Dating Over 60: *Hot!* Advice from 2 Dating Coaches (One Male, One Female) You Need to Know!

[@susanmarie2231]

Non-negotiables: Non-smoker, no alcohol/drug abuse, no history of domestic abuse, interested in pursuing personal/spiritual growth.

[@davidethan5571]

Hi Susan how are you doing? Can we exchange number so we can get to know each other better?

[@carollxo1019]

without saying

[@stylist1262]

I appreciated what Ken had mentioned men need to have friends it shows that he has a life outside of having a relationship with you so you can enjoy your friends as well.

[@kittykatkat3046]

Absolutely love that you have these two on to bounce perspectives off of. Hope to see them both back on again with you.

[@lancetboyer3683]

Interesting segment. Since I’m soon to be 70 things look a little different. Many men my age are great during the courting stage. They are charming, interesting and enjoy going out and maybe traveling. Then....when they think the chase has been won they bring out their comfy slippers and settle into their easy chair. They want a woman to take care of them as they grow older. Women seem to be more independent but, yes, some women may want to be taken care of also. We don’t want to be alone or die alone. Life and death get very real. I’ve passed through the dating stage and now I want to do what I want to do and when. Mostly travel😀

[@leonoratirazona9916]

Im done taking care of a man's needs. It's my turn to look after my own self. Glad that I was able to travel to the US and Europe before the pandemic. Now enjoying its wonderful memories. Looking forward to travel more.😄

[@dianaevans6725]

You are so right!! They change quickly when they think they don’t have to try any longer!!

[@williamroche3539]

I like videos like this with perspective from both sides. I definitely agree about with the comments about healing and growth. I found that when I began healing I was able to let go of past resentments and bitterness. Life is so much better when this happens. Good luck everyone!

[@happydeedee2441]

Great talk-great topic. Oh Margaret, please do more "dating over 60" videos. Recently found @AARP's "Date My Grandma" youtube series...Love it! Only problem, they don't post them on the regular.🙁 Hopefully they'll become (more) popular, and post (more) frequently. Anywho, your talk today was very informative! Thx again pal. Happy dating out there!😊💖

[@nancyciampa3485]

Excellent video Margaret. Thank you. I know of someone who is younger than me and not my "type", however, my type never seems to last. After this video...I'm considering dating him.

[@lindapfeifer4886]

Very interesting and informative. That healing part really hit home. One does not really recognize that facet of our past that needs more work to really move on with life.

[@gordonsmom3861]

Thank you Ken for speaking about men who do not have men friends. I can vouch for your comment. It was spot on. They do not make good partners at all.

[@Michael-nr8ur]

Great video! Hey Ken...Unfortunately, I lack male friends because I am aware of things around me and have emotions. I've tried numerous times to get together for a beer or lunch. They hide behind their wives or like to stand side by side like on a golf course, rather than face to face and talk about things. I guess I'm just a fish out of water.

[@mishkathlay]

You can’t talk spiritual growth or feelings with the bros. Keep it for the ladies.

[@waterdragon9274]

Thank you Margaret. This was a fabulous video and I really liked your guests.

[@jacoblogan5798]

@Marilyn mccord!! Hyd? Can we chat something private?

[@waterdragon9274]

@@jacoblogan5798 I feel very flattered. However I can tell I'm a great deal older than you are. My picture was taken a few years back. Thank you very much, it made my day.

[@jacoblogan5798]

@@waterdragon9274 we can be, i realy do wish to chat to you privately maybe Hangout? Age is not barrier...

[@arlenebrant3973]

What a great interview! It’s as if you read my mind. These are things that I have been thinking about, lately. Now I have a fresh perspective. Thank you!!

[@jacoblogan5798]

@Arlene Brant Hyd ? i'd like to Hit up a chat with you i guess privately

[@ellenh278]

I really enjoy you three. Good to hear all the perspectives. Amen to looking if a man has buddies. I have noticed huge differences in the emotional intelligence between the loner and the guy with even just one friend (especially if it's a decades old friendship.)

[@jacoblogan5798]

yea i enjoyed this Also @Ellen h Hyd? i'd like to chat you up i guess private

[@ellenh278]

@@charlestremblay256 Not well at the moment Charles. I see you are a very social person now.

[@DanielAbreu1984]

Despite that I am in my late 30's, I learned something of value. Truly, The Lord has used Ken as a vessel to speak to me; because I needed to get out of the typical box. God bless you, Ken. 👍

[@janedunlap3518]

Agree with Ken that men who don't have guy friends is a red flag. Was married to a man like that. That's past tense....WAS!!. Good advice. Thanks Margaret. ❤ your channel.

[@sandradetarville2811]

Loved this piece. Sent it on to friends

[@gloriadeza404]

Ken is having a cute smile 😊... This is a very nice conversation! Love it!

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you! 😃

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Growth is important, because you won’t understand how to be there for a woman if you don’t understand yourself and hence how people function emotionally

[@fesalvatierra7587]

I just come accroos your channel..like it..! more power..!!!

[@Lana0624]

Love these videos.

[@dianechoate2906]

Good information. THANK YOU, MARGARET! LOVE YOUR CHANNEL.

[@janebaldock7995]

As a retired psychiatrist/trained psychoanalyst I would not dare ask /therapy/ questions on first date. But rest assured I can glean attitudes towards life’s priorities as often the man is only to happy to talk about himself to an attentive woman. Also surprised these experts are focusing on shape and size of potential partner rather than their personality and love of living well, according to income. How they behave with coffee staff, numbers of close friends,if any lol Too often older N.American men want another partner because have no friends, sadly didn’t pass that grade in High School!

[@nancyhorio]

Really great info. My ex-husband was a loner, and Ken was right about that!

[@carolgraham8564]

Good perspective from a man and woman

[@traceyconner6095]

This was great.

[@goodwillbunny5773]

Thank you for this timely video. I met my new husband on eHarmony--and we married 6 months later (with both of us in our 70s). eHarmony claims a million marriages and it worked for us...from Grandma Bunny--not the dumbest blond in Arizona!

[@r.melindar.1349]

@@charlestremblay256 Me too!! I am uneasy!

[@kellymyerson7904]

Thank you good advice as always

[@sixtyandme]

Glad it was helpful!

[@jmk1962]

Good point about asking a guy if he has men friends.

[@hub8075]

You are absolutely correct

[@faithsandstrom3883]

Nice video!!!

[@tesspagtalunancena9512]

Have nice day to all' im a widow & topics here are great' hope can find one too' to taking care off & a lifetime companionship thanks

[@dianechoate2906]

And... keep the sense of humor, right? I say get out in the world and live your life. Half the battle is meeting a guy. They don't come knocking on your door, at least not that I have found. Have a great day, Margaret.

[@jerrypeukert5732]

Probably would be scary if they did, unless you thought they were attractive.

[@leeharrison8790]

This is awesome information... I’ve personally discovered myself there’s all kinds of support groups and therapist that’s available as a resource ... I don’t have to struggle as much with my ignorance, meaning a lack of know how.. lol oh my ... the mental external type issue.. that is a real issue for me ... sense I do live in a small RV and have limited space... and want to travel and explore ...where size actually matters ... I’m really into self evaluation to choose better choices and become aware of mental patterns I have .. and choose choices that have a much better outcome... anyone can change if they have the ability to select choices... question is am I aware ? What choices can I choose to result in a better outcome ? If that’s growth I am all in ! Who doesn’t want more goodness out of life ? It’s all about our choices ?

[@sandracopeland8960]

I am watching from Jamaica

[@Emy53]

Men have preferences as well. The rich men especially because they're looking for eye candy because some women go for the rich sugar daddy. I was in an adult conversation with an older gentleman, and just for the record, I am not old, but he said to the women in our conversation, that there's nothing better than the scent of a younger woman.

[@Emy53]

I also know a few men that were cheated on by their wives with younger men, so now they only go for a younger women to show their wives, they can attract younger women as well, and in many situations, much younger than their wives. I don't want to deal with superficial men. I rather be by myself instead of the wrong man.

[@r.melindar.1349]

@@Emy53 Agreed 100 percent!

[@mommaoinnh2674]

His #1 question - really? As a woman, I haven’t read books on relationships, or classes to ‘grow’.

[@dianechoate2906]

By the way, I love george clooney! Ha... you are right. I believe in miracles! :)

[@r.melindar.1349]

Mine is Alan Rickman!!

[@dorishamilton1635]

First meeting shouldn’t be imposing . Don’t ask personal questions, especially about therapy, working on yourself , previous marriages, etc. Keep it general, ie things you like doing in your spare time, books read, weather , current events. The next time , if you both like museums, stroll through one.. . I’ve been to Coffee with a guy who leaned in too much, I left with no interest! Don’t asked for personal info like you are judging or writing a book!!!!!!!!!

[@danielmarso7242]

very interesting video, I am 75 and have a lady friend who is 72, I was surprised about both your guests,having the same feelings about men who do or don't have men friends. I never thought of that, but gladly I have my three best friends, two I worked with, one is 77, and one is 75, I have known them as close friends for 40 or 45 years, the third buddy is a youngster,LOL he's only about 53, have known him for about 15 years,we are Lodge Brothers. I have wondered if my dear friend thought that was good or bad. Thank you. by the way, you are very beautiful,and quite disarming yourself.

[@blueskies00]

Aww Ken gave me goosebumps at his sweetness towards women. Willing to date lady that may not be his type. The land he probably getting lots of those young hotties if he wanted. Men love it over there.

[@carollxo1019]

1. A great question to ask from a woman Do you have any men friends? 👍

[@sandyf6215]

Lisa looks a lot younger than most of us. Is she in her 50's?

[@michaelwayne261]

I guess she is and you are??

[@clarifyingquestions]

1. Is Ken single?!! and 2. How come no commercials in this video?

[@dianaevans6725]

There are!

[@sandc411]

"How do you spend your day?"

[@donnakona1347]

I found some men over 55 are set in their ways and they stop being active (couch potatoes) I know women can be the same way.

[@angelad2601]

Great video thanks, could you spell each of their names for me? Thanks again

[@sixtyandme]

Lisa Copeland and Ken Solin

[@michaelwayne261]

Hello Angela

[@markhashizume2081]

I have more women friends than men friends. I disagree that I need men friends in order to know intimacy. I have strong emotional intimacy with my women friends.

[@terrymarshall5480]

Why would I date used merchandise subject to mental brake down and a money pit. The only value you have is in your own mind ,you have proved that to me....at the end of the day you put your toys back in the box and go about your life with out her.

[@carableu]

I think whoever does the inviting/asking should pay...

[@jerrypeukert5732]

Dutch in the beginning.

[@cathyl1954]

Like your content but a commercial came on and it was very jarring and took me out of the moment so I probably won't continue watching your channel unless you take commercials out

[@sixtyandme]

Sorry to see you go Cathy. We are a business with many expenses and choose to allow KZbin to insert advertising as an alternative to charging a membership fee for all the free content we provide on KZbin and our other channels.

[@rosalynwawira6812]

I believe in patience because nothing is so easy in life, even your body will need your patience as it heals, different needs will all need patience. Being patient is a measure of being in control.

[@dianaevans6725]

Every video has commercials! Are you new to this media??