STALKING, CHEATING, RESTRAINING ORDER + BREAKING UP | MY ABUSIVE EX-BOYFRIEND PT. 2

[@alfafalk]

Narcissists can't stand if you leave them. That means that someone doesn't want them and even escape from them. Which means they're not perfect or there's even something wrong with them. And that's something their egos can absolutely not process or handle. That's why they stalk when you leave. You have cut of the prime source of narcissistic supply. Which is putting you down, abuse and degrade you. These people are incapable of love since they deep down hate them selves.

[@claudecarter246]

Well said , I could not agree with you more.

[@lindakallenbach7653]

I am a 71 year old Great Grandmother that went through this very thing with my daughter! I can totally feel for you and your entire family!!! It was a total nightmare for all of us to go through. You are an amazing woman and I am immensely proud of you. "He" nearly killed her and the State put him in prison. If that had not happened I don't know if she would have ever been as strong as you! I thoroughly enjoy your videos my dear! Blessings always!!!

[@issabellrevere8205]

This comment is absolutely beautiful because of you opening up to this hughes family community. Thank you so much for sharing your personal story, especially for those who unfortunately may be experiencing the same thing. God bless you!❤️👏🏻

[@desireedoubleyou]

Aww THANK YOU for sharing Linda. Your family is lucky to have such a wonderful grandma/great-grandma/mom! I'm glad things worked out alright for your family.

[@verlindaallen6299]

🙋 this lady understands to. We're warriors.

[@shanawirtz]

when you choose to take your life in a different direction, it's amazing the beautiful things that can unfold.

[@mindyaston7379]

You are so so strong Rachel. To be able to leave that relationship at 19 had to have been SO HARD. You are such an inspiration and I hope if someone watching this is in the same situation that this video gives you the strength to take the first big step towards a healthy and happy future. ❤ GIRL POWER!!!

[@re.d.3576]

I am crying how nice and supportive family you had❤I even cannot believe that with this family background you could ever get involved into those abusive relationship.

[@nickykatjiuanjo7958]

My sister is unfortunately in an domestic abuse relationship, and it has triggered me to start watching videos of survivers of abuse because I personally believe knowledge is power. Its important for us women to educate ourselves about this, because abuse based on my conclusion always starts with a honeymoon phase. Its important to know the signs, in order to identify the redflags in the early days. Its also important to do a background check on the person in the early days, the best way to do this is to conduct the ex and find out from them how this person is.

[@marcyrudnyk9740]

Rachel- it is so great that you are putting this out there on your blog. I have been in one verify manipulated relationship and actually two. But the second one. I married, and still going thru the divorce process. It was very difficult to file for the divorce. He refused to say the marriage was broken. He never allowed me to speak when we were out with anybody else. He told me I needed to exercise. He told me what to wear. What to eat. He was always busy with his friends and family. Left me home. Spent my money. Always said I needed to support his opinions. I use to be a business woman and traveled the world. I have 5 adult children (not his) that I raised just fine. But to him I couldn’t do anything right. So after he was out of the house I began to realize that I couldn’t go out in public and talk to people or socialize easily. The eight years we were together had really done a toll on my self esteem. This happened slowly so it wasn’t noticed by me at all. However, it was noticed by my friends and family. When I made the decision to file for divorce and started telling my friends and family members they all said “It’s about time” I asked why they hadn’t said anything and the response was basically that if I was happy, they would put up with him. However, a couple of them said that is why we haven’t been hanging out so much, but didn’t want to say anything. Plus he goes out of town so often that we can still see you when he is gone. The other thing he did was if I went somewhere without him, I had text and phone calls every 20 minutes. If I didn’t respond there was hell to pay. If he was gone and I called or text him. Rarely would I get a response. If I asked him, he would make some excuse about his phone not working. I could go on and on, there are so many out there. And there are women that do the same to some men as well. But it definitely does a number on your mind and I am going to a therapist every week now.

[@lauraschweizer5945]

I literally got goosebumps when you said you heard the voice that said “this is not the father of your children”. You are amazing.

[@TayyaMarie]

I wasn't sure If I was going to be able to get through this video due to navigating my own trauma and C-PTSD from my abusive Ex. But I'm glad I did, thank you for sharing Rachel, I'm proud of you and all of our brothers and sisters in arms 💚

[@lil-mumma-adventures]

Love to you babe!

[@bethventuresx8283]

He is not the father of your children- I got chills and started crying. I had a similar experience recently but like..the opposite. I’ve met my person and something said to me “this is the father of your children”, and I’ve had a past of similar experiences to you, so it’s a big deal because I always knew my past experiences were not my forever experiences. Wow. I am balling. You’re amazing and I’m so happy for you.

[@bonniebrown9220]

what a powerful, inspirational story, so strong to have left him for the kids you wanted!

[@marandaclark3295]

Thank you so much for sharing this. You have nooo idea how much I needed to hear this. I just escaped an extremely abusive, manipulative, controlling relationship Feb 12th when he was arrested for the 3rd time in a year for domestic battery for beating me again.. I truly appreciate your honesty and being candid it makes me feel like I'm not alone..

[@marinatotduricic2087]

I had one psycho before I met my husband, there was no physical abuse, but he tried to isolate me from everyone, specially male friends and always playing a victim, super possesive and crazy.. i left him, best feeling ever, but he stalked me for five more years, I was already married, molested my whole family until one day I didnt come to his work and said “Look, I’m gonna put a bullet in your head and do my time with a smile on my face if you dont stop!” (I am not a violent person, but he drove me nuts at this point) And then he stopped, because I think he saw my face and in that moment I really meant it, so he got the point. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself, that is best feeling ever isnt it? Love ya ❤️

[@shaunamalcolm7031]

From a woman who was in a previous 10 year marriage with an abusive serial cheater, who also was verbally emotional spiritually and physically abused. I do not regret divorcing him. I am now 10 years married to another man who is opposite to him. I live this story and I am so so so so proud of you! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@bevygerritsen1322]

I’ve been through stalking from my ex boyfriend. To the point where I had to get my cousin involved. Because I didn’t want my parents to know what was happening. Cause I know the things my dad would’ve done to my ex. Which I didn’t want my dad to end up in prison. I’m so proud of you for leaving that abusive relationship from your ex psychopath boyfriend

[@shannonperez1984]

I was in an extremely abusive relationship for 3 years (seems like more because even after I ran, I literally had to make a plan and ran he still effected my life with the phone calls, demands etc).. there were multiple police phone calls (from neighbors ) and that’s a whole ordeal because the police made it so difficult for me rather then actually helping , restraining orders , hiding at friends houses from him , hiding bruises , split lips , hand marks around my neck… he was mentally, verbally , emotionally and physically abusive as well as a cheater and drug addict… he lit my couches on fire , carved messages into the walls with a knife and destroyed everything I would own at the time. The story is a long one, the pain long and the underlying trauma even longer. This shell of a “man” is actually in prison now not for what he did to me .. he’s a multiple offender of violent crimes (this last prison term has no bail, no parole .. he beat some man to near death for over 8 minutes)… there’s a lot to the story I got the courage to finally make a plan and go for it because of my son (he is the bio dad as well) my ex during a time of a beating on me slapped our 8 month old because he was crying … I went crazy, saw red and fought back hard but because I was so much smaller I got the worse beating of my life that day .. but it woke me up gabe me what I needed to finally make a plan to go home to my parents and provide safety for my son. It’s a whole lifetime story to be honest that my husband thinks I should write all down, make a book even because it’s insane.

[@Sade-l7b]

did you block him on social media?

[@desireedoubleyou]

Awww I'm loving the part about your parents/family's reactions! THANK YOU for sharing your experience! You're literally so strong 💖💖💖

[@idkwhatimsaying2903]

Thank you for sharing your story Rachel! I hope this can help other women that may find themselves in similar situations. Love you Rachel, I’m so glad you overcame everything and you are now here telling us all about it ❣️

[@Natalia_72]

I was in a severely abusive relationship as well back about 6 years ago, and while mine was different, and watching this did cause me some anxiety, I chose to and am glad I watched it. It made me smile that you overcame that and were brave enough to leave and also made me proud of myself that I had the courage to finally leave mine too 🙂

[@cleosworld9096]

I’m so proud of u that u left so many people don’t get the chance. So I don’t know u but I promise u that I am so proud that u left. I hope that u r at least on the journey to happiness now. U deserve it

[@Natalia_72]

CLEOS WORLD thank you so much. I definitely am. I share a child with him so that makes it interesting. But I am a so much better person because of going through that. I’m so proud of any man or woman who escapes this type of abuse. Physical or mental

[@cleosworld9096]

@@Natalia_72 oh I have a child with both my abusers the first one don’t even care to see his child for last 10 years and second one is an amazing father which is weird so I understand how that goes you are not alone.

[@elizabethbarnes3992]

God bless you.

[@rae3356]

Damn girl I’m not even half way through and I have teared up multiple times! I have been in a similar situation and just want to go back and hug the girl that was putting herself through that torture. I’m in the happiest relationship now I’ve ever have been & plan to marry my boyfriend who has always treated me right and honesty better than I ever thought I could be treated. That was a huge run on sentence lol, but thank you so much for having the strength to share these details of your past. It’s NOT easy, but look at us now 🥰 I hope to be half the mother & wife you are one day. Xo

[@odettejacobsen4280]

your strength is admirable!!!! I've been in a similar situation. its been 2 1/2 years now. I felt your words!

[@shesforgivennfree]

I am so proud of you for not only sharing your story but for having the strength to leave that creep. I cant imagine how horrible that whole relationship is. It is so awesome that you found the man of your dreams and to see how he treats you is so sweet. As far a jumping when you think its right, for me I jumped and landed face first on the concrete cause God really didnt have me.

[@abbidalton2207]

Love this so much Rachel! Thank you for opening up - I was in a mentally abusive relationship for about 6 months - I ended up getting a restraining order for a year, continued to have issues, a very similar situation as yours. I’m thankful my mom was there for me to help me get out !

[@shanawirtz]

This guy's a narcissist.

[@shelley6746]

You go girl…you are Uber strong then & now! I’m so glad you were able to walk away from all of that abuse and walked away with your head held high…look at you now…A super mommy & super wife❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@ashriellekent]

I love this. In the last 3 years my husband and I have seen God work in so many very personal ways.

[@vixypixypie]

So proud of you! I have had similar situations in my life with manipulative and abusive men. I totally agree with what you said about being proud of past me for leaving so that I could become the amazing, strong woman I am today. It's so hard to find the courage and strength to leave, and then continue to hold boundaries with people like that. Thank you for sharing your story. I know it will benefit so many people!

[@junegaskins6728]

I want to thank you so much. Going through a different kind of addition is the same feelings as most. I'm worthy of being loved and understood. So thanks for listening. Love you momma 😚

[@lindawilson6695]

Rachel, I too was in that exact kind of relationship as you. The only difference is, it took me longer than you to get out of it. Three years to be exact. Once I finally made the decision to leave, I NEVER looked back. I was being harassed and stalked for a good 4 months after I left until I finally had enough and went to the courthouse and got a restraining order! This guy was so determined to get in touch with me that he ended up violating the restraining order and was put in jail for it!! Needless to say, I relocated to another state while he was in jail and I haven't heard anything from him since!! Praise God!! God helped me through the disfunctional, manipulative,sick relationship too!! I never felt better than I do now knowing that I will NEVER again get involved with someone who will make me feel any less of myself because I too am a strong person and I deserve nothing but the best!! I wish there were more Hunters out here!! I'm single and I'm ok with it. God will send me someone when I least expect it. I love you Rachel. We woman have to stick together!! Be strong like our boy Beckham. I just love him and Blackley 🥰 Beckham has my heart though 😍 Love you guys 💕

[@rebeccalunsford9372]

Rachel I cannot express how sorry I am you went this horrible experience. So happy you got away from him for good. You rose above it and now you have such a beautiful family and life.

[@mars4697]

Thanks for sharing this! I have a couple comments I wanted to add. First, you encouraged me to take my first leap. I have a different type of trial that I realized I was holding on to the problem instead of trusting in God. I am gonna take the leap! I will let you know where He catches me! Second, I completely understand the change of heart. I spent 10 years in deep anger, frustration, etc with an acquaintance. I couldn’t talk about this person without feeling angry and betrayed. There was literally a day when I had the thought....I am tired of feeling this way. It changed that day. I still had some frustrated feelings but the feelings didn’t grip me. They didn’t control me, I could think of this person and not have an emotional reaction. I too know that the change of heart came when I learned and saw things I needed to understand about life. I truly believe that only God can change our hearts. We have to put in the work and have a desire to change our hearts and when that time comes that we have learned those things we need too, then He will offer up the change of heart. As I work through life now and have frustrations and bump in’s with humans, I do the work on my heart and start to develop a desire for a change of heart. Sometimes it is immediate and I wouldn’t be honest if I didn’t state I am working for a change of heart for a person now. It will come in God’s time and I am looking forward to that day.

[@dont_panic8458]

I relate to so many things you have been through, and I just love that you are using your experiences to help others! You are so brave and so kind, Rachel! I'm so glad that you are now in a better place...in every sense of the word!!! 💕

[@GoodPalate]

I am so glad that you had lovely parents to help you through this. All support to you because I have been through an abusive relationship for about a year within the 4 months of our relationship I wanted out but it dragged on for a year because he was crying and pleading with me every time I said I wanna break up. Much love ❤

[@loulou9297]

We need a video explaining how Hunter became so literally perfect! 💜💜💜💜

[@erikaparker7103]

Love you so much, so proud of you for speaking out and sharing this ❤️

[@terry1496]

Wow, so powerful. So glad that you could see yourself without him, so glad that you had family who helped to guide you but patient enough to let you make the decision. Thanks for sharing as there are so many women who will benefit from hearing this. It will save lives.

[@cleosworld9096]

Oh u sweet girl. Rachel I’m sad u went through this but also so happy u got out. U r so strong it takes some people so long to get free and so many never get the chance . U r awesome don’t ever think otherwise. Also thank I for opening up about the intimate stuff because my bad relationships also had this aspect in them and it’s way more common than u think. So to hear someone actually talk about it helps a lot because it’s embarrassing so not many ppl do. Also I had to laugh when u were having a hard time saying the”small down there” comment. Not cause of the comment that’s aweful but because I was over here helping u say it and u can’t even hear me. Lol. Which is sad cause I’ve heard it so many times that I immediately knew what u were trying to say. Anyways u know I love u and support u so much also u r so lucky u did not have children then cause I had kids with my abuser and it made it so much harder to leave because I wanted to only have children with one person and thought I was less than if I didn’t but I have a child to another man and would not change it for anything

[@janicemichaloski5292]

Rachel I'm so sorry you ever went through that I'm so happy for you that you found a Real man and now have a good life ❤

[@sologhost1234]

Rachel thankyou for helping me heal i to have a eating disorder and i to went thru a abusive person this is the hardest thing to watch for real girlfriend it makes you or breaks you I'm proud of you seriously it could of went very weong very fast I'm praying for you 🤗 💜 💪 😇

[@juliebowers550]

Rachel you are soo amazing!!❤ love following your sweet family!!

[@carriecerino8243]

Thanks so much for sharing your story with us Rachel! You are one strong woman! Although I've never been in an abusive relationship myself, I can just imagine the control was awful. Hopefully, with your story, you can help someone else in an abusive relationship!

[@susancollado5290]

💕He & abusive guys like him are Not worth anyones time💕For women in an abusive relationships get out they will never change they are narcissistic & controlling💕Live life your way you’re supposed have fun with friends & find your strength then a decent man will come into your life💕

[@emmarodriguez1464]

Thanks Rachel, for sharing this video. I truly believe that it's going to help someone that's going through an abusive relationship. That hearing your story will give them the strength to do the same. And yes I believe God came through for you. God bless you and family real good!!!❤🤗🥰😘🙏

[@louiseshines7611]

Wow. I can't believe people like that exist in this world. Only some of what you had sounds like what I had in some guys but damn you had a looooot more done. I had one come to my house when I was home alone.... I was much younger. You reminded me of that when you talked about the order. I can talk about it now and everything. Thanks for making these videos Rachel. Close to finishing this one off right now. I'm sorry you went through this but love how you met Hunter and just the glow that came for you afterwards x

[@mandyheming8124]

I'm speachless.. Thanks for sharing this. You are so strong. You deserve the best and you found that with Hunter. So proud of you!❤️ Lots of love

[@monicamoreno3358]

This video made me cry because this and more is what my life was and is as I am in my second marriage and the two are similar if I can say the second has been by far the worst pain and am ready to walk away and that f you that you sent to any man that thinks that a women’s body isn’t better after kids ya that hit him he is the reason why am I getting under the knife june 28 and because of the mental abuse everything you are saying is exactly what am going through it hurts to hear it because it feels like your telling my story love you and thank you for speaking on this I love this chancel and this is just another reason why to me your just the best sending love from Phoenix I am trying to get my Instagram up now that after years he told me I couldn’t get any social media accounts and it was because I would probably run into his fake accounts following thousands of girls it’s a step for me to get out and meet people and share my story 💕

[@WhoisSiggie]

This gives me so much strength❤️🙏🏻

[@taylornativi9457]

GIRL. BEEN. THERE. ‼️‼️ Like all of it.

[@KeyonnaD]

I relate so much. But I got out too. Thank you for sharing in such a vulnerable way.

[@jenniferw4045]

Omg..I can't put into words how this video touched me..Thank You..!! I'm balling..You are Awesome..!! ❤❤❤

[@roselee1974]

So glad you made it out of that type of relationship, and are extremely happy now. ❤️

[@katlinnewingham2615]

You are amazing and such an inspiration! I enjoy watching your videos. You are super uplifting and positive and I love the energy. I can relate to this soooo much.

[@rebeccalunsford9372]

His mother had a lot of nerve to say her son has problems and then beg your dad to file a restraining order.

[@darlenebatts5115]

I'm Beyond proud of you Girl !! What a wonderful Testimony that you are. Your so very Brave for finding the courage to leave him ! Thanks for sharing your story.. I Love you so much. God Bless Y'all. Love From your Indiana Friend.💞💕💕

[@lynnharris7054]

Wow Rachel, I am so proud of you. I know it is not easy to talk about these kinds of things, but I believe you needed too because it's all part of the healing process. I am so happy that you found Hunter when you did because he is definitely a keeper. You are strong and beautiful and don't ever let anyone take your sparkle. Stay strong girl. 😘 #bebravelikebeckham

[@loriweinrib4866]

What a story!!! Happy you were strong and had a happy ending!!

[@karenb2873]

I must say that these Lashes look the BEST And more Natural looking.

[@hunterhughes4475]

So proud of you for sharing.

[@RosieDozie]

What doesn't destroy you empowers you later.

[@rebeccalunsford9372]

I truly believe the saying "God doesn't close a door without opening a window."

[@AndreaS-gm5ov]

Sounds like my ex an narcissistic pycho path!! So glad you aren’t with that POS anymore and met Hunter, a great man!. I’ve been single since my horrible abusive ex!

[@debbie9226]

God is good, Rachel. He knew when you had had enough and it was time for you to take care of yourself ❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍 Trust and believe God always takes care of us. He is love ❤️ 🙏🏻. Thank goodness that you never became a sad statistic that happens in this country when your partner becomes obsessed with you!!! Thank goodness for your parents and that you met Hunter and you are where you are in life!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Jcluis16]

I’m not religious. But the way you talk about god is beautiful 💗

[@hollyfisher8811]

GOD has truly BLESSed you with such a healing strength, which then led to an amazingly loving Husband & 2 Beautiful, Precious Kiddos 🙏💏💙💖🌠...Saving GRACE!!!

[@Grace-ft2rq]

Being wh a person like this especially wh lil kids it's not so easy get out of . Ppl like this do whatever him/ she can to get away wh what him/ she does to him/her . Those ppl believe that's love care tbh it isn't love care just by doing that shows exactly how the person really feels for him/ herself. I've gotten out four times came back knowing this person is still the same will never ever change no matter what that's how much him/ her must hate him/ herself that him/ her mistreat him/ her which is wrong in every way if u want out / leave that person makes him/ her the bad one when the bad one is the person whose causing harm to him/ her anyone going through this please don't stay especially if u got kids wh the person these ppl never ever change as I had said before him/ her just say that to have control over u like ur their lil puppet which is also wrong because we're not no ones lil puppet . We're God perfect creation 🥰

[@daisymay1608]

You are so strong and such a survivor!

[@Vixinaful]

I am a christian who have a similar experience with a guy with antisocial personality disorder where after 2,5 years, countless triangulations and so many emotional shocks I shut down, I felt myself feeling "STOP!" Like a hand made a stop sign in front of the computer and I could not type him another word.

[@Vixinaful]

Ps. He told me "This isnt like you, whats happened?" (He was used to me ranting snf blocking him) Which is because of their grandiosity. No matter how many times they get left, they still cant believe they were left because they see thensleves as so much better than us so it becomes a shock.

[@margaretdavis6705]

Thanks for posting this. Wish I had left earlier. unfortunately I didn't and things got much worse.

[@SimplyRochelleParanormal]

OMGGG GIRRRLL!! I HAVE HAD CHILLS THIS ENTIRE VIDEO!! I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO TELL U HOW THE SAME OUR SITUATION THIS WAY IISS!! I am a pretty New Sub to Ur channel so I'm still in the benj watching phase of catching up to date with U and Ur amazing lil fams channel lol 🤣😂💜 I love Ur videos about Ur amazing gorgeous babies an Ur journey in life. An girl friend U where Brave like Beckham even bck then 💜💯👑💜 My situation happened for a span of 5 n 1/2 yrs, I dealt with any an all abuse in it's different forms on my daughter and myself. When my baby was 3 I left an NEVER even so much as look back!! My parents are both gone now but they moved Us almost 1,000 miles away from where we lived then to where we live NOW in Florida 💜🌴💜 The mental abuse U describe, the particular things he wld say to U, and how it effected U mentally is a huge head stir for ME, I didn't understand why I all of a sudden I started to see Ur videos on my feed .. after THIS and part 1 of THIS 1.. I understand NOW 💜💜💯💯 My baby an myself made it to the flip side MANY YRS ago, My daughter was 3 N will be 24 nxt month. However my younger sister has recently started to go thru a divorce where she did a major way of hiding ALOT of abuse she endured in a span of 16 yrs, she was 19 when she met her husband. Sometimes it's easier to HEAR thing's frm ppl who aren't family or very close to Us in our lives when it comes to how U feel and what U go thru when U finally decide enough is enough, and VERY importantly that Ur NOT ALONE in all this, I hope that makes sense!! Lol but I feel seeing this can make a lil more security in the facts that she IISS moving in the RIGHT DIRECTION FOR HER 💜💜💯💯👑👑 I was chilled to the bone FEELING how it feels to go through traumatic experiences in life like THAT!! THANKS for being strong like Beckham girl friend 💜 God TRULY does put U in places Ur needed an truly has Ur bck while U DO what's NEEDED to heal along the WAY!! Thanks for being so strong and putting videos like these out YES THEY ARE VERY HELPFUL 💜💜💯💯 SO much love and Respect frm Florida 💜🌴🌴💜

[@angelacanedit]

I know this is the least of his crimes, but damn is ex boyfriends grammar embarrassing

[@anilaj9868]

Gosh this sounds so much like what I've experienced. The part where you state you were the one that begged for his love. I was in those shoes until one day I just hit the emotional wall and left.

[@bubblealien]

Rachel, your story is absolutely so so powerful and you are so brave to share💖 Also you look absolutely beautiful 😍 Sending so much love to you and your beautiful family 💕

[@laurelnicole2409]

i heard a very similar story to this but after following her to the gym, he left and waited in his car for her to come outside and then he killed her

[@foreverheaven07]

Your eyes look so beautiful in this video! You're thriving!! Strange dude, if you could do a video of where he is now that would be interesting.

[@CWall-tv7gm]

Why can’t these guys just be kind to women?! I really don’t see why they treat women like property and objects.

[@candicesailsbury1355]

I’m so proud of you 👏🏻

[@verlindaallen6299]

My daughter's father devistaed me in this way. He'd go to his ex girlfriends house and then call me and tell me what he was doing and about her nightgown! YOU know exactly what I'm talking about. Long story short I raised my daughter without him . No help. I'm 61 now and my beautiful daughter is living a beautiful life with her husband. Last year!!!! My daughter approached him they did a DNA test . Of course she was his daughter but that damn guy always denied her! Such a long story but he apologized to me after 41 years!!!! Hello somebody. Unbelievable the things I did to myself because my choice of men. I was a very cute asshole magnet! So I completely know what you've been through. I'm elated that you are happily married and God is your center in your family. Your beautiful mama!

[@claudecarter246]

Sorry to you had to go through that however, you’ve become strong enough to raise your daughter into a fine woman she’s now I’m sure bravo.👏🏿

[@Sofinemikis]

Your makeup looks BEAUTIFUL today!♥️👈🏼

[@jolandaplieger]

God has our back always, and you are living proof of what He does in our lives 🙏

[@tinawhite5310]

I'm so sorry for what you went through Rachel no women should ever have to go through any type of abuse...I too was in a abusive relationship it was hell we are all victim's I thank god every day that he saved me from that relationship if it wasn't for god and my best friend steffany I probably wouldn't be here today or if I made it through his abuse I would have so many more issues then I have now and I was with this man for 3 years classic abuser my ex said those exact same things who are you talking to who's telling you not to talk to me you're parents are telling lies about me your best friend is making up lies about me (non of that was true) he eventually showed his true colors and god made me seem them

[@karenbradley598]

I’m so glad you got out

[@katelynnshort7108]

That’s so crazy. Cause I was in really Rocky relationship and I was like you. Just so in love and then one day A switch flipped and I broke it off and never looked back

[@allisonm7223]

Omg sounds like my ex husband when I left him. Thank you for sharing. Very vulnerable of you and strong.

[@valeriewalker5831]

omg me too. With my compulsive liar ex I just felt nothing one day for him. So cool. I wonder if it happens with good people that are actually good. I only had an experience with him

[@carlinsvarityofvideos9064]

I am so happy for you! I cried through this whole video thank you for sharing. I went through something similar to this and now my ex that was physically And emotionally abusive to me is now in prison for murdering 2 men who he just met at Walmart asked them 4 a ride to my house luckily he could not find my house i believe he was wanting to kill me that night but when he couldn't find my house he killed them men for some reason. I feel really bad for those 2 guys and especially for there family's. It's a long story but again thank you for this video. I am so glad you got away from this guy!!

[@shaunamalcolm7031]

Take a sip of your coffee or water every time she says something and you mentally tell her, “girl same!”

[@deebridges3679]

I love you so very much girl . It takes alot to leave . So very proud of you 😍😊

[@cleosworld9096]

When I left my abusive relationship I moved and did not speak to him for about 10 years. We have children and I still did not speak to him and he didn’t reach out to his child either I am finally strong enough that if I had to talk to him I could but it took so long.

[@melissalooman3053]

U r wonderful. I left an abusive man after 7 years.

[@mindyl5990]

He was a narcissist and ‘love’ doesn’t exist to them. It is always using someone to fulfill a need. That is why they can so quickly move on after a divorce or break-up. If they try to get you back it is bcs you offended….you were his property and left? How dare you.

[@loulou9297]

You said you looked wrecked in your video about waiting for Beckham's gTube but that is so not true. I haven't watched every single one of your videos but I've watched a lot & you've looked absolutely stunning in every one. May God continue blessing you & your beautiful family

[@AJ-jo4jh]

That's insanely creepy. I just know he obsessively watches your youtube channel... There's no way he doesn't.

[@margaretdavis6705]

You have to be very careful on a break up. Awareness........

[@kerrylecurgo930]

I was married for 8 years with an alcoholic 2 kids I would go to work and I would get phone calls from cops to pick up my kids from a bar I would go to work and he would be sober I would not leave him money but he would get drunk my kids would taken from daycare when he wasn’t on the pick list I tried to get away from him call the cops and they would say they couldn’t do anything he was mentally and physically abusive it was living with Jekyll and Hyde. I still will randomly remember things when something something is going on and a flash back cops all the time that’s the short short story he still won’t go away I have been divorced since 2009 and domestic violence ended the marriage but it’s harder then people think to get out

[@hildy0068]

This is not love & I think it’s great for other impressionable girls/women to hear this.

[@shonaybey9625]

You are so strong i literally love that for you so much!!!

[@justmartine]

His typos though...ugh. You go girl!

[@AshlynGumbert]

I am so glad moving out

[@lil-mumma-adventures]

This is so heavy 😭 I left my Babys dad and still dealing with his nasty bull crap

[@Americanaa]

You are soo Beautiful Rachel! Just stunning with a stunning personality too!

[@claudecarter246]

Agreed, shame her abusive ex couldn’t see it how beautiful she is and how good he had it as the saying you don’t know what you have until it’s gone.