So, I asked a stranger for dating advice… and somehow ended up dating her!

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Axel Ferrari

Axel Ferrari

Күн бұрын

Alright, so here’s the story: I went to the park to ask this random girl for some dating advice-nothing wild, just tips. But then one thing led to another, and… let’s just say I ended up taking my own advice a little too seriously. 😂 You gotta see how it all played out. Drop a comment if you think I totally nailed it or if I’m just crazy for even trying this!
#rizz #girls #dating #interview #relationships

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@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching, guys ✌🏻 I'm going to put all energy into other videos. What content you would like to see next?
@ChristopherKelley100
@ChristopherKelley100 Ай бұрын
More videos with Neta, does she know you make this type of content?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@@ChristopherKelley100 Ofc! My videos are intentionally recorded with different people every time! Any suggestions on something else you wish to watch?
@azairvine
@azairvine 8 күн бұрын
The only content I want to see is your dates with this beautiful woman for the next 50 years......
@unicodePug
@unicodePug 2 күн бұрын
5:33 Ladies, never play hard to get! All you're doing is sending mixed signals, which any man who isn't pushy and egotistical is going to perceive as you not really liking them. Playing hard to get is inviting in only aggressive bad boys and pushing away everyone on the normal scale of behavior. Netta (or however she spells it) is wise to say that she would not play hard to get anyhow! True ladies do not play hard to get. It is dishonest behavior. Playing hard-to-get just feels like heartbreak to the majority of men.
@jackgu9252
@jackgu9252 Ай бұрын
Bro really did the research for himself🤣🤣🤣
@Sander_VK
@Sander_VK Ай бұрын
Work smart nog hard 😂🤣
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@jackgu9252 one at a time! 🫶
@zyaicob
@zyaicob Ай бұрын
Theory vs practice
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@@zyaicob Correct! do you practice?
@RuthwikRao
@RuthwikRao 21 күн бұрын
bro an autodidact
@tw2623
@tw2623 Ай бұрын
Her point about not making the first move because it alters the dynamic-it moves the dominance to her-is interesting. As a man, I don't think I have thought about it like that.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@tw2623 I suggest you to avoid doing like they suggest. Is counterintuitive… I know
@peripheralparadox4218
@peripheralparadox4218 Ай бұрын
The real reason is that they don’t like rejection and they want to see the man demonstrate courage and confidence.
@vaultvon2126
@vaultvon2126 Ай бұрын
man wants. man gets. its not about her being the dominant one.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Also that girls hate to be rejected. And by the way, who does like that?!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Being a dominant man it’s the goal. Leader of your own life and destiny
@raptorzn
@raptorzn Ай бұрын
Her eyes look so hypnotic 😍
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Yeh she is an interesting person!
@ArranVid
@ArranVid Ай бұрын
You can thank her parents for her genes.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@ArranVid XD
@craigbmm4675
@craigbmm4675 Ай бұрын
shes beautiful .. smile .. eyes
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
👍
@diverbob8
@diverbob8 Ай бұрын
This lady is a real gem...beautiful and personable!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Nice lady yeh
@bryant475
@bryant475 21 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI So what happened, are you still dating her/going serious, etc.?
@neilr1492
@neilr1492 Ай бұрын
She is stunning.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
She is nice yeh
@officialWWM
@officialWWM Ай бұрын
She’s beautiful! All these women who pump themselves full of plastic and cake themselves with makeup need to look at her. Bright eyes, huge smile, classy. That’s what men find beautiful.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@officialWWM very natural yeh
@vop4813
@vop4813 Ай бұрын
Seems like she has a lot make up and modify eyebrows tho
@officialWWM
@officialWWM Ай бұрын
@ lol, that’s nothing! She has a tiny bit of basic makeup and shaping her eyebrows is simple maintenance, like a haircut 🤷🏻‍♂️
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Yeh, in our society is normal to take care of ourselves. I like people who take care of themselves. It’s self love. I do it as well (besides the make up thing 🤣)
@LilXancheX
@LilXancheX Ай бұрын
@@officialWWM stop simping Jesus Christ you’re annoying
@neurobits
@neurobits Ай бұрын
Thnx bro. She’s an angel. And she shows us how a healthy woman eyes look like.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Well, is not replicable that fact. But yeh she is nice person
@AllanHanscom
@AllanHanscom Ай бұрын
The dude is working on the best pickup line I've ever seen.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
thx! did you use it?
@vitalie96
@vitalie96 Ай бұрын
As soon as I saw her first reaction on you when you approached, I immediately understood that she liked you and she made herself open for the interaction. It proves that the look always opens the doors. If a women does not like a man's look, the man has no chance.
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
Not entirely true. The best thing any man can do for an approach is be well groomed, dress well, and be socially comfortable. Most women will give you a chance if you have these things going for you. Genetic looks certainly do help a lot but they aren't the most important factor. No disrespect to Axel but he is no Brad Pitt. But he is very charismatic, dresses well, and is groomed well for his style. So he checked all three boxes. Not to mention he is very experienced in approaching. So what seems like a one time good approach to the untrained eye is something he has actually done a million times.
@one.eyed.monsta
@one.eyed.monsta Ай бұрын
@@andrewvincent7299 I don't think he's that charismatic. He's a bit boisterous and many women find that akward in public settings.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@vitalie96 so @vitalie96 you think looks is 90% or smt?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@ruxpinator cool! Why you think that?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@andrewvincent7299 Interesting @andrewvincent7299 , do you usually pick up so many details?
@nkrumansantos1794
@nkrumansantos1794 Ай бұрын
She has a lot of life and hope in her eyes.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
how do you tell this on a person?
@norwegianblue2017
@norwegianblue2017 3 ай бұрын
You did well. She is quite beautiful! Also well-spoken and dresses modestly. Probably comes from a good family.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! You have a good intuition, indeed. Do you have any suggestions how to continue the series in case. I can do more videos of the same in case if it vibes well 💪
@everydayhandwriting
@everydayhandwriting Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI A second opinion. Make sure you don't ruin this relationship for the channel's sake. It should be the other way around. Be in a great relationship, and if she doesn't feel like videotaping, then it's the end of the video series. Just ask her and tell her what's more important to you.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@everydayhandwriting no girl in the planet is more important. so its either she like it or she has to f o. this is the abundance mentality. walking on egg shells is not my way. no fear. no scarcity. it's full of women
@everydayhandwriting
@everydayhandwriting Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Damn. Okay. Well, good luck with that.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@everydayhandwriting are you afraid of losing? Fomo?
@andrediego6131
@andrediego6131 Ай бұрын
I understand her point about not wanting to approach guys, but there is a term called "Dropping the handkerchief", basically in the 20th century when women saw men that they were interested in, they would drop their handkerchiefs as they walked past the man, so he would pick it up and spark a conversation! I think this concept is what girls should do when they want guys to approach them
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
never heard of it and it s interesting. But perhaps will never happen (happen again?). So best is always approach yourself and get strong enough to be rejected as well
@prestow
@prestow Ай бұрын
A woman who's pretty even with her hair tied is a real beauty.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
I think depends of the person more than a general standard. But yeh pretty
@Hellfurian1972
@Hellfurian1972 Ай бұрын
You are a blessed person to be able to get to know this incredible and beautiful lady.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
I also work on myself to get these opportunities!
@TomaNeagu
@TomaNeagu Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI What do you mean by working on yourself? you only target your body or also something else?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@TomaNeagu Well yeh, body and mind. What do you think are the areas?
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
Blessed? He probably worked on it for a long time until he earned this level of social skill. What seems like a one time good approach is actually something he has done a million times through trial and error.
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Most guys don't understand what you mean and that's sad. They think women think like men do and care mostly about looks. They can't watch this video and truly understand the social dynamics that is going on in this video
@Defensive_Wounds
@Defensive_Wounds Ай бұрын
This is the way to do it...This is the question to ask...lol
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
It really doesn’t matter the question. But you probably know it
@SethSinclair
@SethSinclair Ай бұрын
“Somehow ended up dating her” yea somehow
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
I mean, yeh, somehow. How would you do it?
@KarlMaldensNose
@KarlMaldensNose Ай бұрын
Right? His intentions were obvious from the start. Respect to her for handling his not-a-come-on come-on with grace and a smile. And for the record, I don't think he did anything wrong. At least he tried to be original and non-threatening, if not completely honest.
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
@@KarlMaldensNose That's how it's done though. If you're not a Brad Pitt looking guy, a direct approach is almost a suicide mission. So you have to come in under the radar. Women communicate in subtext and between the lines anyways. So it's much more fun for all parties involved if you build up to the flirting with great interaction.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@KarlMaldensNose are you a man or woman? if man, u should agree that if you see an interesting woman then, you also wish to see if there can be something more than just a "hi-goodbye" type of situation. Does not happen to you ever?
@Richard-mz7qu
@Richard-mz7qu Ай бұрын
Neta is very beautiful in so many ways! I understand her great point of the male, female energy flow of dominance. It would be like starting on the wrong foot in a dance. She is a lovely traditional girl who isn't influenced by the social trends of the day. From the very start of the conversation, her smile, and her eyes are truthful. Dating advice from an old man. Be yourself. Easy-peasy.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
A man start the dance 100% of the time
@Iamtemjin
@Iamtemjin Ай бұрын
This was a great and genuine video!! She’s a lovely lady and I’m glad she was able to provide insight and advice. Hope you and her will get to go on another date.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
thank you! But remember you start to approach women yourself, and dont wait
@drjaywhitlock
@drjaywhitlock Ай бұрын
He don't deserve her. You can tell she is genuine and he's just doing it for likes on his video and an experiment. After she reads his comments she will wise up
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@drjaywhitlock why do you think this way?
@drjaywhitlock
@drjaywhitlock 24 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Because of your responses in the comment section
@BO-dc4xg
@BO-dc4xg Ай бұрын
Looking in the eyes and smiling is a sign of confidence and seeing them for who they are. Taking just a moment of your day to look to people in the eyes can make a huge difference in someone’s life. You may be the only smile they get today, give it to them :) might save their life and let them know people see them and they matter! You can always find something beautiful about most women/people. Find it and make an honest compliment with eye contact and a smile and they will see the honesty. Doesn’t mean you’re going to take them to bed, just means your a decent human being, which could open doors later for future interactions!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
All good! 😊
@TheArcSuppressor
@TheArcSuppressor 3 ай бұрын
True! The first approach is actually very hard. After that if gets much better
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 2 ай бұрын
Thats a solid wisdom. I think with all things in life!
@pijomaster4862
@pijomaster4862 Ай бұрын
After I saw the guy. I was like of course! Dude looks like he’s out of a Spartan movie. First thing: don’t be ugly
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Thank you for the compliment, I appreciate it! In any case, I do work a lot on myself, so it's not all !free"!
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
Don't have such a loser mentality. Genetics help but aren't the most important factor. A good looking guy with a greasy t-shirt and who is socially awkward will probably have very little to no luck. What is more important is being well groomed, dressing well and having a particular style that suits you, and the most important thing, you have to be socially comfortable and competent. Looks while they do matter, they matter much less to women than they do men.
@CreepyPhrases
@CreepyPhrases Ай бұрын
It's not of course because she could have been taken..
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@andrewvincent7299 absolutely agree!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@CreepyPhrases for instance yeh...
@acousticshadow4032
@acousticshadow4032 Ай бұрын
She's Smart & Beautiful = KEEPER!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Sure!
@aswinarasshunmugathason3534
@aswinarasshunmugathason3534 Ай бұрын
Treat her well bro. She’s a gem.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Absolutely, the man next to her I hope it will!
@UgandaKidsSanctuary
@UgandaKidsSanctuary Ай бұрын
she's a gem!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
She is ok!
@whataworld369
@whataworld369 Ай бұрын
​@@RealAxelFerrarI If she reads these comments from you, she's not going to find you very charming or the keeper she's looking for
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
You should never put any person or thing or emotion or anything on a pedestal. Try it yourself
@bjoernphotography
@bjoernphotography Ай бұрын
He is such a good soul and her eyes are just beautiful!!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Thanks man!
@ReNaN30081992
@ReNaN30081992 3 ай бұрын
She is gorgeous and seems to be an wonderful person. You did good, just never touch a person without her approval (even holding her finger like you did), but it’s cool that it worked out for you in the end 👍🏼
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
Thank you man. I appreciate it and still learning. Is there any topic to cover more around dating that you would like to see!
@user540000
@user540000 Ай бұрын
that is dumb. "can i hold your finger?" you realize how dumb that sounds
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@user540000 nothing is dumb, if it works for a precise scope. do you know what it is in this case?
@Coreadrin
@Coreadrin Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI I disagree with that. If you do it and she flinches away from it, don't do it again. Nothing is more gross to a woman in the courting stage than a man who isn't confident and assertive.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@Coreadrin confident and not be physical? Then leads to one place… friend zone
@ltaldoraine7305
@ltaldoraine7305 Ай бұрын
American women would be much more desirable if they were like this lovely lady. Feminine, kind and personable.
@Gravitywalker20
@Gravitywalker20 Ай бұрын
Western women in general need to be avoided.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
you think they are not?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
why you think so?
@ltaldoraine7305
@ltaldoraine7305 Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI American women focus too much on the height and income of a man, rather than if he is a good man. One who is respectful, would make a good husband and father etc.
@quranmccoy5884
@quranmccoy5884 Ай бұрын
I hate people saying this, There are American women who are sweet and kind and there's European's who are rude bitches. I went to a international college and most of the girls there were European, guess what? 90% of them acted like snobby white American girls.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
Alright, real talk-did I play it cool, or did this just get way out of hand? 😂 Let me know what you think, and drop your best dating advice below!
@Furgettyu
@Furgettyu 3 ай бұрын
C'moon, you did great! And you call yourself a shy introvert? 🤔😂 However, was she the first girl you try to talk about this or did you have to try for a while?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
@Furgetty I'm getting better 🤣 But it was struggle. Maybe I do behind. the scenes. It was crazy. It was the second girl I talked to after finishing the challenge. The challenge worked for real 🤯 🤯
@Furgettyu
@Furgettyu 3 ай бұрын
​@@RealAxelFerrarI You look quite natural, fluent and improvisational at conversations. It's not how shy introverts use to do, even if you struggle inside before. However, yes, do a behind the scenes 😄
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
@Furgetty Wow, thanks a lot for your props ☺️ Is there any way that I. should do the. behind the scenes. It's important for me to get the taste of the viewers right!
@Furgettyu
@Furgettyu 3 ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI It's hard to tell as I don't know what you have recorded or how you prepare for the conversations. But basically that's what you can show/tell: the preparation (mostly mentally & emotionally) for the conversations. You may prepare with questions for example I guess. ...or to make it more fun & realistic, you can include bloopers 😁
@lish4657
@lish4657 Ай бұрын
She is beautiful and very smart. Nice how I met your mother story 😊
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
That is funny! I loved that series tv!
@greentyson6768
@greentyson6768 Ай бұрын
This is valuable knowledge u couldn’t get from most women, somewhat reassuring for us guys. I love her dress sense, traditional women a rarity especially in western countries
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
well, remember to still take that first step
@aarongrimes6490
@aarongrimes6490 Ай бұрын
Modesty and women are not two things you see together often in North America
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@aarongrimes6490 why you say so?
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
You're a stud bro lol. I've done pickup in the early 2000s when I was a fresh faced 21 year old and I can tell you're masterclass in this. You took her from initial approach, to a coffee "date" and then to drinks all in the same day. You played the game flawlessly. Whatever she had planned for that day, it didn't matter because you were the best thing going on that day for her. That prolonged eye contact at the end of the video with her eyes glowing, that's how it's done sir. I salute you.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Thnaks man, there are beutiful moments. So, early 2000?
@g-raffasaurus2350
@g-raffasaurus2350 Ай бұрын
Omg she's gorgeous! Stunning smile and personality and so honest and real and sweet. Wish I could meet more girls like this but I have met very very few in my lifetime of 46 years if I am honest.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Where do you live?
@g-raffasaurus2350
@g-raffasaurus2350 25 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI I live in many places bro, I travel and live abroad a lot.
@Sacrifice-Paid
@Sacrifice-Paid Ай бұрын
She’s naturally beautiful 👍🏻
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Beautiful!
@russellreyes184
@russellreyes184 Ай бұрын
Smart woman, she understands the underlying dynamics of relationships.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
on a technical level all women probably understands that
@C5FE-hb7jg
@C5FE-hb7jg Ай бұрын
She is a very sweet n beautiful person. Very rare these days.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Maybe it's a matter of search more!
@God_Flow_byWildheart
@God_Flow_byWildheart Ай бұрын
At the end of the day, your style should be your own. This is generally good advice all around. This method of asking a question to someone you find attractive is rooted in social psychology and a was (ab)used a lot in the with MPUA culture in the 90s and early 2000s. I learned about it cuz I’m autistic and need structure for my interactions, however if you’re putting on an act it’ll eventually show and the person they fell for, won’t be the person you default into. So be genuine and don’t just copy someone’s style, gain confidence, be a gentleman, get advice from pretty women and take a chance… she just might be your angel 😇
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
So it's long time you are learning how to approach?
@God_Flow_byWildheart
@God_Flow_byWildheart 26 күн бұрын
@ no, not really… I learned after college and I just haven’t met the right woman. Have dated enough and it’s expensive. I’m just working on myself and figure I’ll meet my future wife when I’ve reached my potential.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@God_Flow_byWildheart Yeh true! but what if you reach your potential in 50 years?
@God_Flow_byWildheart
@God_Flow_byWildheart 25 күн бұрын
@that’s a real possibility! Sometimes people don’t find their partners but they still have friends. I don’t lack for company if that’s what you’re meaning, and if I wanted to settle I could, but I’d rather be genuine. If I had to describe it, it’s like my heart knows a greater love that hasn’t begun to be replicated in my relationships. Sort of like when someone becomes widowed and they never remarry because they had already found their soulmate.
@Lan96
@Lan96 18 сағат бұрын
Her look is timeless
@margaretmiracle6605
@margaretmiracle6605 24 күн бұрын
She is a beauty don't lose her
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 22 күн бұрын
I agree!
@HelpingTerra
@HelpingTerra Ай бұрын
It's super normal to talk to someone, even worse, a cute girl, with a camera on her face. You can be sure it will go super well.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Suuuuper normal yeh 🤣
@julienleboulch7747
@julienleboulch7747 Ай бұрын
It's refreshing to see people speaking english very clearly without "like" or other nonsens words. "it seems deleicious indeed" and all that make the conversation more pleasant to watch. Also the accents you both have make the interaction stand out even more. This was a very interesting video.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
thank you Julien. I indeed pay attention the way I speak. Are you in your 20s or interact with them a lot? Is that the reason why you notice this?
@edgaral
@edgaral 4 күн бұрын
Mission Failed Succesfully ( ended up dating the dating advisor ) lmao
@JasRaymond1
@JasRaymond1 10 күн бұрын
She is beautiful and those eyes are amazing.
@mikkelvereshak8981
@mikkelvereshak8981 Ай бұрын
'' the eyes chico. you see the truth in their eyes'' 7:33
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
and what do you see?
@kevinsoga434
@kevinsoga434 29 күн бұрын
In Spain you try to do this and you end up in jail with a complaint xD
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Is this a challenge?
@nohandle31431
@nohandle31431 6 күн бұрын
its facinating how women want you to read their toughts
@HeyyyProd
@HeyyyProd 21 күн бұрын
Starting a conversation with a girl by asking her how to talk to a girl. Makes sense…
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 20 күн бұрын
It does right?! Would you use this line?
@HeyyyProd
@HeyyyProd 20 күн бұрын
@ seemed to work. Why not?
@archie_4843
@archie_4843 Күн бұрын
someone confirm this is real and not just someone he knew...
@rosameijering5161
@rosameijering5161 Ай бұрын
Ha ha the "by the way you are beautiful"
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
XD
@lambo2655
@lambo2655 Ай бұрын
It's so tough especially in this society to be a guy who's shy. I'm 59 and never approached a woman even though I wanted to but my anxiety took over and it's ruled my life. The only date I've been on was my senior prom and even that was a pity date, a favour for a friend. Needless to say that night was a bust as my date even though I borrowed dad's car to pick her up she ignored me at the event. I've been a looser in life at the dating and romancing game.
@notMattGarska
@notMattGarska Ай бұрын
You could still start now? It's all about letting the fear behind, not expecting anything and being experimental. Rejection isn't that bad if you don't care as much, and every attempt is experience. Also important to remember that no is no and to never insist. "I'm busy that week" is also a no
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Maybe follow some of my lives here on KZbin. I talk a lot about this aspect. In any case I understand you. It’s difficult. But I would not give up. Kawasaki and KFC and other founders started above 60s and 70s years old. It’s never too late
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Rejection really doesn’t matter. But yeh good suggestion to start now! Never too late. Like the Chinese proverb…
@ericturner2477
@ericturner2477 Ай бұрын
She's stunning.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
yes!
@ShamaticWow
@ShamaticWow 2 күн бұрын
Legend! She is stunning too
@cris-1001
@cris-1001 29 күн бұрын
from the first look you are in bud. she is into you from the start, and ready to mate/date. flyin off the shelves!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
There are a couple of steps in the middle tho!
@andrewvincent7299
@andrewvincent7299 Ай бұрын
The guy who she said approached her at the gym is a genus lol. He approached her very easily and then created an experience for both of them to do and he sounds like he was more than competent socially and made it a very fun and memorable experience for her. You can tell just by how she recites that approach.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Very good approach!
@ginjaninja3209
@ginjaninja3209 Ай бұрын
A couple of days ago I was sitting at the beach eating sushi. There was a girl with her dog sitting in front of me. She gets up to leave then when she gets near me stops and turns to look out at the beach. Was this a signal she noticed me and wanted me to initiate something. I miss these subtle signs and opportunities all the time. It may not have been anything but was a little out of the ordinary she looked back as she was beside me. I could have said are you looking for your boyfriend, as the surf was good and many surfers out. Didn't say anything though so opportunity missed. She was maybe 30s, quite attractive and dressed conservative for the summer heat. I'm late 40s but look very young still. Most think I'm late 20s early 30s. It's kind of a tricky age to be single again.
@nickgur7133
@nickgur7133 Ай бұрын
imo it's always a 50/50 thing
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
I feel your frustration and being in that situation. We all men experienced that at the very least a couple of times
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
It is but it isn’t. It’s like you have to take 100% of responsibility as a man
@thelawyer95
@thelawyer95 Ай бұрын
@@ginjaninja3209 are you 6 ft and good looking, probably yes. If not, hell naw.
@Matin_M
@Matin_M Ай бұрын
She's so pretty :)
@jstmarton
@jstmarton Ай бұрын
Thanks for the amazing video. Both of you come from a very genuine angle and if such balance can be found that is amazing. I personally am struggling with signs and such recently so i assume thats why the algorithim recommended me you guys. Its a nice takeaway, you don't know unless you try and be respectful. Only do things you would not mind receiving. Merry Christmas to you both have a great one and thanks again for this sweet video.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Thank you man! If you want to talk about this deeper, we can do it on IG
@SsoulBlade
@SsoulBlade Ай бұрын
Don't ask a fish how to be caught, you ask the fisherman.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Counterintuitive too often
@SsoulBlade
@SsoulBlade Ай бұрын
@RealAxelFerrarI No, women give their fantasy, white knight, version of how they want a man to approach. Always use what women *respond* to, not what they say.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
thats why I say is counterintuitive
@yardwolves
@yardwolves Ай бұрын
Are you saying women are fish? That's the wrong mindset to have.
@SsoulBlade
@SsoulBlade Ай бұрын
@yardwolves2773 Weird way to say you don't understand analogies.
@nadavscz
@nadavscz Ай бұрын
she is gorgeous
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Nice yeh
@AndreyManuylov
@AndreyManuylov 9 күн бұрын
actually a nice video to watch and didn't even felt uncomfortable
@username-mc7jw
@username-mc7jw 9 күн бұрын
The comment she made when she said "it shifts the energy" was very interesting. I love that thought.
@LuLi-w7o
@LuLi-w7o 16 сағат бұрын
ok
@crenshaw46
@crenshaw46 Ай бұрын
It's so sad watching vids like these knowing I'm never going to get to ever experience love or a relationship with a nice women just because I just so happened to end up a short man. Trust me, you would not get the time of day if you were short. I've gone up to over 100 women this past year, making sure I presented myself nicely and with confidence, and I only got 2 dates out of all of them. Later on those dates, both admitted that they just couldn't get over the height thing, so we went our separated ways. It's been like this my whole life (I'm 31 now). Living life as a short man is just too depressing man. I really don't feel like living life like this anymore and might just end it early tbh. Anyways, I'm happy you're able to have little experiences with women like this that actually find you attractive and get to have a little fun in life. Cheers mate!
@EastonPerman
@EastonPerman Ай бұрын
Hey man. I hope all is well with you at this very moment this new year. I don't know you or your particular situation, but I'm 26 years old and have what seems to be the opposite of your situation. I have eyes of other women of different ages noticing me, but I can tell you that it only brings me uncertainty and unwanted excitement even sadness. Even if the most beautiful woman had already given her heart to me and had the intent of wanting to have a relationship with me, I wouldn't give myself a chance. Why? Well because as much as I desire a relationship as much as you. It's not a very high purpose enough to live an abundant life and quite frankly I always say I'm ready when I know I'm not. Plus, it really isn't everything that life has to offer. I suggest as a complete stranger to reorient your towards something higher if you haven't already. If you have.. that's awesome. Lean on the thing, that higher purpose calling you to continue living life and enjoying it abundantly. For me, it's God, for you I don't know, but know that as a man of 26 who's already what wondering about life at 31.. don't ever lose hope. I'm turning 27 in 9 days and I tell you that it's a blessing talking and just relating a little bit to your pain. I'll be taking this year for myself as a purposeful year of singleness and will pray for you as well. God bless you and Happy New Year! "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you"
@kymlardnerofficial
@kymlardnerofficial 28 күн бұрын
You never know what's around the corner so wait and see. Why not try petite Asian girls. Some are so tiny. Why give up now? Give up later but for now seek out the tiny Asian and Indian women. Gorgeous.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@crenshaw46 Hey @crenshaw46 doy ou want to talk? I might have a solution for you. I was thinking about something. On IG @realaxelferrari. In any case, trust me, everything has a solution. Thank you to being open with me and us. I am sure you already know a solution exist.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@EastonPerman Hey @EastonPerman how is it going lately?
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
@kymlardnerofficial good advice!
@schedarr
@schedarr 28 күн бұрын
Rule number 1 is that fisherman should not take advise from a fish. He won her by confidence and openness and the fact that he actually did the approach.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Approaching is always the number one step (somehow) but it's not all! Do you want to know which other steps are there to take?
@Rumbu_P
@Rumbu_P Ай бұрын
5:51 so beautifully said! As a guy, it will be flattering for a girl to ask me out - but please don't! You can give me sign(s)
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
well said. She can give a sign, but I will be always the one taking the step
@littlebrit
@littlebrit 3 ай бұрын
Just give them your name card. You Mr. Ferrari. It's a good and famous family. Every girl will want to date.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 3 ай бұрын
Excellent idea! 😁 Do you think it will work even if more if I show up inside Ferrari
@littlebrit
@littlebrit 2 ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Yes, you own the dating market.
@divineprovidence803
@divineprovidence803 Ай бұрын
I've got some printed with Mr Tesla on!! Lol!!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@@divineprovidence803 eheheh!
@nindoninshu
@nindoninshu Ай бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI have you heard of Alex Ferrari? crazy how close the name is
@retrohollandia
@retrohollandia Ай бұрын
You had her in immediatally. You approached her to get a suggestion from her, for how to approach women. And her answer was literally "you could ask her for a suggestion..."
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Being a nice and cool person all the time, every time, it's really the thing.
@andrewh.8403
@andrewh.8403 13 күн бұрын
OMG... She is a delight.
@thesuperiorbench6307
@thesuperiorbench6307 Ай бұрын
quick bit of value, very nice
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Sure 👍
@XAVIER_NEWHOUSE
@XAVIER_NEWHOUSE Ай бұрын
Bro really asked how to take out a girl to a date and asked the date herself, bro is an actually rizzatition
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
I mean, would you have tried the same?
@siddasloth3292
@siddasloth3292 20 күн бұрын
Bro she’s immediately a catch
@Eye-Scream-Cake
@Eye-Scream-Cake Ай бұрын
This should have million of views.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
I think there are a lot of ideas taht can help. So I agree with you!
@izil1fe
@izil1fe 24 күн бұрын
What a gorgeous looking woman !
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 22 күн бұрын
Agreed!
@achildofthelight4725
@achildofthelight4725 Ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with a girl making the first move, its actually more connecting, rather than a man just thinking about getting laid.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
it happens rarely, so you wish women would do all the work?
@Sunglxzz
@Sunglxzz 23 күн бұрын
to ask a question is easier than directly trying to rizz her up *notes taken*
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 22 күн бұрын
what questions is possible to ask?
@mushroomlw1717
@mushroomlw1717 Ай бұрын
I have had a woman come up to me and ask for help with something she could clearly do herself. I just wish I was smart enough at the time to realize she was trying to get me to ask her out or introduce myself for a possibility I have missed quite a few possibilities because I did not pick up the hint until it was way too late.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
true. but we all face this soon or later. we all still feel it after years. How about now, any successes?
@mushroomlw1717
@mushroomlw1717 24 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Yes, I have figured a few things out. I just have not figured out how to keep it long term
@SinisterSkip
@SinisterSkip 14 сағат бұрын
5:32 good excuse for body contact. Break the ice. First barrier, then go from there. This guy is skilled. He already knows :)
@dhammaboy1203
@dhammaboy1203 Ай бұрын
I think she's right - women can give a vibe. But it's good if the man makes the first move. I know it's traditional but I sitll think it's nice. Woman can make interest obvious enough that the guy should see a wimdow and try (says the guy who missed a window a few months back with a beautiful German girl d'oh!). Live & learn!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
yeh I know. happens all the time to miss, but what can we do?! Just act even if scary! In any case, I believe women should give signals, but too often are super hard to understand!
@minners71
@minners71 Ай бұрын
She seems like one of the good ones.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Where are you from? Any amazing lady around you?
@danielmiller4719
@danielmiller4719 28 күн бұрын
A man that listens and vaules a women is a win in her eyes. May the lord bless you and keep your realationship aligned in him. In Jesus name we pray amen❤
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@cyclefrst7799
@cyclefrst7799 Ай бұрын
“I’m doing research…”, in the process have her tell you what she wants to hear. That’s just a pickup line,
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
so if it is, did you use it?
@cyclefrst7799
@cyclefrst7799 17 күн бұрын
@ most ppl just want to talk about themselves. In common settings or professional interviews. Learning how to wait your turn to speak effectively is an art.
@illbeyourhuckleberry6484
@illbeyourhuckleberry6484 Ай бұрын
She is pretty and seem so nice.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
True!
@CodyG_95
@CodyG_95 Ай бұрын
bro got a literal date with the girl without her even knowing haha!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Things when spontaneous are awesome right?! For instance, think about a real kiss or a scheduled one! ehehe
@chrisvanloo1007
@chrisvanloo1007 Ай бұрын
She was actually lovely.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
100%
@luckyc3926
@luckyc3926 Ай бұрын
Bright articulate good looking woman.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
yeh she is!
@akilbrazier1421
@akilbrazier1421 17 күн бұрын
What they forget to tell you is that the very first step is to be attractive
@seinfan9
@seinfan9 Ай бұрын
Assuming this isn't fake, the accent made her comfortable and hopeful that she found someone compatible.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
why do you assume is fake?
@iiZAPPx
@iiZAPPx Ай бұрын
She appears to be very very very down go earth. Good on both of you. Have a blessed 2025
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
u too ma man!
@stevethompson8504
@stevethompson8504 Ай бұрын
Don't ask anyone for any dating advice , ever . Because people's advice mostly amounts to telling you to not be yourself . The only things that count for anything in this world are knowing yourself , being yourself and being able to live with yourself ,everyday . Anybody who isn't happy enough with that, just isn't ever going to be worthy of you . If they're not happy within themselves don't fool yourself that you can change them or make it better.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
So the answer is be happy with yourself and not search for anything or anyone outside yourself?
@goncalocarvalho4917
@goncalocarvalho4917 Ай бұрын
she is beautiful
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
Pretty yeh
@alexandervidenov2070
@alexandervidenov2070 28 күн бұрын
Congratulations, I've subscribed and as you've posted on your I am also doing the same cold approach though w/o a camera!
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Awesome ma man! Where?
@MrCreed10
@MrCreed10 Ай бұрын
As a guy, I can say she revealed TOO MUCH😂 Can’t let this info get into the wrong guy’s hands
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Well, tell me more how would you use this info?
@Ignozi
@Ignozi 3 күн бұрын
You don't want the competition to start getting any ideas?
@makuszko
@makuszko Күн бұрын
When I was young I was very afraid to approach a girl and ask for her phone number. I was most afraid that she would give it to me. 🤣
@AdamDobbs-t6l
@AdamDobbs-t6l 14 күн бұрын
Yall look good together I’ll like the accents
@hzskillz1721
@hzskillz1721 Ай бұрын
Congrats she is very beautiful and with a great personality too 👍
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@matthewglover8804
@matthewglover8804 Ай бұрын
Her eyes and smile are just 😍
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI Ай бұрын
@nenadexe
@nenadexe Ай бұрын
She's already mad on him that he just used her and left 😑
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
I don't understand why someone should say something so horrible???
@nenadexe
@nenadexe 24 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI I agree, it's very horrible to say this. But on the other hand that's reality brother. Plus you're a youtuber. You meet plenty of girls and you have no time to settle down...
@dublininecstasy463
@dublininecstasy463 Ай бұрын
Jesus...just from the first part in the park I got a really strong vibe that this might be Budapest. I was in the city just two times so far but it's my favourite one outside of my country. Vibes are immaculate there. Then around 4:15 I saw that sign on the van...is this really Budapest?!? Think I might have a really strong connection with that city. Felt that way from the first second I land my foot there. And of course,girls are very beautiful there. They have some interesting vibe I'm not finding in my country.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Its correct! Where are you from btw?
@dublininecstasy463
@dublininecstasy463 25 күн бұрын
@@RealAxelFerrarI Neighbourhood to Hungary. Croatia.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 25 күн бұрын
@@dublininecstasy463 ok, so you go there often?
@xBloodXGusherx
@xBloodXGusherx Ай бұрын
Wow she is beautiful.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
Yes!
@DoctorChaosJam
@DoctorChaosJam 7 күн бұрын
I definitely lose a lot for trying. I definitely need to try to achieve anything , but I don't lose anything for trying is a lie. First of all , I lose my confidence, then my hopes and then my will to live. Also , I feel shit for being looked as a creep or a weirdo.
@igorbukovy4313
@igorbukovy4313 Ай бұрын
If girl/woman says to me that she has a boyfriend, I simply respect that and stop. It can be lie but it can be also truth. I assume that she tells me the truth.
@RealAxelFerrarI
@RealAxelFerrarI 26 күн бұрын
You can ask a few questions to make sure. If you do it nicely then can be appreaciated
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