Starseeds And The Helper Syndrome

[@sadirajones4032]

This made my eyes watery. Both myself and my husband are healers and people have skipped out on paying us for years. It really is difficult to turn people away even though you get the message from your Guides that you may not get paid. It’s very difficult to see people suffering. We are working to get better though and we have gotten better but it is very hard to see suffering and not help. Thank you for mentoring me on this and reminding us to care for ourselves first. Much love to you. ❤😢❤

[@pritpaldhaliwal6509]

Thank You Gabriele, I have seen many takers over the years, who take as a right, who take happily, but do not reciprocate, and they offer no word of thanks. Meanwhile they leave one spent and drained. Thanks for the confirmation. I have learned to respect and love myself.😊❤🙏

[@VictoriaJ1111]

Gabriele, I SO appreciate your wisdom and sharing this with us, during this time of transformation. Love and blessings back to you, and thank you!

[@ndm6023]

Thank you 💜

[@birgitditto2133]

Oh my, you speak for me. So many ask for energy healing, sometimes they not even thank me. They pay for fake nails and so on. But never have a dime for me. I fully understand. 😢😢😢

[@Christine-y2b4h]

Thank you Gabriele! I just wanted to say ‘Hello from New York in America’. I just came across one of your videos last week. I appreciate you and your message.

[@annplepyy]

Thank you. ❤️🙏

[@jude4381]

Oh my, thank you, exactly what I have been thinking and going through. I'm so tired of taking care of another, I seem to take little time for myself and, I'm getting old. I now see I need to take better care of myself, create more time for myself and most importantly, not think that I'm selfish in doing this. Bless you for this video, I was surely guided to hear your message. Thank you!

[@karenarnold4330]

Thank you very much. ❤ I am from a family of mediums it's definitely true ❤

[@laurelmacquarrie1559]

How blessed! I was in strict Mormon home all my life. Finally broke free and trying to sort out truth. Gabriella rings true

[@christinerenkenberger8070]

So true thank you 💖💖

[@elisabethfawcett5245]

Thank you Gabriele, that is so true ❤

[@Teresa-gh9hj]

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[@stars-are-us]

Thank you very much.

[@PatriciaRossi]

31:57 precisely! 🌻🌼🌷

[@laurelmacquarrie1559]

I have such an exaggerated helper syndrome my family and friends beg me to stop. I help everyone at cost to my family and myself. This was so informative. I had my first tarot card reading with unknown person and same exact message. Wild

[@laurelmacquarrie1559]

I think I'm too old to be a star seed though 56 tomorrow. I thought starseeds are young

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

@@laurelmacquarrie1559 The SOUL is ETERNALly YOUNG, no matter your body and persona age :-), dear. And as the soul is starseed … weee only have to figure it out and cope with the "symptoms" … No one is ever too old to be a starseed - in the end we all come from the stars, haha, made of stardust. Blessings, love & light

[@amnestor]

I recently found out I am a starseed and relate to everything you said here. I want everyone to be happy, loved, and have enough resources. The injustice in this world breaks my heart. I am trying get better at caring for myself, but it’s challenging. I’m so grateful to you for sharing your wisdom.🙏💜✨

[@KimberlyHepler]

Thank you for this video as it really resonated with me as a “giver” who oftentimes described as some who gives too much! Understand need for boundaries but family members are who pull at my heart strings so I give in. Will try to pause, set boundary and tap in to my feelings to validate if I am to help on each request. Love all your videos and insight s shared as a medium! Thank you for sharing your gifts of wisdom! ♥️

[@Yofreepeople]

Thank you so much!! ❤

[@Imanne87]

Ive been here for 37 years and I still don’t feel like I belong here

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

I know, been there, done that, too - but it's not helpful for you to stay like that. HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS !!! Learn to be at home wherever you are :-) We can, and I suppose that's why we all came, make Earth our home. Just use my meditation on my YT channel "Discovering Inner Peace Through Meditation", to go into your own heart/soul space - where HOME IS - always with you. Like Yeshua said: "I am closer than hand and feet, I am living INSIDE YOUR HEART." Why do I have to tell this again and again and again ? Do people not LISTEN to what I say, or are not able to have a look on their own at my channel to find and use the tools I freely share there? Are people only "eating" what the YT algorithm feeds them and are not able to do a single step on their own? Sorry, but it's always the same questions and the same attitude of "you tell me, what to do …" etc. of this childlike helplessness that I encounter. And I just don't get it … how grown-ups behave like underage when it comes to spirituality … YOUUU MAKE YOUR LIFE happy, beautiful etc. YOU create your reality - not I. So why don't you move a bit on your own, pleeease :-) No offense, just a bit annoyed. Please don't take it personally :-) Blessings, love & light

[@Imanne87]

@@gabrieleheikamp8584 that’s ok. Let me tell you I have had an extremely rough childhood and life. I have literally fumbled my way to this point. I have never formed deep connections with any of the people in my life as they are just not interested. After a few years of researching spirituality I have come a long way in discovering my mission and purpose here on earth. But as I said this hasn’t helped with me feeling like my life is so void of meaningful relationships and loving connections.

[@chrismahfouz7709]

Thank you dear Gabriele! ❤ I’ve been told that I’m a star seed. All I really know is that I’ve always felt that I didn’t quite fit in. People can be so insensitive regarding expecting services for free and for a lot of other things too! It makes one wonder how they would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Exactly, you're sooo right :-) Empathy is = to be able to feel into the other one, and by that overcome the own little limited viewpoint, theirs and your own. But many cannot even feel themselves nor the other one. Because if you learn and train thaaat, you're able to come up with solutions that fit both and not only one or the other :-) That's why Yeshia said. "The meek shall inherit the kingdom of heavens." It's the Empaths, too nice, too kind etc. and brought down, abused and even laughed at by the Egomaniacs = Narcissists/ Psychopaths, who still think they rule the show and their way is right. Blessings, love & light

[@Jammel-oz9ku]

Thank you for this confirmation ❤, much love to you

[@brankacrochet4442]

dear gabriele, yet another clarifying video with very down to earth explanations . thanks for sharing your sparks of knowledge with the rest of us. wonderful 🌹

[@laurelmacquarrie1559]

Yes! My own son vomits anger in me all the time. I wish gabriella still did personal readings. As an ex lifelong mormon so much of this is new. I was taught it was evil yet gabriella speaks what rings true. So much damage and domino effect from man made religion

[@DarronLewis-gc8zt]

Maybe your reading needs 2b done by yourself now. The 'homework' she speaks of..... Research....Buddha, shamanic drumming, tuning fork.

[@DarronLewis-gc8zt]

& yes...I like Gabrielle..very much...she's worked hard here, finding herself. She deserves what her higher self requires.

[@mekabar77]

Hello Gabriele! Recently there was a somewhat related question coming up for me, if it is interesting for you or other people maybe it would be suitable for a Q&A session or similar. Anyway here it goes, the question is: "Do spirits have Egos"? I know it's a bit of a strange question, but it came to me after watching your personal and Pamela Aaralyn's interactions with Dolores Cannon in the afterlife. I noticed that just as in life her spirit has a very egocentric "My way or the highway"-attitude, not really considering other peoples opinions. Up until now my understanding was that egoic behavior like this is exclusively a part of the human condition or brain, but apparently it's not that simple and spirits can have similar traits. I was wondering if you have any thoughts or experiences on this. Also thank you again for sharing your wisdom with us fellow Starseed! 🌟❤😊

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Well, being on the spirit side does not mean automatically that your are enlightened and have no Ego any more, it's a process carrying on on the other side to dissolve it. Also being an ET does not mean automatically that you are benvolent. That's our human mindset, generalization and mostly wrong, sorry 🙂 Blessings, love & light

[@mekabar77]

@@gabrieleheikamp8584 Thank you for the insight! :) Yes that makes sense, especially with malevolent entities running around the astral being anything but "enlightened".

[@marall1973]

The same here Gabriele, I was three years old and I was pleading and praying to get me out of here this savage planet. It felt like I was in a mad place crying and crying until beings take me to a beautiful place where I calm down or my consciousness can accept earth. Thank you for your video ❤.Abuse, can you do a video when starseed backfired and defend themselves and had enough. What are the consequences when is deceit and purposely abuse psicopaty? Do the being get the energy they put out?

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Already on my "list" of videos to do … :-) Just wait a bit. "Empaths & Narcissists/Psychopaths" are the 2 opposites in duality and unfortunately attract each other. "What you put out - you get back" is true. But you have to forgive THEM AAAND YOURSELF (best with Ho'oponopono), to free yourself from bonds that attach you to what or whom you don't want to be bonded with :-) Blessings, love & light

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

@@marall1973 To LOVE is divine soul quality but it does not mean that you allow and endure everything. That's false understanding of love, sorry dear. Had to learn that, too, very painfully :-) Blessings, love & light

[@marall1973]

@@gabrieleheikamp8584 FALSE UNDERSTANDS OF LOVE very painful. I am very greaful the Elohim lead me to you. Love and light to you

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

@@marall1973 I know dear, been there, done that, too. But love has the right to defend itself from abuse, or not? Do you really think, you have to give an abuser the other cheek as well ? That's a falsification written into the bible later (just research how often it was redacted !!! And by whom !!!), and you can clearly hear the rulers, people greedy for power, speaking there, who falsified Yeshua's original message. We have to come to grips with that, we are all lead astray by the brainwash we're under since ten thousands of years. NOW is the TIME to stand up for YOURSELF (oeacefully like mahatma Gandhi said. "Be the change, you want to see in the world !" and follow your heart/soul, where Yeshua told us HE lS LIVING, nearer than hand and feet, inside our hearts - there's the divine soul light. Use my meditation on my YT channel "Discovering Inner Peace Through Meditation" to go into your own heart-/soul space, where you find everything you need, advise, energy, you can call for guides, angels, masters, deceased loved ones there, ask questions and get answers - without needing someone from outside any more, telling you truths or lies. GO and do something for yourself - your soul is awaiting you there, since the beginning of time - IN YOUR HEART. Blessings, love & light

[@marall1973]

Thank you for taking the time to write the message and all your advice and knowledge ,I will do the meditation. Have a great day and namaste.

[@devadasi19]

Verry true❤❤❤

[@davidandrews9446]

I AM GREATFUL AND THANKFUL NAMASTE

[@christinegalarneau625]

Hi Gabrielle. What was the meaning to come from the stars if we were already perfect from the beginning ? Are we our own experience ? Our own invention ? Bless you !

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

We, or you, and I, are not perfect … our soul, as divine fractal is. And YES, you are your own experience, your own invention, haha. Blessings, love & light

[@devadasi19]

Some ppl do not want to heal they like the victim state of mind

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Yes, unfortunately … it's FREE WILL for all, whatever one chooses, consciously or not. Blessings, love & light

[@davidandrews9446]

✨️⭐️👋

[@helenemouty7076]

My mother always told me I came from anoter planet...😁

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

All starseeds come from other planets. Souls don't have only Earth incarnations on their long journey away from SOURCE, to experience everything that is, and back home to Source, bringing back their harvest of experience to grow Source's consciousness even more. As we all are part of Source … light from the great light, spirit from the great spirit. Your mum was right and mothers have a good sense, haha. Blessings, love & light

[@alexandrasoares3517]

How i wish you could do consultations on WhatsApp. I have so many questions about my deerest late husband. Please forgive me for 5his message. Thank you for disturbing your time

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Do the meditation on my YT channel in the video "Discovering Inner Peace …", dear, to go to your soul's place inside your heart. There you can meet your husband, and whomever you call for, your guardian angel for advice etc. Blessings, love & light

[@alexandrasoares3517]

@@gabrieleheikamp8584 thank you for your advice. And again I'm so sorry to bother you with my problems. I would have paid for sure but thank you ❤️

[@treesmolthof7107]

Hello Gabriele, when you started to speak I thought by myself: after this reading I'm going to ask her if she has ever felt betrayed by friends😅😅😅OMG, this was so enlightning for me. I did 3 years of mediumtraining, did an astrology education and also Tarot, but before that I already had given Reiki to people for 12 years. But in a way I've always been staying naieve to a certain level. I too gave and gave and gave, often without even asking money for my services. I now know that I severely suffered from this helpers syndrome, but it took me another two years and a very narcisssitic 'friend' to become really aware and awake within myself as about my environment. I have been really sick and depressed when I found out that the root of this syndrome lay in my childhood and it's trauma's from that time. But I got good help from a therapist and other people and feel finally strong again now to help others in a healthy way.I haven''t worked for two years , had an accident, but this was meant to be so that I cold sort out all of this **** Today I had a conversation with a friend and it all seemed to come together and now I am listening to your reading and it is as if you are confirming again everything that has happened to me the past two years. I now can be grateful for these so called friends because they were necessary to open up my childhood trauma's so that I was able to heal them. I feel very heappy and strong now but I never go to work so much and hard again for other people except when I feel called to. My life is finally good now. It was really good to hear you say all your experiences. I felt so understood. Totally. And that feels like a great gift, as well from you as from the universe. I finally feel ready to face the world again, as simple as I am in my nakedness.😄😄 Thank you so much Gabriele. I almost wanted to say: you don't know how much this means to me, but after hearing you speak i think you do. It was a true pleasure listening to your story. Thank you again and much love and blessings from Theresa, from the Netherlands

[@gabrieleheikamp8584]

Oooh dear, countless "false friends" and narcissists in my surrounding abusing me - until I got it. The greenness of souls from e.g. the pleijades, where most blue-eyed come from, is even mentioned in the book "Ra - The Law of One" :-) Happy that you got it and find your discoveries confirmed here :-) NOW YOU KNOW and can deal with it differently, to go back and do what you want to do - but with healthy boundaries and taking money for your service. Blessings, love & light

[@treesmolthof7107]

Thank you👍, I ,'m going to read that book🙏💖

[@robertaharvey2027]

Thank you for sharing and truly resonates with me today as showed up and indeed, alienation...got it going on here right now and playing out I am being alienated...I also recall an experience as a child of observing the family in connection to television of how everyone was totally drawn in by it, the canned laughter...but I wasn't, then when my father left this world in 2010...thankfully he is guiding me too...gosh, i am now crying....much love and gratitude to you today...🙏🏼🌹🌞

[@TutuSainz]

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