South Africans Living in America | Stuck with no money in America & embarrsed to go back to SA

[@trevoryingwane5714]

I am glad you made this video, sis Velile. From the time when I lived in Germany for a couple of years, I realised that, unfortunately, our media sell bad South Africa and portray the Western countries glorious. Only realise when out of SA how fortunate we are , and need us to protect this country. My salute to you.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

I know hey. We have the best country in South Africa.

[@thembikunene4531]

So true. I always sell South Africa and us as South Africans here in the UK. I do say we gave our challenges with the government but overall South Africa is a country to visit. Sadly not only the media even some Black and White people who r in the,UK, I challenge them.

[@SomeOne-yv8jf]

Stop the White South Africans and Israelis from taking your lands.

[@TheHuny85]

@@thembikunene4531 ive heard white South Africans say negative things about the country and i steer clear of them when im overseas .So draining .

[@Perthraya]

​@@TheHuny85not all just some. Most South African even white are returning or planning to return. They say it is better here.

[@georgemcdonald649]

I am a white South African and love South Africa. We have problems but at leased we know them and deal with it the best we can. I will never go and live in another country because this is where God has put me and this is where I belong! I will die here!

[@carolwatney9206]

WELL SAID THIS WORLD ARE EVIL EVEN IN SA BUT NOONE SHOULD REJOICE IN THE STARVE AND SLAUGHTER OF INNOCENT HUMANS GOD CREATED US ALL THOSE POOR CHILDREN DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN IN PALISTINE GOD'S HOLY BIBLE IS LOVE GOD IS LOVE

[@MariamAdams-q1z]

I agree@ georgemcdonald

[@hrhprincessfifymo9037]

Im proud of you man

[@Marysmmiiith]

I am a black South African, just like you, I will never relocate to live in another country. If SA goes down the drain i will definitely be in that drain

[@ScissorN]

Send me R3k kobus

[@segosful]

Iyhoo cc the topic triggers me..I worked in Dubai for 6months I resign after I realized that the money goes to back to the system .Of course when I came back home I was a laughing stock but it's better that suffering in a foreign country

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Eish I know and I am sorry you had to go through that. I am happy you back home and living better. 🙏🏾❤️

[@NomvuseleloNkomo]

You smart forget about those who laughed at you, they can't think for themselves at least you tried and acted beautiful and swiftly,🎉

[@WordPractitioner]

What's there to laugh😏abanye abantu kodwa, I'm sure they haven't done anything about their own lives

[@faithsdollsville2662]

@@VelileLifestyleDecorTV you are admirable for stepping out of your comfort zone to go see another country. You are admirable for swallowing your pride and returning back home. The only people who can laugh at you are stagnant in something in their lives. They envied you but were bound by comfort or fear. You have gained something most of us can never get or even take from you. Your own life-building experience. You will come out victorious if you haven’t yet. Well done.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

@ thank you for this but for correction, the story is not about me. I am not returning back to South Africa . I have 7 years to be in America so if I go to SA this festive season, I am return back in January. I appreciate you perspective though and you are correct getting out of the comfort zone is the best thing to do. 🙏🏾❤️

[@mpram5522]

What an informative video. I worked for US embassy in SA and worked with US medical Drs on their secondment to SA department of Health. None of them owned a house back in the US. They all told me with amazement that I actually owned properties that it is impossible for even graduates to own such in the US. It is understandable though because 1st world have no minerals to sell and subsidise their economy. Their source of taxes is exclusively work. We in Africa are the envy of these 1st world countries.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Most definitely. People are old. And still live in an apartment in USA. I have noticed that. 🙏🏾❤️

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

Oh wow that's something I haven't heard before.

[@justicetshovhota3940]

Even in Europe, majority of people rent. They don't own houses there.

[@dil321]

​@@VelileLifestyleDecorTV or with roommate (while in their 60's)

[@VibingwithT286]

Here in the USA you currently have a lot of homelessness elders, living in tents, cars, and campers..it’s VERY VERY SAD..I’m black American and realize this isn’t life..

[@thandindlovu1058]

That is a mouthful Velile and you just touched the tip of the iceberg . I have told handfuls of people that these 1st world countries are not what people are being told. Furthermore we as Africans, South Africans to be exact, should start looking after ourselves and each other, stop expecting things to happen and improve for us. We need to hold each other’s hands and move foward. AFRICA IS THE 1stWORLD COUNTRY, only if we are prepared to make it thus

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Very profound words. 🙏🏾❤️

[@sibongilenene5610]

Thanks Velile Bn to the US,teaching,been a Fulbright Hayes scholar,had a stint,sad one at Howard.Put in a Dept with zombielike woman senior.For research methodology.In Sociology Dept.Painful.But had wonderful hosts in New Orleans.Freedom of the City given to me!!❤

[@ednafourie7509]

But here they want grants to pay for all those things paid by taxpayers. People all ethnic groups who work hard here like you there, pay for free living black people in South Africa. Nothing is free someone is paying. At least there you work for your lifestyle.

[@normansindana4366]

Be established locally in South Africa first. It's tough abroad guys. This woman has a lecturer for a husband, but making nails 💅 is around R3600 (US $ 200), something you know you do for R200 average in South Africa. Do your research and continue to be established in South Africa 🇿🇦. Looking at cost of housing in USA 🇺🇸 and high rental, it's better you invest in an Air BnB in USA 🇺🇸 and get high return whilst you're here in South Africa. Develop that into a network of income, so if you have to settle there you are not dependent on your profession alone. Also it will be great investment even if you stay here in SA

[@MariamAdams-q1z]

Agree. We must help one another to improve standard of living and be content if u have a simple home simple reliable car and health and income. We have communal love in south Africa. EXPATs be brave and return rather than suffer in another country. Be truthful and tell people the streets are not paved with gold in America. England Australia. Etc

[@sibongilenkosi6577]

They should come back. Things are about to worsen in that country. Not that SA is any better but its better to be surrounded by your loved ones.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Eish say that again. 🙏🏾❤️

[@Victory2me]

@sibongilenkosi6577 why do you say it's going to get worse?

[@rockon8174]

Crime in SA is insane! Forget that!

[@gaolekweedwardmotshwane295]

​@@rockon8174lol who said crime over here is any better?

[@BakerRober]

lol

[@jwcmnbox]

Thank you for understanding our struggle in America.. its no childs play here.

[@rockon8174]

🙄🙄🙄

[@malachibenyisrael4621]

​@@rockon8174😂

[@carlkuna4544]

Are you aware that South Africa consumers owe 1.39 trillions rands to creditors. These are people who live inside South Africa. Do you think this situation is better than for those living abroad in debt?

[@desireegertse3877]

The grass is never green on the other side.people left SA for various reasons.no matter what we face in SA,we still are privileged in many ways.we don't need 2-3 jobs to survive;some of us are home owners of 1or 2 properties,debt free.etc. we are educated and proud home owners,just scale down on unnecessary things.🇿🇦

[@NabuBrenner]

Can't agree with you more❤Love my Mzanzi.Did I say it right

[@J-MP36]

It's not too late, cash out whatever you have , buy one way tickets back home. We might not be rich but we are ok and happy here in SA surrounded by our own people.

[@MusehanaH]

I have never had a desire to live anywhere else but my beautiful South Africa. I used to have a desire to visit the western countries, but now, I don't 🇿🇦

[@lieslpadayachy7524]

This is what my sister just said last night she is going nowhere anymore....she will stay in South Africa and after watching The Great awakening documentary..she is like Hell no ..

[@bettyilunga39]

Hello dear. When you are showing the beauty of a place that what makes someone would want to go and see and experience for themselves what tou are saying.A person who can't find a job in the mother land will want to find a green pasture somewhere else. Who knows what God has in store for them😊

[@vusimhlanga8708]

​@@lieslpadayachy7524 hi Liesl, is it possible to send me the link for the documentary please?

[@Raptureready777-v2w]

R80 cucumber is R20 here and the butternut R120 is R25 it's a damn joke no wonder they struggling. When Americans come to SA they live large and the quality of food is superb here thanks to our farmers

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

@Nataleah777 The prices you've put down are actually not that expensive. Cucumber is less than £1 & the butternut is one pound something depending on the size. When you convert pounds into Rands, of course, it will look expensive, but in reality, it is not. Those Yankees living in 🇿🇦 are using their dollars. Hence, they see things cheaper. Someone earning in rands won't have the same joy. Let's be honest & realistic.

[@Raptureready777-v2w]

@Stirlingshirecastle I understand and agree but the items do not change a cucumber is still a cucumber and butternut regardless of country it does not change however the prices differ. I hear what you saying but it is expensive. If you had your pounds or dollars for the price of one you would get 4 and butternut the same 4 for the price of one so in hindesight SA is still cheaper and BTW I stayed in Europe and Asia SA is still cheaper

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

@@Raptureready777-v2w Fair enough. What I find expensive here in the UK is beef & lamb meat. Other stuff like bread, eggs, milk, chicken, fruits, vegetables, etc, are all affordable regardless of your job, income, etc. Even clothes, phones, tablets, laptops, etc, are cheaper here in the UK than in South Africa.

[@Victory2me]

@@Stirlingshirecastle but the salaries are also lower in the UK

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

@Victory2me It depends on which job you're doing. If you're in retail & are doing 9 to 5, yes, your salary would be a bit lower. But you can still afford a lot of things & even go on holiday etc. In 🇿🇦 when a person is in poverty, they don't even have basics such as food & let alone material stuff. The so-called UK poverty is someone's luxury in South Africa. These two countries can't be compared when it comes to living standards.

[@LethuMajola]

Yeah ngiyabona Mam' Velile lento oyishoyo, came here over a year ago through a 10-year Greencard through the DV Lottery, enlisted in the military and got US citizenship. I've been here for just over a year but I can't wait to finish my contract and ngibuyel' ekhaya. It is a great country but has its own problems like as Mzansi does. As a 26 yo single male, I'm glad I joined the military because they take of me regarding, housing, medical and steady income even though it is not much but at least I have a safety net but everything comes at a price.So saffa consider all your options eMzansi before you come ngapha ngoba ey' ziyakhala...

[@Raptureready777-v2w]

Many are embarrassed to come back they are struggling. The only way to make it is by a few staying together and saving and minimising costs. One thing about South Africans they are resilient and stand together when abroad. They need to create a stockvel to assist each other maybe that can assist

[@sifisodube4686]

My self I got a visa to work in the uk I was supposed to be there for four years but I end up staying 4 months because there's no life there weather its rubbish food rubbish, people are not friendly its only work ,long hours.my self I pack my clothes, went back to South africa I don't wanna be a slave in my life.

[@Noks_KZN]

@@sifisodube4686 Oh my God, I experienced that while in SA working for a UK company. They planted cameras everywhere in the office, not allowed to speak any venac in the work environment including your lunch time. I was like, never… I can’t do apartheid 2.0 in a democratic SA. I left in 3 months. I will never even bother going there, to be physically present.

[@lioneltbeukes4010]

It is Corn planting season now in the Free State Province South Africa and we had good rains.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

I have planted too in my homestead and hoping for good rain. I can’t wait to leave soon and be back home. 🙏🏾❤️

[@MusehanaH]

Fresh corn out of your back yard...😍

[@SomeOne-yv8jf]

South Africa is in the southern hemisphere like Australia and Argentina. They have winters. I prefer the African countries in the Equatorial regions. They have summer year around, it is always sunny and warm even during the rainy seasons. South Africa of course is better economically but that's about all. If you value and prefer good economy over good weather and fresh fruits and vegetables year around by all means choose South Africa. For the Native South Africans, do not let the Whites steal your land.

[@mirriamduma4959]

Come back children other soil anixoshwanga ekhaya your are still welcome buyani nizohlupheka ekhaya no place like Home Please

[@KingThabiso]

All credit the the one true GOD for bringing the rains🙏💯

[@OnicaMakwakwa]

I returned to South Africa after 25 years in the US with my child - the only regret I have is not returning sooner; I was very intentional about my plan to return and that helped me prepare myself and my family. I lived in Iowa for 6 years and Washington, DC for 19 years. Now enjoying Mzansi. Happy to share tips with anyone who’s interested in joining the Homecoming movement.

[@mpram5522]

Do you still understand and fluently speak your indigenous language?

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

I am happy to hear that. Well done and all the best back home. Peace and love. 🙏🏾❤️

[@G3R5H1]

how mam do you know where I can apply for a job in the US?

[@thequeenmidas]

👏🏾

[@lindalolly6318]

​@@G3R5H1TD is waiting for your

[@mmmotives7452]

Sis Velile....I am in ATL but go back and forth to SA. I thank GOD for wisdom to invest at home so when I retire, I am all set.

[@JuriunLameyer]

Exactly. Well done and all the best. We will welcome you back

[@bluecouchpodcast24]

This is heart breaking..I know a few South African friends of mine in the New York area who are going through this

[@BeFreewithmaeliabee]

I’d rather suffer in Africa than in America. Atleast I have culture, a community and my family there. America is hard for no reason.

[@EllyKazini-iz8lo]

SIS VELILE THANK YOU. AM IN AMERICA, MARYLAND STATE TO BE PRECISE. AM UGANDAN I GRADUATED BUT MY OWN COUNTRY FRSATRATED MY FUTURE UNTIL I GOT THE OPPORTUNITY TO COME TO AMERICA. IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE TO STAY IN YOUR COUNTRY WHERE YOU WILL DIE WITH YOUR DREAMS. OUR AFRICAN GOVERMENTS ARE LED BY GREEDY SECTERIAN AFRICAN LEADERS WHO ARE NOT BOTHERERD BY THE LIVES OF THEIR PEOPLE BUT EVEN LIVING OFF OUR SWEAT (MMIGRANT REMITTANCES). THIS IS WHY MANY AFRICANS ARE RELUCTANT TO GO HOME. I AGREE GOING BACK HOME BUT IN A PLANNED MANNER. YES IT CAN BE LONELY & THAT IS WHY WHEN WE GO BACK TO AFRICA WE ARE WILD (DRINKING, PARTING, VISITING RELATIVES & FRIENDS) COZ AFRICANS ARE A SOCIAL PEOPLE.

[@zandilenkabinde9058]

Last week I met a homeless white lady here in Jersey City. She asked me if I live in the government subsidized apartment. I felt sorry for her as I’m an outlier as an immigrant who owns two properties in America. I lied to a lady and as she asked me for the address where I lived. She sensed I was making up things. My husband and I came in a scholarship in the 80s and stayed. I’m a professor while my husband works in another state. We’ve made so many sacrifices but hard work had paid off for us. Not many people are as lucky as we are.

[@freebluebutterfly6583]

There are No homeless pple is South Africa. All streets are clean & there's no crime.. no problems there? 🤥🤥🤥🤫

[@cyrilndaba6322]

Dear Prof. My daughter Zakithi Bianca was born in the US in 1996 during the time I was on a Govt assignment at the UN in New York. We returned back in 2011-2015 and she graduated with a High School Diploma. She has just completed a Nat. Diploma in Public Management from MUT. What would you advise an American-born, African young woman to do to further her studies in a country she was born in? Any scholarships offered by your Institution?

[@ZethuSithole-um6jy]

congrats Prof. I am a young PhD holder and I needed someone to supervise me for a postdoctoral study through scholarship.

[@MwishaLudack]

I live in New Yorks City which is more expensive than Washington DC, but there's more money in America than back home Africa.

[@lindalolly6318]

Money is everywhere, the question is do you have a friendship with it?

[@allnewsoldmusic120]

If you are too friendly in America people think you want something from them or you are selling something. Most people meet at work or church or gym, but it's gotten worst; you have to observe and always be street smart..A lot of people cannot be trusted in these big cities. never go to strangers houses or take them to yours. Everyone is just trying to protect themselves. Do take it personally, it took me years to learn.

[@justicetshovhota3940]

If you want to go overseas for better life, never think of europe or USA. You will die with nothing if you go there. Tax is ridiculous. Thats why everyone is so angry because they are suffering. Everything is expensive. For you to make a decent living, you need to have 3 jobs. No social life, nothing.

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

You don't need to exaggerate to make your point. The only people who're working 3 jobs are illegal migrants. Anyone with the right paperwork is doing one job & some can do two jobs because they've got a project back home such as building a house or starting a business, etc. I live in the UK & I'm doing well. Most migrants used to make the mistake of living in big cities, but they've now woken up from that ignorance. Living in London, Sydney, New York, etc, you're just inviting financial burden on yourself. There's plenty of cheaper towns which give a good quality of life than those overrated big famous cities.

[@sandanista2002]

@@Stirlingshirecastle not true. In the UK it is not unusual for many migrant care workers on work visas to work with additional employers. Just because YOU might be doing well, that doesn’t mean everyone else is. Typical bourgeois nonsense. A lot of people live pay cheque to pay cheque (to use the Americanism) If -as you claim- you live in the UK, I do not have to explain the real issue about the cost of living here.

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

@sandanista2002 The migrant care workers that you made an example of are being exploited by their fellow Africans who own those care companies that brought them over. For instance, they work 12 to 14hrs shift but get paid for 8hrs because of the unpaid breaks in between. Remember, these newly migrants don't qualify for any help from the council, govt, etc. But migrants who've got a settled status i.e citizenships don't usually work two jobs unless they're doing something back home. The cost of living is here, but the UK is still way more affordable than the likes of Canada, Australia, etc. Those migrant care workers are prone to exploitation due to the nature of their visas & the people who brought them over are using that loophole to abuse them. At least now they're allowed to switch employers, but still within the care sector, maybe things will improve. I'm doing well by working normal hours just like everyone & the big bonus is that I'm not under any restrictions, unlike those who're on work permits, etc. Try to go to other countries & you'll quickly notice that the UK is not that bad at all.

[@sandanista2002]

@ so basically your initial claim that migrants who work 2/3 are all illegal immigration’s was bs. Thank you.

[@Stirlingshirecastle]

@sandanista2002 It was not a claim, but a fact. You mentioned care migrant workers & I gave you the answer. Bullsh!t is your imbecile attitude that can't engage without throwing insults. Even if I was wrong, you could correct me without displaying your stinking attitude.

[@ThobekaShangase-ft5zv]

You know Sis Velile, you spoke the truth, abroad the system is designed for money to go back to the country, no money must leave the country. I have come to realise that abroad, it is very difficult to make it if you are in a single income household. You need a double income household, to be able to do things like send money back home or to bring over dependants. Another big tip: Learn how to do your own hair !!! Whether its a basic braid, basic cornrows, isBenny and Betty, learn how to do your own hair!!!!

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Very true. I am thinking of learning to do my own hair now.. 🙏🏾❤️

[@SomeOne-yv8jf]

There are plenty of natural hair tutorials on KZbin for any Black woman to do their own hair. No need to waste money on salons, wigs, weave, extension braids, and relaxers.

[@HobzSA]

It's the cleanliness for me. I love clean places. Thanks for this eye opener

[@Stormer-Europa]

I wish more people would read Stephan Goodson's books. Especially the one on central banking. He was truely a fantastic South African.

[@IamKatlegoIsis]

Thank you for the book

[@ElizabethNkosi-yu2ei]

Thank you Velile this is an eye opener.I used to envy people living in america and uk

[@hudsonbodikwa9933]

I live here in the USA. This is mis-information. Would like you to engage me

[@nangulashikukuma]

Hi Guys. Your Neighbour Namibia calling..The problem ain't that we living abroad should always be penniless. We are being called by family and friends and we run to Western Union to send. They go eat KFC whilst you will be eating bread. We have ourselves to blame. Learn to saiy I DON'T HAVE!!!

[@mizzy261]

People usually dont respond when you greet them here on the East coast of the US. No manners at all. My biggest irritant

[@singlemomtravel]

It depends on where on the East Coast. There are many different cultures within the US. I’d advise everyone to do their research before moving here. I’m from up North but I live in the South.

[@b1digitaldiaspora999]

Lol I can same the thing about South Africa 😂😂😂 nobody greets me or smiles at me in Johannesburg or Cape Town. So what exactly are you saying???

[@mrsoshadabaadman]

​@@b1digitaldiaspora999But do you greet?

[@mizzy261]

@@b1digitaldiaspora999 I have & had pleasant experiences with the people of KZN. They always speak. People do not speak or barely speak, here in Jersey/NY. Never been to Joburg or Capetown yet though.

[@rethabilemofokeng7846]

​@@b1digitaldiaspora999those places don't have indigenous people. Jozi will teach you bad manners. I'm from free state we greet everyone, whether we know them or not. Came to Jozi. I stopped mainly because I was ignored. I live in KZN now, that habit of greeting they brought it back by force. Generally because everyone greets you

[@mkhabelakhethiwe8745]

One major mistake we made as Africans was to abandon farming and leave the rural areas(our land) and flock to the cities looking for employment. Now we go oversees looking for opportunities as well. Farming is the way to go. There's government help too if you want to venture into commercial agriculture. Abantu mababuye overseas kusetshenzwe.

[@heathermtetwa1579]

Africa imports 85 percent of the food they consume, South Africa can take advantage and triple the production and sell to the rest of the continent.

[@axismundi8]

Fully agree. Small scale organic farming is the way to go. Healthy lifestyle and being able to feed oneself as well as others.

[@EriaMdluli-ul3uh]

Thank you for your honesty opinions about people who living abroad your video was very informative.

[@mamakalami]

Hi Sisi...South Africa is my home my heart. But the transition between apartheid and politics has alienated a lot of people. When the old government was ousted we thought we would finally have fair recognition of our qualifications. There are a lot of painful experiences we are exposed to in South Africa that we are not putting the spotlight on. I now live and work in the USA and pray that I am still physically able to go back home in my old age. For us in the job market South Africa has very little to offer. If you don't have connections, can't buy a job or pay in kind...it can be very difficult to have and maintain your dream career. Some of these abusive situations are disguised as umjolo within the work space just to be able to maintain the job. The US just wants your hands, noone is interested in you otherwise. When they are done with you it's true that you become valueless in their eyes. We need to pray that God allows us to have some sort of decency in our old age. And if we are lucky die at home.

[@ScissorN]

Please save money , invest in shares as little as R500 a month buy bitcoin , buy land if you can afford , do not get lost in the lifestyle, take retirement plan also , have an account where you save for a return ticket even if you know you dont plan to come back soon but save for a return ticket just in case

[@DigitalX-Holding]

I'll recommend that your viewers should go read 'Great expectations' by Charles Dickens. It is an interesting read for anyone who wishes to leaves his/her country for better opportunities, elsewher.

[@ThePHILA123]

Not everyone struggles financially; in America it all depends on how you manage your money.

[@tunievanwyk8595]

Every country has its own problems. No place on this earth is perfect. So you decide what you can handle and what you cannot handle. Me, I know S A can be a good place if we all stand together as a nation of South Africans

[@carlkuna4544]

Are you sure that those who live in South Africa are in a healthy financial situation? Who ignore how in South African personal debt is among the major issue of the country. Who ignore all those luxury cars outside there in South Africa are just loans. Those who work live pay check to pay check.

[@chocon8818]

Anybody that comes from South Africa or any other African country in their youth and did not accumulate enough cash in two years to build a decent home in Africa to retire, has been on drugs or totally careless. Every other immigrant group to come to America team up to live together to save money and send money back home. If at old age you do not have anything after living in the America, you were just wasting your time on earth.

[@headedhome___]

Shalom my sister as we are from USA to Ghana and have faced hardships here but overall are more happy here than we were in USA

[@manayesh]

My Nigerian American friend was so shocked how little one pays for quality things like food, 4 star hotels, houses, domestic flights, etc. He was so impressed with our malls. Btw thousands of Americans are making south africa their homes every year. Why would a SAn then decide to make a living in the USA?

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Not every South African is happy with South Africa and same as not all Americans are happy with America. My problem with the Americans coming to South Africa lately is that they are just there to look for a better life since it’s cheaper for them to spend money in rands while they are still actively doing business with American companies and earning in dollars.

[@thenomad8269]

AWESOME VIDEO, thank you! I came accros a similar video but from a Jamaican who stressed over again that when ever you get a job in the USA. NEVER BE CAUGHT UP IN their life styles or else you will regret IT. Focus on your job, live as modest as you can and MOST importantly according to her. HAVE A concrete solid PLAN of when you are going to leave and go back home!

[@jngvjkvgkbh]

One trend I've noticed is how much fresher our food in SA is compared to the US, even they admit it when they come to SA, I don't know how to feel about that tho, it just puts things into perspective back to your point that the US is not all what it's cracked up to be

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

It is definitely not what people claim it to be. I have always said this.

[@VibingwithT286]

Our food unfortunately is GMO‘s

[@thequeenmidas]

Sad to hear. Perhaps they can start their own stokvels over there. It's a very South African thing to do to help each other through tough times and grow communal finances.

[@tyali84]

I am in Massachusetts and I have realized that once you move to the Wes the spirit of Ubuntu quickly fades because reality is that life is too difficult to help others when you are barely making it. I have met fellow South Africans in my town and none showed interest in exchanging numbers because there is an impression that once you open your space to fellow countrymen then you are bound to make their problems yours. At first I'd take it personal when fellow South Africans just want to be brief in their interaction but now I have accepted the reasoning behind it. In this part of the world every man is for himself and it is really a hard pill to swallow.

[@mizzy261]

Unfortunately, to try to stay well in the US, we have to select what's supposed to be organic food to minimize the chance of sickness. Costs more, but it's that or regular frankenfoods.

[@BlackApache17]

The lack of financial literacy is the problem

[@R1M1r1m1]

What you are saying is so true. We are broke over here. Seriously. My mom came over here from another country as well and now that she's older she can't afford to retire.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

@@R1M1r1m1 eish guys when you can, save your mom from this place. People get sick with many diseases here because of stress. I wish you all the best.

[@nonhlanhlamagubane-f4t]

Sis Velile your channel is very educational. We’re living through your eyes. Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

🙏🏾❤️

[@PHlophe]

Sister you might need to slow down on those juices, cranberry and apple. We are Black people , we are not meant to eat those things in excess . trust me unless that gallon you put in the trolley lasts you a year . you've got no business consuming that much sugar and then ad starchy food which also turns into excess sugar and you added cakes, corn flakes etc . Healthcare is crazy expensive in the US we are not 22 years old

[@banyana6515]

Amen. We are not built for the Western diet at all. Give me bogobe, spinach and some meat, then wash it down with water and Im good. I get cramps when I drink fruit juice in excess.

[@arcapidiaH.thuwarh]

Iam a proudly South African black man ,,,iam proud of my country I have never ever though of going to stay in any country in the world ,,,I will suffer and die in my country South Africa ❤❤❤❤❤ proudly South African

[@GrannyRamoroka-di9hr]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@edirindafe1210]

these could be people who left SA during apartheid

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

@edirindafe1210 not at all. They have been here for just over 20 yrs and we are now on 30 yrs of democracy.

[@gdm1577]

Same, same u, my brother

[@christianmpassi3450]

Life is not pure black and white situations but so many varying shades of gray. Things that work for one person don't work for another. We must always look at the wider context. Life can be gold or pure shit anywhere. I am a Congolese and I would NEVER leave my country (beside I am beyond the age for emigrating anywhere) but when I hear stories of younger people I understand even when I don't agree. I teach younger folks to live within their means, never envy the shinny and glittering things and invest in improving one's skills in whatever field.

[@zandilenkabinde9058]

I’ve lived in US for years but I go home to South Africa regularly. If you don’t have a professional job in the US life can be complicated. There’s no place like home.

[@ibrahimYODA-qk1ng]

You can definitely make money in the US but you have To make sure you stay away from systemic spending habits. The keyword is savings. The ease of getting credit is also another monster on his own.

[@marthaditlopo229]

Thanks for informing us, sending love and hugs all the way from home❤🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@TrevorStyles-z3h]

I lived in the U.S for two years. I missed home. I never realized how good we have it.

[@eddieives378]

I watched you before on your farm and food shopping. While watching you now and you trying to describe the situation working in America. I came up with feed the greed. It's what living and working in America has been for some time. It will only get worse. All kind of entities are in your pockets in America. If you are not here with a high paying skill you will struggle to survive in America. My first day going to breakfast in Johannesburg the young fellow waiting my table realized I was from America. He was trying to get as much information he could about coming to America and working. I warned him against it. I did suggest if he had a group 3 - 4 people that can share rent and expenses he can make it.

[@bonanimkhize1696]

I though she was going to interview some people to hear from them directly.

[@katlehothinane3469]

It's scary ma'am they won't come back home vele and refuse video calls never post any photos on socials hate Instagram

[@lettymelanin5104]

Greetings sis Velile, I’m planning to go abroad but I have cancelled America on my list unless I win a green card or get a good job. I have been doing my research, watching American KZbinrs who are living in South Africa. There’s an American retired couple that just bought a house and a brand new Mercedes in SA. They said if they were in the US they would be still working & would haven’t been able to afford the lifestyle that they are living in SA. This explains why most Americans have experienced homelessness. I will try Europe but not UK cos kuyafana nakhona usebenzela u government

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Eish bayathutha ngempela labor sebebalekela e South Africa. It’s hard for them back here. I wish all the best. 🙏🏾❤️

[@HoneyBunches100]

You only missed the important element, that the American couple continues to earn a U.S. salary or retirement money to live off of in SA. That American income is what funds their affordable lifestyle in SA, where living costs are more affordable. They still earn well in America, they just don’t want to pay the expensive costs for living.

[@SoulBuddy2222]

​@@HoneyBunches100The main point is that South Africa gives them a better standard of living, than what America could give them with the same amount of monthly income. This has to do with the exchange rate plus relatively cheap good housing options in South Africa.

[@SoulBuddy2222]

My point is that for some American retirees, it is not a matter of not wanting to pay, but a matter of their monthly income not going far enough in American terms.

[@bulioperamusic25]

It's unfortunate that our schools never taught us financial education. To buy a car or rent an expensive apartment is a big mistake. People can share to cut the cost. Wish them all the best.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Well said. 🙏🏾❤️

[@JimmyShongwe-fj5ct]

Yes let's go out Sista,the story you started with is very depressing

[@isabelcowley1248]

❤❤❤ Thank You ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing. South Africa is such a great place to live, even with our problems... that's why many Westerners are relocating to South Africa. I travelled with an American throughout Africa... he is struggling to make ends meet in America, while he could afford to live like a king in Africa. Food for thought! ❤

[@sibongileonu368]

By the way, my father once said, the grass always looks greener on the other side because there is more sh..t there. Very true!

[@mphomatjila8896]

Do the tellers in an American supermarket say "Plastiki?" Like in South Africa? 😅

[@raydanielz9408]

Wow my dear sister, thank you, thank you so much for sharing this valuable information. Much respect and appreciation for your Ubuntu. The western system is enslaving the citizens for survival. Decent people are automatically turned into homelessness overnight and that seems to be normal. I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY BELOVED HOME COUNTRY OF SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 ❤ ♥. HOME SWEET HOME 🏡 ❤ ♥

[@sowemove26]

Yo sis Velile I've heard stories but to actually hear from someone living there hits different! 😢

[@NokoRamoroka-ho5ze]

4,99 United States Dollars equals 90,49 South African Rand? Corns are way too expensive.

[@PHlophe]

Noko, and corn turns into sugar as you get older. you might need to stop eating that sheit.

[@SandileNtombela]

I havd traveled many countries in this world been to America twice mostly New York, Washington DC and Florida in Tampa. I have been to many contries in Europe as well many times been to Asia and still i chose South Africa 🇿🇦 I chose KwaZulu-Natal, Durban. We have it good here in SA dont be fooled by all those who are abroad selling you dreams that aren't there. I loved Switzerland msuch that I wouls he happy to have a house there in Lugano but not to live there permanently rather as a vacation home.

[@OnlyRandi]

Yes the stigma it happens every where I am a South African got an opportunity to work in America I turned it down I regret nothing because still here in South Africa we are jokes today I'm being spoken about that I'm a failure I don't deserve this.

[@iamgrabthelegacy]

I sure do miss my Stop & Shop from down the street; but I do love this video and your perspective. And truth be told, you're right, Americans are not known for greeting you right out. It's a culture shock. But I'll say this - if they see you in trouble or need of assistance, they tend to rush right in to help you.

[@angeladavis7207]

I live in North Carolina and we say the same thing about "northerners" not saying hello. Southerners are very chatty. LOL

[@JohnHaze4666]

I always say this,if you convert whatever dollars you earn in to rands it looks good, but a guy who can buy a land for five thousand and build a house is way better than a guy who will be telling stories of how they were surviving in a first world countries but hv nothing tangible to show off it, guys let's work hard in Mzansi and make it great.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

Very true. 🙏🏾❤️

[@manchathexplorer]

@@JohnHaze4666 The grass is not always greener on the other side

[@JohnHaze4666]

@@manchathexplorer eish when they dangle a carrot 🥕 in your face it looks appealing and it's hard to say no to temptations.

[@DeborahNdaba-b3y]

Hi village gang gang our one and only sisi Velile what an informative reality you just shared now i understand wen they come back empty handed its really tough out there stop greeting my sister you will greet us here wen you come back much love to you❤❤❤❤❤

[@IamKatlegoIsis]

I had the opportunity after matriculation 2003 to work in Europe as an Au Pair lived in Swiss Italy France and Canada , one thing I learnt and have got to understand was that We live in an awesome country I love to travel but South Africa is the place to be . Everything was so expensive , clubbing was just not possible people my age didn’t have the same quality of life as I did in SA.

[@MwishaLudack]

Besides, we are in this world for a short period, none of us is here to stay forever. I won't hold on to any physical things on this earth.

[@Pop_the_Balloon_or_React]

Your hair and your nails look good sisi You look good

[@annaconcalves4677]

You are telling it like it is. And by the way, you are beautiful!! Hair and all.

[@RelebohileMako-uw9se]

I have friends that really look like they are making it in the diaspora. Could it be they are just faking it? 😮

[@andiswacornelianondabula7724]

One thing i know about South Africans they are very friendly and the fact that greeting in America is not done yhooo hayi kubi😫🙄

[@maxwellndlovu4461]

My sister your 100% correct i lived in New Jersey for 9 months back in 2004 America didn't allow me to work more than one job cause they don't want money to be sent to another country they want you to spend all your money on America. These first world countries are not as great as they are purported to be, Trump is right everyone must go back to their home country and work together to get it fixed.

[@lizzie-j5z]

Very informative Velile. God bless u and ur family and come back home safely.❤

[@samanthamerchant702]

Im watching from the caribbean It depends on where in the US youre living I have lived in Ohio, Florida and NY they were affordable for me. From what Iv seen DC is expensive I plan to move to Africa in the near future Thanks for your video Peace and blessings

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

It's the same here in Europe. last year at our June 16 event, I met this elderly man who said he was looking forward to his first trip to SA since he arrived in Germany in 1976.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

🙆🏽‍♀️ imagine. It is sad. 🙏🏾❤️

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

@@VelileLifestyleDecorTV Sad indeed and the Black tax plays a huge role in people not being able to save in the diaspora. People are expected to send money to relatives back home, so they have luxurious lives. Since I opted out of black tax, I have managed to buy myself a house back home. The irony is the relatives are still doing fine with my financial injection, they have more expensive phones and clothes than I can afford. I just chip in on necessary issues like funerals and school fees which I pay direct to the university. Our people will lie about needing money for schools or medical issues, just to buy a Brazilian wig, while you are washing your natural hair with sunlight overseas.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

@@nomxhosapekani7966 you nailed it right there. I need to do a story about this. I have been there and it hurts even to think about that era in my life. Families can extort money from a person and leave you dry. 🙏🏾❤️

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

Sunlight overseas 😂😂😂. Ayi my sister I'm not laughing 😂😂😂😂😂.

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

@@becauseitsjoyinafrica listen South Africans living abroad bring their sunlight with them and even ask people to bring for them. It is even good these days because people have opened SA grocery shops overseas to help South Africans get home products. 😂😂😂 we miss home so much we are trying to bring it here.

[@axismundi8]

Thanks Velile for this fascinating video. South Africa is such a vibrant and alive country with the best constitution. People in South Africa are more in touch with their own natures because they are still hands on and down to earth. I found so much of American culture packaged, processed and overvarnished. Thank God I live in a country where I can still eat with my hands. 🎉🤗🇿🇦👏👏

[@abongamakapela8501]

I would love to visit but I never wanna stay.🙂

[@WordPractitioner]

Pray for your food sis Velile😊

[@iamgrabthelegacy]

Furthermore, I wish to move from New Jersey to South Africa. Tell me what type of money I'll need to make such a move possible.

[@Victory2me]

The American dream bug did not bite you sis, you are tam SA through and through. ❤❤ looking at the food prices, is it possible that DC is a bit more pricey than other places???

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

It is very expensive here. I am not sure about other parts. I have lived in America in the 90s and my daughter was born here and I have never thought it is the best country than my country. It’s is too different and even now as I live here, I am just making money and always go back home when I can. It is not my type of a country.

[@ntombijele5253]

Hi Velile, thank you ngokusicobelela ulwazi olungaka. Ngizoza ngokuvakasha only. (Return ticket)😂😂😂

[@ERICAEPPSREALTOR]

Can the Embassy help them get home?

[@thobishonkoana4577]

Through your lense, love it

[@agoodfilter7139]

Lies. Velile. My son went to US from Mzansi. He’s happy there and won’t come back. Of course rent is expensive. He’s renting a single bedroom in a house with communal bathroom toilets lounge and kitchen. Not even a sink in his bedroom. But as long as he sends me money I want him to stay there

[@MbalenhleQwabe]

"As long as he sends me money, I want him to stay there." Wow, that's sad and selfish.

[@khayelihlemdakane5083]

Kusho ukuthi mina ngingafa lapho ko-overseas! Ungathi ngehlulwa yiGoli ngabuyela ekhaya, how much more sengiphesheya?? I got respext for people who do this.

[@zetzeeful]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@manchathexplorer]

Greetings are not important in some parts, even at workplaces, nothing personal, took me time to get used to that, nice vlog❤❤

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

I have noticed that. I probably will get used to it. 🙏🏾❤️

[@anny19988]

It seems that we Africans are used to greetings. In my country ( East Africa) not greeting someone even a stranger is a crime😂😂. I can't imagine a country where greetings is not important 😢😢😢. It must be hard to get used to it.

[@philisiwemkhwanazi-xw7vu]

Where we come from we greet that's how we were raised e africa ❤❤❤❤

[@ElizabethNkosi-yu2ei]

I watch my lottery dream home and i wondered why people spend less money on their homes and save the rest

[@thembikunene4531]

Thank you for the beautiful vlog as usual. ❤🇿🇦🇿🇦💞❤️ You r right about how expensive it is in Western countries. I was talking with a friend that returned back home originally from KZN used to work in the UK as a nurse. Luckily she gas a property paid up. She was phoning me earlier today and we were speaking how food and bills gone up since after covid. I was relating that yesterday I went food shopping and was surprised how food goes up twice 3 times a year. So to stretch your money is to buy in bulk when there is a sale. Tjoo, Sisi it seems like that shop us expensive nje😳🤔

[@VelileLifestyleDecorTV]

It’s too expensive. Remember there is still tax on top of the price.

[@bluecouchpodcast24]

Abavule i stokfela to save money bakithi

[@carolineharidas2507]

Where do you get free land in South Africa?

[@tspcocktail]

Yes it's expensive to survive in usa. DC is a very expensive area to live and survive.

[@LeboDlamini-g5p]

Its giving midrand vibes Am li weird though 😂mina when i see the 4.99 price to me i calculate them as rands and kind of think its cheap

[@MariamAdams-q1z]

People overseas live on credit alot.

[@Lwazilwentuthuko]

I have never been to America but I think it's bad idea for a non US citizen to retire in the US as things are very expensive.