SLEEPING WITH A GIRL FOR THE 1ST TIME (wlw advice) //

[@KearaGraves]

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[@lenabendidi782]

my trial is over ;-; but it is such a nice app honestly

[@KearaGraves]

@@lenabendidi782ikr it’s sooo good🔥

[@chrisevans9688]

Chris Evans good sex woman one girl friend back me look good on one day at this time and be back on Monday night and I will be now that day and I will do it tomorrow if that you can find out now

[@agustrezza5051]

I cant believe that no one asked about how to stay safe during sex between women, it is a very important topic that often goes overlooked

[@KearaGraves]

Ooh yes it's a very important topic and I've answered questions about that in previous videos!

[@crow_moriondo]

Just your friendly neighborhood asexual who will never need this advice but loves watching these anyway 😭

[@KearaGraves]

Love that! Thx for being here anyways 🤗💗

[@HyperNovva]

Same lmao

[@_nomxd_]

Same here!!

[@phoenixblue-koszalka1518]

Same lol

[@haley210]

I'm wondering why I always watch these too 😂

[@kevinjennings6680]

Thank you for being the queer sibling or friend you didn't have, it means more than you know!!

[@KearaGraves]

Awww ily!!!❤🤗

[@yagikidd2300]

Glad you mentioned Body Dysmorphia/Body Image issues cause it definitely does affect someone’s sex life and it’s crazy how some people don’t take it seriously.

[@KearaGraves]

FOR REALL!!!

[@TehBuggy]

9:02 When I was going through a “libido slump” and my partner’s was high, we would listen to spicy audiobooks together. They handled their own pleasure and I just listened to the story or sometimes hung out beside them and played video games 😅 Even though I wasn’t “participating”, being together felt intimate and we both really enjoyed it. Their needs were met, I was able to relax and stop putting pressure on myself, and we’d usually snuggle after 💜

[@KearaGraves]

Wait I love that! Thanks for sharing that, and it’s a great idea. 😘

[@mariebourgot4949]

Woah, such a great and creative idea. ^^

[@slowsnailing]

Didn't expect to hear about autism and trauma and how that affects your experience with sex right off the bat. The sensory issues yesss. Also the body keeps the score!! I feel very seen 😭😭 i really like your emphasis on enJOY, it can be hard not to feel performative or feel obligated to do more then you necessarily want to. I feel like my sensory issues and trauma made it take longer to realize i'm queer too

[@annmarie840]

Thank you for saying the quiet part out loud and addressing that no one has ownership over another persons body even when in romantic relationships. It’s something I faced being used as a object of pleasure and not valued by others in the relationships but you are 💯 appreciated for addressing this!

[@HB-nf6jx]

The idea of a roleplay in which the characters have sex is so good! As an aegosexual I think this could work for me, thank you.

[@KearaGraves]

Hehehe it’s actually so fun I hope you try it out 😝😝😝

[@HB-nf6jx]

@@KearaGraves I will if there is the right situation for it someday 😝. Thanks for the response

[@cherryhaha]

I watch your videos with interest and adoration, as if there is no persecution of people like me in my country and as if I don't have to hide what I am all my life, even from my loved ones. When I watch your videos, it's like I'm immersed in another world. Thank you that the Internet exists.

[@ambersjourneysinlife]

Thank you! Im on anxiety and Adhd meds, and my libido is very very low, to the point I thought I was asexual for a while. I still think Im demisexual, it takes me a while but it can happen with the right person. I appreciate you're videos so much, Ive been here since I was 13 trying to figure out if I wasnt straight. Five years later, I'm definitely not straight lol!

[@mosaicKix]

AYYY I LOVE IT WHEN YOU DO THESE VIDEOS

[@kay-st8kj]

you are so amazing! you help me feel better about myself and you help me to keep trying and have body and self positivity!! you’re so awesome 🩷🫶

[@02lxynyx27]

it’s literally been 3 sec and omg u just radiate beauty inside and out! 😭 🥹

[@Ilikeflowers22]

Haven't watched your videos in a while, but this one just got recommended to me again. So excited and happy to see you got married

[@Butterbeak]

Thank you for these videos! It’s so nice to see someone explain things when they have been through similar experiences. I am ASD and only been with girls but even that is difficult cuz emotions 😨😨

[@STURNIOLOS4EVA438]

GIRLY YOUR HAIR 😍😍

[@Olga-pj1pv]

Hii keara i love your videos, i always get excited when you upload a New video, theyre so fun to watch and make me company while i do college homework and i have dinner haha. lov u

[@cichyczek]

I love your channel, and especially this type of videos. I find them so helpful as both me and my partner are neurdivergent and nblw.

[@KearaGraves]

Sooo glad you find these videos informative! Love youuuu! 😘

[@ellouisebadger849]

I find it weird in regular films and series there's a lack of consent / communication. They're just randomly kissing or something without a single word 😂

[@KearaGraves]

IKR. it’s SO not realistic or healthy???

[@inspectre27]

Being kind of cis het, or at least having partners who are, i can say that in my experience, that is realistic. One is expected to read body language to guage willingness, or spoken hints, innuendos, and double entendres. Asking for consent directly can make some people really uncomfortable for some reason. Also, the burden of guageing consent generally lies on the male and not the female, as media has drilled into us that men always want sex, so why bother asking?

[@TehBuggy]

@@inspectre27 But in those examples, it sounds like you and your partner are communicating with the innuendos, body language, etc. And with both of you communicating the same thing, that IS consent. Consent doesn’t necessarily need to be freezing and asking “Do you want to do X with me?”. It can be more subtle or playful and still be consent. If my partner puts on lingerie and invites me to join her in the bedroom, me following is giving consent. If she’s taking a shower and I seductively ask her if she wants company, her inviting me in is consent. If we give each other “The Look”, we’re communicating consent 😂 As long as you know each other well enough that your body language and other communication is *loud and clear*, that’s a way to ask for/give consent.

[@justinfelt748]

Happy Friday, Keara! And welcome to the third season of Fall!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🍁🌷🌈🍁💖💜💖💜💖💜💖💜💖💜💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍

[@B33TL3-B1T3]

As a neurodivergent with no experience I rlly hope these videos can help me in future situations :)

[@tracey6811]

Your story is wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing that - especially while painting together. Wishing you both every blessing and every happiness!!

[@JennyOkazaki39]

Just posting to get my past trauma off my chest and it's December. ☃ Nobody ever forgets their first anything. When I was an undergrad @ USC, my then gf & lover told me "You're very pretty, but I can't live with your workaholic lifestyle anymore, so I've decided to move back to Huzhou, China and finish my education there." To soften the blow, she gave me a new vacuum cleaner. That night, I was devastated and still recall it like yesterday. Thx, Keara Graves. ❤🤘🌈

[@__your_girl_abby___]

the CUTEST girlie ever! i don’t even care that i am straight, watching just because ily. 🤍🫶🏻

[@angiewong5078]

Yes Ask (quing) Queera is back!!

[@laurenenyangluo4225]

We need to bring back the les confessions in your next video!!!

[@KearaGraves]

On it!!! :)

[@etcwhatever]

Yeah as an autistic person my problem with sex is cuddling (no!). Some smells i dont tolerate. I also dont like to talk...i make other types of noise 😂 some things are a bit tricky for my partners. Idk. I really need the preferences to align for it to be good.

[@zairehaylock4974]

Hi, Keara. I will always love your channel and your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Meeee12346]

Do I need this, No, am I gonna watch it anyway…… yes

[@jesterr7133]

Wow. I am a little older than you, but I am also nonbinary and pansexual. As I was working through some things, I eventually discovered that I am Autistic as well. Trying to unpack everything about your life as you know it is not an easy thing. I am two years in, and I haven't even come close to figuring it all out. I wish you the best of luck.

[@whatsuplavren]

SUCH a good video baby

[@n00n3ynight]

I‘m not a native speaker so I hope this is understandable and I‘ll choose the right words. There‘s a thing called Nematodes that you can buy and water your plants with. Its literally tiny tiny creatures that will eat the gnat grubs and die afterwards. It sounds weird but it helps 100%. Look it up 😅

[@bevcail]

Good tip

[@gabnaturalist]

Mosquito Bits also can be used to take care of fungus gnats

[@jag1ya-nag1]

literally if you find out how to do stuff as an autistic make a video on it pls cause sameee

[@KearaGraves]

DEFINITELY WILL!❤

[@mary.jan3.]

Taking notes 🏃🏃🏃

[@artisticpri]

about the period just be careful because it can increase chances of you getting an infection

[@douglashubbard7484]

Bipolar mood swings affect libido in big ways.

[@riveramnell143]

YES!

[@CasasdeAntigona]

I agreee!!

[@inspectre27]

I heard that.

[@Bcr26420]

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[@Pinkiepie-u5h]

This is awesome! 😎

[@rubyharkleroad2796]

YESSSS ITS ASK QUEERRRRAAAS

[@mialindvall]

Amazing and so important ✨❤️

[@Plasticroll]

Thank you for letting me realise i also did masking during 🎉

[@perfect_illusion]

love your videos!! ❤

[@Gianna-lb7qe]

I say this in light hearted jest instead of "Keara" you're "Queera" ❤😂

[@VoiceForTheMisunderstood]

I want to experience this at least once in life 😖

[@karinenoblot7352]

Many thanks, i'm sort of reassured, at the same time nervous ❤❤❤

[@colbyreed397]

I love your videos there so helpful

[@colbyreed397]

Sincerely Maddie she/her

[@tinyguitar20]

0:24 SAME my hair got stuck on one once...

[@Jackie-yn4sc]

Put vinger in a cup put by plants the nat will fly in ATL ga USA

[@PetraBrown]

I like your patterned top Keara, it’s nice and loose❤ Your lovely face makes me smile❤ Lol from Petra❤❤

[@robquin1525]

You know what else you can use for gnats? Cups filled with apple cider vinegar scattered throughout the house

[@Jess-s6e]

Gurl I’m autistic too

[@AutumnLeaves_011]

HEY GORGEOUS

[@thegrinch3311]

15:52 16:43 17:33

[@Will0wDa1sy]

Me watching this an panicking because my girlfriend is coming over tomorrow

[@FarwanAhmed-g9z]

I'm a bottom gay. So I'm proud 💛

[@MilliPidi]

What is the brand of the toy you talk about here?

[@anya_from_bharat]

Any advice for a lesbian trans woman who scared to have experiences with cis lesbians? :)

[@Astraiaaaaa]

Sexuality is based off of biology, so I don’t think majority lesbians want to sleep with a trans woman

[@DragonDoodleSoup]

I’ve already asked u this and I’m 99% shure u saw it because u liked it but could you please have a community post on this same thing because I have so many questions but I don’t have instagram please please please

[@mathildehb0076]

Is dipsy exclusively for cis women and AFABs?

[@KearaGraves]

Nope anyone can use it! :)

[@xoxo.VlogsWHarz]

What does wlw mean???

[@sooderso49]

Woman loves Woman I guess 😅

[@leahstumm9662]

Apple cider vinegar gets rid of nats

[@warrior100girl]

Hello from fellow autistic lesbian. Been following you a while now.

[@PetraBrown]

I observe that you respect folk who are gender-fluid, Yes I would feel safe if I met You❤ Love to You Keara from Petra❤xxx

[@dochics1053]

I am gender fluid l like both been with girls and I love to sleep with a man ❤❤😊

[@troyedwards3151]

Wow you're a beautiful and stunning woman ❤

[@ElectraXenia]

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[@somebodyrandom952]

autistic and queer gang

[@SeanHopkins-j9d]

Hi from Mr sean m hopkins from elpaso tx try wearing redlipstick or redlipgloss in a video I haven't done sex yet in my life but I love redlipstick or redlipgloss infront of me

[@Ellie_A2012]

I’m going to have my first wlw sex soon maybe I’m kinda nervous😬

[@tooth.face.]

im in a relationship with a trans guy and hes very much a bottom so im kinda scared lolz

[@avarose8780]

nah. are u from lost and found from like a decade ago

[@cherylmacedo5521]

🤍🤍🤍

[@Hannah_anna-r7d]

Hi beautiful how are you doing 🏳️‍🌈❤️ love to be a friend if you don't mind you can inbox me if you want 🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@leahstumm9662]

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[@KikiLOVESEVERYTHING]

Instruction unclear now we are making out

[@KikiLOVESEVERYTHING]

IM JK😭

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[@inspectre27]

On overthinking (from a penis-haver): I used to do a thing during sex that helped with overthinking. Give your brain a task that is difficult and repetitive. I tried a few things, but my goto was picking a random 5-digit number and counting backwards by 7s. This is not easy (I discovered later that I have mild dyscalculia, so it was probably harder for me). For penis-havers, I also noticed an improvement in stamina. ymmv. The drawback is that the task can be distracting, so your pleasure may dip or you may be less attentive to your partner. Attempt at your own risk. 😅

[@CurlyAndNerdy101]

Holy shit, I knew I would be performative when I'm nervous in sex, but it NEVER occurred to me that I could be masking. Mind blown. Questions answered.