₱299 Engagement Ring | Yes or No?

Finally discussing the most requested topic from the SkyFam, Kryz and Slater talk about their feelings on the viral ₱299 Engagement Ring post, oversharing online and how to avoid projecting our own biases when forming opinions.
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[@hhcbco]

People nowadays put situations in boxes. Pag ganito dapat ganyan. There's always nuances, contexts, backstory, perspectives kaya you can't say something is absolutely true or eto lang ang dapat. You can share your opinion pero don't say it as something absolute or yun lang ang dapat na sagot. Life is not a mathematical equation.

[@green.spectre]

agreed

[@astrid.6677]

True!

[@keiferuy5423]

so true

[@catiawanbrillanmae1562]

Totoo!

[@jinalestage7548]

Very well said 👍🏽

[@sept.m9458]

In my own opinion, as a guy kng nkikita mo sa sarili na mag aasawa at bumuo ng family, as u start earning save a small portion kahit na 1% sa income mo for that specific significant moment of ur life.. who ever will be that girl/woman.. she maybe ur 1st, 2nd, or 3rd relationships.. it only shows how u value ur future partner.. cuz marrying someone in this generation kailangan talaga may Plano in terms of financial aspect.. it doesn't mean na bongga as long as according to ur capacity...

[@aGCNsh]

true! or better yet of you cant afford a decent engagement ring, then dont even plan on getting married now. MAG-IPON muna pra kaya mong magprovide for your future family.

[@kei4261]

I agree. If hindi mo pa kaya financially, wag nalang muna mag pakasal. Marami ka na ngang responsibilities sa fam mo, tapos magdadagdag ka pa. For me, kelangan muna maging FINANCIALLY STABLE bago magpakasal or bumuo ng family kasi yan ung kadalasan ang nagiging away/problema ng mag asawa now a days. It’s not about the price of the ring though, pero i think it reflects din sa financial capacity mo to build a family. If you can’t buy a decent ring, pano pa kaya ung future needs ng bubuoin mong family?

[@hacyyy]

Fr👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@crystalkring]

I totally agree with Kryz! To be honest, price of the ring doesn’t really matter, it’s just a symbol of the engagement and relationship. My husband proposed to me on the plane when we were in Phils going to Australia. He handed me a ring box secretly under the blanket lol. He told me that he bought it from Amazon. He was a nurse in Los Angeles and because the cost of living was high and had a lot of travel expenses it was the only one he can afford, it was $200+ US dollar from Amazon it was the perfect ring cut that I wanted white gold with simple stones. Definitely it wasn’t expensive but it was the thought that counts. Now we are still married for almost 10 years with 2 young kids ❤

[@miyakakizakiseiro1723]

that’s thousands tho

[@bonibeldaan2259]

@@miyakakizakiseiro1723 exactly. It is different when you are in the PH fighting poverty and doing your best everyday. Then, on the other hand, your supposed to be partner in life can't prep a decent ring as a symbol of his love and the engagement. 299 pesos vs $200 while laying on a plane is totally different. 😄 There are decent 3k-5k pesos ring which makes a lot more sense. Just saying.

[@abegeilradima1279]

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[@user-rw3hx7im6b]

This world become so “MATERIALISTIC”. If the guy is helping his family it’s understandable. I agree with Kryz.✌️❤️

[@jerometumaliuan6843]

pero gawa gawa lang yung respond kasi kasal na sila last year hahaha

[@janebernabe2373]

Same kryz 😊 My boyfriend of 8 years, asked me beforehand kung ano gusto ko na ring, he made me choose Kasi Wala syang sense of surprise, he's very dependent to me, sa mga decisions nya. It wasn't big of a deal but I will get hurt parin if he would give me a 299 ring 😅. He's an engineer also and we're both breadwinners. Though nasabi ko before na it's okay if walang ring or mumurahin na ring, but to be honest with myself, masasaktan ako sa 299 😅. And alam nya Yun. Binili nya di Naman worth thousands. I appreciate it so much, mahirap lang Sabihin na "mag effort ka sa ganito ganyan".

[@xplore8163]

You're so level headed and such a good example to all the viewers out there. You do not judge nor speak words irresponsibly. You express your opinions with caution and are mindful of others and of their feelings because you do not know why would someone act the way they do. More power to you both!!!

[@carollyPh]

Agree

[@kynbpp2526]

Honestly, pagbinigyan ako ng worth 299 na ring as an engagement ring feeling ko magtatampo ako ng very light. Totoo na in a span or years being together, you should know each other na tlga. Allergy ako sa mumurahin na alahas, nangangati at mag rarashes ako ng malala. Kumabaga madedetect ng body ko un. 😅😅 di kami mayaman na tao. Pero Noong nagpropose sakin ang asawa ko, he made an effort and save some of his salary to buy me a decent ring that I can wear for special occasions na din or everytime I want. After asking my hand to marry him, nagconfess sya na nagpatulong sya sa friend nya to buy ring sa binondo. 😅😊 di sya super mahal pero pawnable at he make sure na di ako mag allergy everytime I wear it. Super thoughtful ❤😊 So I would say that it really depends on the situation. ❤❤❤

[@luv07478]

same thoughts with sir slater. 8yrs. na sila pero parang di pa rin nila kilala ang each other...

[@wonnienyang]

It depends on the context, the person you’re with now, the situation, etc. Soooo many things to consider. But when you are with the right person: “I like shiny things but i’ll marry u with paper rings” ☺️🎀

[@awramarie]

❤❤❤

[@Taraview.channel]

This is the reason why I love this couple. they are open minded and not judgemental. They are being mindful of what they might gonna say. Coz honestly speaking in this generation a lot can be show off anytime and anywhere in the world b'coz of socmed. That's why criticism are also vulgar and uncontrolled.

[@damakoallosada3180]

In my pov, no one was wrong in that scenario. We have different reactions and opinions about that 299 engagement ring but the culture, standards, norms, etc, affects our opinion, thinking and our feeling. The fact na Minsan lang naman mangyari sa Buhay ng Isang babae Yung makatanggap nang singsing sa taong mahal nya mapapaisip talaga sya kung bakit ganun lang.and that's ok walang mali don at magiging Mali lang sya sa pananaw Ng iBang tao na iban rin Yung experience, standard, at kultura na kinalakihan. If that ring para sa iba nagsisimbolo Ng status mo, Ng kakayahan mo bumuo Ng pamilya at pagmamahal mo sa isang tao. Ang iban naman, it really doesn't matter pagmahal mo sang Isang tao may singsing man o wala.uulitin ko biktima lang Tayo Ng iba't iBang kultura at kinalakihan sana mangibabaw Ang pagmamahalanbsa huli....

[@ft_ph]

I love Kryz. I don’t know her but I feeeeel her. Oo 299, mura, mapapaisip ka na mura pero honestly, mas important na alam mo mahal ka. ❤

[@Furaway]

Pinagiipunan at ginagastusan talaga yan. Because your getting somethin special in return. A good wife and great companion for a lifetime❤️ For me lang dapat indi tinitipid✔️

[@lugsentertainment5090]

I propose to my wife with the ring in the same kind of amount. And she's Ok with it, after I admitted the real price of the ring. Because for her the value of the ring is not a price but my true love. For me I'm so grateful with my partner cuz we have the same kind of perspective and mindset on how we valued things. Receiving a gift from someone you love or someone you idolize is a precious one and some are priceless. No matter how cheap or expensive it is, what matters most is the significant value of it. If the president of the USA gives me a 1 dollar price of towel, that price dont really matter, what matters most, is, it came from a very important person in the world. It came from the president and I'm so very much overwhelmed, honored and very much happy to receive that gift. Because for me it's a rare gift which came from a very important person.

[@BraulyoGaming]

Hirap kasi sa ibang babae kapag may point of view sila sa isang bagay ang gusto din nila ayun din ang point of view mo or ng ibang tao sa bagay na yun, kumbaga gusto nila i-influence yung ibang tao na kung ano yung understanding nila sa isang bagay, para in the end may kakampi sila kahit mali sila or ma feel nilang mas tama yun compare sa ibang point of view. In general naman to.

[@paolovemiczchannel4178]

A ring is ring for others but for me i was married at young age 18, and wala ako engagement ring kc wala kmi work super bta pa nmen non nagpksal kmi,but the point is now that we are in the present and still in happy and going strong marriage life for 19 yrs❤..siguro mapapisip ako now na ok lng khit wala tlga khit my mga work na kmi and in living here in europe..siguro depende n lng tlga sa tao... kmi mrmi ng expensive gifts s isat isa pro un ring not a big deal tlga never ako nbigyan ahaha but as i say not so improtant for me ,depende nga tlga

[@undefeatable7028]

I think they need to talk na masinsinan talaga they know each other more than anyone else. Lahat naman nadadaan sa mabuting usapan☺️

[@cindybarbadillo9427]

Useless yung 100k na 💍 kung in the end, divorce/separation nmn yung kakahantungan ng relationship. I'm on team "Okay lang cheap 💍" as long as stainless (yung di agad nasisira yung 💍) (and shocks, I'd feel honored receiving a vintage, pass down from generation 💍 cause that's a family heirloom, a priceless treasure).

[@nerizariellebangad1452]

My fiance proposed to me last october 2023 monthsary pa namin yun. I noticed that the ring is a simple design and it doesnt look like a typical engagement ring and the rock was not that big. The reason why he chose that ring for me is because he wanted it to be unique. When we went to the have it resized it turns out that he bought the ring at a jewery store inside a big mall. I asked if we can change the design of the ring and i have to choose at the selection that was around his budget when he purchased the ring. The one he bought was around 300 canadian dollars and naka 50 percent off na xa. But i ended up choosing the one i currently have kasi yun talaga yung nagustuhan ko from the selection. When we got the ring back i love how it looks on my finger because its my engagement ring. It was given to me. When this issue popped out i admit that i understand about how the girl feels but i commented a few times na be grateful na lang na meron kang engagement ring at binigyan ka kasi nd naman lahat ng girls ay may ganyan. For me, i love the fact that although it wasnt that expensive at least pinageffortan nya pa rin na bilhan ako ng ring. Just my two cents ❤

[@mariloupadrejuan4893]

dapat i discuss yun between the couple hndi n ikinalat sa kung saan saan

[@ladyjohaineed.banocag8313]

I really love this episode. It's not just about the engagement ring issue but also about looking at many things in life in different angles to understand them more.

[@nixka24]

Hi Slater, just wanted to share this, but it’s within our field in nursing. We don’t ask why questions because most of the time the person will feel judged and will start defending theirselves and eventually lie. We instead ask with “what” ex. What was the reason you are late? Just sharing, it might help.

[@Bianx-be4qy]

Thats what I said when my colleagues asked me about it, I know my worth, I won't let a ring determine my value

[@donnahmacaambac2967]

I agree Ms. Kryz! The ring won't matter

[@Adobongsinigangnamangga]

Yung problem nila is not the ring, but their communication skills.

[@letlualhati9798]

if kulang sa budget sana lng hindi sa online binili ung ring,kc madami ang nakakakita. as a girl kasi maquequestion mo talaga ang worth mo as a girl or ung pagmamahal ng guy sa girl,and to be fair sa guy sana they talk it personally hindi sana nagpost sa social media. hello slater and kryz..nakasubaybay ako parati sa inyo.. God bless always your family ,nakakatuwa ang mga kids scottie and seve, congrats sa new baby.

[@mariloupadrejuan4893]

...but why equate your value on something material?

[@bikpineda9127]

quick summary for those lazy to watch The podcast is about a couple who got engaged, and the woman posted a picture of her ring on Facebook, which cost 299 pesos. The podcast hosts discussed whether or not it was appropriate for the woman to post the picture online, and whether or not the cost of the ring is important. The podcast hosts agreed that it is not appropriate to judge people based on their social media posts, and that there is always more to the story than what we see online. They also discussed the importance of communication in relationships, and how couples should talk to each other about their feelings and expectations. Overall, the podcast is about the importance of understanding and respecting each other in relationships. It is also a reminder that we should not judge people based on their social media posts.

[@serena1725]

Don’t give me 299 please. I prefer you be a good provider financially and a good family support emotionally. Yes, if you can afford burger then please don’t give me a 299 ring. It’s not even about the effort and the feelings you put in there anymore. Buying a 299 ring is not an effort at ALL and I don’t think he put feelings in there but just bought the ring for the sake of having a ring to propose. So you went ahead online to order it, took your time to choose which one, oh well , anyone can do that effortless in the comfort of their chair. I would appreciate maybe on your proposal give me a pdf of your plan for the future 😉 I don’t even care if we don’t have a church wedding because for me that’s just a waste of money. Chapel wedding is fine for me. Just close family and friends. So please por favor don’t give me a 299 ring. We’ve been together for 8 years I hope so far after those years you know me and you take pride of having me in your life. Know the meaning behind why you’re giving me a ring and from there think if am I really worth 299. I’m not even asking for an expensive ring. If you can’t afford then don’t give me any, I don’t care. Don’t undervalue me.

[@mochimazing8636]

value is subjective, if you love the person the engagement ring that worth 299, is still acceptable cause it's the thought that count and the sincerity on how the person you love can give that to you.

[@michaelt334]

I’m 100 % with that message.

[@user-xb9jz7qs8o]

There is really a problem sa relasyon ng magjowa na yan. For a start, if the girl felt about the price of the ring, may something wrong given an 8 years na sila.

[@krenzrodriguez3858]

Sakin, wag nyu ituloy ang proposal at Kasal kase di nyu pa kilala ang isat Isa ng totoo. Dapat di guy inisip nya ang damdamin ni girl. At Alam nya na masasaktan ung pagbibigyn nya. It means di nya kilala ung girl o di sya tlga nag eeffort to understand the feeling ni girl. Kase lifetime nya makakasama yan. It means s simpleng bagay na to, di sya aware sa personality ng balak nya pakasalan Same Kay girl. Wag na wag nyu babaliwalain ang gut feeling nyu. Sabihin man ng iba na material lang yan... It is not the material thing. It means di kayu magkakasundo dahil di kayu tugma sa isat Isa... Try to date more pa. Try to know more each other. Ipon pa. Check kung totoong compatible ba kayu at parehas kayu ng pinapangarap na future. Laser if not. Hiwalay nlbg. Sayang lang pera , energy at damdamin..

[@cherryred5106]

8 years na silang mag-jowa tapos ‘di pa rin sila “honest” sa isa’t-isa. My gosh! I hate kuya for the 299 peso ring kasi like duh? Pang-fast food chain levels lang yan, pero kainis rin si girl dahil ‘di niya talaga ma-confront si kuya about diyan sa issue na yan? Paano pa pag bigger issues? Socmed to the rescue? Imbes na kayo parehas mag-solve together, dinadamay pa buong mundo.

[@user-pe5rj7ko4f]

alam niyo big deal sa iba kung gano kaahal o kung saan galing ang sing sing now a days as long as he loves you and he is honest with you faithful to you that ring symbolize commitment and respect di nasusukat kung gano kamahal ang isang bagay kasi kung sususkatin mo sa materail ang isang bagay tanga ka! meaning di mo din kaya ivalue yung taong nag bigay sayo ng mahabang pag iintindi at pag unawa s ugali na pinapakita mo. Remember ang pag mamahal ay di kahit kailan nasusukat ng isang materail bagkos nakikita eto kung gano mo minahal ang isang tao simpleman, pangit man eto sa paningin ng ibang tao pero minahal mo yun eh siya yun, siya yung taong pinangakuan mo.

[@Mystearicia]

The P299 couple seemed to lack communication despite being 8 years together. Like hindi sila nagusap na the guy only bought that much for engagement coz he wanted to splurge more on the wedding rings and the wedding itself - he didn't say that to her, he only mentioned it on his explanation online. Same as the girl - she didn't convey her feelings to him about bakit 299 lng or whatever, baka pede naman iupgrade to something more her style, eh automatic response nya iblast sa facebook so the guy felt ashamed too. What could have been a private conversation about their future naging chismis topic ng mga pinoy.

[@mercytrinidad8425]

Nang mapanuod ko kayo na guest nyo ang GabLil ay immediately nag subscribe ako sa inyo kc ang galing nyong dalawa, ang ganda ganda mo miss krizzy God bless you both❤

[@aGCNsh]

If hindi kaya ng guy na bumili ng decent engagement ring then that also means that he doesnt have a capacity to provide for the his future family. If that's the case, then dont get married (yet). Ano bang purpose mo sa pagpapakasal kung wala ka naman palang kapasidad to support the needs of your future family? Instead of giving a very cheap ring, MAG-IPON ka nalang muna until such time na masasabi mong kaya mo ng gumawa at sumuporta sa needs and wants ng iyong future family. Bat ka nagmamadali?

[@SharmaigneKato]

so you mean pag nagbigay ng cheap ring ang lalaki, di na hardworking? wala ng alam sa buhay? di na makakabuhay ng pamilya? forever na maghihirap? isang kahig, isang tuka na lang sila? So it means, pag million ang ring or hundreds of thousands, magiging masaya sila sa married life nila? at pag cheaper ring, magiging miserable sila?

[@Nicole-ny8hv]

@@SharmaigneKato ibig sabihin HINDI PA READY MAGPAKASAL. Nothing wrong with that, pero wag sana ipilit. Mas mahal pa ang vape mo kaysa sa singsing.

[@Nicole-ny8hv]

@@SharmaigneKato magkano nga ba minimum pasahod sa pilipinas? Ni hindi manlang makalaan ng ONE DAY na sahod para sa singsing.

[@sept.m9458]

@SharmaigneKato think critically in her situations ha, 8yrs sila for sure both of them had work.. if the guy decided he will marry her sa 3 or 4yrs or maybe 5yrs in Der relationship and mag propose sa kanyabwed an engagement ring dnt tell me for that 3yrs d man Lang sya nag ipon for the ring.. B.S sa part ng guy for me ha.. for me Lang ha it only shows he doesn't value the girl that much... in general if a man sees him self that in future he will marry someone and imagine that significant moment that he will propose to a woman magsasave ng small portion of his income.

[@reajamilian7447]

@@SharmaigneKatomindset mo pang poor

[@JaniceSenorinDelacruz]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this issue. Btw kasal na sila last year pa pala late lang lumabas ang post. In my opinion this is for more of a communication issue than money.

[@jeckquiatchon8729]

I agree with you guys. Tinanong din to sa akin ng pinsan ko,and we have deff takes on it. And main concern ko na lng now after all of this is,i hope they are still together. I hope na hnd nalamatan yung relationship nila after ng incident na to. Sana naging lesson na lng to fer them.

[@mimisy9300]

for me, yun 299 na ring speaks more of the person na nagbigay than the one receiving it. either kuripot or nagtitipid sya or walang wala talaga sa buhay😅 kasi kung kaya mo naman bakit 299 lang? basta kung ako magppropose, dahil minsan lang ako magpropose at based sa income and savings ko, siguro mga 100k-300k hehehe pero kung ako naman tatanggap, bilang mahal ko naman tatanggapin ko kahit 299, ang cheap mo ha pero sige dahil love kita its a yes!

[@janlouisemakiling3474]

Aaaang ganda ng diamond earrings, necklace and ring ni Kryz ❤

[@glenngallardo2945]

I’m glad I am following and listening to the right people… Same gyud ug mindset ni Kryz ang women who are self-sustained or self-sufficient. Nya mo hisgot dayun ug gender equality si yad.. #mindonmymoney #moneyonmymind 😅

[@lynnice9379]

My husband gave diamond rings as engagement rings for his ex-fiances. They never got married. He gave me a ring with my birthstone as engagement ring. Their's is more expensive but mine is more sentimental

[@rexyfamoso-gordevilla919]

The contentment of Skymom is so ❤❤❤

[@jmar6015]

I went to imono recently. And I asked magkano yung nakikita kong engagement ring nila. It was less than 1k mga 500 ata. The ring looks really nice. But knowing imono kahit mura lang siya the materials on the ring they sell is so nice quality na surgical steel ring. Kahit maghugas ka ng pinggan, or maligo ka, basta may sabon na involved, the ring from imono will not have any negative effects on your finger nor will it tarnish. I bought rings from them multiple times and they were all good. I’m a ring person and yung iba nawawala haha. But the last one I bought lasted me atleast 5 or 6 years halos no removing and I wash hands with soap no issues. I don’t remember cleaning it but it’s still good as new until now.

[@pintados3041]

Love don't cost a thing. Mas masaya na makasama mo yung tao kesa sa materyal na bagay. Yung mga tunay na nagmamahal talaga at hindi yung obligado at masyadong standardized ang relasyon sa isang tao. May mga babae kasi na ang ganda lang ng proposal, ang luxury ng proposal at gara ng takbo ng relasyon nila ang importante sa kanila. And women expected a lot. Dahil hindi pa sila tunay na nagmamahal. But once nakita nila ang lalaking yaon, nothing matters. Nothing is valuable as him. Nor her.

[@MAJESTICMINDANAO]

Totoo naman.naka depende sa sitwasyon at status nung lalaki o couple..khit nga wala na if gusto ka tlga pakasalan at worth it nman yung lalaki, kita mo nman yung pros and cons at ready kana dun, then Go..

[@EuphoriaXdemisE]

agree to kryz 110%!!! stop daw sa bare minimum. dude mas okay maging praktikal kesa maging materialistic! i would be happy kahit pritos ring or sinulid nga lang yung gamitin as proposal ring. mas importante na mahal mo at handa kang pakasalan or ikaw yung naisip na pakasalan ikaw yung naisipan kasama bumuo ng pamilya. kesa ibili ng mamahalin na engagement ring mas better na ilaan na lang for future plans! sa hirap ng buhay ngayon mas pipiliin ko yung magiging kaginhawaan ng future family ko kesa sa mga personal na gusto kong ako lang masisiyahan.

[@lliennejas2155]

I think if he told me first that the ring wasn't so expensive and gave me the explanation that I deserved so I wouldn't overthink, then we won't have any isssues. Instead of me finding out and over thinking if I deserved this type of treatment, especially if there's a plausible reason behind it. Then I wouldn't mind. Again, there's so much reason as to why we do things that we do, and it can be hard to understand, but if you truly love the person, you would, try to understand. Because love knows how to compromise , but only when communicated properly.

[@GennieCo]

My husband gave me a silver engagement nabili pa nya sa. uni silver na pinagiponan pa nya even our wedding ring also silver made and 5k budget namin wedding at take note pinag iiponan nya Rin Yun pero happy ako kasi alam ko pinag iiponan at super effort Ang Asawa ko pero in 17 years of marriage now may husband giving me happy family , loving me so deeply and our children good life we have own house , car, business and sapat na money to provide our children education kaya di need isukat or I judge Ang Isang relationship sa 299 na engagement ring importante yung relationship nyo to be strong and your family bubuoin nyo to be come happy , lots of loves and kuntento ka sa pamilyang binuo nyo dalawa 😊❤

[@lethbletso2322]

When my husband propose to me 11 years ago he just asked my ring size and he choose the ring. After 2 years pumili ako ng traditional ring. But for me once a year lng nmn ako humihingi ng present so I can choose whatever I want but very sensible nmn ako.

[@therealandes]

It's true, it really depends on how you would like it to be perceived. The price of the engagement ring isn't important to me. First, I won't sell or pawn it because it's sentimental regardless of value. Second, I don't show off things, especially on social media. Lastly, I'd rather invest the money in our future for long-term benefits specially we're not well off.

[@izzyoboionidz6875]

Nabasa ko yung post ng guy and he said that meron naman siya money allocated for engagement ring na 5 figures from what i’ve remember. And i agree with Kryz na it depends on the status in life ng tao na dapat kung alam naman na di well off yung guy and bread winner pa, dapat intindihin nung girl yun.

[@SharonPacheco]

I just watched your vid today and can i just say, 17yrs ago my bf then gave me an engagement ring worth like 250php which is bought from unisilver, i still have it, i did not mind if its just that cheap, i used it. What matters is that our love for each other doesnt tarnish. Now we have 2 kids and he later on upgraded and gave me a white gold ring with tiny diamond in it to make up for the silver ring then, i always tease him of giving me a silver before and he always laughs😂 We are happily married for 17 yrs and in a relationship for almost 20yrs😊

[@theresamoniquerufo9882]

I think it really depends. You should know your partner and only judge his capability to provide in the future and not by the price of a ring. Hello if you don't like it you can buy the one you want before the wedding. Ang importante imong peace of mind if minyo namo.

[@jilltamoza4760]

Since talking about prices. In my own opinion if the girl knew that he is not that privilege of buying luxury prices then the girl should be contented cos she knew him for 8 yrs.. She is more than lucky enough for proposal. But if the guy can afford luxurious material. Why not spend more to her. What u show is what she feels in the future. U can buy cars of ur own but in the future ull just ganna disregard her for so many things not only ring imagine whats ganna happen in a long run if in the present he cant afford to make the women special like those cars. Bow 🙇

[@nakanidalaguete9048]

I so love this topic and open my mind na I should not react right away

[@rheadelarama1043]

Soo agree with ur opinion Ms.Kryz❤️

[@huhwhat8831]

This is my take on this issue (kahit wala namang may nangrerequest haha). Everyone's feelings are valid. First, the GIRL I think wants a magarbong engagement ring and she feel na di enough yung ring na yun and obviously di alam ni BOY na ganon yung gusto ni GIRL (that's why you have to communicate your wants). And impossible naman na di pa nila yan napagusapan. And si BOY naman feels like he was invalidated because of the GIRL posting that on socmed. In short, COMMUNICATION IS KEY. Kung gusto nyo ng magarbo (mapalifestyle man yan or kahit ano) communicate it to your partners or humanap ka ng partner na nasa level (kaya ang magarbo) na yun.

[@Yettieyets00]

Ako tlga i agree. Why you put ur worth to a ring? And the heck for social validation of the girl. If you really know your worth, hindi mo yun ilalagay sa value lang ng ring ❤ marriage is about the life you will build together, it not based on the ring you will wear.

[@noryrodelas1245]

Nong nag proposed ang husband ko maliit lang din ang ring hindi ko alam magkanu nya binili pero maliit lang talaga. Pilot siya at foriegner sya alam kong afford nyang bumili ng mas malaking ring. Pero never pumasok sa isip ko na bakit ganito lang. Kinasal kami tapos sumunod ako sa kanya sa ibang bansa. Nong nag 5 years anniversary kami binilhan nya ako ng mas malaki na ring. Then 10 years anniversary namin binilhan nya ulit ako ng mas malaking ring. Ngayon mag 12 years na kami ng asawa ko 😊😊😊.

[@cherrymaedc19]

It's really depends on situation. Kung couple lang kayo, wala pang anak or ibang binubuhay. Hindi okay yung 299 ring. Pero kung may binubuhay, may anak na or bread winner at di talaga afford yung mamahalim, it's okay.

[@dj8177]

Be grateful na lng pg mi binigay na engagement ring...ung iba nga wala 😂

[@amilissaaraneta215]

For me, dapat talaga may communication and kung gaano mo kakilala ang partner mo, kase kung alam mo gf mo maarte, hard working and gumagastos ng skincare na kamahal etc, or say si guy mahilig bumili ng pc games/parts na pgkamahal mahal, so alam mo talaga na di papayag gf mo sa 299 na engagement ring, pero kung sabihin ni guy na "299 lng ang ring kase ganito ganito nagiipon pa ako pero gusto na kita pakasalan" etc anong reasons... mas maintindihan ni girl and hindi siya maconfuse sa feelings nya kahit pa na alam ni guy na sa si gf di papayag sa 299 na ring at least nag communicate sila about it, baka masolve pa and mas maintindihan nila ang isat isa kung saan sila nanggagaling. Yun langs. Cheers

[@madenesensei]

never invalidate other peoples feelings..lalo na if we are not in their situation...charot

[@GunneJC0614]

For me a Ring is a Ring. Weigh it in any way you want. If it's the monetary value or the sentimental value of the ring.

[@user-zn7gl5sf6y]

takot lang yung girl sa judgement ng tao, pero pagiisipin mo kasi and if mahal mo yung guy it doesnt matter na yung sasabihin ng iba kasi ung iba nabuntis iniwan tas ung iba kabit. I mean you should be proud and thankful kasi sa panahon ngayon hirap na makahanap ng guy na papakasalan ka. Lalo na mga kabataan ngayon anpupusok. Materyalestik lang yung girl sa post sa tagal niyang nakasama ung guy di ba niya nakita ung hirap ng breadwinner.

[@ShxxVxrcxdxx]

Husband propose without a ring. Pero masaya pa rin ako kahit biglaan , nag ipon lang kami para sa kasal.

[@marjorycosmod5950]

Hahaha same here Kryz but I lost it just hours after my husband proposed and nahanap din naman within that minute I found out i lost it. 😂😂😂

[@margauxchu2194]

well 299 engagement ring is okay for me personally if he's a minimum income wager but if hes earning 7 digits a year, that would be offensive

[@yoururbanchic]

With my mindset before - no it’s not ok. But after 6 years of marriage and with the mindset of FIRE - yes I would’ve been okay with a 299 ring

[@jamirkuhn5206]

The issue for the guy he doesn't prioritize her GF because he still supporting his family, what more if they are married, what will be their marriage life

[@dianelepasana6037]

Nice Kryz! Correct mindset!! 😍

[@babsirants]

Ofcourse different people have different budget. But at the same time, the ring reveals what is yet to come. Is he ready for a marriage, family, children? Being in a marriage includes so many responsibilities and if people are not ready it will only turn into a disaster. Take care everyone of your loved ones ❤

[@dj8177]

Love dis couple.....love you guys..happy listening n watching here in Spain ❤❤❤.....

[@user-we7dj8sk3q]

May learning sa podcast na ito and deep.

[@Cappuccinocream]

My answer was since I was asked about my take to this issue before.. "It's ok so long as there is a house waiting for me after the wedding." 😂😂😂😂 I even joked na ok lang basta may 5M na bahay.. In short, i should see that my guy really has a plan for a great future for us and these plans are transparent cause apparently if I get an engagement proposal tapos nakita kong hindi ka naman ready, 299 man yan or more expensive, I will refuse you if I feel like you are not ready or I am not ready too.😊😊😊😊

[@lanyferpelingon2683]

I agree that the price of the ring shouldn't matter. The woman should know if she should YES or No sa proposal based on her experience for 8 years with the guy. The value of the ring is not her value to the guy, and she should be the number 1 person to know that for 8 years. If she thinks that she is not valued, then she should have walked away from that relationship. What makes her stay for 8 years in the first place.

[@camillefajardo4281]

For me If I know the guy's situtation like sya ung breadwinner sakto lng ung kinikita nya then I would understand kung bkit 299 lng ung afford mong ring and I still accept it. But if I know you are capable of buying you have a good life then I will question my worth to him.

[@rrgmechanic823]

Kung ma pera bf mo. Yun pwede ka magsabi ng ganun... Kasi nsa isip mo nun ang kuripot. Pero kung d naman ma pera bf mo mag pasalamat ka nlng. Kung na bigyan ka.... Pinapakita mo lng nun na.. basta yun na yun

[@dawnjuliennesison6692]

Me 7yrs he proposed with the ring pandora ring im shocked wow pandora sosyal na siya for me and then after a weeks nakita ko may kalawang na and nalaman ko sa messenger niya online lang niya nabili natuwa pa ako kc nabudol siya hindi totoo yung pandora ring nabili niya so its ok for me and sinabihan ko siya sayang yung pera at mahal pa niya nabili like 800 ata yun and then sabi ko ok lang palitan nlang naten na totoong silver pero mas mura so nabili nmin yung engagement ring ko sa unisilver lang worth less than 400 i think .. im not a person judge my partner and sometimes yung mga lalaki wala sila idea how to buy ring or choose kc first time lang nila gagawin at nakakaba so we dont know all the men’s how to buy rings and don’t post it because social media today is toxic …

[@thegrigas6708]

I agree with you Kryz!

[@klarencemedelpacer773]

Tsaka hindi dapat lagyan ng presyo ang pagmamahal eh. Yung kasal na yan or engagement one day memory lang yan ang importante is the whole marriage itself eh. Magmula sa buhay mag-asawa hanggang sa magka-apo. May ilan nga diyan expensive ang engagement ring pero tingnan niyo wala pang 5 years or 3 years hiwalay na agad due to some circumstances in the marriage eh.

[@jerwincanlas8086]

Incomplete kasi yung post, Sana sinama yung 8 years nila. ❤

[@rabbitannikimoy3210]

I like your comment about this 299 unlike sa ibang mga influencer na maka confirm sa kaning comment na parang feeling tama talaga. Rational kaau sila hindi hahaha

[@oska4206]

Louder ms.kryz..soo what...i dont care..its just a ring😊😊😊

[@blessedgracepillas3036]

This is why I love the skyfam. ♥️

[@ireenblyther2379]

Opinion ko lang to ha, kung ako hindi ako mag matter sa 299 ring,. Ang importanti nagmahalan clang dalawa. Or 299 for engagement and sa huwes nalang pagpakasal para ang sa mamahalin na ring at panghanda sa kasal e save nalang para sa future nila. At wala pang utang pagkatapus ng kasal

[@lailanimamaril7684]

Like I would always say, it's the person you are going to marry and not the ring. Your value does not depend on a ring.

[@joannecai9226]

Happiness is a choice...

[@bhengrevilla1627]

May point ka Kryz, hindi pwede ilagay ang worth sa ring lang. Parang sinasabi lang na mas mahalaga ang material thing kesa sa bubuuing nilang familia..

[@charsysupermom1355]

people nowadays, the sad thing, kahit ako guilty din paminsan.lagi natin iniisip ang opinion ng iba.. parang gusto mo lagi ng validation sa ibang tao at binabase nlng doon. kung iisipin hindi nila alam ang whole story, one sided lng.

[@pajoreyhena2746]

Aanhin ang mahal na singsing kung iiwan ka rin naman

[@FlyingEagle1712-xv6es]

For me kung nasa sitwasiyon na yun lang ang nakayanan i would really appreciate it kahit nga wala na lang para makatipid at maidagdag na lang sa pangkasal. Pero kung alam mong madatung yung bf mo tapos 299 lang yung binigay sayong singsing parang feeling ko tinipid ako e afford naman niya 😂 it depends sa situation talaga walang tama at maling sagot.

[@mikeehipolito9794]

We should not be enticed with our belongings shining superficially.

[@mylahcruz4673]

I love kryz. She's right.. Bwal judgy. 😁

[@hannajpajimola6195]

Agreed to Slayter 100%

[@justinlozano4783]

Nowadays, it seems like there is a lot of TRUTH on every scenario/situation. How did it came to this? Because we became so TOLERANT and that makes everything TRUE. Which is bad because by not being "Judgy" or by being tolerant we cannot filter anymore which is TRUE and when does it end? This being tolerant? This being not judgy? I agree on kriz and my take on the 299 engagement ring is that the woman should be grateful that the man is deciding to settle to her. This truth is from the Bible that a woman should be under the domain of a man. E kung sa engangement ring palang ganyan na what more pag nag sama na sila. This is how i filter the truth to avoid alot of realities and by not being tolerant and PICKING THE SIDE THAT REALLY SHOULD PREVAIL.

[@yes-hm2ym]

the thought is the boy have a plan to marry a girl..kaysa mayaman or have all the resources ang boy but walang plano na pakasalan ka..for example some celebtrities they have money to buy an engagement ring but don't have plan to marry a girl..

[@ciscasaclang3378]

marriage is just formality, so those little things shouldnt matter much. for me 😁✌🏻

[@janellasunch1648]

it's not the marriage , maybe what you meant was wedding ?

[@ciscasaclang3378]

cuz of the legalities stuff? i mean if your dynamics is technically like a married couple you just get the label "husband" and "wife" so for me its just formality. *for me

[@janellasunch1648]

@@ciscasaclang3378 what matters is how he'll treat you as his wife and how he is as a father to your future children

[@shinecruz100]

For me, I really don't care. If my man afford to buy why not but if not its ok. What matters to me is yung him being responsible as a partner and a father to our future kids, hello? lifetime commitment yun wala ng mas hihingit dun yung maging responsible siya for the rest of your lives.