Six Keys to Peace in Relationships | Pastor Rick's Daily Hope

YOU MAKE ME CRAZY is a 9-part series on surviving relationships God's way. Everyone has "crazymakers" in life, whether it's a boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, boss, or relative. This series will help bring sanity to your relationships so you can do more than just coexist; you can connect.
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[@michaelwilliams376]

This sermon is RICH! Thank you Jesus for a meal like this during quarantine

[@ChristinaBriones]

YES!

[@88BLLO]

For REAL! God Bless Pastor Rick and all the ways He blesses us.

[@Bs6223]

I woke this morning and chose this to watch listen and hear. I daily search out wisdom and finally came to see the Bible is wisdom. Pastor Rick Warren helps me to understand the Bible and use the wisdom in my life. Thank you much

[@maymulipola3548]

Well said Pastor 👏 Time for pruning, we need to check-in with ourselves. 🤦‍♀️To have peace, love , joy and to be fruitful to others. Show patience, kindness, be humble and mindful of how or what we say😞. The answers are quite clear in the living Bible. Amen Amen Amen ♥️

[@TheRoseChunsa]

Pastor Warren, He is wise man than any psychiatrist, psychologist or self-help book authors all combine. I’m learning a lot what my mistakes in relationship with family & friends and how to improve. Thank you & God bless your heart! 🙏♥️♥️♥️

[@BLOVES]

I just found Pastor Rick - I feel God brought me to him especially for this sermon

[@Onlinesully]

It was an algorithm hehe

[@marchyman5061]

Sow AG God is the reason algorithms work. God gave man the intelligence to discover algorithms.

[@hanbyeolkim8557]

I’m one of the people in this world that wanna be more closer to our God, I’m being foolish and dumb, I really wanna know more about Jesus, I’m here for healing all the pains in me. I’m thankful that I started listening to Pastor Rick when I ask my husband to go to marriage counseling because of me. I wanna move on, and forget about the past, and I find Pastor Rick and his wife on my search about relationships, and thanks God I found all your videos help me a lot.

[@kellyannedeleon3488]

i am in the process of healing , and listening to Pastor Rick's talk everyday helped me a lot in moving on. Godbless you

[@janetm7693]

Now, this is wisdom for living. Thank you Pastors.

[@oyubyambajav8586]

This is exactly what i needed to listen to bring healing into my heart and relationships. I was very much blessed by your sermon, dear pastor. May our God always be on your side! the best decision comes from God.

[@shannonw.6276]

Was listening in background yesterday

[@patriciajames2305]

Thank GOD for Rick and Tom! Many don’t realize how valuable Tom is. The fact that he can pick up for Rick amazes me. Thank you Tom!

[@JessNell8]

Great teaching...thank you Holy Spirit for conviction...help me to do better...God bless the Teachers.

[@flourishwithMJ]

Thank you so much, Pastor Rick. Thank you so much, God. Praise God. Jesus is Lord!

[@famelialin81]

Wow i really need this... Hope GOD will help me and my daughter , give us new life. Thank you GOD

[@kamilaguerrero7264]

8 years have passed and I still come back to this AMAZING series for revelation. God is eternal and his word is always current!

[@theprophetez1357]

This sermon was recommended by a friend and it does have wisdom to it. It is appropriate to situations I am going through due to living with some scorners. The Bible speaks plenty about scorners (narcissists), and has helped me to know how to deal with them. I also feel sorry for those scorners, especially because they claim to be Christians.

[@IvoirRienna]

Wisdom is the art of knowing what to overlook...

[@JessJonesworld]

Ivoire Rienna you’re very wise Ivoire

[@nataliechampagne9991]

Super Mario

[@clee8862]

So true...

[@booyaka870]

I think one should not overlook but not remember the hurt, trespass, iniquity... not overlooking anything means you learn while overlooking could mean you are in an ignorant bliss, naivity or doesn't want to see the truth for what it is. Maybe this is what you mean anyway... :D

[@rebeccacarraway480]

Yes ma’am! Stay true to yourself, but pick your battles.

[@Mushroom321-]

I love the metaphor.. " what seeds are you planting.?, 🌿 🤔😼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@mbegum1994]

This pastor's preaching is like god speak to me every day.. i love you pastor Rick your words have same me.Thank you god bless you keep it up so many can save by listen your voice.

[@alive1419]

i feel exactly the same way 🙏

[@maoshadigabobegwe9232]

Still watching in 2020....this message is timeless and so profound. Thank Ps Rick Warren

[@simplydee4522]

@Maoshadi Gabob...Right there with ya in June 2021👏🌄

[@samanthabenavides9862]

A lot of things that I learned growing up that shaped my relationships were not healthy or Biblical. I love that I can learn new ways to create healthy relationships that have sound doctrine at there root. Thank you Pastor Rick for being an amazing teacher.

[@Itiswhatitis55]

I am so thankful I found your channel! I feel so Blessed to be hearing what Jesus expects from me in order for me to be more like Him!

[@divyap4524]

recently I have read your The purpose driven life book. I really very happy and also I learned many thinks from that book. your message is the heart of Jesus Christ.

[@zosimayamashiro1752]

God Bless You Pastor Rick 🙏from Japan 🇯🇵

[@nanaay8837]

Wisdom is gentle and considerate

[@janegithiari7196]

Pastor Rick,you are the greatest sour winner for Jesus!You witness of Him through the word of God and invite God's people to salvation.God is pleased.

[@theprophetez1357]

Wisdom is knowing the difference between right and wrong, or between good and evil.

[@TheHelmsD]

love it- rick's messages are great presentation and perspective of God's truth

[@Mushroom321-]

Thank you pastor Rick !!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😃🎉🎉

[@patricemarie2960]

.... Amen ... "Wisdom" is Key! .... Thank You Pastor Rick ... What "Clarity"! ......

[@LawnCareLady]

oh boy -- i do every horrible part of this. I'm almost scared to admit that. Thank you Pastor Rick.

[@LawnCareLady]

and thank you Jesus

[@yaboicoach]

Amen Brother! Followed along for many years, appreciate all of the Wisdom passed on that's helped me grow closer to Jesus ✝️ Peace2u! *coach*

[@gnakaora6439]

I really needed this, praise God and pastor Rick Warren

[@boanergekv6777]

the way you preach really touch my heart and soul and i hope in the future i will doing the same thing you do, may God keep be on your side.love you

[@JohnCarter-b1h]

Praise God for who he is, stay blessed mighty and strong.

[@glamorous948500]

Thanks Rick Warren for blessing us with your talks! Really life changing! 😊🙏🏻

[@wendybruens8813]

This is such a great sermon, thank you, I needed this. Praise God!

[@princeglobaloutreach2571]

Glory to God for this great servant of His🙌🙌🙌🙌 who else is here in 2021 doing amazing good in every areas of life after listening 🎧🎧🎧🎧 to this raw message 💎💎💎💎

[@SAKtownAli]

thank you, Pastor Rick for another amazing, helpful, insightful, encouraging and impowering lesson. You have helped me in my life immensely. God Bless

[@amit_patel654]

I had no idea how much I needed to hear this until I heard it. Thank you Pastor Rick 🙏

[@dervangie]

That story about the peanuts 🥜 was brutal lol, I feel bad for the guy lol 😂

[@Onlinesully]

nice talk that helps anybody regardless of religion or beliefs.

[@ckchan9074]

Yes, Rick 's mses have been constantly refreshing my soul as I listened to them . I learn a lot of new lessons from you and I want thank God for you and the faithful ones at Saddleback. Well done brethrens and keep up your great work. We are also working hard serving the Lord over here at Far East. Cheers.

[@arielzhang4475]

how awesome you are pastor Rick.

[@fabianmendoza7061]

Pastor Rick, this is such an awesome practical teaching for me to live in my daily life. Thanks

[@elizabethtengaru1180]

Awesome preacher love ya style of teaching the word to all walks of life

[@emmadaher1351]

Pastor Erick, u are such Amazing and i learned i lot a words of God from the Bible that i will applying to myself every day of my life Thanks GOD i found u in Fb.

[@nestorymashaka3194]

your my role model of my life God protect you pastor

[@bisabobo]

I am blessed by your teaching ser the Lord is with you

[@357plaz4]

I have learned one thing for sure listening to this sermon. I have not been wise at all.

[@carolrodrigues6015]

Just love your sermons....Gods spirit is moving when you preach...God bless you ...m getting to learn as well apply it in my daily life...Thankyou Sir.

[@silaskhaiminlun]

Pastor Rick Warren I read your book the purpose of driven Life and I listen your testimony in KZbin it's really touching and challenging . My name is Silas khaiminlun Haokip from India

[@danielzenith3163]

Thank you this. Absolutely life changing.

[@alyssahernandez6519]

I really needed to hear this message and will try and implement it in my life. This is very insightful and I feel I learned a lot. Thank you!

[@tankay862]

Thank you for your sermon, hallelujah and Amen.

[@klaushain3739]

Many thanks and sending you love from my hart, you lift and teach me how to be more like jesus thank you

[@vijayanandhalli9712]

Thank you for the wonderful message Pastor

[@naquaviousbronner3566]

Brother Rick u have been a blessing to my life

[@Onlinesully]

Social media is a rough place. People jump all over people very quickly sometimes.

[@friendshipministrysofficia1231]

That was very wise sermon too, God bless you & thank you so much for the sermon!!

[@samanthatermizi]

Thank you

[@charchar3085]

Wow! 6years ago this sermon is still blessing people, touching our lives. Thank you God for the wisdom you've put in men through technology. I wanna be part of the small group but I don't live in the States is there an Online provision?

[@cheryl62ify]

He hit the nail on the head with the dual electric blanket. For me it's the battle of the thermostat. LOL

[@jrc202]

Love your teaching pastor rick.

[@jennyperez776]

Pastor Rick , we need Saddle back church here in Bronx , New York.

[@georgettecross4149]

My honey still makes me crazy and I still am in Love with him even after 12 yrs of marriage.

[@Onlinesully]

that's good to hear. any secrets ?

[@janetm7693]

I am sure he feels the same too 😊

[@marshials]

i luv this channel though i have read his book purpose driven life many times in wattpad n also a book bought in india.

[@genesis.kreatif]

Thank Pastor Rick, it is quite relevant to my situation now

[@allenpaul9363]

Great blessing.Greetings from India,Pr Krishnakumar

[@gracearciero305]

Thanks

[@pausing99]

❤️ Amen & Thank you, Lord...😇😇😇😇😇

[@joanhenry2649]

LOVE THIS TEACHING

[@mauireyes6755]

Thank you pastor Rick. :)

[@taniam8336]

Wonderful sermon

[@jennifferane3951]

Great sermon ♡

[@marybowers6243]

Love your words 😊

[@paisagemsecreta00]

This is genius. Thank you!

[@Overworkedandunderpaid]

This was good.

[@nathanielfloress7029]

Amen In Jesus Name

[@janelee2918]

Amen! Praise God 🙏😅🙏😅 Amen. God help us to look ve one another as You love us. Amen.

[@runneryg]

loved it.

[@emverstone6129]

1. pure (integrity) - truth -> trust -> relationship - don't lie 2.

[@natalietjen9737]

Love this sermon, really help to shape perspectives that I need. Just wanna reason a bit about 'on line & on dates' there's a truth in it but there are also a lot of genuine ppl on line/dates and the right kind of datings will help you to know whether you deal with real deals or not. Or he didn't date Kay b4 marriage? :) And fyi I know a guy friend who loves opera while I'm - the female - not :) Overall, really blessed by this sermon. Thanks Pst Rick!

[@dapashmeshuki2824]

Great am blessed!

[@mickeysammy5169]

How do you do these things to a spouse who has spent years abusing you and turning your now adult children against you?

[@bellarose8511]

LOL The peanut story!

[@dpatterson1489]

I'd so love to find the sermon notes for this series and see the whole series. Can't find on Saddleback site.

[@betresranang]

very wise words of pacquiao

[@Mushroom321-]

Could there be put captions in ?.. 🤞

[@ChasexyDad86]

What's the order of this series on KZbin?

[@lessev1]

@42:55 "What is the secret of a 50 year lasting marriage? She looked at me & said 'Pastor, I've never tried to change him'" Well, In the case if a husband who constantly loves to spend time sharing the Word of God alone with other women on the phone or in person, but his wife doesn't like him doing that, would the same principle of 'I've never tried to change him' still give both of them a 50 year happy lasting marriage?

[@Jellyrole167]

tell him how it makes you feel and if he really loves you he will do the right thing.

[@Re.x0]

Oh boy I have a lot to work on 😂

[@frannyfran7157]

Same here

[@theprophetez1357]

PS I love Manny.

[@sipokazipupuma2714]

James 3 13 to 18

[@sureshm3150]

shalom

[@sureshm3150]

👏👏👏

[@annekedam6846]

I love your style of preaching. I have a question: you said people who are hurting they are hurt people.. what can i do for myself if the man i love is hurting me with his words knowing he hurts me on purpose??? I am a very emphatic person but his way of doing to me, every time i get shocked... so if he is hurting me, i have got hurt feelings! I can be considerate about him...but what if he is not considerate about me??!! I can try to let it loose...but my feelings are so hurt by it. What do i do with that ! I have needs too?! I am to kind, try not people walk over my bounderies, always place myself in others shoes... but i want to protect myself for hurtfull attitudes! So what do you advice me to do with those hurt feelings.? It is there, i cant avoid them. And it makes me very sad.. Greetings from The Netherlands

[@lizfrancis6202]

Anneke is this a man you can love from a distance? He seem not able to love you the way you deserve to be loved. You will be mad at your self for letting a person hurt you constantly.

[@annekedam6846]

@@lizfrancis6202 we were together for more then 10 years. After 13 we still have contact, but in difficult way. When i met him he was the love of my life.. after 5 years in 2011 he lost his mother and few months later got involved with drugs. A colleage introduced him with extacy etc. Got more and more. Drinking also more and more. Last 3 years cocaine and whole bottles of whisky... since 2011 i had serious talks with him. One day he came with me to a clinic. Talking psychiatric..didnt want to go in the clinic for a few weeks. So had every week a meeting with someone. After 5 month he stopped, said didnt helped. Until 2017 after a incedence with his older daughter he stopped relationship. In last 1,5 year came regular at my door. Before too relation goes on, then threw me away scared for his daughter. Probably he cant let me go ...and i cant too. He us scared to loose his children. They are growen ups 18, 23, 27. Living at their mothers. All the talks i had with him like you are an growen up man!!! Of 47!! Your kids has nothing to say who you are seeing... you decide with who you got a relationship etc... plus all the effort i put in talks or strategies forcing him to get help!!! Not letting him in until after few weeks you have a week moment to let him in for a talk.. for monts almost a year i stayed strong not having sex..until one day you give in because i loved him so much and missed him. Next day regretted it i was not strong enough... this december i was determend to stop it all!!! Said go to your docter to get a letter for clinic!! Otherwise you not coming in anymore!! New year i dont want this stress anymore...only positive things.. . Say he d ont want to do that, he wants to do it himself to skip the drinks and drugs. But he is gone to far with it....thinks he can do it himself... just on the old/new year day, when i was ofcourse stressed, he send me a message do you want to do tonight together... .. so i did. When he was my house, i felt ackward... uncomfertable. So strong even i wished i didnt say yes. Later on it got a bit better... at some point i wanted to say someting about us and he said not to do this for one night! Just to enjoy it beeing together.... Next day he went home... and i was to confused and tired to think about the situation... i know i love him....but he is not himself anymore...caused by his condition. Then the resend feelings i feel too like i have to quit and start a new life, but i know an other day if time i want to hold him. He is ill and needs help to recover. In the meantime i am ill aswell due to his behaviour and grieve..... certain days i am growing stronger...then long him how he was when i met him. But i know he is not like that anymore. But i wish and pray that God help him and me, that he knows he has to get and take help. That God is going to change him... and i get strong enought to let it go until God can di his work on him. It is a big battle, with a lot of grieve. But i got still difficulties to cut off...the man i love so dearly, the man who is the love of my life, but sometimes so diggusted by too! Caused by his behaviour cause he is very sick.... i pray every day...but it is difficult to let him and the love go....

[@lizfrancis6202]

@@annekedam6846 I now understand your predicament. An addict can not love you, he can not even love himself. The substance becomes his 'love' by default. Continue to maintain boundaries and to pray for divine intervention. Keep the faith that he will change, there is nothing impossible with God. My prayers for you and him as well.

[@annekedam6846]

@@lizfrancis6202 i am busy with setting my bounderies. Like always they say by new year i am going to stop it all! While i am saying it already 9 years he has to work at it. Last half year i was getting more and more determend about it. Gave him a limit and said go to your doctor to get a letter for clinic, aslong you don't get it you are not coming in! So 3 weeks went by. If he came, i asked do you have the letter? No? My door stayed shut. Only after christmas it changed. Maybe because i was upset thinking again with new year on my own!... i gave in when he wrote a message: do you want to tonight together? Early in evening. I decided for my own sake to let him come new years eve. But i didn't felt so good as i was thinking...it felt i did something wrong now...i couldn't say i change my mind when he was here, to send him away.... but he was really trying to make a mens. He said ofcourse, he stops with everything, like always new year. So...if he does not, i pick it up again and di not let him in again until he goes to the clinic. It was a pity christmas and new year came to intervent. It was a battle inside myself too. Especially around that time! But soon i will know in january what he is up to. But i know he cannot do it on his own.... he needs to see it himself then he needs help by going inside the clinic. We have talked about it many times. He has a false shame to go inside. For people at work, his children... i said, they know it already for long time you have this problem! They will be happy to see you doing this, like me too. Or i say you loose your job... or one day you get your kidneys, liver fall out. Or a hart attack! Or Korsakov ! I have been speaking with him often. He loose weight, rarely cook... one day he listen to me and went to doctor to test his blood. He had lack of vit.D. not more i said? I could not believe that was the only lack of vit.! Begin of december he got namonia, do i spell it right? Cough infection of the lungs. Then i said you see!! If you get the flu right now you can die of it!!! It is so bad...and he knows it his condition is bad... it breaks my hart he is so ill!! Ofcourse by his own doing. He is trapped by his addictions... Soon he has to do something! Me for certain! ' cause i am tired and worn out by it... i do feel mentally getting stronger during time and prayers. I have to give it to God...force myself to let him go...atleast for a time, but to cut him off is so hard and it feels unnatural going in to my own feelings to do that. But around that time i HAVE to do that! For his sake and surely mine. Maybe...then he wakes up! I have to care about me...my own health. I hope God will help...

[@jeanaitken8398]

Anneke Dam Anneke find an Alanon meeting to get help to focus on yourself as soon as you can. You can’t change people only change yourself x

[@schtuke]

Pastor Warren, starting about 38:45… "Fools are judgmental, Wise people are merciful." Yes. But, doesn't God judge us? Hmm…how do we reconcile this?

[@gabrielcruz8265]

+schtuke I think that just God judgmental, this work is not for the man

[@mcfaddinp]

+Gabriel Cruz understandable, but if judgement is for God and not men, why not Mercy also? Perhaps he could clarify what he means by "judging". Jesus says in John 7:24 "stop judging according to outward appearance; rather judge according to righteous judgment" God is the ultimate judge and will pass the final judgement, but Jesus tells us Mt 7:16, we will recognize others by their fruits - that means we must judge. 2 Tim 2:25 says we should "instruct others with gentleness" - that can only be done by first judging.

[@grootdshantot1325]

What about to a none interactive person? I don't think this will work for them

[@margarita4601]

Honestly can someone answer this please?!? So if I’m not supposed to change my husband, then do I just let his behaviors go on without saying anything? Do I let him watch inappropriate things like porn on KZbin? Let him live for months away from us, but really not earning much money? Doing things that he wants to do putting himself first because “he wants to” and doesn’t take in to consideration that he has a wife and 2 young kids? Let him put everyone else (friends/extended family)as more important than his his nuclear family? I am utterly baffled and confused that my husband says he is a Christian but puts himself first and he is 50 years old already. Do I just continue to allow this (and stop talking about how inappropriate this is) for another 14 years and be quiet and just be nice and just look the other way?

[@joeostrosky8137]

could have used this 4 years ago...

[@bluewaters1736]

James chapter 3. Read it