it's okay. i know the feeling of being the bad guy. my parents approve of my transition, but they never use the right terminology. i've simply come to the conclusion that once i- we, in this case- are far enough along in our transitions, correcting them will be justified due to our appearance. that's a stupid way of looking at it, and i never intended to enable them, but it's better when my parents aren't giving me the cold shoulder for "crawling up their asses." parents are precious creatures.
@AkaiShockingFire12 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'll definitely keep trying. I mean, when my mom finally got the name down pat and introduced me to me to my little brother's teacher as "my son, Zander" I probably had the biggest dorkiest smile on my face. It was a great feeling since my mom had so much trouble with it in the beginning. I don't see my uncle that often so I don't know how much I can do about it when it comes to talking with him, but I think that eventually he will call me Zander. He's a pretty awesome guy and I love him:)
@amyrichard34755 жыл бұрын
THE LITTLE FROG WAVE I CAN'T
@AkaiShockingFire12 жыл бұрын
Yeh, I went up to spend Christmas with my family and I have a HUGE family dinner on Christmas day with so many of my family members. Some of them called me Zander and "he" others didn't know so they didn't. I think my biggest disappointment was when my uncle refused to call me Zander. He said he accepts me and such but that I'll always be -insert birth name here- to him. So I at least got him to call me the masculine nickname of my birth name. It hurt because he's one of my fav family members
@PlanetaryDID12 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel, man. I just came out to my parents yesterday, and it did not go well. :C
@keepingitfluid12 жыл бұрын
Your voice dude :) its dropping quick, Happy New Year :) just asking do you just like men or do you like girls as well? :) your awesome btw
@TheDarkerFiction12 жыл бұрын
Sound great for 6 weeks! I've had the same thing happen with people thinking I'm my dad...which is weird because we're not biologically related... Week by week videos are cool :D Sorry to hear about pronoun issues and such with your family. I'm sure the change you're looking for will come soon!
@sagecho20033 жыл бұрын
God, 2013. Those were the days..
@keepingitfluid12 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome
@iluhv3chu12 жыл бұрын
It's ok..things get better and if not..then.. O.o u have me as a random person xD