China’s ‘ice boy’ gets new home, but family still struggles to make ends meet

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South China Morning Post

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@evasjo1690
@evasjo1690 5 жыл бұрын
the sister is so mature and aware, and he is so motivating and driven, i wish them both the most happiness
@EternalResonance
@EternalResonance 5 жыл бұрын
yet somewhere in America there are ungrateful kids complaining about their birthday party not being perfect or their sweet 16😑 they should send their kids here to learn to be grateful
@user-mk000
@user-mk000 5 жыл бұрын
@King Delevingne At least they're better person than you despite of living in poverty.
@MintBunny9
@MintBunny9 5 жыл бұрын
King Delevingne what is wrong with you? Her face not being clean is what stuck out as being important enough to comment on?
@MrChrist741
@MrChrist741 5 жыл бұрын
King Delevingne try cooking with charcoal for food they tend the livestock, Without the the luxury of expensive equipment.
@petrichor4753
@petrichor4753 5 жыл бұрын
King Delevingne That’s not dirt on her face! It’s the Red Plateau caused by long-term insolation since the ultraviolet radiation in the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau is extremely strong! Even if it was dirt, it’s none of your business! Just save your breath and leave her alone!
@Strawberrynovacane
@Strawberrynovacane 5 жыл бұрын
When he said “she still resents me for being poor” that broke my heart.
@africaisacontinent2149
@africaisacontinent2149 4 жыл бұрын
She shd be grateful that he is their 4 her kids
@jaelynn7575
@jaelynn7575 4 жыл бұрын
She was likely forced to marry, so I feel bad for her.
@theTOOLshed1
@theTOOLshed1 4 жыл бұрын
@@africaisacontinent2149 unlike black men....
@africaisacontinent2149
@africaisacontinent2149 4 жыл бұрын
@@theTOOLshed1 😂😂😂 that escalated pretty fast
@DialecticalMaterialismRocks
@DialecticalMaterialismRocks 4 жыл бұрын
@@jaelynn7575 that could make sense
@bellamy1923
@bellamy1923 5 жыл бұрын
„I dont think its so different from the old House“ „Why?“ „Behause in either house, we sleep comfortably“ Truely a kind Soul.
@sonyahao7814
@sonyahao7814 5 жыл бұрын
He has got a heart of gold.
@ahmedd5644
@ahmedd5644 5 жыл бұрын
M. Emre that line was so powerful, hope this kid succeeds in life.
@Donlosae
@Donlosae 5 жыл бұрын
1k liker
@poonpolchitra-dhara8490
@poonpolchitra-dhara8490 5 жыл бұрын
Profound.😊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤💙💚💛💖💟
@samoh6084
@samoh6084 5 жыл бұрын
Ur right but its just a matter of simple truth. Some people cant sleep in a million dollar worth apartment because they might have insomnia
@clod8
@clod8 3 жыл бұрын
The daughter is wise. She knows her mom is off. Glad the rest of the family helps each other. Grandma and young uncle need help, too.
@andychung7922
@andychung7922 3 жыл бұрын
The mother is a brat
@itaqilaah6607
@itaqilaah6607 2 жыл бұрын
Right I mean the girl is so understanding for a little age, she is smart
@gyllenspetzfamily7993
@gyllenspetzfamily7993 2 жыл бұрын
Her mother might have been trafficked. For her there is no going home. Note her lack of family and her fear.
@samuraikyokkan
@samuraikyokkan Жыл бұрын
@@gyllenspetzfamily7993 dont make up stories without evdience. many women are just very very selfish.
@bennyteo6165
@bennyteo6165 Жыл бұрын
@@samuraikyokkan dont make up stories without evidence
@karenmwehp1206
@karenmwehp1206 5 жыл бұрын
His grandmother.. she’s really amazing.. 60 with an aching back.. just to provide for their family. I salute to you maam..
@kirkjohnson9353
@kirkjohnson9353 5 жыл бұрын
She gets just over one hundred dollars a year and gives it to the boy to go school. Incredible. I hope things get better for this family.
@nocent6134
@nocent6134 5 жыл бұрын
Kirk Johnson for real dude. Wish I could donate at least something
@HugoBrown
@HugoBrown 5 жыл бұрын
Would be great to see if they got relocated as part of the Poverty Alleviation program it mentions at the end of video it said most of the residents are being relocated to new housing.
@kloud9805
@kloud9805 5 жыл бұрын
She truly is amazing. There are many grandmothers like her (including my own) who worked so hard to help their grandchildren and family. It breaks my heart to see that the mother does less work than the grandmother, who really should have been retired by now.
@itsjussjerry
@itsjussjerry 5 жыл бұрын
Wonder if there's any way we could help
@boyninja1966
@boyninja1966 5 жыл бұрын
Uncle and Grandma deserve to live in the new house more than the Mother. They work so hard. The Mother deserted the family and only came back when it suited her.
@fahiiima2905
@fahiiima2905 5 жыл бұрын
BoyNinja I know right it broke my heart when I found out they were still living in that house and the grandma was still working and sometimes she only ate potatoes to help her son on his studies they deserve to live in that house just as much as the mum but she went out to work for them but I hate how she wanted a divorce from her husband just because she was poor she probably knew the conditions he was going through but if you look at it from her side she was an only women trying to provide for her family and the living expense for her were very short that’s why they kept having fights I’m sad that the uncle will give up with study’s but it understandable because he’s caring and wants to help his mum I wish the uncle and grandma move in at some point though and they all have a better life
@hayabusa2774
@hayabusa2774 5 жыл бұрын
GOLD DIGGEar
@jennyleung92
@jennyleung92 5 жыл бұрын
Why is the grandma and ubcle still staying there they should be with the famy
@fahiiima2905
@fahiiima2905 5 жыл бұрын
jleung12292 yeh but i think it’s because where the grandma and uncle are there is more work available there so they stay there so they can provide for the family
@melize7035
@melize7035 5 жыл бұрын
You talk as if she went on vacation while the whole time she was toiling as well. SMH you don't know poverty so it's easy for you to type away nonsense.
@jamie-1011
@jamie-1011 4 жыл бұрын
i noticed that the mom kept complaining about how tough things are for her.... things are so much harder for the father but never did he complain once 😢
@tracy_5577
@tracy_5577 4 жыл бұрын
also did you see how she had an iphone, the father worked really hard, and she spends it on an extra expensive phone
@shiikae7787
@shiikae7787 4 жыл бұрын
Tracy _ yeah she could’ve spent it on an android instead. if she wanted a phone, they’re less expensive.
@fifth5106
@fifth5106 4 жыл бұрын
@@shiikae7787 or better yet, a super old flip phone. Still gets the job done
@shiikae7787
@shiikae7787 4 жыл бұрын
Wazeen Hoq yeah, that too.
@coraline9867
@coraline9867 4 жыл бұрын
@@fifth5106 Yep my mom has a flip phone even if she does have money, it's still the same as a working phone.
@GomuGome
@GomuGome 3 жыл бұрын
It sadden me the uncle was holding back the tears. I hope for a better life to him and the grandma.
@aminathamaanath9371
@aminathamaanath9371 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@uruha7341
@uruha7341 3 жыл бұрын
i'm so sad he had to drop school and give up on his education... for most people that's important for our future but poor people have to drop school because they can't afford it and it's easier for them to get a job with a bad payment. i feel so sorry for taking my education for granted and complaining a lot about it
@prod_kev04
@prod_kev04 3 жыл бұрын
It's the cycle of poverty :( i hope he did not give it up and continue with his education. It is his only hope to get a chance of becoming successful although I know it may not be possible. It's a cruel world we live in
@linostoe
@linostoe 2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the uncle so so much 😭
@direinfluence3603
@direinfluence3603 5 жыл бұрын
The wife is talking about how she is leaving the husband because he is poor and has no skills. She can’t read or write and is also poor. The husband has an outstanding work ethic. Never quits. A lot of Respect for him
@marvinlin5907
@marvinlin5907 5 жыл бұрын
Yea... leaves because she thinks she can make more money, comes back cuz shes tired.
@abluetale1016
@abluetale1016 5 жыл бұрын
Ya but she still left
@laureli988
@laureli988 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she had an idea of what his finances were before marriage. The way she looks down on him and his family is ridiculous.
@JustinZero0
@JustinZero0 5 жыл бұрын
i get the impression that wealth and status matter much more in Asian cultures much more than the West
@kanduyog1182
@kanduyog1182 5 жыл бұрын
@@JustinZero0 O I'll tell you, it does. But she should've known before they got married, she's really short sighted for saying those stuff against him when she can't even read or write.
@deniseedit.
@deniseedit. 5 жыл бұрын
I am guessing the mother is going to leave again. I feel so sorry for the little boy as he seems so happy when he talks about his mother. His grandmother is an amazing woman.
@AnimeLovaFoeva
@AnimeLovaFoeva 5 жыл бұрын
she going to the leave the first chance she has if the father trusts her with a large sum of money
@danielheng501
@danielheng501 5 жыл бұрын
She wants a divorce so she can share part of the wealth. Maybe the house.
@cckk1357
@cckk1357 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah..😭
@darrenguelas5096
@darrenguelas5096 5 жыл бұрын
She already found a new boyfriend
@KCsFunHouse
@KCsFunHouse 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like she heard about the donations and came running back. That was my initial thought. I love the little boys attitude, what a sweet kid so full of positivity. I’m curious why the mother and his brother are still living in the old house, they could have their own floor in the new one. I really hope the dads brother doesn’t drop out and finishes his education. I can’t imagine what this family goes through, it makes me very appreciative for what I have in my own life.
@zakdemon
@zakdemon 3 жыл бұрын
The grandma is clearly the MVP. She takes care of the kids when both parents aren’t there. She grows crops to feed them, works the fields day and night. Dad complains about being useless, mom hates dad for bring poor. Grandma has no drama and deserves the award ⭐️
@charviroy5753
@charviroy5753 3 жыл бұрын
And the uncle
@kratos6836
@kratos6836 3 жыл бұрын
When the imposter sus
@Aziraphalesbook
@Aziraphalesbook 3 жыл бұрын
@@kratos6836 wth is going to do with the among us?
@royaneekhalil6488
@royaneekhalil6488 3 жыл бұрын
@@charviroy5753 he seemed to be a boy too
@wifi_gaming1422
@wifi_gaming1422 3 жыл бұрын
@@Aziraphalesbook everything is amogus
@jennahrashed3819
@jennahrashed3819 3 жыл бұрын
The grandmother is so kind. She doesnt want to burden her son because she knows and understands he is trying his best for his family, unlike the wife. They really deserve help.
@alphabet8411
@alphabet8411 4 жыл бұрын
When the young uncle was talking about the potatoes in the old house you can see the pain in his eyes. He is holding back so much pain. I feel like the grandma and the young uncle deserve a better life. He needs an education. This is so sad.
@violetap3004
@violetap3004 4 жыл бұрын
It was like he was holding back his tears 😭
@skrepoop
@skrepoop 4 жыл бұрын
i agree they need a better life.
@Radzio2006
@Radzio2006 4 жыл бұрын
@@violetap3004 exactly, i see the same.
@rondass62
@rondass62 4 жыл бұрын
Lol...you guys are so so soft...let your emotions get in the way...don't believe bthe chowpees
@fuego5350
@fuego5350 4 жыл бұрын
@@rondass62 what?
@amirtamang4210
@amirtamang4210 4 жыл бұрын
Protect the daughter. She is the smartest one here and she can raise them all if given the better opportunitie.
@emelialartey2973
@emelialartey2973 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to say the same thing. She is smart
@benchen123
@benchen123 4 жыл бұрын
Yes the daughter speaks well.
@joez3706
@joez3706 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder if she goes to school?
@deidara8243
@deidara8243 4 жыл бұрын
Correction protect the daughter AND the son. they both have potential!
@yun-pg8cr
@yun-pg8cr 4 жыл бұрын
She shouldn’t have to raise them, she’s the daughter, putting such a big responsibility on her back isn’t fair to her. They could do better even without the mother. I hope they get lots of money and are able to sustain it, i hope the grandma and uncle stays healthy, stability and that he is able to keep going to school and complete highschool at least
@minx.toesies2037
@minx.toesies2037 4 жыл бұрын
the daughter seems like a very smart girl, especially considering her situation. i hope she can find a job and happiness in the future.
@zaradkytlico8737
@zaradkytlico8737 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@bryonycoates3
@bryonycoates3 4 жыл бұрын
Yes she's a wise soul. Hope things work out for her and her brother ❤
@AleQuintana-lq5vo
@AleQuintana-lq5vo 4 жыл бұрын
She have a better nutritionals condición. The grand mother give that. Here the hero is the grand mother. She stay far and whit the same condition. For her should be the care.
@keishaaulia7545
@keishaaulia7545 3 жыл бұрын
Yess
@Kunalalal
@Kunalalal 3 жыл бұрын
Please stop ruining someone’s life more... who are you people to pass such mean comments and make such cheap judgements. It’s their life, their problems. Every individual does not have the same emotional and psychological strength as the society expects from him or her. Everyone has their own emotional struggle, you guys have no right to comment on anyone from this family. If you can offer help than do so if not than don’t share your unnecessary unanalysed judgements. They need help, that kid does not want people to judge his mother
@nimmi7047
@nimmi7047 3 жыл бұрын
That mother is awful. The boy said how she use to beat him in a previous video. She left because they were poor and only came back now because they built a new house.
@prod_kev04
@prod_kev04 3 жыл бұрын
Beatings is common in parts of China for discipline although idk the context of the video u watched. I was beat as a child when I did something bad. It's not a great way of teaching your kids as we grow up to respect you out of fear and not actual love and respect. In fact you can get hit with a ruler on your palm in some school's in China. It is part of our culture but we are slowly changing and it is becoming less common. However population of china is pretty big so unoo it prob take a while
@pirateclick1d169
@pirateclick1d169 3 жыл бұрын
@@prod_kev04 The kid said "she used to like beating me". The environment is bad for everyone.
@pratriciadewan7396
@pratriciadewan7396 3 жыл бұрын
@Kevin. Not every parent beats their children to teach them discipline but they do it to take out their own frustrations. Studies have shown beating kids doesn't lead to great grades but high suicide rates. Parents can't beat strangers because it can lead to prison, but their kids will tolerate the abuse. Culture is a weak argument for abuse. One child policy in China led to female feticide. And abusers will say that's also part of our culture. Only an abuser would say that's ok.
@prod_kev04
@prod_kev04 3 жыл бұрын
@@pratriciadewan7396 exactly. Thanks for understanding. I just finished watching a show called Darling in the Franxx and it made me realize how much I wasted my life. Instead of living my life and enjoying my childhood while I had it, I spent it living up to expectations. 17 years of age and has not had a single close relationship with a girl never mind a kiss
@name3869
@name3869 3 жыл бұрын
@@pratriciadewan7396 Exactly.
@canadian4oodie115
@canadian4oodie115 5 жыл бұрын
At such a young age the children are very wise and mature. All the hardship they endured made them very strong.
@shadowmod3
@shadowmod3 5 жыл бұрын
East Asians you see in the west works hard because they understand hardship. Those which have been there for generations tend to take life for granted.
@Gee-xb7rt
@Gee-xb7rt 5 жыл бұрын
@@shadowmod3 well yeah, but the really rich in Asia don't have any desire to move.
@ChibiQilin
@ChibiQilin 5 жыл бұрын
We need to put all children through this sort of hardship so we can build a better future through a stronger generation!
@braxtonshrianandan2438
@braxtonshrianandan2438 5 жыл бұрын
NAH ...They are JUST smart anyway..and such hard working people..!
@microRiZu
@microRiZu 5 жыл бұрын
The person my sister is married to because of my father is living in a house made out of dirt bricks with dirst layers. she has 4 kids and the husband is doing no work the husband's father and mother grow spicies/potatoes/tomatoes/onions on their farm land and that's what they eat whole year i wish to help them after i complete my education! and i hate that person for making my sister and her kids starve
@AM69999
@AM69999 4 жыл бұрын
The grandma and young uncle should receive donations too, he still in middle school and she's an older woman they can't keep living like that 😥
@rainbowkitten8990
@rainbowkitten8990 4 жыл бұрын
With $130 a year, it must be so so hard. We spend that every few weeks-
@jimx3603
@jimx3603 3 жыл бұрын
@@rainbowkitten8990 yes. fortunately they have lands and can plant for food.
@seh-lavee2749
@seh-lavee2749 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@regalshot.2423
@regalshot.2423 3 жыл бұрын
I know! That poor old lady will probably have to just keep doing the manual labor
@jenniferv618
@jenniferv618 3 жыл бұрын
@@jimx3603 did you not see on the 1st video that the government planted trees & only left them with a few places to grow crops? He said what they left him didnt supply enough so he had to look for work. Its all in the first video.
@randlepmcmurphy6117
@randlepmcmurphy6117 5 жыл бұрын
The daughter is the smartest out of them all, she knows her mother is at it.
@mrsrana79
@mrsrana79 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! That's exactly what I've been yelling for about an hour now
@David-bc4hh
@David-bc4hh 5 жыл бұрын
And she's 11! I look at my 11 year old and she's breathing with her mouth open. Count your blessings
@pipoipoi
@pipoipoi 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah and you can just tell shes smart by the way she talks compared to her mum
@EX3XEX
@EX3XEX 5 жыл бұрын
Yup she knows her mom is gold digger
@HELEVAI
@HELEVAI 5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad other people noticed this
@antarctica0061
@antarctica0061 3 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of annoyed that the mother was complaining for a whole minute straight about her "struggles" when she put her son in much humiliation after she left... Why did she even come back??
@indrit66
@indrit66 3 жыл бұрын
she said she worked in resturant for 14 hours a day only to stay alive after leaving her family where she lived in horrible conditions give her a break man you have no idea what shes through this is not a reality show this is real life and in poverty we humans become the animals that we really are.
@Charmegrisen
@Charmegrisen 3 жыл бұрын
​@@indrit66 She lived in such horrible conditions that she was able to afford an iphone, leather jacket, necklace and more than likely other luxuries to herself.
@tc98826
@tc98826 3 жыл бұрын
@@indrit66 lots of people work 12+ hour days.
@starwolfcyberlight4546
@starwolfcyberlight4546 2 жыл бұрын
@@tc98826 Especially Japan's case which is worse
@Soymilkcakes
@Soymilkcakes 2 жыл бұрын
She came back because they got a new home and donation money it's all about the money I feel really bad for those kids and the grandma and uncle
@cardagain1759
@cardagain1759 5 жыл бұрын
Dads a warrior. Much respect for him
@cindihowell6672
@cindihowell6672 5 жыл бұрын
And very handsome. He could find a much better wife .
@animerocks2468
@animerocks2468 5 жыл бұрын
@@cindihowell6672 Even from a guy's point of view, the father and the 17 year old uncle are obviously handsome. They should try to brush up on their speaking skills, then pick up a sales job in the city, assuming that they can read and write.
@olymolly3637
@olymolly3637 5 жыл бұрын
And hero
@thomasli8209
@thomasli8209 5 жыл бұрын
Mr T Although what you said is true, it doesn’t really refute what Joshua said. I don’t see why you felt the need to claim that he “clearly has no idea of the poverty in rural China”, since he wasn’t at all claiming to be an expert. If the mom can supposedly obtain an entry permit to a city to work in restaurants, then why can’t the father and uncle? It was even stated that the father worked in construction. Your comment is extremely pointless and doesn’t bring anything to the conversation.
@_Llamaaa
@_Llamaaa 5 жыл бұрын
@Ichigo Red sis the dad was working in the city did u watch the vid
@kagokadae
@kagokadae 5 жыл бұрын
Money donated better don't go to the mom. Save it for raising the kids.
@2ossy
@2ossy 5 жыл бұрын
90% of the money was "lost" before it arrived at the family
@izdabombz
@izdabombz 5 жыл бұрын
She has her parents to consider too
@lisasmith8007
@lisasmith8007 5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lisasmith8007
@lisasmith8007 5 жыл бұрын
@@2ossy i didn't think about that. You're right. He had to take loans to build
@Hussein_Nur
@Hussein_Nur 5 жыл бұрын
@@2ossy where did u get that number from
@yelkayap8316
@yelkayap8316 5 жыл бұрын
“she still resents me for being poor” man, that’s not love. i pity the father
@rhinochino
@rhinochino 5 жыл бұрын
yk kael , many marriage are arranged. She probably had no say in getting married. So don’t blame for leaving. Grandma usually responsible for raising the kids even if mom is living in the home. It’s the culture.
@I.luv.my.choppa
@I.luv.my.choppa 5 жыл бұрын
@messiah rapture ˢᵗⁱˡˡ ⁿᵒᵗ ʳⁱᵍʰᵗ
@thalmoragent9344
@thalmoragent9344 5 жыл бұрын
messiah rapture She had no say in getting married? If he was that poor when they first knew him, her parents would have never agreed to her marrying him in the first place. I doubt it was arranged, cause if it was she’d be living with some other dude with some more money to his name. She’s mad he isn’t able to make enough money but they decided to have kids, and don’t even have the decency to give the kid up for adoption or something. It’s not only the man’s responsibility to take care of everything, especially if the wife isn’t being grateful for anything.
@yelkayap8316
@yelkayap8316 5 жыл бұрын
messiah rapture but even so, she should’ve stayed and took care of her OWN kids. her mother is aging and her kids needed a mom. even the daughter knew so well what her mom did
@yelkayap8316
@yelkayap8316 5 жыл бұрын
big pimpin ikr!
@nesbygalvan2088
@nesbygalvan2088 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats to the person who managed to profit off of this because the donations clearly didn’t make their way to this family.
@kuywasaamazikeen8048
@kuywasaamazikeen8048 3 жыл бұрын
At least someone gets it. Everyone else is too busy arguing in their priviledge about the family's should'ves when that (what you mentioned) is the obvious take away from it. Ffs
@beauty.fromashes
@beauty.fromashes 3 жыл бұрын
That's so sad
@barney2159
@barney2159 3 жыл бұрын
For real, if they simply just got the ad revenue from this video alone they'd be out of this rut immediately. On the other hand, given the level of education thry have, if they got a ton of money out of nowhere, I don't think it will last a lot. Still a better alternative to how they're living.
@nojud3547
@nojud3547 3 жыл бұрын
this comment needs more attention
@thyme4achange307
@thyme4achange307 2 жыл бұрын
There is definitely a fine line between helping and exploiting someone.
@prabeshlamichhane1009
@prabeshlamichhane1009 5 жыл бұрын
"In either home we sleep comfortably", boy knows his roots. Very matured.
@samuellancaster1305
@samuellancaster1305 5 жыл бұрын
A little bit better
@cocolebolovesgod2700
@cocolebolovesgod2700 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@lissam956
@lissam956 5 жыл бұрын
Content with what he has, and sometimes we in big houses and don’t stop complaining 🙁
@npeace312
@npeace312 5 жыл бұрын
That really stuck with me. What a sweet boy.
@cielo6584
@cielo6584 5 жыл бұрын
YoMama Fat yes more mature than his mother
@parksaranglee7951
@parksaranglee7951 5 жыл бұрын
Is it only me or did the mom returned when the family got famous and got many support and donations from many peoples and she fights with her 'husband' when she didn't got the money? I smell something fishy and toxic about this situation. Sorry if I'm wrong.
@pancake9621
@pancake9621 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too. I mean i guess I don't really have the right to judge but it's not bad to look out and feel a bit suspicious. I just really hope nothing wrong happens. The family has already gone through so much.
@heavenlhq
@heavenlhq 5 жыл бұрын
Life is so so so hard for the family, even especially for her. Maybe you could not know more about situations where they have been living and their feelings. please do not judge her. 祝福 ice boy & family & mom
@KG-kq7kn
@KG-kq7kn 5 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Asia, the culture is different and yes people will straight up tell you to your face they are leaving you because of your job. Sad reality
@zaramuzaffar2524
@zaramuzaffar2524 5 жыл бұрын
Park sarang Lee u r so right. ....I feel the same
@MNcoquicoqui
@MNcoquicoqui 5 жыл бұрын
I don't see any remorse from the mom for leaving her family, none whatsoever. The only person genuinely happy is the boy.
@kelslyy
@kelslyy 5 жыл бұрын
The grandma and uncle deserves so much more than the mom :(
@almond1865
@almond1865 5 жыл бұрын
every family has their problems. we can’t judge the family based of this 10 minute video and suddenly assume that we know their situations. what we are seeing is only the surface and not even their true selfs as they are in front of a camera. what they deserve is not something we can decide. we don’t know their history or their situation to judge how much they deserve.
@v.dargain1678
@v.dargain1678 4 жыл бұрын
They are taught not to think for themselves under communism , because big brother got your back . And this is what happens when "big brother" moves away .
@almond1865
@almond1865 4 жыл бұрын
V. Dargain it’s got nothing to do with communism. this happens to people everywhere because of poverty. stop blaming everything that is wrong with a country on a political ideology. there is so much more than that.
@wendanth1256
@wendanth1256 4 жыл бұрын
@Joyce Salocha this might be a bot
@keno8125
@keno8125 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@jackiej6233
@jackiej6233 3 жыл бұрын
So odd he'd let that abusive woman back into his childrens' lives while leaving his brother and mother to fend for themselves.
@frankierospansygirl
@frankierospansygirl 3 жыл бұрын
It’s just abuse / fear and potentially love
@jck_4283
@jck_4283 3 жыл бұрын
That's because no matter what, she's still the kids' mother and he must have loved her. We dont really know about the father's mother and brother. They may have wanted to stay there..
@trevorslater2746
@trevorslater2746 3 жыл бұрын
Granma is probably better off now without so many jobs to do looking after the whole family, I bet she shares her potatoes with them
@nanette3900
@nanette3900 3 жыл бұрын
I think he did it for the kids to have their mom. But it’s not right nor fair.
@Vxtn
@Vxtn 3 жыл бұрын
That roast beef must be salty
@Eddie-cs4qy
@Eddie-cs4qy 5 жыл бұрын
" Because in either house, we sleep comfortably ". . . . Such a pure heart...
@godfirst7452
@godfirst7452 5 жыл бұрын
That was awesome!
@cocopun
@cocopun 5 жыл бұрын
Probably scripted to avoid mommy’s punishment LOl
@unusualme8072
@unusualme8072 5 жыл бұрын
"To the pure, all things are pure"
@Eddie-cs4qy
@Eddie-cs4qy 5 жыл бұрын
@@unusualme8072 you know what i meant, you dont know what its like to struggle, do you?
@triplej3j839
@triplej3j839 5 жыл бұрын
That is why they do not need a bigger, better house. all they need is job! For living. I have lived in a house that has a toilet, no bedrooms. Our house was like 14 sqm. And that includes, toilet, sink, and the place where we sleep in and yes! Dining area all in one. We just need job, to make ourselves slowly prosfer.
@Bree548
@Bree548 5 жыл бұрын
“My goal is to study hard and not disappoint the people that care about me.” MY HEART 😭
@traceybear
@traceybear 5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 i teared up when he said that
@littlebubbles2751
@littlebubbles2751 5 жыл бұрын
Funds to build notre dame were collected in a week. Can't we do something for these kinds of families instead of building buildings?
@rlz5460
@rlz5460 5 жыл бұрын
Emmm.. what he said is a common sense in China...
@刘佳毅-p2m
@刘佳毅-p2m 5 жыл бұрын
@@rlz5460 我差点哭了,直到看到你这句话😂
@rlz5460
@rlz5460 5 жыл бұрын
@@刘佳毅-p2m 看到外国人这么惊讶我反而很惊讶😅
@Xaol
@Xaol 5 жыл бұрын
Why can't the grandma and uncle live with the family? There is still space to put a bed or couch for the grandmother and uncle to sleep. I feel so sorry for them 😭
@micozhou9665
@micozhou9665 5 жыл бұрын
Perhaps it is because of the boy's mother, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is very subtle
@jungkookscoconuthairline
@jungkookscoconuthairline 5 жыл бұрын
They can’t even pay for their own family, it will be even more hard to pay for two more people in your household
@Xaol
@Xaol 5 жыл бұрын
Jungkooks Coconut hairline oh okay
@mizerbrise
@mizerbrise 5 жыл бұрын
Jungkooks Coconut hairline well the mom could’ve stayed gone and they could’ve moved in with them
@raishmamaraj9019
@raishmamaraj9019 5 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking! His mum and uncle stood by him when miss opportunist left her 2 young children and abandoned them.
@printerink697
@printerink697 3 жыл бұрын
tbh I can't understand the dad.. the woman is abusive to the children and the children obviously don't like her she's manipulative and an opportunist, she abandoned her children and the father, why would he let her back?? isn't it kind of selfish towards the children, the young uncle and the grandma? I know everyone has their own circumstances I will never understand blah blah but like?? The poor uncle he's only kid.. :(
@borgerchainsaw1016
@borgerchainsaw1016 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe he hopes the presence of the mother will make the children happier, or he's just really in love
@letsgobrandon8154
@letsgobrandon8154 3 жыл бұрын
@@borgerchainsaw1016 love
@trish8321
@trish8321 5 жыл бұрын
"She resents me for being poor" Broke my heart y'all
@skylights694
@skylights694 5 жыл бұрын
Trish same felt that :( so so so sad
@mrhow22
@mrhow22 5 жыл бұрын
Y'all broke too???
@godfirst7452
@godfirst7452 5 жыл бұрын
Deeply saddening 😭
@pakliv3243
@pakliv3243 5 жыл бұрын
@ninja jin LoL hahahahahaha she will stick after u pay for her date n movie's .. C y'all later
@samuraibushido7077
@samuraibushido7077 7 ай бұрын
Why can't we work together and try to get in some organizations like "Save The Children" or UNICEF to send help to these families? We can do this!!
@glazelalbite2481
@glazelalbite2481 5 жыл бұрын
The uncle and grandma too pls help them too :(
@ABCD-po1od
@ABCD-po1od 5 жыл бұрын
A 4 Year Orphan Showing His Incredible Kungfu Skill 四岁孤儿 河南寺院内向众人展示武术kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnmVYZd3gpqhqaM
@vimoo9783
@vimoo9783 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah... They should also live in the new house not the mom
@kelslyy
@kelslyy 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah they deserve a better life :(
@vickyjadhav6829
@vickyjadhav6829 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so easy to sit there and comment.
@bakedmac306
@bakedmac306 5 жыл бұрын
Yes pls
@kimkim9838
@kimkim9838 5 жыл бұрын
Their daughter more mature than the mother 😩😩
@Allinmyworld
@Allinmyworld 5 жыл бұрын
kim kim that’s the same thing I was thinking. Their daughter is very mature
@kimkim9838
@kimkim9838 5 жыл бұрын
Sad to see
@DestineesGuiltyPleasuresASMR
@DestineesGuiltyPleasuresASMR 5 жыл бұрын
The son is more mature than the mother
@bytecy
@bytecy 5 жыл бұрын
Tho I dislike the mother.. but she's still their mother. No matter how immature she is ..the probability that she will leave the family after the fame and opportunities that comes from the son fades. Sad but to put ourselves in her shoe.. most likely she had it more rough when growing up in such conditions. We cannot judge others without judging ourselves for what we have or had during our childhood. Just my two cents. Ps.. looking at this videos will make me weep.. as I feel guilty for what I have and the appreciation I didn't felt. Let's us all smell the roses by the pathway (there's no roses but the trees might do it ☺)
@kimkim9838
@kimkim9838 5 жыл бұрын
cheryl tan chill I’m just pointing out facts here. I didn’t say anything bad about her.
@marielcastillo6025
@marielcastillo6025 3 жыл бұрын
Feel sad for the grandmother and uncle. Breaks my heart. The girl is so right about her mother. She returned because of the house but still is not enough for her...
@nisafalastina9905
@nisafalastina9905 4 жыл бұрын
This video is even more heartbreaking. The grandma and young uncle are left behind, but the ungrateful mom returns with so many complaints
@groowanderer
@groowanderer 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. And why is it you think the others were left behind? They were all in it together, but now...? I guarantee you the trash mother didn't want the older woman and uncle to live with them in the new house.
@imNIDA07
@imNIDA07 3 жыл бұрын
She is the gold digger
@groowanderer
@groowanderer 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kunalalal if they don't want public opinion they shouldn't make it public information. Same as anyone that has ever uploaded anything to KZbin, or signed off for monetary gains, such as this family did.
@groowanderer
@groowanderer 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kunalalal ah, but it's fine for you to make an opinion public, and pass judgment right here in the comment section? How's that any different? At least I'm not bothered by it, as I made my opinion public and that leaves it open for public debate. That's how this works. You're trying to ride some moral high horse while being a hypocrite at the same time. You religious? Ya I'm guessing you are.
@junhyunds
@junhyunds 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kunalalal Well its hard to not talk about, considering she probably has better clothes than the kid and came back AFTER they built a new home hmmm thats rather strange... Plus tey left the grandmother and uncle behind im pretty sure the mother did that.
@KS-ck8ht
@KS-ck8ht 5 жыл бұрын
You can see how the father glances at his wife at the beginning when the son introduces her. That look says it all. I wish he would find someone who would love him for real. That father went through a lot.
@CoolBadger
@CoolBadger 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Exactly what I was thinking too.
@aknewabe161
@aknewabe161 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the father is happy outside but not from inside. He let his wife come back for the sake of his children's. So many sacrifices made for the family. Such a wonderful father.
@teachermichelle9632
@teachermichelle9632 5 жыл бұрын
I dont agree. I think he only looks after himself. Both those parents shouldn't have had children. The children should be taken away from them.
@aknewabe161
@aknewabe161 5 жыл бұрын
@@teachermichelle9632 well you are entitled to your opinion 😊
@wangtie9602
@wangtie9602 5 жыл бұрын
WOMEN WHEN THEY WANT MONEY THEY SAY YOU ARE USELESS FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO SATISFY THEIR MONEY NEEDS. IF THEY HAVE NO WORRY FOR MONEY , THEY WANT YOU TO COME BACK AND ACCOMPANY THEM. MAN CANNOT DO TWO THINGS AT THE SAME TIME, GIVING ENOUGH MONEY AND HAVE TO ACCOMPANY THE WIFE ALL THE TIME. EITHER IT IS THE WIFE HAVE ENOUGH MONEY AND THE HUSBAND WORK FAR AWAY OR THE HUSBAND STAY AT HOME AND THE WIFE HAVE NO T ENOUGH MONEY TO SPEND. NOT EASY TO BE A MAN/HUSBAND/FATHER
@phenitagomes1292
@phenitagomes1292 5 жыл бұрын
Sad
@RoastofRump
@RoastofRump 3 жыл бұрын
Mom wears a leather jacket and gold necklace while grandmother who raised her kids lives on potatoes.
@airbornetortilla9489
@airbornetortilla9489 3 жыл бұрын
Prolly fake gold. But still understand your point. Funny how she is back in their lives when the boy gets famous and noticed...
@TylersJourney17
@TylersJourney17 3 жыл бұрын
Did u see the iPhone at the end too?
@kuywasaamazikeen8048
@kuywasaamazikeen8048 3 жыл бұрын
I could care less about judging. For all we know someone gave them to her when she was looking for work in the city. All that matters to me is that the kids are happier because they have their mom with them again.
@tojislefttoe7505
@tojislefttoe7505 3 жыл бұрын
@@kuywasaamazikeen8048 she used to beat her kids.. that woman is insane
@JSt3pz
@JSt3pz 3 жыл бұрын
@@tojislefttoe7505 Don’t forget that she didn’t let the grandma and uncle live in the house too
@aspirerma697
@aspirerma697 5 жыл бұрын
You can see tears from the uncles eyes it so sad he seems so sad that he has to stop school.
@yiyinhhhguo8714
@yiyinhhhguo8714 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sad about the little uncle😭
@ngatiharty1
@ngatiharty1 5 жыл бұрын
I know and now he's willing to give up his education to start working 😔😔 I hope they get some help
@Lexphen
@Lexphen 5 жыл бұрын
translation was wrong "he (wanted) to stop school because he didn't have enough food to be full so he decided to drop out to work for food"
@willowcupcakes1835
@willowcupcakes1835 5 жыл бұрын
"I wanna tell mom ,to not leave us again" Such a pure,innocent heart that knows nothing
@tamaraoka5152
@tamaraoka5152 5 жыл бұрын
cupcake chim with all the bts ff’s you watched?
@AAAAAA-cq7rc
@AAAAAA-cq7rc 5 жыл бұрын
Yeshua is Lord. She means “knows nothing” as knows nothing about the evil inside of the mom
@rigyelghalley3542
@rigyelghalley3542 4 жыл бұрын
Why is no one talking about the grandma did you see the potatoes she harvested that's gotta be a lot of work
@joshua8219
@joshua8219 4 жыл бұрын
She’s a Chinese grandma. They are immortal
@kendsaykendsay4180
@kendsaykendsay4180 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@arianaajbeaverhausen8175
@arianaajbeaverhausen8175 4 жыл бұрын
Having worked on potato farms myself I can tell you that without machinery it's a nightmare. Even with machinery it's back breaking. I was in my late teens and early twenties when I was working them though, Granny is a powerhouse! 💙🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🌍🇨🇳❤
@malicious1111
@malicious1111 4 жыл бұрын
7:18 that's what a hard-working person would say till her last day!
@PlatinumSpirit
@PlatinumSpirit 4 жыл бұрын
Yes she did great in preparation for winter and spring, that mountain of potatoes is music to my eyes🎶
@duane7996
@duane7996 3 жыл бұрын
That's a very intelligent 11 year old. She probably sees through her mother.
@NareshMallya
@NareshMallya 5 жыл бұрын
"Because in either houses, we sleep comfortably". That got me. He truly knows how to live in content with his life and surroundings. 🙂
@TomboiTravels
@TomboiTravels 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, he does 💛.
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 5 жыл бұрын
Naresh M he and his sister had more sense than the mom. She wants to live great and yet she’s doing nothing to make things better other than leaving.
@earldranrebb.sabellina4851
@earldranrebb.sabellina4851 5 жыл бұрын
mah hart mah soul 💛
@Tyrfingr
@Tyrfingr 5 жыл бұрын
The little guy could teach people in our spoilt society what the value of contentment means, we all know we need such lessons.
@planetjupiter1170
@planetjupiter1170 4 жыл бұрын
same thoughts, naresh.
@Lilka20061990
@Lilka20061990 5 жыл бұрын
People donated sooooo much money to them but they barely saw any of it. Whoever took care of it, the city or whoever took most of it. If someone is able to help them and is willing they need to go and help them in person. Don’t trust these agencies.
@foofy3
@foofy3 5 жыл бұрын
this is why I don't donate to charities and will definitely help in person instead
@Lizzytrixx
@Lizzytrixx 5 жыл бұрын
Yessss!! All those funds are not being used by the people who actually need them.
@dalicassini8725
@dalicassini8725 5 жыл бұрын
i too have donated 100€ last year where tf my money went????
@sdmdjkdjejw9930
@sdmdjkdjejw9930 5 жыл бұрын
@@crazyhorse4246 that's messed up
@mellow1395
@mellow1395 5 жыл бұрын
@@dalicassini8725 ask the Chinese government they raised 300k USD and the family only recieved 900 this some bs
@tiff_2268
@tiff_2268 5 жыл бұрын
Why can’t the grandmother and uncle live in the new house? there’s enough room and they deserve it more than the mom
@octogirl2046
@octogirl2046 4 жыл бұрын
The wife left because there were too many people living in the house. I think one of her conditions for coming home and living in the new house was no extra family. I am positive they don’t all get along.
@sarahkostkova6613
@sarahkostkova6613 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe they need the fields near the old house
@yousif_almashhadani
@yousif_almashhadani 4 жыл бұрын
1000th
@yourunfinishedcake8591
@yourunfinishedcake8591 3 жыл бұрын
the boy is so grateful for little things people already have. Granny is also so hardworking and is an inspiration to all
@vlad.a14_84
@vlad.a14_84 5 жыл бұрын
When he is 60 he will tell his grandkids that he had to walk through miles of snow and ice on a mountain and it's true
@purplepineapple117
@purplepineapple117 5 жыл бұрын
Lopez thank you for existing and commenting this
@nikolaykim
@nikolaykim 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, and there is even proof on the internet!
@clarkslain3106
@clarkslain3106 5 жыл бұрын
Uphill both ways
@iwanttobelieve5970
@iwanttobelieve5970 5 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting that. Seems like the mother came back probably out of being embarrassment for leaving her kids because his story went global. And it's sad that the grandmother was forced to continue to live there. I watched a documentary about the new settlements they are making them move into. They're apartments mostly. Hopefully, she'll have a better life.
@marielosjauregui9065
@marielosjauregui9065 5 жыл бұрын
i dont think she was sending them money...she just came back for the new house...she is a bad woman...hope that there is some love in her heart for her children...but even the daughter said we dont know what my mom is thinking....hope the dad can find a better job
@slehcyo8223
@slehcyo8223 5 жыл бұрын
@@marielosjauregui9065 ah my bad just seen she didn't send it back. Tbh I still don't judge her. I don't judge people living in extreme poverty. I'm glad she went back home though.
@BubblegumFunk
@BubblegumFunk 5 жыл бұрын
But to leave your child in the first place 😩
@ChaunceyDos
@ChaunceyDos 5 жыл бұрын
@Erinne Cat Yeah, I cut the mother some slack. I don't know what her life while growing up was like, how old she is, how she got pregnant... She simply seems unwilling to resign herself to the life she's been handed.
@SkyBlue-ft5ou
@SkyBlue-ft5ou 5 жыл бұрын
You can not imagine how hard the life is of living in northwest China
@mamtarai1471
@mamtarai1471 5 жыл бұрын
Their grandmother and uncle should also stay with them in the new home...
@kat465k3
@kat465k3 5 жыл бұрын
mamta rai I think it’s because their grandmother doesn’t like the mother, maybe she resents the mother for leaving the family, and therefore refuses to live with them? Or maybe their grandmother is simply used to the old house. The situation seems very complicated and messed up...their grandmother and uncle deserves to live with them though!
@mamtarai1471
@mamtarai1471 5 жыл бұрын
@@kat465k3 It may be what you said... but i hope they live together like before in the new one as well😔☹🙁
@darkwebgirl
@darkwebgirl 5 жыл бұрын
@@kat465k3 the grandmother said "it's fine, we won't bother them anymore. We will make it work and we will work slowly" of course I can't know because I'm not there but it sure sounds and looks like they really wanted to go with them, and the mother or whoever told them they weren't welcome.
@letyg1526
@letyg1526 5 жыл бұрын
@@darkwebgirl it's a possibility, so I hope the mom leaves again so the grandma and uncle can move in to the new house.
@neviennaguib3021
@neviennaguib3021 5 жыл бұрын
mamta rai they are in China. There's a lot of people that live with them and also that means they might have to share money and food and they are still very poor and can't afford to do that. In situations like this it's better to live in small families or else you go poor because you need to care for so many people. And they are already poor.
@Salma-px5un
@Salma-px5un 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the mother threatened the dad that she would leave if the granny and the uncle live in the new house with them. I am absolutely disgusted that she left for money.
@arisbarocio6303
@arisbarocio6303 5 жыл бұрын
I will personally go visit this family and give them the donation because it’s obvious someone isn’t doing it properly. I’ll also fight the mom.
@greenamagasin4855
@greenamagasin4855 5 жыл бұрын
Okay I’m coming w you. Haha
@internettroll7497
@internettroll7497 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah .you fight the mom. Girl fight. Payper view event. Cash pours in . The family gets rich. ...... noice.
@aisyahsasuke7563
@aisyahsasuke7563 5 жыл бұрын
@@greenamagasin4855 me too
@NgocNguyen-hr2rj
@NgocNguyen-hr2rj 5 жыл бұрын
Aris Barocio Well Just Saying But The Government Robbed The Kids Money And Out of The 300,000 United States Dollars, He Only Got 900
@teasis1212
@teasis1212 5 жыл бұрын
i'm coming with you, get the cash and knives ready
@shhhnbjlkvghimvbjj7890
@shhhnbjlkvghimvbjj7890 5 жыл бұрын
Poor uncle looks heart broken 🥺 HELP HIM TOO
@milanatatarenko
@milanatatarenko 5 жыл бұрын
i cant even call him "uncle" hes freaking 17 and looks 13 at most
@PrettyIntrovert_9
@PrettyIntrovert_9 5 жыл бұрын
Милана Ван-Дейк i had the exact same thought 😂
@billspooks
@billspooks 5 жыл бұрын
How...??? How can this uncle be helped? Where can a donation be sent to help him with the money he needs for school so he does not have to quit school?
@moth9659
@moth9659 5 жыл бұрын
Destroy the emoji
@fattit7598
@fattit7598 5 жыл бұрын
@@milanatatarenko 17? he said he is in his 3rd year of middle school 6:45 so that means hes 14-15.
@angskeet
@angskeet 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad the dad and the children are happy, but the mom seems selfish. All she wants is money. Why else would she return after they got a new house? Even the daughter isn't sure of her mom's intentions.
@hotgirlslistentoenhypen8287
@hotgirlslistentoenhypen8287 5 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought. As soon as she heard they got a new house she came back, and when she came back she only asked for money and wanted to divorce him, even though he's giving her the money. I do understand her hardships but it doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.
@ZenYorkfield
@ZenYorkfield 5 жыл бұрын
To save face, what are you gonna so with a big house if you don't have money.
@izdabombz
@izdabombz 5 жыл бұрын
She has her parents to take care of too and the parents are sooooo young. The guy is like 26-27 so they probably has kids at 19-20. Really have no moment to mature
@king.kthebest6158
@king.kthebest6158 5 жыл бұрын
She's a woman, what did you expect?
@takemypainaway9517
@takemypainaway9517 5 жыл бұрын
What if her husband abused her and she's just not saying anything??
@Herrera_70
@Herrera_70 Жыл бұрын
The grandma is breaking my heart, "I won't bother them anymore, no matter who difficult it is" she doesn't want to be a burden, but she needs help. I can't believe she was left behind in that house.
@AllHustleNoLuck8Gaming
@AllHustleNoLuck8Gaming 5 жыл бұрын
We are just going to act like the boy didnt say, the only memory he had of his mom was of her beating him 😤😡. That so called woman is a phony
@anythingatall7670
@anythingatall7670 5 жыл бұрын
David Soto It makes me furious just thinking about how someone can be so vile
@xmartinez2888
@xmartinez2888 5 жыл бұрын
He meant beating him at the game I thought the same
@lollijellypop3783
@lollijellypop3783 5 жыл бұрын
Typical abusive asian parent
@humblenoob7631
@humblenoob7631 5 жыл бұрын
Asian parenting! Asian moms usually get less strict as the son gets older. My mom used to beat me, but then now she hardly gets mad at me.
@zak3172
@zak3172 5 жыл бұрын
@@humblenoob7631 all kids get more discipline when they're younger than when they're older becuz they mature Obviously types of discipline range from family to family, some get beat (which I'm not supporting) and some communicate...that's just the way it is...it's different for all cultures
@cookiesarecool101
@cookiesarecool101 5 жыл бұрын
I get really angry whenever I think about how the mom lives with them even though she left them and used to beat her kids. She shouldn’t be there with them. The uncle and grandma should be there, not her.
@silvervirio3642
@silvervirio3642 4 жыл бұрын
well the kids need the mom, he even stated he want her back. if she is only do what she like she should have been left after she birth the first kid, but she stay long enough until the second kids can recognize his mother. poverty change people. i hope they have enough donation to live happily as one whole family now, and can start a new life.
@isabelmarguerite5560
@isabelmarguerite5560 4 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing that the grandmother needs her field nearby to work on. And her youngest son didn't want to leave her alone in the house. That might be the reason why they stayed there
@Jessica-gi6vi
@Jessica-gi6vi 5 жыл бұрын
"Because in either house we sleep comfortably" Aww he's such an Angel💙
@bibirainrain
@bibirainrain 5 жыл бұрын
this kid is just pure, and his sister is so wise. admirable young children.
@terenceting26
@terenceting26 5 жыл бұрын
Tbh I think what the boy said is partly scripted. Or at least they told him to say that particular sentence. Don't forget this interview was done by a Chinese media. Not saying that it's all fake, but I do think parts of it is scripted.
@meijiemeiji
@meijiemeiji 5 жыл бұрын
Woah Naga spotted lol
@HugoBrown
@HugoBrown 5 жыл бұрын
Why people always gotta add negative comment to distract from the help this family Recieved, saying this n that cause it was Chinese media cause you want to inflict your bias onto others.. Go else where with your negative, let us enjoy this and belief Chinese Govt is truely helping people out of poverty which can't be said for many western nations including the country I'm in right now who's indigenous peoples live in 3 world conditions.
@keishakeannaputri
@keishakeannaputri 5 жыл бұрын
@@HugoBrown Dude but its a facts that maybe some of the word is scripted, we didn't know its a lie or not. Yeah... This is life dude...
@SkraLord
@SkraLord 3 жыл бұрын
Shame on the parents honestly for leaving the mother and uncle behind
@deepblack2193
@deepblack2193 3 жыл бұрын
The little girl is so mature how she described her mother for someone her age
@chloechieng6435
@chloechieng6435 2 жыл бұрын
Yea.. when you live in a broken home, you mature real fast
@vycma9941
@vycma9941 Жыл бұрын
I disagree, she clearly can’t understand what the young mom goes through everyday, to her, things “aren’t that bad”. Now imagine ur a young girl in ur 30s and u live like this 1:48
@itslegacylee
@itslegacylee 4 жыл бұрын
“In either house we sleep comfortably” wow, forgive me Lord if I ever complain
@PatienceMarie88
@PatienceMarie88 4 жыл бұрын
I know. When he said that I could see how full and pure his little heart is. Reminds me to give thanks for the small things so easily taken for granted.
@matejsk5770
@matejsk5770 4 жыл бұрын
There is no lord !. but still its realy heartmelting
@beeb7988
@beeb7988 4 жыл бұрын
@@matejsk5770 you have your beliefs, and we have ours .
@kingj521
@kingj521 4 жыл бұрын
Turn that if to when.
@am0804
@am0804 4 жыл бұрын
Maťo čopjan yes there is 100% no lord I so agree with u, I don’t know why I’m agreeing it’s straight facts nothing else
@ThyLoverly
@ThyLoverly 5 жыл бұрын
the sister seems like the wiser one. i hope the best for her
@room6575
@room6575 5 жыл бұрын
Same,i hope for the rest of the family too but not really the mother all she wants is the money.
@irenefelicia673
@irenefelicia673 3 жыл бұрын
Telling the husband "has no skill" meanwhile herself can't even read/write but hoping for a better life
@miss.fuckyouropinion7062
@miss.fuckyouropinion7062 3 жыл бұрын
exactly, the irony
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 3 жыл бұрын
Why the surprise? That's just standard hypergamy, women date up, they don't date equals or inferior. She's the standard.
@kuywasaamazikeen8048
@kuywasaamazikeen8048 3 жыл бұрын
Your privilege is showing. Ffs
@Marshall-se9zs
@Marshall-se9zs 4 жыл бұрын
So....she's worried about him being poor and not having skills, when she can't read or write herself? :| she has the same skill level as her husband. She doesn't deserve a man that's so much more humble than she is
@mariahgutierrez4481
@mariahgutierrez4481 4 жыл бұрын
Also why did she come back if she still was not going to help the family? They said she just sits at home, still wanting a divorce, but asks for money. I would tell her she's just another mouth to feed 😂 she wants to be single so bad she can provide for herself.
@blurryface_1589
@blurryface_1589 4 жыл бұрын
@@mariahgutierrez4481 thats true, she is just so toxic...
@rebecacolin6281
@rebecacolin6281 4 жыл бұрын
Es injusto porque se vive además en una cultura machista, dónde al hombre se le ve como proveedor y es una exigencia, con lo cual no estoy de acuerdo, ella debe madurar.
@blurryface_1589
@blurryface_1589 4 жыл бұрын
@@rebecacolin6281 Y tantoo pfff pero esk china para igualdad de genero aún le queda. Se ve mucho allí que el hombre tiene q mantener a la mujer, de hecho antes había mercados en el que te ponían que ganaba el hombre, de que trabajaba, una foto y las madres preparaban las citas con sus hijas. Por suerte creo q eso ya no se hace o se esta reduciendo poco a poco pero les queda camino.
@ihalicia7494
@ihalicia7494 4 жыл бұрын
Her life isn't easy either so ofc she's not gonna be an angel
@kateli1880
@kateli1880 5 жыл бұрын
The son & daughter walks and talks more mature than her.
@kirinhayami6329
@kirinhayami6329 5 жыл бұрын
so true
@faker3033
@faker3033 5 жыл бұрын
She has no education and is very immature but that often happens especially if u can't read and can't write.... school is so important ... i think she knows herself that she should have learnt how to read and stuff but maybe she was so poor she didn't have the chance who knows
@wahooooh
@wahooooh 5 жыл бұрын
Well the mom said she can't read or write so she probably didn't go to school like her kids Oh everyone already said it lol
@Kindat_heart
@Kindat_heart 5 жыл бұрын
the children have had an education, so it's to be expected..
@vintage1950
@vintage1950 5 жыл бұрын
Kate Li education is the key
@JohnDoe-iu5xi
@JohnDoe-iu5xi 5 жыл бұрын
No ones talking about how they robbed this kids donation money? From 300k USD in donations to being given only 900USD. Wow.
@MrsViciliaNoodles
@MrsViciliaNoodles 5 жыл бұрын
Thats China for you
@vilecrocodile9171
@vilecrocodile9171 5 жыл бұрын
Communism
@philly442
@philly442 5 жыл бұрын
the great ideology of communism
@gregjr.8268
@gregjr.8268 5 жыл бұрын
Really ? Can you link me to a video ?
@kelly1195
@kelly1195 5 жыл бұрын
This is china
@rosejoseph815
@rosejoseph815 3 жыл бұрын
The grandmother and uncle also deserve the help. There is something fishy with the mom.. 😔
@noobmaster-zq9su
@noobmaster-zq9su 5 жыл бұрын
She left when they didnt have enough and now that they have a better house all of a sudden she came back😑
@黄煌-c3u
@黄煌-c3u 5 жыл бұрын
Coincidence? I think not
@samanthaleezz8490
@samanthaleezz8490 5 жыл бұрын
Rain yup it’s kinda weird
@deussivenatura5805
@deussivenatura5805 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my dad
@noobmaster-zq9su
@noobmaster-zq9su 5 жыл бұрын
@@deussivenatura5805i hope your family is all well
@dibyadhariwal6229
@dibyadhariwal6229 5 жыл бұрын
When you're that poor and you literally fight everyday to live and fend for yourself and provide for basic necessities, you become cold....itsnot to buy an expensive car or house..its to buy food, her basic desire, maybe to buy a soap for taking a bath....easier said then done...Stop being so judgemental.
@fathima5209
@fathima5209 5 жыл бұрын
You may call him ice boy but he sure warms my heart 💟
@itsextreme6382
@itsextreme6382 5 жыл бұрын
He's sweet but I still feel bad for him cause he's sweet
@YxngOP
@YxngOP 5 жыл бұрын
I get itttttt
@vorze6571
@vorze6571 5 жыл бұрын
Marry him
@bravequeen77
@bravequeen77 5 жыл бұрын
Yes right, I wish for him that he will find a wife who stay besides him no matter what unlike his mother.
@milkchocoIate
@milkchocoIate 5 жыл бұрын
VorzeCzYT what the fu-
@wanttotree
@wanttotree 4 жыл бұрын
"i wont bother them anymore no matter how hard it is", i think the grandmother and the uncle is living even harder life. Especially not having her grandchildren around to make her feel better and loved. That is just so heartbreaking.
@greendestinyph
@greendestinyph 3 жыл бұрын
The grandmother is such a strong woman. Is it just me, or I'm sensing a bit of a diva attitude from the wife. 😂 Even the daughter said only her mom knows what she is thinking. Poverty is hard for everyone, but like the father and the children, their uncle and grandmother are all hopeful and working hard to get by.
@annayang1667
@annayang1667 5 жыл бұрын
I love this little boy. "We sleep comfortably in both houses." Sweet boy ❤️
@maxedww
@maxedww 5 жыл бұрын
None of us know the full story of the mother and father but those two kids are fantastic. I hope they get some kind of opportunity to make it in life.
@notanyaverageguy
@notanyaverageguy 5 жыл бұрын
Not fair, not fair, bring the uncle and help him continue his studies
@v.dargain1678
@v.dargain1678 4 жыл бұрын
Yes please . No one gets left behind .
@Blu3Purple
@Blu3Purple 4 жыл бұрын
Animesh Cholkha and the grandma too
@blitzcrank4840
@blitzcrank4840 2 жыл бұрын
"I won't bother them anymore no matter how difficult it is we will take things slowly" hits very hard and saddens me very much. She feels like she is being a burden to the family when as a matter of fact she was the one with the most responsibility taking care of the kids while tending to their potato farm.
@Prakesh990
@Prakesh990 5 жыл бұрын
The wife came back but she wants to divorce because the dad still being poor ?! I mean c'mon What would she expected ? I'm pretty sad about the dad, nobody cares about him (mostly the wife) but he tries so hard to afford a better life for his family...
@ThatBoldStatement
@ThatBoldStatement 5 жыл бұрын
She heard the story of 56000 pounds being donated to the kid which is what her husband would make in like 10 years of work. She didn't get the memo that the charity only gave them 900 and kept the rest "for other children in need". So she wanted a piece of that windfall. But upon realising she didn't have the full story and she couldn't simply freeload and spend it all she realised she made the wrong choice. Hence wanting to divorce. Best part is she blames him for all the issues and being poor. It's like it completely goes over her head she is a human being and can work and try to be successful to... But nope, better blame everyone else.
@tommo9176
@tommo9176 5 жыл бұрын
@@ThatBoldStatement beat me to it
@SwaggerDeluxe
@SwaggerDeluxe 5 жыл бұрын
@@ThatBoldStatement The sad part is, that she didnt even care about her own children and just come back for the money. What kind of mother is that?
@littlebeanze8210
@littlebeanze8210 5 жыл бұрын
Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana it’s not exclusive to parents, when a person gets a large amount of money or fame, relatives will come to get a piece of that pie
@BuddhasMiddleFinger
@BuddhasMiddleFinger 5 жыл бұрын
Female Hypergamy at work. Why am I not surprised? AWALT
@iimxblslife6282
@iimxblslife6282 4 жыл бұрын
The mom only got back together for the money and fame they got, she shouldn’t lie. Poor children
@KangarooFam
@KangarooFam 4 жыл бұрын
Well you don’t know anything though, so don’t say it’s definite. The mother could’ve came back because she had nowhere else to go, and was prepared for the backlash, ok anything. There are loads of things we still don’t know
@nunyabussiness87
@nunyabussiness87 4 жыл бұрын
Kangaroo Fam you know she may have come back but everyone realixed it wasn’t for her family it was for a better situation. She is a disgusting person
@KangarooFam
@KangarooFam 4 жыл бұрын
@Ilija Stankovic Yes but all of us would probably do that in this situation, so maybe if you call someone disgusting for their actions, maybe think about what would you do.
@margaretzhu4553
@margaretzhu4553 4 жыл бұрын
Alternate Outcome She left to work in a restaurant in the city
@nunyabussiness87
@nunyabussiness87 4 жыл бұрын
@@margaretzhu4553 yeah with also abandoning your children pretty acceptable right
@Paktoy_100
@Paktoy_100 4 жыл бұрын
“If they weren’t with you during your low, don’t let them celebrate with you during your high.” -Dhar Mann I get the mom is a part of the family, but looking at how she went back after the media attention, someone needs to tell her this quote.
@onewildsheep
@onewildsheep 4 жыл бұрын
Paktoy Pineda Right, Someone needs to show the Dad a video from Dhar Mann
@sparklejumpropequeen4872
@sparklejumpropequeen4872 4 жыл бұрын
**CODY AND NOEL ENTERED THE CHAT**
@skylovermc2146
@skylovermc2146 4 жыл бұрын
Your mum Who?
@sparklejumpropequeen4872
@sparklejumpropequeen4872 4 жыл бұрын
@@skylovermc2146 they are comediands who talked about him once
@skylovermc2146
@skylovermc2146 4 жыл бұрын
Your mum Ohhhh!
@emu9520
@emu9520 3 жыл бұрын
The light and spirit of the children shines through I wish them well
@JaxLittles
@JaxLittles 4 жыл бұрын
Notice it says "loans and government aid" not the "direct" donations
@samarkand1585
@samarkand1585 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah they got virtually nothing out of the donations, like you would expect
@wjuju8278
@wjuju8278 4 жыл бұрын
donation only helps little, only education can solve the real problem, as a Chinses I don't event want to donate my money to China's official charity, They've had a lot of scandals. I don't trust them.I'd rather go over and give them the money myself one day.
@xxcrazyxxnonesisto6138
@xxcrazyxxnonesisto6138 4 жыл бұрын
@@wjuju8278 that is sad..
@valential586
@valential586 4 жыл бұрын
Abaddon the Cat and Sevilla the Dog If theres one thing you need to know is that when you donate to things like that, most of the time 90% pf the money goes to a rich guy driving a nice car in a mansion and 10% goes to the actual struggle
@JaxLittles
@JaxLittles 4 жыл бұрын
@@valential586 Exactly. Already know that, hence the comment. I've audited "charities" and people don't realize how much donated money goes into "overhead" with a very small amount going to the actual cause
@AJManol
@AJManol 5 жыл бұрын
So, did the wife ever send any money home when she took her little parenting hiatus? And, being poor doesn’t mean you can’t clean and tidy!
@bee6374
@bee6374 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right👍👍👍
@kaysaid1792
@kaysaid1792 5 жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly 😂😂😂
@burgundynoodlesyou6374
@burgundynoodlesyou6374 5 жыл бұрын
Y'right mate. Goodness!
@etow8034
@etow8034 5 жыл бұрын
She is holding a smartphone ...I don't even see street beggars in North America with smartphones ! ...LoL
@kalchahal9814
@kalchahal9814 5 жыл бұрын
She could have sent money back home.. but she is/was selfish and wanted an iPhone instead.
@andresbarrera6156
@andresbarrera6156 4 жыл бұрын
Get the divorce kick the mom out and bring the grandma and uncle to live with you and find a better wife.
@My-love_islife3
@My-love_islife3 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! I support that. This is indeed the right thing to do.👍
@Sifat_Rashid
@Sifat_Rashid 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@dio-chu
@dio-chu 4 жыл бұрын
Preach! Genuinely a great idea.
@sabrinalim5746
@sabrinalim5746 4 жыл бұрын
True! I support you😂
@KN-cs8dp
@KN-cs8dp 4 жыл бұрын
The children wants their mum not some other woman
@nekomimi7434
@nekomimi7434 3 жыл бұрын
I hope the uncle and grandma will also receive help😢
@morenaruiz9655
@morenaruiz9655 5 жыл бұрын
You need to start helping the grandma she is the one who raised the little boy in the first place
@MlleLysAna
@MlleLysAna 5 жыл бұрын
I hope the grandmother and the young uncle’s situation improves too. They’re all lovely people but the mom is just...ugh I don’t feel any sincerity from her.
@MrOwen000
@MrOwen000 5 жыл бұрын
Well there’s no sincerity from you either
@samanthaleezz8490
@samanthaleezz8490 5 жыл бұрын
Owen Scathach ??
@MrOwen000
@MrOwen000 5 жыл бұрын
Chichi Anieee I don’t think “mrs.nine-seven” , from the comfort of her home, sitting behind a computer screen, can even begin to fathom that mothers situation, how she may be feeling, or why she did what she did. Look at her, she’s a child.
@kimsang7182
@kimsang7182 5 жыл бұрын
I'm happy they got a new home but the video left me sad...still....sad.
@foodiesworldUSA
@foodiesworldUSA 3 жыл бұрын
This 2nd part is even more heartbreaking with abandoning of poor old grandmother and uncle
@rvndxm60
@rvndxm60 5 жыл бұрын
I'm really sad for the other guy and the father's mom :(
@balaynganiyebe
@balaynganiyebe 5 жыл бұрын
what happened?
@steventout7378
@steventout7378 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, but luckily, according to the subtitle, they will move to the new house built by the government soon.
@questionmark1152
@questionmark1152 3 жыл бұрын
Mom comes back as soon as the kid is famous, they have a house, and some money. Seems pretty legit. She just "missed" the kids a lot.
@pulchritudinousentity3129
@pulchritudinousentity3129 3 жыл бұрын
Right, she must of "read" somewhere, that her kids and husband had them dolla signs comin in.
@rosariacatanese5384
@rosariacatanese5384 3 жыл бұрын
È troppo comodo!
@John1873--
@John1873-- 3 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh, I don't think you truly understand what poverty is. It isnt having your mobile cut-off for a week or running out of milk. It requires difficult decisions and sacrifices if its to be overcome.
@joschmo4497
@joschmo4497 3 жыл бұрын
@@John1873-- Lol ok bruv, you mean sacrifice your kids? Pathetic, don't justify the witch.
@tojislefttoe7505
@tojislefttoe7505 3 жыл бұрын
@@John1873-- she used to beat her kids, and literally abandoned her kids. There are still thousands of parents who still care for their kids even when they're in severe poverty.
@pink2211
@pink2211 5 жыл бұрын
Mom is a gold digger and Uncle is out there in need of actual help while grandma is a true legend.
@8KenzaMusic8
@8KenzaMusic8 5 жыл бұрын
Dude they are still extremely poor, where do you see the gold??? What even can she dig?? Would you prefer her to never return to her kids?
@xuankremer3695
@xuankremer3695 5 жыл бұрын
@@8KenzaMusic8 maybe she thought there was gold. It just seems very shady especially with the time
@nasratadebago893
@nasratadebago893 5 жыл бұрын
I think the uncle needs the help most now
@8KenzaMusic8
@8KenzaMusic8 5 жыл бұрын
@@xuankremer3695 maybe but its better than if she would have stayed away, the kids have a mom now
@Heather145
@Heather145 5 жыл бұрын
@@8KenzaMusic8 sometimes it's better for the mom or dad to not be around depending on how they treat their family
@Ivan.80p
@Ivan.80p 3 жыл бұрын
I want to be mad at the mom but I can't. They're all struggling but in a better place than they used to be. I wish the entire family nothing but the best. Sending positive vibes to them.
@Kryx-so9hu
@Kryx-so9hu 5 жыл бұрын
I hope this boy grows up to be a nice man with a happy family.
@atomicoxygen2440
@atomicoxygen2440 5 жыл бұрын
I was your 180 liker. Oh yeah yeah
@youtubetv1588
@youtubetv1588 5 жыл бұрын
OH YEAH YEAH
@yukistrash
@yukistrash 5 жыл бұрын
the husband doesn’t deserve his wife... he’s so hardworking and caring for his family, it’s not his fault he’s poor ;(
@rk3340
@rk3340 5 жыл бұрын
Michael Langley it works both ways
@D4ng404
@D4ng404 5 жыл бұрын
RK 740 It doesn’t.
@AlexAnder-rv1gu
@AlexAnder-rv1gu 5 жыл бұрын
@@D4ng404 it does. Said RK 740's way, it makes the wife seem like a punishment. "He doesn't deserve to be beaten" or "He doesn't deserve his wife" :P
@D4ng404
@D4ng404 5 жыл бұрын
Alex Ander It doesn’t. Saying he doesn’t deserve the wife puts the man lower than the woman. “Deservingness” is added on to something of value, which the woman is not. Since deservingness is tagged on to a valuable object, saying the man doesn’t deserve the woman means that the woman has value and the man doesn’t deserve value. However, the woman does not have value, and the man deserves a valuable woman.
@kanyeyeastinfection3613
@kanyeyeastinfection3613 5 жыл бұрын
Keith Dang yeah it does he doesn’t deserve her, he deserves much more
@PenzoKeik
@PenzoKeik 5 жыл бұрын
I cried so much. I'm sad for the uncle and the grandma
@eleanorliu3350
@eleanorliu3350 5 жыл бұрын
and the uncle is still a middle school teen
@nottheodore7720
@nottheodore7720 5 жыл бұрын
@@eleanorliu3350 ikr
@Saichwng-31
@Saichwng-31 5 жыл бұрын
Me2😥
@kakaisingsit9808
@kakaisingsit9808 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to all noble hearts who have made the life of this adorable boy and his family better.
@tomassrenssenjimenez6359
@tomassrenssenjimenez6359 5 жыл бұрын
I hope he is happy now. Who knows all the pain he has experienced... 🙌
@Nga-1984
@Nga-1984 5 жыл бұрын
Pains equal maturity.
@cckk1357
@cckk1357 5 жыл бұрын
I wanna be his friend.
@airalanc9394
@airalanc9394 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like the two children act more like an adult than their parent.
@awkwardlyfe6493
@awkwardlyfe6493 4 жыл бұрын
Ice Boy 2018: "I don't have many memories of my mother, but I remember she liked to beat me..."
@paulius279
@paulius279 4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@jjwilliams410
@jjwilliams410 4 жыл бұрын
@@paulius279 This isn't funny
@paulius279
@paulius279 4 жыл бұрын
@@jjwilliams410 it is
@dmontpelier
@dmontpelier 4 жыл бұрын
Paulius Miliauskas Ah yes being abused is funny to you?
@paulius279
@paulius279 4 жыл бұрын
@@dmontpelier that his mom beats him isnt funny, only the comment
@lliamjurdom9505
@lliamjurdom9505 3 жыл бұрын
How sad for grandma and young uncle … hope it works out for them all …
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