South Dakota Mistakes… Will I ever come back?

[@cindyinpa6728]

The struggles are real for all the country right now, you are showing us a different perspective. Good that you are honoring your boundaries! Stay strong, safe and well out there! Blessings of Peace to you and Jane

[@CindyinArizona]

Kudos to you on the self respect and not drinking. It really helps with decision making if you have a clear mind. I mean, life is hard enough when you're sober!! Hope you find a safe place to park.

[@livingsimplytosimplylive6817]

My thoughts are with you and I hope everything settles down. Chin up young lady you’ll get through this.

[@lisaschmidt8466]

Lace I’m proud of you. You have made a self care decision. Being sober you’re more aware which makes you more safe. And you can feel all your feels without numbing out. 🎉

[@DREaMadventures2025]

GOOD FOR YOU LACE!!! I AM SOOOO PROUD OF YOU ❤

[@AnnaleeD]

I really don’t like how hard this has been for you. I’m am glad you had the wisdom to leave a bad situation. Sober life is probably safer for you right now. Sending you all the good vibes I can muster ❤

[@LeeLeesLens]

Proud of you for taking the reigns back. I have learned my most valuable lessons in the times of struggle or challenges. I think the most important lesson was the one where I was trying to put a square peg in a round hole. It don't fit!! 😂 Being a Nomad isn't easy and there are too many people on here pretending it's rainbows and lollipops. Keep it real. Hugs to you and Jane ❤

[@patricialandrum7366]

Sobriety is where’s it’s at sister . I gave it up for Dry January , yes it’s a thing like sober October. Yesterday is 10 months and I’m done with alcohol . Learn to sit with being uncomfortable it gets easier. Also remember Lace through hardships we grow the most . You got this girl ❤

[@LacedVenom]

💜 congratulations on ten months!

[@patricialandrum7366]

@ thx Lace . Sobriety’s the new sexy 😉🥰

[@casiannaparadis867]

Take care of yourself. My Grandmother always told me to take care of myself and be happy. You come first. Prayers coming your way daily.

[@LacedVenom]

Yes! Thank you!

[@lindahoffman1864]

So glad you have the great self control ans insights to muster this situation. Love your posts❤❤🎉

[@IShallNotBeSilent]

Sometimes when things seem to be falling apart around us is when we need to stop, breathe, and focus on one's self and what they need above everything else. Confusion always tells me it's time to make a change. Lace, You are a strong woman and know what is best for you. Sometimes we have to force stoop a situation and move on. Nothing wrong about that at all. Everyone is struggling right now. Hang in there, do what is best for you, and stay safe. Sending prayers and good vibes your way.

[@allibobs666]

Im proud of you for realizing and sticking to your boundaries

[@suzanne378]

🙏

[@phosawelonewolf2886]

Good for you for realizing you needed to be stronger. Will be sending you my best thoughts to help you in decisions. Love you girl just hope you’re safe. Give Jane a hug and kiss. Hang in there I believe in you 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@Goldenroadie24]

Lace, sending love and hope and peace 💜💜💜

[@Vontress]

It's time to leave...the work situation sounds much better, but if you aren't able to workout something nearby for parking then it may not be worth it. I wish they would let you park behind the club, but it might be time to move on to your 'winter spot.' Regardless, listen to your instincts... you got this ⭐💪⭐

[@LacedVenom]

I’m navigating pretty well as the weather changes things will get harder but until I’m to my breaking point, I’m not giving up

[@missroxanne7123]

Awww Jane by the bike! ❤ She just hangs on your every word. Such a sweet heart. You and sweet Jane hang in there. I pray things get better and really soon.

[@LacedVenom]

Thank you so much!

[@missroxanne7123]

@ ❤️

[@worldgirl2850]

Glad you’re in a better place. Gotta take care of yourself!

[@HannaloreJohnson]

You do what's best for you, that's why I enjoy watching your videos!! And I love that you found a club that is better for you and not drinking!! Yrs ago, I would go see the girls that came into the place I worked 3rd shift and the owner didn't allow the girls to drink while working!! And, yes I would go to those clubs and watch the girls. They were my friends and when the restaurant closed, I became the sitter for a many of them, because I DO NOT ALLOW JUDGING!! They were really the only ones that actually paid!! Best 4yrs and some really good friends!! As always enjoy seeing how your doing and enjoy watching your videos!! You brighten my day when I see you've posted!! ❤ Take care little one, till next time❤❤

[@TheJustineCredible]

Always keep you and Jane safe. First and foremost. Stick to your boundaries. Don't ever let anyone pressure you to do anything that doesn't feel right. Stay safe, we love you. ❤ I won't get political but I do hope people come to their senses after this election is over. We're all tired of the craziness and it's wearing everyone down. Don't let those vibes drag you down with them. Keep your head up, we're all gonna get through this!

[@christinacampbell3693]

I have had such a huge price range when dry camping. Some people are great others are not. Best one was $5 a day had a house plug, water access and a dump. Others were nothing and $40 a night. I didn't need anything and I thought $5 to $10 was reasonable. Currently paying $200 a month and there is a shower house with toilets, water, dump, pond to fish and 60 acres to roam. It's been a blessing for sure as its close to places too.

[@maverick4080]

Stay safe Lace, and you were right about the people it's just a money grab thing they're greedy..in SD...✌❤😊

[@kencornwell]

I hope things were ok at the farm you were at. The owner seemed really nice. I am near St. Louis and there used to be tons of clubs across the river. I haven’t been in ten years but I have seen lots of changes over the years. As a vendor, it is depressing how the flow of money barely trickles down anymore. I think gas prices have a lot to do with it. No ballers. Just broke asses. All we can do is keep on keeping on. Glad you don’t have to drink to help support the club. You’re obviously a strong person and set priorities. You’re going to be fine. Rock on.

[@kellybenhart3244]

Wow your safety is number 1 so glad you set your boundries.

[@censoredeveryday3320]

I hear you on the struggles. After 20 years in my career I got laid off and then I hit the road traveling. Thankfully I saved and invested.

[@Lyric777-ry2yf]

You do great when you are doing You.(proud of you)

[@kellybenhart3244]

They sell fix a flat or bicycle tires. Walmart has it.

[@LacedVenom]

The closest Walmart is 4 hours away

[@donnawashburn1638]

Sorry your having a hard time Lace hopefully things will get better for you ! The last 4 years have been hard the economy is trash people just don’t have extra money I’m a small business owner so I know I’m just done with this election! I’m so glad you got out of that club didn’t sound good your above all that sounds like your in a better club! Your a smart girl you’ve got a head on you shoulders just to realize that and get out great choice Lace ! Stay safe girl I worry about you! 😊❤

[@barrypierce9100]

Stay strong luv its hard for all of us that live on the road.

[@patricialandrum7366]

Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you the mocktail that really helped me . Tart cherry juice, has to be tart . Club soda and fresh lime . It’s excellent and tart cherry juice has natural melatonin so it really mellows you out ❤cheers

[@LacedVenom]

Thanks for the tips!

[@PamLoftis-r2d]

Lace get rid of ALL the extra baggage & just do you & Jane. ❤❤❤

[@PamLoftis-r2d]

Go back to the basics ❤❤

[@LacedVenom]

Please explain to me what baggage? Back to the basics ? I have to somehow fund this lifestyle. Camp hosting or working with the forest service doesn’t cover much. It’s minimum wage at best. I live very cheap and even still I am barely surviving. Doing the basics

[@allenhaynes2662]

My guess on the rent is a combination of the economy , people wanting to make extra money and campers willingness to pay those prices . If more people refuse to pay the prices , then owners can't make extra money and will have to lower prices .

[@LacedVenom]

Well we all refused and are running around terrorizing the town instead

[@allenhaynes2662]

@LacedVenom 😂🤣

[@missroxanne7123]

@@LacedVenom🤣🤣🤣 give ‘em hell Lace 🤣🤣🤣

[@willamwhitaker4052]

Glad you got that club thing worked out. And laid off the heavy drinking. Honestly that has always bothered me that you felt like you had to be drunk or lit to work there, anyways. Looked like that bike may need a upgrade to the tiers not the tube's. I am guessing they just put on basick street tiers. You will Ned to look in to brands that are ment to be off-road they make some cool stuff. I know no time to practice your search foo.😂 Still like spectating on the adventures as always stay safe and 🍩🍩🍩

[@mrgatorzx]

Can yall come yall come to west virginia ❤

[@TheDogsBox]

I got sober at 35. I have been sober for 19 years now. My life is much different than before. I learned to be comfortable in my own skin. Days sober turned to years and I got bored, went back to school, and got an engineering degree. I make 3 times what I used to make as a carpenter. I have 9 more years and then I am going to retire and then who knows what will come next. I do know I will be sober though.

[@LacedVenom]

Wow, that’s an amazing inspiration to follow I truly appreciate you sharing.

[@999montanaguy]

I live in southwest idaho. I could never ride my bicycle without getting a flat from goatheads. Someone told me Les schwab tires sells solid tires. I never got a flat again. By the way, the economy is the envy of the world.

[@lindaking9608]

Hang tight your a warrior hugs positive vibes from Cali

[@christinacampbell3693]

We dislike goat heads my dogs wouldn't even leave the RV due to them in Texas.

[@renecarter1758]

Sorry I was in a hurry. I met to type in S.D. not S.C. 😂

[@antoniobaez6282]

I think you had the same problem with the paddle board...if you get rid of your bike, I got dibs on your seat! Seriously though, hide a airtag somewhere on your bike for all the thieves that are wanting to steal it! That'll maje for a interesting video! 😅 When the f did you get a bike? Put a blanket or moving pad under your bike. That's great you are sober. I know one day, you won't chose to do that kind of work. The Red Bulls might be contributing to your stress and anxiety. BTW, your dress looks amazing!

[@eddyohnton6892]

read the handbook.

[@LacedVenom]

I did I still can’t get it

[@laurielamonday3134]

Keep f@cking going ❤

[@MarcyR-c2v]

YES It is a complete MONEY GRAB,why so much money for Just a small spot no hookups/1000 or more That's just for a piece of grass 😮... ppl need to just CHILL!

[@mrsimon8922]

So way off topic. Would you ever consider doing a pole dancing video tutorial? My girlfriend is a chiropractor and once she took up pole dancing she became so much stronger with her adjustments. Anyway would be a cool video. XO~ Nancy- Oliver, Mr Simon and Chibi❤

[@LacedVenom]

I am in no way an instructor nor do I believe. I’m that good on the pole to create a tutorial for others. I still get hurt.

[@mrsimon8922]

@LacedVenom I just think it's a beautiful art that not a lot of people know. Glad you changed spots to a safer environment ❤️✌️

[@jmorris4972]

oh jeez it takes a long time to get "eaten by the sun" a long time.

[@RV_Chef_Life]

Not here in New Mexico lol. Got our son a new bike for Christmas last year and not even a year later the tires are dry rotted and paint is fading

[@LacedVenom]

I travel back to Arizona and everything will get eaten in less than three months

[@BeKinditsEZ]

Maybe go to your brothers for a bit and regroup😊

[@LacedVenom]

I don’t know if you’ve been around for a while, but even when I head back to Arizona, I am not at my brothers house. I’m in the desert. I can fix this alone. I don’t need to run to anyone.

[@BeKinditsEZ]

@@LacedVenom Yes, I'm from Tucson and been around a while. I didn't know that you stay out in the desert in Tucson. You got this!

[@BeKinditsEZ]

I don't live in Tucson now but did from 2008 until 2015

[@renecarter1758]

Maybe the universe is telling you to get out of S.C. Struggles are not good for the Soul. Be one for self ❤

[@renecarter1758]

Sorry I met to S.D. 🙃

[@BonnieMartin-s7s]

If its that bad there get out! Stay safe

[@LacedVenom]

It’s easy to say that. However, I have the perseverance to make changes and make things work.

[@jakeybutterbeans]

You can camp free for 14 days in national parks

[@LacedVenom]

That’s an obvious, but there’s no national forest in the vicinity that it would be safe for me to drive back-and-forth every day.

[@wandervan.kb71]

Should you sell that bike and get a folding one? Life is full of challenges; sadly, they only end when we are no longer here. Good Luck to you! Pretty sure I'm going to get reamed for this comment, but being in a classier club, why wouldn't you shave your underarms? It's sad that club owners are encouraging their dancers to drink; doesn't seem very safe for the dancer. Disgusting behavior of the club owners!

[@LacedVenom]

The bike does fold in half and honestly my armpits being unshaved has nothing to do with the club, the classiness or what the men like. It’s what I like. It’s how I like to be. I don’t care to change for anyone.

[@Lyric777-ry2yf]

@@LacedVenom I'm a lot older then you and I wanna be you when i grow up lol i hid myself because of childhood abuse and i would love to have your attitude! wish I was your grandma

[@DonVedder-y6i]

Lace.your.an.amazing.woman.you.did.the.right.thing.presser.drinking.never.good.iv.been.a.drunk.for.40.years.now.sober.sevan.dont.miss.it.at.all.❤...ps.travel.the.road.less.traveled.❤🌹🧸...ol.wandering.bear.🐻🐾🐾🐾🐾🚐👀