Some of the Biggest Red Flags in Synastry - Relationship Astrology.

In over 20 years of studying Astrology and over 10 years reading for clients professionally, I have come to see and learn about many of the Biggest Red Flags that should not be ignored in Synastry!
I did forget to mention a few; such as Mars conjunct Moon, Mars conjunct DC, Pluto sq Moon,, Pluto sq Ascendant, Pluto conjunct/opposite/Square Mars. I start with Pluto in the video and I have tried to add as many times stamps below as I can. If I have missed a time stamp, feel free to add in the comments sections. Apologies because a couple of times I accidently said 'transits' when I meant aspects. If you want to ask about an aspect in Synastry, ask in the comments, I will reply.
TIME STAMPS:
Pluto Aspects: 2:12
Saturn Aspects: 8:22
Chiron Aspects: 14:46
Mars in the 12th house (overlay) 15:22
Venus in the 12th house (overlay) 16:16
Neptune aspects: 18:03
Planets on the DC point: 18:42
Mars conjunct NN: 21:10
Stellium in the 8th: 21:53
Outer planets in your 2nd house: 22:45
The 12th house in general: 23:38
Uranus to the DC, Sun & Moon: 24:38
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[@sabrinarae4835]

THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH for this video!!!! I think the universe brought this to me or something to give me relief and peace. I started talking to this guy and was so drawn to him with the strongest magnetism I’ve ever felt with someone in my life. He let me see his chart, his Mars is conjunct my Chiron. I didn’t know fully what it meant but knew it wasn’t good. I stayed anyway but It didn’t last long, but I had this strange obsession with him like I’ve never experienced, and I’ve been having such a hard time getting over it and letting him go, feeling like maybe I missed the love of my life. Seeing your video is giving me closure. Thank you unendingly, you’ve helped to restore my mental health.

[@StarlightOracle]

TIME STAMPS: Pluto Aspects: 2:12 Saturn Aspects: 8:22 Chiron Aspects: 14:46 Mars in the 12th house (overlay) 15:22 Venus in the 12th house (overlay) 16:16 Neptune aspects: 18:03 Planets on the DC point: 18:42 Mars conjunct NN: 21:10 Stellium in the 8th: 21:53 Outer planets in your 2nd house: 22:45 The 12th house in general: 23:38 Uranus to the DC, Sun & Moon: 24:38

[@sabrinarae4835]

If you ever felt so inclined to do a video specifically on Mars conjunct Chiron, I would definitely love to see that! 😊❤ and yes please the postive aspects.

[@StarlightOracle]

Hi Sabrina, thank you for your comments. I do believe our intuition always guides us and if something is wrong in a relationship that we cant quite put our finger on, we will have this uneasy feeling and something will seem either too good to be true or the opposite where we will feel drained or anxious either when with the person or after seeing them. The Astrology helps to validate those feelings I think too. Thanks for the suggestion for the positive aspects video. When I have time I would like to do that video too.

[@MalaWaldron]

Great video! You mentioned Neptune conjunct Moon not being too much of a problem, but the Neptune Square Moon synastry being problematic -- So how does the opposition fare?

[@StarlightOracle]

The Moon person will see the Neptune person as either in a positive sense self sacrificing, soothing or a healing presence OR someone who is deceptive, not who they seem or there are issues with over idealization of the Neptune person. There could be savior or abandonment issues within the connection too. Neptune aspects tend to have people see the potential of a partner - their higher soul self, more than the actual person in their earthly struggles and reality of who they are.

[@kameron6994]

I had an on and off situation with someone who’s Libra Mars fell in my 12H. Never again Lol. Nothing extreme but definitely toxic. There were lies from the other person that I thought was super strange and always felt the need to remind me of my petty/spiteful ways but they were doing the same, just in more subtle ways. Of course as a Scorpio Rising, I quickly picked up on it. Looking back I do believe the person was a bit jealous of me. Very weird sneaky energy

[@StarlightOracle]

Thank you for sharing that. Yeah I have never seen this be positive for a relationship and it's known to be problematic and undermining.

[@22suezann]

The problem with red flags - they rarely have power to override strong sexual chemistry.

[@Alicia-cq9si]

Oh wow.... I can so relate to this. We have several red flags in our composites and synastry (Mars square Saturn for example) but I keep focusing on the "soulmate" aspects and can't seem to let go of the idea of getting together with this man I am infatuated with who I've never even met. I keep telling myself to stay away but the pull is so strong!

[@StarlightOracle]

But if you know the Astrology you can talk more sense into your self and take space to think more logically. Without the Astrology you are more in the dark about a person. Just my personal view and how it has helped me.

[@StarlightOracle]

@@Alicia-cq9si Saturn square mars is not a dealbreaker though. Yes it is challenging - I had this aspect with my partner of 22 years, it does create some struggles, but many relationships have struggles. You always have to look at the whole chart and the individual's chart. Saturn aspects creative longevity in a connection. At the end of the day, you do have to just look at the person's behaviour and not let yourself be rushed into a committed or invested situation, people take a long time to show their true self sometimes sadly.

[@themoonbleu627]

With the Uranus conjuncts moon I have this with most and I’m the moon but I have Uranus conjunct moon natal sun in 11th and a lot of aspects to Uranus would that make it manageable for me ? My partner his descendant is in aquarius and his moon opposite Uranus natal ..

[@StarlightOracle]

Yes just from what you have said you are quite Uranian based on your aspects, so you both need freedom in your relationship dynamic.

[@annakarina48]

Thank you for this video ❤️ could you just explain to me why venus in the 12th overlay is a red flag?

[@StarlightOracle]

It’s not necessarily always bad like Mars in the 12th but it can be that the relationship has a very fated energy that takes you away from your old self too much to the point where you start to feel you are either sacrificing too much of yourself for the other or you start to feel lost in some way after a while. Can be a loss of your own identity. All that said it depends on what sign Venus is in and how their Venus aspects other planets in your chart from the 12th house.

[@Alicia-cq9si]

You mentioned Scorpio Mars in your 12th house being awful, but what if you follow whole sign? I'm a 29-degree Scorpio rising and the guy is 15-degree Scorpio Mars. I am finding it hard to 100% rule him out for this reason though we've never met and now I'm scared to even approach him. I tend to follow whole sign so it would then be in my 1st which is actually excellent. The weird thing is another ex had their Mars in Libra in my 12th (whole sign) and this did manifest into sneaky behavior. He would hide bottles of vodka in his apartment and lie to me that he was drinking when I could clearly smell it on his breath. I never felt like I could trust him after that. It seemed like he was hiding things from me and talking to other people about me.

[@StarlightOracle]

I recommend using Placidus for more accuracy and if you really want to get to the details of things. Okay so the Mars in the 12th is one thing, then look for aspects from his Mars to your personal chart. Are there any difficult aspects there? Also how is his Mars aspected? You can look at all of these things for more insight. I offer readings through my website if you want to delve more deeply and into much more detail?

[@Alicia-cq9si]

@@StarlightOracle Oh boy... You're going to tell me to avoid this man. His Mars squares my Saturn at 3 degrees which I know is pretty much a dealbreaker. It opposes my Jupiter at a very wide degree and conjuncts my Uranus at 3 degrees. Also closely parallels my Moon which acts as a conjunction right? We have Moon square Mars in our composite too. I know it's a lot but not ready to do an official reading on a man I haven't even met (especially without a birth time), but he's been my neighbor for years and it's hard to avoid someone forever. If we do meet and something happens I might like to do a reading though.

[@Alicia-cq9si]

Oh wow. I was in an emotionally violent relationship with a man who couldn't control his anger once and I couldn't put my finger on what was wrong until now. Chiron square Mars in our composite chart perhaps was a part of this?

[@StarlightOracle]

Yes definitely part of that. Sorry to hear you went through that though. I hope you heal from that trauma.

[@karmaalm8451]

Mars conjunct chiron??? It's known as sexual healing relationship!!

[@22suezann]

Mars can really trigger another person …not necessarily positive

[@StarlightOracle]

Mars with Chiron is more malefic than anything. The chance of healing within the actual relationship would have to be seen in a huge amount of positive aspects to help that. But it's an overpowering difficult aspect this one.

[@karmaalm8451]

@@StarlightOracle sad news for me 😢we share a double whammy of this aspect then his chiron opposite my venus and my chiron opposite his moon... We have good aspect but sun opposite saturn double whammy very tight. I want him so bad but am also intimidated and afraid of the outcome.

[@StarlightOracle]

@@karmaalm8451 sorry I missed this comment. The fear can be for a reason on a deeper level you sense potential trouble. There could also be things to heal through the relationship, this is not a relationship to lose yourself in albeit you end up finding yourself trapped and struggling.