Sometimes are good sometimes it’s like this 😞

[@jimhills1920]

Grandpa would NEVER get this kind of care at any Nursing Home. God bless you.

[@janeysaenz868]

I am so afraid if I get dementia there isn’t someone to be as patient as Dan. God bless you Dan for being a great son!

[@sinsinnomore5555]

my husband's grandma went in to a nursing home and when his aunt went to get her out she had only the nightgown left, no glasses, and someone else's teeth....

[@deanne4044]

​@@sinsinnomore5555/That's horrible there so she was totally neglected.

[@DiscernmentNow]

@@sinsinnomore5555 WOW

[@goldenrod3215]

Many people have nobody to help. So sad, huh.

[@kookietherapy9398]

@sinsinnomore5555 Gee, sounds like they were already stoking up the crematorium. Glad she got out ! They'll kill you in those places ! 😩

[@brendashepherd1154]

Dan's tone never changes in speaking to his dad. What a patient man. Keep it up.

[@Bellagirl5677]

The patience you have is astounding. Not a hint of annoyance or frustration. What a kind man you are. All of you. Your Pop is a very lucky man.

[@janan1105]

Grandpa is so adorable 😍 he still wants to drive. Thanks for loving him Dan your a good son 💙 ❤️ 🙏 peace from Washington state

[@roslinrao3963]

You Are a GOOD Son! Dan. Hang in there. Ed is doing fine.

[@gazzertrn]

i know he is so lovable , but still has his pride . not easy to deal with , my mother in law had the same , was really hard work .This guy is an angel to deal with him .

[@aprildawnlalala]

That one was not adorable 😢

[@Sweetpea8412]

I love the way Grandpa Ed remains calm even though he's clearly frustrated. God bless you Dan for remaining patient with him, that must be so challenging.

[@sharonbrown6595]

Some people with dementia r nice but others can get aggressive and I think because they get so scared and upset so they fight physically. It’s so sad to see.

[@GranPapaFrita]

@@sharonbrown6595 I work in a dementia unit in a care home and it is really sad but most of the time they’re sweetest people in the world. People just have to remember it’s not there fault it’s the condition and I hope in the future we can find a cure.

[@sharonbrown6595]

@@GranPapaFrita yes I agree. My dad was great until we went out and about. He would tell people I didn’t feed him never took care of him. The public health nurse was good. But I felt it was then a good idea to just weigh him to see how it was going. Made me feel better. He stayed with me until he fell and broke his hip and he died . I miss him alot. It’s hard job but I got to b with him to the very end. He was a blessing

[@LorraineGarcia-u8p]

9th Hi v8th v I'mkm​@@sharonbrown6595

[@IreneDingey]

Dan I realise how hard this is for you. Re Ed with keys, maybe tell him when he sold the car the buyer took the keys to the car❤❤

[@juliejazz0956]

Bless you dear Ed 🙏🏼❤

[@laurelwilson8076]

Awe, poor Grandpa 😢. Thank you Dan for your incredible patience 😊❤

[@cynthiawilliams4688]

I love how he processes language sometimes. “Pop you don’t have keys.” “I know I don’t have keys. Where are they?” Classic!

[@DiscernmentNow]

Lol 😅

[@cremebrulee4759]

That's dementia. It's not a joke. He literally forgets immediately what he was just told.

[@cremebrulee4759]

​@@DiscernmentNowdementia isn't funny.

[@DiscernmentNow]

@@cremebrulee4759 I never said it was. But I deal with similar daily, and it's good to laugh whenever you are able. It keeps you SANE, believe me. I'm dealing with A LOT.

[@DiscernmentNow]

@@cremebrulee4759 if you've been watching this channel for awhile, you'll see laughter too. I am absolutely not laughing at his precious dad, I'm laughing with what he said, and how he interrupted it, and I'm sure Dan was chuckling at times. It's an extremely stressful and saddening thing. Keep a sense of humor, or you'll be constantly sad. 😩❤️🙏

[@pattyvincent5401]

There are very few people who could be so loving and patient as you are Dan. God bless you!

[@BachBeethovenBerg]

I love how he's both patient and direct.

[@nirdaerman3671]

👍👍

[@JJSOFLO]

Its so easy for people to criticize Dan or Danielle on little clips, but people dont realize the constant nature of dementia and how difficult it is to deal with. They handle it with grace and patience every time.

[@ExtraOrdinaryEarth_]

Dan is completely fine. He treats his dad very kindly. With dignity and respect.

[@JJSOFLO]

@@ExtraOrdinaryEarth_ thats exactly what i was saying, lol. “They handle it with grace and patience every time” did you not read that?

[@ExtraOrdinaryEarth_]

@@JJSOFLO Whooosh!

[@CCitis]

Oh it is constant and very trying

[@sinsinnomore5555]

maybe the criticism is what makes them treat their dad batter...its not like they are the only people in this country caring for their family with dementia. They just happen to be uploading monetized videos and getting recognition with pats on their back, clicks and views from thousands of strangers which has to make the process more tolerable. Not to mention, (but I will) from then looks of their house and dad's bank account reactions they are doing better than most in this situation....

[@LoisFox131]

Ed is such a lovely person. He’s always headed toward independence.

[@Topdigitc]

He's been the provider for most of his life.

[@shirleyprestage5402]

A car is a senior's freedom ....... ❤😢

[@rebella2073]

I feel him...Due to a medical condition,I'm no longer allawed to drive.(Epilepsy/meds')I live in a European capital city,but it's frustating nontheless.I miss it quite a lot...As if somebody took away my freedom,my independency. And I'm female & half his age.Poor Ed;I can only just imagine how he must feel.And not remembering why he had to stop on the top of it.I guess Dan's a football lover,much respect to him,Danielle,Mark...They're all doing a great job to make grandads days a little easier.Bless them all ❤ 💯 🖌

[@walkingdeadbarbiedoll]

Grandpa Ed is wearing the perfect shirt for the occasion! Guess the occasion is daily 😂 I've seen this happen a million times, and your patience Dan is commendable, and you're teaching us all how to have more patience in everyday life! ❤❤❤

[@jeankane6767]

Unless you have been through this with a loved one you can’t imagine how difficult it is to maintain patience! Great job! ❤️

[@pennyl3509]

I totally agree! We take care of our father, who has dementia as well. It can be very stressful

[@cindifischer6919]

Been through it and I don't miss it, he is at peace now. Incredibly hard to see your loved one go through, freaking worthless disease.

[@johnnewson939]

I don't know how Dan does it. You have to have the patience of a saint here. Dan you're doing a great job.

[@katrinajones8788]

For those of you saying just give him some keys, if you look back at past videos, they've tried that already. The problem is that Ed actually tries to use the keys and when they don't fit anywhere (like the car, for example), it causes Ed more frustration and anxiety.

[@southernnana70]

Lol. Exactly. Ed is still functioning at a level of taking that key thing to the next levels. He’d be wanting to take his car to lunch to meet Mark his other son.

[@Justme-j6u]

Not just that but they said he kept losing the keys and that caused anxiety plus there was no point because since he lost the keys he would still be looking for them.

[@Indy__isnt_it]

And Dan mentioned damaging the locks he is trying to put the keys into. Just telling him no, in this case, is their only answer. I think he's got more time to think as he is not at Mark's house, what distracted him while there isn't part of his days any longer. (Honestly, imo, if I had to live 50%/50% between homes, with his memory loss, to me even w/o the loss of memory, it had to be very disrupting to him. How long will the wallet checkbook and keys be at Mark's house? OR is this Grandpa's new norm, just telling him no? I imagine after a couple years staying there, he'll think about times he was with Mark. Gpa was very excited when he came to stay while Dan & Danielle went out.

[@katrinajones8788]

@@southernnana70 Exactly! Ed is very serious about getting keys and using them.

[@katrinajones8788]

@@Justme-j6u Yes, which makes this disease all the more horrible. I can only imagine what it's like for Ed going through this day in and day out.

[@Chala-w8x]

I wanted to say thank you so very much for sharing your videos! My mom is 82 and is going through the same situation. I came across your videos, and I have been sharing them with my mom, to explain her condition more, as well as to reassure her she’s not alone. It has giving her great comfort and many laughs, for she adores your father and compares herself to him, especially when he speaks about his home and how many children she has, for she is constantly asking about her home, did she sell it and can’t believe she has 8 children etc:) Thank you again for sharing & God bless your father and your family!

[@southernnana70]

Ohhh bless you User-fix. My grandfather had dementia the last yrs also and it was soooo heartbreaking and very difficult What a blessing to find a positive for your mom from Ed and his family. And helps Eds family to know they are truly having such a positive on others as well 💜

[@cherylbaney1287]

This is all too familiar….I am caring for my husband who has dementia and we go around and around about his keys, where is his truck, when are we going home, are the kids in school ( our sons are in their 50’s)…..it goes on and on. God bless them and I pray daily for the Good Lord to bless me with patience every day!🙏🏻🥰❤️

[@SpiritAnimal1212]

Bless his heart 💙. Poor Dr. Ed. He was so used to being independent and living on his own. It. It must be difficult for him.

[@angelatheron564]

Dan and Danielle you guyz are doing one hell of an amazing job looking after Grandpa ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marciastewart1527]

My heart aches looking at this. 😢 Dementia is so cruel. Ed has a good family.

[@Reesiebee]

I love how his sweatshirt says exactly what he’s doing. Looking for his keys. I know it’s rough sometimes, but you do a great job ❤

[@christineromannoodles9616]

Oh Grandpa. I feel so bad he gets confused. 😢😢❤️🙏❤️🙏

[@yosh1don]

You handled it well Dan, you have much patience and empathy.

[@Leyla7292]

@yosh1don • U had wrote just what i was thinking 🙂

[@sinsinnomore5555]

recording uploads that will be witnessed by others for profit sure does help....

[@yosh1don]

@sinsinnomore5555 Wow you have a sceptical view. What exactly are you implying? You seem like one of those ppl that gets offended by everything....

[@sinsinnomore5555]

@@yosh1don Oh really? Do I seem like the kind of person that will get offended by anyone having a different view? Or do I seem like a free thinker that knows human nature.

[@sinsinnomore5555]

@@yosh1don you know exactly what I am implying...stop being naive. Lots of old people, disabled, and children get treated terrible everyday by their caregivers. Ever heard the saying "shame shame people are watching"? Besides there are thousands of Americans doing exactly what he is doing without uploading monetized videos that exploit their condition and circumstance... and they do it without 10K "atta boy" comments and "you're so special Dan" pats on their backs.

[@frazer3191]

Eternal respect. I’m climbing the walls with frustration and I’m only watching. I honestly don’t know from where you get the strength, it’s humbling. ❤️

[@NoulesTch]

Not easy, at least your Pap isn't violent. Mine who also suffers from démentia, is short-tempered and yells at me or jumps on me to try to force me to give him what he wants, when he's frustrated like that. Thank you Dan& Danielle , Thank you GrandPa!

[@doritpaula]

It just breaks your heart to watch this. Such a cruel illness. … and this is your dad. So hard. I admire your patience.

[@lindasansone3345]

Oh Dan , 🥺 I feel for you , seeing your Dad as long as you can remember, getting to this stage of dementia 😢 You and Danielle are REMARKABLE HUMANS ❤

[@20teabag23]

Sending love from England, I absolutely love grandpa, I sit here watching him all the time, he makes me smile

[@PhilipNoble]

Oh blimey! Good on you Dan for taking good care of your dear ol dad. 🙏 He's a character!!

[@miniciks1115]

Patience galore needed. 🙏

[@PastorIhaza]

Thanks, Dan😢. The most sobering video. 🏆 It truly shows the disease and it's effects on Grandpa and the Family. 😢 May the Lord comfort and strengthen all who are caring for loved ones who suffer from Dementia and other memory loss. 🕊️

[@gigidodson]

God bless you Dr. Ed.

[@blaquerose116]

Wow. This is the most persistent IV ever seen grandpa be. It's actually heartbreaking

[@tracytreadway6064]

Those really are the hardest times. He's so lucky to have his family right there with him. As a caregiver, I've seen many be placed in a home and basically handed over to others to be there for them. Not everyone is lucky enough to be with compassionate caregivers and are too often mistreated. Keep your chin up, Dan. Tomorrow is a new day.

[@WohiHaq]

You did an excellent job trying to distract him from keys to football, and you’re absolutely right. It is far more difficult than we can imagine.

[@toddperilloux6143]

Omg. Dan you have patience of a saint

[@jangrinh2224]

It’s hard when “redirection” doesn’t work. When Danielle is there with you the two of you working together seems to work best at times like this. You’re a good Son, Dan. Hang in there your pops is a very lucky man.

[@tammydouglaslafreda9992]

DR. SALINGER HAS SUCH A STRONG FOCUSED BRAIN ...IT REALLY SHOWS. VERY INTELLIGENT MAN, HE STAYS FOCUSED.

[@mddell58]

Whew! I was beginning to get somewhat anxious just watching and hearing grandpa continue saying the same words, over & over. I hope you realize that YOU make it look so easy. You really do. ❤

[@RF1972.]

Poor Dad.... He can't help it😢❤

[@sapphirerain70]

Dan, I can’t imagine how hard this is and I know it has to be frustrating for you and your family. Thank you for being so kind to him and answering his questions. I can’t imagine how dad feels either. I take care of my dad also, he doesn’t have dementia but he does have Parkinson’s, and has drop foot. It’s a tough journey but we do the best we can right? 😊 much love and blessings your way and Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤

[@sonyaschroeder7867]

God bless you❤

[@nishela5223]

Blessings to all who takes care of families

[@elizabethcampbell5428]

Bless you and your family this holiday season ❤❤

[@LEOtheLioness-ME]

Awww, Mr. Ed! God love him! Bless you, Dan, for being so patient no matter how many times you have to repeat it. 🫶🏾🙏🏽💞💜❤️

[@lauraann3141]

Awww bless his heart! It's sad to watch knowing he don't remember and understand. Dan I commend you it has to not only be frustrating but also heart breaking knowing He doesn't understand and you just try to keep explaining to him! It's so heartbreaking to watch not only for Ed but for you too Dan!! I so admire you and how much patience you have! God Bless you for being an awesome caregiver/Son! 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

[@alglen9208]

Dan, the good son! By taking care of Dad in your own home you are giving him a much better quality of life than a nursing home. I think he would be worse off without you & Danielle. I can only imagine how difficult it can be. Sometimes I can see the glint in Grandpa's eye's when you were a child and he was your caretaker. The simple things like keys and check book represent security and independence of being a provider. This is tough and you are giving him his best quality of life. Every moment is precious. ❤

[@mattbrown9841]

Dan , your patience level is a testament to the respect you show you Dad, a lesser person would snap. Amazing.

[@sheilamonahan9721]

Bless his heart ❤️

[@grainneminihane625]

I know from experience with mother , It's very hard Dan ,you and Danielle are fantastic and full of patience and love ❤️ ,love from Ireland 🇮🇪 🇺🇸

[@micahblu]

Holy cow, and the back that says "I'll be right back, I'm going to look for my car keys". Awe. Give the man his keys!

[@Jessica-ml6td]

Some days are more difficult than others. You and Danielle are always patient and loving ❤

[@susanlewis9351]

I have no children and am petrified to get like this and have no one to watch out for my care

[@Indigosoul127]

Wow, he is resetting must faster now. Good bless him and you Dan. I admire your patients and love.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

When he is flustered like he was in this video he can reset in seconds. When he isn’t flustered or Sundowning his memory doesn’t reset that quick. It can last for minutes and sometimes an hour or two.

[@Canneveroverblue]

@@dsalnorcal1434 Dan I love Grandpa Ed and your family. After seeing, again, just how frustrating this is for everyone I have a question for you. I'm sure you have worried about being in your Dad's situation, many years from now of course. I wish there were some way to prevent this memory loss/dementia/Alzheimer's. Most of us won't have the money for adequate care and don't want to be a burden on our family. My children deserve to have a life with there loved ones, enjoy their grandchildren, have some freedom in there retirement years. If only there were a way to keep from getting these illnesses. Or having part or full time care that can be trusted and is affordable. I am retired and do not want to be a burden on my children. I am frustrated that there is no way to prevent this. Medicine and science have come so far that we forget there are issues that have no magic pill for prevention or cure. Any advice for those seeing themselves as another Ed or Edweena?

[@AnaGarcia-tn6uq]

This man is so educated… I love watching videos 😊

[@mixedmediaartgirl300]

Aaaaaaaw😢 his face when you told him you can't drive without a license, he looked so disappointed. Glad you stuck through the conversation through to comfort him and put his mind at ease.

[@KathleenW-n1m]

He won’t forget , he’s living in that moment - as they do- he is in his reality . A cup of tea always works with a cookie

[@lornabradley6188]

❤❤❤GRANDPA Huggs ❤❤❤ you're so determined to find his keys. God Bless him..Dan you're a great son..

[@robertacarroll8481]

Oh boy poor little guy. Your the best son ever. Your teaching your kids to respect and take care of the elderly when it is your turn to be taken care of.

[@TerriHARRIGAN]

Been through this and it is extremely difficult. Sad in every way for parent and child. Dementia is a shocking disease. Alzheimers would have to be one of the worst. Dan does such a good job with his dad. He has the patience of a saint.

[@SandraCanales-f3j]

Bless his heart and yours

[@judywiggins5092]

Dan, you're so good with your dad. Bless you!

[@TerryManlove1]

Love is what remains after everything else has left.

[@angelaheras5466]

Dan I admire your patience with your dad. It is frustrating but you are doing great under the circumstances.❤❤

[@mrarms3571]

I stumbled upon this and my heart goes out for you and your dad. Super hard to deal with and you get happy and sad at the same time. My wife’s grandpa passed away this last May at 88 with this diagnosed at 85. Your dad reminds me a lot of him. Thanks for sharing. Definitely eye-opening for everyone.

[@aliciabalchin4559]

You are so kind and patient with your lovely Dad. He so much wants to drive. ..love and Merry Christmas to you all ❤from the UK

[@Chello438]

Yea shit man that is hard.. for the both of them equally. ❤❤❤

[@G.G.8GG]

From one who has been through it, you have my sympathy. It's exhausting in a way others can't understand. Thankfully. It's also a gift to the heart and will leave you with unbelievably precious memories.

[@msgalahad3332]

Good Bless him.He is so even tempered even though he is obviously frustrated.

[@deloradeabel8487]

I guess no matter how frustrating it is for you Dan you keep explaining it to him with love & patience,distraction seems to work!❤

[@CindyAyachi]

Imagine being strong and independent and lossing everything. Poor Pop's. May God bless him.

[@denisenoles3159]

Props to anyone who is dealing with this. It is not easy. 🙏🏾

[@newyorkusa9155]

❤ he's the sweetest and your a great son for real

[@BrendaHall-e9g]

Brings back memories that I made with my mom not too long ago. Understandable how much we (the ones who go through this every day) repeat with understanding of how it is for our parent with short term memory loss. MY heart goes out to both of you❤

[@GGS42]

Dad never loses his cool!! Even when he doesn’t understand the situation he is calm.

[@kimwarnock11]

Sweet grandpa ❤ hello from Canada 🇨🇦

[@tylerh1897]

Thank you Dan for being so patient with your father. You’ are such a role model for the rest of us kids

[@jackyjelai]

Dan is a super son to his Dad, so kind like his Dad. You're lucky to have your Dad super humble with respect. Watching your videos here aboard, love you Dr Ed, you're so amazing ❤🇬🇷🇵🇭

[@susanstancliff2937]

That’s so hard for both of you. Thank you for trying so hard.🙏❤️

[@robyahrob]

Keep on going Dan, I had to answer my dad’s questions hundreds of times, and I wish he was still here so I could answer him again.

[@gladysgitau7458]

And her sweater says it all,he is gonna look for his car keys anyway.I jst love him, especially when he smiles❤

[@smariec2021ify]

Dan, I’m praying for patience for you and a sense of peace and calmness for Grandpa Ed. I know it’s hard, but he doesn’t mean to cause distress and pain. It’s wonderful how you and Danielle loving care and provide for him! He’s truly blessed!! 5:35

[@teodosodelacruz5458]

He's persistent in finding them keys God love him

[@likaangel8302]

My heart hurts for you Dan to see your Dad like this. This would crush me to see my once strong, independent dad like this. God bless you for your love and patience. ❤

[@suzybailey-koubti8342]

Bless his precious heart ❤

[@philipwilkins3812]

It’s fantastic to see family taking care of each other in todays world!!! So many people today wouldn’t do this. It has to be mentally challenging every day to live through this!!! Bless your family!

[@Brian-tm4xt]

I totally agree there is no way in hell I could do it .I just hope he relaxed and forgot about the keys after a while Dan great Job sir my hat is off to you I would have just walked off lol

[@angelawallace9024]

Bless his heart it is very difficult taking care of someone with memory loss I worked in nursing for 13yrs you are doing amazing job with your dad

[@natalieirish_gal9724]

Dan You are such an amazing Son 💯 Thank You for Sharing Pop's with us he is such a joy to watch. 🥰 I honestly can't imagine how hard it must be for you to watch him go through tough days like today. May God continue to bless Y'all & Pop 🙏 love from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪☘️💚🇮🇪☘️💚

[@pattiford7163]

That sweatshirt,perfect, for the situation, poor pops

[@KillaCal215]

God bless you Dan…. You’re a great son !!!

[@ginap9687]

He’s literally the cutest! Love you Ed!! ❤❤❤❤

[@dorisburks8789]

Poor Dan!! He's so practiced, my heart goes out to Grandpa and his whole family that is no easy task caring for someone with memory Lose!! Been there and done that. PEACE ✌️ AND LOVE 💝 2 U ALL!!

[@gatorgal576]

The sweatshirt is priceless! God love him!!

[@joanneschell8324]

No one can fully understand how frustrating it is living with someone with dementia when these things happen!! I’m a registered nurse and have seen many families go through this! It’s so very good that you and your brother share the burden! Because no one can understand until you walk in those shoes!!!

[@emster716]

Pops sweatshirt was very fitting this particular day. God bless him ❤ and god bless you and Danielle being amazing caretakers for your dad! He’s the best!!!

[@kathygimber1081]

I can see how difficult this is.

[@johnr7632]

My heart goes out to him. I’ve been through this with family members and now my mom and and dad are both beginning to slowly show signs. 😢

[@ChristineMichelle71]

I can understand how frustrating it is but u hung in there. Bless u!

[@lyndawilliams4570]

And the irony of his shirt is touching….You’re a great guy Dan and I love your Dad❤

[@GeorgeMoore55]

Hi Lynda🌹🌹 How are you doing?

[@lovelylori1085]

I truly admire your patience Dan!!! I'm glad he has all of your wonderful family ❤❤❤😊

[@praisepillai8145]

Dan you are so patient with Dad. Truly appreciate. Poor sweet grandpa.