SPEAK YOU COWARD!

[@02loud]

He keeps embarrassing her in front of his friends and now his family. She can do so much better, forget the 7 year investment and don't let it go on any longer.

[@bellarina]

The best she can do fot herself is to cut it off asap and do some healing before looking again...

[@Limitedonathios]

I was listening to these vids on yt, and a celebrity news segment came up in the queue. They were seen in the US at a mall earlier this summer. They are still together

[@A.Lost.Astronaut]

the fallacy of sunken costs

[@asiahill3241]

​@@Limitedonathiosthat's such disappointing news..

[@stellag4301]

Exactly 👍

[@keyia1983]

This relationship is pointless 🙄

[@lauren4078]

It's odd to me that she would entertain this "relationship" for 7 years. Is there something "wrong" with her that she can't find a good guy in the States who also shares her beliefs? It's been 7 years...

[@KNByam]

Money. She wants attention.

[@elenabob4953]

​@@lauren4078she probably seen it asher last chance to have a child so she kept lying to herself.

[@ChristopherPoitras]

​@@lauren4078yeah she's good looking for her age. She takes good care of herself. She could get anyone pretty much in the US. It could be for money or attention.

[@paigeburleson6932]

🤣🤣🤣, so perfectly put

[@Arista177]

Meisha this is bad investment of time. He is totally not worth it.

[@librarian75]

Can you believe she wasted 7 years on this mamas boy?

[@lijo4518]

Seriously a waste of time...she could've gone to school & got a degree 😳

[@elizabethmariadonnaspendlo8594]

Waste of Time!!!!!!!!’

[@otaku-bd4zs]

Yeah should've just slept with toxic person before you get to know them and have a kid with them big lulz

[@lauren4078]

Nicola is too selfish to be in a meaningful relationship with a woman.

[@ChrisMinusHumour]

He is the perfect type to become a monk.

[@Beebuzz623]

He lies too much for that type of commitment 😭

[@cocochanel1399]

Or with anyone. God bless him

[@emirom2]

He’s also too gay. This guy has never really dated or brought a woman home. The man is middle aged! Enough said.

[@annam16047]

He has never been in a relationship with a woman,this is a first for him.

[@michelleallred8521]

I can see now exactly why Nicola is STILL single

[@amba8765]

He is awful isn't he! I couldn't bare it 😂

[@phumemkhontobkhali3588]

Right!!!!!!!

[@marknewton6984]

Mama's Boy!

[@sarahlewisphoenix4951]

It really baffles me how Nicola or his mother think he is going to find a virgin woman in her 40s, even 30s. Come on, that's so rare that Nicola himself is a major outlier, being a virgin at his age. It's just not realistic that he's going to find a virgin woman of suitable age. This whole relationship seems like nothing but a struggle, Meisha should go home and find another Catholic man. Nicola is so self righteous and he straight up told Meisha he would rather her just be seen and not heard. Not a catch of the day, indeed. *edit* I hate how Nicola is always in a bad mood, always so irritated with everything. Can't stand partners like that.

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

He's extremely immature, I guess because he's lived with mommy his whole life!! He's most likely a hypocrite. He hasn't had sex yet but probably self pleasures, which in the catholic faith is frowned upon!!

[@veggibitch]

I find it even stranger that Nicola said that his mom is not religious, in fact, he said that his whole family is not religious except for his grandma. Why does it matter so much if Meisha is a virgin or not?!! If his family is not close to God, why would they care about their relationship?!

[@donnawentz2221]

@@veggibitch. If his family is Muslim they might have strict rules about relationships .

[@InconvenientTruth50]

​@@donnawentz2221they are catholic but not devout like him and his grandmother.

[@pikaxhu-rc2pp]

Yes! Also Misha was previously married and has 2 children. Of course she’s not a virgin. What does this family expect.

[@ellieArt9]

If anybody needed to hire an interpreter, Meisha was definitely one of them

[@annat6249]

She doesn’t need to put anymore effort into this guy. He is rude enough for her to call it quits.

[@sukashi7234]

my thing is she has been seeing this man for what 12years and she never thought it would be necessary to learn the language...i don't understand these women who get involved with these men and not try to learn how to speak there language...relying on the man to interpret for them.. now if he has been keeping you a secret do you really think he is going to say what your asking him to say...Look at Rishi how pissed he was when Jen brought that interpreter he himself said that he would not have translated all that Jen and her friends were saying....

[@cremebrulee4759]

​@@sukashi7234I thought it was 7 years.

[@sukashi7234]

@@cremebrulee4759 let me go back I know I heard 12 years so I’ll go back and see where the 12 years came bout ,,, thanks

[@missplummer1066]

@@sukashi7234They have been dating/talking online for 7 years. She’s not moving to his country, she’s just visiting and he speaks English. So her not learning his language is not a big deal.

[@guttenaug947]

Meisha at this point is degrading herself to high heaven. She is plenty aware that she is beautiful, well traveled and well spoken and deserves a man who would be thrilled to bring her around his friends and family. To endure this kind of belittling from Nicola has to come from some deep place of atonement, naivity or she just feels bad for Nicola like a charity case. I can't explain why she has faith in this man-child.

[@derekkelsie9715]

I think it's because it was easier. You don't have to deal with the day to day of a relationship

[@marknewton6984]

Nicola is a nerd.

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

10:43….I’d have stood up, said goodbye to his mum & left. Meisha you’re out of his league, go home & move on. He’s rude & obnoxious

[@Okamisou]

Dude got lucky and is about to dump it all down the drain

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

There's something seriously off about Nicola. I don't think its his family, i think its him!! He's always had his mommy to take care of him.

[@SuperBanjo007]

Omg. Did you see those oompah loompah brothers? One is staring, the other is shoveling in the food. 😅

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

@@SuperBanjo007 very odd!!

[@callilove8378]

I think its his homosexuality....but ijs

[@jennapitts8373]

Something is worng wih MEISHA MEISHA MEISHA TOO!

[@melomankapl8756]

@@SuperBanjo007 oompah loompah brothers 🤣

[@bellarina]

i cannot think of anyone that would potentially deserve to deal with this man as their spouse or a father... absolute menace!

[@Camden1313]

Meisha can do SO MUCH better...I don't know what the hell Nicola is on but all I've seen is Meisha trying this whole trip and Nicola treating her like some annoying cousin that's come to stay.

[@je.suis.prisci]

He is not worth it, GO HOME!!!!

[@princessjen99]

Nicola has a beautiful successful woman on his arm who loves him and wants to be incorporated into his family. He has hit the relationship jackpot and doesn’t even know it. I hope Meisha ups her standards and runs

[@theultimaterental]

Since when is a born again Christian, 43 year old divorced mom of two a jackpot?

[@motifxs7193]

Princess Jen,. So true!

[@fawnieee]

​​@@theultimaterental when you're a 40+ Virgin who is a momma's boy, she's practically an angel sent from god. She's beautiful, in good figure, shares the same religion and puts up with him. Nicola should just be happy a woman puts up with him let alone anything else. But too many men like yourself demand more than they're worth.

[@tymac9127]

This relationship isn't worth it the men won't even tell his family he's her boyfriend😭Meisha RUN!!

[@saiyajinbeard]

I couldn’t stop laughing when she asked him to translate to his own family in Arabic so they’d understand and he just turned it around on her and told her to do it lol couldn’t ask for a more pathetic reaction

[@Gxport]

He does not respect her at all smh

[@Jsarmy87124]

He could lie though lol no respect nothing he is not that cute to be that mean

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

Meisha, cut your losses, 7 years isn't worth saving this relationship.

[@beewest5704]

Better to cut your loses at 7 years that 7 years & one day!

[@Bri-ss1gu]

Her daughters look like supermodels. They're so gorgeous! Just like their mom. Meisha can do so much better.

[@BatteredRose]

"This is who i am." Welcome to your life every time he has an issue with you. His behavior will just get colder and colder.

[@angelamitchell6657]

There is a reason he’s as old as he is never been in a serious relationship. 🏃‍♀️

[@Chick3nSalad]

Walking red flag!!!

[@KagomeYasha023]

He’s seriously emotionally stunted or something

[@librarian75]

Except with fish or his best friend.

[@marknewton6984]

He is a Loser.

[@jag5014]

Dating a traditional minded person in a traditional country can be like dating someone from 50 years in the past. It's like he's incapable of being empathetic and putting himself in her shoes. Like even when she goes fishing with him to try to bond, she ends up scraping her legs but doesn't make a fuss, and yet what's his response? He tells the cameras this is why he fishes alone and says he'll never take her out again. He thinks just agreeing to be in a relationship is enough and everything else is a hassle including telling his family And he's the supposed open minded one in the family. The others somehow act like it's scandalous for a woman in her 40s to have children when the reality is she's the one out of his league.

[@suva707]

Meisha needs to take off her religious beer goggles and realize this man is a no prize at all!

[@Chick3nSalad]

Meisha!!! Girl! My heart really breaks for her, but that man is never going to give her what she wants. I hope she finds the courage to move on from him 😢

[@kikisays]

What awful judgemental, self righteous, deluded behaviour!

[@starrcobb3650]

I was sooo uncomfortable by the way he suddenly didn't want to introduce her and basically looked at her like she's crazy for wanting him to. Like why would she just want to hang out with your family and not want them to know who she is..

[@beewest5704]

Why did he bring her if he didn't want to introduce her to his family. He is weird.

[@jordanstuart7252]

If this thing isnt a fake...that dude isnt good enough to breath the same air as her.

[@kaybartalotta1592]

He is too set in his ways! Mama's boy

[@mysurfing3550]

If I were Nicolas mom, I would be happy he's just dating another human at this point. He's elderly but immature not a catch at all.

[@bigwoogc]

He's in his 40's...hardly "elderly".

[@mysurfing3550]

@@bigwoogc He isn't 46 he looks 65 😂 maybe his "mom" was really his wife and his "brothers" his sons that's why all the secrecy 😂

[@TersiaVanzyl-zz8dx]

You deserve so much better Meisha!

[@marknewton6984]

She abases herself and likes it. Sad.

[@adrianagomez412]

She seems like a really bright lady with a very enriched life. I don’t understand why she’s trying so hard to keep him. What does he bring to the party other than making her feel bad for being divorced and having children?

[@musingwanderer2765]

I would have left Nicola’s ass right there and then when he disrespect me so much. Who brings u to their family , gives u a black face and says he doesn’t want to introduce u? Wtf then what’s this for ? And expect the gal to introduce herself ? He wants to act like the man all the time only when it’s convenient to him. He doesn’t respect her and I bet he also won’t contribute a single cent to this rs too. I dunno why Misha is putting up with this Shit!!

[@HeyTexasItsMe]

Meisha and her daughters deserve better. This is embarrassing

[@ratpitt4292]

That dude is out there searching for a VIRGIN at 46 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cremebrulee4759]

He actually wasn't searching. They met through a Catholic website that he has.

[@ratpitt4292]

@@cremebrulee4759 That’s not the point? 😂 Good luck finding a virgin at that age. He’s absolutely delulu.

[@callilove8378]

He keeps telling her who he is...she needs to start believing it

[@kongvinter33]

a 46 year old man child who is afraid to bring a girl home to his 70 year old momma. Jesus.

[@Vix2066]

... did he say 'taking a woman to fish with him, is awful?'🤣🤣🤣💀

[@allysonlamba2960]

i loved how meisha was taking the piss about fishing and Nicola didnt even get it

[@yukisuperstylish]

You can tell if a man loves his woman but this man clearly have no feelings for this woman

[@vermeiljardin8964]

You know what this show illustrates loud and clear is you can have a wonderful, fulfilling relationship online, talking on the phone, face time / whatsapp calls - but you never really know the person until you meet them face to face and spend time with them. The reality between the two types of communication is too often vastly different.

[@ROCEMPOWERMENT]

You went to school for that

[@fawnieee]

I feel very fortunate having met my bf online and we're even more attracted to each other and even more in love and respectful of each other since we met irl after seeing Meisha and this guy.

[@vermeiljardin8964]

@@ROCEMPOWERMENT nope no skool

[@jlcmiles]

@@fawnieee Same here. I am now married to the person I met online during the pandemic, have been for nearly a year and haven't looked back. We were very transparent over Messenger and meeting irl brought out all of the positives. That's not to say its been all rosy but patience, love and respect are key to overcoming differences.

[@Bermuda-e7f]

his mother finds a tv crew in her livingroom and has no idea what s going on.. sure

[@martika324]

Such an undesirable, unsavory gentleman.....you can do so much better, Meisha!

[@saiil3m]

Meisha better than me 😂😂😂😂 I’m pulling out google translate with a quickness ☠️

[@WallahRiRi]

After this embarrassing (meeting) with the family.. I think if she will not gather her stuff and leave; then she deserves whatever shit this coward man-child throws in her way.. I totally understand how she feels about waisting 7 years on this creature but waisting 7 ys & a day feels even worse!

[@marknewton6984]

She likes it. Weird. Don't waste any more time.

[@brad5115]

I have never seen anyone fumble the bag so hard. This dude somehow finds someone way out of his league and is interested in the one thing you're obsessed about and he goes out of his way to sabotage things.

[@ROCEMPOWERMENT]

"fumble the bag" 😂you must be black🤣

[@waterunderthefridge6058]

A common theme in the 90 day universe is the sunk-cost fallacy; I've committed so much, time, effort and money into this relationship so why end it now...

[@OldFatherGaming]

Play silly games, win silly prizes 🤗

[@katniss1968]

It is not that he does not respect his mother - he is afraid of her. I am 55 years old and still just as afraid of my mother now as I was when I was a child. Unless you have experienced this you will never understand how it feels and how it can control everything, and I mean everything, in your life.

[@tempestjones7445]

I would have pulled out Google Translate on his ass and told his family directly.

[@ArnoldZiffle-jw2mv]

7 years she should have learned a little of their language by now if she’s serious & if it’s even real.

[@habeashumor9814]

She's mostly there to build her brand. I don't know how much of the relationship is real, but she's definitely a clout chaser - also, Jesus wasn't a fisherman, at least not literally

[@14ToeBeans]

With photos released of him in the USA, I’m not sure she’s in this for clout. He is an awful man. I feel sad for her girls.

[@habeashumor9814]

@@14ToeBeans They're definitely friends (at least)

[@Limitedonathios]

7 years of a relationship? Leaving your job and reworking your morals? Taking a low paying job as a layperson to the church? That is a lot to sacrifice. And they were seen together shopping in the US recently. She clearly liked him and saw hope for them at some point. Clout does not seem to have been the impetus, but it might be the result. Bc let’s be real, how many of 90 day people have observable “clout” outside of those who went viral like anfisa, big Ed, Angela etc?

[@habeashumor9814]

@@Limitedonathios her whole religious conversion and job change isn't for clout - just the TV show. She has a social media brand that she works hard to popularize

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Good analysis even tho I do believe she's emotionally invested in this as well & we don't know if she also has given him $$ over the 7 yrs....just saying

[@LifeAdviceSite]

Seven years. I feel her pain. I’ve wasted time on dead-end relationships too. 😢

[@beewest5704]

Sometimes you make a bad decision & Sometimes you make a bad decision right.

[@LifeAdviceSite]

@@beewest5704 exactly. I wasted 7 months last time. I’m grateful it wasn’t longer... ❤️

[@modest.mystic]

We’ve all been there ❤

[@LifeAdviceSite]

@@modest.mystic ❤️

[@marknewton6984]

We all have. Move on.

[@mariocean808]

Run Meisha, run!!!!

[@Toxic-Ology]

5:15 these things are quite a good form of therapy for me sometimes. Him preventing her from meeting his parents and telling her how she’s going to react. In my life I’ve been on the receiving end of that in a big way (only recently I’ve found out the absolute lies I’ve been told about others throughout my life, and there’s evidence to suggest I was most likely the main victim of being painted in a certain way to others too). So here’s how it plays out (I couldn’t imagine how bad it would be if it required said person translating). I meet someone, am careful with what I say because of all of the bad things I’ve heard. They are off with me because they think I’m an asshole before and after. Mostly I got this sense of how pleasantly surprised they were that we were having a nice conversation. I’d get back home only to be told some horrible things were said behind my back and so a cycle of animosity built. I was a child when it happened, and so fucked up are things that I just sound mental if I talk about it or ask any of the said family members if I speak to them so 🤷‍♂️ and for anyone wanting to say it might not play out like that if I try to get answers, well I did try with my dad on a different subject but instead of helping he got pissed off. And I feel like the mental one again. They’re not even together and he (to a point) knows what she’s like. Anyway back to this situation, it will be interesting to see whether his mum is anything like what he has painted her to be. Maybe she is, but from my experience never rely on someone else for information about others. Wipe all that from your mind when you meet them, because there could be someone manipulative behind it. Tragic really. 13:00 She not only gets thrown under the bus like that but if my experience is anything to go by, she’ll get thrown under the bus again when it finally comes out. And if he’s really good at manipulating people, don’t worry about the fact we can see who’s responsible for not telling anyone for ourselves. He will have that covered too by convincing them it was edited to look that way. And if she reacts anything but nice (the mother doesn’t know that all that’s caused a bit of tension she will have noticed is her asking a reasonable question) she will be remembered as a difficult woman because frankly, even if the brothers caught what she said, it is too small a detail to remember and pick up on, so her being difficult becomes fact). Or at least in my experience of dealing with someone close that takes zero accountability, lies constantly and tries to cause rifts and is probably on a level of her own, that’s how it works. The best thing she can do is just walk away.

[@jab6223]

He’s so weird Meisha! Girl please you deserve better

[@aussiegardener1773]

I love how 'mum' is just hooking in to the food and having a great time

[@ilovemusicAIAW]

People are so unwilling to quit something they put a lot of time into that they often sacrafice their happiness for it. Misha should run away from this guy. She can do so much better.

[@luna6731]

I was just wondering what to put on

[@rosegray6606]

Did I hear 7 years they have been dating.. What is wrong with Meisha girl it's been time to move on..

[@marknewton6984]

Get the 7 year itch, baby!

[@habibahmad6658]

He’s gonna mess the bag up

[@TT_09]

Nicola doesn’t want Meisha to know his family bc he’s probably a nightmare garbage person. If she gets close to them, they will probably warn her and take her side. But if he keeps her isolated, she has no allies in his family

[@TruestLovely]

Meisha can do waaaay better. She needs to drop this relationship and move forward. What exactly is she getting out of it that is worth the disrespect and disregard?

[@Limitedonathios]

Why should Nicola have to change? He clearly doesn’t want to. He only wants to worry about himself and his needs, and he has the right to do so, it’s his life afterall. Meisha NEEDS to realize this asap and couple with someone willing to operate as a couple/family, where another persons needs factor into each decision daily. She deserves someone equally yoked, equally caring, and equally suited. That is what she wants for her life. She can’t force Nicola into being more like her, and while she continues to comply to Nicolas needs, she continues to lose herself

[@rivap.4791]

Meisha has no clue how beautiful she is. Inside and out! My God, girl. Dump this loser. Someone amazing will come along, I promise. There are SO MANY guys in the world. Why settle for that? You already wasted 7 years... don't waste another day! He's only standing in the way of the one for you. How will you meet the right guy when you're stuck in the mud?

[@radiolefantome8936]

Why is she trying to change a grown man who apparently is an douche bag and its why he hasn't been with a woman. It's a reason for that. 😅I been seeing comments that hes full of it, its just him and his family .

[@Sundayvibe5]

This woman is stunning

[@marknewton6984]

Yes but not very bright.

[@elenabob4953]

13:44 no it isn't. He lived 7 years with that woman and he wasn't the only child so we might think that he was the center of the universe always. Je is just un insecure selfish little boy "me,me, me ..."

[@marianepuckett2202]

Run Meisha...Run Meisha ...

[@mar-ei7pz]

Girl, you are beautiful and kind! You deserve better..leave his ass.

[@marknewton6984]

She is degrading herself with him.

[@nantucketmornings]

I must be missing something.. there is no way that stunning woman is even considering this guy.

[@daisybootz3607]

Why would Meisha go there if his family don't know about her? She's too old for such foolishness..

[@marknewton6984]

$$$$$$$$$$$$

[@toolsdealsautomobiles6980]

When he said she's not a virgin is the funniest shit I've ever heard. My mom wants me to marry a dam near 50 year old who has been saving her self for her son😂

[@Gunti_travel_blog]

don’t want to be one of those negative people but she definitely can do better. She’s so lovely, strong woman and so beautiful… and looks like this dude doesn’t even see that

[@lorrmurrcoch]

Meisha, this 'man' is very inconsiderate and immature. You do not need another child in your life. Find a good Catholic man who loves (truly loves) and respects you.

[@jorollenola8320]

Nicola has a lot of hang-ups and at his age I doubt he can change. Its time for Meshia let it go and home.

[@bsmoove69]

She's a reformed Megan Fox

[@YaLittleFriend]

This is what happens when u aim low……

[@marknewton6984]

Yes aim high! Or what's a Heaven for?

[@msradiant7711]

I don’t understand why she keeps wasting her time. He is definitely not worth it. She can do so much better

[@cocochanel1399]

Forget the investment and CASH OUT NOW!

[@marknewton6984]

Cut your losses and move on, baby!

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

He’s not concerned at all, it’s just a reason to stop fishing with her. Meisha…run!!! I’ve seen a pic of them together in the us, I really hope it was either fake or he’s just gone to visit, being a pain in the arse and he’s gone her for good

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

Does he think that his mum wouldn’t ever find out? Someone who knows someone, who knows someone, who knows someone will watch it and send a message to let her know 😂

[@jjmusiclover3]

I hate that he did that! That hurt me! Damn. Right when it counts you’re letting her down.

[@sonjaleroux4377]

She is so beautiful, surely she can better!!

[@KayNovember26]

If you're still single (or a virgin) at age 46, thats usually an indication of being difficult to live and/or get along with. This lady can do so much better!

[@historyloveriii2949]

We are waiting for his mom to start carping about Meisha's ability to have children.

[@andreaclarke161]

If the mom or other family members are not Christians then the problem is with Nicola He’s a dufus. Run Meisha you deserve better.

[@EARTHTOMICH8LLE]

She literally settles for the bare minimum. In the big picture, she has no self respect

[@AP-wt4fi]

She needs to find someone who appreciates her

[@hiiiimymelody]

I think Meisha seems niave, but I get the impression she withholds a lot of her thoughts or reactions in respect to Nikola. She seems to want to protect his reputation in a way.

[@BQ900]

سوف أتزوجها Come on don’t be a coward. My husband told his family.

[@pyrophoresist1497]

Mashallah Meisha looked stunning when she was young!! A real beauty.

[@beewest5704]

Still is

[@connys.a2412]

What a crazy relationship .....Didn't Nicolas know from the start how old his future partner /wife is ? That she has two adult daughters etc. ? Beating around the bush , what could be the reason ???? His insecurity , power over a beautiful woman , he wants to maintain ?

[@Ashley-uq9sf]

So it makes sense why not only is he single but a virgin. He wouldn’t even know how to please a woman even if it was just a one night stand. Chile these folks are selling they soul or something, she can’t be serious as if she not only had a life before this but it was a party life so where does she think they will be compatible as sexual partners smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@dolamike584]

Damn near 50 and this little old boy rather be in a onesie standing behind mommy while his brothers pick on him.😂😂

[@lauracortez527]

i don’t understand what she is attracted to in this man, he’s not physically attractive and his character is repulsive. she’s literally such a baddie, she’s a 10. he’s a man child at best. i hope she wakes up and finds a man who sees her as an equal.

[@marknewton6984]

Beauty and the Beast

[@Bellyofthebeast6]

How do these average men get these beautiful, emotionally mature, and kind women, and just not even try in their relationship??? She seems like an amazing woman and he acts like he doesn't even like her?

[@javierxrtd]

This guy definitely likes men

[@marknewton6984]

And fish.

[@NoName-zb1op]

Girl, RUN, he is not the ONE

[@Life-oo2tr]

She’s a gorgeous woman and honestly could be with a man way waaayy better and actually hot. She deserves better.

[@rayl3103]

He's a grown child.

[@elisabreaban652]

Misha is an absolute catch, she deserves someone who shows her off and celebrates her. Nicola couldn’t have found a better woman, yet he’s treating her like she’s a dime a dozen

[@Nikita_848]

Why ppl use time as an excuse to continue unhappily together?

[@lisabosnak7581]

He’s terrified

[@allysonlamba2960]

Not Him striking Meisha down for saying fishing was easy 😅