Social media has given men a false sense of value

[@Lionly-Fitness]

Powerful!

[@Thegogetter-o3p]

Biggest lesson: Don't listen to what women say. Observe what they do. She'll leave you for a guy with money.

[@EphraimAkoto]

There is an interview , whereby they hate gym guys but when asked the what man they want between and dad body and gym body, they go for the gym body.

[@danielmonyaka3605]

@@EphraimAkoto 🤣😂😂😂🤣

[@khutso_mbokane]

I sincerely sympathise with you on the kind of women you have encountered in this life. Love and healing. ✌️

[@snowy_sparkly9397]

The same thing that men say and do. He will leave you for a slay queen, and a girl who just wants to use him.

[@thandilemavuso]

😂😂😂

[@tumelothatedit3484]

Thanks

[@melodydito4723]

as c.s lewis once said "do not let your happiness depend on something you may lose"... this message is so so real. many men nowadays are just poor excuses of what a man should truly be. bhuti, YOUR POSSESSIONS SHOULD BE THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT YOU! these men have the right idea but their priorities are all the way backwards. empty vessels nje.

[@Healingson]

you can never lose your salvation in Christ

[@melodydito4723]

@@Healingson sifike nini kwi salvation ngoku? but you definitely can.

[@Peppaman1]

Sorry Sesi but like o letsi, which century r you living in

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

As a man, I'm grateful for keeping ME in check as well. You're OFFICIALLY an oracle for humanity (women and men). I'm teachable, so the more of these uplifting things about how to be better men the more of it.

[@asioevelyne]

Girl I just came across your channel and your work is commendable. There are not so many people out there that are boldly speaking about these things they way you are doing. So much wisdom in what you are saying.

[@DiscoveringBonkeb]

Most men think being a high value man is about having lots of money🚮.

[@Thegogetter-o3p]

It's true moc.

[@DiscoveringBonkeb]

@ lol okay

[@DiscoveringBonkeb]

@lol okay

[@lloydlebelo4623]

Not really I know of a guy who has a lot of money yet he is a deadveat father to his children.nothing high value with that​@@Thegogetter-o3p

[@simonmahlangu923]

Is it not?

[@jamesbradleydevomra9523]

this is evidence that there are still some good ones out there. the celebrities, trends and the media have polluted our minds w worldly desires and standards. stay growing your mindset Sihle, i loved this video.

[@SMCSMARTSNIPER]

You are something else Sihle. Society needs women like you.

[@eoabcm-emancipationofablac6823]

Working hard and making money is a mandatory requirement since we live in a matrix system. But it doesn't really equate to value, respect and genuine love. People shouldn't be measuring their entire value in life based on how many people they can outshine, what they own and what people think about them, but based on staying true to their values, beliefs, ideas, priorities, the quality of their thoughts and what is it of value you are adding in the community

[@sincerely_sphesihle]

It is soooo refreshing these days to see a young beautiful person standing on the truth. New Subby. Continue to stand on business. We must not compromise.

[@yamkelasn5029]

people rely on social media for external validation, seeking likes and comments as a measure of their worth♥️

[@MJG1017]

Wonderful 👌🏾 A Man value comes from his Character, principles, values, virtues , competence and capabilities, ability to protect and provide for himself and those around him and society as a whole.

[@SheCanSmile]

Yhu I'm still driving my Polo of 9yrs. And people with primary school and unemployment are asking me when I'm not buying a new car. I have so many other priorities and pocket watchers just don't get it.

[@melodydito4723]

as for "people with primary school"🤣🤣

[@Shadow_Blazer]

The red pill space has also given men a false sense of value telling them that money and status is what gives you value but it only gives you monetary value. Your true value is your character as a man, what kind of father are you going to be what kind of husband are you going to be and what kind of leader will you be to your family. Working hard for your bag is important, making sure you healthy and that you are a productive person in society is important but character is also very important. They say money will make you more of who you are and if you are a weak man an asshole and abuser when you get money you will become 10x that. So while you are working hard for that bag make sure you work hard on building your character as well

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

That's so true, RED PILL has given men a false sense of value. It made them to be vain (vanity).

[@Sihleeey]

Yes!

[@friend_in_Jesus]

Amen 🔥🤍👏🏽

[@SheCanSmile]

Today when you meet people it's like they run this social survey questionnaire by asking questions to determine your pockets.

[@sk_yellayow]

Thank you Sihle, I love and appreciate how bold and consistent you are. God bless you. To more health , wealth and prosperity ❤️

[@nkosimadlopha6294]

Straight as an Arrow, I love you Sihle. keep at it.

[@luvuyongubane3557]

This just gave 2 Corinthians 4 v 18 such a refreshing take. Thank you 🙏

[@Thegogetter-o3p]

Being a man is hard bro. It's a get rich or die trying kind of life. You have to be monied as a man like it or not.

[@zamambhele242]

I feel u broh 😢

[@khutso_mbokane]

It's the kind of women you're after. Your preferred type is the problem.

[@juniorngcobo]

Real talk

[@Projectfinderfee]

Painfully True 😔

[@malusimathaba4040]

Straight Fax

[@nosi.m44]

She’s been speaking her truth about women and the men were cheerleaders of the previous topics emphasising their admiration, now that she’s speaking her truth on the men, they no longer in agreement with her perspective. 😒

[@Sihleeey]

😂 this shows that they never agreed with anything I said. They were just happy that the message was for women. This message is no different to anything I have ever said, they just don’t believe it applies to them🤡

[@RizzMedalion]

Stop lying we still in agreement with her views, even more now cos most men aren't scared of being held accountable. Shuush!

[@nosi.m44]

@ Kushuthi ncese, kodwa-ke , bengikhuluma ngalaba who’ve left unkind comments down below, angazi’ke uma usungitshela ukuthi ngenzeni ngePhone yami.

[@RizzMedalion]

@@nosi.m44 Tseg

[@albaloyi9823]

@@Sihleeey so they are clowns?

[@phumlanindlovu5653]

holding us gents accountable, you cooked sis wam😭🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@MichaelElam2]

Simp

[@colorwrld4867]

yohh She cooked bruh! and as a man i've always felt this deep down

[@spijo_msa]

I honestly think at this point of time, it is hard to find a genuine woman who actually values you for who you are and not for what you have.

[@sifiso3950]

Honestly, Sihle, more than anything, I am glad there are still young women who can think the way that you do. Based on what we are mostly exposed to on social media every day and the way of thinking of most young people, it’s easy to lose hope. Even the Bible tells us that knowledge and wisdom are more valuable than material, and that was a piece of wisdom that I thought was lost in this generation. A good foundation is critical for future success; if there is one thing I can say with absolute certainty about you, is that your foundation is solid and that you have a beautiful future ahead of you. Some of us will always wish you everything of the best, and more than anything, I am glad you share your thoughts with the world.

[@OatileMoleka]

My sister you deserve alot i make sure i watch all your ads😅😅😅😅and i subscribed.The thing about today is that people want to leave life they earth way than the godly way.🎉

[@katMaahlamela]

Crazy enough, you remind me of Candace Owens. I love this type of content popping up on my feed.🤭

[@uchwepheshe]

Facts. Gents , there's more to being a man than having money and material possessions. This does attract ladies but there is more to you but are much more than what ladies think about you. There are men who think it's useless to do X because women don't appreciate it. Who cares what women appreciate?!! Take time to think about what would make your ancestors proud, your child proud of you. Honor, strength, knowledge, understanding, wisdom, being industrious. Don't reduce yourself to just a balance in a bank account!

[@MichaelElam2]

Blah blah women never appreciate those qualities. Cut it out

[@datboy_gabriel]

Bro is spittin FACTS!!!!

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

Forex (foreign exchange)is not going anywhere

[@sbonzama7013]

Haha, sheer ignorance!

[@tsweloo]

Forex fluctuates hence it can be “gone” through losses made on movements not that forex as an investment option can be “gone”..she didn’t say don’t invest, she said don’t place value in things that are here today but can be gone tomorrow because in as much as you can profit from a forex movement today you can experience a loss on it tomorrow.

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

@tsweloo you sound stupid bro, How can currencies be gone ? Forex is the currency exchange rates due to the countries economy

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

@@tsweloo next time do research before replying on something you don't have an idea on

[@tsweloo]

@@4ORCE_NLM1 research indicates that “Forex, or foreign exchange, trading is the process of exchanging one currency for another based on their current rates. The main way to make money in forex is to accurately predict currency price movements”..so I’m a bit perplexed by your comment..please do educate me.

[@Nokukhanya.Khumalo]

Girl you hit the spot, firstly congratulations on the growth and monetization of your channel, you're doing amazing work in the body of Christ. Keep flourishing👏 This message should be common sense but common sense is a flower that does not grow in everybody's garden in today's society. These are behaviours we witnessed even in high school but the difference is that we are adults now but the mindset has not changed. Character will take us further than materialistic possessions and it's true that if something can be stolen from you or perish it's not valuable. The things that make a human being valuable are internal. When you mentioned forex, I immediately thought of Sandile the forex trader who unalived Karabo Mokoena. If a person would measure his value from a materialistic perspective, he would a man of very high value because of his lifestyle and outward appearance. But his character? He probably was making so many loses in his trading and resorted to abusing his partner because of his weak character. He placed his value on what he has over who he is a person. If you removed all his wealth there's absolutely nothing positive or of sentimental value. Spread the truth my girl❤️👏

[@SheCanSmile]

Dr Nandipha left it all for a convicted criminal. Her 2md Xmas behind bars without her kids, hubby, fam. Women want the smoke sometimes.

[@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok]

@she. 😲

[@syathokozahlophe9011]

This is soo true and sad at the same time...most women wanted the life and the family she had all for her to leave it all for a criminal.

[@tshepisosoetsane4857]

You are raising good topics i am your subscriber also now

[@LetsDoSocialWork]

Women naturally gravitate towards men with possessions and the qualities of being a provider and being generous. Of course you judge men who are superficial in the way they handle their wealth and possessions to attract women, but that's what we men are naturally aware of. I'd encourage anyone reading this to purchase and read a book called the Evolution of Desire: The strategy of human mating by Dr. David M. Buss.

[@malusimathaba4040]

Forex aint going nowhere DARLING😂 Koze kubuye iJUDA

[@ashleythedesigner]

Eish, to each their own my sister 🙏🏾❤️. Thanks for the insight 🙌🏾

[@sifisosibandze1220]

Keep soaring Sista. You are a model to be emulated morally.

[@fanex-p5d]

So much wisdom and Beauty. Always learning from you as a man.

[@Sihleeey]

Thank you 🥰

[@anomorales]

praying this mindset is seen a lot more throughout the country

[@nthatisimphale]

Subbie from Lesotho here...🇱🇸 KZbin partnership doesn't exist in my country, so ads don't play But I'm very proud of you❤❤. I pray this community continues to grow ❤

[@GearzMonkey]

The desire for men to attain status by acquiring material value and possessions is a secondary manifestation of a man's desire to have dominion and control. When men seek to "rule the world", sinful desires such as the pride of life (wanting people to see you as significant i.e. a grootman) and lust run rampant through the man - reference: 1 John 2:16. This is why the only way to have abundant prosperity but refrain from being corrupted by worldliness is to submit yourself to the Lord, Jesus Christ, be led by the Holy Spirit and love God with all of your being. Live to please God and not ourselves.

[@okuhlentolosi]

she needs to be protected , at all cost❤

[@litchi63]

Well said 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@friend_in_Jesus]

Psalm 34 : 9 - 10 (NIV) "Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry ,but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. " Yasss gurl 💯👏🏽, keep rising and glorifying the name of the Lord 🙌🏼💕!!!

[@obakeng_k]

Congratulations!! 🤗🤗 More abundant wealth and opportunities to you and your channel! Oh, and to the most beautiful weaves

[@mindtech1979]

I love Your Channel..all the best...God bless

[@NongceboNtshingila]

You know what Sihleeey Your content is everything to mee God keep on blessing you we need more people like you in this planet we living in❤

[@Sihleeey]

Thank you 🥰

[@mm3memes]

Oh no all the broke men crying here 🤣 Advice for every men: WORK HARD!! The world has no mercy for broke men. 👉🏽 Stop complaining and work.

[@malusimathaba4040]

😂😂😂preach

[@MpilonhleSibiya-i6e]

True value is in the spirit

[@GnA_000]

7:00 who are these people dangling their car keys??😂😂😊

[@Naks608]

Men, please focus on grinding hard. Figure out the rest after. They talk right & go left

[@kaarinaMoongo]

Grinding hard does not stop one from keeping their values, The 2 things are not mutually exclusive.

[@Naks608]

@@kaarinaMoongo As if a woman today cares about a bum that talks values & morals.

[@zoebulle9102]

Congratulations on the monetization!! Also your video came up on my fyp so the algorithm is pushing you out !! I agree with your nuanced take, I like hardworking people even in my friendships and having material wealth doesn't bring anything to a friendhsip. We all want support and friends and partners who encourage us to put in the work with our goals. I think most sane women look for disciplined men with good values

[@Sihleeey]

Yeeees 👏🏽👏🏽

[@juicy_aesthetic_artist2844]

Truth. 🎉❤

[@VictorMashilo-y3y]

As a 20 year old i started learning about investments and trading 2 year's back and i was in it for the money but now its a about self improvement cause im motivated to gym,to learn different skills and to prioritize my self...the escape the matrix concept help me to push myself to the best version i can be and im not even done,the value won't be the moneys and all the material things i gained,the value will be how i got here.

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

You don't know what it feels to be a man 👍🏼

[@givenmabussi]

In a world filled with instant gratification and superficiality being king, I as a young man want character & integrity in Christ. We're so tied to the idea that we need to constantly chase wealth in order to receive appeasement and approval from those externally. Thank you so much for this, you're a great source for reproof & accountability.

[@nknthatguy4704]

Men just focus on improving yourselves and on your path. Stop listening to fish for fishing advice.

[@cr3t3b0y]

damn Mei sister❤️😩you are speaking

[@Laylls]

I'll definitely watch the ads.

[@monkeydluffy736]

Society is on a steep decline.

[@inno4035]

you are so beautiful girl, and the message you deliver even makes you more and more beautiful, just bumped into your videos for the first time today the 30 Nov 2024, u have gained a subscriber, luv uuu❤❤

[@SheCanSmile]

Facts.

[@spacecontrolsco4415]

We work so hard to retire in a young age 🤷🏾‍♂️ working is boring

[@badge5575]

It's boring if you working a job you hate 😊

[@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok]

@space...yes,boring & exhausting 😢

[@SheCanSmile]

Omg imagine being judged for a flammable dusty ass wig 😂😂😂.

[@SheCanSmile]

A man that has his money and who can manage his biological inclinations. That's the prize. Along with sound character and godly consciousness.

[@dare2be520]

🙌

[@zamamadikizela8025]

Money is the lowest form of power

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

Okay stay broke then 👍🏼, you'll settle for a woman with 4 kids that are not yours . You'll be a step father with that mindset

[@zamamadikizela8025]

@SOLUTION_PROVIDER you sound angry, you didn't understand my point but you rushed to insult me.

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

@@zamamadikizela8025 the was no insult but facts , If you're a man you know very well what broke man deal with in the daily basis in this modern society.... How are you supposed to provide as a man if you don't have money? Exactly

[@zamamadikizela8025]

@@4ORCE_NLM1 Okay Andrew Tate wannabe. You know it all don't you ?

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

@@zamamadikizela8025 Okay feminist I see you

[@endmoore]

Congrats 🎉

[@kokutantozoge]

Well said❤

[@zamamadikizela8025]

Preach Girl

[@Lungile_Mkwane]

I sent him this

[@waynedesigner7955]

most of what was said is very true...what i have a problem with is the investing part. nobody invests in something or someone that doesnt bring value in return. funding your business is risky for men in this modern day society. why dont you invest in what I got going on because ultimatly we both going to benifit whereas you thinking that me funding your business will help me? that wont happen and you know that. woman dont make providing for my husband financially a priority which is the exact opposite for men.

[@nelliemonii]

Don't forget to like and subscribe guys! The world needs to see these truths.

[@camerongriek9784]

Isaiah 58:1 “The Lord says, “Shout out loud. Don’t hold back. Shout out loud like a trumpet. Tell the people about the things they have done against God. Tell the family of Jacob about their sins.” ‭‭ Shout out loud Sihley! Continue doing your works. Churches are scared to preach about such!

[@YonelaSimani]

Congratulations on the monetization of your channel they're now watching the "pick me" elevating😅 Your content needs to reach as many ears as possible it is powerful & informative❤️

[@Sihleeey]

Thank you 🥰

[@Healingson]

I gave my life to Jesus and the peace and happiness that i have received from knowing the father and building a deep and intimate relationship with him can't be compared to anything on this earth. I pray that more men come to know and experience this love that can't be taken away from you by man. Beautiful video my sister in Christ may you keep doing the Lord's will and congratulations on your monetization

[@palesaradebe-bz4qu]

No thank you for your wisdom and content it is highly appreciated

[@YETI_312]

Now this here just got you a sub. You a real one❤

[@sbonzama7013]

How can Forex be "gone"? Do you understand what Forex is?

[@mfanelomfanelo5224]

😂 Hell no, I wonder if this women will still have this mentality if she was super beautiful like in a 10 scale. Money and beauty run the modern era where we like it or not even in the families.

[@leratomohakana]

I love love love your content not only because you speak your truth but also because you're being real and truthful to yourself, that is so commendable and inspiring

[@h.mashy.n]

Let those who have ears hear and those who hear take heed.

[@individual-24]

12:47 🎶 here's my story I blew iiiit🎶

[@danielnwoke4274]

I get that you're saying character is far more valueable than material wealth but you're also saying that you want the materials just from a man who can re-acquire what he loses because you can then find security in his provision. Which isn't saying we as men have a false sense of value but that for some, they haven't understood the entirety of a mans value and think they can take short cuts. Second part: these standards of value didn't come from social media it came from who women entertain and pursue in mass. Even the #1 reason for divorce here is finances. We agree about what we find valuable but I find the message a little unclear.

[@nduzuma4101]

My fohloza ✨️

[@nhlandijack]

Lol ay Sihle😂Tell them wena!! It’s like I’m looking at a mirror. Well done 🫡

[@Deed0n70]

Le nkulumo inamandla 🗿💪

[@I_am_buckets]

The glaze in these comments is madness. Women always read men terribly, Sihle here isn’t wrong about what she’s saying but men don’t view material things as value. Look at it at this light in order for a person to accumulate all the cars, the money and the houses they would need to be valuable somewhere in order for to get these things. I think the main problem Sihle has here is men that use their what they’ve earned to try and get woman and it’s understandable caused that the person she is, unfortunately not every woman is Sihle and that’s why things like this still happen

[@nosizweTT]

Wisdom right there my lady

[@reelredemptionGroupTv5315]

Thanks sis

[@malusimathaba4040]

My Advice to Young Men go get your Money and live life

[@4ORCE_NLM1]

I disagree with you on your other points , but some i agree with you.

[@loose_gain]

so sis wam would you date a petrol attendant?

[@clementjoymasinamela4244]

Men should NEVER invest in girlfriends ONLY in their wives. But otherwise I like your initiative, keep reading the bible, learning more and teaching women righteousness. If you want men to learn too, I suggest you look for a upright God fearing man to come here and there to teach men how to be righteous husbands. Thanks.

[@Hebringslight]

Wise words not everyone will understand! the kybalion says "milk for babes,meat for strong men".

[@mr.blackzonrackz7055]

Preach mbokodo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Kant we still have girls who think like this

[@Sihleeey]

🥰

[@SheCanSmile]

Women put themselves under such unnecessary pressure wrt makeup, hair, outfits etc. I get it's NB but really you don't need to center your whole life and identity on that. This aesthetics economy is becoming a pandemic. People are going bald, alopecia, nails damaged, foundation not matching complexions, those wig lines that look like dirt on a bath tub after washing. Just for looks.

[@malusimathaba4040]

Money answereth everything, even the Book of Fairly Tales(the bible) says so!😂😂

[@CanOfCalmJuice]

Many men will watch this and believe "oh flip she's right, I don't need money"... well guess what buddy, you're still miserable. while she's begging you to watch ads to get the same money she's saying you shouldn't stress about.

[@FromSinner2Saved]

She didn’t say men shouldn’t get or have money, she said men shouldn’t attach their value to money… men should also have comprehension skills hle.

[@nnzulu183]

You completely missed the point

[@mutakulimudzunga3704]

I think you have a Listening issue

[@sinqobilemhlongo8813]

sihle ? my dear ndyakuthanda mna.

[@enoqq]

It's not business-like to beg people to watch the ads

[@nahandambambonduna4945]

❣❣❣

[@someoneelse1895]

"are you happy? Please!" 😂