The feminisation of men through “funny and cute” relationship content

[@pros97]

That "POV" sound caught off guard. I don't just find you agreeable, I think you're funny too 😂😂😂😂😍😍

[@wongamalucas3084]

“Take your manhood seriously” 🏆 Men,set boundaries. Don’t be bullied! Be a man!

[@jozi2bozi_Media]

I'm a straight male and you are spot on 🎯

[@mphokutoane4879]

LOL you did that "POV" voice so well. Sounded just like the tiktok lady

[@NazatoBlueTamaki]

The way you explained this made so much sense and you have really opened up my eyes on how society subtly attacks Masculinity. Here I was thinking:" It's not that deep. It's for the sake of my daughter." God bless you Sihle and keep up the good work fr.🙏❤❤

[@nompumelolo]

your daughter needs a masculine man. Her mother will be the feminine presence she needs

[@prettylil.flower]

​@@nompumelolo wow thats a real good take❤

[@ZintleNoko-x1g]

"hes a good man Savannah" 😂😂😂😂😂 You can send😂😂😂

[@mvikelidlamini4421]

Sihle! Something tells me that you come from a good home.

[@bigbearpodcast]

Thank you for this. Sadly you are the only content crreator i know from SA spreading this message. Keep pushing sis.

[@1lekelela]

Ladies and gentlemen "that is nonsense "😂

[@allKetso]

Savage😂😂

[@mosesjack4721]

You go girl! Shout out to you for voicing your thoughts out

[@aolebogwemogotsi8016]

Love this! You hit the nail in the head Sihle🎯

[@amanijulia]

On a lighter note, the “bhod” is so real 😭😭😭😭

[@metak.527]

Very FELT sana 😭😭

[@INFJ_Terez]

I'm from 🇳🇦...the online feminisation hasn't spilled over to Our country yet ..but like amapiano and South African television it's just a matter of time...Great video 👍🏾

[@zulu9357]

Thank you nkosazana ❤

[@bhekifaradebe7928]

Waze wabatshela iqiniso 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Khuluma ngane yangakithi!!!

[@lunganisgananda7758]

No lie detected, facts only...🔥💯

[@JeromeRJansen]

You remind me of Candace Owens Never give up of speaking the truth

[@Kwazeemodo100]

Been waiting for someone to talk about this, thought I was the only one seeing this.

[@Sibu_C-Dee]

so sad how modern men are simping so much, they're really weakened, no spine..manhood has alot of weak links..thank you Sihleeey for getting these things out there while we dont have a platform we will support you

[@philaninzuza]

Much respect for what you say & stand for...your're a gem.

[@Chis_Choice]

“It’s either you learn or you perish” Sihle and bars 🤞

[@princemoroe7749]

Ausi, I concur.

[@MmaMohau]

Well said❤

[@percyondatube]

This is a great explanation of this trope! 📝

[@mncedisimlotshwa6469]

Either you learn or you perish. I like that

[@PrimeArtsStudioPodcast]

Yooooh Sihle you are a blessing to this nation...

[@Iamnotddb]

Keep doing The Lords work .

[@bongisiphomntambo9026]

Real talk!!

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

The Solomon's wisdom... how did it come about; I wonder.

[@knomadicstone7348]

Ey guys...all I'm hearing is facts. 🔥🔥🔥

[@travelandtourism1-s2b]

Spot on!

[@allKetso]

"nonsense" 😂😂😂

[@GossiphiveEnt]

POV babe can I do your makeup 😭😭😭

[@thatometsing3569]

My gosh... I have been cringing lately with some male youtubers. Straight men, who have a adopted this self-deprocating humour. Like i'm going to imply i'm gay or imply i'm pathetic or i'm useless but only as a joke, haha, its just for laughs. It's supposed to signify that they're so comfortable and confident that they don't mind being the butt of the joke, but i feel like its another branch of what you are talking about here. And it's a type of "comedy" only found in male creators. I'm always thinking how emasculating it is. It's exactly what you are saying, it's stripping themselves of that masculine dignity and presenting men as fools. Like an example "i don't like cream in my mouth, except if its from the homies, 😉 😉" or "I tell myself that every night, before i cry myself to sleep 😉😉" And i'm there like.... dude. I completely hear you, its not cool to have that butch confidence or demeanour in 2024.

[@QhayiyaCobo-ts9me]

That is funny though. The comments are always funny.

[@melodydito4723]

this!! it’s not funny or quirky at all!

[@Londeka6862]

AMAZING!!! THANK YOU.

[@iamsoul_za]

4:04 I never understood this. Like, there's a way to have a relationship with your daughter as a man without having to cross dress.

[@phephanistephenmbele9627]

I stayyyyy learning from you, I really hope one day I can actually meet you and have these chats fr fr

[@sirk3690]

Thank You

[@leviconspiracies]

TikTok in China is different, They dont allow nonsense.

[@Goblin_dcreator]

This that real sh!t !!

[@Sbongakonke02]

good points Sihle. you're fast mawkhuluma ey, just slow down

[@lehumohowardmotaung7499]

Good point, these men are being emasculated under the guise of laughter.. And this is prevalent in relationships where the woman has sensed weakness in the man and capitalises on it

[@kabelomodisane1431]

see wena... keo rata because you keep it funky!!!

[@anthonymakhubu9225]

Straight homosexuals 😓😓

[@mongezitshwane1027]

you need to be protected

[@Throttle_Wrist_Adventures]

Candace Owens

[@bassoniatv]

am now a subscriber

[@thabisomakhobalo750]

Since ke o bona on konvo le Pen and this is my second time. Keep on telling the truth and questioning.

[@nahandambambonduna4945]

Facts 💯

[@Melo7_Melody]

❤good content

[@metak.527]

''It's time for us to wake up as Africans and stop adopting these stupid ideologies from the West''!!! Say it louder for the people in the back please !!!

[@TumeloMokwena]

We need to ask them “eh chief you are geh, why are you geh????”

[@tumweonlycommentary2797]

Their men who are flamboyant and aren't gay😮. It's like a woman who chooses to be a tomboy does it make her lesbian.

[@sphumelelesijadu]

It actually isn't that deep bro, chill.😂😂 How people live their lives is not a prescription on how you should live yours. 😅 Also, these videos wouldn't go viral if people didn't want to watch them. Calm down babes the world will remain in one piece, trust me 🤞😂

[@Gangster-y9m]

You don't understand the purpose of the video

[@Gangster-y9m]

It is that deep no straight should feminise himself

[@ezrayasharahla9672]

Good evening my sister, inspiring indeed already reminding me of our foremothers (Deborah Judges 5:9 kjv). Which men will offer themselves to protect their dignity? In reference to the message that our sister is outlining here.

[@artsbysbu4938]

💯💯

[@mihlemakapela]

You 👁 and I hope they don't cancel you.

[@TumeloMokwena]

Sihle is not endorsed by anyone, therefore uncancelable.

[@mihlemakapela]

@TumeloMokwena the elites will, I'm not talking about what you saying... She knows Sihle who I'm talking about but she won't be canceled❤️💎

[@Riverwan312]

​@@TumeloMokwena Reminds me of Matt Rife. Uncanceable!!

[@OsKaRR]

Learn or Perish

[@sandilesandile3237]

Iqiniso nje lelo

[@sokhana_bro]

💯

[@tebogomoloto2387]

🔥🔥🔥

[@luvuyonomana5571]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@tebogomoloto2387]

If u start trending a lot... im sure KZbin will start deleting ur posts 🤞🏼

[@tumweonlycommentary2797]

Their creative people like the Wayans and their people who become comedic influencers and are trying to survive...as in they act like their female friends, mothers etc ..that doesnt make them gay, unless you privately know that person ... Plus one would argue. Is it wrong for me to be gay, and how does it affect you? People acting on social media is nothing knew...if its entertaining and their providing for themselves whomst am I to judge 👩‍⚖️ them.

[@mphokutoane4879]

Watch the video again and listen carefully to the points being made, not your own thoughts.

[@YoukneeVerse24]

Yeah it was all fun and games (just as a once off joke) but now it makes me cringe.....i just skip that type of content. When a person states what you are pointing out bazothi you are a hater and clearly not their target content consumer.

[@BillySehurutshe-bh4je]

😂😂😂😂

[@K00LZ.C0M]

Gender roles are VERY important.

[@justkiingza3928]

DOPE BUT THIS IS LOOKING LIKE A BEAURTY CHANNEL STOP THE CHOPPING UP AFTER LINES YOU SAY LET IT FLOW THAT CHOPPINF STYLE WORKS BEST FOR TIKTOK OR BEAUTY CHANNELS