Black Women think they are SUPERIOR to Black Men: The Table [preview]

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[@othellologos8225]

Thanks!

[@othellologos8225]

Hey Man, sorry I haven't watched the episode yet but I wanted to hit you with a thanks. ✌🏾

[@wnttalk]

Thank you my brother 🙏🏿

[@djdarkphador]

@wnttalk My brother....every point you made was logical and true....but every time you tried to show a man's point of you and our grievances to the ladies....its a repeat of ( well it's men's fault for this or that or why the are on the circumstances we are in). I'm starting to lose hope with our sisters and our community as a whole of ever coming together.

[@devonjenkins6829]

I understand the problem you're having right now. See the issue is that you guys haven't found a way to defend the traditional family unit. The women don't see the value in traditional roles so what you should have done was call their bluffs. Ask them would they like to start paying for dates and be told to wait for sex?? Their like kids who don't understand the reason why parents make rules so when they grew up they decided to not follow the rules their parents taught them to live easy, peaceful and prosperous lives but they're surprised when their lives end up the opposite chaotic, no surety and the future is unclear. The parents rules represent the traditional values passed down generation to generation and these women are like the rebellious children who don't value traditional values or the parents rules

[@devonjenkins6829]

​@wnttalk bro you gotta stop letting them say it goes both way, we really have to give parameters around who's doing what so we know who to hold accountable for what. If you say it goes both ways their not gonna receive the message. I have a gf you have to talk to them like man does a women and they don't think rationally. They don't care what you say even if you're right, the only way for them to get the point Is if they switch roles.

[@thecodetalker5742]

The need to be right is strong with this group of women.

[@Superpius91]

Exactly..... Talking to them is like hitting the wall

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@bigsteve3530]

Trying to have an enlightened, thoughtful, intellectual conversation with the panel of women is absolutely grating. It is obvious that they didn't hear a single word that was said. Their answers are typical of women listening to respond instead of listening to engage in a good faith discussion.

[@lshinobi9999]

He's doing a lot of talking , it's over their heads majority of these ladies aren't for men.

[@aceboogy]

Man! (All pun ⏸😂) shorty just kept saying “no” or would have a rebuttal as opposed to acknowledging what was said.

[@brothersFSU]

“We don’t know how to view men as victims. We don’t know how to view women as perpetrators” Man, that hit me hard

[@2freeman1]

Yea I agree

[@kuroyama95]

The theme of the 2010s and beyond

[@klid4444]

It's a valid point.

[@euphoricbliss6699]

It's been this way in all of history for some reason

[@theveryplumdarcey]

What is wrong with a woman asserting her views? Why is this seen as a problem?

[@The82monte]

Had a woman tell me that I didn't know how to express my feelings. Then once I did, she said "awww, what's wrong, you're in your feelings?" 🙄 Bish go away from me....😆

[@ShaniquaJwest]

These conversation are sad, frustrating and disappointing. I've learned that when you talk to people that are set on not trying to understand you, it is a complete waste of time! How do we fix this problem when it falls on death ears smh

[@Benzzo3000]

This conversation was cringe for a couple of reasons... They didn't want to absorb the information from the start AND the well thought out and simple analogies went clear over their heads. This is why men would rather not (in general) have these talks with our women. They go NOWHERE! It's so frustrating and disappointing.

[@SWAGKINGSBD]

You leave

[@ctruth6185]

@@RKG5A5 Men can close their legs too, God expects both unmarried men & women to close their legs. I'm tired of these videos with men talking with women blaming, excuse making & manipulating. God did not bless women with the power of leadership or the genius to shape & subdue the earth! God created women to "COMPLEMENT" a man; meaning to add or enhance what he's already worked to create. It doesn't mean coddle the man. It doesn't mean parent the man, provide for the man and build the man from the ground up! Why don't these sorry, manipulative black men talk to each other about something other than bw, sex & women? Talk with other men about male aspirations, spirituality, male standards, male expectations! Ask what do you seek to achieve? Stop blaming bw--- its manipulation at this point. Successful, well adjusted men can be married, single, divorced or even chaste. Men can be successful w/o women that's the way God planned. So why is a woman's to blame when you lose? That's crap. When a man has developed his leadership & his full potential he will exude power; he will get respect. He will attract women, who will follow him. A woman was created to be the cherry topping the masterpiece. She doesn't have all the answers! Black men need to work on getting rid of their slave mind and developing the God mind then, he can tap into God energies to shape & control his environment, lead his community & shape his destiny. We are made to glorify God & reflect God on earth. Put those energies, gifts & intelligence to work! If you want a Queen be a King! Don't expect a queen to marry a janitor! Smh. As, parents, our boys need, identity, purpose, guidance & direction else, they grow up to become lost men. Its never too late to start over.

[@Thunder9036]

This is why as a man you never relinquish power and responsibility to a woman because when it goes bad it’s your fault.

[@teckzilla108]

Facts. Regardless of what these guys said and examples they gave, the women here just hark back to "Its men's fault" and let us be honest that "tap into your feminine side" is total bs and nonsense and just another form of manipulation by some women. men and women do distinct things to make relationships work, men can be understanding from a male perspective and not everything has to be done from the female perspective.

[@daviddawkins2866]

The level of patience from this man throughout this session of intentionally misunderstanding, deflecting, and mental gymnastics to make it seem as if his analogies & metaphors didn't somehow make sense or add up is WILD. Salute to you sir!

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you brother!

[@marcasino3117]

This was beyond gaslighting

[@fastrecon1]

WNTT I commend you first for being who you are and for what you are trying to do. At my age I am not one to be so patient with the state of things in our community in these times. Again, I applaud and appreciate you. Keep up the good work. Cheers!

[@wnttalk]

@@fastrecon1 yessir 🫡

[@724Matthew]

Perfectly explained that was so frustrating to watch.

[@KA1of1]

The moment she said: “*Who told him to pick up the guitar?*” I knew that the analogy went right over her head, she has conversations to hear herself talk, and she’s definitely the: “*I AM THE TABLE!!!*” type of woman. 🤦🏾‍♂️😖🤯

[@Drega001]

Him: the sky is blue, so I try to accurately portray it in my paintigs for my clients Her: thats the situation you made for yourself with other artists 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@wnttalk]

Lmao

[@yoogeo1]

This was physically painful to watch. The facial expressions, the denial, the constant saying that we give you grace whilst denying Allen or his points any grace. It was agonising. Imagine being married to this. This is the problem. Anyway, igbo kwenu as always

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@bigsteve3530]

Trying to have an enlightened, thoughtful, intellectual conversation with the panel of women is absolutely grating. It is obvious that they didn't hear a single word that was said. Their answers are typical of women listening to respond instead of listening to engage in a good faith discussion.

[@Neo.Jordon]

What's scarier is they dont have the feelings of denial, they genuinely believe this stuff. This is their truth

[@Getloose360]

Which is why panels like this don’t make sense. Caveat: If it’s to showcase and expose behavior…cool, but if it’s an attempt at meaningful discourse why even bother.

[@KimmieB1993]

They want men in touch with their feminine side. 😂😂😂

[@gtgargon]

KS told ya'll about SIGN language, but the Need to Be Right is by far the strongest force. I would be pulling the hair out my head having to deal with these women.

[@ThurstMETV]

Watching a lot of KS old work I now admire his patience more than ever and don’t understand how he did this night end and night out.

[@skinfanjay]

Yes. Lawd. Lol. 💯✌️

[@KrewSeason]

Dope conversation. This was a masterclass on patience lol ✊🏾

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you fam 🙏🏿We definitely gonna link for another collab opportunity at some point

[@smokindatshit8268]

This is one of the main reasons black men are dating other cultures and getting passports A good majority of our sisters swear they’re superior over us

[@ackshonlife]

Accountability is Kryptonite. 😂

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@ackshonlife]

@@johncapo2843 hard to switch software when ratchet is winning. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jitifitnesshouse9537]

Rest in peace to The Godfather

[@abdulsharif6541]

Exactly 😂

[@Black_unity597]

You know when I see videos such as this I often wonder if the Brown (black) who watching are really listening to what these two brothers are saying in full! Like one you say accountability right we’ll let me give you some that you are not willing to take! 1. Whatever our women are is the direct results of our failure as Brown (black) men they are the way they are because we are not leaders in our communities we are not protectors in our communities we do not build businesses in our communities we do not lead our women and children in our communities! In every other race of men in their communities they are all of these things! That’s why you do not see any other race of men having these little boy cry baby conversation! We have to take accountability for everything the Brown (black) community is and isn’t it is our failures that our communities are in the condition that they are in its high time we man the fuck up and stop with this weak winning shit you boys are doing ask a man of a different race what he thought about the winning Brown (black) men are doing in these videos! They are laughing their asses off at us! Shake back brother go speak with your grand father and stop listening to guys who couldn’t get women until they had this podcast what real information can he give you in Highschool the girl they liked didn’t like them and it fucked them up till this day hence the THE PODCAST! 😂

[@edrickwashington182]

This conversation went right over their heads.

[@kennethsmith6367]

They are arguing for them not to be accountable for their decisions. Basically they are either playing stupid or are just stupid!!

[@soloman_svd]

@@kennethsmith6367 I say it's both

[@Endure144]

@@soloman_svd definitely both

[@eternaldarkdragon8902]

These women don't care about men! They don't want to do or give anything to please the black man. The host will soon realize he's wasting his time.

[@theartifact1193]

I usually avoid watching chicks like this in a discussion, and 20 min in I remembered why and exited.

[@JohnMiller123]

As soon as she came in with her "rigidity of roles" rhetoric, she exposed herself as disingenuous and rebellious. I accept none of their "patriarchy" propaganda. Men meeting this madness even half-way, are running nothing but a "fools errand".

[@technofilejr3401]

0:52 I decided long ago that if a woman can’t be held accountable for her actions she ain’t for me. If you are a grown woman you should be able to accept your faults and not project. When you are wrong you are wrong. Been married for 28+ years and my wife understands I’m a loving man but I don’t play when it comes to childish crap.

[@sungod62]

They just don’t get it and from their body language, responses and facial expressions they don’t even want to get it 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Superpius91]

Exactly they don't care

[@breal1266]

Exactly

[@dgo9121]

This is because they feel as if they have a position of power over men in this society so their programmed to deflect anything that goes against that

[@TheRhetoric]

They don't wanna get it; they wanna be right. They don't want to change or improve so it's pointless for them to actively listen, in their minds.

[@elofvengeance8400]

They just don't care They think they're white women.. All I hear is white supremacist feminist talking points.." But man but you men but men but men"

[@isaacbright2235]

That whole entire conversation that this panel just had is a complete display of why the black community would never ever get it together. Not one of those ladies listened to grasp an understanding of what the issues are. Every last one of them listened just to respond.

[@traindawg21]

That's top reason why so many brothers are getting passports and just saying eff it

[@jaywoods375]

Absolutely

[@dizruptivemindz]

Listening to respond

[@NinaBee1]

The reason this conversation seems pointless is because the people on the panel aren’t dating each other. They are strangers trying to explain things from their personal experiences in dating and relationships. It’s an individual experience for each of them. This is not a community conversation because these people have no connection in real life.

[@corteznelson9873]

@@NinaBee1 you can talk in general ... I don't have to have a personal experience of nothing to know that 80% of black women are single mothers ...

[@sabrinawashington7933]

As a woman who is 49 and married for 23 years, I really wanted the ladies to be humble and listen. I have single friends who have the same complaint. Every relationship is made of 2 flawed people committed to working together. It took me 10 years of letting down my wall of pride to pay attention to his history and their own. I have to put my pride down daily to communicate with someone who took time to trust me to communicate with. It's a long patient process.

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much for this comment sister!

[@tru_hart]

you are a masterclass in communication. you’re intuitive, you read the room and you choose your words carefully. and you actually listen to what is being said and respond accordingly. it makes me sad that you didn’t receive the same courtesy of being listened to. you can very visibly see a tuning out in the body language throughout the video. i had this conversation with my mother, father and aunt recently and it was the very same response and even more vehement. i even asked “okay so you can list all the flaws of men in relationships but what are some of the shortcomings of women in them?” … i got nothing. the messaging remains the same: women are inherently good. any that aren’t is the fault of men. men are faulty and unworthy by nature. any that aren’t is because of women. it’s an exhausting conversation but i’m glad you’re doing this work

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

This man's patience is INFINITE. How he continues to attempt to educate women about men only for it to consistently go over their heads time and time again is INSANE

[@user-vx3oj6ib3y]

That's because most women don't care what men want because they get chased so they don't have to care

[@ctruth6185]

Its not about "educating women about men" Its about black men rising to develop themselves to become leaders, providers & builders. Lead the relationship. The woman you intend to marry is the only woman, who cares and needs to understand you. That comes with time & building intimacy in a committed relationship. Random women owe you nothing.

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

@@ctruth6185 so? Who asked for your input?

[@killaswing1000]

This conversation is why I kinda stop talking to women about certain things because it's a dead end. Allen: women became masculine because of men's failure and situations. ( Put some of the blame on men for why things the way they are.) Allen: Men act the way they act because those dudes are the ones that get chose and rewarded in our culture. (Nope that's on you guys competing) like what in the actual fuck. Or you guys reward by mate selection dudes that actually move a particular way to be a solid husband. This is the grace he's talking about.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@diegomagellan]

You tried wooow!!!! I gave up years ago

[@scartissuefilms]

It's always men's responsibility. That's why men HAVE to be in charge. They will always blame you, even if you had nothing to do with something, so you should be the one to make all the rules.

[@MylezNevison]

#Problem: Having these discussions in a *point for point* format isn't the most effective way because it fosters a debate and competitive (need to be right) atmosphere; which in turn triggers women to emotionally react... #Solution: Arguing point for point is like pouring fuel on fire. You kill fires by letting them burn themselves out of oxygen, NOT by giving them fuel. How do we do this practically? One way is the socratic method... Itscomplicated, on his youtube channel employs it masterfully and has demonstrated it to be the best way to get women thinking through discussions INSTEAD of feeling through them... Telling women what the truth is, is akin to giving a man a fish; whereas asking them the right questions socratically is akin to teaching them to fish. If men employ and master the socratic method, they will make women fight their own logic & emotions themselves as opposed to what we have currently (the women fighting the men)... #Synopsis: We have been going about our communication with women the wrong way. They aren't wired to be linear in their reasoning like men, so getting them from point A to B in a linear way feels unnatural & uncomfortable for them, especially with triggering topics. Men trying to talk to women how they talk to men is a recipe for chaos, frustration & insanity. It's counterintuitive, but women reason better through questioning rather than through direct answers... Only give direct consice answers to their direct consise questions but when it comes to explaining things to them, socratic questions yield bet results than long winded explainations their emotional state can easily tune out off... When you ask the right question & they hear the answer in their own voice (in their heads), they are more likely to believe it than if they heard the same answer in a man's voice. It's kind of backwards & solipsist l know, but that's how they are in emotionally volatile situations. We can only ADAPT and find ways to remedy it or let communication DIE. Just as "the game is to be sold, not told" with women, *the truth is to be coaxed, not told...*

[@Blackout300]

I caught that to. The one in the camera hasn’t listened to understand shit. She was listening to respond and argue! Not worth the aggravation. She never listened even when she asked him a question.

[@marlonhenderson9865]

This man stayed on point, was patient, and showed extreme grace the entire time while continually being met with side points, SIGN language, and zero accountability... Hats off to this man! Period.

[@jerunamooutdoors]

None of these women wanted to listen to any points the men were making. They only listened to respond and tell the panel how they felt in the different discussions. Also they did a lot of deflecting and pointing the finger back at men.

[@traindawg21]

It never ceases to amaze me how the need to be right runs so damn strong with our women.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

These panels are pointless because the men running them are trying to have conversations instead of forcing the participants to think and challenging them with questions. Women have survived by thinking a certain way. Y’all are trying to fight against millions of years of female biology. You will never win.

[@heruapocalypse2021]

You got that right

[@Endure144]

wow

[@dgo9121]

This is typically a passed down mindset from their staff single mothers

[@voncoleman6111]

The fact they kept saying “that goes for men a women” too, no fuckin shit

[@louisconyer2703]

Western society is OVER! Their is no coming back. This is why I value my peace and sanity at all cost, even if it means I lose all my family members my friends and if my children don’t communicate with me ever again.

[@bhillboy37]

There will be a correction. There always is. Stock market crashes...it recovers and reaches new heights....then it crashes again and returns to normal, whatever the new normal is. If wmn stop being reasonable, men will leave. It's going that way now with the passport bros. Correction is coming.

[@Seancarter2010]

@@bhillboy37I hope you’re right because these women have no ability to listen to anyone. They are always right no matter what.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@lseven9924]

I’m with you brother, enjoy the decline

[@suziepickes702]

Good for you for walking out on your kids. Lol

[@jzurita6186]

The "that could go for men too" is also a problem. Because it details the conversation from the focus which is women. When the talk is about men SOMEHOW we can keep it about men. Each woman pulls out an invisible scroll detailing why men ain't shit, no interruptions. As soon as the table turns to men talking about women all you hear is "yes but" ,"men too", "that's because" "who hurt you", "sassy this and that"

[@vaughnchambers8559]

This happens in real time. I had a woman tell me she is superior. On our second date I push the check over to her. Sooo are you not superior now, be superior and pay for this date. She said I will pay but if I do you will not see me anymore. It's was $30. We just stopped for wings. Men let her be superior early so you will not waste your time. If I paid the relationship continued but I was dismissed for $30 bucks. Modern Women

[@wnttalk]

🤣😂🤣 how’d it get to a second date tho??

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

I'm 40, technically a "xennial"...but raised more old school by boomer parents. I'm telling you this...most of you guys are wasting time with most of these women. They aren't gonna change until catastrophe hits. I thank God I got a wife who is aware of feminist influence throughout the whole of society, BUT understands WHY she should reject it. 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@malkum77ify]

I am an Generation Xer. We learn in the 80s and 90s that women were in full on rebellion and they've continued to do so. Modern black women are irredeemable. They're not worth the trouble trying to come to hand, peaceful resolution because they can be none. They're too busy trying to be man, and a can't handle the competition. They're operating outside their nature and their wonder why they are failing. And they wonder why we don't want them anymore.

[@TheCastedone]

My advice to these men is move how you want and find women that add or get with the program. Lead and wife the who will follow and compliment the vision

[@officialkingnile844]

Amen!!!

[@soloman_svd]

Facts women never change until life forces them to

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

@melissanicole3657 SMH....says the person who doesn't know what "change" means in the context of modern women. Comprehension is what happens when the words don't just go into an empty barrel and roll around. So is it us guys who need to work on communication, or is it you? Listening and comprehension go hand in hand. BTW, I'm happily married to a beautiful woman who isn't a socially engineered fembot, we have 3 kids, worked together to create family businesses, and we communicate in superb fashion. I know what I'm talking about. Parents married over 40 years, grandparents married over 70 years. That doesn't happen by accident.

[@RoyalRumBull]

13:13 Bro had to fight for his life to make his way to his point about grace 😭 Every call for empathy is met with a whataboutism two-wrongs-make-a-right response. Men can't share their pain without women throwing theirs in his face, even if he didn't cause it 😔

[@armonshakur_VMGmultimediaEnt.]

"even If he didn't cause it">>

[@ShaniquaJwest]

Yeah, that was the saddest part of this conversation. They can't even fathom the thought of giving men grace. That is so so sad 😞

[@marcuselvard5922]

@@ShaniquaJwest This is what we experience on a daily basis with black women. They are never responsible for anything and they are always right. But they complain a lot on the networks and share their hatred. It's really a shame to see that we end up losing all attraction by seeing this kind of behavior.

[@JOEL31785]

We're wasting time. "You only gain the understanding you seek." I think this conversation proves that it's time for this generation to go our separate ways and allow each others' absence make our hearts grow fond enough to seek the understanding of one another.

[@demetriburton1467]

Allen your level of patience surprises me every time. Genuinely appreciate your content 🙏🏿

[@franch1se2308]

This man is a soldier on the front lines. Catching strays. Laying on grenades. I feel like he recruited opps for this conversation. There's a difference between disagreeing and having a different POV; there was a lack of active listening. A lot of waiting to speak.

[@keithwhite1748]

Naw son he stayed to detonate the bomb so we all could get away he get full military honors for this burial 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆😆💥💣💜♦💎

[@deadlyninja112]

​@@keithwhite1748FULL board of accolades 🙏🏽🤣🤣🤣

[@kingfredricofficial]

She has spoken for quite a while, and she REALLY believes she made a point.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@bigsteve3530]

Trying to have an enlightened, thoughtful, intellectual conversation with the panel of women is absolutely grating. It is obvious that they didn't hear a single word that was said. Their answers are typical of women listening to respond instead of listening to engage in a good faith discussion.

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

​@bigsteve3530 yeah it was ridiculous. Just the idea of so many woman really believing that they know better and are smarter and wiser than men....that just tells me everything I need to know every time. They speak with such confidence SMH. Out of order, natural order.

[@Zion7z]

They never can stand in the fire to change .. ,a deflection party

[@B1GNole]

Alot of words but no content or connection to reality!

[@jayg1060]

Not even going to lie. I’ve noticed that whenever the man start talking, the women start to chuckle on the side, laugh and even sit the men off. This is childish behavior.

[@deeric3]

Its amazing you fellas actually made it past 5 mins conversing with this group of women!

[@ls.campana]

It’s always tit for tat which is why I refuse to have these convos any more.

[@tatheblkpaladin]

They just don't listen. Smh

[@rbaraka1]

Women simply don't listen and refuse accountability at all cost.

[@brandonchisom7829]

Understanding the “why” in all of these conversations is vital. There are so many psychological layers to many of these topics, that running these topics through the “5 whys” is extremely necessary!

[@QuincyBoston]

The guitar analogy is absolutely on point. I applaud you sir!

[@sunnialiber4868]

Allan is trying hard to be clear and not be offensive. But once again the "Need to be right" Line of defense was unbreakable.

[@pauljan31]

Gentlemen, this is why having a passport is important. Travel to places where you feel valued and women embrace their femininity.

[@williamwinn2114]

These women are a waste of time

[@RiceMan88]

💯

[@ramalellison9205]

not if you broke

[@EJ313]

@@ramalellison9205the way I look at it, you gotta have some type of value to date women in any country. Get your value up and go to a family oriented country

[@corneliuselbourne1044]

Listening to them, i felt as thoe i was loosing brain cells literally.

[@johnDoe-vl1hv]

This convo is BEAUTIFUL

[@paullamah5073]

And you wonder why most of us are single and are really to go somewhere else to look for a mate😂

[@DiegoTomas]

Everybody on this panel knows damn well it doesnt go both ways

[@samuelgates5935]

That's their go-to phrase 🤣. Bw, once they've gotten money and status, will look down on the janitor....oh "he" needs to level up to me, bs. But men, once they've achieve success, will go to Burger King and date and marry the cashier! It's that point, that these women can't grasp.

[@daquantwp]

Honestly, it's no point in talking to women. It's best to just let them fall on their faces and only raise your daughters right!

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

That’s truly the only solution. You can only solve this issue at childhood level.

[@djstevon2]

It's impossible and relatively pointless. It's actually astonishing to watch the delusion in real-time

[@TheMatrixofMeaning]

Simply a waste of time. They aren't listening and have no desire to solve any of these problems.

[@sonyaporter783]

​@@TheMatrixofMeaningso if it's a waste off time why you here leave us sistas alone I rather die alone I'm sick and tired off these cry babies find love when the other races stop crying grow up stop complaining it's a duck ng broken record I'm sick off black bozos

[@stars-are-us]

BM are the most hateful. We BW aren't waiting for you to become a good man. More BW are walking away from y'all and living happier lives. Y'all go get the silky haired Asians, Latins, and white women. BM, live your best lives. Get y'all knees off our necks.

[@Z002]

These brothas expressed there thought in a very logical, respectful and well thought out manner while considering both sides of the convo. Easy subscription!

[@llmnr3xp0sed]

That woman moving back and forth told me everything I needed to know about how this conversation was going to go.

[@technofilejr3401]

She is waiting to talk not listening.

[@llmnr3xp0sed]

@@technofilejr3401 yep

[@kingjames6007]

If banging your head against a brick wall was made into a conversation. Keep up the good fight, Bro!

[@AlexMinor]

When he explained why women don’t understand why they aren’t attracting the man they want and she went “Well I feel like that goes for men too” She missed the entire effin point. And the chick at the end… “men need to share their feelings with women who will listen…” She spent like 5 minutes proving she doesn’t listen to men at all.

[@everObvious]

🫤 A whole lot of the responses to female critique were of the “but men too” variety. Never “guilty…we could work on that.” Always “every body has that problem” (and thus it’s not something that women in particular should give consideration).

[@r2d187]

@@everObvious ,,,it never fails,,,,,undefeated.

[@UzitheSaint]

Yeah especially when he was saying how the value systems of what men and women find attractive are just different, they kept making faces. 4:35 And I ain’t saying men don’t have faults but I’ve heard more men actually admit to thing men as a whole need to work on like “yeah we do do that” simple admission of the actions they do, but don’t hear that much from women it’s usually “we’ve been programmed by society…” and when u do criticize them it’s almost like they say “how dare you” almost it’s weird fr

[@Seancarter2010]

This is a great advertisement for why black men need to date elsewhere. Who on earth wants to deal with this combative energy on a regular basis

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@kamauwilliams8639]

This hurts my soul. No matter what he said, there was no acknowledgment of what he said. Deflection and dissection of the argument on every point.

[@ReesethebeastFBA]

Wow this was hard to get through…..you deserve an award for your patience brother!

[@DJKreyol]

Unfortunately the metaphors and this entire discussion went over these womens' heads.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@blacketernal7139]

Generations of combative, “don’t need no man” women in the household.

[@stars-are-us]

are these women dumb? BW are more educated yet you suggesting they don't understand how to evaluate the situations in which they are dating. BM hate working on their wounds because they might look like simps in their bromances.

[@ruminantmelanoid5444]

The men appeared to be in the conversation to bring enlightenment. The women looked like they were trying to *_win_* the conversation. You can look on their faces and *_see_* the women listening to respond as opposed to listening to comprehend. The whole discussion looked like a game of one-upmanship on the ladies' part.

[@HeWhoRemains42]

Exactly!!!

[@PrinzJosef]

I just watched 1 minute and I'm pissed off and aggravated. These women have NO DESIRE to understand or work together... only to argue and be right... FFS

[@babatundeayoola949]

This was such a painful watch. Oh my daysss. This man has a god level patience to continue to educate and deity level grace not to make fun of their cluelessness.

[@Dustyone23]

If talking to a brick wall was a sport, you just made the all-star team 😅

[@mobrown1198]

It doesn’t work both ways I terms of expectations ~ MEN understand that if he works at McDonalds. He’s not getting a CEO of a major company ~ a regular man such as myself, I don’t have illusions(DELUSIONAL) of dating a celebrity or sliding in an influencers DM and having a chance at a relationship ~ Also one of the things Kevin Samuels talked about which is missed by many women, men typically hit their financial stride later in life. It is unreasonable and unrealistic for a man in his 20’s or early 30’s to be a CEO. They may make good money, but the expectations modern women have for men is simply unrealistic. Typically men know how to stay in there lane. We always have understood this. Women are stuck in a high school hope mentality ~ where they believe Prince Charming is waiting for them. … after they’ve had a child by another man…. or they’ve been riding the carousel, until they are ready to settle down.

[@TheArenaRevised]

@mobrown1198 ALL of this

[@heruapocalypse2021]

Facts

[@stars-are-us]

Mr Samuals hated and bashed women of color. As a professional black woman, black men have treated me the worse. I tried to give a black man a chance and his attitude was so nasty. I have dated and been proposed to by white and Asian men so BM can't define my worth. More black men are killing black women. So many BM have so many baby mamas and can't afford one baby.

[@kevinsamuelsghost]

Thank you.

[@jazzy1531]

Aja!!!! I love randomly stumbling upon people that I know in real life

[@williebailey91]

That buck with the big horns analogy was so potent. That concept represents what goes on in the hood USA, the prettiest women in the hood or projects ain’t going for the smartest, emotionally insightful men in the hood, they’re going for the richest, toughest, and feared men in the community, and we know what comes with that lifestyle. I’ve had a homies who felt like getting his reputation up in the hood for being a shooter would bring him WOMEN, not money or anything that could better him, but loose women who get wet from being around hell raisers and street niggas. Can we be honest an say it’s some method to that madness he was talking, that it’s a little bit of truth in that.

[@yoogeo1]

The guitar analogy was perfect. The guitar represents the things men and women have to engage in to attract the opposte sex. It's a fundamental of life and propagation. "But who told you to play the guitar" is about the single dumbest thing I've heard as a response in about 3 and a half months. When someone shows you their understanding of human interaction, metaphor, and basic...words is that poor, its time to stop communicating with them

[@r2d187]

Right. And how about the one where the man returned from war to find that his wife had created a child without him. No sympathy at all for his discovery. Instead of at least empathizing with the unfaithfulness, the women pivot to "well, he's probably got somebody on the side too."

[@soindifferent_]

Thank you I was thinking the same thing. As a bassist, that’s something that resonated with me. It was never about getting women, and more a out if I commit myself to discipline and growth it will lead to an inner confidence that will help improve my self confidence throughout all areas of my life. It acts as a positive reference point, much like a save point in a video game. It’s all about playing/learning and mastering the instrument, everything else is extra.

[@mysportisyourpunishment73188]

Men who don't pick up the guitar are INCELS (Involuntary Celibate) Pick up the guitar men and play ALL night long.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@UzitheSaint]

Yeah man that spot on especially the buck one too, like I’m not saying men are faultless, but women do play a part in the whole street nigga and etc thing because they “reward” those type of dudes far more than those that are opposite and usually alot do guys ain’t like that but will eventually try and be that due to how alot of women will react to them at a young age

[@yoogeo1]

Lastly, the problem with these conversations is linked to womens higher in-group bias. They come into conversations like this as "team woman" whereas the men are "team make sense and fix things". This is evidenced by the constant disagreement of any point Allen made, and all the "exactly"'s and head nids anytime a woman spoke. No concession, no grace, no soace for a man to express his perspective. Just "team woman" and finger pointing. Im beginning to wonder if there really is a point

[@everObvious]

I mean 🤦🏾‍♂️ maybe the ladies all independently found common ground (…in disagreeing with nearly any point that Allen was trying to make)? It’s possible. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@r2d187]

and that brutha is by far perhaps the most articulate content creator in these spaces and notice his voice was the lowest amongst all of the women who were all demonstrably louder and more combative. If they respond like that to THIS cat, how well does that bode for the lesser affluent cat?

[@TheArenaRevised]

​@@r2d187Allen proves "it's not the tone." I DO notice he has more success getting through in the one-on-one format. In panels, the hive mind takes over.

[@TheArenaRevised]

One of the reasons I love Allen's vintage format (one-on-one) is that the ladies are forced into Socratic dialogue and engagement. Panels on these topics lead to this hive mind dynamic, and the only way to combat is using the "Fresh & Fit" dunk-on-them techniques, which Allen thankfully doesn't deploy.

[@zoe4life85]

There isn’t sadly

[@victorblackman]

This is Great Content, it needs to be Discussed even More, the Unfortunate Truth is that Black Women, especially the Black women who are between 35- 50 in 2023 in just 5 years the dating market is bad now and We Can only imagine how Bad it will be for this group of Black women in the next 5 years!!!

[@ReaperCet]

Patrice O'Neal's fishing analogy would have been so helpful. Women want you to stop being what you had to be to get them.

[@rasakiki]

These women are a good example why men are looking elsewhere. Who wants to deal with this kind of crazy..

[@duchessofautumn]

wise choice

[@oluyomifadipe5634]

You can just FEEL the resistance 😂😂😂.

[@Endure144]

foreal !

[@MassiveReset]

I love your content and approach to these topics! That being said I can’t get through these vids because of all the emotion driven knee jerk responses that don’t contribute to resolution. Again!! Big respect to you sir.

[@DamagedGoods77]

Maaaaaaaaan I wish I was in this conversation. The level of deflect and to be right is real with these ladies.

[@IamtheArcher777]

At this point my brother i can imagine that this on repeat is draining. I appreciate you all the more.

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@ThurstMETV]

It’s why I admire KS more than anything now. How did he do this day in and day out?

[@wills.9422]

@@ThurstMETVyea and he tried to act like it wasn’t bothering him. I know that mess stressed my guy out.

[@ThurstMETV]

@@wills.9422 it had to!! Especially if he truly cared as I believe he did. The money was great as we know but it essentially took his life. He had to care because advocating for marriage in the west goes against the betterment of men imo. I understood his mission but why would any man risk it all on these women??? Why

[@jubei187]

I hear this conversation and worry about my son. Im worried about him being around men raised solely by women and about the women who listen but only so they can talk. I've given up the concept of love but i don't want him to end up like me. Great show as always. Peace

[@elofvengeance8400]

We're in trouble... 😒

[@SWAGKINGSBD]

leave the states

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

Good conversation

[@BOSZAY]

God bless you man....

[@DrShake-wy1dg]

I take my hat off to these Brothers continuing to have these discussions with Black Women. They are so disingenuous, selfish it is an utter waste of time having these discussions.

[@TheTripppleG]

Unbelievable smh there's no resolve with our women without taking ALL accountability for everything and absolving them fully. 😢😪

[@gw504saints]

Oh girl rocked left and right for the first 2 minutes. She couldn't wait to respond. 😂😂😂

[@hammbone1612]

It’s so tough to try and get through to a settlement within these discussions.

[@akobiballantyne]

This was tough. God bless you two brothers sitting here trying to have this conversation

[@elofvengeance8400]

I know these brothers must have lost some hair..

[@RonDJuan]

No disrespect intended, but this conversation was way above this selection of ladies heads smh

[@day-vid]

Understanding what a metaphor is will go a long way.

[@PD-qu8dq]

This was a Great Conversation for this guy. I hope you seen how easy it was for your to get an understanding with those black women. The most understanding and listening group of individuals on the planet 🤦🏾‍♂️🤭🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂🤣

[@jomo7002]

In all honesty, my hubby said this to me the other day 'women don't know what they want' and I had to think bout that statement for a while and I wholeheartedly agree. A woman says she wants a sensitive man but will belittle him and show less respect (this is based off what I've seen in my own family and friend circle), they don't care about a man's status but will push a man to become 'better' financially so they can maintain the consumer lifestyle that is programmed into us. We do have selective hearing I agree so I have learned to listen to alot more although I'm very introverted and quiet in our relationship it's definitely a skill we women need to develop to maintain a healthy relationship/marriage. Great conversation though the same issues are prevalent in the UK too it's a shame. x

[@yoogeo1]

How is it possible to fail to understand a metaphor that badly? How is it possible to blame men for womens demands so casually? How is it possible to so easily amble away from the specifics of the topic to something irrelevant just to avoid the point being made? How do they so easily make his point about presumed benevolence and not giving men grace for him, whilst failing to see that they're doing it?

[@Wanderer25]

Because most women are incapable of looking at things at the macro level. They internalize every scenario and respond based on how they feel in that moment. They can't not make it about them lol

[@r2d187]

Women can be terrible empathizers & even worse at understanding metaphorical language. Their typical response is to then make a straw-man's argument by focusing on the least important detail & then somehow making it THE issue. Their mental gymnastics never cease to amaze.

[@supspud]

@@r2d187 Thats y historically, men just dominated women and DIDN'T waste time debating them. The REAL fight is with American culture that SUPPORTS these BW in order to destroy the BM.

[@blacketernal7139]

@@r2d187 I deal with this on a daily basis with my woman. It baffles me how they always hone in on the MOST MINUTE, sometimes irrelevant details.

[@kennethsmith6367]

I’m still waiting for other men to realize that we need to take their “privileges” back. Women have proven time and again that they can’t handle responsibility, it’s time to take their choices away!!! I’ll wait for the rest of you to join us rational men!!

[@shomarimonroe150]

Great video

[@thetruthisthis1301]

She's speaking from a learned curriculum...not from instinct.

[@Aye_mump]

Seeing stuff like this used to make me mad, but now I feel sorry for them. It seems like there is something blocking them from truly understanding men. As a result it hurts them from having better relationships with us.

[@Asfghjahsgf]

What’s blocking them from understanding men is the fact they didn’t have fathers most likely

[@Neo.Jordon]

Tired of the fake emotionally intelligent women, shutting men down.

[@melissajohnson1082]

Out of all these podcast this brother’s perspectives was the most respectful I’ve heard this topic delivered. No bashing black women while explaining. My sisters just listen and open your ears even if you disagree

[@a.r.sheriff5070]

Those analogies truly went over their heads

[@ChiTheAesthete]

"Whether women asked men to go to war or enjoyed the peace created by the men that died." Powerful

[@johncapo2843]

SOFEWARE NEVER CHANGES hardware maybe be different it never fails, education level, age, size, status, they all use the same software there is no 2.0.

[@JReng-od5cg]

Agreed. That hit me hard. I just wish it would have sunk in with the women.

[@derricknorris9488]

Still went over their heads, smh. NOTHING is ever their fault, directly or indirectly. They have no room for improvement.

[@jessejacobs9856]

Unless you’re not from America, you are being delusional black men have never went to war to protect black women

[@ChrisDaAce27]

​​@johncapo2843 you really posted this on every comment damn near. Quit fishing for likes

[@mysportisyourpunishment73188]

NOT MINE...NOT ME NOT ME...These women struggle with the macro. 😅

[@antonioclaros156]

this ladies make me believe in faithfulness, no men would like to have to deal with more than one of them , I think I would loss my will to live after a week.

[@evolsi1]

This content is not new but how it's explained makes a world of difference. Keep up the good works gents.

[@2011troya]

Critical listening skills are a lost thing in today’s world

[@chucksl21]

I love my wife, its funny, sometimes I talk to her friends when they happen to visit and I try to talk to them about some of this stuff, wife included and what I've found is that, women dont listen as well as they think they do. Every time you drop a little knowledge that touches on their need to show insight, they instantly deflect. They dont hear. They just feel attacked. Tone doesnt matter, its the message that you are doing something wrong and you need to make an adjustment to get the result you want, but what they hear is "Im wrong and oh no no no, I'm not wrong, you're wrong because I was told that Im perfect" Its funny buy kinda sad.

[@malik185323]

Hoping for the day of understanding

[@ayrramadan8819]

She couldn't even wait for him to Finish his statement..She was trying to respond before he was through! She was just thinking of her response instead of Listening!

[@wnttalk]

It was frustrating AF

[@9chilidog]

Man, it's like talking to a deposed dictator and getting him to admit his faults.

[@jamesmcclain4588]

All men want is peace and respect many women don't seem to know how to be it

[@stanleydaise4899]

Nailed it

[@ottric]

These young brothas are seriously intelligent and articulate! Welldone sirs💯🤜🤜