Sista Wants Men To Take Her Out For Dates But REFUSE To Give Up Cheeks

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[@Bluecollarjoe6B9]

She requires 90 days from you, while unemployed Tyrone claps for free.

[@jimmie135]

That 90 days is for the std to clear up😅

[@blackolantern5666]

@jimmie135. Best comment ever!😆

[@jrt2792]

I'm writing that one down, thanks​@@jimmie135

[@troymapp]

Right!!

[@jenkericj]

​@@jimmie13590 days for vinegar and Water flushing

[@dred9174]

Then I'll pass on taking her out because these women never say no to thuggo when he comes around. They just say no to you honest hardworking law abiding brothers.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Thuggo

[@EliteDevLo]

Preach brotha

[@larrymcgee7474]

A man is supposed to protect and provide for his wife, not his girlfriend.

[@Rpgmaniac]

Just don't date, dates are for wives and girlfriends

[@dailyhunter3683]

Preach 🙏🙏🙏 louder 🗣️ for the congregation at the back of the church ⛪.

[@allenlevelle]

FACTUMUNDO!!!!

[@chrisconnors9449]

I haven’t since 2017…

[@lunimmiyuri8490]

Wives only. Girlfriends don't mean absolutely nothing.

[@BluEx22329]

Free dates at best

[@steveyj3002]

She refuses to give up the cheeks to the simp 😂 but whatever guy that knows what he is doing she will let him in without any expectations

[@AlphonsoSmith-dn2mv]

9 out 10 women really don't have any value to give a good man , but they want a good man to give everything , but will give it to a Pookie or a Ray Ray for nothing. You will know within the first 5-10 minutes what she is all about in your conversation.

[@Cyber-Rain]

The problem is when women A) Take sex off the table for the guy she's dating, but recently or is currently giving it up for little to nothing for a different guy that she didn't require to go through the same flaming hoops. B) Take sex off the table, but have no Plan B, C, or D to keep a man's interest.

[@quincyblue5098]

Bingo, nailed it

[@targetegrat]

Most guys can be in the category where they get some with no effort. But most guys don't want to work out.

[@6feet5inflorida36]

The situation of a woman going out with a man for no reason except to dine is so common that it is a term for it-Foodie Call. I’m not cheap, but I’m not a sucker either. I’m interested in taking a woman out that has the SAME S€XUAL attraction for me as I have for her. If she is solely interested in going out for food, a concert, etc., find someone else.

[@jfkmydad69]

Facts. Kevin Samuels told women, don't accept any date, that you are not sexually attracted to. Again, they bashed him, but he is correct. That man will not ask a woman on a date if he is not sexually attracted. Makes way too much sense and saves each other the hassle and money. But, as you said Foodie Calls are the norm for b.s women or mostly broke women, looking for a free meal, which is most of them. I see why guys are checking out of relations and go Passport Bro or escort service from time to time. I definitely would if I was single.

[@Cyber-Rain]

It doesn't necessarily has to be sex, but show that the guy isn't wasting his time, energy, and money. The sad part is that when sex is off the table, some of them have absolutely nothing else to offer.

[@SuperDrestone]

This particular woman is a pretty nice, reasonable, intelligent woman. I’ve seen some of her videos.

[@Oir07]

@@SuperDrestoneyes she has a lot of sense

[@bey7khan761]

​@@SuperDrestoneher name is Erica LeShai

[@NubiaBlake]

@@SuperDrestone These women are throwing in the towel 🤭

[@kellbagz563]

Bro if I go on a date with a female and it goes well enough I don’t necessarily expect sex but I expect some sort of intimacy like touching, holding, kissing, hugging. If the date goes bad then ok my bad I gotta hold that but if the female isn’t giving any clear signal and just withholding herself then she’s a dickhead and user. Simple.

[@o.g.teerock1696]

It's real simple so let's go to class with this one....The guy that she likes, he doesn't have to take her out on no dates to get some A.S.S. but the dude that's taking her to dinner or dates that's the dude she doesn't like

[@dailyhunter3683]

I couldn't have put it any better 👍.

[@northernking2604]

She said her box is worth more than a fish dinner!😂 good for her she has some self respect

[@spitflamez]

She is supposed to save them cheeks, not pass them around for food and drinks!!! LOL

[@jrt2792]

Sadly, that's what a LOT OF THEM DO.

[@lunimmiyuri8490]

They are not virgins. FQ me as soon as you MEET ME. or FQ OFF

[@chrisconnors9449]

It’s ironic how they feel Men are supposed to protect & provide for them but yet they don’t feel obligated to have to do anything in return. The delusion is at an all time high now.

[@Laoriginal718]

A man is only obligated to protect the women he’s related to and his wife. He owes no one else anything.

[@Smokescreen-xx9wk]

Right 👍

[@Goddess118]

So we suppose to have sex with you right after??! Then you complain there’s no good women.

[@TwiceBaked2]

The real problem is imagine waiting for trash kewchie.

[@darrenhilton9402]

😂

[@mr.evil616]

And this is why Kevin Samuels ( may he rest in peace) said Dating is Dumb!!!

[@Ismail-cf6xu]

A simple transparent discussion would eliminate all this. Problem is men have become more direct and getting to their objectives unapologetically and women don’t know how to deal with that. The days of playing coy and courting is essentially over ladies and you’re responsible for its demise. Either you’re on the program or you’re not. It’s not personal, but there are many other people out there. Don’t waste your time or theirs. State your motives as early as possible and let the chips fall…or not.

[@odog76543]

And whats really funny is how a lot of women claim they want men to be open and up front about their intentions. Yet then they get upset whether the man is upfront about it, or upset when men lie to get what they want because women like this will immediately punish you for being honest.

[@quincyblue5098]

Either you’re on the program or you’re not.real talk fam

[@kirymckinney6094]

Brothers will say they want a women with a low body count, but want a women to give up the box for going on dates. Crazy as hell

[@tharris106]

Easy solution . Go dutch or women should pay for even number dates. He pays for the first she pays for the second

[@Dr_Evil_Genius]

Good idea… …except you’ll have women exploiting this by agreeing to go on a bunch of first dates and just dipping out after that.

[@arielloe]

A woman should NOT be giving up sex to man just because he takes her out on a few dates. If a man complains about spending money then he shouldn’t be dating. That’s why men don’t value a lot of women nowadays cause it’s easy to get the cheeks without having to do much or court a woman. A date and having sex do not go hand and hand. That’s ridiculous…you better off feeding your damn self ladies…

[@KhadaphiDadon]

As a man who's never had a problem getting 😾, these women be shocked when they notice im not tripping off 😾, and when i tell em they're like a deer in headlights because they don't know which way to go with me.

[@icebergslim3743]

Eggzzactly! I been on the same sh;t my whole life. When u grinding an u got options……..it’s like who cares if u ain’t fukkin me😂

[@KhadaphiDadon]

@@icebergslim3743 EXACTLY 💪🏽

[@tonyjunior-thefirstgentlem410]

What do I think? I know for a fact that some women expect everyone to work except them!

[@yahyahnegro1088]

I'm 59. Experience says start how you should finish. My money is my money and it's a bad investment to spend money on something (most women)that hasn't proven to be an asset. Most modern women are a liability. 😊😅

[@arkanasstatelinerobinsons2209]

Asking women out on date for sex is not a date it's a booty call a date is a chance to get to know each other for a possible future relationship with each other spending money on date with a woman is your choice remember the woman has rights respect her and she will respect you ❤

[@Eltonscruggs]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back.

[@Eltonscruggs]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

[@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb]

Her name is *Shelly renee white* , and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.

[@Eltonscruggs]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@neon_one_neo3317]

Feel insulted if someone ask you to be a fool

[@phillyjoe1176]

A lot of women nowadays. They not only want you to take them out on a date. They pick the most expensive place they can think of and on top of that they need money for their light bill. They also need gas money. They want you to help pay their phone bill and their rent. So tell me what is that all about and then the man wants to hit the cheeks and they don't want to do anything but they expect all of that from a person.😮 💯🤟🏽

[@mrhollister8520]

“Dating” is whack city! It’s a waste. This process has been extremely over complicated. Either the woman is a wife or not. Also, there is a broad difference between a male and a man. This cannot be vetted over a ‘dating’ spell.

[@RosebyanyothernameYahudi-id6rd]

So how is that supposed to be vetted? That didn't make any sense

[@lunimmiyuri8490]

Dating has always been a man made scam. I don't date, I choose and rule.

[@theimportantthingsthatreal9842]

Very good points. But why would a man spend a lot of money on a woman when she is going out with other men. Does not make sence.

[@Cedric-Cortez]

Yes, why don’t we legalize pros. Let’s legalize it, and see how that works out for them. Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.

[@isiakahome5999]

That'll fix this problem. Women will have to bring more value that punani. Please legalize sex work!!!! They'll be begging men for dates.

[@mafamac4069]

​@lordhavmersayHow long soon. I want to see the destruction of romance happen before our eyes

[@allenwilson6462]

It started in Manhattan because I saw a article that police don't have the time to arrest prostitutes and now you see lots of women on the track in some neighborhoods.​@@mafamac4069

[@zensunnah]

Erica Leshai is NOi and an honorable woman. She stands with men on many issues so I get what she’s saying.

[@datswhatiwastrynatellyall7062]

Idk why this is still even a topic. Fellas we know what time it is. No need to say anything. Fall back, let the dust settle, The time U spend chasing or courting women needs to be better spent on self improvement. If every conversation had with BW is based on what you can do for them, or what u have to do for them to be this or that. Then you know thats not the type of women you need to be entertaining. Everything is Transactional. It always has been it always will be. You have to know that there is and always will be a PRICE on women and they box Wether it be subtle or direct. You have a choice to Fall back or Play on these New Terms they are trying to enforce. BOX is everywhere Theres no shortage of box Why fret over it🤷🏾‍♂️

[@darrenhilton9402]

🎯👏🏿👊🏿

[@Msalike]

Exactly, I don’t believe these stats, that say men are not getting box ain’t no way.

[@dany6781]

Agreed but I have a question 🙋🏾‍♀️ Why are many men having convos with BW anyway? Bw are the least desired especially by bm. Shouldn’t your statement say women? Y’all don’t want us so why limit yourselves to us?

[@haamidsharif4974]

Why would a men go out dates, when women want to control the rules of the relationship. If the man is upfront about his rules of him going out on dates. Then the woman has the right to say no and keep it moving. Neither one of them should not put each other on blast, if they don’t agree with the others rules. Just don’t use each other for a free meal or sex.

[@joshuaswayzer2874]

😂she not cooking cleaning or bringing peace ✌🏿 to the guys life

[@definiteg4909]

It seems as tho Erica Leshay has shown her true colors

[@jasongibbs3713]

Lol. I'm not taking a woman on a date even if there is a guarantee of sex. It's unnecessary

[@jjayphilly342]

EASY on this one OSHAY. This is Erica Leshai and she is a REAL ONE. She is a rider.

[@Kinglioncrown]

Yes

[@phillyjoe1176]

The problem is lack of communication and understanding from the gate. I don't expect anything for going out on a date with a woman, but there are a lot of women who use dates as a way of getting free things for men so there needs to be an understanding. Are you courting for the purpose of a relationship or you dating just as friends? What's the purpose in it that needs to be established before you start going out on dates with people? Because there are a lot of women who have a guy for each day of the week. So she's eating out every night and just using these men. I understand where she's coming from. If you're looking for sex because you buy a meal then you need to go get you a lady of the night, but if you're looking to date to get to know a person and to end up in a relationship, there's something different. You don't have to go out on dates to get to know somebody. You can talk on the phone. You can take a walk in the park. You can have coffee. You don't always have to go on these expensive dinners and events where the man always has to come out of his pocket with a lot of money, if you are sincere and truly meeting a future partner, money should not play or role in it at all. 💯🤟🏽

[@javaristurner6146]

Well said and I entirely agree. Because I don't pressure women for sex I've had numerous women tell me I was playing hard to get.

[@tonisimon929]

Yea. I believe dating should be 100% intentional. As women, we should not waste men's time. Don't go out with men you are not interested in. That's very immature. Unfortunately, when you are dating it's hard to tell who's for you and who's not. Glad I'm off the market.

[@joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671]

Date women who like you and find you attractive. If she is not reciprocating your level of interest, then don't waste your time.

[@ed5308]

The problem is men are still expected to do the courting. Pick out the restaurant, pay the tabs, take her home. When you get home she friend zones you and says she had a great time. I get it she will not put out on the first date. OK but if you just want food dates then why am I wasting my time and money. Just so you can tell your friends you have a sucker on the line? This is why men have given up pursuing women. Time, money, and energy are better spent on more fun and productive things. Not this women in particular she is interested in her happiness not yours or anyone else's.

[@bladebrown8247]

She's right

[@myafrosheen]

I used to think that she had sense but when I heard this take I had to unfollow her on IG as it shows that her mindset is no better than the other 304s and finesse chicks out there. She just masks it with the black love narrative

[@Dr_Evil_Genius]

She looks and sounds like Derrick Jaxn.

[@sandrawilliams5132]

Talk on the phone, meet once a month, u til you agree you have something in common or not

[@jimmie135]

Huh? I can tell if we have something in common in a 5 minute conversation. The thing is this. Imagine you have a brother and a sister. Your brother gives your sister $100 for nothing. You say hey bro I want $100 too. He says he'll give it to you but you must clean his room and wash his car. Would you feel he loves you as much as your sister? Or would you feel used?

[@MrBstuy]

Why would a woman encourage men to go seek sex workers? When she is unhappy, single, and lonely - do you think she will regret getting what she asked for?

[@dcar7446]

That’s why tgifrdays Applebees longhorn chilis Olive Garden is the best spots for dates especially in the beginning between the both of you the price should only be around $80 but yeah the point of dating is to get to know each other and see if you want to move forward and continue the relationship that should take a couple of dates not saying jump in bed right away but saying after a couple of dates she should at least invite you over to the crib to hang out or she should offer to take you out or a meetup date or something that doesn’t always have the dude paying it shows she at least has some interest in you

[@Beasy63]

Shes apart of the Nation, she gets a pass. She’s been advocating for the black family for years

[@beautifullyflawed2022]

exactly

[@KINGJAMES-ke9pe]

E🎉exactly

[@NubiaBlake]

She's losing patience with the same dusty men she keeps defending 😂😂😂

[@bronxnyc9680]

She's MOST DEFINITELY BEAUTIFUL and INTELLIGENT WOMAN.

[@Jpsaidit]

Men that want to be providers and want a submissive women and are dating seriously. Stop “asking” a women what value she provides, and start “telling” women what your requirements are and if she likes you she’ll meet them or at the very least try her best to meet them. Because I saw nothing wrong with what the lady said. But I would only tell her this on the second or third date. Use the first date to Build the vibe and connection to see if there are any noticeable red flags, and to see if you actually like the girls personality. Then move forward with the value thing on the dates after that.

[@theimportantthingsthatreal9842]

Women are suppose to show a man that she is wife material by doing some wifely things like maybe cooking. A woman who is wife material is not going to be going out with other men. If she refuses to show you that she is wife material, refuse to take her out. Or just take her on a coffee date.

[@amanslife360]

This is why men build rosters. It all takes time and money for us. Sex foe women takes no time and costs nothing.

[@BlackMaleSpirituality]

She just revealed to me what I knew she already was.

[@NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK]

dates are a waste of money unless she already like me

[@blacqgod8023]

She said nothing wrong !

[@visiow2691]

She’s a 🤡

[@anybodycangetit-e1s]

The problem is this ladies if a man approaches you and tries to talk to you he's interested in you it's definitely physically from the very beginning not saying just because a guy is physically attracted to you that is an automatic for sexual activity men don't really think just because I offer to take you out and spend money and time with you that doesn't mean oh it's going down now if a woman accepts the date guys may think she's interested in me maybe she's physically attracted to me women are in control of sexual activity whether it happens or not it's just a crazy situation women know what a guy is after not solely but guys are hoping for physical affection or activity

[@macc1279]

Ain’t nothing wrong with that she can want all she wants 😂😂😂 who giving it to her

[@RCCrosby]

Dating is a very new thing, and makes no sense. If you're going to date, you should date with the intent to marry.

[@feefee2]

Jeezis Chrice! This talk about paying 4 dates have gotten ridiculous. Geeze ill pay 4 my own dam 15 dollar dinner. Whoopty dooo im down 15 bux omg.

[@Dr_Evil_Genius]

This shows you’re showing up in good faith. It’s not about the money. It’s about showing your interest is real and not playing stupid games.

[@darrenhilton9402]

Let's be clear, Erica LeShai, is one of the good ones. Sometimes, we just need to have a conversation. We're not going to agree on everything. But basically, she's okay.

[@NubiaBlake]

She's throwing in the towel 😂😂😂this is embarrassing for yall

[@themainlion]

Right. She has taken many arrows for Black Men

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

here's my thing , i dont expect a women to give it up right a way ...but after the second or third date the woman needs to reciprocate in some type of way, if not sex then she a pay for a date or cook dinner , but if she not give anything in return i assume shes using me and im not calling her back , i aint gone be the "'food" contact in her phone

[@Imma_Gee]

I still don't understand why this would be a problem. How thirsty are you? You're going to get it eventually, but do you live your life for it? Spend some time to get to know her 1st. Hook-up culture presents ample opportunity to get a fix, but if you want a relationship, what's the rush. You'll still be alive in a year. The main issue you should have is if she expects you to always be spending resources on her without any reciprocation, which includes but is not limited to money.

[@artzarr5032]

She's right. Let's scrape the whole thing. Whatever she won't do another woman will. No one feel used and everybody's happy.

[@THETHIRDL2009]

It's not even about the sex. Its just tbh sex is only thing that most women have to offer. Because I've heard men complain some women won't even give you their attention just textibg on their phones. Why do men have to be chivalrous? But women don't have to do anything? "He should pay because that's what real men do" right??? Smh lol

[@eliasbergsteigerausschwarz3654]

Uncle Oshey is redpilled. 💯🤝🏾

[@MinorityReport-ll1yw]

OSHAY, dont let people put you in a box. Quit putting yourself in a box. You can change. You dont have to be a trick or simp. It’s not about looks. But being fit is legit. I promise if you work on getting a six pack and lean, females will stART tricking on you. You’re an endomorph, which means you can gain muscle more easier, but you need struck diet and cardio for the slimming part.

[@Goddess118]

But honestly as a woman, if a woman doesn’t want to sleep with you on the first date, how is she wrong for that?? Then the men get mad about finding a good woman or a modern woman is selfish. A good woman will not have sex on the first date. What will that say about her if she does?? I’m not complaining. It’s a lot of single childless women like myself. I’m not proud of it but I’m not doing that crazy shit

[@jordandennis1699]

Are you saying you're the only woman in the world who hasn't had sex on the first date? Just curious

[@Goddess118]

@@jordandennis1699 lol no I’m not saying that, I’m saying women in general. Or as a man, u can’t get mad if woman don’t want to do that, but then say she’s selfish or she just a modern day woman. Like not everything is the woman’s fault

[@SeeDaDancer]

Yeah this was a great video and so true

[@philtyrich1]

Oh so she want a Uber Eats dude

[@asiatichebrew5100]

There has to be some kind of middle ground. I mean we as men can't say we want a woman with a low body count but then expect them to put out relatively easily. Best believe if she's attractive enough she will be dating often especially if nothing leads to marriage and then those bodies will rack up and then no man with standards will value her.

[@jawarafrazer8530]

I agree with you to a point but there is another side to it. I think most men are ok if she dont put out on the 1st or even 2n,3rd day we can respect it however what we are concerned about is if the guys before us had that same standard placed on them before us. If they did then its ok if she didnt placed any standard on those before and gave it up easily its seen as a 🚩simply because it makes us question her genuine attraction and desire for us if she let us wait yet others didnt and if we doubt her attraction toward us it doesnt bode well.

[@asiatichebrew5100]

@@jawarafrazer8530 I understand that part too. Learned that lesson when watching One on One back in the day. If you're familiar with that show then you know exactly what I'm talking about

[@tomjohnson7115]

The young lady is partially correct, the part she's missed is.... she should offer to cook the meal and invite him to dinner ( showing she's wife material but not giving what should be reserved exclusively for her husband)...

[@hottfam2574]

I would say every woman over 25 has had a 1 night stand or given it up on the first date. Don’t take the date if he not that guy.

[@ltod2]

Facts I'm 56,back in the day the majority of women would give it up if they feeling your swag,confidence.I'm 56,still can pull young women but not worth headache these days.Some have nothing to offer

[@hottfam2574]

@@ltod2 Im 48, women used to be taught dont take anything from a man unless you are interested in him and you are prepared to give him something, what happened to that?

[@garyneal8828]

The no purpose in depositing your money in a bank that pays negative interest. A relationship is an investment, if the man doesn't invest money and time the woman usually feels her body and time isn't worth her investment. Reciprocity and the theory of relativity apply. The real question is at what point is pursuit useless or taken for granted?

[@antoinerogers2692]

Dudes cant be struggling that bad out here. This dating thing really shouldnt be an issue. Either you got the cash and the swag or not fellas.always step ya game up, and stop getting curved by these chicks who shouldnt even be in the same room as you.

[@AnnaDimples]

Dates don’t mean having sex ?

[@jimmie135]

It used to be the unspoken rule that the 3rd date meant sex. Now everyone is using everybody and dating is all fvcked up. Transactional relationships are becoming the norm. "I'll pay your cricket bill for a bj" "I got you on the rent but we gotta run a train on you." It's trash out here😂

[@visiow2691]

Dates doesn’t mean the man always paying

[@CoolCiti1]

Why ppl crying about double standards... You expect something different from things that are different.. It's not rockets science. Ppl be dying on the wrong hills in order to be undisciplined and unaccountable. . in battles they didn't need to fight

[@gregorylagrange]

familiarize yourself with more of her videos before you decide her point of view from one video oshay picked and cut up. She's agreeing that men should not go down the ATM road of an imaginary carrot being held out in front of them with the illusion that one day, after they've paid for enough, that it's going to happen. And she's also agreeing that you don't accept a date with somebody that you have no interest in so that you don't get to false expectations from money being spent. The idealized thinking of the greater the effort will be appreciated and read as "wow, he's someone that will treat me well.." and garner affection has all but disappeared. And really only works for females that are close to too young to date or too old to date. The Tia Mowry requests for wining and dining is on the surface stating that the greater effort will garner greater appreciation and affection, not unlike really good customer service makes you like employees and shopping at a store. It's no longer appreciated, because she had that and graduated from it. And tons of women co-signed the thinking.

[@RoderickSpode]

I adore that sister in the video and l watch her content from back in the days to now. She is right in her position, to stay away from you PBC KGs, because all you will do is make her a single mother. What she needs is a productive, Educated Lame brother like me.

[@jamesmiller5304]

Typical modern woman expects the world from you, while giving absolutely nothing but crumbs if that at all. Brothers save your Duckets improve your health take your time choosing hopefully a good woman and live a stress free life because life is too short to except Crap.

[@MasterDatingAbroad]

NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE..... real men and real women

[@lunimmiyuri8490]

Theirs no virgins in America, GAME OVER

[@jimmie135]

What happened to the 3 date rule? 3rd date meant sex. I was cool with that. You should definitely know by the 3rd date with all the phone calls in-between. 1st date get to know each other over coffee. 2nd date fun activities, 3rd date dinner and sex.

[@ArtwithAmarBrisco]

Paying for the first date is not simping it is just old school thinking. Also sex is not the ultimate prize jn mosr cases because not all sex is good. If she can't communicate or show me what other thjngs she offers based kn the date. Then it is a waate of time anyway.

[@dancyshadowstorm943]

Lets do the math 1. Good man + Not all the basics = friendzone or overlook/June bug + Not all the basics = All the play 2. Good men + Want to take you serious = Boring /June bug + Not want to take you serious = Fun 3. Good man + Cookies and Milk = Boring date /June bug + Home and chill = Fun date 4. Good man + 9-5 job = Lame and boring /June bug + No job = Good and fun 5. Good man + no kids = Not want it /June bug + 2 or more kids = Want more I know the math is crazy but if you really think about it on one hand it's true 9/10.

[@orlandorobinson9369]

Yet they don't want to go to the Cheesecake Factory.🤣🤣🤣

[@mrworkowt5419]

This sister is cool

[@duttreacts4780]

facts ive seen her stuff she chill

[@KINGJAMES-ke9pe]

Yea she noi she cool

[@IAmtells]

So I travel overseas it’s easy to deal with them over there 🤷🏾‍♂️👍🏿👌🏿

[@Pet_whisperer_38]

I can’t relate but I love your channel and it’s pure entertainment

[@erictoomer5665]

I love Erica and I love the morals and ethics behind it but we gotta be going somewhere too.

[@douglasmuhammad9447]

Love sister Erica Lashai 🖤

[@wickedwisdom6088]

Couples should NOT be fornicating. What is fornication? The word fornication is a noun (for·​ni·​ca·​tion ˌfȯr-nə-ˈkā-shən) and refers to CONSENSUAL sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other. The First Epistle to the Corinthians states, "Flee from sexual immorality" and lists adulterers and "those who are sexually immoral"/practicing-fornicators in a list of "wrongdoers who [...] will not inherit the kingdom of God" (1 Corinthians 6:9 and 6:18). 📖

[@patriciahamilton2728]

Men and women just need to be aware of what they want from relating to each other. If one knows what he or she is looking for, them let it be known, and if what you are looking for is not seen here, just keep it moving. If you are relying on someone you trust to guide you in seeking, starting and maintaining an healthy relationship, stick with that. Otherwise, everybody else’s opinions should not matter.

[@thinkbetter49ers]

That's Erica she's a real solid person. Leave her alone Oshay she's 1000% for black ppl and she is right.

[@visiow2691]

She’s a 🤡

[@thinkbetter49ers]

@@visiow2691 how so

[@thinkbetter49ers]

@@visiow2691 she really is solid person

[@khanyisakeketv]

Poetic Flakko goes on dates with his girlfriend and takes care of her financially but she has never given up them cheeks for him. So it is possible to find brothers who will pay for dates, without clapping cheeks.

[@diz0973ify]

I can understand where she’s coming from. I wouldn’t expect a chick I just met & took out the first time to F. Matter Of Fact, if she did afterwards I’d probably lose respect for her F for food BUT if we were dating & going out for a few weeks, HELL YEAH! It’s time to let me; butter the biscuits. However every situation is different. I’m more traditional; she gotta be dating ONLY me, NO male friends in her camp. That’s how it has to be with me. Imagine; you’re taking her out to nice restaurants; whining and dining, then you drop her off & some other dude; her friend is digging her out. That would make me a SIMP to the 3rd power. She can not have male friends

[@Jupiterxice]

Well, the problem is Modern VVomen like her has used good men for free dinners without anything in return or oblige. Most these VVomen will go expensive date and turn around not call the dude or just keep it friendship while pookie around the way smashes it.

[@dred9174]

Exactly when men caught onto the games we decided to just keep our money why am I taking you out on dates when thuggo is smashing you and he didn't spend a dime.

[@ltod2]

Give me a reason to take you out,are you worth my time and energy?Can you give a conversation,give positive energy?If can't don't waste my time,you got give it up at some point.Especially if the man making effort but what are you bringing to the table?

[@tracismith6641]

Okay this is an honest question cuz I was in a coma 2012 so now I'm kind of living like a lonely teenager who never gets any but what is considered a high body count today's current Society I'm stuck in

[@countyourpennies8474]

Shes right.

[@my5722]

She makes sense, but if she were another race it wouldn't be a big deal. This is how you build a strong relationship and potential family. It always has been. Modern men, if this is a problem get your instacart and "corn"hub. What modern men have no idea how create stable familys nor strong community.

[@gadeyeye6268]

accountability is not as easy as acting is. Keep to your standards sis goddess. They out there somewhere

[@a.deg.6608]

"traditional" women dont have sex on the first date. What are you guys crying about?