Soul Mates / Twin Flames- how do I know they are the one? NOTHING can stop this connection!

In this video I try to explain the very complex love that is a twin flame or soul mate. One thing you will learn is that absolutely nothing or no one can stop the connection!
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[@silversprite1006]

Im 67 met my 78 yr old soul mate 7 months ago and ran away 3 times scared of the intense emotion. He has been so patient and calm. He waited saying he knew we'd be together. And we are blissfully connected.

[@shazzaturley1234]

❤so delighted for you both❤

[@Tinyteacher1111]

THAT’S SO COOL! I’m 69, and I don’t like any of my boyfriends right now. I’ve been sick for 21 years, and none have cared enough to stick with me unless I feel well! I hope this happens to me. I’ve just had a husband for 17 years that turned out to be a negative chauvinist. So, I have never been in true love with someone when they were in love with me. I feel like Nicky did for those 5 years when she hated everyone!

[@tbm7187]

Met my soul mate 2 months after I left my husband. The divorce papers were barely dry. My family thought I was crazy. We've been married for 30 years! I am the Happiest I have ever been. When we first met he felt like home. That's the only way to describe it. Home.

[@Seashell3333]

A twin flame relationship is very difficult. It is an inner knowing. There is a magnetic connection and also telepathy particularly in dreams. The twin flame journey is the most transformative relationship you will ever have. Heart breaking but the most important thing about it is you develop self love.

[@AymeeDonovan]

The day I met my soulmate I was instantly in love with him I felt nothing but pure and good vibes from him I had this comfortable at ease feeling like I had known him a life time . Every single person who knows us will say to me you both are soulmates . He is the best father and my other half of my soul . He passed over suddenly 3 months ago my grief is only a testimony to our love . He connected with me instantly after he passed over through dreams and signs which he shows me daily . I've been to a medium she kept saying oh my goodness your soulmates. I love him with all my heart and soul I never felt such unconditional love from anyone in my life unlike him ❤🦋🙏

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh my darling angel, I can’t imagine your grief. At least you have some form of comfort by hearing from him. Obviously love breaks through every barrier and you will be reunited when you have lived your life xx

[@AymeeDonovan]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium I look forward to our physical reunion and the only comfort I've felt was signs and visits knowing he hasn't left me or our little one but it is very very difficult :( sometimes I want to leave to be with him but I know that's not what he wants and Il be called home at some point I have work to do here still . I am so glad I found you beautiful channel I watched your interview with Brian yesterday and I've been loving your videos I'm going to order your book , you life sounds similar to mine in that you have experienced many losses and are so empathic ( I'm no medium of course ) but I find your journey inspiring. Bless you xxx

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

@@AymeeDonovan I think you’ll find that you are an empath darling, hence why you have endured so much so young. I understand you would want to go up with him at times, but you are right, it’s not your path, you are loved here and have things to do my darling. Life changes and the universes creates it, so just trust wonderful things will come despite your loss xx I hope you enjoy the book xxx

[@theresaclark3359]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium Hi Nicky you are an incredible person. Recently pondering about my soulmate who comes and goes from life...been 8 years now...still going around in circles with him..THEN I found you on KZbin with Jeff Mara. Listening to you, immediately I felt a calmness and acceptance settle over me. You mentioned the Universe will make things happen if they are meant to be? From Australia, new subscriber

[@amethystfeathers7324]

🥰🥰🥰

[@tracyward6772]

After 30 years of an abusive marriage, my ex left me and then I found my twin flame. He had always been in my life in the background. We do everything together and I had never known a love like this.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh hun that just makes me smile so much xx all clear next week will email you x

[@bellamyrta3595]

I'm 71 now with very young spirit. Just ended a 3yr Karmic Soul contract in June after an Awaken & messages from Arcangels & guides. Wasn't looking to meet anyone after being alone for 23yrs. The very next month I meet a man who moved into my neighborhood who was watching me for 2.5 yrs but was too scared to talk to me. We are very opposite from each other but enjoy each other's company. I'm gonna following my intuition & pray about it. Ty for sharing your beautiful gift 🙏

[@whitelightliving9449]

I realize this video is 3 years old but I just found it and want to say I always wondered if I was lucky enough to have married my soul mate. After watching this there is no doubt. We met when we were 16 and I loved him immediately. We were high school sweethearts then went our separate ways for 10 years. Fast forward, we’ve been married for 20 years now. At times we get under each others skin, but in the end he is the love of my life, forever! ❤ thank you Nicky!!!

[@katcook73]

Met my twin flame almost 6 years ago right around the time I was experiencing some kind of awakening, and it has been an emotional roller coaster. We are currently in union (took 5 years) , and I can say that two people could not be more different. Not like opposites, but more like puzzle pieces where my positive spaces fill his negative spaces and vice-Versa. I could write for days about all the synchronicities I’ve experienced as well as the emotional and spiritual growth since meeting him. He triggers me, forcing me to address my shadows. It’s strange because even when the world seems to be falling down around us, I’m still full of joy because I’m experiencing it with him.

[@Tinyteacher1111]

I wrote a poem that reminds me about your relationship!

[@Steveduckworth1969]

Hi Nicky just came across this video. I'm staying single until my soulmate comes along,so fed up of toxic relationships that I'm just going to wait for her. I've set the intention to my Angels and putting my trust in them that she will come. Just hope I'm not in a Zimmer frame before she does😂😆🙏I'm 55 already lol. Thank you for the video ❤

[@sammulvihill1586]

I dreamt of my now husband about 15 yrs before i met him, I felt him and saw a guy 6ft tall, green eyes, dark spiky hair, I saw our wedding, I knew there was an Irish connection and got the name "something" Hill and i saw his childhood bedroom. I kept dreaming of this man holding out his hand to me. Anyway I met him on dating site, met in person and it was like I had known him forever, so natural. His parents were Irish, he looked exactly as i described and the surname Muvihill. The wedding was similar to the dream and his childhood bedroom was where and how i dreamt it

[@corie619]

This is my situation. Known my Twin flame my whole life. Since he was 7 and I 9 years old. Had a relationship at 28 and 30. He ran. We married others. I have been single for 16 years. He for 2 years. Sent back to each other for over a month now. We are feeling everything you have explained. It makes sense to me, but a little confusing to him even though he knows what we share is exceptional. We are 55 and 57 now, and yes the physical is incredible even at our age. We absolutely feel each other's emotional stuff even when apart, and check in to reassure each other. I knew at 30 who he is to me. We just had much learning and growing to do. Still do. Thank you for this confirmation. It means so much!💖💞💕💗🙏

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Pleasure xx

[@janettep]

My female best friend is my soul mate. The day I meant her I knew we would be best friends. She knows me better than my family. She is like family to me

[@Orange2863]

I definitely met my twin flame 30 years ago. It was in instant and strong attraction. We were together for 7 years, split and twenty years later we’ve reconnected but in a difficult situation and waiting to be able to be together again. During the years we were separated we always stayed in touch, the connection couldn’t be broken.

[@Lisajen-h5u]

I can feel it. I am 56 and it’s only started happening since I turned 50. I just have this inner knowledge somehow that certain people are insanely connected to me. I am making this comment in 2024. This video popped up and I just had to watch as I met someone who is the second person I have met who I have felt so incredibly comfortable and at home with.

[@mandynimke3743]

First, thank you so much for making this video. I lost the absolute love of my life 1 year & 7 months ago. When we met I had never dated a woman ever. But our connection was so intense we both could literally feel this electricity, the beautiful connection neither one of us had ever had. There was no way on earth I could let her go even though it meant changing my sexuality & telling everyone I knew when I was 39 years old. My love passed suddenly without warning & my heart will never ever be the same. She absolutely took part of me with her. My favorite part went with her. Since the worst day of my life 8/21/21- I have had so many signs, things I never would have imagined could happen-they DO happen. I can literally feel her energy engulf me at certain points & I can feel her on the left side of my head, daily. Everything I do now, I do it with the knowing she can see it too. I can not wait to be with her again one day. Our love will last for eternity.♥️ Thank you again, I need to hear what you make videos about & this one really hit home.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Keep strong my love I’m sorry that happened 💖💖💖

[@SuperJelena78]

My Twin Flame is Gay, and recently divorced his gay husband...He is very scared to be with me (Fat,old Spinster)...10 years of pure misery 😢 💔 😔

[@15639a]

I’ve met my soulmate and it was exactly what you described here. For us, it was incredibly painful at first because we turned our lives upside down in order to be together. You’re right on with the obsession bit; it’s like a super strong magnet that you can’t escape. It’s 💯% exhilarating, and amazing. It hard part to make it work was worth it.

[@LisaAllen-bl7qz]

Good Morning Nicky, I came across your video on Soulmates and Twin Flames from 3 years ago. I have a little story for you. I met my husband when we were 14 years old, Jr. High school. We got married when we were 25. We divorced when we were 38. ( Divorce finalized on our wedding anniversary. To me that was a full circle of life completed). When I was 16 I had my astrology chart done, looking for the reason we met so young. In my 30s I had several reading to find out if we were soulmates or what was the purpose of us meeting so young. One answer I got was that were brother and sister in a previous life, and our mom died when he was little and I had to take care of him. ( when our daughter was nine, old enough to understand, we were not going to live with dad doing drugs and being drunk). He decided to stop all that when our grandson was born 13 years later. In the meantime I met an amazing man in my late 40’s. We lived together 6 years. We had a wonderful relationship. He was so easy to be with and we loved each other very much. But when he was laid off work for the first time in his life, in his 60’s, he decided to move to out of state. I felt I couldn’t go with him to leave my only child and 2 grandchildren. Plus my mom was in her 80’s. This was 14 yrs ago. About 2 years ago when in a meditation I was dancing with this man in a ballroom, in the 1800’s. He was an officer in some army, I think France because of his uniform, I was in a beautiful ball gown. I am sure were are soul mates. We still love each other, but he won’t move back here, and I am not going there as much as he has wanted me to in the past. But it is a very strong tie. I saw him last year when he was visiting a mutual friend. Oh is hug was so warm and comforting. I could have stayed in his arms all day. From 2010 to 2020 I took care of my mom, who had Alzheimer’s. I hope one day I will get to meet my twin flame. One more part of the story. 5 years ago when my daughter got married in Cancun, my ex husband apologized for everything he did to me when he was using. (Like threatening to kill me several times). He asked if I would give him another chance in our next lifetime! He who did not believe in reincarnation when we were married. Sorry for the long story about soulmates.

[@michellenewman3203]

I remember you coming to my friends years ago and done my reading and back then I was a sceptic but things you told me you would of never known. Blew my socks off. So I became a believer from that day onwards only remember certain things from that evening wished I'd recorded it xx

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Michelle Newman oh blimey that choked me up a bit darling. I’m so glad I brought you into the fold 😀💗

[@dimarie2494]

Yes, I've met my twin flame and it is the hardest thing. He isn't treating me right and I know I need to move on but I go back and forth a million times about doing it. We keep coming back together and leave again. I can feel him whether he is close or far away. I can only hope that he feels the same and will choose me one-day.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

No don’t lose your power hoping he will change x move on and find your true soul mate xx

[@BB-ny3eu]

I’m with my soul mate been together 20 years from school , he’s an angel on earth looks after me through everything xxxxx

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Batch 81 omg you lucky girl! Love hearing stuff like that 💕💕💕

[@rhondabarr2636]

I definitely met my soulmate, lost him after 5 years but I would never give up those 5 years of friendship, love, passion and unbelievable love.. I would go through this hurt everytime just to have those 5 years with him. He was so special.. I said he was an angel put on earth. I am not religious in anyway but I found you and now I believe possibly there is something after death.. So thank you for that.. It had helped me so much ❤

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

@@rhondabarr2636 bless you 💕💕💕💕

[@circleofcourage3903]

I don’t think I have met my soulmate yet, I would love to experience this.

[@terrifranklin7639]

Hi Nicky I met my twin flame in 2019 and omg I was obsessed with him, I had walked past him 6 years prior and I thought omg who are you? He gave me a cheeky wink and well I knew then. Following the first sighting of each other I would randomly see him and he would give a wave whilst I’m trying not to faint. I then didn’t see him for a few years and out of the blue in October 2017 he messaged me on messenger, omg the excitement, from that 1 message I could focus on anything but HIM, for 16 months we spoke online but he was quite distant and I would push and push, anyway in December 2018 we finally met and I was so nervous the entire day leading upto the evening I almost threw up 😂, I just had this want/need took into his eyes and I’d convinced myself I’d know if he was my TF , he was/ he is. We were obsessed with each other and all I wanted was him, honestly I couldn’t stop thinking about him, time together flew, we were extremely attracted to eacother on the you know what level but we would talk and talk and talk and I felt like we were in some other dimension, he brought it up too, it was so intense. I’m not with him now Nicky, if we see each other the closeness from him is so there, within 6 months of us being together it become difficult, my mum died, my sister was killed, I left my job and my 2 sons turned against me because they didn’t feel he was good enough x I hung in with him and we both struggled, He couldn’t deal with my emotions after my sister, I thought he didn’t care, we both become insecure about each other and we’re fighting constantly. Time went on and we’d both make excuses not to meet up, if I tried he’d back off and vice versa. We learned to be without each other but I think of him every day and I know he does me, I let him go with love and love him I absolutely do and would be there in an instant if genuinely needed. I couldn’t hurt him because it would be like hurting myself. I’m not interested in anyone else, I’ve come to accept that he is my twin flame and I know we’re connected anyway. I never for a moment whilst in it I’d be able to go weeks without contact but I do and I can xx Every single night he’s in my dreams and we’re together and it’s beautiful. Omg also the ⭐️ you mentioned, I always knew I’d meet my twin flame and initially I really believed he would have a small star tattoo or scar above his eye, he didn’t but back then I was working for a company named A Star and he said he would listen to a song named written in the stars by west life and think about me xx

[@marjolaine5800]

Hi Nicky thank you darling ❤. I met my soulmate like 15 years ago. He was a collegue and we both knew it. Completely mindblown but he was married and he knew he had to stay with his family and I felt it too. He helped me through a difficult time and I'm really grateful for that. ❤ We both have psychic abilities and we conntect through dreams and non-physical events. Haven't heared or seen him in a while but I can still feel his powerful love and can't wait to reunite with him. Thank you so much for all the love and light that you bring into this world and our lives 😊❤🎉😮

[@andreaweichelt6122]

I've definitely met my soulmate, I was 15 years old, we dated for 7 months and it was amazing, his mom got jealous and broke us up because he visited me the times he was "suppose" to go home to visit her. It's 11 years later and the thoughts and dreams are more intense than ever. I am in a committed relationship with someone whom I love very much. So I will speak to my soulmate in my thoughts to let him know we will be together someday, but it's exactly like you say, you can't think straight, gobsmacked! Thanks for this video!

[@donnadouglas5680]

After my divorce i moved to another state where i only had one friend. In my new apt. Building i met this man it was just pure energy and love. Like coming home, i felt like i had been looking for him with out knowing. We had a relationship for 5 years it was wonderful. I movied back to my home state. I was a mess missing him for 3 years. He was in a bad accident, i knew it before being told, he appeared by my bed the night if this went . He told me i came to him and saved him. His health is not good we talk every week but are about 900 miles apart. I miss him, but know we will always know each other.

[@sblacey2tornado900]

Just found you online and just received your book today … looking forward to reading it! Yes, I have met my twin but we are not together at this time. Long story…. Met in high school but we’re just good friends. Years later when I was going through a divorce we reconnected at a high school reunion. He spilt the beans about how he had felt about me back in the day and said he came to the reunion just to see me. He asked if I had felt the same way and I said “yes but I didn’t know you felt the same and I didn’t want to ruin our friendship if you only saw me as a friend.” He kissed me that night and I swear to you I felt like I literally had stuck my finger in an electrical socket with the amount of energy that was going through my body while we were kissing. I have NEVER experienced anything like it even with my ex husband who I was with for almost 20 years. Is this something you hear from other Twins ?? The timing wasn’t right back then bc I had a lot to heal within myself after my divorce but he is someone that is always on my mind and plenty of signs /synchronicities… etc.. one day in divine timing hopefully we will re align .

[@user-kw9ek8zf9n]

I’m 47 married for 20 years the small children living my life and a younger staff member proclaims their love for me of almost a year - I got side swiped, fell CRAZY for them, locked in 100%, turned my life upside down and IS MY TWIN FLAME. Intense, going crazy, losing my mind, so focused and all consumed with eachother. Had some separations, can’t stop thinking of her - yes, twin flame. Words can not express. Wish I talk to you more about this.

[@patricebennett1100]

Thank you. I have absolutely met mine, but 4 years ago he married someone else. We live in different countries so running into him is not an option. But the moment I met him I knew. Not sure if we will meet up again, but I do think of him everyday. It’s been 10years now. I love the star on their heart chakra. What a beautiful video. Xx

[@hilarydahl3722]

I have met mine. We were not together all the time in this life. We loved each other to our core. Yet we knew it was a soul connection. I had to move away for health reasons . He understood and we still kept in touch. He was still in my life. He passed away a few years ago. It was the most difficult passing I’ve ever had to deal with . I feel him around me often though. It’s beautiful to know and to feel that kind of connection. ❤

[@jasminejones1765]

You have explained this perfectly. I met a guy and straight away knew we were meant to be together and he felt the same. It was beautiful for a few years but then everything changed and we had a lot of partings but could not forget each other and it was coming and going but at the end of 10 years I knew it had to end and both agreed we had become obsessed in spite of the fact we were not happy anymore. Now a year later I have got over the extremely strong feelings but still he is in mind and often in my dreams and what I can't understand is that though I have accepted it all I am scared to ever see him as don't want to feel the love anymore. xxx

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Jasmine Jones yes I understand that darling, I think now it’s time to accept and find ways to detach yourself from his energy x I do it by sleep hypnosis videos on here and meditation for letting go of a past relationship xxx

[@carolcottle8157]

Age 9yrs and Guide Ruth whispered I would marry at about 40yrs . Fell for each other on a blind date, I saw a a couple of red flags but but it was to late because he and the 2 sons said they saw the moment I fell into an unconditional love for all 3. We married same year, and were married for 35yrs. He was a bit narcissistic and he past suddenly last year. One day I sat to meditate and was immediately was asked if I was prepared to loose Clive? I asked how do I prepare? 2 weeks later, sat down to mediate when immediately a shaft of light went do thru me from top of my head and out thru my feet and they said "this is how you will be after he passes". I understood it to be the same peace that Daniel in the lions den had. Huge funeral and it was such big celebration of story telling. Not a tear has been shed. Two day after passing he picked up a piece quartz on top shelf of my desk, lifted it over my glasses, gently dropped it onto my key board then flicked it hard at my tummy. He has since asked to come back as my son time around but I;m not so sure I want that again. That was my soulmate, and I could not win at setting boundaries when he slung shit at me, Oh, dear - so much for soulmates - finished me as far partnerships go. I;m at peace but now much wiser.

[@theresaclark3359]

Hi Nicky, firstly a big thankyou for this podcast as recently have struggled with this...met my soul mate unexpectedly at venue where I dance rock'n'roll 8yrs ago. Someone tapped my shoulder, a lady, saying there is a guy over there...blue shirt & he dances, Tess go & ask him to dance. He can't ask me...he's shy...hmm. I was sassy approaching him. Then I saw him, I felt a punch straight to my stomach, saw genuine softness & kindness shining out from his face...he was looking at me with his mouth open. We danced & butterflies were going mad in my stomach..perfectly danced in sync..people later said they saw us click in seconds..however, this guy is here one moment, undying love, then runs...proposed to me from Everest Base Camp...comes back then runs to Bali with mates paragliding & tells me he is working in Perth. We have done things, brought things, cooked same dish on the same day, we live in separate homes, but this connection is like telepathy... Why does he commit then run, close off? Why does he keep coming back then leave in these 8yrs.? I feel him every moment, everyday & when we are not together, my zest, sparkle, energy & love of life goes too. There is nothing we haven't done together, no one has ever reached my soul with this electric earth moving energy. Feel Dead inside.. I saw you for the first time on KZbin with Jeff Mara, you helped me smile & laugh. I connected with you instantly..like I had found my long ago friend... Thankyou, Tess from Australia

[@louiseayden9976]

Nicky, what a delightful person you are. So many readers I encountered are often working on ego, which is disappointing. Those I avoid. You, without a doubt, are genuine and refreshing. ❤

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh hun thank you so much xxxx

[@melaniestevens3858]

I met my soulmate in my late teens early twenties and it was the hardest lessons I have learnt. There was a continual magnetic pull towards each other, relationship that was on again & off again. Even went to the other side of the world to try and escape the pull but it didn’t work. Even separated he drops in dreams and I feel it when something dramatic has happened in his life. We remain friends. I ended up learning how to read the Akashic Records and look up contracts, one I ended our contract I no longer felt that magnetic pull. It destroyed my marriage as I left my husband and went back to him and then he didn’t want me!!! I did a QHHT session and I saw us married in a past life.

[@sarahsouthard3269]

My husband has had an affair. It’s been such a hard time. I thought he was my soul mate, the love of my life. Now my heart is shattered. Thank you for putting this video together.

[@jeanettemac6214]

Nicky I did your meditation to meet a loved one who has passed. Met my brother. Then I watched this where you mentioned Elberry Cove. This was mine and my brother's fave place as kids growing up in the Bay. How amazing. Thank you my darling.xxx.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh wow!!!!!

[@janethough2600]

I met my soulmate in 1975, we both new as soon as our eyes met. The Love was so deep it was deeper than Love. I fell pregnant then everything went pear shaped (we were both married to different people) Fast forward 37 years after one divorce and one widowhood, my soulmate and I were reunited. I was 61 and he was 68. He met his daughter for the very first time. The emotions were so intense, we wanted to be together so much , it hurt us both so deeply. The synchronicities were through the roof. He was still with the narcissist he married all those years ago, the sadness in his eyes was palpable. There were obviously hard "lessons " that he had to learn from that relationship. Sadly after 8 and a half years of being reunited with my daughter and I, he was taken "home " after much, much suffering😢 December 27th 2022. I thank God that we were reunited but I miss him so very very much and feel lost, lonely and empty without him, even though I know I'll see him again. I just pray we will be given the chance to be together properly as a couple in our next reincarnation? Sending Love, hugs and strength to anyone going through this ❤❤❤

[@DavidKerley]

Gratefully I've met my soulmate. A psychic landlord many, many years ago told me I wouldn't met my *_true love_* until later in life. She was right about that and so many other things. I was 60 at the time, he were 14 years younger. (Age differences rarely come into our conversation.) This one adores me and shows it constantly, comforts me, and is very protective of me, and I him. At long last (I'm 73 now), I've connected with my soulmate, and it was instantaneous. Thank you for the validation.

[@sonia4661]

After returning to work after a few months away from that location, I was walking down the corridor & he (new employee) was walking up. The instant our sight met, was an explosion, a deep breath & everything else just stopped. I was pretty much having heart palpitations after that. You see, I was already married & he was much younger than me. This person, triggered (what I call) the floodgates to open up, releasing bottled-up decades of suppressed emotion. (If you could visualize a big iron door with studs, something out of Raiders of the Lost Arc). I was emotionally on overdrive. Needless to say, meeting him was the catalyst of the major changes that happened in my life, to what it is today. The fallout of all of this, it was an unhealthy relationship and it ended. I have now been single for 17 years. The upside, I am happy & internally content. I know myself better than ever. I don't know if he was my soulmate or not. I only know that the need to be in relationship with anyone has completely disappeared.

[@Heinz57ish]

You just described an identical life event that I went through also. I was in a v unhappy marriage but got the job of my dreams and met a much younger man (10 years younger) and fell head over heals. He refused to get in to anything with me whilst I was married so I left my husband for him. I was truly , madly deeply n love with him but he left me after a year because he needed different things. I'm not making this up, but I also have now been single 17 years and and also now content and happy. I also don't know if he was a soul mate - I thought it was lust? I have never regretted leaving my husband - he is now very happy with the perfect woman for him.

[@sonia4661]

@@Heinz57ish We are seriously on par. My ex husband is also with someone who is better suited to him and she and I get on really well. My relationship with the work colleague (I won't say how many years younger publicly) lasted 5 years. I was prepared to take that journey, even if it meant it was for a short time. I knew deep down that it wasn't forever. I've never met anyone who's gone through the same as me. Wow!

[@Heinz57ish]

@@sonia4661 nice to meet a kindred spirit - something else is funny, i won't say my name but I was v nearly named Sonia! It was my Mum's choice but Dad won. I also get on well with my ex husbands partner - she was the estate agent we were both renting our houses from and we went for a viewing for a flat with our daughter and she turned out to be an old school mate of his (they hadn't seen each other for 30 years!) - soon after that they started dating and now they've been together for years. Life weaves strange but cool webs.

[@sonia4661]

@@Heinz57ish it sure does. My ex is not the type to go up and chat to women but he did this one day to her, she was selling Sun glasses and they've been together for years. What country are you from?

[@karrieblennerhassett5370]

You have made it really clear the distinction between Soul Mates and those from my Soul Cluster ... thank you it really explains a lot about my Soul Mate/Twin Flame who I will have to accept being separated from for the rest of this life. 🥰😔🥰

[@heidigilbert8033]

I am a twin flame, I was obsessed as was he. We had kids together but was so toixc, and he cheated. I meditated to the divine and said if he married someone else as he got engaged,it would be my sign that we are not to be in this life. He did get married, and I was relieved the divine answered. I am now so happy on my path and send him love. His marriage ended after 2 months. There's obv much more details that is too much to go into on here as went on for many yrs. I am so happy that a new love is on its way for me as the angels are now bringing him for me.

[@omaliveatlast4688]

My soulmate and me chatted online with a common interest , we started to like each other and one night I traveled in etheric form and lay night to her in bed . I accidentally put my head in an old alarm clock and the ticking was in my head ! She heard me and was shocked to not see a body next to her . She was in shock and so I traveled 200 miles to check on her . We fell in love and everything worked to live with her , my job finished , my house sold in two weeks . We married and she guides me to places I need to be ....got me training to be a medium now !

[@shirleyheyward3991]

I believe I've been with my twin flame now for 46 years, I was married and separated before I met him, I spotted him from behind and I just knew he was the one and so did he, but it has been a very rocky road and I left him 3 times, but we are finally finding peace between us. I understand that we came together to teach each other kindness and consideration and to let go of ancestral patterns, we have both grown so much in the past 4 years. Now it feels like we have to learn to find that romantic spark that we buried along the way to finally find the happiness I know we both deserve. Thank you for your insights. ❤

[@candisfisher2761]

I believe I met my soulmate... even though he passed 2 and a half years ago .. he was truly made to be my other half ... ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@HadriansWallNZ]

I have a friend from “back home” but now we are at the other end of the world from each other, both with our own families etc. I’ve known her since we were 15-16 years old. We clicked humour wise immediately and now we are 70, we still can pick up where we left off in conversations even though we haven’t seen each other for years. I send her regular messages and she doesn’t answer them often but I know if we met up, we’d just be the same as we were when we were 15-16 year olds.

[@janinepatching3669]

I'm with you darling...the planet, animals are thriving and I'm loving bein GB at home in my garden, in nature. I dont th think people will be able to go back to exactly how they were, I'm hoping that the higher frequencies we are moving into will stop that from happening x

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Janine Patching yes so do I darling xxx

[@robertlloyd9236]

Hi you explain it so well I lost my soul mate and the pain nearly killed me

[@slrm2012]

You did a wonderful job explaining a deep and complex subject.

[@Tinyteacher1111]

This is food for thought for me. I’ve been married, divorced, dated a guy I became obsessed with for 15 years, and I never married again. Now I’m 69 and have beaus, but there was only one guy I met that when I left our date, I thought, “I’m going to marry that guy.” We were very close for months, but he left to go to a month-long training program and didn’t want to continue our relationship. I truly believe he had bisexual tendencies, and he found a person that was there, because it’s all he could talk about. I don’t think about him anymore, but I do think about the guy I dated for more than 15 years. Both were 10 years younger than I. I haven’t felt that way and I don’t know if I ever will. I’ve been sick for 21 years, and I’ve been unavailable to many offers, so I get that I haven’t had one. I also have a mentally ill and abusive grown son who put a stop to any relationship I had a possibility of having. This makes me sad thinking about this. Thank you!

[@andreaspreckley9474]

Geez im so confused now! I knew the second i saw my first hubby he was the one, passion, obsession, the lot. Had two kids with him, divorced after 10 years, but always knew he was my soul mate. In comes my current man, boom! The second i saw him, i knew. Together now for 13 years and when you said the 11.11, i looked at the clock and it was 9.11! So now idk which one of them is my soul mate?!? 😅🤣

[@TriumphRascal]

I haven't met my soul mate yet, but I have a feeling that I will at some stage...

[@Rastamanliveup7s]

You now have 66 likes and you had 66 comments before I commented myself.I bought your book last night and started looking at your vids you have posted here.Years ago I went to see a psychic and she mentioned I was throwing double 6's .... This was in 2005 - I will never forget! They have appeared now after all these years.I want to do a tarrot session with you in the right time.I also communicated with you first time on the 22nd 😳 . Anyways thanks for posting these vids I am going to spend the rest of my day listening to as many as I can 🥳

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Wow that’s just amazing synchronicity 😃🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rhondabarr2636]

Yeah I met mine, everything you said, our elbows touched at work at we felt a, spark. We were friends, then fell in love.. Unfortunately I lost him to the suicide because of a bad marriage of abuse....

[@georgiagiannini3530]

I met my soulmate in 1990 - in a pub and he was across the room and once our eyes locked we were totally interested in one another and everyone and the music disappeared. We married 4 months later. I never ever ever had an experience in love like this. We were in our late 20's and my heart was so full of happiness and instantly in love, sadly, we divorced 3 years later (he wanted it) and I was so depressed for over 10 years, I had to let go and that was the worst hurt I ever had. I prayed to God to please please take this hurt away. Now I will think or sometimes dream of him. I'm 61 now and married one more time and divorced but have been single for quite a long time and never have met anyone like that love. This was truly the most painful experience in love but I can talk about it now with gratefulness and even though it felt like my whole world was carved into something else after him - and I don't feel I'll love like I did with him again - but I am motoring forward and learning to do things for myself and helping others if I can in other arenas of life. I can now say that I am glad I experienced that kind of connection and a love that blew my mind, body and soul. Thank you for explaining this Nicky, I finally understand it!

[@daleedwards8691]

I’ve had passionate relationships but I don’t believe any were my Soul Mate and have felt something missing all my life and now at 72 don’t believe thinking back that we met in this lifetime. I do hope I don’t have to come back and marry my ex again ..!! 😂

[@annabrewin3034]

It is an indescribable connection! You think you are going mad, physically it is an out of worldly union, it can destabilize you in all aspects of your life, you cannot talk to unawakened people as they would think you needed a psychologist, lol, you just have total unconditional love regardless of economics, physical body, faults or flaws. I kept seeing 1111 or 111. He would ring me at 11.11 o'clock. He would leave and come back, say he cannot stop thinking of me, the intensity scared him. And that is where he would run away again. Usually the feminine is more evolved and aware of what is happening. There are many many hard lessons as the shadow aspects in you are brought up to heal and you need to dive deep into yourself and to break down the ego. We are separated at this time as he was in a codependant karmic relationship with his X baby mother who treats him badly and uses him. She is in another relationship breadcrumbing him and probably using lust to keep him on the sidelines. Though I understand that she is his lesson and he needs to evolve, look at his shadow self etc. The twin flame journey is more about the evolution of the self. Until you are both vibrating at a higher frequency, dealt with past repeating trauma, codependancy, self esteem, your worth etc you will not come into permanent union as it will come between you both. I with sadness accept we may never be in permanent union and just send him love, healing and happiness. He has hurt me more, given me more trauma, pain and sadness than anyone has. Though that was more to the unevolved me. As the evolved me knows it is a choice to allow someone to control, hurt, disrespect, undervalue etc me. I can cut that off anytime as I have the strength to know I deserve so much more now.

[@J-D1111]

I am just being guided to you now Nicky and I couldn't be more pleased as I am on this spiritual journey of being who I am meant to be - a medium. This video is so helpful as my soulmate and I are at the letting go of the 'ego' stage in our relationship. At least I am....jury is still out on them but I am getting snippets of it. lol I know we are supposed to be together but they are sabotaging at every turn as they are struggling to overcome their fears and patterns. I look forward to learning more from you and doing your meditations as well. Thank you for popping into my life. You are just what I needed at this juncture in time! :) Much love, peace, joy and gratitude to you!

[@theresaclark3359]

I couldn't agree more with you...I have just been guided to Nicky tonight!!!

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh much love darling 💖💖💖

[@livingthedream6072]

Hi, I’ve just discovered your channel. You’re amazing!!! Thank you for sharing your light & wisdom. I’m hoping this comment will reach. I am a Twin Flame. May I request an in depth video on Twin Flames please 🙏. I feel there is so much incorrect, romanticised information out there on Twin Flames that a down to earth, factual, informative video of what exactly a Twin Flame connection means on the earth plane & how it can be navigated for our greatest good for both parties is soooo needed!! I’m hoping to manifest this from you 😊❤️ Thank you in advance 🙏🙏🙏

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

@@livingthedream6072 pleasure my darling xx

[@livingthedream6072]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium Thank You so much. I look forward to listening. Your work is incredible & so needed right now. Your down to earth & very human approach is just perfect for the millions out there still stuck in the 3D but very much beginning to wake up! I appreciate you 🙏❤️

[@livingthedream6072]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium As a side note, My Twin activated my Kundalini, which as you know is common. I’ve been open to spirituality my whole life but not to this level. Prior to this I had never heard the word ‘Kundalini’ I also had no idea what a ‘Twin Flame’ was & hadn’t heard of it either. Although, sprit & The Universe did prepare me by putting the term ‘Twin Flame’ into my periphery for 6 months prior (Newsfeeds etc) My Kundalini activated during a text conversation with Twin on the other side of the world. 3 years later, we still haven’t met. I’m now a psychic/empath & am firmly on the spiritual path. I have no idea if our Soul Contract is to be together in this lifetime !?!? We communicate Telepathically & in dream state. We also communicated via music for a solid 2+ years. He had no idea we were Twin Flames till a few weeks ago & I have no idea of his reaction or current thought process as I have solidified the separation so I can really cultivate my self love & spiritual path without being stuck on another person. I’m telling you all this because I feel it’s so important to be real about the true purpose of Twin Flames and why it is a phenomenon on earth right now with so many being reincarnated, like never before. I speak logically here from what I’ve read & learned digging past the romantic stuff. My hope would be that your connection to the amazing spirit realm can truly shine a light on this for people like me. It is a beautiful journey but it is equally awful !!! So much incredible love & yet so much confusion & angst! It’s as bonkers, as bonkers can get but it’s also as real, as real can get! Hoping this comment sheds a little bit of first hand light. Thanks again x

[@Rememberwhoweare]

I hv gone back under hypnosis unbeknownst to me the man I met n a class was specifically had bn looking for his soul mate. So he said. But when he asked me under hypnosis to go back to the first time I had met him. After a long time of going through worm holes and exploding into a Hugh universal explosion and the intense feeling and knowing of love. It was so intense of which I will go back to that time to remember. But then came the first time ever to feel grief. That too was intense beyond belief. There I realized the division and my other half was lead away. And I too was lead away. I was so devastated I refused to talk to him for weeks.. But what I learned over time is he wasn't my twin he was supposed to be my teacher, but ended up my Handler. He later after spirit came in to stop him from using me to advance his search for the Crystals of Atlantis. Which hvng a voice coming through me not once but many times. Because he kept trying different ways to get the info he wanted. Boy this sounds like it could b a movie. But I did get info I couldn't believe but importantly when he said to me, I'm not your twin. I said No you fell in love, then in trying to control me, you became my handler.. which spirit asked me. Do you want to continue and I said NO. With that he just disappeared. What a lesson for me. And freedom.

[@catherineahearne2066]

yes I have met mine Summer solstice 2023. Hes in a situation and isnt free at present. Its been petty mindblowing as you rightly said so there is separation sadly but I am getting on with life happily. Hes too afraid to change his unhappiness at the present moment

[@rainbow-shine6946]

Thank you Nicky ❤ New to your channel - you just popped up ! 😊 Bless you, sending you lots of love and light ❤xxxx

[@kimmoore2681]

I must say I loved the lock down too. That time I felt the same, it gave people a chance to stop and think about their life and so many people changed their lives 360 and for the better ❤

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Absolutely xx

[@sdot6569]

Yes yes yes!! I have met my twinflame/soulmate & my life have never been the same since. Its the most passionate, obsessive, euphoric, blissful, painful, crazy making experience. We are seperated right now and its anguish everyday but it's for the best.

[@colleengolden7053]

Confirmation of soul monster. 8 years of the worst pain and beautiful lessons. 😊

[@marionmercer6]

Past life I was civil war nurse so I helped a lot of men so I had a lot of people attractive to me

[@SteuartHedington]

I'm a bit late, but thank you! You asked for comment, so yes I have spent time with my mate. I'm glad I found you, you are amazing. Thank you again.

[@lindsayjane1110]

You really made me chuckle when you were explaining about the souls failing their contracts and getting sent back to do it again. This is probably me 😂 (although I know I'm lucky enough to have met my soul mate🔥🔥)

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh you are so lucky! I'm glad I made you smile darling! xx

[@welcometosusansneighborhoo5070]

Thanks for the laugh and love! Lake Stevens, WA, USA

[@janinepatching3669]

Your explanation was perfect. Thanks for all you do x

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Janine Patching oh thank goodness thanks hun xx

[@crystalcave2169]

Goosebumps and tears 💜💜💜

[@janicaorden6734]

Thank you ❤ I met my twinflame when we both were 16. Then I got 3 children with another man. One evening 13 years later we met again. I was married to the wrong man an I divorced him rather quickly. Me and my twinflame were together for about 3 years. Then it went south 😔I just recently learned that he had a lot of negative enteties attached to him and they affected evreything. I still think of him evrey day, I know he is my twinflame. I send him love and healing in hope that he will heal and come back to me . Our soulcontract was to heal eachother in this lifetime, but we werent strong enough back then. I don’t like giving up, so I’m fighting for us on a spiritual level ❤

[@alexharrocks1379]

November 13th 2023 ❤ I’ve often thought I must of asked to come to this earth not having a partner in crime to go through this life experience… orphaned young … not any meaningful romantic relationships… but I landed the most wonderful son … he’s off living his dream as it should be 🙏 and now I am manifesting daily to meet my soulmate so we can hold each other’s hand through this beautiful earth life x

[@alisonrandall4725]

I’ve met 2 that blew my mind! Psychic connections like crazeeee. Felt more love than I ever felt. I felt NUTS bc so many synchronicities. It was like they knew every secret and did not matter. We did end up w very painful ending. I recognized them like myself. It was if they mirrored everything of me!!

[@lucilleengbert4197]

OMG, I find you so entertaining! I wish we could be friends! You are so warm and real and friendly! I recently saw you on Jeff Mara. I live in the USA. Currently, I am binge watching you and having so much fun! I look forward to learning from you and continuing to enjoy past and future videos! Keep up the great work! Sending love! ❤

[@goldenageteachings8550]

You are so genuine :-). You make me smile. A beautiful soul. I feel so connected to your energy. Thank you for this explanation. I have met two individuals who are soul mates of some sort. My first relationship was a wonderful connection which ended and the other relationship was a whirlwind like a run away freight train that ended as well. I think it woke me up.

[@laylarayne4103]

I married a man in 1991 knowing he wasn't my one true love. He was very good to me however. For 17 years I had a recurring dream about another man who was meant for me. I could never see his face in the dreams but I felt his energy. I ended my marriage and a year later I met the man I had felt in my dreams. The dreams stopped as soon as I met him. We were together for 8 blissfully happy years until we lost a baby and had several deaths in our families. With all the trauma we fell apart. We've been apart for almost 5 years now and he's living with another woman. He and I are still very drawn to each other but he's still working through karma. I've walked away from him again but I believe we will be together again...in divine timing. It's a story of spiritual growth and forgiveness. 🎉❤🎉

[@gailforbes7834]

I so understand this! I have meant my twin! I never would have chosen this in my physical world here. We are different races and big age gap. When I meant him I was so drawn to him on so many levels. We connected after I stopped resisting, it was beautiful! However it has changed in the physical, though we still feel each other. I just drew a boundary because the back and forth seems unhealthy for me and him. So I surrendered, did my ego work, lol, still doing it! I will always love him deeply but now I am ok with whatever happens in the physical, because I know we will always be connected! Thank you so much! What a wonderful way of explaining this!❤

[@lindanelson6376]

I married my soulmate 47 years ago and it has been a roller coaster of emotions however I still love him and will do whatever it takes to make it work.❤

[@lotusflowerpassion]

I have been married once do not think I have met my Soulmate ,I have had a dream about someone special and heard not in this lifetime. Been single for many years now do not think I was meant to be with anyone else , none of My encounters went very Far long story about that. this was helpful and heard some of this before but not in such detail. 2 I have met and was shown being in another lifetime with and the one was really difficult at the time when did not work out. but also seen why later was not the best for me.

[@ladydhayney3700]

I was in love but he didn't love me. He left town and met his soul mate and it broke my heart. He came into my dreams on and off for 50+ years. My ego was crushed but life goes on and I met up with probably my soul mate or twin. I loved his company right off the bat and kept seeing him but I didn't fall in love right away. But he decided to not go out anymore and I was I love. We got back together and had a mostly happy life for 54 years married. He said he was attracted to me the first time he saw me. He thought I was the most beautiful and smart woman he ever was with. He was very romantic and would write poetry to me and if he could he would give me anything I wanted. He passed in October and I miss the person that he was before he got sick. I do think he was the real soul mate or twin. After my husband passed I had a dream about the first guy and shortly afterwards, I heard he passed on the ides of March. I didn't feel bad that he passed. I felt bad for his wife because she is going thru what I am probably going thru. I keep looking for signs from him.

[@marionmercer6]

Yes I’m with my soulmate dated in high school but didn’t get together after my divorce was married for 24 years, now I’m married for my soulmate for over 10 years now

[@magsb3]

I worked in a different city but for the same company. Our jobs meant that we spoke to one another on the phone. I avoided speaking to him as he used to annoy me with this flippant comments/humour. After a few years we were at a dinner organised by our employer. I was a guest of one of the individuals who were part of his team (platonic as he did not have a girlfriend at the time and asked if I fancied going). I asked for him to be pointed out so I could put a face to the name. We met and I knew from the guy I was with, that he was scheduled to marry someone the following weekend. After being introduced to him briefly, my parting comment was “are you sure you are doing the right thing getting married before you have taken me out?” He just smiled and we parted. 9 months later his marriage had broken down, they were separated and going through a divorce and we met again through work. He asked me out and I believe we are soulmates. To this day I don’t know why I posed that question to him. It just came into my head and I felt I had to say it.

[@dianehiles9197]

Yes, met soul mate, was hard to move on, took 7 years, he had a lot of emotional and physical abuse and used drugs, and was not wanting to do therapy to heal and stay together...saw 25 years later and could feel same intensity but declined relationship with him as had done zero growth, healing and maturing...intense!

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Yep been there before it’s hard isn’t it xxxx

[@suelewin2673]

I've always known that my ex husband is my twin flame. I don't know if it's due to the current situation/lockdown but I feel he's very near to me - he lives abroad and I'm in the UK. Back in 2005 I had a terrible pain in my left foot and found it difficult to put my foot in the floor. I had xrays/saw hospital consultant and was told they couldn't find anything wrong with my foot. The pain disappeared after 6 months or so. In 2006 my ex - we hadn't seen or been in contact with each other since 2000 - contacted me and he told me that in 2005 he'd injured his right foot playing football and he couldn't walk on that foot. Nicky, in, I think, 2011 I met you at an intimate afternoon at Tracey Bellinger's house in Norwich. You were absolutely amazing then and are even more so now x

[@jancardy1079]

Ive had two soulmates in my life and I use to feel their pain if they had a backache, kidney pain etc I would get the pain too. Also, I've picked up they aren't well or something has happened to them to find out later that it was true...

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Sue Lewin oh darling yes I remember that! Thank you angel, yep that would be your twin flame xxxxx

[@lenalarsson6310]

I think I was married to my soulmate, but we divorced more than 20 years ago. We came together to heal ourselves - emotionally, spiritually, physically and more. I was helped by that relationship in many ways, but he could not take being continually triggered the way I did (not knowing I did). When we finally broke up he refused having any contact with me. However, while in a short relationship this past winter, I had two very clear dreams where he showed himself laying beside me 🤔

[@Teenibash1969]

I love the idea of a soulmate, but working long shifts in the emergency services it’s hard to meet anyone. Relationships up till now just havent worked out. I seem to have met every eejit in the area. Maybe Him upstairs planned for me to be on my own.

[@positivevibes1306]

I've just found you. Enjoying your videos. Want to add my story. Was in a relationship for 18 years 2kids. I was incredibly unhappy and depressed. Lost and trapped. I wanted to end the relationship but couldn't. I then met a soul mate or soul tie and we clicked. That day my life changed and a couple of months later I finally found the courage to end my long-term relationship. I grew closer to the soulmate/tie- I was obsessed and infatuated with him from the moment our eyes met. He was extremely charming and handsome but untrustworthy and he ended up breaking my heart badly. He was a significant part of my life and a catalyst for my change. I'm not sure who he was to me. We parted over 4 years ago. I had to break away from him which was excruciating. I don't miss him anymore. Worked on myself and changed my whole being. I needed to meet him to get out of a stagnant relationship at the time and make some deep internal changes. He changed my life completely. I don't think he was my soulmate but whatever he was he changed my whole life. Then 2 years ago I had a moment with someone else where our eyes just locked. Nothing became of that either. I’m still confused as to who he was to me. Now I’m happily alone and waiting for my one, I know he’s on his way soon or when he's ready! 😂😅❤

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Yes could be a soul mate not all have relationships in a life some just give us a negative lesson x hang on in there xx wait for Divine timing xx

[@positivevibes1306]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium 🩷 oh I am. Happy and content at the mo. I’ve Passed that isolated lonely phase now but I know my soulmate is coming soon! 💙🙏😀

[@rosmurphy1979]

All making sense, numbers and feeling we knew each other in past lives. We were married (to each other) 3 times over 43 years. Many troubles but always back together. He died 3 years ago but I sometimes feel I've been talking to him in dreams but don't remember them.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Ros Murphy oh darling, yes that’s your soul mate, I’m so sorry you lost them xxx

[@crystalrose7]

Loved this thank you glad I found your channel. I've been seeing 11.11 everyday for a couple of years now. Still single atm but definitely drawn to someone. I think about him constantly met him 2 years ago. Watch this space I guess 😇 🙏💞🙏

[@kathylovejoy2569]

When I first saw my soulmate, I just felt like I had to know him, and through various situations, we met. Neither one of us, had had a girlfriend or boyfriend before. I was not even looking really, but I kept thinking about him, he would follow me in my car and we finally talked, still in our cars, but getting in with him and going for a drive terrified me. I was at total ease just talking to him. I was not comfortable being alone with a man at all. But my friend knew I liked him, and her brother knew him, and told him that. My girlfriend finally came with on a drive with us, and I was fine with that, but then she said she had to go home!! I was horrified, but now stuck going for a drive with him and trying to make conversation. He had followed me around in my car for about a month, just to talk. But we finally did go out together, although I sat as far away from him as I could. Had the door opened I would have fallen out of the car, lol But finally I got much more relaxed after about three months, and we were now seeing each other every day after both of us got off work. Just driving around talking. We went together for a year and 3/4. Finally decided to get married, but my mother insisted on so many people coming to the wedding, that I didn't want there, we argued a lot about it, until my nerves gave out one night and I had to be taken to the hospital, where I stayed 3 days. My Dr. advised us to wait a bit, which we did. At that time you had to have your parents written permission, which we had. Then we decided we were just going to get our best friends to stand up for us, get a minister together, and we said nothing to either set of parents, and just went and got married. We were so happy we did that. It took so much stress off me. Plus we are still together going on 56 years now. So it really was meant to be, from just that one glance I saw of him.

[@saintofspades567]

Found this just now and it explains EVERYTHING!!! Hahaha!! 😂 ive felt like ive been going NUTS! Ive known him (been totally frickin mega obsessed) for 7 years now and unfortunately i think we completely blew it. 😝 We hurt each other like you wouldnt believe. My body and soul were aching so hard i couldnt breathe. Neither could i sleep for weeks. He was so mean to me i wasent sure i wanted to continue living. I believe i could also feel his pain and that made it a million times worse. I dream about him constantly, and i feel his energy. It didnt ”happen” the first time i saw him though. It was first time we talked. I just love him to death and he will have none of me since he is the most insecure avoidant person ive met. Dont know wether to laugh or cry at the idea that i might have to do this thing again.

[@reginacox8033]

My first crush, or as I called him “my first true love” was in the 6th grade. As you would expect, it was a short lived romance 😂, but I had a crush on him all the way through high school. We never dated or even saw each other much even though we went all through high school together! I had dreams of him when I was in my late 30’s and 10 years ago he contacted me after 35 years (we are now in our 60’s)! As soon as I saw his name on Facebook messenger my heart started pounding and I instantly feel in love with him again! 🤔😮 I couldn’t understand why I would still have such strong feelings for someone I hadn’t heard from or seen for so many years and someone that I really didn’t know anything about as an adult until I learned about twin flames! It has been a very difficult connection, to say the least, but he will always have a special place in my heart!

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Oh bless yes twin flames are hard to let go xx

[@sf651]

yes i have a soulmate, it is my husband. as soon as i met him i knew we were going to be together.... and i felt at ease and at home.... In fact we were engaged less than 6 weeks after first dating..... but there was something missing & something in the back of my mind... which i often tried to ignore.... eg i never wanted to go to a medium as i kind of knew it would never last and i didnt want to hear the truth. we are still married but not living together. very happily married (1988) and separated 8 years ago coz he was a naughty boy.... he rings at least twice a week. I have met my twin flame and there is no way (at this stage) after 6 years of knowing him that i could even consider looking for a partner. He is a friend and i wouldnt or havent discussed this concept with him...at first b4 i knew of twin flames, i felt it was like being a dog on heat... a magnetism.... like dancing the same dance... being home. psychic activity happens when i see him, in fact i saw him on thursday and 8 days later i had my spiritual awakening. i know when he is thinking of me. heart chakra activity when i see him... I have had lots of signs - some are: when i leave our catch ups there is a yearning..... (again we are friends) I knew that we had met in a previous life (which i never REALLY thought about this idea a lot before meeting him... nice idea but never really was part of my encounters with ppl) and this i have told him but said we must have been bro and sister lol.... all of the above i didnt read anywhere, i felt it and then started thinking i wonder if this is SOMETHING.... and was searching high and low on internet, etc and finally found out about Twin Flames and i couldnt believe all the things they talk about was what i was experiencing. there is no relationship i have had in the past that compares. funnily enough, if i see a medium and they say this is not a good relationship to be in or i am delusional... i know deep down this is not correct. (yes i am an Aquarian lol). At first i was in FEAR of never seeing him again... loosing the contact but as time went on i learnt UNCONDITIONAL LOVE... and wow, that is an amazing thing to know about... to want the best for him and want him to be happy with his family. and to know that if we are not together in this life then a relationship in a future life will be amazing too. Although i do know deep down inside i will be with him in this lifetime, when the time is right. in the meantime, i have a lot to do for myself... learning, earning and yearning (ha ha) . I also acknowledge how lucky i am to have met him AND my husband (see comment below) Of course, other ppl dont have the same acceptance of a TF connection - they think i am crazy or OCD. that takes a lot to get thru the "gee maybe i am crazy" ...but now i am at the stage of thinking i dont care what ppl think, i know deep down this is reality and magic at the same time.

[@sf651]

oh, i just thought i should add.... after some time, of almost being in mourning, i made a distinctive decision to focus on what i actually had (the unconditional love, the fact i have a twin flame, i have met him in person, i have these amazing feelings & how they make me feel, the JOY i have sometimes feels like my heart will explode, etc) VERSUS that what i dont have (union, contact sometimes, clarification from him, etc) 💚💚💚 JOY, love, patience, awe, faith, inner knowing VERSUS fear, anxiety, depression, sadness 💚💚💚

[@user-dq3tb2vt5j]

I decided 20 years ago i wanted to be a nurse. I was 37. Had 3 sons divorced. Was not interested in relationship. Thought wanted a career. How wrong was i met my twin flame . He was a nurse and had to sign of my learning. I felt so comfortable around him. He listened to me. Through the years we became friends had relationship on off. Jesus i adore him. Still do. He married someone else 😢 then we met up jesus my feelings never changed. Now he is very ill. I want to finish our story together ❤

[@clairetownsley7291]

I met my twin flame in late 2015. He was 23 yrs younger than me. It was instant. We got to know each other for 3 weeks and have never been in contact since. I'll see him again but who knows when...

[@earthsign7568]

We can have more than 1 TF. This makes life complicated! With the Twin connection, you share the same body energetically. Your souls merge.

[@TheBeckyBooty]

I saw a silvery blue cord from my husband to me the first time I saw him, even though I didn't see what he looked like, just the cord. It felt like my breath was sucked out of me. We have been together 34 years, much has been good so much has been very painful. I feel it smoothing out currently.

[@SuperPearce123]

I keep seeing 1111 now but I’m confused by how many potential reasons there are for it and I stumbled on this

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Spiritual awakening new begginings! Xx

[@SuperPearce123]

@@NickyAlanPsychicMedium I’m starting a new role in august

[@marilyngreaves4768]

Thank you Nicky for explaining soul mates and twin flames. I think my twin flame was a Native Indian named Rising Sun. I actually channel him. I had a vision where I met him and his family sitting around a campfire they were a lovely family. We decided that I would come back and he would stay in the spirit world with our young daughter. He said he had helped to find me someone that I would love and have a good life with. Which has happened. I know friends and family look after us from the spirit world which is great. This may sound silly but how do they decide who is going to look after us. Do they ask the Angels “would you mind if I take my turn to be with my mother or husband etc” I would love to know how it works. Hope you will give me an answer that would be great. Love your videos. Thank you

[@tommykeegan2243]

yes, my soul mate and I are now getting closer and closer, he is 20 years older than me, we clash a little but there's a love and connection that cannot be explained.

[@NickyAlanPsychicMedium]

Yep I get that xx