Sista Says She Doesn't Understand Modern Women Not Wanting To Cook For A Provider Husband

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[@biggie8277]

You told us men. We are sorry if we don't pay all the bills.

[@cdp2600]

Fast food and reality shows fried a lot of Brain cells 😂

[@markbrucewaynebrown6739]

Preach

[@laladaniel3488]

Don't forget the crab shacks where a meal is 120

[@RaiderSteelerfan]

Don’t forget trap 🪤 music and drill music 🎶

[@DemetriT1]

😂😂😂

[@marvin4827]

True, but its no laughing matter..😢😮

[@tankcoatpink]

They say it’s SLAVERY to cook for a man, and I be like define SLAVERY 😂😂🤔

[@lupavo1738]

Lmao. 😆

[@Nihdem]

If you expect her to go 50/50, then the work in the house should also be 50/50. Don't you think?

[@JuwanBuchanan]

​​@@Nihdemumbest comment I seen. Men build the world and will always run it. Men are the breadwinners and go to work to provide to keep your ass fed every day. Do your part and clean the house. If you don't know how to cook and clean, then how can you be expected to raise some kids? Can't do that, then just stay single.

[@pinkskincanthandlethesunlight]

Alot of them don't know how to cook.🤣🤣

[@gqpromotionchanel]

​@@Nihdem who said anything about going 50/50?

[@frankoee6755]

‘Not wanting to cook’ more like the majority now-a-days don’t know how to cook.

[@erickqwesibentilmanie2382]

Say it louder for the people at the back

[@candyxox]

Cook good enough. But not a chef

[@Babylon-Fall]

Now you talking Fact's 💯

[@icecreambeats101]

I’m sure home economics in school today is more teenage boys wanting to learn how to cook.

[@cyncerevideos5111]

​@@candyxoxShhhh! You're single for a reason. No one said chef quality food.

[@martialag]

I remember when Wendy Williams came for Tabitha Brown for retiring her husband and she checked her in the most classiest way 😂😂

[@logicalman1172]

"Make daddy a sandwich" sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂

[@radiofreeastrocast3010]

My Mom has 5 boys. She taught us how to Cook, clean and take general care of our home. She didn't want us to be dependent on anyone for such things. Then she said "Don't touch my stove. Don't touch my washer." She would give us a task, then it became normal for us to just do it. And my Mom had a 9 to 5! Brother, they will NEVER make women like they used to!

[@Bootyeater999]

You not lying 😢.

[@DoubeEdged7]

Because today's women don't set an example for their daughters to follow. They don't teach cooking cleaning and

[@israelchosennation7213]

That's not true. It's not very common obviously but there are traditional women out here like I am. Men need to wait on God for a husband

[@noemimariazaica8245]

She was lucky for all of you being cooperative. There are very shitty kids who won't help their parents no matter what...

[@willjoful]

I feel very thankful because my mother took the time to teach me and siblings how to cook. Over time I found out cooking is one of my passions.

[@enjoy-ly7zw]

Must be nice .

[@destinydivine8465]

I love cooking as well.

[@barbarawaddell-steele3603]

Cooking, cleaning and providing for one's self are life skills a man and woman should have before they leave their parents' home.

[@theimportantthingsthatreal9842]

She makes Very good points. Many women only want a man when he has already built something, then expect half when they divorce him.

[@northernking2604]

It's called robbery

[@GeeB-bi8id]

Im good 😂😂

[@treshelljacksonmcclendon4178]

I love cooking for my family. I love seeing their faces when I make their favorite meal

[@For35too45min]

“Bless ya heart ❤️ “That’s what loving women do”….🙏

[@treshelljacksonmcclendon4178]

@@For35too45min Thanks for your comment

[@destinydivine8465]

I love it too! They get so happy..lol

[@shayemoore]

​@@For35too45min Loving men pay ALL the bills.

[@TheJrakeEffect]

My fiancée just pays the power bill ( since she doesn’t know how to turn things off) but I pay everything else.

[@shayemoore]

She shouldn't be paying one bill.

[@GeeB-bi8id]

Well why you about to set yourself up for a life time of hell

[@Masculai1z]

What's funny is these same women that have all of these ''demands'' will lay down with Pookie for free, I have seen this time and time again, which is why you can't take it seriously at all just get your passport. I had a buddy that wanted to work in construction and was working his way up the ladder, but his girl threatened to leave him (and ultimately did) because she did not want to be with someone that did not have their Bachelor's, so she broke up with him. Fast forward 6-8 months later, she got pregnant and had a baby by a weed dealer that still lived out of his moms garage, true story.

[@pontiac00]

Seeing that alot

[@marvin4827]

Sadly, this happens waaay to often....

[@takeheedtothemessage]

They only tell the part when he cheats. She never tell that she started all the nonsense

[@princelee3738]

Thank you for speaking the real.💯

[@joemomma3208]

They don’t want to do anything for anyone. They want to reap all of the benefits and receive all of the awards without any expectations from them to contribute anything but participation!

[@isaacmettle]

PROUD FREELOADERS!

[@Nihdem]

Yeah, that explains the majority of black households the men's are breadwinners, lol

[@Phoenixishot]

@@Nihdem Where are the stats on that?

[@joemomma3208]

@paullunsford4323SYBATFU!

[@Nihdem]

@@Phoenixishot I was being sarcastic, lol

[@marvin4827]

It's ironic that women grew up on grandma's cooking don't want to cook for their husband... But they enjoy all the benefits & priviliges of having a husband. Sadly, we live in a society that constantly de value, denigrate & under appreciate men's efforts.

[@KingToby37]

Lol them modern women gonna continue trying to figure out why they are alone!

[@truthnotfeelings]

We need to start gatekeeping our community. On both sides. Anyone promoting selfishness, delusion and dysfunction shall be named and shamed

[@F5VEG]

The level of entitlement and greed amongst these Moderns is so exhausting that we’re choosing the option to expatriate to be able to experience traditional Women. Traveling 9000 miles is 1000x less exhausting than dealing with their foolishness.

[@shayemoore]

Women are giving the same energy ya'll are giving. Men are entitled so when are being entitled too. I'm glad women aren't like their grandmothers.

[@joybrooks564]

In the black community having a man who is a provider is a luxury. Women should be delighted to cook/ clean for him

[@shuntavaisjohnson345]

Agree

[@DoubeEdged7]

Apparently it's a luxury because they don't see it as a necessity though it is

[@mikelarry2602]

In the black community they raise bm to fell & then complain about their work.

[@blacklyfe5543]

Agreed

[@RTA6226]

She's got those talons!

[@marcuswilliams9899]

This type of behavior is textbook LBS.. That's Lazy Beeatch Syndrome.

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

Modern women mentality:: work the good dude like a mule and withhold that mid grade box, but let Ray Ray drive her like a Home Depot truck for FREE😂😂😂

[@riorich]

If she doesn't clean or share the cleaning. It means she doesn't give a damn about the house and sells half in a divorce. If you pay a maid, what do you need her there for, she's only going to do things when or if she feels like it. Doesn't share or do the cooking, then why is she there? By that time, it's really too late. Know the woman before you move in together. No apologies, if I have to ask a woman to do something, then I don't need her. Playing stupid games, will get you a stupid prize. The right women will do the things, without you asking.

[@jklmnoqr]

@rioleo8 🌺🌺🌺👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@blacklyfe5543]

There's no such thing as the right women all of them are the same. And I could hire a maid to cook or clean for me

[@shayemoore]

If a woman has to pay bills then what does she need man for?

[@justmontina]

My husband is 55 and he can cook, clean and he’s an awesome provider. He washes all of our clothes, folds them and cooks every Sunday. He also mops our hardwood floors and washes all of our cars and trucks. I bend over backwards to do whatever I can to add joy to his life. He’s my Superman!

[@09ssd]

No he is a simp

[@shayemoore]

This is what a husband should do. Women shouldn't accept anything less, especially if she has children.

[@josephbell2160]

​@@shayemooreIt's the husband's job to PROVIDE and PROTECT.(AND DISCIPLINE ) It's the wife's job to keep the house clean and in order. If this is too advanced for your thinking then maybe you should seek counseling from an elder that knows the correct order of the family structure. You sound just one of these lazy and arrogant modern women. A PERFECT RECIPE FOR REMAINING SINGLE

[@rosyclozyfan]

@@09ssd and women love it so cry about it

[@GeeB-bi8id]

All you add is joy! What a dummy

[@newtonw2000]

The car works for you but you have to put gas in it and service it to keep it working to serve the family. It's the same for your men ladies cook for him serve him so he can go out there and work for you and serve you, balance is important! If you don't know that a car needs gas and servicing then perhaps your not ready for a car🤔

[@neffi17]

So True ❤️🖤💚👁️👍🏾

[@shayemoore]

He's not serving his woman by working. He's serving himself. If be was single, he'd be working anyway. A woman shouldn't serve a man who is not truly serving her.

[@newtonw2000]

@@shayemoore Am talking about a family oriented, provider type individual, willing to serve not a single one seater vehicle, but thanks for your input.

[@loridean177]

I loved cooking for my family, especially when it was their favorites. Just seeing them enjoy my cooking gave me a sense of satisfaction that I take good care of my family. 🙂

[@esthernichols4451]

Preach sis. So sad that many women won't get this!! Smh

[@jklmnoqr]

@Lori Dean: 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@destinydivine8465]

It is so rewarding!

[@PlumpnDreamyWalrus]

That's cool, just don't let it be fodder for those 'trad chad' types who want women to return to domesticity

[@chrisrandall2814]

working together is the key in relationship

[@Phoenixishot]

Men go after the IG model-esq women then wonder why they can’t get her to cook.

[@gqpromotionchanel]

And women go for the rapper like dudes and wonder why they get cheated and get nothing from them.

[@jacksonadams4728]

And women go after drug dealer and bottom barrel men then start calling men trash when those low-life men don't want to take them seriously.

[@dollhouseq1530]

Everything may not be "laziness" depression is VERY REAL across both genders

[@unconsciousawakening5633]

I got my black queen out of Mississippi when we was in high school 17 years ago. 5 years after that I put a ring on her finger at 23 and now we got 5 children 😀😀😀

[@shayemoore]

If she worked and helped pay bills while having babies, she got a bad deal.

[@LisaS483]

Cooking for your man is great. Giving your spouse regular sex is great. Being the come-up woman is way too risky.

[@prentice9875]

I remember my ex telling me I clean to much the house don't look lived in cause put everything were it goes gtfo 😂

[@baruch12dta-xt2gp]

I bet they will cook and clean for abominable snowbrad.

[@markswift]

Also, wear their hair in a natural style.

[@moneyanswersprayers6359]

Bruh 🤣😂😭😭

[@freddy8479]

As well as FREELY WARMING UP HIS 🛏️ SHEETS!!!!!

[@vjones34]

1. They don’t know how 2. Being able to say no makes them feel power

[@shayemoore]

I'm glad women are using their power to tell men "NO". They should have done this a long time ago.

[@enthusiasticbeing3884]

Black modern women in America y’all are in trouble. Y’all need to get it together expeditiously.

[@blindpanthervlogs]

This woman Hass to be from Charlotte, because people pulling out in front of you and then driving slow as hell is more than common here.

[@marvl6472]

She speaking facts but her nails speaking louder..lawd

[@pinarellorider9023]

Yeah! I cannot stand those ratchet nails, those ghetto lashes and rings on every finger

[@Fitkid7672]

Hahaha

[@DixonGang10]

Man i made babe breakfast at 200 am we have 7 kids and HE works 70 hrs a week so i can stay home.

[@silversurfer647]

Yeah... this is how they wind up single with a poodle in their bed.. Sprinkle Sprinkle... no sex, but play with cats and dogs. Well get your pets to order Uber eats for you then. Then they get jealous when positive Black men, are seen with women from around the world 🌎. Don't be mad.😂😂😂

[@destinydivine8465]

I was raised in a home where my mom cooked all the time! I am the same way now. I love cooking. I feel so good watching my family enjoy my cooking.

[@caroloses8968]

So these girls can watch a KZbin video on everything but a recipe???? Lol

[@moorejoseph8803]

And yes, my mom told all her kids to cook as a meal I do all my cooking, my cleaning, paid my own bills, do everything that she said that you were supposed to do, but yet I find women who cannot do half of what she had said

[@deniseeugene1852]

If you love someone. Cooking for them is an extension of that love. Why? It’s take time patience and effort .

[@reginaldwilliams7348]

Pookie and Ray Ray will get good treatment while the providers get shitted on.😢

[@shayemoore]

Ya'll are not a provider, so that makes you Pookie and Ray Ray. If a woman has to pay bills, you are not a provider. She is the provider.

[@logicalman1172]

And they wonder why other women be taking they valuable men with potential.

[@shayemoore]

The other women can have ya'll.

[@GeeB-bi8id]

@@shayemoore😂😂😂😂 you mad!

[@shayemoore]

@@GeeB-bi8id Nobody wants you. You're a washed up 304

[@shayemoore]

@@GeeB-bi8id You lonely. The women you want don't want you.

[@reginaldblaylock6937]

Truth 500%+500%.

[@rmack3481]

Great Program The Young Brothers and Sisters learned a great deal from this video. R

[@kevinmaden5572]

DISHES PILED UP IN THE SINK !

[@bigwill9421]

"A WOMAN WHO UNDERSTAND A MAN'S NATURE AND KNOWS HOW TO TACTFULLY CATER TO IT, WILL NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT COMPETITION FROM OTHER WOMEN." -DR. GEORGE SUBIRA PH.D

[@shayemoore]

LOL. Only a dumb woman would fall for that. Only desperate women care about a man's so-called nature.

[@hazelboyce7230]

About one hour ago, I plated my husband’s dinner and my own and sat down and had a sumptuous home-cooked meal. We eat home-cooked meals seven days a week, breakfast Lunch and dinner. I don’t know how some men out there making it these days with these modern women who think that to cook and clean is slavery. Funny thing is, I am not hearing this from other groups of women, only from American black women.

[@esthernichols4451]

Me too Sis. I just don't get it with our women. Good for you and your husband though

[@julianbeasley2097]

I hear what she's saying but she's playing into the stereotype what's up with the nails sistas l know yall not wiping right l know it😂😂😂

[@trashtalker9753]

It's not that they don't want to cook meals for men. They dont want to cook EVERY meal for a man. The man should cook sometimes too.

[@williamblockson8013]

Well said and well done , through most won’t know what the hell you’re talking about . And that too is alright with those of us who do !! B1 . Amin and Shalom .

[@Seikuken]

If I even get told I need to hire a maid or “I’m not your momma” or get told I need to order Uber eats she out the door

[@MaatTehuti_Dr_Clark_PsyD]

I ADORE the look on his face when the grinds is 'ON'!! 😂 IJS... Note: He must eat 2-3 times DAILY for decades😉

[@indigolotus1100]

I'm a guy who enjoy cooking, usually stuff I find on pinterest or out of novelty cookbooks, i.e., the Wakanda cookbook I HAD to get my hands on. But to have someone who doesn't see cooking as just some chore would be GREAT

[@xkniswt]

Wait there's a cookbook about Wakanda?

[@indigolotus1100]

@@xkniswt Yes. Official Wakanda cookbook

[@Mrdealornodeal618]

You're preaching! 💪🏾

[@craigmcqueen6181]

alot these ladies are sorry bro

[@bobfisher-zd2lt]

Most likely these conditions will continue and get worse. Too many single family kids raised in a upbringing nontraditional environment

[@kevinmaden5572]

OLD FOOD IN THE FRIDGE FOR WEEKS

[@IC9inethr3BRO]

Shout out to Brother Philip '4' the upcoming B-Day! 🖤💯

[@kevinmaden5572]

THE SISTAS I TALK TO IN AFRICA SAID THEY LOVE TO COOK ! OVER HERE ITS BURGER KING !

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

They don't want to cook,😠 so they don't. That's it.

[@nothingbutthetruth72]

This was a really good one Phil

[@belleame4671]

Something is wrong with women; especially my sisters!!!

[@pontiac00]

👍💯%

[@sbolden123]

Once again we must know our roles and then walk within them. Male and female are equal but are roles are different 😒🙏

[@MultiRealdeal09]

Uber eats for 2 Cleaning servics for 2 If alone, easy peasy

[@Cahluvca]

Let a nonhelpmeet be a nonhelpmeet......

[@baruch12dta-xt2gp]

These are vagabonds thinking men were created to serve them, other way around..

[@Phoenixishot]

Vagabonds? You definitely aren’t going to maintain anything healthy with a woman if that’s what you think of us.

[@baruch12dta-xt2gp]

@@Phoenixishot I never said what tribe of woman.. FOREIGN WOMEN 👍....bvv & vvvv 👎that's who, you two here in the land of the lost.

[@logicalman1172]

Die alone in the long run sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂

[@trentkprue]

Genesis: 2:18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him...understand that the Lord God didn't make man for woman but woman for man...When a woman says she don't need a man, she is going against the purpose of her creation...like it or not, she has been tricked by the enemy into a destructive mindset...& a lifestyle that is against his & her nature...& against the harmony of the man-woman union...but the Modern Woman thinks she is smarter than God...😂

[@gayhendrie84]

I always loved cooking and cleaning for my man

[@willreeves6062]

Help Mate is The Key

[@williamevans1864]

The time were living in you need two incomes if not it’s going to be hard to make ends meet it’s not the 90’s anymore

[@leonemilan7198]

Its my fantasy to cook for my husband! I'm 53, black educated and single and I guess I've "HIT THE WALL" according to Uncle Phil and alllll the other male content creators.

[@PlumpnDreamyWalrus]

These toxic male 'creators' don't decide when you've hit the wall. Get out there and meet someone if you want. I'm sure many would be glad to have you

[@leonemilan7198]

@@PlumpnDreamyWalrusI dont want "many" just 1 great one! Thank you BUT reality says different. I'm out socializing all the time. Im not the "status quo"

[@tileon3502]

What’s so funny is this. If you look on KZbin for people cooking 9 times out of 10 it’s men cooking. When you do use a female recipe, in my experience it’s just not as good. I found that to be very surprising. Think about this also. Usually when you see women fighting or acting out bad, it’s usually at a fast food restaurant or a normal restaurant. That again I found surprising. Women don’t cook like that anymore.

[@kevinmaden5572]

WET CLOTHES IN THE WASHER !

[@kevinmaden5572]

BEG SO MUCH HER HANDS LOOK LIKE CUPS !

[@HI_mustbegoing]

I absolutely believe that even if a man paid all the bills, I GUARANTEE that a black woman would STILL have some sort of problem! I know it, YOU know it, and THEY know it!

[@gratefulone8131]

She has very good life skills and know what to do that would make a relationship work.if a guy has good plans and you see somethings coming together hang in there with him,he will show. That good energy is because he has it because he love you.

[@tonyat5470]

I agree 👍🏽 i dont understood y a woman wont cook for a provider husband.

[@JamesBrown-xo5pd]

Bro go ahead you preaching the night bro. You is preaching tonight

[@jeffjohns357]

My parents raised me living with a non domesticated woman who can't cook clean and do laundry. You have a dirty house, bad food choices, and ruined clothes.

[@chitownstorminnormin4154]

Sis is right!!! CHI TOWN!!! WE BUILDING OVER HERE!!! NOT LEECHING!!!!!

[@finleyrowe4027]

Well said brother phil

[@hareemobduljawon]

Despite her looking like Mr. T she saying some real sh*t. 💯

[@Fitkid7672]

Damn..Mr T

[@frozentundra7446]

Not to change the subject but 34 children are missing in Cleveland during the month of May!

[@olly2027]

I try to cook.

[@marqueldeaneee]

I love to cook ! It’s one of my favorite things to do don’t ask me to bake gonna be terrible asf lmao but I’ll throw down dinner.

[@prettyboyswagg18181]

Marquel I would love to try your food

[@prettyboyswagg18181]

You Beautiful 😍

[@jklmnoqr]

@Marquel Deane: 🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@jklmnoqr]

​@@prettyboyswagg18181 😀🎶🎵💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@fbarigorrall-black]

Truth Phil

[@reginaldwilliams7348]

I can cook for myself

[@kevinmaden5572]

NO SEX ! HE WILL GET THE BLACK BOOK !

[@live4yourself_]

been through this not once but twice lol

[@crownlandking]

I always try to tell brothers stop arguing with these women because at the end of the day after 25 for them. It’s all downhill. Don’t matter if they have a degree/PHD/MVP/DUI it’s all downhill so I don’t argue.

[@dwaynelewis6185]

The problem some women will struggle and men will be there to help. BUT once their situation becomes better such as a good job those SAME women will leave. It doesn’t add up!

[@TheBlackAmericana]

Lolz I'll cook but I'm not cleaning... gross

[@crubie3]

Uncle Phill is obsessed about homemade food and hot meals, hahahaha 😂😂😂😂 C'mon Phil a diet ain't gonna kill you, stop thinking about homemade fried chicken and leave those crazy women alone, we don't want them and they don't want us, so, what is the point?

[@johnpoteat6691]

They are asking for what told men to do they want the bills paid might as well not cook or clean to and they want to do 50/50 either

[@Nightrain349]

They get mad when you're with an African woman.

[@yourbestfriendwhosblack3211]

As a digital nomad in Southeast Asia, you're much better off investing your time learning Wordpress, Webflow and getting the heck outta there than trying to understand the mindset of a western woman. My Filipina is a talented software developer yet still hits the gym and cooks amazing.

[@MelaninOsmosis]

The key to my heart is in the kitchen. The woman that cook will take your man with a plate of food.

[@MelaninOsmosis]

No problem

[@RTA6226]

Look at those talons she's wearing!