Slow Fashion Mistakes and How To Avoid Them | Easy Tips & Tricks

[@bstrong5016]

Something that has helped me buy less is to picture where I will be wearing something. If my mind imagines me in a fancy restaurant in New York City, which it often does, that’s a clue that I’m thinking of my fantasy life, and not my actual life in Ottawa, Canada. I love dressy clothes but rarely have a chance to wear them. *****sigh******

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oh my gosh this is such a great trick - I have totally fallen into the trap of shopping for a fantasy life. Thanks so much for watching! xx

[@annarehbinder7540]

Ok so im going to say this, if you love them, even if you put them up on a Wall and it makes you happy go for it! Or decide ... DO YOU want to take a day in the week or perhaps two wear you dress your dream or mix it up with your everyday Style - check out Karen britchic and bjones style on youtube they have great style mixing!

[@jamieperez5609]

Hi! I do the same before purchasing an item, however I ask myself, what 3 different places would I wear this to? It usually helps me, because if it's only work or something just to go out in then I reconsider.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

@@jamieperez5609 this is one of my criteria too! I have to come up with 3 outfits using it otherwise it's a no!

[@humanormachine2936]

This is so, so important. It's very easy to buy things that we love, suit our personal style well, and feel so much like "us", without thinking about the lifestyle factor.

[@pamelaatkinsonscats2873]

No.6 - absolutely! I've seen people on KZbin decluttering with abandon with the idea that they'll then be able to buy more stuff. I've got items that I've had for decades that are far better quality than what's available now. I think there's this myth that things bought years ago will somehow scream out that they're out of date. I really don't think people look that closely. I made sure what I bought wasn't extreme so it's still wearable and stylish now. I'd say, keep your good stuff and carry on enjoying it.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes to everything you said! It's great to keep quality items which could also be altered if necessary! I think it's so important to remember that the "clutter" still goes somewhere ... Thanks for watching Pamela!

[@apender01]

Great video! One other tip to add is find a good tailor. Some of my favorite pieces were ones that I bought thrifting and then had altered to fit me just right. And, you are recycling and bringing money to your local community too!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oh YES such a good one! A good tailor is a must! Thanks for sharing Ami!

[@soleil25mm]

In Asia, there is a common negative attitude towards vintage shopping or thrifting. Yet I have often found some gems from hand me downs given by my aunts. So I don’t understand the stigma. Hopefully we become more aware of the cost of buying new and fast clothes. I have a 35 year old silk blouse that is so pretty and oddly on trend now. I am so glad I kept it even though my mom told me to donate it years ago. Your videos have helped me see my closet in a whole new light, and find myself trying on different combos. It’s fresh. And I’ve stopped giving my jeans away just because they’re old! Kinda overdid the decluttering there. 😳What was I thinking! A big thank you from Malaysia.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

That's so interesting, I always wonder what the consignment and secondhand market is like elsewhere thank you for sharing :) so happy you find the channel helpful I'm so grateful that you watch!

[@jojo-tl5ei]

I keep my old jeans too!! Must confess I am a little unsettled over wearing other people's thrifted clothes too even though I have come across things that I love!

[@soleil25mm]

So great to hear from you. Fast fashion is popular here. Thrift shops very few and many aren’t managed well. I’ve been to a few vintage stores in NY and they’re a class above anything I’ve seen at home. But slowly, there is a movement among young urbanites who have started doing pop up stores every now and then. I live in hope 💕

[@soleil25mm]

jo jo hi 👋 well I started with bags. But now I tend to look at how worn the clothes are. I got an amazing Burberry pencil skirt for a steal somewhere in Florida. They looked brand new! It was wool, so there was no demand. You’ll be surprised by what people give away. As Alyssa mentions, good to go with a list. Or you could be overwhelmed.

[@nataliebutler]

It was the same in the 90s when I was growing up in Wales. I would have felt embarrassed to go into a charity shop then as it was so looked down on. It's a luxury of relative wealth to be able to say I choose, rather than have to, to buy secondhand. I guess people were afraid of the association with being poor. Thankfully, now I love secondhand and vintage gems, especially for home decor and higher quality clothes. It's so satisfying to get such a great deal on them!

[@zaynabshaik5340]

So great to find like-minded people, you're such a brilliant and clear speaker!

[@amberzable5608]

I’ve made those mistakes for sure. I jumped into principles of minimalism about 3 or 4 years ago and went a little far resulting in a wardrobe devoid of all color, pattern, funk, and fun. It was a closet that eventually didn’t work for me. Your channel has helped me define and infuse more of my personal style into my wardrobe responsibly. But I’m constantly evaluating how my closet is working for me to nail that sweet spot of function and fashion.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

aw wow this was so great to read! I think it's a moving target and always re-evaluating is so smart:) Thanks for watching Amber xx

[@chrisnapelbaum9483]

Recent subscriber and LOVE the education you have provided me on “slow fashion”. Your videos have really changed the way I think about reusing, repurposing last year’s fashions and beyond. I was under the mindset that anything in my closet that was 2-3 years old should be replaced or donated. Not so! If you love it...keep it and proudly wear it! Stay simple, classic and elegant! I love consignment shops. Definitely have found some great treasures and appreciate all your advice! Chao!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Ah wow amazing!! Loved reading this comment and so grateful to be included in your thought process:) Sounds like you've got some great treasures and pieces to love:) Thanks for watching!

[@kkouz45]

Another great video! What’s really helped me is buying online thrift vs in person. So much easier for me to stay focused on quality, color, and silhouette instead of caving to instant gratification over that 2 dollar summer top I don’t need. Except for an ivory winter coat and maybe a brown pair of ankle boots, my new curated closet is complete. I love everything; I wear everything; and everything fits!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah yes!! I totally agree - you can shop with a more focused attitude on line. Enjoy shopping your closet Karen! xx

[@pjalexandra]

Appreciating this video as a whole. A thought that tweaked for me is that rather than always trying to de-clutter and minimalize my wardrobe, I am carefully choosing and collecting over time, gradually gathering more wonderful quality pieces that I love, and that last, and letting go of things that are poor quality or don't suit me. So my wardrobe still expands over the long term, but some pieces are in storage, while others are in circulation. I kept my quality classic pieces from the late 90's, and when I pulled them out of storage, no one knows they aren't from the local boutique. I have pieces from my mom, like a cotton canvas boiler suit made in Canada in the 70's that looks precisely on trend. I have dresses from gigs or special occasions that I keep because I'll find some use for them or adapt them. I just pulled out a pair of exceptionally-well-made Esprit bermuda shorts that I bought on a high school trip to Berlin. So 'slow fashion' for me is also literally something that transpires over time.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

YES - I love the idea of continually editing and replenishing with investment pieces as needed. It sounds as though you have an amazing cache of solid investment items - that boiler suit sounds AMAZING!! Really love your take on slow fashion and the mentality - I'm right there with you! Thanks for watching!

[@pjalexandra]

@@AlyssaBeltempo yup it needed a bit of altering but it looks like the $600 ones I've seen in boutiques lately, and it's better quality :) Keep shining!

[@Teverell]

I didn't do a full purge of my wardrobe when I moved, but I got rid of several things that I probably would have kept if I'd discovered this whole idea a few months earlier. And I lost a gorgeous green corduroy midi skirt years ago that is definitely on my list to replace at some point!

[@arianneagustin5045]

I was originally searching on how to style my midi dress and now I am inspired by your take on Slow Fashion. It is indeed easier to style and think of what to wear with a capsule wardrobe and some basic staple pieces. Thank you so much! I'm looking forward to watching your other videos and future videos too. Loved the "Mother and Daughter Thrifted Style" as well. Best regards!

[@ufosrus]

Ciao Bella: Excellent advice. I especially paid attention to the fact that not all in the fashion industry are as sustainable and fair trade as they claim to be. From now on I will make it a point to inquire with the company to learn if they're actually are what they advertise.

[@robynpoulton1465]

Love your take on "slow fashion" educating us on knowing our unique style and how to invest in quality not quantity. Thank you. 🙏💖👠💄

[@milliondollarlady]

"Shop with a list." Yes! Doing that keeps you focus and helps you avoid buying things you do not need!

[@jessicawenger7959]

I recently did a purge of my closet after learning more about slow fashion, minimalism, and capsule wardrobes. To be sure that I wasn't too hasty, I kept my discarded items in another room for several months. That way if I eliminated something I would regret I was able to put it back in my closet. If it sat for several months and I didn't miss it, I knew it was good to donate. I have yet to return to the well. Happy with my purge.

[@bogdem9610]

I’m so with you on thrifting. Most of my wardrobe is thrifted but do I actually need as much of it. Totally love/hate on the thrifting front. You can find so many great buys but that also means the societal over consumption allows me too many options. Really need to go in with a list to fix gaps in my wardrobe and not just buy because it’s cute, my style, good price, etc etc.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes, totally agree about the list! It really helps becuase sometimes having too much choice makes getting dressed frustrating! Thanks so much for watching! xx

[@vesch5083]

When I did my closet purge years ago, I made the mistake of getting rid of too much. I regretted it later and there are still pieces I miss.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah no! I'm sure you'll find some great replacements :) Thanks for sharing and watching! xx

[@marylhere]

V Esch I buy pieces I love (usually thrifted finds) and sometimes they sit in my closet for more than a year. Then find the perfect shoes, accessories only to find I have purged the item. Hoarders say this kind of stuff all the time. Hoarders always have the trends somewhere.... but where?

[@JJ.___.]

Could try putting the pile u think u wanna get rid of aside and come back to time after a period of them and see how u feel when they're supposed to be appropriate for the season they're meant to be..and to see in your mind if matching with different items/ accessories could make u wanna wear them again

[@64Biina]

Thanks for the great tips Alyssa! Here in South Australia, vintage and thrift shopping is really taking off which is fantastic. One thing I will sometimes do is live with the garment for a wee while before taking the tags off. I'll try it on with what I already own and then have a good think about it. I have, in the past, returned garments that have not measured up. Sometimes they look great in the shop but by the time I get home it's a different story.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh interesting! A lot of our thrift and vintage shops are still final sale but that's a great return policy can be really helpful! Thanks for sharing and watching! xx

[@themeganburns]

#1- For sure! I have to stop going. I have a list of a few things I need but I just keep buying things I do not need!!!!

[@eleanorzmuda5501]

Great fashion tips! I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel. I've watched a few videos already and plan on a weekend binge. Thank you!

[@reallifelove]

Thank you for your inspiring and educational videos! As a recovering shopaholic, I love the term "shopping your closet", and I'm truly coming to realize that - as tempting as it can be to get new stuff - I already have everything I need (and SO much more), and the combination options are endless! Watching your styling videos is a true inspiration as well as pure fun! :-)

[@freefallingintograce4634]

Alyssa, I live for your warm, welcoming, genuine, radiant Italian hello!!! 🥰🥰🥰 Sending a big hello and hugs back to you!!! I love caring for my clothes and shoes daily, and I enjoy mending them and extending their life. I find it very soothing too. I feel like I'm giving them another life. It's like we're buddies and I'm grateful that they provide warmth and comfort for me. I don't just use and discard them. I always try to save them from any injury they might have sustained :) I feel a lot of love and gratitude for all my pieces. I know I know... it might be a bit weird, but I just can't help it 😀

[@SoNick25]

i feel the same too!! my clothes last because of good ole TLC!!!

[@freefallingintograce4634]

@@SoNick25 👍

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Natalya! You are so sweet! You are so right about caring for our clothes properly and how much more we can get out of them and how much more we love them! I'm the same, I am very grateful for everything thats in my closet and find it therapeutic too to take care and wash. :) Hope you had a great week and thank you for watching and encouraging as always! xx

[@TechnologikHelp]

I love thrifting! I have a favourite shop in Toronto that I visit whenever I'm there! Like Alyssa suggests, I always shop with a list (that's how I finally found the most exquisite leopard print kitten heel pumps!) but I also love the element of surprise and excitement of finding an unexpected gem! One rule I make for myself for that 'surprise item' is that I NEVER buy it at the time. I go away, think about its appropriateness to my already well-curated wardrobe and most importantly, sleep on it! If I'm still thinking about it the next morning, then I know its a good piece and worth the investment.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Totally agree that vintage and second hand shopping does have a great element of surprise and I've definitely deviated from my list because of it! haha great tip and thanks for watching!

[@marilyndoering2501]

Excellent tips! I can’t tell you how often, when I was younger, I was talked into buying something that really was not my personal style which just ended up sitting in my closet. I’ve learned to trust what I know looks good on me and what my personal style is. That saves me money and helps me enjoy wearing what I buy! I really enjoy your videos!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah totally - this has happened to me too - i was worried I would offend the other person for not listening to their opinion! Sounds crazy now that I read it. Thank you so much for watching, so glad you enjoy the channel Marilyn! xx

[@andreabowersox6318]

I definitely struggle with overdoing it while thrifting also! Although, I've recognized it and I'm doing better with it. There's still that desire to purchase items I don't necessarily need because they're affordable and sustainable. I'm also still really trying to figure out my personal style, and I like a lot of different things, so that creates a little bit of a struggle.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah I still struggle with it sometimes! And yes, figuring out your personal style can really help but renting and thrifting is a good way to experiment :) Thanks for watching! xx

[@mj_dolman5122]

Thanks for the helpful videos. What I have learned is that the effort to pare down my wardrobe has taught me a lot about my personal style. The importance of wearing clothes that suit ones personality may be easy to forget when a severely classic style and neutrals are so much the rage right now, and in the case of many fashion bloggers, such as yourself, it actually is what suits you. I have a lot of colourful clothes, and I'm just paring that down a bit to focus more on my favourite colours such as purple, because that makes it easier to pull together an outfit. Not an entire purple outfit of course because then I would look like a grape. Neutral basics do have their usefulness for going with other things.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes - you hit the nail on the head about wearing clothes that suit your personality, especially if certain aesthetics appeal to you while they're on trend. I loved your tip of focusing on favourite colours for those who love a more colourful closet - it really does help with pulling outfits together. Thank you for sharing, great tip! xx

[@mj_dolman5122]

@@AlyssaBeltempo you're welcome ;)

[@karlarojas3911]

I'm working towards this permanent mindset of just loving what I own. Making a list has been extremely helpful in keeping me focused .

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yes!! Absolutely! I honestly think that mindset changes everything - and a LIST! My fave:) Thanks for watching!

[@jamie7002]

Agreed about the over-thrifting; that being said, thrifting is a really inexpensive and more sustainable way to try trends or something outside your comfort zone. A good example for me is animal print. They go in and out of style every two years or so, and the items can end up at the thrift store really quickly. By the time it comes back into fashion in a few seasons there will be plenty of more sustainable options to try out from the thrift store that don’t impact your wallet or the environment as much! . . . Other examples of easy to thrift/cyclical trends are: florals, plaids, camo, neons, & velvets, & different washes of denim!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yes absolutely! I love thrifting and it is a more environmentally friendly way to experiment with style or trends! Thanks for watching!

[@lenamahayni6216]

Slow fashion has the same principles as French chic

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes exactly!! ❣️ Thanks for watching!

[@jeannesnodgrass8073]

Thanks for sharing these ideas. The changes that helped me were finding my style and having an overview of my wardrobe. Now I just add items to fill a gap or replace. So my former mistake was buying random items with no thought to how they fit my life or closet. Of course these random things seldom were worn which led to always buying more.💕

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oh yes, knowing your personal style is huge! So good to hear Jeanne :) Thanks for watching! xx

[@nancyharris9909]

Alyssa, this was so informative. I love fashion and I use to equate that with buying more stuff. Over the years, I ended up with a lot of clothing but feeling like I had nothing to wear - LOL. I started thoughtfully purging (either selling or thrifting) and I'm still on the journey. Your videos are helping me change my mindset about fashion which is so very helpful. Thanks again and enjoy the upcoming week!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Nancy! I'm so honoured and happy that you find this channel helpful for building a slow fashion closet!:) I think we've all been in that space of : a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear haha you were not alone! Thanks so much for watching and have a great week! xx

[@christinamanucy8037]

Hi Alyssa! I had to laugh when you mentioned overdoing it with thrifting--I've been there, it's so easy to get caught up! One slow fashion option that I think is becoming more & more popular & is relatively inexpensive is "remade" clothing out of vintage garments. I've found some gems this way. :) The mistake I've made with purchases kinda falls into the clothing care category--if it can't be hand washed (must be dry cleaned) that's a no go for me--it will sit in the closet unworn.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

It definitely is - and you're so right about remade from vintage! Thats a fun and creative option! Thanks for watching Christina! xx

[@susanagonzalezcodina9758]

I never buy clothes that need ironing

[@HelloGorgeousbyJenn]

I have found several pieces from fast fashion brands that had stayed with me for years. Great video 👍🏻

[@grizeldareed5709]

You are truly an inspiration and am so glad to see this movement going on... thank you and love your demonstrations!

[@shiqinglu606]

I love scarves. I can use scarves to change a set of neutral clothes to several outfits

[@elizabethfasching2687]

It's just as important when discarding pieces, as you said. I know the Goodwill stores here will recycle clothing that cannot be sold, so I take both good and unusable pieces there (making sure I let them know which is just for recycling.) It's so hard not to buy too much at a thrift shop or an estate sale! I have gotten better and my daughters have too; we all try to be mindful of what we need. Thanks for another informative video!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh that's great if your goodwill does recycling too! Amazing that you're passing on mindfulness to your daughters! Thanks for watching! xx

[@naslyustariz9740]

I am New in this community, so I'm trying to learn about the minimalism, considering that I'm always see myself as a minimalistic person. Let's just begin!

[@francinepuskarich5755]

Great video....I also take once a month to the the coalition for the homeless here on Long Island, and dress for success....I never throw anything out it always goes some place that some one else can use them.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

That's a great idea too - donating directly to organizations so you know garments are being put to good use :) thanks for watching Francine!

[@julieyoung3815]

I do the same thing . Our families used clothing goes directly to the homeless shelter. Because it’s not resold , but given to people in need .

[@lfkilcran]

I was looking forward to your video all week and I was not disappointed....another meaningful discussion on an important movement towards sustainability, mindful shopping, and appreciating what one already owns. I do not purge my closets (bookcases....sometimes). The whole KONDO is not something I would ever embrace....in fact....it think it can be counter-productive. I take a slow approach to editing. I keep pieces for decades. I take care of my pieces and usually invest in high quality. I have a larger wardrobe because of this. I take my jeans to the tailor to be mended. I wear torn, worn out jeans to paint in...or I take them apart and use as rags. I also consign pieces and my second hand as well. Slowing down my shopping is my goal. It seems shoes, bags, and earrings are my biggest obstacles....but...I am S-L-O-W-L-Y making progress....so very slowly. Slowing it down, getting creative, having fun, appreciating all that I have...and all the blessings that have been given to me. Enjoying life with style. You and this channel have been a real blessing. LOVE THOSE CUSHIONS!

[@pjalexandra]

Lisa White me too, I just commented similar above about editing and keeping pieces for decades. Which as you get older becomes more likely anyhow, LOL. Some of my favourite things are my own from 20 years ago, or my mom's from 40 years ago. I also like what you say about re-using and re-purposing. That seems a really natural human thing to do. A lot of charities can't use the clothes people give them when they 'Kondo' the wardrobe, so your solution makes more sense to me.

[@lfkilcran]

@@pjalexandra Yes...I know over shoppers who are impulsive. They get angry with themselves and return, return, return. They go full out into purging (a lot of them also have a purging/eating disorder). What one feels toward an item in a GIVEN MOMENT of time....(KONDO), is not reliable. There is a scarcity fear some people have and when they look at their purged closets....the shopping trigger goes off...and is rationalized. I have seen this happen. It is a spending trap which is why I am suspicious of all the attention it is getting.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

@@pjalexandra So glad you responded to Lisa's comment as I thought of yours when she mentioned keeping items for years, slowing down shopping and ensuring her closet is full of items that she loves and wears! :)

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I'm so glad you enjoyed the video Lisa! I loved how you mentioned using ripped jeans or other items for painting etc. I do this too, that is such a good point! And cutting old items up for cleaning etc. - I think repurposing is so smart. I also especially loved how you mentioned appreciating what we have and all our blessings and enjoying life with style. That's really what it's about - I find the impulse to want more is diminished when we already love what we have:) Thanks so much for watching as always! xox

[@lfkilcran]

@@AlyssaBeltempo I believe in many principals you have highlighted on your channel. I slow-edit my wardrobe. I am not on board with purges, minimalism, and having a certain number of items in a wardrobe. The issue...I am....and have always been....a creative and a fashionista. I have gradually moved away from Fast Fashion and moved towards sustainable, second hand, and ethical clothing. It does not mean I do not purchase ANYTHING from Fast-Fashion sites....I do...usually a style I am trying out or a knock-down-dead gorgeous piece...that is usually at the 200.00 mark even in the Fast Fashion realm. I take care of my clothing..give-away .up-cycle, re-purpose, or consign. A few pieces have made their way to Good Will, but I would say...less than 10 in 5 years. They were good pieces, too. I am in awe of people that can style a minimalist closet...like you. I love your channel and content. Your message is right on. With that said, I need to find my own pathway as I know who I am...after 6 decades one should! So, I learn and work towards sustainability with your message and my love of colors, shapes, textures, and creative expression

[@soniabutler6280]

I'm finding the whole thinking process is making a difference with managing my home, furniture, use and making the most of the house I have. Thank you, thank you. Sonia

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Absolutely! Just shifting the way we think makes a big impact:) Thanks for watching Sonia!

[@jodycourt]

I was an "old school 80s mom" and recently I tried those jeans -- nope! Not for me anymore. I'm a 57 year old grandma and I don't want to go back to "mom jeans" even if the young people think they are hip. One of my mistakes is buying online and thinking it might be a good fit or style, only to realize it isn't going to work on my body. I'm going back to my Levis. A true fit for me. You're always so interesting, Alyssa. Keep on doing your thing. I'm glad you're freelancing and we get to catch some of it!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh interesting point about buying online Jody! Especially since there are so many options out there now. Thanks for sharing and the wonderful encouragement, I really appreciate it:)

[@bnbtemple5936]

Thank you once more, Alyssa. I am so enjoying your recently found channel. Been relooking at my clothes and preferences and discovering lots. For instance, belting. Always thought they accentuated my somewhat thick waist...belted a loose, black tunic top over a black, white, taupe color blocked skirt this weekend ... and wow! Couldn't believe how good the outfit looked. Previously, my routine was just to wear the top hanging loosely. I've learned and am learning sooooo much from you! Now if only I can get up the courage to further purge and recycle pieces I still like but haven't worn in years and know I won't ( wrong color, etc). Thank you for inspiring me to value the space within my closet!!! And, oh, could you consider a short video explaining how to wear statement jewelry? I have lots of beautiful pieces but wonder if I overdo when wearing them. Barb

[@jeannesnodgrass8073]

BnB Temple hi, I wear a lot of statement items. Usually people like to wear one statement item then keep the rest simple. For example, if you wear a statement necklace then keep the earrings minimal. If you wear a statement blouse then keep the other clothes basic maybe one color. This being said the most important thing is to be comfortable in statement items. If you are so comfortable that you feel natural in whatever you wear there are no rules. Try to enjoy your statement pieces and relax in them but if they don’t ever get to feel natural then check your personal style they may not fit it.💕

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Barb! Wow I love that belting story!! I'm so glad you find the channel helpful and that you're rediscovering your closet:) Great suggestion, I have a general accessories video on my list so will definitely include this topic! Thanks for watching and suggesting! xx

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

@@jeannesnodgrass8073 love these tips Jeanne! Thanks for sharing!

[@karentachi5689]

I can definitely identify with the thrift store, dare I say, addiction??!!! And with Marie Kondo being so popular, the thrift stores are bursting at the seams! Ahhhhhhhh! I enjoy your closet and how you utilize one piece in many combinations, very helpful for recovery from excessive thrifting.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Ahh yes I totally feel this one! So glad you find the channel helpful:)

[@melanieandrews7832]

Another great video Alyssa! Super helpful tips too- I give to goodwill and even when it is something I’d love to keep but know it is purely sentimental as I will not wear it, I try and adopt the view that someone out there will be overjoyed at finding the item and will get good use of it and maybe would never be able to afford it otherwise. Keep up the great videos please

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oh yes, that's a nice attitude to have when donating something sentimental. Thanks for sharing and watching Melanie! xx

[@carolebuckle7977]

I watch Karen Brit Chick & yourself regarding thrift shopping & looking in my wardrobe and re-using my pieces in a different way or elevating it & it has had a great impact on me, I have also saved a lot of money 🤗🤗 thank you for your valuable vlogs , luv you 🇬🇧💖xxx

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I love Karen! She's such an inspiration and so stylish:) So glad you've found my channel helpful, I'm so grateful you watch! xx

[@janicevin4207]

Karen Britchick is really great at mixing thrift and high end pieces. She has a great personal style!!!

[@barbaragolden3620]

Great video!!!! Thank you, you are so delightful and I’ve learned so much watching your videos. I can’t wait to order my first POMP shirt when they finally come back in stock😊Trying the Tailor and I hope it looks as great on me as it does you.

[@jamieperez5609]

Hi Alyssa!! Great tips 👍 I have recently been helping my sister rebuild her wardrobe through thrifting. Her biggest challenge was a few if these common mistakes you mentioned... overwhelmed & purchasing items she did not need. I helped her to focus on what she needed, but I will definitely share this video with her! P.s. last week I cleaned out my closet & decorated it ( since I'm always in it lol), I would love to share the photos with you!! 🙂

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

wow your sister is lucky to have you! And congrats on refreshing your closet - would love to see it on Insta! :)

[@sallygator22]

Thank you for the excellent advice! I've learned a lot about incorporating "slow fashion" into my lifestyle from your videos.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I'm so glad you find the channel helpful Sally it means so much that you watch! xx

[@salamander45]

Alyssa, just found you... am in UK but come from Paris.... tu est magnifique..... lived in Montreal for 20 years and so love your French vibe...MERCI, MERCI, MERCI....adore your vibe...

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Very good to hear all of this. In part of the video, you're writing (a shopping list I presume) and then checking your phone/pics. What is your process, where do you store the pics, etc would be helpful. I often stop at the "what I need list" beyond basics like replacing worn out jeans or stained items. How do I determine a baby blue cardi is what I need to complete my wardrobe? You get the idea. Thanks for all you do! If you don't have one, a list of sustainable sources on your blog would be helpful.

[@NancySchober]

What's helpful for me is to pay attention to when I get dressed and think, "if I only had a ... [for example: blue cardigan] to go with this..." or whatever item I wish I had to complete this look. Then I keep a list on my phone. HTH

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi there! Great q - I will try to share my process in a vlog - I keep a list on my phone and a visual list on my phone and desktop via shoptagr, but reading Nancy's comment below - I do that a lot - pay attention when I'm putting outfits together and if I find myself saying "I need a ..." more than a few times I know it's time to add to the list. I'll def try to tackle this in greater detail though! Thanks for the suggestion and for watching!

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

@@AlyssaBeltempo but what if you don't have enough fashion sense to know what would really make the outfit? 😂😂😂

[@cinn7862]

Hi Alyssa, a great chat session - thanks for being honest about mistakes you've made and for some helpful tips. I too have made the mistake of over shopping pre-loved items, going into a vintage store or on eBay without a list is a huge mistake - i have now learnt from that. I am also still trying to narrow in and discover my true personal style...not easy. Always love watching your videos and spending time with you 😊 xx

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes - I am still making mistakes! I'm so glad you enjoyed the chatty video :) So appreciate you watching! xx

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Hi, Alyssa! Thank you for creating another great video. I works add natural fabrics to your criteria and cut back on jersey and thin knit fabrics that pill.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

So glad you liked it and what a great tip, thank you for sharing Katherine!

[@OfWavesAndWinds]

Great job Alyssa. Absolutely agree with you about all this trend of de-cluttering. It is creating a huge problem with so many people discarding so much stuff at the same time. I think people should just STOP buying new things and START using what they already have... KEEP your junk in your houses and garages! At least it's away from land fills.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I think using what we already have is a great first step too! Thanks for watching Hana!

[@ruthacuna4385]

Alyssa, another great video,definitely was getting overboard with thrifting and my approach now has been to stay focused by having a list of items that I need to fill in the gap in my closet.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

love that you use a list too Ruth! So glad you enjoyed the video, thank you so much for watching! xx

[@fairy8i8]

We have a neighborhood clothing swap twice a year. Some of my favorite clothes have come from the swap. It also allows me to take some style risks because 1. It's free. 2. I can pass it along in 6 months if it doesn't work for me without feeling like I am creating waste.

[@vuyopohlwana4122]

I love the way your videos are informative but not too extended.

[@anonymousotter6455]

This might've been exactly what I needed to hear.

[@jenniferhoneycutt4314]

I've found a great way to keep my shopping bug in check is to do a 1-for-1 exchange. When I see something I'd love to have, I consider if I love it more than something I already own. And then I consider if buying this thing would cause guilt later on for any reason. Guilt is SO powerful, imaginary guilt is even WORSE!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yes! I love this rule - so helpful, and so funny about imaginary guilt! haha so true! Thanks for watching! xx

[@wandaamorose9964]

Loved this. Really comprehensive advise that I plan to incorporate into my wardrobe and lifestyle as I go forward. And you look great! Thanks for sharing.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yay! Glad you found it helpful Wanda ❤️ thanks for watching!

[@janicevin4207]

I made all these mistakes!!! I stopped going on a regular basis to thrift stores because I know I will buy clothes that I really don't need but are so beautiful and cheap!! Also when I declutter I put all the discarded clothes in a box in the basement and wait for a while before giving it away to see if I put away some piece I still can use or need.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yes! These are great tips Janic, especially to wait a bit before donating - really helps solidify what you need or dont need. Thanks for watching! xx

[@whiskersBOOSTER2]

Hope you have a great week too luv🥰

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thank you so much lovely! xx

[@-nellie-m3711]

I Love your videos Alyssa, I made the mistake of getting rid of a jacket that I regret now Lol 😂, and our consignment/secondhand stores aren’t like yours over there, most of the clothes here in secondhand stores aren’t worth buying, unless I repurchase the ones that I’ve dropped off Lol 😂, I thought those jeans looked great on you by the way....Thank You for my early Monday morning fix, it’s 5am here in Australia 🇦🇺 and Cold 🥶.....❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Nellie! ah we've all been there haven't we? So interesting about your secondhand stores, I always like hearing about what other countries and continents offer/or what the attitude is around buying secondhand. So glad to be part of your Monday morning routine:) your winter sounds a bit like our horrible start to summer - it was 15 degrees just the other day! stay warm! xox

[@tigrezz0852]

Hi Nellie, which state are you in? I live in Victoria and some Salvos are worth going to especially the ones in the “rich” suburbs lol

[@-nellie-m3711]

tigrezz 08 , I live west of Brisbane and I don’t usually shop at the secondhand stores near me as I know they wouldn’t have much to nothing that I would be interested in, I wouldn’t call it a fashion city Lol 😂 Only the clothes that I drop off myself and the staff that work there would probably snatch them up....Victoria has a lot more stores than what I have near me.... I would have to travel into Brisbane to find anything decent and it’s not worth it....But I Love watching Alyssa put outfits together because we have similar taste in clothes and about the same size....Thank You for reaching out to me, it’s nice to know I’m not the only Australian watching...❤️❤️🥶🥶

[@tigrezz0852]

-Nellie -m I get what you mean... I used to live in the country side of Melbourne and it is very time consuming when you’re trying to look for a specific item.. I’m now fortunate enough to have decent (?) second hand stores around me but it’s the having to stop compulsively buying jeans and shoes just cos “they are cheap” as Allysa mentions in the video 😬☹️ I am nowhere bad as I used to be 😂🤫 Ava good week Nellie!

[@sarahthatcher123]

I find the same problem here in Kelowna, BC, Canada. Most of the thrift stores have terrible, cheap, worn out, fast fashion clothes. The few special thrift stores that are more curated have items that are quite out of style and are WAY over priced. Not to mention I cannot really purchase second hand because the majority of clothes have been washed in 'conventional' (toxic, 'purfume' laden) laundry detergent. I am sensitive to the smell and I do not want to wear toxic chemicals. And the smell does not come out no matter how I wash or soak in vinegar.

[@bluegypsy71]

My mistake has been becoming a slow fashion “maximalist” ... when I thrift and only pay $5 (averaged) for things like Franco Sarto shoes or Liz Claiborne separates I end up going home with bags full of things and my closet is bursting...so I’ve had to resell some things and am learning that it’s ok to save up and get 1 sustainably made long lasting item instead of dozens of thrifted things. I went a little crazy so I’ve scaled back. 😀

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Aw we've all been there and buying secondhand is great too:) Glad you've found a method that works for you!

[@danymiller1405]

Hi! Lately, I have noticed that it's a lot easier to make mistakes and buy on an impulse when there is a sale going on. I spent 2 hours looking at shoes on the website just to be able to use the coupons! Guess what? I am going to return them 😧

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Totally - sales seem so enticing! That's where I find my list comes in handy - sounds like a smart move to return those pieces! :) Thanks for watching!

[@SoNick25]

guilty too! so recently I have unsubscribed myself from many sites so I don't get sale notifications or coupons...or temptation!!

[@nk3850]

AH I can relate to 3 of these mistakes. 1) I have to reallly control myself when thrifting, its so easy to overbuy because its so cheap. 2) Buying things that ticked off a few of the right boxes but I still had that "I just wish it had x / wasn't so tight here / wasn't so loose here .. Oh well I'll make it work" -- and No, I did not make it work, because I bought it despite knowing it would dig into my stomach, ride up my bum, be a little too short, etc etc! 3) WASHING FAILS. For YEARS I didn't even sort my darks and whites - what a HUGE huge mistake. All my whites got so grey. I strugged to fill a whole white load so I just threw my whites in with my darks. Well, when it was time to buy new towels, I bought white towels, and now I can always fill a white load =)

[@nk3850]

Oh and 4) to the comment below, I shop for my fantasy life! LOL I'm going to be more aware of all of these when I shop from now on

[@lenafrovstsimonsen1596]

I love your videos 👌🏻but I’m a person with many styles and I always play dress up- but most of my stuff is vintage or second hand. I think u lady’s with minimalistic style looks wonderful, but it doesn’t suit my personality. Thank u again for the great content 😘

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thanks Lena! So important to know your personal style and embrace it! Glad you like the channel thank you for watching! ❤️

[@headron66]

Lena Frovst Simonsen since I was a young girl getting my first wage I used to go into second hand stores ( that’s what the called them in Scotland) because the clothing was so cheap. Vintage was never a word back then, and buying second hand was frowned at. I didn’t care. Most of the clothes I bought were from the 20s 30s 40s 50 s60s and 70s. I liked to mix it up. What I did find was that the clothing was beautifully made, right down to the beautiful buttons etc. I laugh now when my daughter says vintage is clothes from the 80s and 90s. Fortunately for her I kept most of my pieces and she loves it. She has developed her style through wearing all my old clothing. I’m 55 now and have cleaned up my style and love classic pieces but I do love wearing cute stylish shoes to make me look different. Enjoy your style. I love to see people wear vintage clothing. My granny used to say to me I could make a silk purse out of a pigs ear😂. I bet you look fantastic, it wouldn’t do if we all looked the same. Regards. Thistle

[@lenafrovstsimonsen1596]

Thistle DoNicely thank you so much for sharing. It is so wonderful to hear story’s like that. I have always shopped second hand clothing- I love the hunt, and I love that I have something unique and special. I’m 47 and I’m sure that I will keep on shopping vintage and pre loved clothing- even though it became more difficult to find great pieces, because it is rather popular here in Denmark right now :) Lena

[@headron66]

Lena Frovst Simonsen Lina you used a few word there that resonate with me, hunt , unique and special. You keep on doing it it’s a wonderful way of shopping. I have some beautiful Ossie Clark dresses. He designed and dressed David Bowie for The Ziggy stardust LP cover and tour. My daughter has one put aside for her graduation. She loves Bowie and couldn’t believe it when I told her the significance of the dress which cost me very little at the time. Remember if you have a daughter, niece or young lady who would appreciate your clothes it would be nice to pass them on eventually. It’s became very fashionable here in Scotland too. So it’s harder to find things but that makes it even more exciting. The vintage tag they have put to it has also upped the price. Enjoy your clothes Lena, they bring confidence and a quirky look you can’t buy in your average shop. Regards. Thistle

[@lenafrovstsimonsen1596]

Thistle DoNicely wow, that sounds so cool with that Bowie stuff. I have a big boy (21) and he also loves the hunt, but not my dresses and bags 😂

[@esnova11]

you are amazing!! love your personality!

[@yourfriend3523]

You are so talented. Thank you for the advice.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

You are too kind, thank you for watching!

[@meilinchiang6951]

I enjoyed your videos andI have learnt lots from you, how to style an item in many different ways and buying less and good quality clothes. Thank you... I always look forward watching your videos... 👍👍👍❤

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yay! I'm so glad you're still enjoying these videos Mei Lin:) Have a great week! xx

[@Lisamol11]

Loved this video! It's always so helpful to hear that my slow-fashion/sustainability "gurus" (such as yourself) have made mistakes. Because I have made mistakes and gotten down on myself for them for sure ;-) so it helps to hear I'm not alone. For instance I, too, have felt a bit of shame in buying more vintage than I should have or getting blinded by (expensive) sustainability stuff. But I am learning and remembering those mistakes as I move forward is incredibly helpful. Anyway, thanks!!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Lisa! Oh goodness yes, don't be hard on yourself - I still struggle with some of these things! As long as we're learning :) I'm so glad you enjoyed the video:) Thank you for watching! xox

[@crystalh1402]

I lost some weight and a large amount of my closet didn’t fit and I was tempted to purge it all. Thankfully I slowed myself down and decided to set out multiple outfits the night before and if an outfit element no longer fit it went in a pile to decide what to do later. Then when the pile was big enough to fit a grocery bag I gifted or donated or altered if worthwhile. The most impactful part of this was how much it sunk in that I didn’t need half of what I had in my closet because once it was gone I didn’t miss it.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

That's really interesting Crystal - I like how thoughtful you were about it and the lesson at the end! Thanks so much for watching!

[@TheZeyre]

Nicely and thoughtfully done. I just found some summer skirts that can work nicely for 2019.i lool forward to your other vlog done this week. Best from AB! 🌹🌹👜👚☕👠👠

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yay! love it when we find gems that work for now! I hope you enjoy the vlog! Hugs from Ontario! xx

[@kathyesargent9088]

Great video❤️Hope you feel better😀just remember life is short you are very important so just slow down, slow fashion girl we love you!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Haha thanks for the advice Kathye and the sweet wishes!! I better take my own advice! 😉 Thanks for watching!

[@lindaree1987]

Very intrigued, what is the brand name of the white top that you flipped the label over and it said power of my people.. Thanks. love your videos!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi there! The name of the brand is Power of My People and they are based in Canada! :)

[@lindaree1987]

@@AlyssaBeltempo thanks Alyssa!

[@SoNick25]

guilty of the thrifting hype! now, I go with a specific item in mind as you suggest. However I always check out silk scarves, shoes, bags and hats as well, cause sometimes there are some gems hiding away there!!!

[@jojot4687]

I'm so glad I found your channel. It's fun & full of lots of good info. I jumped on the Mari Kondo bandwagon a few years ago and did a HUGE closet purge. I remember having a bit of a panic attack as I drove away from dropping them at Bibles for Missions. For the most part, the clothes I got rid of needed to go. They had served me well and it was time for them to serve someone else. However, there are a few items I still think about & regret getting rid of. Lesson learned. I can truly say I love all the items in my closet and I really enjoy playing "dress up" and finding new ways to mix and match the items I already have. Thanks for your inspiration!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I love that you love all the items in your closet and playing dressup! I think it's so key, sounds like you've got a great handle on your wardrobe and style:) Thanks so much for sharing and watching! xx

[@crystalstewart168]

Who would you recommend renting from for more casual everyday clothes? I’ve seen some companies rent dressy outfits but what if I am just wanting to try out a specific brand, a particular style, or a new cut of jeans.

[@aspenjohnson1891]

i watched one of your dress videos then looked into slow fashion more and just clicked on you again :)

[@lynnetrue4103]

Very informational and helpful, Alyssa! Thank you!. I am fairly new to this idea, just since becoming aware of you tubers like you. I decided to start thrifting as my attempt to help and I have made some of the same mistakes I made while shopping fast fashion, buying too much as you said and finding it doesn't blend with my closet. Also, in listening to the capsule wardrobe fans I now have "staples" like T shirts and button downs that I have never felt I looked good in and still don't LOL. But I am learning and I have listened to what you have said which is to ask yourself those important questions you mentioned. You have helped a lot just by showing me how to use and style what I already have. I will look into some of the sustainable options now that you have assured me they are not out of my reach!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Lynne! I'm so glad you found this video and the channel helpful! I think what's so important are finding staples that work for you - you've got to love them ❤️ thanks so much for watching!

[@Eileen200]

Thanks for this video, I'm just getting into slow fashion and find it quite hard figuring out where to start. This was very helpful, I hope I can learn from your tips :)

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow that's amazing to hear! I'm so glad you found the video helpful thank you for watching! xx

[@Kalo2511]

Great points to think about!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thanks for watchingi Karin!

[@sae165]

Hi Alyssa ,I am a big fan of your fashion choices and your channel. Please make some videos for people those of uswho are, let's say shorter and with body fat not very evenly distributed;).would be a big help. Thanks and best wishes.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thanks for the suggestion and for watching!

[@lose999]

A big yes to #4!! Did you have to dry clean your thrifted pillows or were they new? As usual, this content is excellent!😘

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Hi Lori! Glad you liked the video! I didn't have to as the original tags were still on! :)

[@SparrowStockwell]

I’ve wasted money on a haul of thrifted items I intended to make-over. It never happened. Now I think the whole bag of items was thrown away. 🤭 Conversely, four days ago I purchased a pair of loose, tan summer pants in a linen-esque fabric. I can roll up the legs for a summery look. I’ve worn them three times already (on different days to different places).

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah yes, overthrifting is such a thing! Sounds like your most recent investment was a good one:) Thanks so much for watching Melissa!

[@kathleenbarron7654]

I recently purchased two tops I love, but they are from Old Navy. What are your thoughts on this? I sew 90% of my wardrobe, but these tops are in 1) colors I wear, 2) a style I wanted to try and 3) do actually love. I’m an excellent laundress.

[@Kelbel5995]

I've definitely made some of these mistakes along my slow/ethical fashion journey. I eventually realized that attempting to purchase quality, ethically made clothes at the same rate as I would fast fashion/mainstream clothes is counterproductive--not much better for my closet or the environment. Small wins? I recently bought several items (stay with me here) that 1) I planned to buy, 2) I saved up for, and 3) tick all of the boxes to close the gaps in my summer wardrobe (it's hot where I live). I've always found dressing in the summer difficult (how to be chic and comfy when it's boiling outside--gah!), and in past summers I've often bought more things than I needed and that ended up not working out long-term.

[@pilardr8]

Ciao,Alyssa!I will try to follow your tips but it is so hard to “fight” against so Manu beautiful items every week...😩By the way I adore your white net jumper.I wish you a lovely week 😁😘

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

haha you can do it!! Thanks so much for watching and have a great week as well! xx

[@lenamahayni6216]

Would u analyse victoria Beckham style ? Please

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oooh love her great suggestion!!! Thank you!

[@christinaoldham6614]

Nice video, Alyssa. Since you've done research, might you be able to provide links for sites that sell sustainable fashion at a reasonable price? I've started ordering from Everlane, but wouldn't mind having some other options I felt good about. Thanks so much.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

HI Christina! Thank you for the suggestion! Perhaps this has to be in another video! Everlane definitely comes to mind re; price point but there are definitely some other great sustainable retailers that are affordable. I'll try to include some in upcoming videos. Thanks for watching! xx

[@marissacheng9982]

Hi Alyssa: can you do a video on how to style oversized graphic t-shirts or tanks? It seems like a lot of businesses like to hand out free t-shirts as a promotional item and I've accumulated a few in my closet. However, these shirts are always one size XXL whereas I wear XS-S. Other than donating them or use them for yard work, is it possible to actually wear them stylishly? I'm also tall 5'8", and these shirts are not long enough to wear as a t-shirt dress on their own. I also find having graphics on the shirts make them harder to style when the videos usually show shirts that are solid colors. Please help! Thanks so much! 🥰

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oooh this is a great one! Thank you for the suggestion Melissa, I'll have to borrow one from my husband as an example! Thanks for watching xx

[@suereid9874]

The expression is "spill the beans"!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Lol yes! Heard that one too - the kids today say spilling tea haha thanks for watching! xx

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

@@AlyssaBeltempo I just learned something else! 😀

[@Nini51963]

Love the topic , I honestly haven’t purchased knew in over two years except recently I bought a collapsible sun blocking hat and a couple of sandals , kinda felt guilty cause they weren’t used , I have many different styles I Like, bohemian when I garden daily and French chic when I need confidence it is like putting on a costume to me , lol ,this is my challenge I decided that it’s a process to find my perfect wardrobe and I wasn’t on a goal to have less but to love and wear what I have . I buy most my used clothes at thred up and send back what didn’t actually work , I don’t care about the money I lost in the process I just worry that it gets used sustainably rather than ending up in a land fill .

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

wow Chanel that is incredible!! It sounds like you've got a great handle on your closet and what you love:) I also love the idea of getting dressed being a costume of sorts- so true! Thank you so much for watching! xx

[@barbaralorenzana5666]

I think something people forget it getting together with friends and family and trading clothes. For me i know my niece loves my clothes and if i don't use it anymore 9/10 I give it to her or my sisters.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

ah YES! I get hand me downs from my cousin all the time!! Love this - thanks for watching! xx

[@MrsAegeanPearl]

One trick that I use is (except for when I need basics), for each piece I add to my wardrobe an existing piece gotta go. So I think twice, if I really wanna give up on something 😅

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

yes! I do this too - a one in one out rule! Thanks for sharing!

[@ashleyconnor9628]

Great advice! Can you put the source of your top? So cute

[@veroniquejulienne8205]

Thank you Alyssa ! I loved the video, summarising everything about slow fashion . To me, your videos helped firstly to use more of what I already have in my closet, so the first benefit clearly is that I did buy much less for one year ! Second, I am considering shopping second hand and renting, which I would never have done before. So big thank you to you, because you cannot imagine how useful your videos are to me, and all that in great pleasure ! A question that I have for months : would you make a video on explaining what your job as a freelance is, or would it not be of interest, related to this channel ? I am quite curious ;-)

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow Veronique I'm so glad that you still find the channel so helpful - it really means a lot that you watch and take the time to leave such lovely comments:) I will likely touch on freelancing in my next monthly recap vlog:) great idea! Thank you so much for watching and have a wonderful week! xo

[@jeannettemann96]

Great advice Alyssa! I used to thrift clothes, accumulate clothes I only wear once or twice, finding thrill in acquiring a new item to style and wear. Also buying multiple basics (black tees, black turtlenecks etc.), I’d wear my favorite one first, then my second favorite one, then my third as I lived in an apartment that did not have a washing machine and dryer. Now I only buy one piece that fulfill a need. I wait and search for the one that meets all my criteria. Congrats on reaching 40K subscribers! Wishing you a fabulous week Alyssa! So happy I have found you way back when!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Glad you liked it Jeannette! I often did that too - buying too many basics when only one or two would have been sufficient. I think waiting to find the right piece is also so important! And thank you for the well wishes!! I am so grateful that you have continued to watch and support - all the way from the very beginning, it really means so much to me :) Have a great weekend xox

[@garlicgirl3149]

I was warned by another KZbin Channel and thank goodness! I can go crazy in the thrift store. I forbid myself from going one time for a month. It was good because it good my head clear. LOL!

[@kahartke]

Alyssa do you know the brand Quince? One of your videos mentioned cashmere joggers and they seem to have good prices.

[@ashildkvam7745]

Great video as always👏🏻👏🏻 love from Norway

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

so glad you liked it! Hugs from Canada! xx