Solo Female Vanlife | A Chill Day Turns CREEPY

Thankfully this isn't what a typical day in my van looks like, BUT it is a reality every now and then, unfortunately. Gotta stay super aware out there ugh!
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[@strangedaysdiaries]

Hi all! Thank you so much for all your kind comments and concerns! This is the first time I’ve gotten anything like this on camera and wanted to share my experience with you all. I’ve been getting some comments by someone claiming that this man is a local in the area and is an old man (like a grandpa) but I want everyone to know that he was NOT old and was NOT a grandpa by any means. He was in his mid 30’s at best. And made me nervous by tailgating me all the way up there, heavily staring, leaving then coming back, only leaving when I exited my vehicle so he could fully see me, etc. (as I explain in the video). I made sure not to film him in order to protect his identity but I now feel I maybe should have. Not sure. But I just wanted to clarify this. Thank you for listening.

[@whydontyouaskme]

It’s a creepy doorDasher, probably mad you cut him off or some dumb road rage.

[@Riverrat720]

Ma'am, I can so relate to you, especially owning a truck. That's a heavy duty 8100 that is, compared to the diesel. Power stroke that I can get 9 to 13 miles if I'm Lucky.

[@Riverrat720]

This is the first video of yours i've ever watched but keep us updated ma'am please if you don't mind

[@jujugypsyjourney3826]

You were very justified in your observations and deductions. Always trusting your instincts is the only way to be as a solo female. It is hard not to be when it is a way of life and safety as you travel this way. This has been this way absolutely forever! I’ve traveled solo all my adult life with few exceptions. What’s nice now as a gray haired seasoned old lady I’ve become invisible pretty much no longer an enticing younger woman. How sweet it is but I still get this from the old men but trust my instincts. If it feels creepy it is creepy. It’s part of being a woman period & intensified when out & about solo. Reality is what it is in spite of illusions of equality. Reaction justified! I hate it haunted you for the rest of your day off but that too was justified ~ 👍💕✌️🌻

[@AlysianahNoire]

Next time if you think you’re being followed don’t lead them to your true destination. Head to police station or other densely populated spot. Or head to a woman’s only store where they’re unlikely be bold enough to go in like a nail salon. Stay safe.

[@RiverRoamFree]

Totally agree, don't ever lead someone to where you are going to be over night. Also noted she stated she had to come down there and turn around he could have blocked her in. Even just pulling into a convenience store and seeing if he still follows you. Safety should always be first and heck yah if I was nervous about his presence, he would be on camera the whole time.

[@gracieg7601]

Yes not taking his pic is not good. Take his pic. Take a pic of his license plate too. Let him know you know he’s there. You’ve got his plate and pics of him!

[@RiverRoamFree]

Always go with your gut, the only thing I would say is if you do think he is sketchy during the day keep your curtains open so you can see him and what he is doing. I noticed a lot of women do what you did but you want to keep an eye on him. He has the advantage if you obstruct your view of him. Also, creeps look for signs of weakness in women, do not show weakness even if you are nervous keep your wits about you. If he was interested in doing something he will come back at night when you will be at your most vulnerable. Have your safety weapons within reach or on your body.

[@Ronni.M]

Never, ever lead someone to where you are going!

[@sherried79]

So true, as women we get creepers constantly. And, it happens when you live in sticks and bricks as well. You're smart so just remain that way. Lol the mother in me had to say that of course. 😊 Can't wait to see your renovations! Happy trails!

[@mommygarcia9137]

What A Weirdo ! I would also find another place to sleep at ! He might go back there at night ! Be safe girl ! New subbie here !

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Thanks for subbing! And this is a day use spot only- no overnights.

[@shane.s-747]

Going with your gut is such a good thing to do, always go with your gut. No one needs to know but I hope you carry some kind of a personal protection device. I am so sorry you had to deal with that, I'm a dad with a daughter and being aware of your surroundings is a must this day and age. Love your channel, have a great tomorrow and see ya next time.😊

[@teresap.5991]

Just a little tip. Instead of water, put white vinegar in the spray bottle. It kills bacteria, cuts grease, leaves every thing shiny and clean! I use it on my counters and stove, sinks, you name it. Great vlog. Happy the creep didn't actually have a chance to do anything.

[@tundrawomansays694]

It also makes a great weapon-don’t dilute it and make sure your spray trigger works *well.*

[@juliebelize4285]

So glad the creeper left and that you played safe. What a goregeous area. Love todays vlog, like all the others. Enjoy your days ~

[@strangedaysdiaries]

It is suuuch a gorgeous spot!

[@CRACKANOODLE_RECORDS]

Who gives a shit. It will happen again and again and again and it will never stop there are 9 billion people in the world you don’t matter

[@areldia225]

Future take license plates and photos.

[@kimhannan5897]

No, you're not being too sensitive. Always trust your instincts, they're there to keep you safe. Take care. Thanks for sharing.

[@GenaralZod]

I see so many van lifers on my travels and I want to talk to them and ask about their van or their experiences. But I feel weird approaching them. In 3 years I have only talked to 2 or 3 male van lifers and only had 1 person ask about my van. I would not approach females because I don't want them to feel uncomfortable. Hopefully he just spotted you as a VL'er and was curious. Stay Safe

[@strangedaysdiaries]

I’m sure he was just curious but ya never know! In my opinion if people are interested in vanlife then they should go to a van meetup or an overland expo or something because then EVERYONE at the event is happy to talk about the lifestyle!

[@shawniemar]

I’ve had strong gut feelings ever since I was a kid and someone I knew from that time told me to ALWAYS trust your gut instinct. Never ever ignore it.

[@nannysquid4982]

Always go with your gut feeling...cause it's always right

[@imperfectmoments]

Thanks for another great video! I loved your camera and the photos you took. You're not wrong about the dude...we're taught as women to give people the benefit of the doubt when we shouldn't. I'm glad you kept an eye on him & left that spot for your safety. Stay safe aways and I look forward to your next video ;)

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Aw thanks so so much!

[@Postitnews2024]

I agree 100 percent with you, the man was odd and you let him know you were watching him so he did not act and try and come up to you, but sitting and watching you in his auto is creepy on your travels you know how to listen to your gut instinct and in this case, I think you handled this like a pro. The dude was a weirdo and you are aware of that so you are going to have a fun day and keep us all posted on odd encounters, like this one, gave many women the chills.

[@bebas1080]

Can you do a vlog of when you hit up the grocery store and what you buy yourself to eat ?

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Sure!

[@KelseaBellwood]

Have awesome adventures. Be safe.

[@ladyd6772]

Stay safe out there in those streets girl!

[@lordlockdown64]

Good luck out there, be safe.

[@YourWorcesterGirl]

Always take note of their plate number. It's enough information for the police to investigate if anything goes sideways.

[@tonyaburroughs3349]

Looked like he brought his dog up there & decided to get out & walk his dog around before he left. I do that sometimes too. Take my dog in road trips & when I get to where I'm going if she's still asleep in the seat, I wait for her to wake up before we get out.

[@backisayback5147]

I think he used the dog as a way to make it look less suspicious.

[@tonyaburroughs3349]

@backisayback5147 I sure hope people don't think that about me whem I'm about with my dogs.

[@ronforrestjr2493]

Just be careful, ya never know what people are up to these days. You did right by keeping an eye on that creepy guy. always trust your gut feelings 💯. anyways loved watching it,thanks for sharing 😊

[@juneandrews9163]

who else besides me at 11:13 think that was him walking towards her? I was like telling you "look up" like you could hear me🥺

[@SJNL11279]

I found you through this video and love your rig/home, looks so cozy

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Hey, thanks so much! Means a lot!

[@roadtripwarriors7458]

Glad your situation with the creeper turned out OK. You know what you are doing. Follow your instincts and always engage in "situational awareness". The technical aspects of your videos, and your delivery, are awesome. I believe the majority, if not all, of you video recording is on a cell phone. Do you also do your editing on your cellphone or do you use a laptop? Your voiceovers are so clear. I know I had mentioned it before but I am impressed at the quality of your content. I am learning from you so when we do start posting on our channel, the quality will be as good as yours. Safe travels!

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Aw thanks so much! For now I film everything on my phone and I edit on Adobe Rush on my phone!

[@roadtripwarriors7458]

@@strangedaysdiaries Thanks for the reply! We film using a variety of cameras; GoPro, cell phone camera, Sony Handycam, Panasonic Lumix S5, Dash Cam and drone (we had most of this gear already). For editing, we use Davinci Resolve. With all that, your videos look great just using your cell phone! I will look into the Adobe Rush that you mentioned. Safe travels!

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Wow you’ve got quite the setup! I’m a minimalist at heart and don’t love a bunch of gear which is another reason why I prefer filming on my phone. Also- I don’t think I could get as many angles in my tiny space if I shot on anything bigger than a phone or GoPro which is another pro to the phone. But thanks again for all the compliments!

[@Abena_Goddess87]

So someone follows you, and you go straight to your destination. I hope this was just for views. Nothing about this video was smart.

[@Riverrat720]

Ma'am, I can so relate to you, especially owning a truck. That's a heavy duty 8100 that is, compared to the diesel. Power stroke that I can get 9 to 13 miles if I'm Lucky.

[@sparkleplenty6735]

That is not normal definite weird vibes.. Be safe😊❤

[@TheLyricah]

I hope you got his plate number….. also you should get him on video, standing there, just staring at you. Very creepy. Please be safe ❤

[@sandybeebee6511]

I'm the same way with food, I'm also a picky person and I only like what I like so when I find something I like I binge on it till I move on to something else. And I'm not a person that likes to cook or a foodie I really only eat out of necessity lol

[@nisagomez4366]

I'm an SF nomad and I go to all the places you went to in this video. There really are some super gorgeous spots on the coast. I found a new free outdoor gym on the south side of Lake Merced, So cool to work out at a beautiful lake. Anyways, stay safe from the creepers!

[@whydontyouaskme]

I never see anyone use it, but everyone is always jogging and running there.

[@nisagomez4366]

@@whydontyouaskme people are using it when I’m there. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@orlandobabe]

The same thing happened to me a year ago, I was just turning in my neighborhood and this white pickup truck followed me right in. Thank God I listened to my gut and drove by my house and circled around my neighborhood. The dude was still following me till he gave up and drove out of my hood. I rushed to my sister's (who lives in the same hood as me). I am scared to trust cops so I panicked and wondered who can I call in situations like mine? Keep your guard up and listen to your gut.

[@goslowdownnow]

Stay safe out there! You can never be too cautious

[@djb7490]

You can never be too cautious .I just started subscribed your channel. Stay safe

[@missmesoon]

I 100% believe when you made the accidental eye contact with him he thought you were propositioning him for sex. As creepy as that thought is , theres been a whole study on how often men misread social cues. Not that you look like youre a sex worker but anyone could be and I think especially with the van this man thought you propositioned him for sex and was trying to lead him to a secluded area for the act. But once you didnt leave I think he was trying to scope out if you were alone to approach. It takes very little to make men think they have an invitation to approach, its a reality of being a woman and one of the reasons i avoid direct eye contatct with strangers. Be careful , do not just stay there no matter how much you think you dont want someone to ruin your peace, i dont think youre peace is worth you be unalived.

[@jo100]

Be Safe Out There, My Friend, Because There Are A Lot Of Creepy People In This World 🌎 For Real, Weather It’s A Man Or A Woman To.

[@Jewelsquiss]

I would suggest filming anyone you find suspicious or have a feeling about. Just because you filmed them doesn't mean you have to show them to the world, Edit that part out, but just incase you need that video for the police. 😊❣️ also a front facing camera (and/or side, rear facing) for driving, etc...would be handy for accidents or other reasons like keeping an eye on someone while staying invisible to them. 😊❣️

[@XfireKeenmike]

“do you have a boyfriend?” whatever answer you give they close the distance just to get closer to you.

[@renee1503]

Absolutely not wrong to pay attention and be aware. Stay safe. ❤

[@nicoleofnowhere8842]

You weren't unrealistic at all about the guy tailing you. His behavior was completely creepy. I would've considered leaving the location even after he was gone, except there seemed to be a good amount of other people coming and going.

[@kristendominique5554]

Maybe keep a note in your journal describing any incidents with detail including the license plate number if possible.

[@Girlwithapinkjeep]

You know what… just saying you’ll never switch to EV has me hitting the subscribe button. BTW, people suck sometimes.

[@christiangonzalez225]

Hi I am new to the channel great video I enjoy it 😊

[@lupegarrison1577]

That is good that you watch your surroundings at all times. Be safe god bless. Take care yourself.

[@Vontress]

Incense matches?!! My God, I need those! .😊.

[@waffelsmellgood]

Yeah that’s weird.

[@luisjrp8028]

It's Great you have you Radar on, Bot de neurótik mode Keep off, congrats

[@SpunkeyMonkeys]

I think u handled that creepy sitch correctly. Stay safe👍👍

[@momohead35]

Why are you showing us your license plate?? If someone wants to stalk they will.

[@bdmenne]

I love my egg sandwiches with shredded cheese, sriracha + mayo. With light toasted bread. Nice Astro

[@TheKookyKennedys]

My husband and I sometimes just park somewhere and do nothing just to get out the house lol. We don't have money to do anything and we don't have many couple friends to hang with so I wonder how many people thought we were creepers lol

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Aw I’m sure nobody thought you guys were creepers! I see mannnyyy folks just hanging out in their rigs at beautiful lookout spots and don’t think anything of it.

[@Bigcat624]

Just came across your channel, I hope the creepy guy didn’t come. I will tell you what I tell my daughters if someone is following you don’t drive home; drive to the police station. And get as much information as you can about them like, license plate, make, and model of the car color, a description of them if you can, how many people were in the car. when you notice them at first and how long they have been following you. Stay safe, I’m a new subscriber 😊

[@lorirugato6463]

I agree with-Never ever go to your destination when someone is following you, go to police station! You should think about getting a dog at a rescue ❤

[@aMinivanLife]

Do you film with your phone? Looking for inspiration since I wanna start vlogging my van life too but I'm a lil insecure haha

[@strangedaysdiaries]

You should do it! I’ve gained so much confidence being in front of the camera because I forced myself to “just do it”! And yeah I only use my phone!

[@jamesyahn]

I have had this happen to me as well and I am a male. Eventually I went for a walk outside of the van and the man approached me and just said he liked my van and wondered if he could ask a couple questions about VanLife. I said sure and he turned out to be pretty cool. Who knows about that guy… heck, it could have just been a coincidence, who knows for sure.

[@heatherlucero2530]

ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUTT!!!

[@stevenruiz3836]

Where can I get that for the coffee dran thing please let me know

[@strangedaysdiaries]

The pour over or the Stanley I heat the water in?

[@myriampierre7315]

I think you should put latched inside your van doors mace scary mask tazer etc. Take picture of his license plate give it to police tell them he was following you it may deter him from doing that to dome other female. Record him But if you feel uncomfortable leave.

[@tundrawomansays694]

Get a used mannequin. Stick some cheap hair on “his” head, a ball cap and a flannel shirt on the torso. Put “his” faux self in the passenger seat, seatbelt your “buddy” in and bring it back to your sleeping area at night. No one can guarantee your safety but it could slow them down and give you an opportunity to drive (over the creep) away.

[@jasonsandifer3250]

Newly Updated Safety Suggestions: for Campers, Explorers, Travelers, I just happened to see your channel, and others similar channels recently, and I think that you, and others sharing their actual reality, and some have expressed some of the up, and down sides to van, RV, or vehicle living. Although, I just noticed your KZbin channel, and other similar channels, displaying van living. I just wanted to remind everyone to Aware Be of your surroundings and Alert, I just posted this anyway to help anyone who may benefit from these suggestions I believe that it is very helpful, and beneficial to others who may be thinking about this type of living without actually thinking through, about the some of the realistic problems that could occur with vehicle or van living etc... People need to know what up sides there are, as well as some of the down sides of vehicle living. I believe this channel, and other channels have been informative to others, including myself. Although, I am NOT living in a vehicle or anything like this. I feel that you , and others KZbinrs sharing this with your viewers will be very helpful. I wish you ALL the Best with your traveling endeavors. I shared this with several other travelers, as I watched their KZbin channel for the first time, as yours, and I shared with them this information that may be helpful to you as well to others. Therefore, I would also like to suggest a few Safety tips, and items that may help you, or others in your viewing audience. Although, you may have knowledge of this already, I am not sure, so I hope this will be helpful to you, others or someone. *Keep a Extra working cellphone with you or in your vehicle. You can purchase inexpensive phone with a very low monthly price between 25, 35, 45, dollars a month with unlimited data and text, and some have Nationwide coverage Do your research for the best fit for you Consider Carrying Several Extra portable cellphone phone chargers, and cables. Consider theses items: *Mini portable power charging station. I have also seen outdoor portable solar powered power stations, that can be recharged from sunlight this may be very useful to have, to power your devices. *Invest in a Cellular signal booster for outdoor use, and camping situations to boost or amplify your cell signal and reception. Consider also the purchase of a WiFi signal booster to also boost your WiFi signal. Research to see what you prefer. *Very Inportant: Invest in a SOS distress electronic signal device, this a kind of device can send out a distress signal with your exact location. There are various types of these devices, and including devices that can be used when boating, or camping situations. *Some have emergency Strobe lights SOS signaling with location alerts, and location updates that can be sent to your family, and emergency first responders. Some can be synchronized with your smart watch or phone. There are some satellite SOS texting messaging, locator devices that will send messages with your phone even if there isn’t any cellular signal, or WiFi. With this device your can still text, and communicate with others in a emergency satellite transmission. Check online, for various emergency SOS products, some are small to fit in the palm of your hand. You can check online, and on Amazon, research what SOS devices will be a good fit for you. *Mini portable vehicle battery jumper charger *vehicle battery jumper cables *Vehicle Jumper cables *PLEASE BE AWARE* that in the *WINTER* *vehicle *Batteries fail* many times in very cold weather conditions. Vehicle batteries drain more often in the winter months. Please Keep a vehicle battery portable jumper pack, this is a device that can jumper or boost your vehicles battery yourself without another vehicle. If you have a older battery in your vehicle, Please have it tested or replace it, and consider the purchase a new vehicle battery with higher Cold Cranking Amps rating. Be Aware that Sometimes even a battery that is a few years old can fail in the Winter months, and extremely cold temperatures. Some alternatives to Winter Camping, Travelers, Explorers, etc, if you can find a Warmer Climate Location to stay during Extreme Winter months, or stay with family for a few weeks. Another alternative is renting somewhere although this can probably get expensive. What ever you decide Be Careful, Alert, Aware, Safe, and Informed... *Keep a Fire extinguisher handy *Smoke detectors, and Carbon monoxide detectors can be helpful Consider installing; *Mounted Dashboard camera front and rear possibly. *Exterior vehicle mounted camera for the front, rear, and both sides of your vehicle. Some can be activated by motion, Including spotlights. *Interior vehicle cameras *Flashlights or pluggin spotlights *Portable spotlights, and lanterns Keep a few whistles around with you, and in your vehicle possibly in your vehicle’s center console *Keep a Sound horn, for hiking this can service, as a deterrent, and a emergency signal alert for others. *A set of long range 2 way radios, walkie talkies, to communicate with others during trips, some have 100 mile radius keep for emergencies, you can keep with you when hiking. Use your own discretion regarding the use carrying of any weapons. Don’t forget to bring Bear Spray Pepper spray Where is allowed Purchase a couple canisters just in case and keep it with you If you own a drone you can use it to survey your area for animals etc. However, Please Be Safe and Beware of your Surroundings. Stay Alert, and Be Safe even when stopping at Rest stops, Truck Stops, and conducting your various tasks. Keep in often contact with your family, friends etc. Keep up with the latest Weather Updates, beware and prepare for unexpected Weather events and conditions. *VERY IMPORTANT* I would suggest *NOT* to travel to locations without internet, cellular service in the Winter, the reason is that weather conditions can change very quickly, and you absolutely DO NOT want have a vehicle break down, or malfunction, or emergency, and not have the availability to communicate, and contact your family, and or, emergency road assistance, or emergency services. PLEASE BE AWARE that in some extreme cold temperatures that vehicle fuel lines could Freeze and causing a vehicle to not start. Just in case Keep your gas tank filled, which helps prevent vehicle fuel lines from freezing. Keep gas or fuel line additive, or gas line antifreeze, that is rated to use okay for your vehicle. Check with your a certified mechanic and your vehicle owners manual, and or dealer repair facility to inquire what is best to prevent freezing gas tank and lines in extreme cold. *Safety is Paramount* *Your Life is Important* *You want to Live to Travel another Day* *So Be Safe* *Stay Alert* *Keep your vehicle gas filled* Don’t ride on fumes, or on Empty. Don’t chance your Safety by running your vehicle fuel or gas too close to Empty. Fill it up anyway, it will save you alot of time, and headache later on. Remember to keep up on routine maintenance, check your tires for wear, keep up with your fluids for your vehicle, like oil levels, antifreeze coolant, Please carry extra (oil)(washer fluid), (brake fluid), (antifreeze). You will need extra Winshield Washer fluid because of the ever changing Weather conditions, dustly roads, especially in slushy wet roads. Furthermore, you will need extra Windshield Washer Fluid, Because you will Be driving more often in dusty, dirty, windy, and varying weather conditions. Your windshield will gather dust and debris from long term driving. Also, Remember Because you are on the road riding for sometimes very long distances, and long periods of time, I would suggest investing in 2 sets of tires, and a spare, the extra set to rotate. Check the mileage ratings on your tires they all very. Conduct visual inspections of your tires often, check for damage, wearing, air pressure, etc Keep a pressure gauge to check your tires pressure and a tire pump. Electric, Portable tire pump. Keep towing insurance to Be Safe if you ever need it. It Doesn’t cost much try to get National coverage if available, or where you will be traveling. Keep Extra financing, and savings for any unexpected issues, vehicle repairs, and overnight stays, in a emergency or if you need to rest indoors. Keep Enjoying Yourself, Keep Enjoying the outdoors, and Nature Just..Please continue to Be Positive, Safe, and Alert.. Wishing Success, Well-being and Happiness You All. God Bless You, and everyone Traveling, or living in their vehicles, Vans, RVs, etc. Please Be Safe..... God Be With You..... Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan, 12/20/2023 11/15/2022, 11/18/2022

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Amazing advice, thanks so much for the comment!

[@Medusajele]

I would have immediately left. Most vanlifers don't stay at the same spot.. they move around a lot unless than our in the woods etc. Stay safe.

[@coderlicious6565]

Get yourself a certain type of semi-automagic weapon.

[@chartmann43]

Oh! What kind of mattress is that??

[@Lady_b778]

What would be weird is you sitting there waiting to see if he come back please stay safe

[@queenb9654]

He may solicit hookups and he thought you gave him the look 😉 Too many creeps out there, be safe. Maybe snap the weirdos license plate.

[@sllimjimsinkhole]

I don't think you're being crazy, the only read I have on why he'd be there is that he was eating McDonald's with that view. Still doesn't explain the staring, but that could be because dudes are creepy and you're pretty! Regardless the gut knows best!! Safe travels

[@Comedianrosiemartinez]

Most def creepy

[@poeslanding]

Too many criminals in California which is a big part of the reason why I left. Nice middle finger cactus😂

[@mikel.5850]

Women often wonder why they’re targeted and why they bother multiple times if you put stickers and cute things in the front of your cab that everybody can see they obviously realize you’re probably traveling alone and female

[@criticaloptimist]

I can tell you work in tech by the way you can stuff tasks lol.

[@JerseyGirl-mi4vf]

next time lead him to the police station

[@molliwilson5639]

Well, I think that you DO know.

[@cindysegar1426]

You should have put your front window cover on

[@shann0mosity]

Mussel Rock!!!

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Yesss! It’s such a sick spot to hang for the day

[@shann0mosity]

@@strangedaysdiaries it's great for sunsets too :)

[@spiceworm8102]

I hope you have some sort of self-defence like pepper spray or something should the need arise. I'd certainly consider it.

[@Shel731]

Yeah he was wierd. Just , if you haven’t already , take some gun safety classes n get a pew pew

[@allalone1461]

did you write down is registration? REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE...DO IT.

[@Jewelsquiss]

👍😊❣️

[@thunderrode1744]

Hi whatcha up to hope all is well sending up prayers 4 healing and unspoken and 4 everyone and bless great healthy peaceful safe journeys travels recovery and happy day everyday in name of the Creator God/ Yahweh and Yeshua/ Jesus and the Holy Ghost/ Spirit Amen much honor and respect keep walking tall always hugs also get u some bear spray the kind with holsters u can use it 4 personal protection cus there's bears and cougars in some areas also keep on keeping on pushing forward one step at a time and be aware of ur surroundings always and sorry u went through that and cool cool video and smile 🦅🕊✝️💪🙂👍👍 🚌🌅🌌⛺🌄🏞🏖

[@CharlieRando]

Paying out the ass for gas! 😅

[@strangedaysdiaries]

For real 🥲

[@michaelmartello6202]

New Sub here.. :) by the way your very Beatiful

[@debragriffith6628]

You are way to vulnerable! You need to learn to protect yourself and be more aggressive. Creeps can smell weakness.

[@lobototot]

Always trust your gut!

[@victoryforever1915]

Don't close the curtains on or turn your attention from someone you feel is following you. Women or men. Both are dangerous nowadays!!!!! I watch out for both sexes because you don't know who is who nowadays either.

[@nancy27c]

I think you're paranoid. The guy was probably just eating lunch at his go to place from McDonald's and didn't want to be on the sunny side of the car or wanted more leg room. He left after he ate is all.

[@chemicalwarfare1388]

Well for you saying you weren't going to talk about that guy or let it ruin your day, he the focal point of your video. Not picking on you at all. Trust your instincts and the less you talk about something the more your senses stay heightened.

[@owensdaniels6244]

HEY SOLO FEMALE. HI I WANT TO SAY SOME OF US GUYS WANT TO JUST SMILE AND JUST WANT TO TALK TO A WOMAN ABOUT VAN MECHANICS OR THE VAN LIFE STYLE BUT IS TERRIFIED TO SPEAK, MANY YOUNGER GUYS JUST STARE HOPEING THE WOMAN WOULD SPEAK UP AND JUST FORM A CONVERSATION. IF A YOUNGER GUY APPROACH A YOUNG WOMAN NOW DAYS HE CAN HAVE HIS HEAD ON A STICK, AND BE RUINED FOR A LONG TIME THATS WHY US GUYS SEAM CREEPY SOMETIMES A LOT OF YOUNGER GUYS ARE JUST TRAVELING THE SAME WAY YOUR GOING NO RELATIONS TO YOU. ITS THE STALKING LAWS AND THE INTERNET THAT KEEPS ALL YOUNG MEN TERRIFIED TO APPROACH.

[@Juju-l3o]

I have to say this is true, I saw a video of a girl at a gym recording herself trying to put weights on and she noticed a guy behind her staring then started suspecting he was being creepy when in reality he was just trying to help her with putting the weights on so she got a lot of backlash from people, not all men are creepy and stalkerish and genuinely wants to help but it’s hard to when they get branded as a creep for trying to help.

[@strangedaysdiaries]

I totally agree- not all men are creepy by any means and a lot of guys are just curious about the lifestyle but don’t want to approach! It is what it is, but as a solo girl on the road I have to keep my head on a swivel a lot and had an odd feeling about this guy, that is all. Thankfully this isn’t always the case (and is rarely the case).

[@owensdaniels6244]

@@strangedaysdiaries YES IM GLAD YOU ARE THINKING SAFETY FIRST, I LIKE YOUR CHANNEL CAUSE YOU BRING A DIFFERENT APPROACH TO VAN LIFE AND IM JUST STARTING TO LEARN, I CANT PAY RENT ANYMORE SO IM MAKING A BED IN MY CHEVY IMPALA. ITS SMALL BUT CANT AFFORD A TRUCK YET. BUT THANKYOU FOR TEACHING ME NEW THINGS IN VAN LIFE.

[@jackdawlove]

Are you aware that posting in all caps comes across as yelling?

[@owensdaniels6244]

@@jackdawlove JACK I DO IT SO I CAN SEE WHAT I TYPE IVE got old mans eyes.

[@coryholt]

Vanlife may not be for you if your that paranoid about a coastal overlook

[@memitaylor4323]

I think as a woman you have to be extra cautious & careful. There are a lot of sick, twisted people out there. But we do have good people too, I’m glad you’re a safety person ❣️ I watch a few other people, and some of them have been followed & threatened. I’ll be watching your channel, hopping & praying for your safety 😊💗

[@brownsugar1958ful]

I think maybe if you can get his license and possibly report him or make sure the police are aware that he’s following you give your information to someone

[@DrHesterSpeaks]

Absolutely NOT being too sensitive!

[@rbryant1234567845678]

My dude, you're braver than me! That guy was letting out some serious crazy creepy vibes. I'd have driven right outta there and parked up outside the nearest police station. I'm sorry you had to experience that and I'm glad you're safe Hun, please continue to be so on your travels. Also super cute stickers ❤

[@GenuinelyGiGi]

Me, too! There are too many psychos out there and I don’t want to be victim to any of them…

[@kimlee6970]

The Nomadic lifestyle is in the near future for me, so I appreciate you sharing everything with us: the good, the bad & the ugly. I’m prbly your grandma’s age, so little creeps don’t bother me~ nothing that a heavy shovel wldn’t take care of 🤣 meaning that I’m strong enough to swing it around…but, you handled yourself well~ best to avoid confrontation of any kind, right?! Bravo! I’m still trying to decide what type of rig to get, so see you down the road one day!

[@strangedaysdiaries]

Haha a heavy shovel! Safe travels!

[@cet6237]

He's obviously a creeper. Never ever take chances. It ain't worth it!

[@VanventureswithKaia]

That’s right listening to your intuition and having safety precautions are important and I love 💗 your van 🚐

[@TexCynRVLife]

Please NEVER lead them to one of your hang out places. Very dangerous. Now he knows.... I used to lead them to police stations or working firestations when I got followed. That quickly got rid of them!

[@SincerelyLexy]

I would’ve driven closer, got his plate to let him know that I’m onto him, and driven off. Or if you knew he was tailing you, don’t go to your designated spot. This is my first time watching but I feel bad if that’s the spot you normally go for rest and now you have to think about him showing up. I hope you have some safety measures in place girlie, safe travels.

[@louscannon7493]

He'll be back in that spot, looking for you every day for the next six months. This creep lives in a fantasy world. Be careful...

[@aMinivanLife]

Smart idea "doing the dishes" with soap spray and a cloth! Thanks for the inspiration

[@inezmccray8082]

You need a dash cam ,when traveling for real. Enjoy and be safe

[@kath1313]

8:32 the most beautiful cup ❤👑😭

[@hollilovelace5978]

That blue car was CREEP VIBES 5000 🤮🤮🤮!!! Your gut was definitely right!!!