Social Acceptance in the Philippines: 🌏🇵🇭 Some Things We Should Think About

[@G5Philippines]

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[@jadehernando5783]

This is a deep analysis - really shows that you understand life and individuals, and that’s why you are still in the Phlippines with all our goods and bads.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @jadehernando5783 ... Thank you so much for your kind words! Comments like yours are so encouraging. For me, I’ve been going through an adjustment phase lately-coming into an understanding of things. Once I recognize that an ‘issue’ is an actual definable thing, I can go, "Ah! Ok, I get it now!" and then assimilate it into my mindset. It may not fully alleviate the annoyance, but at least I see it for what it is. And as you know, the good and bad exist anywhere we live. Thanks again for your support!

[@peternielsen5998]

Gee, its nice to hear a lot of common sense. Nice chat. I'm living in the Philippines. Southern Leyte. When I first moved here I felt kind of obligated to give to most beggars. But then I realized begging for many had become a job. So now days I generally only give to the old or disabled who obviously are in need. I don't tend to give to woman with babies as they obviously carry them around for the extra sympathy/income. Once again a job. But I enjoy living in this country. People are so friendly and welcoming. And I am quite happy to give strangers a smile, a wave and a good morning and it is nearly always returned. As you mentioned, patience in everyday life is fundamental here. And the average Filipino has this quality in abundance. No matter where you are, there will be the good, bad and the ugly. It just depends on what you value most and ignore as best you can the down sides. Have a positive attitude and you'll be happy.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @peternielsen5998 ... Thanks so much for sharing your experience and perspective! I totally agree, patience and a positive attitude make all the difference here. It’s great to hear you’ve found a good balance when it comes to giving, and I completely understand your approach. Living in the Philippines has been a wonderful experience for me, too, especially with the friendliness and welcoming nature of the people. Wishing you all the best in Southern Leyte!

[@rickinhawaii]

Great vid 👍👍👍. Driving in phills is without a doubt the hardest adjustment for me. I just keep telling myself calm, cool, collected x3. Your looking much more comfortable talking to the camera. Definitely noticeable over time compared to much older vids. Good job keep going Your doing great 🤙

[@G5Philippines]

Aloha @rickinhawaii ... Thanks so much for your kind words! And yeah-driving in the Philippines can be a challenge for sure. Keeping calm, cool, and collected is the best strategy, especially with the traffic. Thanks for the encouragement and I’m glad to hear my videos are coming across better. Thanks and stay in touch!

[@iteliano]

Another great video! Thanks for your posts

[@G5Philippines]

Thank you @iteliano also! I really appreciate your feedback!

[@edmadrinan2022]

I heard this quote a few years ago. It not only applies to traffic but life in general. It says - "I can't control what goes on around me, but I can control me".

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @edcagandahan2022 ... That’s a powerful quote, and it’s so true! We may not be able to control everything happening around us, but we always have control over how we respond. Thanks for sharing that wisdom-it’s a great reminder for all of us! Peace and Blessings!

[@TXAgileBear]

Great VID. Made me think of a qoute. "Happiness is not a destination, it's a journey. And the journey is far more enjoyable when we choose to appreciate the scenery, even when it's stormy." - Unknown

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @TXAgileBear ... Thanks for the kind words! That quote really resonates-it's a great reminder that happiness is about embracing the journey, not just the destination. Appreciating the scenery, even during the tough times, is key. Thanks for sharing!

[@inamoy9937]

Yes this guy knows how to tip and also gained awareness on when to tip in a good way. You will notice beggars that does it for convenience and gauge people that wants to take advantage. You being foreign in their minds are likely loaded w money to throw away and some people would try. Good thing about tipping specially with in your neighbourhood or places you always shop or go to is they will give top service and genuine care. Birthday parties mirrors “social status” and this thing is valued by many filipinos. Sadly many of your wife’s fam members have some “expectations” and comes back to Social status.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @inamoy9937 ... Thanks for sharing your insights! You make a great point about tipping, especially within your neighborhood or regular spots. Building those relationships does lead to better service and genuine care. And yes, the whole birthday party and social status thing is definitely something I've seen too. The expectations can definitely add pressure, especially from family. It’s all about finding balance and setting boundaries while still respecting the culture. Appreciate your thoughts!

[@Philibusting]

The birthdays are a point of contention for me also. Especially when I know that the expectation is for the foreigner to turn every single one into a total blow out. I often get the, “it’s our tradition”, but I have my traditions too and expect them to respect it. I’ve been cutting down on the celebrations by not sending any money for every single birthday, she has way too many cousins, siblings and aunties. Enough is enough.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @Philibusting ... I totally and completely agree. Finding the balance between honoring traditions and keeping things more manageable is perfectly reasonable. I also feel like smaller, more intimate celebrations are just as meaningful without the need for a huge blowout every time. Thanks for sharing!

[@Philibusting]

@@G5Philippines Thanks for you video. You really touched on some not only relevant, but real life issues here. Keep them coming…

[@G5Philippines]

Thank you @@Philibusting I really appreciate your feedback. Very encouraging. 🙏🏻

[@jonapatil3733]

Hi.thanks for sharing about my country man culture. Especially.occation.not all but mostly.we work hard for our needs.not all pilipina want to marry foreigners..only to support their children's.yeah.maybe mostly in Visayas but again not all.we support our children from our personal sweat.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @@jonapatil3733 ... Thanks for sharing your perspective! I truly appreciate hearing from Filipinos about their experiences and thoughts. You're absolutely right-every family and individual has their own unique journey, and yes, not all Filipinas marry foreigners for support. I have a lot of respect for the hard work and dedication that many Filipinos put into supporting their families. Thanks again for contributing to the conversation. Peace and Blessings! 🙏🏻

[@ArnelSabinay]

You are ON POINT.. Practical, Very True and Humbling. You are a humble person. I'm amazed by your narratives.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @ArnelSabinay ... Wow, thank you so much! Your kind words really mean a lot. I just try to share my experiences honestly and from the heart. I appreciate your support! 🙏🏻

[@ericg9092]

Just found your channel and subscribed. Great video.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello there @ericg9092 ... I'm very happy you found me! Thanks for the support!

[@Scrappy_Moo]

You have an honest perception of the whole idea of social acceptance.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @suikodenfan7418 ... Thanks so much! I really appreciate that. I just thought it would be good to talk about how we need to avoid generalizing or stereotyping and promote mutual respect. I love the Philippines and love the spirit of Filipinos, even trying to adopt the positive Filipino attitude. 😀

[@ShikokuFoodForest]

Hello G5. This topic is helpful to better understand the Filipino culture. Very insightful. I agree with you. There is a lot more to social acceptance than just being polite. I hope the expectations are not just one sided though - such as only the foreigner acting in accordance with the Filipino’s expectations. Our expectations are equally valid. So, hopefully there is mutual respect and give and take on both sides. If for example my future Filipina wife wants to invite her entire extended family and friends to a birthday party, I’d tell her, “invite the entire town if you can afford to pay for it”. I’m exaggerating to make my point. For expats who are not financially rich and without an overly high monthly budget, affording to invite 100+ family members may be simply unaffordable. I’ll happily provide a birthday celebration within my budget, but I sure hope I’m not judged negatively as a result.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @ShikokuFoodForest ... Thanks for your comment! You’re absolutely right-expectations should go both ways. I’ve had similar experiences where we had to find a compromise. It’s great to celebrate, but like you said, it needs to be within our means. I think being open and communicating with your future wife about expectations will help avoid any negative judgment. Appreciate you sharing your perspective!

[@ejtaylor73]

FriendLY does not mean friend. You need to take the time to get to know people, listen to what they say and watch their actions/behaviors before accepting them as a friend. Until you consider someone an actual friend, don't disclose too much about your personal life, 1st and foremost out of safety concerns. 2nd, locals may see you talking about your worldly experience as bragging and condescending towards them, because they may not have ever left their barangay. You hear many times, that locals are just friendly to foreigners because they have alterior motives of trying to get money out of you. I'm sure for some that is true, but it's not true of all, unfortunately everyone gets lumped together, just as foreigners do, that is how stereotypes are born, and there is always SOME truth to them. One bad foreigner gives them the impression they all are the same, just as 1 local scams you, then you see them all as scammers. Me personally, I think the ONLY reason to give money to ANY ONE is because you WANT TO, not because you feel you HAVE TO or you are obligated/expected to. YOU worked most of your life to EARN what you have and ONLY YOU decide how you will spend it. It's not your job to be financially responsible for other adults (Excluding your wife), they are responsible for their own financial well being. When it comes to driving, as a foreigner, ALWAYS have a dashcam, once the people/police know you have it, their attitudes will change VERY quickly. ALL relationships are transactional, because BOTH parties are giving and receving, transactional does not just mean financial, it includes emotional, mental, physical, and supporting. Age gap relationships, they "claim" to be religious, Matthew 7:1: “Judge not, that you be not judged," yet these allegedly religious people are some of the most judgemental people there are. I don't think you should try to be polite and PC about certain topics, the truth hurts, and the more painful it is to hear, the more true it is. Some need to hear brutal honesty to get it ingrained into their heads. They call you a "Cheap Charlie" because you didn't give, but how much have they themselves given, what have they done to help their own people, charity starts at home. They "claim" to be religious, Proverbs 14:23 "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty," or the one even atheists know, Thessalonians 3:10 "For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat," along with MANY other verses saying the same thing, WORK for what you want, DON'T BEG. There is also Philippine Presidential Decree 1563: Sec 3.a. "Mendicant" refers to any person, except those enumerated in Section 4 (refers to children) of this Decree, who has no visible and legal means of support, or lawful employment and who is PHYSICALLY ABLE to work (NOT if they can find a job, but are capable of doing one) but neglects to apply himself to some lawful calling and instead uses begging as a means of living." You are breaking the LAW by giving to beggars, better to be thought of as "tihik" than being an actual convict. Although the decree is meant for beggars, it does say "ANY PERSON", and can be interpreted as it is ILLEGAL to give money to her family if they don't work also. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions, I hope you and the family have a great day Boss.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @ejtaylor73 ...great points all around, I truly appreciate your confirmations and support! You hit the nail on the head about taking the time to get to know people. Trust and friendship takes time to develop. Totally agree with you on the stereotypes and the importance of giving only when it’s from the heart. The dashcam advice for driving-yeah, I use a gopro when I'm going to be driving in congested traffic, but I want to get a legit dashcam! As for age gap relationships and the whole transactional aspect, you’re right, relationships involve all kinds of give and take beyond just the financial. It's really all about mutual respect. I appreciate the honesty in your comments, and your references to scripture really ties it all together. Thanks again for the thoughtful comment and well wishes. Hope you and your family are doing great, too!

[@olivianazareno6129]

I was born and raised in Ph but I left when I was 22 yrs old. Been living away from it for 36 years now. To be honest, I don’t miss it much..

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @olivianazareno6129 ... Thanks for sharing! It’s interesting how everyone’s journey is different... it's all about finding where you feel most at peace. Peace and Blessings!

[@opsecclassified6469]

Hello my friend. Good video. Also keep up the good job with walking. It helps for sure.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @opsecclassified6469 ... Thanks so much, my friend! I’m definitely sticking with the walking-it really does make a difference. Appreciate your support!

[@dazocat5566]

❤🙏☺Thanks for sharing, my friend! :) God Bless.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @dazocat5566 ... Thanks so much, my friend! God bless you too!

[@bornonjuly7052]

Oh i stumbled on your channel and like it. I admire your thinkings and attitudes towards living in the coyntry you choose to live.9 years living in the country means you have that full grasps in life buddy.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @bornonjuly7052 ... Glad you found the channel and appreciate your kind words! It’s definitely been a learning journey living here, and I’m always grateful for the experience. Thanks for watching!

[@eiffeltower5000]

Money expectations depend on where you stay in the Philippines or who are you associating with in the country. If you mingle with Filipinos who are established professionaly then they won't expect anything from you as a foreigner they just want your friendship.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @eiffeltower5000 ... Yes, that has been my experience as well. 🙂Thanks for sharing...

[@kikayme8134]

I like your honest opinion, I’m Filipino who also needs to bring a lot of patience when I visit or decides live there long term. Birthdays…are only strictly close family members not extended to other people, beggars…I don’t give money to them. Age gap relationship…I will not go there because that’s personal although I cringe seeing them…🤨😖

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @kikayme8134 ... Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I totally agree-patience is key, whether you're a foreigner or Filipino. As for birthdays, I think keeping it to close family makes it more meaningful. And yeah, age gap relationships are definitely personal, and everyone has their own feelings about them. Thanks again for your honest input!

[@michaelfirestone7440]

PATIENCE, YOUR VIDEO IS SO TRUE, THANKS FOR SHARING BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER ♥

[@G5Philippines]

Thanks! @michaelfirestone7440 ... Appreciate that, brother! Thanks for the support and for watching!

[@sma357]

Good for you keep up the walk!

[@G5Philippines]

Thank you! I'm doing it! 😄

[@kojih2008]

I concur....well said 🎉

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @kojih2008 ... Thank you so much! I genuinely appreciate your affirmation and your support! 🙏🏻

[@zzzzzsleeping]

I think Filipinos developed the understanding of acceptance through the associations of different ethnic (tribes) in the islands. So, when a foreigners or Western people comes to the islands, they are just one tribe of many. Most People don't have much, yet they will give their shirt to you or their last dinner. They are not a cheap skates or frugal people. Never show your frugality, they will remember.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @zzzzzsleeping ... What a beautiful and positive reflection! I absolutely agree-Filipinos have such a strong sense of acceptance and generosity, despite having so little themselves. I’ve experienced firsthand that willingness to give and share, even when they have so little to offer. It’s a humbling reminder of the true meaning of kindness and hospitality. Thanks for sharing such an uplifting perspective! Peace and Blessings!

[@HansGruber-r8s]

You brought up a very good topic. Because of poverty in this country. And people are not making enough money to survive. They will expect it, only because of desperation, to seek monetary rewards. Beggars, are a different story. It's ok to give to WORKERS. But don't give to beggars,especially kids.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @HansGruber-r8s ... Thanks, I'm glad you found the topic worthwhile. I agree, poverty plays a big role in why some people expect help, and it’s tough. I really enjoy helping workers when I can, but I struggle with how best to help beggars without just enabling the cycle. Appreciate your input!

[@HansGruber-r8s]

@@G5Philippines Avoid giving to beggars, unless they are disabled. A disabled person, has difficulty to find work. But kids? You enable a cycle. But let us say you're in a street festival, or a street game, I guess it's ok to treat for snacks or ice cream. But kids who ply the streets asking for money, or dirty street dwellers asking for money. Don't give! You are definitely enabling a cycle. That's my opinion.

[@G5Philippines]

Oh definitely @@HansGruber-r8s ... I will always have a heart for disabled. But even then, how can we help them in a way that they don't have to beg? This issue is something I think about a lot. Thank you for your comments and support! I truly appreciate it. 🙏🏻

[@louiegatchalian9314]

There will come a point that giving alms will not be considered a charitable act. You will be teaching them to be idle.

[@G5Philippines]

@@louiegatchalian9314 exactly my concern.

[@ciscosebanes]

Nice shirt mate😊

[@G5Philippines]

Thanks @ciscosebanes ... yeah, I ordered a couple of Gas Monkey tshirts a while back. Gitcha Some - O - Dat!!! 😄😄😄

[@Cons2911]

I’m a local, but yeah we don’t do big parties, don’t really care much what others say. Big celebration is far in between. We do celebrate with close friends and families

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @Cons2911 ... That sounds like a really nice approach! Celebrating with close friends and family is what I prefer, too. It’s all about making those meaningful connections. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@Cons2911]

@@G5Philippines yes exactly. I understand some may be better to have more people, like wedding (though I’m not into big weddings too), or 21 birthday (7 for kids).. But right now,, dinner with family , even separate for friends is what I usually do. But, it is part of the culture, in-laws and parents, esp for wedding tend to invite the whole barangay haha. But communication is key so both sides will be heard. Or, go to the beach then yes usually it’s a lot of people and it’s not as expensive (we don’t go to expensive hotels).. or tell the wife that you won’t pay for everyone, pay part of it maybe. Sorry for rambling on, have a nice day sir

[@G5Philippines]

Hey @@Cons2911 ... No worries, I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts! Communication is definitely key, especially when it comes to finding that balance. And I agree-celebrating at the beach with a bigger group can be a great way to include everyone without it being too expensive. Thanks again for the insight, and have a great day as well!

[@Cons2911]

@@G5Philippines you’re welcome sir. Have a nice weekend

[@trinidadhutton5210]

Hey there I’m a Filipina and I agree with you definitely. However we tend to think as a Filipino that if the person is a foreigner or an OFW they have money..! I really don’t agree with bdays please if you are a foreigner reading this..tell your Filipina wife to stop..!🙄🙄if you can afford it go for it, but if not🤷🏼‍♀️let it be. It’s not mandatory.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @trinidadhutton5210 ... thank you so much for contributing your thoughts. I always value the Filipina perspective to my 'talks'. 😃 And yes, I do understand the perception or mis-perceptions, regarding money, that can occur, and there is nothing wrong with that, so long as those 'perceptions' don't become 'expectations'. For your statement "please if you are a foreigner reading this..tell your Filipina wife to stop..!if you can afford it go for it, but if notlet it be. It’s not mandatory." You made me laugh out loud on that one! 😲😄😆

[@cristinasumadchat605]

Not every Filipino celebrate birthdays. Different Filipinos have different mindsets. There are those who borrow money just to celebrate them but will never pay you back. There are those who celebrate it simply with the family. There are those who invite relatives, close friends and neighbors. Most probably, they are celebrating their 1st., 7th., 18th., 60th., 70th., 75th., or 100th birthday. Those who celebrate lavishly are those who have the means while there are those who want to celebrate but will ask for others to spend it for them. For those who don't have much, it isn't the amount you spend that counts but its true essence. I think, if one has ₱500, a family could celebrate one's birthday at home or even eat out. If you have ₱1000, you could invite a few friends. If you spend ₱2000, you would have a lot of dishes. I just don't understand why people spend so much when the amount they can eat will just be the same. Age doesn't really matter in relationships for as long as both parties are genuine in how they feel. Money should never be the reason for entering into a relationship.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @cristinasumadchat605 ... Thanks for sharing such a well-rounded perspective! You’re absolutely right-I agree, it’s not about how much you spend but the true essence of the celebration. And I totally agree with your last point about age and money in relationships. Genuine love and sincerity should always be the foundation. Thanks again for your thoughtful comment! Peace and Blessings!

[@divinegrace719]

GOD bless you.

[@G5Philippines]

God bless you too! 🙏🏻

[@jimbarrow9638]

Great information and so true. There are good people everywhere you just have to look

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @jimbarrow9638 ... Absolutely, I totally agree. Thanks!

[@goatman3828]

America is one of the few places that has true social acceptance of every type of person. It is really quite unique. A 6' tall man will always stick out in a place like the Philippines. Regardless of skin tone, accent, or anything else. You stick way out in the crowd. On a more intimate level, say a family setting you are invited to acceptance may be real, but a tall white guy will never be accepted as an actual Filipino. A dog may like a cat, but the dog knows that cat isn't a dog. But in USA there are Filipino Americans, Uganda Americans, Brazil Americans, etc so we don't even look twice at all the varieties that people come in. Tall, short, white, black, we are all Americans. That is one of the best things about America. Homogenious societies are the norm.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @goatman3828 ... Thanks for sharing your thoughts! And yes-America has historically been a melting pot, and social acceptance is a unique and great thing, although there seems to be a lot of social unrest in the last few years. We’ve been in the Philippines for the last 7 years, so we’re a bit detached, so I wonder if it is the same as before? Thanks again for sharing your perspective!

[@goatman3828]

@G5Philippines 10x worse than when you were here. It's a madhouse of division politics. I'm slowly getting ready to join you over there. My mother is 87 and not in great shape. So I will be here for her. Father passed last year so she needs someone on call.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @@goatman3828 ... I’m so sorry to hear about your father’s passing, and I’ll keep your mother in my prayers. It’s heartbreaking to hear about the division back in the States. I really hope that kind of unrest doesn’t make its way to the Philippines. It’s been a blessing to be here, and I hope you find peace when you decide to make the move. Thanks again for sharing, and wishing you and your mom all the best during this time. 🙂🙏🏻

[@edoedo8686]

Many cultures celebrate the family.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @edoedo8686 ... Absolutely, I believe in celebrating the family! I just feel that more intimate gatherings with those closest to us can make the occasion even more special. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@Wouldlife1918]

If a beggar calls you a cheap then be glad you didn't give for that's no respect.Been twice to Philippines and going back soon again and birthdays are traditional get together and celebration like it use to be in Australia back in the 80's. I found my medium to handing out money and make sure l get respect in return which is free not excuses.

[@G5Philippines]

Thanks @Wouldlife1918 ... well said! 😀👍🏻

[@wernerschneider4460]

No problems with social acceptance whatsoever. When my wife arrived there last week, the neighbors and people we know in the barangay immediately asked where I am. When they were told that I'll come late in November, they were happy. O.k., I am the only "Americano" in the whole barangay (incl. all barangays around) and I am generally known as respectful, generous and living simply (includes collecting rain-water in buckets and storing it in tumblers in the house, because you can never be sure if there will be water for some hours during the night).

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @wernerschneider4460 ... That’s great to hear! It sounds like you’ve really earned the respect and friendship of your community. I love the simple living approach, and I can totally relate to the water situation-always good to be prepared. Thanks for sharing your experience!

[@angelgadon-fu2fv]

Where do you live maybe in the mountains?

[@michaelbeggs2013]

When I have made large purchases at SM mall or other malls, like a microwave, I tip 50 pesos to the guy who brings it to my xar, because it is a real convenience for me. I don't feel like I need to tip the guy boxing my groceries, but if I need the extra work of carrying them out to the car, that is worthy of a tip. I always carry my groceries out to the car, though..

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @michaelbeggs2013 ... I get that! For me, maybe it's because my first job in high school was as a grocery bagger in southeast Texas, so I have a soft spot for those kids. But they're out there working, so I enjoy tipping for the assistance. Thanks for chiming in!

[@tennified6600]

15:58 "If you spend all of your time frustrated by things you can't control, you're just gonna be miserable!"

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @tennified6600 ... That’s a big lesson I have learned! Thanks for your confirmation, support and for watching!

[@martyfenton6184]

I have the same experience. I tip many people because I respect any work. . I am not overtly rude to beggars, but where I live able-bodied people open the doors to convenience stores with help wanted signs within sight. I totally ignore them. One big blessing of aging is that I care less and less what other people think. If I believe I could have treated someone better I try to apologize and ask for forgiveness.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @martyfenton6184 ... we still need to catch up soon! and yeah, you and I see things very much the same.

[@dorismay8383]

Most "able-bodied people" that u are saying maybe did not finish their elem./secondary school..FYI: many companies here in the Phils. DO NOT accept undergraduate. Companies only accept HS grad.for JANITOR/HOUSEKEEPING. As laborer,one must have SPECIAL SKILLS like carpenter(except mason,painter),plummer,and elec.wiring. Next time you see an ''able-bodied person" opening door for u..think twice before judging him/her

[@martyfenton6184]

@@dorismay8383 I know because I have OFFERED them work and been turned down. Are you not judging me? You don't know my experience either.

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @@dorismay8383 ... You're right that many companies won’t hire those who haven’t finished school, and I can definitely empathize with the struggles those face. However, it’s important to remember that we all have our own responsibilities to manage, and as much as we may want to help, it’s just not possible to help every person in need. Every peso I give away is one less peso I have for my daughters or my wife’s Mama and Papa. I didn’t interpret Marty’s comments as judgmental, but rather just explaining how he manages those situations. It’s a tough balance, and something I think about often-how can we really help them? I have wondered if the LGU's or Barangays could set up programs to help those without a college degree to learn trades and get a certification for that trade. Thank you for your comments, it's easy to see that you really care. 🙏🏻Peace and Blessings!

[@mannyv.3171]

Filipinos are family oriented, any birthday or event in the family should be celebrated and all are invited. It happens not only in the Philippines but any where around the world where u can find filipinos. Its our culture.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @mannyv.3171 ... Absolutely, I totally believe in celebrating family and birthdays! I just think it’s possible to keep it more intimate and still make it special without hosting the whole city every time. For me, the smaller family moments can be the most memorable. Peace and Blessings!

[@xinhi603]

​@@G5Philippinesi agree, our family celebrate birthdays only members of the family, but it looks big bcoz all of the siblings' kids come 😂 and we are 4 siblings 😂😅

[@4rct1c9Ic3m4n]

@@G5Philippines True. This tradition is now getting to be impractical with rising cost of living and inflation on top of that. But of course, if one is filthy rich why not.

[@G5Philippines]

@@xinhi603 😄 I know what you mean! My wife is the youngest of 8 kids!

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @@4rct1c9Ic3m4n... Exactly, it’s definitely about what’s practical for each family. With the rising costs, it’s sometimes best to keep things smaller and still make them meaningful. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@hulbot]

good job hijo just keep managing ur frustrations' (traffic) and just be happy w/ ur family

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @hulbot ... Thanks so much for the kind words! I’ll keep working on the traffic frustrations for sure, and focusing on the good stuff with the family. Appreciate the support!

[@CHENLV-b6n]

Barrio Fiesta baby!!!

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @user-hi9bc5ni8z ... Haha, Barrio Fiesta! Yes! Just up the street! Thanks for watching! 😄

[@MimiPerez-b8u]

Sir Filipinos are very appreciative of anything you give them, however they never expect anything from anybody .

[@Philibusting]

What!!!!! They don’t expect anything from anybody????? Boy are you way off on this one. Think about what you’re saying… the entire family is always asking for help for one this or the other several times a week. Not sure where you get this from…jussayin’

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @user-mp8qq2ys2u ... I agree that Filipinos can be incredibly appreciative of even the smallest things, and I also agree that NOT ALL Filipinos 'expect' anything. However, I encounter it quite often where I am 'expected' to give. But, as I said in the video, I just give when my heart tells me to. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @@Philibusting yes, I've experienced the same at times. It’s a delicate balance, for sure. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@thesilentgeneration]

Oh, bologna. I've been here for over 20 years and cannot swallow that statement. You do know of the little Christmas jingle kids sing at X-mas? "We wish you Americano, we wish you Americano, and a happy New Year." Why Americano? $$$$$$$$$$$$$$

[@harrietdeluna1390]

Your right about that .

[@marialuisacalalang7261]

There's a law that discourages giving alms to beggars on the streetts because it encourages more beggars to swarm you...f you want to give something for them, try to give your donations thru worthwhile Chartable Foundations to put it on proper use for these people..

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @marialuisacalalang7261 ... Thanks for mentioning that! I’ve heard about legalities along those lines, but I thought that was more about individuals that are conducting an organized 'giving' or charity, but I really don't know anything about that. I am in favor of ways that can truly make a difference, but for us, we just direct our giving (tithe and offerings) to our church. Thanks again for sharing that information.

[@marialuisaaspillera4885]

New subs here…

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @marialuisaaspillera4885 ... Welcome to the channel! Thanks for subscribing-glad to have you here!

[@Revfredtravels]

Hi brother I am a Pastor from Quebec Canada but right now I am in Oklahoma, I have plans to move to the Philippines in a bit and maybe get a job as a pastor there I am looking for info so thank you for your insights.

[@G5Philippines]

Hi there @Revfredrmarch ... I'm happy to chat with you, just send me a message on our facebook at facebook.com/theg5family.

[@Revfredtravels]

BTW I like your Gas Monkey Garage teeshirt.

[@G5Philippines]

Haha! Get Ya Some-O-Dat! 😄

[@jeanclauderussell]

why your other latest video became private i like to share comment hehe

[@G5Philippines]

Hello @jeanclauderussell ... thanks for asking! 😊 I had to make that video private due to some concerns that came up after it was posted, but no worries-the new video is up now kzbin.info/www/bejne/nF7Le3auj9eob9E I really appreciate your support!

[@4rct1c9Ic3m4n]

5:46 "foreigners are expected to give money" If that stems from your experiences dealing with Filipinos, then I would say, you are definitely around the wrong kind of Filipinos.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @4rct1c9Ic3m4n ... You’re absolutely right-I myself know that NOT all Filipinos are like that. But to clarify, at that point in the video, I was actually discussing the well-known stereotype that foreigners are often expected to give money, and was not necessarily referring to all Filipinos nor was I saying that it’s always been my personal experience. I have had a few times that I choose not to expose, but I agree that it depends on the people and situations you’re around. Even many Filipinos warn about the potential of being asked or expected to give. Anyway, I just wanted to clarify. Thanks for your comment.

[@DataHoarders]

Hahahhahahahahaa I remember that song!!! Sheesh

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @DataHoarders ... Haha, right?! That song really takes you back! Love me some old school DC Talk! -thanks for watching!

[@kulitbara6680]

Life is to short do whatever u want to do as long us u happy 😂😂😂

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @kulitbara6680 ... Absolutely! Life’s too short not to enjoy it. Thanks for sharing that reminder!

[@TravelingTanga]

Some parts in the Philippines may like that, but if you come ever to Manila nine times out of 10 every Filipino here is going to be extremely cold. They are not open arms. They’re turning their shoulders at you and not looking at you in the eyes. They don’t want anything to do with foreigners.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @TravelingTanga ... I'm actually surprised you would say that. My experience in Manila was totally the opposite. I spent about a year there, and sure, not everyone stopped to talk necessarily, but I always found people friendly, "hello sir", "magandang umaga po", friendly saying hello or exchanging greetings in passing. At the Airbnb I stayed at, I was practically treated like family by the hosts, inviting me to eat with their family, singing karaoke, going to the market. That experience is part of the reason I love the Philippines. Anyway, it’s interesting how experiences can differ so much. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@TravelingTanga]

@@G5Philippines 🤣🤣. Because you paid them for the airbnb. Of course they are going treat you great. You funded the warm welcome and great hospitality. That how the culture is so toxic. Money talks!

[@G5Philippines]

​@@TravelingTanga ... yeah, I don’t agree with your assumptions, but in your defense, there's no way you could know the situation. That said, it’s not very nice to reduce an entire culture to a negative experience. I was treated kindly by people who had no reason to go out of their way for me, and it had nothing to do with my measly ₱800 per night. I respect that everyone’s experience is different, and I’m just sharing mine. Peace and Blessings!

[@GUITARTIME2024]

They'll accept all your money, dont worry. Lol

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @GUITARTIME2024 ... yes, that may be true, but I really wish to find a way to help them not to need to beg. The whole "teach a man to fish" thing. 😀

[@Cons2911]

You odontological have to give to everyone sir, it should be up to you. It’s nice to help from time to time but it’s not expected to help everyone. We don’t, and we’re locals.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @Cons2911 ... I totally agree! It’s important to help when it feels right, but it’s definitely not expected to give to everyone. It’s good to hear that even locals feel the same way. Thanks for your comment and perspective!

[@jamesgilbert2181]

begging is job lol i dont pay them because i didnt hire them

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @jamesgilbert2181 ... 😄yes, and I agree. I think for me, I just want to help them find a way out of that situation. It’s tough, but that’s where my heart is.

[@Midwest10]

I’m known as the one K man. Every Filipino I shake hands with I leave a P $1K note. Give back as they all need it. Don’t be a cheap Charlie here.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @Midwest10 ... That’s really AWESOME of you, that is your ministry! It's AMAZING that you’re able to make a difference in your own special way. Thanks for sharing!

[@andrewmorita8252]

This social acceptance thing is a two way street. I generally respect the laws, customs and culture of my host country but do I observe them generally no. I cherry pick my observant. When immigrants that come to the United States do not want to observe our holidays or if they want to celebrate something unique to their country I am not offended. If the locals get an attitude with me for not buying into their culture oh well, as long as I respect and decline in a respectful way go on my way.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @andrewmorita8252 ... I agree... showing respect to the culture, even if you don’t fully buy into it, is reasonable. And like you said, we respect other cultures in the U.S., so the same here, just show mutual respect and it's all good, or should be. 😄

[@diorocks5858]

I think your just trying to get a rise of people ( I Am wrong most of the time edited out of courtesy)

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @diorocks5858 ... No, I’m not trying to get a rise out of anyone, in fact my goal with all of my videos is just to offer what I have learned on my own, to hopefully give people knowledge that they can use to avoid 'getting a rise out of people'. 😄 I'm not an instigator, I'm a peacemaker.

[@diorocks5858]

I apologies, first came to Philippines in 84 and never had any issues apart from inflation. I am so protective of the culture here as I appreciate this is closer to heaven on earth then any other country I have been. I would suggest to anyone who can is to sponsor a child through school and all the fees. 200$ a month goes far.

[@G5Philippines]

@@diorocks5858 That is very kind of you, but you didn’t need to apologize. Honestly, I didn’t take your comment as negative at all. But I did want to clear up any confusion about my intentions. You know, when I first moved to the Philippines, I quickly realized how unique and wonderful this place is-just like you said, it really does feel like a special part of the world. And the idea of sponsoring a child through school? That’s something close to my heart too, because it’s such a meaningful way to give back. Thanks again for sharing that and for your support!

[@loq02_orig]

Yep you are absolutely right about street beggars, dont give them money instead give them food or just simply say NO.

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @loq02_orig ... I completely agree! I’ve found that giving food feels like a better way to help without encouraging the cycle. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@michaelfirestone7440]

I GET JOY, JOY OF WATCHING THE 'BEGGARS' EAT MY GIFTS IE. ICE CREAM CONES AT FAST FOOD RESTAURANTS. ♥ ESPECIALLY WHEN NOT ASKED FOR. BEEN THERE MANY MANY TIMES [HERE WITH MY ASAWA IN VEGAS] MJF2024

[@G5Philippines]

Hey there @michaelfirestone7440 ... Oh! I completely agree, There’s definitely joy in giving, especially when it’s unexpected, or they don't ask for it. I’m the same way, I'm just selective about who I give to. Thanks for sharing! Viva Las Vegas!!!

[@michaelfirestone7440]

@@G5Philippines FIRST NAME PLEASE

[@G5Philippines]

@@michaelfirestone7440 ... I go by G5 mostly, but my name is Gale. 🙂 Nice to meet'cha!