister

[@Chizzynec]

Thanks for your comment. Sorry you have to experience that. Your experience will help educate our people that there are no guarantees. We are not the author of our lives, what will be will be whether you're born in the deepest darkest part of Africa or your born in whatever place our people rank to be the best place on earth to be born. The mindset of our people sickens me. In the USA now, maternal mortality is on the rise.

[@fokoojo5454]

Truth be told there are advantages and disadvantages. The same way you would want your child to go to a good school here in Nigeria, It is same thing. If you can afford it and have the opportunity...please go for it....You don't have to break 5he bank. We had ours abroad and will still do when God answers us again.

[@BeyondSightNetwork]

Na wa ohh Nigerians!! Hmmm I’m sure some people are giving stress to their husbands just because they must go abroad!! Soo some of us that were born and schooled in this Cameroon can’t be successful ehh? I’m very successful and I was born and bred here and this is only by God’s Grace! Thank you for being honest and sharing this with us Sisi Yemi. People will just say all sorts of things!!

[@mojisolaobaneye4956]

Our beautiful sisi yemmie...weda we born for naija or abroad,my prayer is for them to be very successful in life ijn...

[@ogorkachikwu2151]

Hello Sisi,My advice is for you not to contracept,you can do it naturally.pls read more about Creighton method and FEMM(you can download it)

[@stellanwokenkwo]

Am definitely looking for this,i find it difficult tk stick to my calendar and i dont want any contraceptives. This has been my worry now as am about to give birth to my last baby.

[@mira.J.]

Your children are stars and nothing can halt that. And i know that there is Going to be speed for you. Thank you so much i truly learnt.

[@rolakeakinjo9004]

Yes please! We want the new skin care routine and hair routine. You look stunning ❤

[@OmoyeniOdunlami]

Please can you do a video on newborn musthaves? And the items you bought that you regretted buying cos it didn't have much use?

[@bibicrom1647]

Could you do a video on nursing mother hacks, self care, working mom schedule of multiple children what works or tips...breast feeding mom eating plan etc thank you

[@AdaezesSpace]

For me, do it if you have the money and it is your dream. If you don't, just focus on making enough money. If you are rich enough, your kids can school anywhere in the world, no problems. If your child is born there but you are broke, they ain't going nowhere 😂. Tuition is very expensive even if you are a citizen. If your child is smart, they can get scholarships abroad too. Also, in the next 10- 16 years things may be very different.

[@prettyaeesha]

Everyday comes with a different glow,U look fresh, U look blessed, U look cuteee

[@Korede12344]

Mhen !! Sisi Yemmie 😍 🥰 all I see in u is growth😍😍😍 ND so Shall it keep increasing IJN ...Amen

[@yakubuaminaladi284]

Amen mydear

[@oluwagunwaadedeji6423]

Truth! Truth!! Truth!!! You couldn't have said it any better...only God knows the future and can guarantee success of any child.

[@Natureandme23]

If you had your kids abroad and you didn't invest in their growth and proper upbringing, they will turn to akata and blood pressure would be your surname. So dear Sisi , dont mind them ..congratulations again

[@tolubamidele3774]

A&E Series 😂👌🏾

[@authortahneejones2686]

What is that supposed to mean?

[@FamilyTravelDevotion]

A woman who wants a baby in an Akata country is obviously worse than Akata

[@chiomannoli5669]

Good job in answering the questions. U.S is denying most people visas to come in to the country for child birth because most people don't pay their hospital bills and the taxpayers have to pay it. It is not right, they want the citizenship and blue passport but don't want to do their part. When their kids are grown, the parents want them to enjoy the opportunities that they, the parents did not contribute to, let's tell ourselves the truth.

[@jenrolafagbemi9661]

Amazing video @sisi_yemmie💞 As per the contraceptive method you asked for, I have been on IUD for close to 2 years now and it's working perfectly fine for me. Contraceptive is not a do or die things especially the hormonal based ones If one isn't working for you, see your health care provider for advice and try out another method 👍

[@RoselomonTV]

*Sisiyemmie your natural hair is doing me jealousy ❤️❤️ I also co-sleep with my son.The moment you put him in the cot,he wakes up! Me I need sleep I just decided to give up! Mama needs to sleep too😂😂 yeah, please do your skin care routine*

[@chinese7499]

I love the lipstick..which brand is it? Lovely video. Love from Dubai

[@sherwood9917]

A few comments: 1) Contraceptives are not one-size-fits-all; 2) It often takes several attempts to find the contraceptives that work for your body.

[@anitaa4991]

Hi Sisiyemmie.. Please do a video on your skin care routine let's learn to glow like you. 😊😊

[@sofiata2133]

Sisi Yemmie, you could use an IUD. It prevents implantation of the embryo into the uterus and so it doesn’t mess with your hormones. The contraceptives that affects hormones sometimes causes those side effects you mentioned. IUD could cause heavy menstrual flow tho.

[@OluchiMbah]

Sisi oo....Thank you I am not yet married, but was planning to give birth, when i get married outside nigeria, but not necessarily the USA....but when Naija or abroad its the health of both mother n child that is a concern and not the child's future....we have God and our success are in his hands

[@zeea6507]

Great video!!! I love your content. Where ever a child is born having a great foundation helps with future success. I was born in Nigeria now in the UK lived 11 years in Nigeria now 29. I must say love the foundation I had in Nigeria.

[@Gloradiant]

Negligence in Nigerian hospitals I think is the number 1 reason why people choose to go abroad! I dont think countries like the UK and US do this whole baby citizenship 'anchor baby' anymore. Not sure about Canada though. Wonderful Video 😘

[@NelosHalo]

Issa lie o! Our people don't rush to the UK because no automatic citizenship. Why do you think people are borrowing to give birth in America? Anchor baby of course. Of course there's still widespread negligence. But there equally great hospitals in Nigeria that can compete with hospitals abroad. Had both kids in Nigeria and had the best healthcare and experience. Of course people ask the silly question. One even asked me to "borrow" so I can give birth abroad if money is a problem😂but it's not by force nau. This anchor baby thing is not new. Its only more widespread. Few Nigerian Parents did it in the 70s and 80s

[@chiomannoli5669]

I believe U.S has stopped giving it and Canada is currently working on it.

[@askddietitian]

@@chiomannoli5669 us hasn't stopped

[@simeabi8194]

You are an incredible woman, your way of thinking is way above your years,I so admire you sisi yemmie. Yes, God is the one in control

[@BarbaraDraper]

This video was so great Sisi Yemmie. For me, the only contraceptive I have ever used is condom. And it has never fail me. I have heard so much bad news about other contraceptives and I'm afraid to use them. And about the advice about caring for two small kids...... that was so enlightening..... thanks for sharing.

[@EbunoluwaTheCommentator]

Your response are as truthful as usual. Abroad birth is not a do or die affair but Nigerians always love to be extra in everything

[@nqobilexulu5372]

As an African i would be happy for my kids to be born in the motherland...i mean whats so special about giving birth abroad, are there no hospitals in Africa?

[@ajikehelen6567]

You were quite fortunate, many are considering their age and no baby at all. I am happy.

[@lindaobi2920]

This glow is real. I am interested in the skin care routine

[@Seyiclassic]

uhhm can we just get sisi yemmie to a million subscribers already?!

[@bigcatshukri3773]

Yes you are a successful African and proud 😍

[@IdeevaTV]

Sis, dont give up. Try and reapply again but use a reliable agency they are very good at what they do. Love your videos

[@valentinatoluwalase182]

You looking nice sis. Love your brilliant answers. There is no trick to having a baby girl or boy. All I know is everything depends on God and the chromosome the husband releases.

[@enidisi]

Sisi i have said it before and i am saying it again. BE NATURAL!! U r still young you don't need any contraceptives now.

[@shadyrain]

Yes sisi I want skin care routine and please how do people plan the gender of a child. I want to know oh

[@Miss-Sunshines9431]

Good evening Sisi just watched your Q&A thank you for notification. There's one thing noticed "some women" loved to judged another while questioning reasons for their rights. Finding this so annoying that left persons feeling, and questioning if that's right for them. Just be supportive and understanding without social media judgement, pressure cooker attitude, some have take with pinch salt. Sisi have answered all right. 👌💃💯😘😇🤝👏👍💖💐🤗🏘️🌐

[@LydiaIsaacTv]

Yes there is a way to check what you are going to have before getting pregnant. I was already pregnant for my son before knowing about it and it really works. I used it to calculate before having my daughter

[@TreasureHanson]

Lydia Isaac Healthy lifestyle please share😍

[@ucheuche4000]

Can you share more info please. I'm interested in knowing. Thanks

[@adorableifu]

Please oooo, I need your skin care routine biko

[@jackiereacts7201]

It's not advisable to cosleep with babies. You can suffocate them by accident

[@NgoziGraceEze]

Your'e just so truthful. Biko skin care routine ooo. We want it!!1

[@RoyaltyCosmostv]

Having Kids abroad is okay just like having kids in any part of the world. Success is by Gods grace, hardwork and good upbringing. Lookibg good Sisi Yemmie

[@africanaexpat]

I love the blouse. and I like the advice about Tito remembering in the future. also love the hairstyle :) I think the reason why people give birth abroad is to have something to brang and boast about. Also, the situation in Nigeria with the healthcare and safety requires it. It gives the parent an option. Because if they baby has a passport and citizenship abroad, they can also apply for one too. Trump made it very difficult for pregnant mothers to do that now, so i suggest waiting till the next guy comes in and try again for a visa :) You're also welcome to try Canada :)

[@mariamatchamo745]

Interesting! People need to chill about the hype if giving birth abroad. There are advantages...but your success doesn't lie on where you live

[@Blessedmom1415]

Yes you are right, contraceptive do not work for me,it mess me up emotionally and physically

[@atijetv1441]

Yes! Having a baby abroad does not improve their chances at having a good life! We live by faith and walk hy grace. Praying for you and your family!