"Loyalty Testing" Tik Toks Are Popping...And Im A little Concerned

[@sixteenleo]

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[@mexican.cereal7927]

Nice

[@vogelvogeltje]

Get dat $$$$$

[@josueveguilla9069]

Mmmmmmmm. Gen Z Rule 34. Mmmmmmmmmm.

[@hihi-uq1gp]

Hope that this year is good I don't know what I'm saying Happy Birthday!!

[@josueveguilla9069]

@@hihi-uq1gp Nope. It's only going to keep getting worse before it gets better. Take a look at Australia, Afghanistan, etc, etc, etc.

[@darkseptigirl5851]

Ok, the main reason women would hire private investigators back in the 50’s is not to find out if their husbands are cheating (they probs already know) but to find evidence of extramarital affairs, so when the divorce is filed, the cheater would pretty much lose everything and the divorce will be approved no questions asked. Back in the day, you had to provide evidence of extramarital affairs in order for the court to approve the divorce and for the spouse (who was cheated on) to receive compensation; as it was very much next to impossible to get a divorce in those times, it was very frowned upon.

[@MlleSallyBrown]

Thank yewwwww

[@loganscottcolton4703]

Oh that's really cool! (Not the fact that they had to do it because of the position they were in, thats unfortunate, but it's cool to know)

[@LunarEleven]

As far as I know that has not changed. In any divorce one person has to sue the other (even if it's mutual.) If you then wish to receive alimony or settle assets in your favor you must prove there's a reason you are entitled to compensation (cheating being one viable reason.)

[@LunarEleven]

Also just a note on the historical stigma around divorce- cheating was not considered an acceptable a reason to leave your partner back then. You were expected to make it work. The person who was cheated on would be blamed for not being an adequate spouse, forcing their partner to look elsewhere for whatever they failed to provide.

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@LunarEleven Where? There is no fault divorce ie you do not have to provide a reason. Even without for a Very long time people have used the reason of marriage being irretrievably broken which is also something which is equally no fault. Yes one person initiates the divorce which is also sometimes called sueing but not the same intent. In the UK and USA Alimony payments are made(not always awarded sometimes its a clean break with no money awarded) based on how the couple have lived financially during the marriage and what their financial situation is now that they have seperated. It is NOT based on who did what wrong in the marriage. No one is paid anything by way of punishment or reward.

[@shirin9452]

Are we sure this is only Gen z? I feel like the idea of loyalty testing has been going on forever in different forms 😂

[@haonguyenvoxuan3358]

Back then loyalty means differently, now it means how long they have to find a new back up.

[@Pandulse123]

When I was in highschool I knew two people who made fake Facebook accounts to catch their boyfriends cheating smh. Obviously it didn't work.

[@taylorrhouser]

Oh this has always been a thing, it’s just a trend now lol

[@musicalexisvid]

Ya! Remember Ryan's Roses?

[@aprayingatheist2378]

War of the Roses

[@OKAYOKAY420]

Cheating does really hurt and sometimes it can traumatize people. But none of this is healthy behaviour.

[@OKAYOKAY420]

@k'Rizma oh yeah, I didn't know that it could traumatize a person until it happened to me. It's even worse when it's someone you're married to.

[@loverboy6149]

Idk,, i find catching somone in a lie is good so you can tell ppl that theyre a cheater and not date him so they also dont get hurt

[@bruh-db2uy]

@@loverboy6149 date them*

[@sullyrane653]

As someone who just got out of a relationship where he had had a history of being cheated on and he turned very possesive and even abusive because of his unneeded jealousy, I'm so glad to hear everything youre saying. Thank you sm, jealousy is a terrible thing, trust your partner or leave. Edit: and likewise, if you're cheating or thinking about cheating, youre not in love and you dont deserve them, and you should also leave.

[@psychogoreman198]

There's always a gut feeling. Trust that feeling.

[@queenofzenk]

for real, it's not worth the time out of your life to be with someone you dont trust or cant be loyal/honest with. plus, some people probably dont want to admit they dont like monogamy, either to themselves or others.

[@silver9489]

With the whole thinking about cheating. To those who have intrusive thoughts about this topic you're a good person and you won't commit to those thoughts

[@Black.Spades]

@@psychogoreman198 That gut feeling is biased because of previous experiences or environment. People who had been cheated on also have that constant "gut feeling" that something might be wrong with their new partner, while in reality that is not the case.

[@siennasamuel]

@@silver9489 yes yes yes as someone with OCD I think literally everything I would never wanna do… it’s brutal

[@celinahatton2653]

If you think you need to test your partner, get out of the relationship. If you're testing because they've cheated before, and you've continued the relationship, you can't keep testing them - you will spiral into a very emotionally unhealthy place. If they haven't cheated, and you just want to see if they would, you should not be in a relationship until you've worked out how to deal with your trust issues in a healthy way.

[@wolvie1618]

Exactly. And if you have concerns, voice it to your partner, don't go sneaking around. You could just have the wrong idea about them, or they could be and you can get some insight from their behavior when confronted. But definitely don't just sit there and stew

[@celinahatton2653]

@@wolvie1618 absolutely - if you have inherent trust issues, communicate that to your partner in an honest, open fashion. It's the same as any other issue - you can't expect your partner to be supportive of you won't tell them what your problems are. And if you're in a new relationship and say to your partner "I have serious trust issues and I want to learn to deal with them in an open and healthy way because I really like/love you" and they're not okay with having that conversation, then you need to be prepared to walk away for the sake of both parties. You're not in the same place, and that's OK.

[@nanaak8617]

The most beautifully said thing I've seen today. Thank you.

[@PancakesNeggs]

this

[@onnie.6815]

@@wolvie1618 I agree but some people are liars and will say what u want to hear & you gotta make sure your partner is solid

[@mynameismommy6128]

🗣“If you’re a cheater, then you’re probably a repeater”🗣

[@Jo-yk6oz]

That's good, I'm going to use that!

[@wolvie1618]

Yep! One of my coworkers is dating a cheater and me and my friend are placing food bets on how long they gonna last

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

My grandma used to say say “once a cheater always a cheater” she was right if someone cheats on you once they most likely will do it again I know this cuz my dad cheated on my mom more than once after he apologized he still continues to do it

[@Sasu123456789x1]

Facts!

[@TheSaiyanPrincess89]

That's just a straight fact. As a Psychology major, I can confirm statistics do show that if someone cheats once, they are far more likely to do it again than to never do it again. There's real truth to the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater."

[@Sleipnirseight]

Ironically, people who are very paranoid, possessive and accusing their partners of cheating, are often the ones cheating themselves. It's called projection 🙃

[@ambereyedbabygirl]

Thisssss. Now if I get accused of cheating by a partner (because I am loyal) I know it's the other person doing it...

[@IDoABitOfTrollin]

Man I guess I cheated when I didnt.. calling out my exs for cheating many times makes me a cheater now.. cool

[@ambereyedbabygirl]

@@IDoABitOfTrollin it's a very real thing! If you call them out for a real reason or evidence obviously no one is saying that. It's when you're super loyal and someone says you're cheating that it becomes projection. I've been on both sides. You know your own truth.

[@ambereyedbabygirl]

@@IDoABitOfTrollin getting defensive when no one mentioned you doing such can come off as paranoid tho. Often it is caused by a gut feeling from the other person. Kind of like reverse psychology

[@ambereyedbabygirl]

@@IDoABitOfTrollin sorry it's easier to separate the thoughts. But yeah. It's very different to accuse a cheater of cheating than to just be paranoid And making shit up or projecting onto them. They were clearly stating cases of actual projection, not self perceived projection.

[@ToodleOoo]

It may be cliche, but when you love yourself, you’ll be so secure in your relationship(s), you won’t waste energy worrying about betrayal. Love your channel and the editor face reveal!

[@philio_2.0]

Not cliche, that's true facts

[@sakuraogami6885]

But people actually do betray you. It’s okay to be cautious in my opinion, trust but verify after all

[@ToodleOoo]

@@sakuraogami6885 of course they’re capable of it, and it’s happened to me. What I’m saying is it’s possible to get beyond the worry.

[@trashboat115]

@@ToodleOoo so never worry about it lol you sound dumb

[@AngeliqueElijah]

Good lawd! This is such a childish "trend" If you feel like you can't trust your partner, leave boo. Done ✌🏾 Let someone I'm dating try some mess like that on me, I hope it's worth it because I would be done if I found out I was being "tested"

[@sonjasjkdslkf5763]

Seriously! Why keep someone around when you don’t trust them, who needs the headache🙄

[@sarahbarabe8470]

Right I feel like if you're willing to pay someone to test their loyalty there's 2 scenarios Either they already been acting weird and you've not trusted them or been sus of their actions for a while and you should just break up Or you don't trust them never have or have trust issues and don't really trust and also should break up but also work on that

[@danirideau5256]

I agree that none of this is healthy, but you lost me when you said, “if you go looking for trouble and you find it, who’s fault is that really?” It’s still the cheater’s. It shouldn’t matter whether it’s a random person on the street or someone outright trying to seduce you. If you’re in an exclusive relationship, you should have the self-control to turn down any advances made toward you.

[@rebeccafreeman9883]

but true...

[@egg4666]

Yea not to mention in that specific tiktok, the guy said he didn't have a gf when he did(granted leo also called that out but still)

[@soloriyeovin5011]

agreed

[@funnyvanessafunny]

Same. That's also the one thing where I would strongly disagree with him. Though I get where he's coming from since it's much "easier" to cheat as the "access" to it is nearer. But at the end of the day, the person in the (exclusive) relationship is still at fault. Technically those messages could also be send by someone who doesn't know the other person is in a relationship. And that's where the person has to step up and tell them they're in a relationship. It's not everybody else's responsibility. But nonetheless, this trend is weird and bad.

[@HobieInTheBox]

Preach

[@fnsamsquanch]

That first video was like 2001: A Space Odyssey. She's the blasting music. You're the quiet dialogue. I had to turn it up to hear you and then it was her turn to speak and my ears got utterly blasted.

[@Evski-if4gn]

Yes

[@mikeoxlong777]

I have such a bad habit of adding “lol” to anything so it “sounds nicer”. I’ve never thought of it as laughing out loud like that but now I can’t picture anything else 😭

[@gigismith8133]

As toxic as this is, when you complain about baiting I can't help but to think that even if a girl "baited" my bf I would still be pissed if he responded. But can you imagine having to live your life like you were under surveillance at all times because you never know if your gf is pulling the strings lol? Sounds like hell

[@siennasamuel]

Exactly I can’t believe people in relationships frequent checking each other phones. My parents didn’t even do that

[@wolvie1618]

@@siennasamuel me and my partner never check each other's phones. I personally feel no need to and I'm sure he doesn't as well. The only reason I wouldn't want him looking on my phone is because of all the cringe selfies and bad memes I have saved lol.

[@Crisjola]

@@wolvie1618 I feel like so many of these "I need to know what s/he's doing!" of phone checking and stuff comes from people who are immature "adults" or simply _aren't_ adults (and are teens) because once you're in a more mature relationship you're usually not even caring if they know you're cringe. And usually it's better if you can be cringe together anyway. Along those same lines, once you've talked about the fact that you write FanFic with your SO and _then let them read some of it_ you… sort of stop feeling like you need to hide anything/be embarrassed about stuff. Especially because an SO is not some who should judge you for things (or for questioning things about yourself-not saying that someone is questioning things about the relationship but literally about themselves) and should be someone you should be able to confide in. I'll never forget an article I'd read years ago in a friend's Cosmo that was all about how you should hate your boyfriend and only spend one or so days a week with him because it was "healthier." And I couldn't figure out what planet they were writing this from. Still don't know over fourteen years later.

[@sohamgupta9119]

Reminds me of that one trojan ad where some dude walks to his girls room and her friend is there ready to smash. then he runs to his car to get the trojan but his girl was waiting for him in the car and said “you passed the test”. this was likes years old tho lmao

[@Evski-if4gn]

Hahahahaha bro I remember that one! Commercial is hilarious

[@overtheatlas]

Trojan ads and geico ads are the best

[@Sleipnirseight]

Eewwwww god that's so skeezy

[@siennasamuel]

LMAO THAT ONE WAS SOOOO GOOD

[@Vexarax]

omg I thought you meant her friend was a guy and was about to smash her (the gf - like she was on the bed with her guy friend) so the boyfriend ran out to get a trojan for the guy friend and then somehow his girlfriend was also in the car, like she teleported. I am so tired right now, lol

[@UnclePhil73]

Yep, I always respond to random DMs from people I don’t know. That’s how you end up with your kidney gone and your bank account empty.

[@Vexarax]

EXACTLY. I don't know why they all respond to randoms like that. Especially just 'hey' - that's an instant nope from me!

[@indieandchristyfeltman5510]

Hi uncle Phil!!

[@mrdewarion]

Leo my man... just wanna come out and say how amazing it is how far you've come. I remember the first 'kitchen videos' with the little 'road to 1mil' graph and it feels like many years ago - when it really isn't. Your quality jump within mere months is genuinely insane. You just so deserve every bit of success, it's well earned.

[@nataliaalghul3526]

Your rant about having male and female friends in a relationship is perfect. Most of my friends are guys and my boyfriend is supportive of it but one of my guy friends can't hang out with me anymore because his girlfriend has an issue with him being around other girls and it's so unhealthy

[@pixie3760]

If you have to test your partner, it's time to leave them. Trust is the most important thing there is in any relationship.

[@Amon_Gus799]

In this day and age I really don’t blame people for thinking this but they could’ve handled it way better

[@fx232]

This day and age? This kind of thinking has been happening for centuries with the exact same frequency. But yeah this is waaaaay overboard.

[@sannaengman912]

@@fx232 I think they mean it's easier than before because of social media etc

[@technounionrepresentative4274]

@@fx232 did they publicly post their loyalty tests to literally millions of people?

[@ilovebirbstruecrime4096]

Omg, it was a rough day, I needed this. You make my manic depression go away. Thank you ❤️

[@aaqka]

i hope ur manic depression gets better soon :D

[@missbelle_elle]

Meeee2!!

[@queenmarynovelwriter5397]

Feel better soon.

[@ilovebirbstruecrime4096]

@@aaqka Omg thank you so much, this literally made my day❤️

[@ilovebirbstruecrime4096]

@@queenmarynovelwriter5397 Thank you! Sending blessings and good vibes your way!❤️

[@DenpotToysStory]

Is she hungry? Because she’s almost eating the microphone 😂 Happy Belated birthday 🎉 Sixteenleo

[@sebswede9005]

He is seventeenleo now

[@bludaizee24]

Omg I love that you used a pic of Ambuser Turd! That was perfect! Lol #JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[@dabordietrying]

dude, you seem way happier, and the whole thing about how going thru bad relationships makes you stronger, ive known that from personal experience but you can just tell how stronger you are now because of that in the way you express yourself! im very glad to see you're doing better:) also, thats one of the dopest hoodies I've ever seen. might do some fan art just so i can draw that hoodie 👀 great video tho, always love seeing a new upload from your channel

[@JudoPanda58]

Am I the only one who is sad that we are no longer big babies? Pls bring back the big babies!

[@user-od8yh8xs9u]

im not sure that "dont worry about your partner's friends or activities unless they cheat 8 times in a week" is helping young people in relationships any more than a "vibe check". we have to balance being open and trusting with not being blind an naive.

[@prettymamita]

One of my best friends passed away here in Melbourne a few days ago n I just wanna say thanks for helping me get my mind off things

[@angel.red69]

Just a quick input that no one asked for, in defense of the people doing the tests, it's not necessarily ego, as in the fact they're like 'oh anyone will flirt back with me', it's more the fact that the person cheating would literally reply just because they got attention and liked it. If you like it, leave.

[@killertwister9404]

I actually disagree with some of this. While it’s definitely not something to do with a healthy relationship, I think it can be helpful for some situations. If she’s already suspicious, it seems like she’s looking for an external motivation to leave. A “failed loyalty check” can confirm any suspicions and be the kick in the ass she might need to gtfo

[@siennasamuel]

That’s what I was thinking too

[@justastudent996]

I agree but I don't think it's necessary to post people's dirty laundry online but people can do whatever I guess.

[@luvalienova6016]

Agreed. Sometimes people are on the fence about stuff and some evidence is needed. Like, they love the person and don’t want to throw away a relationship without solid evidence but have some suspicions, for example. Granted, the couple should still communicate first, but sometimes the loyalty test can be justifiable.

[@wherearethegorls1350]

Yeah most people here say "confront them" when has anyone who has cheated come clean? Some cases but Some of them wouldn't even straight up tell you they literally lie lmao😭😂

[@onnie.6815]

Yea I agree with the testing too

[@JohnKeel96]

Private investigators are still definitely used today. A lady I used to work with hired one to follow her husband around and got sent pictures of him with another woman while we were working. Poor woman went for a cigarette to calm down and was so badly affected that she ended up vomiting in the smoking area.

[@TecTitan]

Anyone else get the impression that it's just as likely someone is faking the "boyfriend" to get attention from the internet person they watch? And then have that attention put online? I'm just wagering what's more likely and this seems plausible to me.

[@cattythecat9722]

Seeing you say, “Anyway, back to the thing.” and then have a transition showing John Carpenter’s, 'The Thing' honestly made my day, lol. Anyone who sees this comment, go watch the movie, it’s a great horror film!

[@Vexarax]

I just watched the new Suicide Squad movie the other day and it was sooooo different than any other DC movie. It actually got quite Lovecraftian like The Thing at the end! I'd recommend it for anyone who can handle extreme violence and likes bizarre horror :D

[@spyroapplesauce]

I just bought Cheez-Its, so thank you for uploading something I can watch while eating some

[@queenmarynovelwriter5397]

Did you bring enough for everyone?

[@shirin9452]

Why would you say this. I now crave Cheeze-Its

[@fishywshywell_22019]

slide a couple for me dude

[@genesiscruz6610]

oh man you just reminded me i had cheez-it’s in the pantry! thank u

[@liahamilton8931]

I wish I had some cheezits

[@RyznZ]

Leo doing healthy sponsors 😩

[@growingoaks]

If someone's so insecure that they PAY random people to "vibe check" their partner because they can't communicate properly, they should break up because it's toxic. It's ridiculous too because this is an issue that could be solved by communication, but the irony of social media is that it's destroyed our ability to communicate with each other but the pandemic has been the final nail in the coffin. This chick isn't interested in "exposing" anyone though, this chicks just in it for the money and the clout.

[@imlockedinmyfriendsbasment]

"I think gen z are dope people" *happy gen z noises*

[@SweetSassyMuffins]

Here is the thing about cheating, if they cheat on you once, they are going to do it again. Also why are you in a relationship with someone you don't trust fully. If you have to "vibe check" your partner, then you are not in a healthy relationship and for both of your sakes someone needs to just end it. You shouldn't be wasting your energy on people you don't trust. Using your partner for some clout trend is bad enough and speaks volumes to your character and what kind of person you are as well.

[@honeybadger5633]

You waited this long to show me how handsome your editor was 😳

[@Jeannineross]

Aww you have the same birthday as my late brother. I like you even more now. Happy belated birthday!

[@leeanncomeau8930]

It's like being bothered their partner is hiding things and going behind their back, and then GOES BEHIND THEIR BACK to "test". How is that any better? Legit confront them if you have doubts. What is it with glorifying passive aggressive behaviour....

[@vibeanddie8926]

The way all of your will to live left your body when you said "next I'm doing shifting realities.." Is so intensely relatable.

[@brandonsblock]

Leo, if you have a pallbearer at your wedding you have MUCH bigger problems than infidelity or getting vibe checked my friend lmao.

[@trackydoo]

Yes, someone else who noticed that. You don't need to vibe check someone who is no longer amongst the living.

[@amberk7529]

Was going to say something but your comment says it all! 😂

[@sashawolfson3602]

Lesson of the Day: Dont be like these dumb people. Relationship is all about Trust and Communication, you should talk it out if you think your partner is cheating on you.

[@Gchildwarrior]

True. Tests are for school, not relationships

[@sashawolfson3602]

@@Gchildwarrior true

[@nathannix3217]

Some people are manipulative and good at lying you aren’t always going to get the truth by just talking it out. That line of thinking is naive.

[@sashawolfson3602]

@@nathannix3217 well that is true. I seen it before

[@onnie.6815]

@@nathannix3217 exactly why is everyone acting like people can’t lie and make shit up? Sometimes you have to test people to see what they about

[@mondorhymes]

I want the best for this man, his videos bring us all so much joy.

[@donikaj7805]

I disagreed with a lot of what you stated in this video: 1) starting or initiating the conversation or act does not mean the person who reciprocated is not in the wrong, If a minor, for example, started acting sexual toward someone over 18 and that individual decided to reciprocate, it is not the minors wrongdoing but the person who reciprocated, knowing full well the individual was a minor. Of course, there are defenses the perpetrator can use when in court to justify their actions to an extent but I think we can both agree that the minor starting the interaction does not mean the offender did not commit a criminal offence. 2) You do not need to be in a shitty or horrible relationship to understand your own boundaries and limits or even get stronger. Most people know their boundaries well before they enter any horrible or toxic relationship, the relationship just ends up breaking the individual down to the point where they are unable to leave and respect their own boundaries because the person they loved was unable to do the same. 3) Going through such events is not what makes the individual stronger, the individuals themselves learn to get stronger even after all they've been through, the individual gets stronger only because of themselves, not because of the horrible events. The events are what break them down, to the point where they need to regain their strength on their own. Some of what you stated can be interpreted in a harmful manner, such as victim blaming etc. I'm aware that was not your intention since I've been watching your videos for a while, I simply wanted to correct some of those statements.

[@maggie3060]

I absolutely hate pedos that knew the age but feign innocence, like you know what you did there should be extra penalty if its beyond a shadow of a doubt provable that the nonce was informed of the age. Also healing is what makes you stronger, not the incident itself

[@donikaj7805]

@@maggie3060 Exactly. I also hate the defense that the minor or vitcim started the interaction and so the sentence should be less than it would've originally been. Using such a defense can go into the territory of victim blaming and that's never a good thing.

[@maggie3060]

@@donikaj7805 even IF the minor started the interaction and did not disclose the age they are still a kid, punishing the fakers will only cause those in true danger to not speak up. What should happen instead is if a minor is baiting they should be taught why its not okay. This will allow those who are genuinely being preyed upon to not feel like they would be punished for being a victim

[@donikaj7805]

@@maggie3060 I agree completely :D

[@Inurwalls02]

i fully agree with what you said

[@micheleingrassia7061]

THERE'S THE CONNECTION!!! My youngest daughter's birthday was yesterday 😁That's how I know you are pretty cool🤭HOPE YOUR DAY WAS SUPER FANTASTIC🎂

[@bkbird04]

I would hope there’s no pallbearers at my wedding

[@Saf333]

Watching this with my bf texting another girl right now... While I'm texting her too... We're poly. Good communication is key.

[@MissMK3473]

This has happened to me so many times I get paranoid when I get messages from men while dating someone. I swear I’m being set up! 😩

[@TheMaiaDriscol]

He said "Pall Bearer" with his whole soul instead of "Ring Bearer."

[@Vexarax]

I thought I was the only one who noticed, haha! I was wondering if maybe I'd zoned out and somehow missed the part where he explained it's also a funeral or something :P

[@stefania5882]

Leo is exactly what I needed in my life right now 🥺

[@deftones8717]

Leo always brightens my gloomy, dark and depressing days.

[@erickasam100years5]

Why are we the same

[@Tyrael17X]

UK and Europe kinda confused me bc the UK still is in Europe, just not the eu anymore

[@stagnantfox3027]

To be fair the opposite is more confusing. Uk culture is so detached from europe that it's more like america than europe imo. It's america minus the school and medical debts.

[@Miss_Ink_Addict]

Also love seeing the plug for something actually beneficial to people. Especially people like me with auto immune diseases and vitamin deficiencies. There's a lot of us, so thank you for looking out for us Papi Leo.

[@hipioty]

*“Disappointed but not surprised”*

[@inf3rnalis804]

Bro as an indication of how fire ur content and personality is when you said it was your birthday yesterday I got a little instinctual panic like fuck I didn’t say happy birthday, but then I remembered I have no friends. But hey, love the content

[@MadStaxoWax]

Man you are quickly becoming my FAVORITE KZbinr. Let me tell you Leo, I'm on KZbin a lot. Your genuine manner, your fresh and accessible presentation... You're awesome at this and every upload gets me 🏆💥

[@influencerzwerg]

Dude, you don't know how much your videos help me! I've been going through a super depressive episode, I feel like I'm in a vacuum with just endless nothingness. But your videos somehow manage to make me smile and laugh, thank you so much!

[@cleobinx]

I hope you are doing better now!

[@influencerzwerg]

@@cleobinx it's slowly getting better, thanks 💕

[@BrokenBabydoll]

I had the most random dream w Leo. He invited me over to hang out and when I went to his place it was decorated in Christmas decorations (it was summertime). The decorations were pretty and had a somewhat tropical vibe to them. He also had two lit scented candles that smelled interesting, in a good way. I sat down on the couch, chatted for a bit then more friends came over. I started to meet his other friends and then they asked me if I wanted a drink from the bar before the wedding began. It was Leo’s wedding. To my surprise I asked Leo, “you’re getting married today?”, he replied “yeah it’s my wedding day”. I was a bit embarrassed because I had worn nothing close to something wedding appropriate. I was in sweats. He never told me he was getting married or that this day would he wed so I was confused and flabbergasted. I asked him if it was ok if I went home to change and he said yes. After that I woke up :/ 😂 idk I thought I’d share

[@timespaceperspective701]

god i love dreams :)

[@byrnetdown6076]

omg I love this!! sounds like a dream I'd have

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

Lmao 😂

[@maep3048]

hey given that he lives in australia the christmas in summer thing actually makes sense

[@crazyboxfilms3229]

This makes me glad to not be a part of tik tok as a gen z kid

[@gremlinlio]

This just feels like emotional manipulation as well... if my girl sent someone to 'test me', i'd be nice to the person but would not be able to say 'no' due to insecurity issues, and this could be easily misconstrued as me flirting or some shit...

[@onnie.6815]

So then that’s an issue within you, this isn’t emotional manipulation

[@publicserviceannouncement4777]

I just heard some wisdom this past week about trust. If you've ever been hurt and wondered "how can I know whether I can trust someone *before* being hurt?" The answer is you can't. The good news is if you can trust you're going to be okay no matter what happens then it doesn't matter if you can trust someone else. Trusting yourself is also knowing that when someone is disloyal/disrespectful to you that you should leave if you can.

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

That’s dope advice ❤️

[@megharoni]

Serious question Sixteenleo: if one of those female friends started showing interest in you, would you date her? Because it seems a lot of guys have female friends who they would date, but the opposite isn't so much true.

[@wolvie1618]

Heck for me it's the other way around. I got a bunch of guy friends I would consider if I was still single, but all of them view me like a bro (I'm not even a guy so idk why they think that) I think it's more so 50/50

[@michaelconvery2924]

Congratulations on the sponsors mate. Happy to see you succeeding and wish you all the best. Thank you for your videos, you always manage to make me laugh.

[@cherish_xo]

When you said 'yesterday' I thought we have the same birth date but then I realize I'm a day early 😂😭 Happy belated birthday and stay awesome!

[@Jodyy2316]

At the same time as well it’s like if they do get rejected it’s like they don’t have to take it personally. Because it’s “just a vibe check”. But you’re spot on with the weird power dynamic. There’s so much ego with these people it’s wild.

[@turntechnicality6351]

happy late birthday from all the big babies!!!

[@edenwinter9055]

I just found your channel recently and am swooning!!! oh and laughing my buttocks off!!! great content and delivery. for what ever reason you standing with a mic (very stand up like) is very entertaining and fun to watch. the accent and cute face doesn't hurt either. wootwoot

[@bong_water]

bestie no we aren't don't clump us all together edit: and happy birthday 🎂🥳

[@chiaragala]

I love it when you go serious and reflect on things, your opinions are always on point

[@Sleipnirseight]

If you are thinking about loyalty testing your partner and have no logical basis for mistrusting them... you need to go see a therapist. Forreal. If you're jealous and paranoid, that'll be a lifelong toxic trait unless you get help. I promise you'll be WAY happier once you get help with it. And if by talking to a therapist you find that your partner is the toxic one, causing you to be paranoid, all the better. You can move beyond that stressful life and be happy in your relationships and find partners who you feel loved and respected by.

[@ForExampleJon]

Her : "Pretty sure you do have a girlfriend" Him : "well I did right up until I found out she's trying to test me like a child"

[@shelbymoon2892]

Happy late birthday hun!! Hope you had an amazing day 🖤🖤 my birthday is coming up on the 28th and I'm not too enthused, haha. Anywho, been watching your stuff for a minute now and your one of my favorites bc not only do I freakin looove your sense of humor but it's very obvious that you actually care about others and you have a heart and compassion 🖤🖤 so thank you for being you, and now ima shut up and watch this video lolz..

[@Schneewittchen1310]

Happy belated birthday Leo! Stay the way you are, cuz you are awesome

[@ApocalypticPoison]

Happy belated birthday sixteenleo 🥳🎂🎁🎉

[@edwardburgin4576]

The atom bomb going off, then "I didn't know you were part of Metallica" made me me laugh more than I have for a while 😂 made my day

[@kerridwynntheacegoblin6465]

I’ve never been happier being 42 than when I see these kinda videos.

[@chickenscursandacabin]

Lol same here!!!!

[@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty]

Hottake: Being an abusive twat who essentially stalks their own partner to "catch them in the act" is just as bad as being an abusive cheater, EVEN IF it's because of past trauma. Edit: And monitoring your partner through others counts as stalking.

[@ray4613]

ok hi. late but yk id like to put my opinion out there! i dont believe you can say theyre as bad as a cheater. ok hear me out. its still bad, like really bad, but i believe you cant put them together. like stealing and arson. theyre bad, but you cant really compare them. ok ty for listening to me ramble!

[@Cainmak]

When I read "Loyalty testing" I immediately thought of influencers testing the loyalty of their followers. I guess the true meaning is kinda less disturbing.

[@Jo-yk6oz]

✨🎂 HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY SIXTEENLEO! 🎂✨

[@gravegutz]

Happy late birthday Leo !! 🥳✨

[@MegaLpso]

"I love my boyfriend but he keeps playing with my emotions" yeah uh...that's not healthy.

[@belindasnell7922]

Happy belated birthday. I hope you enjoy your next trip around the sun! 🎂🎂🎂

[@natalieee24]

These people who want to have their partners “loyalty tested” are already proving how bad their relationship is. Trust and communication are some of the most important foundations of a relationship and if you feel the need to test your partner like this, I promise you that relationship is not worth it. You deserve better than someone you can’t trust. And also, if you loyalty test your partner and they pass, what happens next? Do you reveal to your partner that you didn’t trust them enough that you set them up like this, or do you keep this as a secret to yourself for the rest of the relationship?? Both are kinda terrible.

[@nathannix3217]

Or your gut feeling that your partner is cheating can be wrong and you just destroyed a relationship that could’ve gone places.

[@ziggystardust1340]

THE AMBER HEARD REFERENCE HAS ME CAVKLING OMfg sksnsnndbd

[@johnkim4686]

Totally agree Leo. Imo everyone need at least one experience even at basic level of being cheated on. It makes you wiser and stronger by knowing the signs better and at the end of the day make wiser decision as to what you want in a relationship.

[@lupine.spirit]

loyalty testing is not new, that shit has been going on for centuries lol

[@chair2945]

So, they're using two things I despise the most. "Vibe check" and "Like for part two." NO, EMILY. They passed a test that proved they're a normal functional human being.

[@birchbarks550]

"finally a loyal guy!!" No, people that are in a healthy (and loyal) relationship aren't in these videos, you're putting a small group on a pedestal and act like that's the only thing that exists

[@courtneylamb6534]

happy bithday fellow aussie !! You're killing it man

[@dannietea]

The money spent on loyalty testing could be used to go to therapy to figure out why they feel so insecure in the relationship.

[@renfurlotte453]

Loyalty tests are like...the biggest red flag. In my worst relationship it started with shit like that and eventually turned into man faking cancer. Leave if they loyalty test you.

[@moniquemelson3157]

Taking his turtle for a walk, I love this guy! Too funny. Love you too Sixteenleo, I'm a Big Baby

[@hinamori857]

Toxic doesn’t fix toxic

[@libbystwinfreelibby1839]

As a gen z individual, I can say that this is one of the most annoying generations. All generations are odd, but this one takes the cake.

[@isabellejames8611]

Agreed

[@aaqka]

yeah

[@hipioty]

Totally, I’m so disappointed

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

Agreed 💯 I’m a gen z aswell and sometimes I wish I was gen x at least they aren’t mentally unstable and joke about everything cuz they don’t know i how to deal with their mental health problems

[@sorbetsweetie]

true but parents do this to their children for their partners or to test if their kid understands stranger danger. Im sure every generation has done this and its so unnecessary but the difference is Gen Z grew up online and have no sense of boundaries when it comes to posting things online

[@bobiijae790]

I'm pretty sure loyalty testing has been going on since the dawn of man nowadays it's more social or more in the media or out there on social media for people to see but I'm pretty sure that loyalty testing has been around since the beginning of time

[@RyznZ]

ya birthday ayyyy congrats on being one year older

[@shanchahua]

Leo, asking your boyfriend if he's cheating on you will only get you gaslit most of the time. Most men choose to call us crazy instead of admitting to cheating even after getting caught in the act

[@moonstone6133]

as someone who considers themselves a shifter, I'm very excited to see Leo's thoughts on reality shifting in his next video! :)

[@KatsukiBakugou-yd2yr]

As a fellow shifter it scares me. People that made videos about it bashed us so much but hopefully Leo is not like them /lh /g

[@moonstone6133]

@@KatsukiBakugou-yd2yr same. i completely respect if he doesn't believe in it but i just hope he doesn't call us crazy like other youtubers have...

[@luciette8850]

happy belated birthday sixteenleo!! hope you had a good one and here's to future awesome birthdays!!

[@Saintstheone]

I swear Gen z are a species of their own

[@aaqka]

fr not even i get whts going on and im in gen z

[@missbelle_elle]

💀🤮✅

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

@@missbelle_elle I agree with you gen z makes me want to throw up then die aswell

[@faerie5926]

As a gen Z person I agree completely-

[@lynnsweirdcorner2609]

As the older end of Gen Z, the younger ones make me sick honestly. And it's not even all of them. It's the clout chasers that are masking the good th ass t gen z can, will and are.