Stages of Marriage Separation & Restoration!

[@bluetara5297]

Thank you SOO MUCH! I have been watching you for a little over a year now. Your words have been a light for me during a very dark time in my life.

[@sonoviataughtme]

Thank you so much and may God bless and increase your seed in every area of your life 100 fold!!!!!!!!

[@TheL0VEMinistryLegacy]

Chileeeee that stage 2!!! “That restoration looks ghetto” 😂 no for real! I am dying laughing!! Lord, I needed this word! This is so crazy, that he sent you to give this word because I literally was like God I know you lying! Where is the reward?!! 👀 what is this?!! Oh I had a moment with God this morning, so I definitely needed to hear this. Thank you lord for this word 🙌🏾

[@sonoviataughtme]

Trust me….I know EXACTLY what you mean!

[@mila9794]

Stage 2 Lord help us!!!!

[@LoveAlwaysNelle]

This!! ‼️😂 Was just in my prayer closet crying, praying, & lowkey going on a rant, telling God if this is really You & from You, why is it like this?! Asking, "What is this?!" Cause I need answers directly from God! 😂🙏👏‼️

[@mila9794]

@@LoveAlwaysNelle It sure looks messy 😆

[@LoveAlwaysNelle]

​@@mila9794Whewww!! 😩 Help us Lord!! 🙏‼️🙌

[@ka-bar5060]

This is such a good teaching as I stand for our marriage. Amen💜🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@kuroPOLAROID]

Wow, I was literally praying about this yesterday about wondering what the whole process looks like for these types of promises because I'm still not entirely sure where I am on this journey or what to expect, and BAM, your video pops up on my feed. God is good. Thanks for putting this word out there 😭🙏❤

[@StephanieMathe]

Mannnn, I’m so happy there’s only 3 major stages. Because stage 2 ain’t for the weak. When I say I was ready to throw the towel in smh. I definitely have the Lazarus type love story. Smh.

[@takitaprice2829]

Same here! I was thinking the same thing!

[@tiffanyjeanna]

Sonovia!!! My God! You are confirming everything! My goodness! God is so good!

[@Nikki-n3v]

Wow this was so good. In October my husband stated he wanted to make it work and take things slow. Everything seemed to be going well. Then all of a sudden it went left, pulling away not being home again. Then New Years Eve we had another conversation he stated he’s on a cusp now he doesn’t know what he wants. I was so angry and felt defeated. I was telling him he doesn’t appreciate me, I was asking him what’s wrong with him. Then I decided yesterday it’s a new year I’m going to finally detach, I don’t care I’m going to change. Then last night he at the house again and he was talking all this we stuff and I’m saying I’m so confused. Then he’s like no matter what happens I’m still going to be there for you. Then all day today I was praying and asking God should I detach and let the chips fall where they may. One day I’m ok and the next I’m angry. He’s still not home, he’s back and forth and I asked him why don’t you want to be here. I told him this back and forth is not going to cut it for me. I opened KZbin and I saw your post and I said God you are so awesome. My only question is should I still detach myself?

[@Chun_Leroy]

This is my story, w my boyfriend who I BELIEVE is my God ordained spouse. All I can do is pray, earnestly. I pray healing and restoration over you as well, Sis.

[@Nikki-n3v]

@ thank you

[@darcy_m37]

@@Chun_Leroysame here! 🙏

[@KingstonsWorld17]

Same here! I’m honestly at a place now where I believe God doesn’t desire all the confusion/back and forth.

[@qalomasango6854]

Yooooh, the Chameloen and adapting!!! Training for Purpose 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 You made it make sense!! Thank you Lord, bless you Sis ❤❤❤

[@KennethCopeland-d6h]

This is so awesome. You came across my feed on my TV. This is extremely close to what I've been going through, mine is very messy . Now moved out in November. But she's been different about a year. She thinks the grass is greener on the other side. She doesn't want to serve God. Plus like you said it's also a matter of leveling up . But you video was on time for me.

[@noizkelley317]

Thank you for being so obedient in the timing of this, my God 🙏🏽

[@PresciousB]

Videos like this lets me know I’m in alignment. Every word of this I feel like I just had a one on one call with you Sonovia. I feel this so deep when you said…. “God wait did you see that they are going too far” and yess God did tell me to stop warring. Give it to God and go to sleep pray his Will. God has elevated me in ministry but I miss my husband he is a part of the promise in our music ministry together and Movie production. I recently did a mini production at church this year entitled “A Firm Foundation” it was part short Film and part live play. My husband was still involved but not the way we normally flow. It blessed many marriages and families. I’m still standing for my own. I did not want to write this production it was based off the 3 little pigs but we of course did 3 families 2 needed restoration. It was something I wanted to do years before our separation but God never had me release until now 3 years in separation. It hurt not to have him side by side and him working in the background but atleast he was still there

[@sonoviataughtme]

Bless your heart! God will bless your faithfulness and obedience because He’s just that good! It wasn’t in vain. He was working things out to turn out better than you expected. We serve a God who saves the BEST for last ♥️

[@PresciousB]

@@sonoviataughtme Amen sister Amen I will not give up God gave me a confirmed Restoration promise in 2023 and I believe God no matter what it looks like 20 years of marriage. Divine Separation for Elevation is the Plan! I am not a quitter I Believe Jesus. I thank God that you are one of my Destiny Helpers Thank you Holy Spirit!!!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@rahkelNL]

My brethren, i kept skipping over this video on my feed for some reason, but you kept coming back... and then i finally clicked it, and God confirmed SO MUCH OH MY DAYS

[@sonoviataughtme]

🫶🏾

[@LoveAlwaysNelle]

I needed this!! 🙏🙌 Thank You God for speaking & confirming!! 🙏💚

[@samjam1986]

This is such an on time word!!! I needed to hear this! Thank you so much for sheading light on this journey- it hasn't been easy at all, and most ppl have no idea what it's like to go through any of this. I'm so grateful 💖 Thank you! God is soo Good and May He continue to use you and your ministry Mightily for His Glory 🙏🏾✨️ God Bless You Sonovia and Happy New Year 🙌🏾🥳💐💖✨️

[@kj419]

Thank you Holy Spirit for giving you language for the fog. I was thinking we what is it more that I needed to do?? My God! This was much needed! I can tell I need more healing and I need more work with being patient and trusting the Lord in His Word and what he said instead of always giving up when the natural doesn’t look like the promise received. ❤ God I thank you for this confirmation

[@alexborkowski1214]

I’m at a stage where I want to give up, but I know God told me to stand. It just seems impossible that he will come back.

[@bernicejacobs9507]

God is faithful. This word is an ontime God. At stage 2 and where at the point of giving up at times, my spouse speaks and gives titbits of hope and then gets silent. I resist the devil, at some point being tormented and just pray God guides me and to trust him even when I don't understand. To trust his perfect timing. Thank you Coach for fulfilling the call on your life. God bless you

[@latoyajones9131]

That stage 2, it’s tough as nails, my spouse is a whole vacation, I told the LORD you betta get him😂

[@iamLaShaundda]

😂

[@sonoviataughtme]

Right 😂

[@michelledouglas-thierry3143]

Ok... I don't want him back, I'm waiting on my divorce decree papers we have been separated since last year in January, but I continue to pray for his soul salvation that he will save his soul 🙏

[@yvettecurtis617]

I know the Lord led me here cause Lazarus was all I been hearing during this separation. All glory to God. Amen

[@sonoviataughtme]

Oh goodness yes! Whew!

[@givgrace1]

The Lord confirmed so much to me in this video. You mentioned Lazarus, Paul and Silas, prison guard, and present. All of this, the Lord gave me over the last few weeks. Thank you, Lord for the confirmation.

[@Abigail-Hollis]

I’m blown away at the timing of this video!!! I am literally in the midst of praying for God to confirm or deny whether or not I should file for a legal separation… It feel like God, I’m not going to jump the gun, but I am going to file this video away and keep praying and waiting on God to show me His Will. Can you do a video about how you know God might be calling you to separate from your spouse? I have so many questions to ask you, do you do any work outside of KZbin?

[@sonoviataughtme]

Hey there. I offer 1:1 coaching sessions in addition to my Married 2 Purpose assignment which is a discipleship program for singleness, marriage, divorce and your God given purpose. You can click my link in my bio. Hope this helps.

[@glamouriche5847]

@Abigail_Hollis Hello Beautiful and Happy New Year. I want to say Thank You for allowing the Holy Spirit to guide you and pause filling for a separation. I would like to encourage to dig deep into the word and let it manifest through you. In Jesus name 🙏🏽

[@Abigail-Hollis]

@@sonoviataughtme Thank you! I will check it out ❤

[@nicoledavidson1495]

The lord is so good. This message and the way he worked it through you. God bless my heart feels full and i know i had to save this to come back on throughout.

[@LoveAlwaysNelle]

I had to come back to this word to tell how God just confirmed this word to me!! ‼️ In the word, "Prison", was mentioned & the prison doors being opened were talked about as a way of God testing you to see if you would go through the doors. Seeing if you would still believe God for the promise! I listened to this word last night. When I woke up this morning, I saw I had a missed call from, "Prison/Jail" !! 😮‼️ I knew then God was most definitely speaking & that it was confirmation of this video! God will speak to you in unusual ways!! ‼️ Whewwww!!! 😩🙌 SPEAK LORD!!! 🙏💚🙌 CONFIRMATION!!! 🙏🙌

[@qalomasango6854]

😂😂😂 Yep we are in the Ghetto 😅 I have been wrestling with Stage 2 (loads of back and forth 😬). My spouse flipped the switch just yesterday 🫣 Foggy all over again 😅 Thank you for this WORD. God has our back, he sent you ahead of us, to be able to equip us for what’s coming!!!! God bless you Sis ❤

[@KalynDianne]

This was so informative! Thank you for your obedience🙏🏽😮‍💨

[@Prayersoftherighteous516]

This video was soo good 🔥🔥🔥 and so needed! Thank you for giving me language for the stage I’m in. You had me crackin up 😂

[@danitarogers7822]

Thank you for this

[@quashaundriabrown]

So glad God sent me here ❤

[@dres9329]

Thank you!! I really like your long form content! You did great!

[@sonoviataughtme]

I appreciate that!

[@symonebrooks7387]

This was awesome, Sister! Glory to God.

[@glamouriche5847]

Continue to do the work of God ❤🙏🏾❤ Happy New Year 🎉

[@LacaraAshmore]

Thank you for this fresh word in the new year 💜💜💜

[@sonoviataughtme]

Happy new year!! ♥️🫶🏾🙌🏾

[@lmoody2825]

I felt in my spirit when it was time to shift, and I knew things were different, and so was I . I had been delivered and then began to see what The Father was doing in my husband.

[@sonoviataughtme]

Yeeeesss Amen 🫶🏾

[@lmoody2825]

@sonoviataughtme All glory to the Most High God 🙌

[@denisepage8004]

This was really awesome. Goodjob

[@BonitaKay]

Thank you 😌

[@shirleyMCNEAL-BRANTLEY]

THANK YOU SO MUCH! SO HELPFUL AND ENLIGHTENING AND CONFIRMING! YOU WERE A LIFE LINE FOR ME TONIGHT ! GOD BLESS YOU AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!

[@ApostleRashad]

Thank you so much I can't wait to work with you and the team

[@SheenaMarie11]

Thank you Lord for the strategy! I praise you!

[@biscodixon7208]

YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH GOD BLESS YOU KEEP UP GOD'S BUSINESS ❤❤🙏 🙏

[@sonoviataughtme]

♥️🫶🏾

[@pamelahall4136]

God is faithful and good all the time 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@janegriffin3872]

My struggle is in our restoration with hubby- during the gaps and holes - like where I see him not changing…. I have had more realization of like what he did to me- it’s like a reminder. This is how he really thinks of me- and like what he actually did.

[@glamouriche5847]

That's what the enemy wants you to see, remember and focus on.

[@janegriffin3872]

@ amen yes! Thank for that REMINDER! God is healing me, working on me!

[@glamouriche5847]

@@janegriffin3872 I completely understand. I had to learn that part of this walk is forgiveness and the other part is not hanging out and gossiping with the enemy lol.

[@Listentomusicist]

Such an empowering teaching.

[@Alyssakzara]

💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🤍 Love you! Thank you for this and for today!

[@cindyjones2093]

BE ENCOURAGED ❤ KEEP GOING ➡️

[@cindyjones2093]

Thanks 🙏🏽 so much for imparting ❤

[@Crys-AnnGayle]

Thank you for this ❤🙏

[@fenesss]

Glory!!! 👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾💕

[@praiseprincess2836]

GLORY HALLELUJAH 🙌🏼❤️🙌🏼💥🙌🏼💥🙌🏼💥MIGHTY GOD ANSWERED PRAYER. 🙏🏼🔥🙏🏼🔥🙏🏼🔥HOLY GHOST FIRE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥JESUS 🔥🔥🔥 GLORY GLORY GLORY 🔥🔥🔥🔥CLARITY 👀💥👀💥👀IDENTIFICATION 🎯PEACE EVERLASTING FROM THIS VIDEO 🔥🕊️🔥🕊️🔥🕊️ THANK YOU JESUS 🔔🔥🔔🔥🔔🔥🔔🔥🔔🔥🔔❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👀💥THANK YOU SISTER SONOVIA 👍🏼💞👍🏼💞👍🏼💞👍🏼💞🌟

[@luffystar5194]

Thanks Sonovia

[@mexxicoful]

It seems like stage 1 & 2 im experiencing all at once right now almost 3 yrs later with limited contact during this stand now im seeing both of these stages together all of a sudden out the blue 😅 Thank you for confirmation

[@sonoviataughtme]

Yup! God works that way too. You could be simultaneously in 2 stages in the same season. Hang in there 🫶🏾

[@nikkiwilliams5945]

How do you know if God wants you to stand for your marriage?

[@kekepierre0]

❤️❤️❤️

[@AsiaDeWitt-Nicholas]

Can this happen with the man that Gid revealed to me as my husband before we are married because we are going theough this process now.

[@janegriffin3872]

He can be up and down- showing me he’s truly with me, but then his flesh is rising; his negativity, on edge way- unspiritual. Immaturity. Like SCREAM! When is this man blah blah- I get back to my part to be still, bite my tongue, and/or keep praying (show him God love) YES WHAT YOURE SATJ G NOW GIRL!! Patience- him testing me growing me!!

[@glamouriche5847]

❤🙏🏾❤

[@janegriffin3872]

So good!

[@victoriousvenus]

This is good !

[@layla.451]

Is there a stage for suddenly feeling indifferent toward them? I'm experiencing that now and it's like i just shifted overnight. It's a weird space.

[@thunderbee22]

What if I was angry and took frustrations out on our kids with yelling? My wife asked me to change several times and I really did try, but it didn’t stick. Now she is divorcing me to remove me from her life. She wants nothing to do with me. I’m standing for restoration, I’ve made those changes to myself and it’s been 6 months…im better than I was and I have a better relationship with my children today. I love being around them and I have more patience. My wife sees my changes but says it’s too late

[@shieldoffaith7099]

Are you having therapy?

[@thunderbee22]

@ yes I am in therapy

[@glamouriche5847]

Keep the faith and stay consistent. Don't give up and don't give in.

[@jasminep.43]

He has definitely moved on. He got remarried in October to a supposedly mutual friend of ours and seem very happy. 😢

[@randomreality522]

The problem I have is that when something look bad I’m like ok that’s God showing me to let the divorce happen but then I feel lead to stand still so how can I know for sure which it is ? I’ve been praying off and on and fasting. In the natural it wouldn’t make sense to stand seeing as how he’s with someone else but I want to be in line with God whatever it is leave or stay. Would it be ok to ask for a clear sign ?

[@sonoviataughtme]

Holy Spirit used to ask me which was easier to believe? That a divorce was how God was leading and maybe I got it wrong OR that it would take the hand of God to restore things because of how bad things had gotten. God is usually not in the easier route. He’s in the one that He knows it’s only with Him that this can happen. Hope that helps.

[@randomreality522]

@ thank you for the reply this definitely helped and I know the old me would’ve just said I’m out because of the shame and embarrassment alone because it’s easier to say oh well I tried but believing God to restore it take faith,surrender and a level of vulnerability I’ve never experienced. Letting today be a day of rest so I can hear from God thank you

[@michellerivera6722]

Do you have more videos about the Lazarus type one?

[@sonoviataughtme]

I do. I can’t remember the name of it but it’s on here

[@Babybloomingpalace]

I guess I'm still in stage 1 after 4 years of separation praying and fasting bc he is still asking for me to sign the divorce papers every week 😢 this is hard to hear....i stopped praying around Sept 2024 to work on another business but the rest of my businesses has done nothing .I'm finally ready to sign the papers bc I'm finally realizing I'm also the prize .

[@glamouriche5847]

Hi there and Happy New Year 🎉I pray you dive deeper into the word of Christ and following the word. You don't have to sign anything or partake in the breaking of your marital covenant to be seen as the prize, to know your worth and grow in Christ. We walk by faith not by sight. Keep pushing but give it over to God. Don't do the work of the enemy. ❤🙏🏾❤

[@magnoliasouthard0603]

@@glamouriche5847in some states if you do not signed it goes in to a default divorce. So basically the state divorces you.

[@MrsJohanna33]

13:51 Yup!

[@soybido]

is this only limited to married couples or can apply to unmarried couples?

[@janegriffin3872]

Adapt yes!!! I know! And it can hurt yes his fickle way!!

[@samanthar5123]

How long does it take

[@pamelahall4136]

Thank you god

[@pamelahall4136]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@biscodixon7208]

😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤

[@JB6835]

Is this only for marriages ? Or also for the one you are not married with yet but believe GOD told you that he is the one GOD has for me ?

[@sonoviataughtme]

This could also apply for those standing for a God ordained marriage promise

[@JB6835]

@ thank you for your reply and you messages. May God bless you for bringing is His messages ♥️

[@latoyajones9131]

Are the separation/restoration processes different if you are a believing spouse? I am in communication with my GOD ordained Would this be considered the Second stage of restoration? And Yes, I am walking in my kingdom assignment in the Church and my Spouse still doesn’t know His according to him After further listening it seems like stage 2 but it looks like it is double sided. “GHETTO TO THE FULLEST” SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@eliflores418]

So when will my husband leave the other woman?

[@StormsHurt]

When you FULLLLLY trust God, seek your Kingdom’s purpose and STOP asking this question. Because it won’t matter to you anymore, then you will see God move. Yes, I can speak on this.

[@janegriffin3872]

Or like , time for you to go again!” Lol! I’m kidding!

[@sonoviataughtme]

🤭🤭🤭

[@mila9794]

Someone had a vision about me and my kingdom spouse that there is fog among us 🌫️

[@sonoviataughtme]

Oh wow! Now He’s giving you language.

[@Misslaurethaa615]

Stage 2 made me had an outburst at my spouse yesterday. Stage 2 is really testing my Patience 🥲😪💔

[@sonoviataughtme]

It’s definitely a tough season but remember stage 3 has to happen because God said so 🫶🏾

[@qalomasango6854]

😂😂😂 Yep we are in the Ghetto 😅 I have been wrestling with Stage 2 (loads of back and forth 😬). My spouse flipped the switch just yesterday 🫣 Foggy all over again 😅 Thank you for this WORD. God has our back, he sent you ahead of us, to be able to equip us for what’s coming!!!! God bless you Sis ❤