i bet you can guess how I feel about marriage....😬🌹 The pipe cleaner curls were a pass and gave me an idea for a hair style, which may be coming soon. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me. 🌹🌹🌹
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
I can definitely guess what your stance is on marriage 🥰🥰 you have a beautiful marriage, Ms. Jean🥰 I can't wait to see what you come up with😍😍 I appreciate soooo much for your continued support ❤❤❤
@LifeWithKosi2 жыл бұрын
I'm sooo glad you did this video! I've only seen this done on people with SUPER long hair (who've had locs for like 5-10 yrs) & was worried it wouldn't look right on my hair, BUT your hair turned out beautiful!! 😍😍
@LifeWithKosi2 жыл бұрын
Also, what are you spraying as you're doing it?
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you soooo much! and yes, I've mostly only seen people with longer locs pull off this style. I sprayed plain 'ol Rosewater in my hair before twisting. I appreciate you for your continued support ❤❤❤
@lindacantonlc2 жыл бұрын
Hello Queen, OMG 19years is a Lifetime, Wow poor guy🤣. Those pipe cleaners a lot of work but Cute afterwards 🤣
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey Linda!! I knoooow, I gotta do better😩 and yes, it was some work but really worth it in the end😊 I appreciate you, girl! ❤❤❤
@mikapooh852 жыл бұрын
Marriage isn’t always for everyone. To each it’s own. Do what makes you happy and don’t let business be the only reason why you get married. Look into other avenues to protecting your assets safe for you, your significant other, and your children. Live Your life to the fullest! You have to life your life for you, not for anyone else. Great video and loving the hair❤️
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you and you are absolutely right! I don't want the business aspect to be the only reason 😔 We really love each other, but im afraid i may jinx it if we get married... we have a really good thing going😊 I appreciate you so much for taking the time to comment ❤️❤️❤️
@tinikiadavis79712 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 8. We did it for the business reasons because it was already understood that neither of us were going anywhere and we would be together forever. We don’t live near our family and we wanted to make sure that in the event of an emergency we could make decisions for each other. The other side was taxes and our daughter’s last name. It was more for ease of communication than anything. Also, your hair turned out cute 😊!
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Tinikia! I totally agree with the business reasoning behind marraige and I feel you, because I'm not going anywhere and he isn't either.... we're in this for LIFE, girl! I appreciate you soooo much for taking the time to comment ❤❤❤
@thisnaturalgirlislocd2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💜 As for your relationship... it's just that YOUR RELATIONSHIP! So with that said you have to not just find what works for you both but Live your life. Blessings on 19yrs and beyond!
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice. we're definitely living our lives🥰😁 thank you so much for your continued support ❤❤❤
@opalmaytoday56252 жыл бұрын
The pipe cleaners are a yes for me! Looks good.. 2 weeks is about standard time and yes honey… the volume it gives is an added plus! As far as marriage advice in the end do what works best for the both of you. To answer your question, I do believe in marriage
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Ms.O! Thank you soooo much! We really are trying to do what's right.....its just.....A LOT! you know what i mean? I really appreciate you taking the time to comment and give advice because I'm really at a loss❤❤❤
@opalmaytoday56252 жыл бұрын
Lena's Lovely Locs I know what you mean. It’s always good to get other opinions, especially since you have the platform to ask. 👍🏽
@TheMrsB2 жыл бұрын
I was never one that cared about marriage…until after I got married. My parents divorced when I was 9 and my mother never remarried, so I didn’t grow up believing in an idealized vision of marriage. I can’t explain why or how, but we do have a deeper bond since marrying and, dare I say, I feel more secure and maybe even happier. As you say, the “business” side of marriage may be a consideration as you have children and assets and want to make sure things are handled accordingly if something happens to either of you.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi MrsB! My parents divorced when I was a young girl as well so I do believe this contributed to my distaste for marriage. I think its beautiful that you guys have s deeper bond now that you're married🥰🥰 I really appreciate your advice and i thank you so muchb for commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@froggybug10 ай бұрын
I believe in marriage, we just celebrated 25 years. We have 5 kids and 3 grandchildren. If you’re staying with someone, you’ve already committed your heart to them, get the full blessing.
@LenasLovelyLocs19 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! We got Married in August of 2022🥰 I’m soooo happy I did. I appreciate you so much and thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
@froggybug9 ай бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Amen!!
@ranellaflowers91562 жыл бұрын
Pipe cleaner curls are cute 🥰 on you. I personally would not live with a man for 19 yrs and not be married. But I understand how u feel about the CB marriage ceremony. However you both are raising young black men. And hopefully they will fall in love one day and want to marry and raise a family of their own. Your beliefs will be instilled in your children that will be extended down to your grandchildren and great grandchildren etc. Its your family dynamics and you both decide the rules, guidelines and life path your family will journey. Good luck and God bless your family.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Ranella! I understand where you're coming from. I really didn't think about how my sins will view marriage as they get older...i definitely don't want to deter them from marraige if its something they choose to do.... you gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate you, girl❤❤❤
@lesterrockwell31032 жыл бұрын
My 2cent... I completely agree. Marriage is for suckers. However, I just got remarried lol. I made the decision because someone drop in my spirit... We make so many commitments. We commit to buy a car and signing contract for it, we commit to buying a house and sign contracts for it... but we struggle committing to the love of our life? I'm not saying that you are not committed, because you been doing it for 19 years, but what's stopping you from that next level of commitment? You said "if it ain't broke, don't fix it"... well, hopefully people are not getting married because something is broke in the relationship, lol.... However, I totally agree... marriage is for the birds... but if it's something your man wants, you should dig deeper on why it's important to him. Well, it's late and I'm just typing lol. I know you will make the best decision for you, and I hope everything will turn out well.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Lester! Lol, now I didn't say marriage was for suckers😄🤭 I don't think there is anything stopping me from going to the next level, but you definitely gave me something to think about. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@1dyrfullymade2 жыл бұрын
Your hair came out amazing!
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey, girl! thank you so much! I appreciate you! ❤️❤️❤️
@TheKrysd852 жыл бұрын
What about a domestic partnership? Just for the legal/business part of it.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Krystle! A domestic partnership does sound like something we should look into. Is this something that would legally tie us together other than marriage? I appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
@TheKrysd852 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I believe it mimics marriage and allows for legal rights. Prior to the lgbtq community being granted the right to marry, this concept was introduced. It’s definitely something to look into if your state has it. I have a friend that has been with someone for 30 years and they have everything set up legally for him or her to make medical decisions, etc.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
@@TheKrysd85 Thank you Krystle! THAT'S what I'm talking about as well! I want him to make medical decisions for me (if the time comes) and vice versa. When my mom passed she set up everything to be left to us (her children), but her husband fought it....and won, so that's why im like, yeah, we probably need to get married for legality reasons❤❤❤
@leslya89722 жыл бұрын
I don’t think my hair is long enough for pipe cleaners but I bought them a while back and can’t wait to do them. Now about not thinking anyone will come challenge you about the Will and what not. The thing is death can sometimes bring the worst in people. Also when someone is grieving you are not getting a rationale person. It’s a different sometimes beast. I’d be careful with that.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey Lesly! Yes, try them when you get a chance! You are soooo right about that.... you NEVER know what goes on in another person's mind when a death is invloved....I witnessed it 1st hand when my brother and I had to fight my mother's husband in probate over her Will....it was a huge mess. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
@Forlocsake2 жыл бұрын
You definitely got nice results with the pipe cleaners. As per your rant, Judge Judy would say you guys are playing house together. I guess a break up could bring undesirable financial implications. You might want to consider a civil partnership.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you so much! Judge Judy would ABSOLUTELY state that we're paying house😩. I am SERIOUSLY considering a civil/domestic partnership. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
@dionnejohnson96707 ай бұрын
It's important to be married for the legacy that yall are building, if either of you get ill or something happens if you aren't married. Family get funny when money and assets are involved. Just as protection for you, him and the boys
@LeslieAnnPolk2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I’m going to try the pipe cleaners! I truly believe in marriage. I’m on my second marriage and I’m having the time of my life!💕
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you so much! I enjoyed doing this style😄 Its truly a blessing when you find someone that you can be 'YOU' with and they love you for who you are. Im so happy that you've met the person to have the time of your life with...THAT is a blessing🥰🥰 I appreciate you stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@promostk2 жыл бұрын
Here watching
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
🥰❤️❤️❤️
@capricornwoman67262 жыл бұрын
Definitely a pass! I'll be trying this for my cruise.🔥 I saw one comment about domestic partnership and I think that's a good idea. 😊👍
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey, girl! Thank you so so much! I think it'd be a good idea as well, I appreciate you taking the time to comment 🥰❤❤❤
@capricornwoman67262 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 🥰
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
@@capricornwoman6726 this style is definitely 'cruise material!' You're gonna have beautiful curls for the beach! Enjoy your trip, girl!!❤😎❤😎❤😎
@capricornwoman67262 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 yes...I can't wait! 😊
@azhar..19822 жыл бұрын
so pretty 😍
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!❤❤❤
@latashas.42698 ай бұрын
How long did you leave the pipe cleaners in before removing them?
@LenasLovelyLocs18 ай бұрын
Hi Latasha🥰 I left them in over the weekend, so about 2 days. I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
@fawnm77658 ай бұрын
I love your video and I agree with your view on marriage. Frankly, I belief people tend to follow the laws of the land and European standards out of fear of judgement or criticism. However, a commitment is a commitment if that is who you are as a person. I am choosing to get married because of the legal side that you also mentioned. It just makes it less complicated. The world has many followers. I for one have never been a follower of, not of jesus or man. I believe in living based on standards and beliefs that work for me. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you. No one has the right to judge. My father is a pastor and I was raised inundated with religion. Church folks always want to point fingers when they really should take a hard look at themselves. Nevertheless be well and be love and light.
@tinahayes5092 жыл бұрын
Don’t get married!! It’s not for everyone n that’s ok, u have one life n it’s up to you to make the best choices for you. Me myself I’ve been married 35yrs n I’m 53 n it’s has its ups n downs but over all it’s been good!! Ur life choices are not negotiable for others❤
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey, Tina! I did end up getting married, girl!!! I don’t regret not doing it sooner, but I’m happy we did 🥰🥰 you are absolutely right, there are ups and downs but the ups outweigh the downs and I post that it continues to do so. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting❤️❤️❤️
@lashun10532 жыл бұрын
It's a pass for the pipe cleaners. You and Michael do what works for yall. People will still talk if you get married or not. I'm not married. The older I get(in my 4?) I don't want to get married but still want the championship of a marriage. For my kids....yes a trust.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey La Shun! Thank you so much! You are absolutely right, people are going to talk no matter what, smh. I appreciate your advice, girl, I really do❤❤❤
@raquelhuyler73092 жыл бұрын
If you want to avoid probate court then create a living trust.......also you got married six months after this rant?!?!?!😆😆😆😆😆p.s. i love how your locs grew into a swinging bob thats better than being able to fit into a ponytail
@LenasLovelyLocs1 Жыл бұрын
Hey Raquel!! Girl, I knoooow, lol. I swore up and down I wasn’t gonna get married😩😂 Thank you so much, my hair is so uneven because of my HIHS, that it broke off into a bob( ima mess, smh). I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@sonyadozier19782 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey Sonya! Thank you, girl! I Appreciate you for stopping by and commenting ❤❤❤
@camtee15202 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. You're detailed, but don't "drag on and on" - you get right to the point. Hairstyle looks nice, but wouldn't flexirods achieve the same look with less time? As for marriage, I say do it! 😊 You're building a legacy and setting an example for your children. You guys can do something small and private at the courthouse or at your home.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi CamTee! Thank you so much! We're leaning more and more towards matrimony 🥰 I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting, girl!!❤️❤️❤️
@malindamontgomery-fryer66202 жыл бұрын
Do you honey...marriage is a contract that isn't for everyone. Your hair is lovely. Im struggling with keeping my hair loc'ed.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Malinda! Thank you so much! you're definitely right, it isn't for EVERYONE! what's going onn with your hair that it won't start loc'd? I appreciate you for taking the time to comment, girl!❤❤❤
@malindamontgomery-fryer66202 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I have fine low density hair and tons of slippage. I will begin having retie, grooming appoints me ever 2wks. Hopefully that will help
@taneishalocsmore2272 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, Lena!
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Taneisha! Thanks so much, girl!
@AfroDiamondPrincess8 ай бұрын
@Lena’s Lovely Locs You 8:26 should look into creating a trust. If done right you would not have to go through probate. As far as marriage I say do what works for your home.
@mskrisl75352 жыл бұрын
What you should do is get the legal paperwork done. Everything that's for your children should be put in a trust and its safe, Life insurance policies included. Also make you have legal documents for custody in the event either of you go b4 the other. Hair is cute!
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Ms Kris! You are absolutely right, I was told about doing a Trust Gund a couple of weeks ago and I think this is the route we are going...we have a lawyer and we are going to have all of our assets set aside for our children. I appreciate your advice, girl, and thank you soooo much for visiting my channel and commenting❤️❤️❤️
@mskrisl75352 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 you're welcome!!
@tbthom76912 жыл бұрын
Yes on the style however not for me. I do not have the patience to install the pipe cleaners. OAN You have to do what feels right for you and your house. Setting up a trust for your kids instead of a will could be an option as well. This is executed upon death without going through probate.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey Tiffany! I totally understand you regarding the time it takes for this style, lol! Setting up a trust is next on our list to do...this is sooo imperative because, unfortunately Wills are just a piece of paper😔 I appreciate so much for this advice 🥰❤❤❤
@angelabryant8286 Жыл бұрын
Marriage just a word or legal presentation. You’re already married spiritually and shared marriage energy. It’s your choice but I feel if he wants to marry you why not. My reply is a year later did you get married ???
@LenasLovelyLocs1 Жыл бұрын
Hi Angela!! you are absolutely right!! We were already married spiritually and definitely share that energy. And to answer your question, we got married last year in August! This Saturday on the 26th will be our one year marriage anniversary, and we are very happy.🥰🥰 I appreciate you so much for stopping by commenting❤️❤️❤️
@angelabryant8286 Жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 Congratulations to you both! And Happy 1yr Wedding Anniversary. I got married last year as well 12/30. Thanks for replying may you both have many more years of happiness together 💜💜
@jacmac02142 жыл бұрын
Pipe cleaners were a definite pass from me…🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾…..if you & your life partner are happy & your business is covered why change it.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girlie! Thsnk you so much! You're right....why change what's already a good thing 🤔🤷🏾♀️ I appreciate you so much and thank you for this advice❤❤❤
@MekajayAllday2 жыл бұрын
Do what you feel in your heart. Your relationship has worked this long you and your partners way....do you! On the asset side, talk to a lawyer about the right thing to do for the kids or your significant other in the case something happens to either of you.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Stack! Thank you so much and that was my thinking, "Why change a God thing?" I've been working with the probate lawyer that I used for my mom's estate to help me with legalities. I appreciate your advice and I thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@1dyrfullymade2 жыл бұрын
I believe in marriage. I am a biblical minded person so…yeah. I care about what God thinks. Do not let that spirit of fear to deter you from being Micheals wife and him your HUSBAND. It is fear keeping you from wanting to be married.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I needed to hear that🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾 I really appreciate your advice and continued support, Brittany ❤️❤️❤️
@1dyrfullymade2 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I am so happy that God has blessed you with an amazing relationship. 😊🙏🏽
@1dyrfullymade2 жыл бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 you are not alone as well. I have a cousin that was with his gf 24 years before they decided to tie the knot. It only solidified them so much much to their surprise. Having the title wife or husband comes with benefits and less judgements. You will no longer feel the need to explain yourself to people all the time. This urging is from the Lord.
@deboraha669611 ай бұрын
I guess why not get married if you plan on spending a majority of your life with your partner? Why do you say marriage is not for you? Any specific reasons?
@LenasLovelyLocs110 ай бұрын
Hi Deborah! We actually got married Aug. 26, 2022🥰❤️ I’m sooo happy I did!!! I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
@deboraha669610 ай бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 ahh congrats!! I’m curious what has changed since you got married? Do you think there is a difference with marriage compared to what you thought before?
@LenasLovelyLocs110 ай бұрын
@@deboraha6696 girrrl, absolutely nothing has changed! I still love him (if not, more), we’re trying to make more time for ourselves. I do love saying my ‘Husband’ vs. ‘My life partner’ whenever I talk about him or when anyone asks me about him 😆
@froggybug10 ай бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1❤❤❤ Amen!!! Happy belated 1 year anniversary!!
@LenasLovelyLocs110 ай бұрын
@@froggybugthank you so much!! I appreciate you!🥰❤️❤️❤️
@julianaansah729710 ай бұрын
My dear get the full Blessings from God by getting married.God bless you 🙏🙏🙏
@LenasLovelyLocs110 ай бұрын
Hi Ms. Juliana! We actually got married August of 2022!! I’m so happy that I did and I’m kinda upset that I didn’t do it sooner😔God is so good to me…even when I’m not so good to myself 🙏🏾Marriage is beautiful ❤️ I appreciate you so much for stopping by my channel and commenting ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@julianaansah729710 ай бұрын
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 Don’t be upset,It’s better late than never .Jesus Loves You.Extend my greetings to your family 🙏🙏🙏
@nicolepolite38772 жыл бұрын
PASS🥰
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Nicole! I appreciate you, girl❤❤❤
@sagewaleed762 Жыл бұрын
I wish you would’ve stuck to the hair tutorial instead of getting personal with strangers.
@LenasLovelyLocs1 Жыл бұрын
Hey Sage! Turn the volume down, girl……ALLLL the way down😄 I appreciate you watching ❤️❤️❤️
@froggybug10 ай бұрын
She was multitasking😂😂😂
@livjefferson2 жыл бұрын
Definitely a pass! 🎉
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hey girl!! Thank youuuuuu!! I appreciate you 😚🥰❤️❤️❤️
@lecreshagaskin38832 жыл бұрын
You can't live your life by stats. Marriage is what you make it. You should consider it because your life partner wants it. There is give and take in all relationships. There is a different feeling when your a wife I can't describe it. It comes with more responsibility believe it or not.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Lecresha! You are absolutely right. I feel you when you say there is a different feeling once I become a wife…..We got married back in August!!!!! I’m soooo happy, girl!!! I appreciate you stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
@montiuab2 жыл бұрын
Get married. Lord forbid anything happens to one of you guys . Family will be coming in to take over and you wouldn't have a say in it, because you are not legally married. If you love him, why not married him.
@LenasLovelyLocs12 жыл бұрын
Hi Nova! You are absolutely right. Ive seen first hand how people act with finances when a death occurs. We love each other so much, which is why getting married is becoming more clear to me🥰 Thank you so much for your advice, girl and I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
@lizamimi Жыл бұрын
I agree…get married. Marriage has benefits…as stated, if something happens to your partner you can get his social security, transfer of property, etc. you make all of the decisions not his next of kin…if your children are under age, it would be his living parent. Nineteen years, receive the benefits you rightfully deserve. Love ❤the video. 🙏🏽