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@aaronman218 ай бұрын
"Instead of hoping you're doing the right thing, make it the right thing." Uufff im gonna be living by this now!
@AyanelDv8 ай бұрын
The worst is that we forget so many valuable lessons. I hope this one sticks with me (this time)
@bird93508 ай бұрын
Unless you’re a serial killer…
@FajriSiddiq8 ай бұрын
@@AyanelDv that's what my life has been, taught many lesson but I often forget them :'))
@Tibiscuit_OW27 ай бұрын
Imagine you like mtb, video games, and 3D art. How can you choose? Do you understand the quote "Instead of hoping you're doing the right thing, make it the right thing" like: chose one of them and invest you near 100% so anyway, you'll be the person who succeed in this field. Or did I've understand the sentence as it should?
@PersonalDev-cx5fe7 ай бұрын
giberish
@camstanley8 ай бұрын
I had to teach myself that finishing something 80% of the way is the closest it'll ever be to perfection. The extra 20% is wasted time that would be better spent on starting something new. Just make it and move on - it's not the last time you'll create.
@paolabueso7 ай бұрын
Love that thought 🙌💖
@1tubax7 ай бұрын
Not if it's for a client haha you'll get fired
@memezarqueen14157 ай бұрын
@@1tubax his words aren't for tasks or job its about something else, read again
@1tubax7 ай бұрын
@@memezarqueen1415 i was joking bro I completely understand what he means
@suburbanbandit7 ай бұрын
"Don't be scared of moving slowly, be scared of standing still." This quote really helps me out. I fear a lot that im not progressing fast enough or becoming sucessful at my passions fast enough. But if you just do an hour or two everyday of work, your still progressing. Your work ethic should be authentic, not perfect. We have been brainwashed to believe we need to work 8 hours a day when its not true. do a few hours a day, go outside, smile, live life and the rest will amazingly manifest itself
@EmmaFowler7 ай бұрын
I just screenshotted this to add to my vision board :')
@VEEx7777 ай бұрын
Facts
@PersonalDev-cx5fe7 ай бұрын
cliche after cliche
@Tryumph2.07 ай бұрын
@@EmmaFowlerthat is a great idea!!!
@EmmaFowler7 ай бұрын
@@Tryumph2.0 it was exactly what I needed to hear!
@ExploringFlips8082 ай бұрын
Three lessons I’ve learned from you: - It’s okay to go slow - It might not work - just do it.
@Dmanz677 ай бұрын
There is a reason the Algorithm is showing YOU this video.
@WallyMahar7 ай бұрын
Algorithm, thank you
@ItsJoelleBrooks7 ай бұрын
There is always a reason ❤
@amorchi38937 ай бұрын
This comment gave me goosebumps
@bibek60467 ай бұрын
Uff finally back to life there is a reason you are seeing this comment
@firdaoussfouzi28227 ай бұрын
yes, I need this one
@HyperRare8 ай бұрын
As someone that’s halfway through several projects and constantly second guessing every decision, I really needed to hear this.
@tripes31487 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it man, remember just start it!
@sanchiiverse3 ай бұрын
Just start, i just did
@Z-MACx5 ай бұрын
“I found myself comparing my ‘day 1’ to someone else’s ‘day 1000’”. Dude. That is me.
@DeinLieblingsginger4 ай бұрын
Doesn‘t help that my ego tells me my day 1 is better than the day 1000 content haha 😂
@FrameplayBricks7Ай бұрын
If you stumbled upon this comment, take it as a sign: you’re closer to success than you think. Keep going-you’re about to make it!
@NametheFilmАй бұрын
😂
@RecapturingLife8 ай бұрын
20% | This is the first time I've heard someone else say what i've been feeling, "i already knew how to make videos but every time i clicked record it felt like i didn't know what i was doing." I have felt like that for so long. I can edit a video for clients, friends, family but when I want to do it for myself I never know where to start. I've been wanting to pursue youtube as well. I want be an Adventure Filmmaker but sometimes it feels so silly and unattainable. It's like you know what you want to say and share but then you feel like you know nothing. This video is so important. Thank you for putting it out there.
@sirmacaronius8 ай бұрын
I completely feel the same way! I have all these aspirations and dreams of being a videographer/filmmaker watching and going through all these tutorials and getting so hyped and when I want to start that journey, I find it so intimidating and impossible, and I end up I distracting myself playing video games or watching yt videos... I've yet to take that plunge...
@babtherex7 ай бұрын
Just do it
@Maiatalo7 ай бұрын
@@babtherex it's not that easy lol
@feeldiary7 ай бұрын
I'm not the only one in this, I bought video camera I recorded only one video and posted it then I gave my video camera out. Now I am trying to get new one but still feeling silly about it
@babtherex7 ай бұрын
@@Maiatalo Sure, but when you force yourself to do it over and over again things will start to clear up
@AveryBalliet8 ай бұрын
Hi 20%-er here! What I have come to enjoy in other creators is their candid EMOTIONAL honesty about the journey. Their journey. Their process. The imposter syndrome. I think it is so important to have other creators be your mirror and remind you of the nuance you bring to the table! That is the support we all need as creatives. So, I appreciate videos like this where it creates conversation and a safe space to just brain dump individual perspectives. Keep it up!
@follow.the.dragonfly8 ай бұрын
This🫶
@SourianteOrange8 ай бұрын
Yep, 20% is here
@AminLloyd8 ай бұрын
I needed to read this! 😮 this is the statement!!
@edredBryan8 ай бұрын
Avery, you said it best! I've started and re-started a couple of times on KZbin...I consistently come face-to-face (seemingly) with those gremlins who only feed us negativity about what we're endeavoring to accomplish...especially if we're changing directions or reengineering ourselves for something different in life. "safe place for a brain dump"... To all, be well; self-encourage; & create. Peace.
@TeaWithMellow7 ай бұрын
I like how you used the word "nuanced ". It's so vulnerable sharing your perspective on KZbin and so easy to think "no one cares what I think". When it comes down to it each take is nuanced, and sharing those unique to you thoughts can be interesting. So I'm going to try and remember that when the self doubt creeps in.
@ricarics67287 ай бұрын
Whenever I want to start something new, I get scared of wasting my time and not achieving my goals.
@darkcnotion7 ай бұрын
At least you have clear goals.
@LivingForFishing7 ай бұрын
same here, i can’t tell if i should be putting more time toward something else but the risk is why you’re doing it, and the risk usually tends to be worth it you won’t waste time, you still learn skills along the way anyway
@3riormrsup7 ай бұрын
I don't have that fear, but when I start that new thing, I realize how out of my depths I am and will quit because of monetary issues, time, or how unrealistic my goals are. This may not be the same for you, so my advice would be to start small and work up from there, but keep in mind successful people are extreme outliers.
@westan47507 ай бұрын
time will pass anyway
@asholie7 ай бұрын
I entirely understand that, and I’ve been stuck that way for years. I’ve come to terms that it’s an unfortunate way to live. I realised that we don’t really know when our end will come. Today, tomorrow, it’s lucky that we are alive each day. With that, if you want to start something new, you should go for it. It may lead to new, even better goals. If not, at-least you tried, and get a skill out of it. Life is full of surprises and all about the experience, not about having everything planned and figured out. It’s far less stressful that way. I think on the internet there’s this “productivity” culture that exists of always being goal orientated, know what you want, don’t waste time and avoid making mistakes. We think so much about being productive that ironically it’s not a productive use of time. On top of that, you’re exposed to people e.g far younger than you who seem to be doing what you can’t. It all can all honestly feel very impending and scary. But, think the best advice in life is finding what and doing what you enjoy, not what you feel you have to do to seem productive. That will lead you to being more productive than you can imagine.
@live-xd7hv3 ай бұрын
I watched the video till the end and my fear of starting something new is -: 1. Fear of beginning the thing 2. Making it perfect to what I imagine 3. Will this be enough? 4. Am I doing it the right way ? 5. How will this affect me? 6. And surely high expectations and irrational comparisons I'm now improving and have improved a lot in some of the above points. Sometimes I feel whole and sometimes overthinking/guard dog/ voices rambles anyway but I got my message to keep going despite them. I started one by one and it surely makes me feel alive, it's hard but it gets better too. Have a good day and take care everyone. :)
@SwishBeats8 ай бұрын
I purchased my first camera in 2022 with plans of filming more and getting back on KZbin…with many rabbit holes and LOADS of expensive additions to my camera setup…I have yet to put something out due to overthinking and doubting if what I am making is even good. This video, along with the 20% that commented made me realize that I’m not alone & I am motivated to put something out! Thank you!!
@decliveestudio8 ай бұрын
Feel you bro, a ton of equipment and you tell yourself once you got a new thing like a monitor, instead of starting, you keep searching to buy a lens or something to keep you waiting, been there done that
@edredBryan8 ай бұрын
...just start with a 3-min short video. Maybe something you're interested in or something you know well. Then it will flow & be natural. Press record on your camera; edit the little stuff; press export to KZbin; then pat yourself on the back, go out w/ some friends or yourself to celebrate and say, " I did it"! Even if you don't make another video, you still did it! Cheering for you!
@GhostWireMedia7 ай бұрын
Last time I managed to break out of that cycle, it started by posting a video on my phone. I didn’t edit it or do anything to it other than state my intention. It helped break that barrier for me and then I posted a video soon thereafter that I’m very proud of. Hope this helps!
@Mazza957 ай бұрын
Word
@eunae66553 ай бұрын
Hey, did you do it? :D
@isusiso5817 ай бұрын
Some quote just popped into my head that seems fitting: "What if I fall?" - "Oh, but my darling, what if you fly?"
@ElevateWithEzron7 ай бұрын
Got this as my lock screen 😂
@Chickenutbread7 ай бұрын
There’s that Greek myth about it too - it’s called Daedalus and Icarus
@bikashtamang97567 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ i just loved this quote
@AceMax-57 ай бұрын
Bro cooked a feast for us.
@realexpatslivinginitaly6 ай бұрын
Icarus actually is the opposite, he got too confident and too near the sun, his wings melted and he fell
@MickGimbyComedy8 ай бұрын
I’m part of the 20%! I really feel like comparing my day one to someone else’s day 2000 is my biggest weakness. Like logically I know that I will have to suck at making art and videos to get good at making art and videos but then I try something and I’m like “oh you’re not already good at this? You’re not picking it up fast?” And then it’s “well it’s not worth it then because you’ll never be good and you will never support yourself and succeed if you’re not good”. Or the good old “it’s too late for you to pursue this” and trying to make out like I’m too old to succeed at things at THE RIPE OLD AGE OF 26 which is absolutely ridiculous
@felixkunz19168 ай бұрын
Felt like I had to leave a comment to this! I'm 19 and just started writing lyrics about a year ago, and even though I literally haven't even finished high school, I too worry about whether I started out too late to actually do something with it, which just seems so damn ironic. If you feel like taking advice from someone seven years younger than yourself, I think it'll just always be that way man
@sirmacaronius8 ай бұрын
I'm 36 and I feel like I've missed my opportunity to go to film school or pursue my dreams of being a filmmaker/videographer because I am stuck in a 9-5 full time job, with hardly anytime at home to pursue these passions/hobbies and I can't afford to go back to school because of responsibilities and finances. I wonder if it's just something we all think about... I suppose we're our worst critic. To that end, I wish you the best Mickey and keep at it! One day you'll be that day 2000 for someone else. (It's always so much easier to help someone else than to help yourself XD) Take care friend!
@soulofchiara8 ай бұрын
I will be turning the ripe old age of 26 soon and these thoughts also pop in my mind! But in reality we are still very young. We just gotta keep showing up every day 🫶 and one day look back and see all the growth💛 you got this!
@Kaaaman8 ай бұрын
@@felixkunz1916 Im glad to see someone else my age also feeling this way. I really want to get into acting, entertaining and filmmaking but it all seems so insurmountable. I tell myself I wish I started earlier, as if it would change anything. I honestly just try to remember that time is only going to keep moving forward, so I have to choose whether or not to move with it. Good luck with your writing, all the best to you!!
@Kaaaman8 ай бұрын
This is a big fear of mine as well. I'm 19 and already feel this way, I suppose it's a feeling we're always going to have until we've already started what it is we want to start. Even once we're in the flow of things, I reckon we'll be grateful we started.
@mikataffy4 күн бұрын
i'm part of the 20% and let me tell you-- you don't know how much I needed that. the reason why I watched your video is because that's exactly what I'm feeling rn. I'm thinking of starting a business and my mind was suddenly "what if it doesn't work out?" bro, i love how transparent and raw that part was. thank you!
@christiesim33137 ай бұрын
Twenty Percent Here. I think what we fear is not failure, it’s success that we fear. We all want success. But we don’t want the pain, frustrations, anger and disappointment and hard work. Self reminder to myself to keep going and that all of this is what’s making it fun.
@Jewelmind7 ай бұрын
Or scared of success, scared of your power
@jailandrademx7 ай бұрын
this happens to me a lot, I'm starting to think too ahead of myself, and I feel the frustration
@patricegrows7 ай бұрын
Same. I say this all the time-we can’t control what will come with success.
@yianomaly30927 ай бұрын
you mean we fear the difficult path to success not the success
@onyourmarkss6 ай бұрын
this.
@bishakdey7 ай бұрын
Fighting the battle with your mind to finish this and put it on KZbin was one of the best things you did in life. You will not have the idea how much it means to me but trust me it made a difference.
@bothomolefe11866 ай бұрын
I agree with you
@MedicineArabic4 ай бұрын
“ There was something so surprising about realizing how far I had come, simply by showing up everyday”. Wise Words.
@PhiloNova862 күн бұрын
20%! What I really admire in other creators is their raw emotional honesty about their journey-the ups, the imposter syndrome, and the process itself. It’s such a powerful reminder of the unique perspective each of us brings to the table. We all need that kind of support, to see ourselves reflected in others. Videos like this are so valuable for starting those conversations and creating a safe space to share thoughts and experiences. Love what you're doing-keep it coming!
@soybella47087 ай бұрын
Am part of the 20% here! One of the reasons, I guess, why people procrastinate so much is not because of laziness but because of perfectionism. We are so much scared about how other people might possibly perceive us from the outcome of our work, hence, we can't simply move forward coz we keep on going back to the details that we think might give other people long lasting impression of us.
@molu99777 ай бұрын
Yea definitely we expect perfection from the beginning and we need to realize it's okay to suck in the beginning. I think we want to be at the destination without taking the journey however the journey is the most important part.
@Loudcartographer7 ай бұрын
I struggle with the same thing. I am lucky enough to have a mentor in my life (which is a new experience) who tells me constantly to “fail fast” this is something I have to repeat to myself every time I get in a headspace of perfectionism. It helps me accept that I WILL fail and that is ok, in fact, it’s part of the plan. It is still difficult but it changes my expectation.
@Fennec_177 ай бұрын
“Perfect is the enemy of good”
@BikerMouse19907 ай бұрын
Same here, great to read all your comments, taking a mental screenshot to remind myself to be kinder to myself throughout - starting is already something to be proud of, doing something for yourself is a kind gesture enough to carry it through.
@imagodei7776 ай бұрын
Spot on! perfectionism is driving me mad😵💫
@jerry.cray_II7 ай бұрын
“You can do hard things. Uncertainty is the nature of life, self-trust is the antidote.”
8 ай бұрын
sometimes the hardest thing to push through for me is “someone else can do it better than you already, why even try?” , but then i try to just ignore that and still do the thing for the joy of the process (for example just playing guitar for the joy of simple sounds and harmonies and not aiming to be faster than others)
@evelina.h80547 ай бұрын
So true and what im feeling everytime i make art and think why even spend time doing it when so much people are 100% better att it than me
@milkynaomi3 ай бұрын
the thing that scares me most when trying something new is the idea of my potential being fulfilled, or am i that lazy? i'm just so tired of myself being myself. thank you for this video, now i can take comfort knowing that we're all in this together :'DD
@deyram.mReacts4 ай бұрын
9:11 I am a part of the 20% that made it this part of the video. This is just what I needed to hear today. I always feel grateful for getting to meet videos like this.
@claudvlogs3 ай бұрын
Same :)
@SunnySideLanco6 ай бұрын
“Comparing your day 1 to someone’s day 1000” was such an impactful statement. I think it’s worth saying we are used to falling in love with the idea of the “end goal” and don’t realize the work/hurdles we will face through the journey. And instead, the idea is to enjoy the journey!
@sapwoodcreative6 ай бұрын
Part of the 20%. I honestly think social media has made it so hard to attempt anything. It shoves down your throat that every day has to be the best day or your life when in reality that’s just not true. I appreciate videos like this that highlight what it means to be normal while trying to do cool things. I wish every single one of you all the best. Find what makes you happy and gives you peace!
@sphumelelezuma800411 күн бұрын
I'm part of the 20% that made it here. Im so glad you pushed through and made this video for I to see it on the right timing. Well I do question myself that what if I don't make it and waste years of hard work? Or there's so many people already doing it what would me make special and succeed through all that? I'm not too extroverted to put myself out there. These are the voices in my head. But with the authenticity of your video and how it practically took you to publishing it and gave you 1.5M views even after your own self doubts I'm truly inspired. And day by day I'll keep making the effort to do better and push through as well. Thank you.
@sedspeedruns6 ай бұрын
this whole video has such high quality production it's like a short movie
@ximonwhhatt37967 ай бұрын
"Sometimes I'll start a sentence and I don't know where it's going. I just hope to find it somewhere along the way. Like an improv conversation. An improversation." -Michael Scott
@Life-b7y4 ай бұрын
I think we all face the same sometimes so you don't give up just try again and again and absolutely in the final you will find it🙂
@afuturesglimspe8 ай бұрын
As someone who started a KZbin channel & then stopped creating - I needed to see this! Perfectionism definitely stops me from creating but lately I’ve been embracing the fact that perfection doesn’t exist and I need to put out my art regardless! - part of the 20 percent
@JohnsonEjim8 ай бұрын
Never stop creating you just might be in the brink of a turn around without knowing
@All-Awesome8 ай бұрын
Awesome !
@from_bitterbean66817 ай бұрын
lol that’s what I said ✨
@alwaysptm190711 күн бұрын
I've always had a habit of starting something and dropping it halfway. Last month my best friend asked me to start writing again, and I didn't know what to write at first because I was so focused on how perfect I wanted it to be. Anyway, after overthinking it for a while, i started writing at the beginning of this month. And I am 6 chapters into my book, i still don't know a lot of things about writing but I am learning everyday. And this video made me really happy. Thank you so much.
@Keoki.935 ай бұрын
I’m 30, have a 5month old and have a supportive wife. My life changed when our baby came in to our life. It made me more compassionate and gave me a bigger drive to be a provider. My baby is my “tiny hobby” no one cares about more than my wife and I. Putting the same energy to raise a human is my “hobby”, I love that my baby has given me a purpose. I’m here for him, I am because of him.
@0FFICERPROBLEM4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being loving and moving towards more of that in the world. I feel the same about people around me and dogs, just because I know I won't have children.
@morganrussell95284 ай бұрын
This is beautiful thank you for sharing
@EvolvingDaily654 ай бұрын
Beautiful way to be parents!
@TylerTapes4 ай бұрын
This is the sweetest thing I’ve read. Your child is going to have the best dad.
@Unknowncuriousity7 ай бұрын
The fact this is the video that made you popular makes PROVES THAT THIS VIDEO IS FACTS
@yukiomimo4 ай бұрын
part of the 20%. it's terribly difficult for me to accept that i won't be the best when i start doing things. im not sure i have dreams. i feel incredible, amazed, and proud with a certain output, then when i put it out there, after a while, it cringes me and feel embarrassed abt it that i just end up hiding it. the wearing off of the excitement is so true too. painfully true.
@roteirodememorias3 ай бұрын
Sim, mesmo estando meio orgulhosa de alguns vídeos, ainda sinto um pouco de vergonha de compartilhar 🥲
@franklinking513510 күн бұрын
“A moment was the most you could ever expect from perfection” this video certainly reminded me of this quote, and I like to think of myself as easy going but sometimes I get way too stuck up trying to make things perfect it inhibits everything I’m trying to do right. Thanks for this, I needed that reminder.
@KickingAndGoals7 ай бұрын
the fear of starting something, working hard for it , and not being what you thought you wanted in the beginning. Plus, that leading to a loss of time and money
@micahfonecheck7 ай бұрын
9:43 watched the whole thing dude seriously, thank you for this. Prime example of just push through to completion and put it out there, you never know who’s watching and who’s life you’re impacting but when you put pure intention and honesty behind your work somebody is going to receive it and be blessed. Again, thank you for this!
@grayciekins6 ай бұрын
20% Club! To be honest, I use KZbin as a way to distract me but also motivate and gain knowledge while I’m doing household chores that I don’t want to do which is alllll of them. I can’t stand how KZbin has changed its opening layout to show shorts first. It kept trapping me into scrolling, something I was using KZbin to avoid. I love long-form content as it helps me to accomplish my chore goals so I can move onto the fun stuff. I try looking for 30 mins or longer videos so it also helps me sorta keep track of time too. Thank you for sticking it through and completing this video. I’m grateful to have watched it. ❤
@austinsc26 ай бұрын
Just click not interest on every short you see and eventually they won’t be recommended at all
@love-risa5 ай бұрын
Me too!
@pyxlated_void47195 ай бұрын
Hey dude, I heard there are extensions that completely remove them from being shown on youtube, I don't know the name off the top of my head, but its out there somewhere and it shouldn't be that hard to find.
@TokyoBlue5873 ай бұрын
Try audio podcasts
@makenzy5396Ай бұрын
I was writing a script and took a break to eat lunch while watching this. The break was definitely needed because I got to the point where I thought “is this even good? What am I doing?!?!” And spit my drink out when you said my thoughts out loud. This was very needed for me today, thank you!
@AjayShaunta8 ай бұрын
Part of the 20% lol. This was great, I definitely understand I’m there now trying to determine what I want my shorts films to feel like and look like. For now consistency is the key!
@1JimmyL7 ай бұрын
Here here !!!
@Siddharth_Roshan_syed7 ай бұрын
Don't lose hope , you'll definitely make it.....❤
@marianarattes33167 ай бұрын
It definitely made me think about the 80/20 rule.
@Terenxe27507 ай бұрын
I somehow cant believe only 20% finish watching a video, like u would say most of the videos i watch i always watch till the end…🤔
@nicolasromerovaldes7 ай бұрын
I'm part of that 20% and I really want to get into making vlogs like I used to but I find no motivation 😭
@aeabriar5 ай бұрын
"there's a harsh reality in starting new things first it's exciting and then that excitement wears off really fast you can't get many places you go through a process of uncertainty and fear" sooo relatable
@epicflange4 ай бұрын
Videos like this make me hopeful that old KZbin isn't dead
@justinuriahphoto2 ай бұрын
Started earlier this year and already at 200k subs! Keep pushing ahead. 🤝🏼
@AndrewPaul12 ай бұрын
Legend!
@justinuriahphoto2 ай бұрын
@@AndrewPaul1 the first 20 seconds of your video hit hard. On point and so true. Thanks.
@amiradjennel64697 ай бұрын
Before seeing this video , and just by the title, I can tell u guys by experience, yes start without knowing how , just start , I started doing things while I didn’t even have any idea about it , and now I’m good at crochet , painting, and reading books , and I’m still discovering new things
@AnuBlossom7 ай бұрын
Every single time I think I'm going to start my KZbin channel or that course that I purchased 6 months ago, I start making a sandwich of all the reasons why it's not going to work. "You're not intelligent" "You're not funny or witty" "People are gonna hate the way you talk" "You got 0 editing skills" And then I eat my 1000-reasons-why-I'm-a-failure sandwich before bedtime and repeat the ritual the next day. And me being in my 30s, it's just... But, I am slowly doing things to change my perspective. And watching this video feels like a good start to my day today. ✨I'm always taking notes and learning a lot from channels like yours and many others on KZbin. Thank you for making this video! :)
@mourinenelima7 ай бұрын
This helped me am 22 still a student and I'm questioning what am doing I can't even get myself to start my school project coz ifk how and its getting me stuck
@StormBRNGER7 ай бұрын
Go girl! I feel you with the 30s issue haha But, so what? This is your life, live however you want to :) We will some day leave this world, so... Enjoy, live and love. This time here is a blessing
@thebrotatochip54697 ай бұрын
Yeah negative thinking is very bad and I’ve grown up with it. Negative thinking is proven to decrease function in the prefrontal cortex worsening cognitive function and the ability to learn, as well as, making you more impulsive and uncoordinated. Then like a billion other detriments things like more anxiety, anger, bad temper and so on.
@jomarieolander41598 ай бұрын
I’m part of the 20% and I’m very glad that you made this video. This week I’ve really realized that I’ve started and explored so many projects over the last year and a half and have not finished many of them. Typically when I get to the “this isn’t fun anymore stage” of my art I look for the next thing to “explore” which is typically a new medium (paper, markers, watercolor, fibers). But I want to be able to see something to completion, even if it’s not perfect. I think I need that challenge, actually I know I need that challenge, and this video was good confirmation of that. Thank you for making it!
@simonsuminski10992 ай бұрын
so much is so relatable. there’s this gripping fear that what i make isn’t going to be perfect and it stops me from making anything at all
@andreitrandafir81148 ай бұрын
Part of the 20%, working with my partner as a wedding photographer/videographer in Denmark, having so many weddings per year, yet the taxes are so abnormal, around 45% of what we make goes in taxes, and being such an expensive country, at the end of the year we make it as a normal one-person salary. Which is crazy. It's just super frustrating and we're joggling with creating different other things but it's just so difficult when the weddings take already so much of your time and more importantly, so much of your creative energy...But we'll make it at some point, sooner or later. Keep up the amazing work you're doing Andrew, you truly are an inspiration and I think this is the first comment I wrote in the past year, watching creators over creators, something just clicked with you in here and I'm so glad I found you. Much love from Europe.
@Alisonashleya7 ай бұрын
This is exactly how I feel as a creative. I’ve always picked up and dropped hobbies, and photography is my main one right now. Feeling like you need to make it big with your hobby is what makes it tough to enjoy the process when it was just fun for you in the beginning. Comparison is the thief of joy as well. I’m that 20% and I love that you made this. Thank you.
@itsgeet6 ай бұрын
its crazy how we all here know exactly what the problems are which we face as creatives, and also have an idea about what their solutions and preventions are, and still we often find ourselves looking for answers elsewhere. its just amazing how we all have the factual knowledge of things, like "oh you're not confident for your art, don't compare!", but we just so many times can't apply it onto our own selves at the needed place and time! i realise i have ranted too long here, about stuff which isn't even too related to your original comment. but im jus gonna leave it here anyway 😭
@Gaurav.P06 ай бұрын
Good comment 👏
@aykansoner46553 ай бұрын
I want to do photography and video work too, but I can't afford a camera since I'm a student. What can I do with my phone?
@HenryMarken8 ай бұрын
I think the fear that keeps coming up is a sort of task paralysis. I get these spurts of motivation but when I start writing out a list of tasks that I want to get done to get to where I want to be I get overwhelmed and end up doing nothing at all. Its hard but I try my best to remind myself to start out with little steps and just try to enjoy the journey rather than focus on the outcome.
@Awtuch7 ай бұрын
Me too!
@myoung183 ай бұрын
"Instead of hoping you're doing the right thing, make it the right thing." Such an eye opener! I am feeling overwhelmed & lost today. Thank you for this.
@kkalberer8 ай бұрын
"Instead of hoping you’re doing the right thing, make it the right thing." and not holding yourself to expectations you cant control are so huge. "If 100 people or 100,000 people see my art it doesn't change the quality or the importance of thing you did" or the message you're delivering. Those two things for me were a healthy smack in the face reminder. Thanks for the wise words. We often "know" these things or hear them often but tend to forget it. Glad you stuck with it, part of the 20%, what you're saying is very relatable. I struggled with perfectionism and wanting anything I started to be perfect. I'd constantly feel like I need to know everything before I started or moved onto the next part of that topic, which ends up leading you to a different topic because of the shiny object syndrome and thinking that the next topic is easier than the one you're trying to perfect. We get good at learning the details, but the details come in by putting in the reps, and the reps come by simply just starting. "Comparison is the thief of joy."
@joybells7117 ай бұрын
he literally just explained my whole life in a 9minutes 46 secs...thank you
@hannah-elainemiller81457 ай бұрын
Yes.
@Heornnwjdy7 ай бұрын
Frl
@elimorgan32085 ай бұрын
0:13 -> thats what im doing right now in this moment
@elimorgan32085 ай бұрын
this video was very good tho
@AyushRaj-dh1dl3 ай бұрын
Same , I can't even sleep these days
@syphaxsyphax73 ай бұрын
Same here bro
@Rageforinsanity2 ай бұрын
Part of the 20%. Life truly is a wild journey. In a blink of an eye your kids you sacrificed so much for are grown up and you're still working for corporations that you hate but you have come so far in your career you think its too late to have dreams. So you push them deep inside and long for a different life. If only you were younger. That's the haunting thought that takes up rent in my brain on a daily basis. You've given your whole life so your family so they can have a better life but is it too late to follow your dreams? Absolutely loved this video. Extremely thought provoking and inspiring .
@avanyvays7 ай бұрын
" There's too many options and if I choose the wrong one,well my life might just fall apart". Never thought I would hear the words in my mind out loud.
@ander63037 ай бұрын
So glad the algorithm hit me with this. Self-doubt is one of the biggest struggles for me. I've been studying other professional creatives and their personalities and it really does seem like you nailed it. You really just have to keep pushing forward and when those "is this even good?" or "I don't even know if I like this"-type voices come out, you just say "Well, I don't know but let's keep going!" You really have to be okay with not being perfect at whatever it is you're pursuing. Keep calm, don't compare yourself unfairly, improve a little every day, and never quit. I loved the message behind this video! Thank you for sharing Andrew!
@itsdivyag7 ай бұрын
the day 03 to 11 cut was so real and honestly its a process i go through everytime i make anything. for me the hardest part is tuning out or pushing through the 'what am i doing is thise even good' voices successfully enough through time to come to something whether its 'good' or 'bad'.
@sighrl12323 ай бұрын
"Instead of hoping you are doing the right thing, make it the right thing"
@madyati8 ай бұрын
1:00 that transition ❤
@ras_wheat6 ай бұрын
Releasing art is a radical form of self love and bravery. The universe ain't shit without every lil thing in it. Including you, sharing your art is, in my eyes, a way to honor the gift of life the universe gave you. Anytime I feel bad or anxious about the stuff I'm doing (stand up comedy, poetry, KZbin videos) I remind myself what I'm doing is important for the world. As is every other creator and artist, and so what imma be bad right now. I know for a fact it won't be forever. Also people can relate with bad. Everything you post will get at least 1 view so you will always have an opportunity to make an impact that's meaningful try your best and see what happens. That's my mindset about this kinda stuff. (Heavily influenced by CJ the X)
@failedfilmmaker5 ай бұрын
Very well said, agree with all of this
@tomashgrey22115 ай бұрын
Nice words. Thanks from Ukraine ❤
@geereyy5 ай бұрын
this comment really means a lot to me. I am kind of an artist myself but every time I post a photo or a video of my work I get really anxious and insecure about it. I really struggle with showing what I made because it feels so vulnerable and then only a hand full of people see it. What you said about that one view gave me perspective so thank you for that. That really means something to me.
@alfredlim60037 ай бұрын
making a commentary about the struggles of following through with things while doubting yourself and then adding clips where you are completely doubting yourself is the rawest form of raw. this is one of the most inspiring videos ive seen this year
@alexanderarias20546 ай бұрын
Facts 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@RicardoConnolly-c2x9 күн бұрын
I'm just want you to know that you make the right decision to keep going with this video. "Instead of hoping you're doing the right thing, make it the right thing" thanks, this would be my new mantra.
@cbecketmoon33587 ай бұрын
I actually teared up at the end bc you are showing yourself … and all of us … so much compassion . Beautiful truth is in you and following you. Thank you for the tears man.. I needed them today to feel a little more human , a little less stuck, get a little more in action with compassion for the things I want to create. Little by little KZbin is acting as an oracle giving me the messages I need to step forward. Yay KZbin .. what a platform of spirit!!! Keep breathing keep loving keep being -all things are coming! Rejoice
@digchen99708 ай бұрын
Andrew mayn u just different that others self improvement gurus U have really impacted life Your content is very relatable I just wanted to thank you
@bbyxluz39445 ай бұрын
I'm glad you decided to post this video. I have been struggling with this feeling for months now, starting a project & not liking the outcome halfway through editing because I always expect perfection. It's been stopping me from being my creative self but watching this short film gave me a sigh of relief, I am not the only one struggling with these intrusive thoughts. Thank You.
@InTheHillCountryАй бұрын
Your editing is the best I’ve ever seen on KZbin. Feels like a mini movie with an incredibly talented director.
@darolan696 ай бұрын
"Instead of using the fact that you don't know how it will all work out, as a reason not to do it, maybe it's the very reason you should do it" beautiful
@Magnus_Magnesium7 ай бұрын
That wall of regret right before you finish a product is so true. You just gotta push through and actually finish things even if it isn’t perfect. Finishing and publishing is more important than perfection.
@CarolBlake1238 ай бұрын
First off, you were not rambling. I've never seen your videos before. First time watcher/viewer. I am part of that 20%. Everything you said really resonated with me. I'm a writer. I've always been a writer. Even before I could actually write, I'd make up stories, songs and poetry and share them with my 3 dolls and stuffed animal. Then, I finally took a smidge of belief in myself and had 3 different essays published in various magazines. They paid me!!! That was part of my start in earning money from writing. I've had little online jobs writing for others, but mostly, I've distracted myself with jobs I detested because I needed the money and the voices of my family and the loop that played (and still plays) in my mind saying that writing is a hobby and will never amount to anything. I will never amount to anything... There go the voices again... Anyway, I've been working on the first book in a series since roughly 2013? I worked on it some in 2013 and 2014, put it on a shelf because I didn't believe in me. Worked on it again in 2017. Put it on a shelf. You get the idea. I took it off the shelf again in 2023 and worked on it till maybe sometime in late March, then realized I gave away too much info in chapter 8 and 9 and it's been sitting on a shelf again... til yesterday or maybe the day before. I'm reading it from the beginning, revising as I see fit and will fix any issues with chapters 8 and 9 as I get to them and it'll be fine, but I have to do my paid work first, which I'm getting distracted on as well, because I'm hungry again to work on my book, but I keep telling myself "PAYING THE BILLS IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE DREAM RIGHT NOW! Get the paid work done. THEN work on the book. Stay up late. Get up early. Make time. And get it done." Hopefully, I can actually finish this book by the beginning of May this year. I'm tired of waiting on myself. It's my biggest dream, unrealized. Everything else I've wanted for myself as far as taking risks and trying new things and putting myself out there have all manifested really fabulous results, so I don't understand myself in my constant stalling and purposely getting distracted. So freaking hard to believe in myself, or believe that God/Universe would ever help me reach success with this thing. I'm terrified. Terrified of failure. Terrified of success. Geez. I just want to live my best life but I get in my own way and trip over myself every step of the way AND IT DRIVES ME TO INSANITY!!! Anyway, maybe I'll come back one day and report that "Hey, I got a fine agent, a fab publisher, a fat advance, and all my dreams have come true and it was better than I ever imagined it could be, because God is so good and the Universe really does have my back!!!" That's part of the dream anyway. Till then, I'll keep on keeping on, try to finish this baby, and show up for myself. I hope the same for all of you with all you want in your life.
@ashwinnarayan52758 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! .It can be hard juggling with work to pay your bills and your ultimate goal in finishing that book. You deserve to be appreciate yourself . Do take little steps to work on that book and It would feel much better saying "hey I was able to work on it little by little and I didn't let go of that dream" rather than the huge paycheck/ the end result. Not that I have been able to do that fully or even reached anywhere close but since all our stories are different , only we can only take control of our own life. A close friend once told to me to stop sitting in the passenger seat just observing and allowing everything to happen and start controlling the wheel to what we see and do in the present. It's much easier said and even difficult to do but that struggle to every creative pursuit gives more happiness in the essence of life. It would be great to hear back from you regarding the journey/process of writing your book.. All the best in your journey!
@OneSidedFX7 ай бұрын
Hi Carol, thank you for sharing your story. Your story is one I can highly resonate with because I am on that same path right now of believing in myself.. constant back and forth between what's important (believing in myself and chase my dream or work that job that "pays the bills") and still having confidence issues. I started listening to a audiobook of the ATOMIC HABITS about a month ago and I feel things changing already. Working towards something is not as hard as it seems because we always have the end goal in mind. Whilst this end goal isn't what is important. What is important is the person you become while striving towards that goal. In essence showing up everyday without fail for that 20-45 minutes working on your goal after working that job that pays the bills. Small efforts day in day out compound into something bigger than we could imagine. And with all the compounding work you put in you will be the writer you always wanted to be and publish more books than the one (the first big hurdle) you working towards right now. Do not forget we only have one life to live. Make the most of it now while you can. Each day we wake up we getting closer and closer to the time we will no longer be... I know that is a bit much to swallow but its the truth.. Don't you waste your potential girl!!!
@northa36172 ай бұрын
Part of the 20%, having you play in the background while I go on my endeavour to create my dream into a tangible reality. Thank you!
@rubialuisa14867 ай бұрын
I wish someone had told me this before, I'm stuck in my life righ now just because I liked to do many things but I feared making the wrong choice so fucking much that I didn't choose anything at all. Everyone just picked up things for me, and as a people pleaser, I passively just accepted whatever came. Being thrown at the world at the age of eighteen when I was just like this made and still make me feel like a failure or the ultimate garbage of the universe. But there's some comfort in seeing someone say they've gone through something similar and that the first step is something everyone have to do and of course we'll not be our best everytime, let alone in the first try. Learning to embrace the uncertainty is the best advice young people can get.
@der_Camino7 ай бұрын
The Algorithm Starts knowing me more than me
@deyatcore7 ай бұрын
I'm an artist in every sense of the word. I love music, I paint, I write stories, yet sometimes I feel like it will never be good enough. Sometimes I forget I do this because of me, because this is what I've always wanted and looked up to, and I'm trying to get better. I'm trying to overcome my social anxiety and my eating disorder, along with being a lot healthier and trying to *try* new things out. As of today, I had a really bad day and all I thought about was giving up about everything I'm dreaming and sticking to what I have. That wouldn't be me after all. I'm still young, barely in my seventeens and I'm turning eighteen this year. For everyone reading this, don't wait for someone else to do it for you, search for the gratitude and pride to do things yourself and have your name on them. Make yourself a person that people will remember.
@TaylorsOdyssey9 күн бұрын
I've been dealing with this type of decision paralysis for a while. Sometimes I'll break through, and it's great. But the trick is to keep going and not let yourself get stuck again. Thanks for the great video.
@thathianaabalos22047 ай бұрын
Sometimes I think that I will sound stupid when I talk about the hobbies I start because I don't know everything yet. I think that I won't be as good as others or I won't have the time everyday to practice a skill so I fear I won't get good at it and stay mediocre forever.
@thathianaabalos22047 ай бұрын
Part of the 20% :)
@itsgeet6 ай бұрын
Sound stupid to whom? People who didn't even try to learn something new? And the time you're going to spend practicing your craft everyday, which you're afraid will not bear any fruit, that's gonna pass either way. might as well try to get better in the meantime👍
@gaugea6 ай бұрын
how do you think of others when you hear them talking about getting into something you like? usually i feel excited that they’re getting started, and have nothing but support for them. try to remember that if their opinion is worth caring about, they’d think the same
@nuclear_reactor5x56 ай бұрын
@@itsgeet good foking point chap
@IgraineDraco6 ай бұрын
I also noticed a similar pattern like you. Sometimes I even said that I wanna start hobbies to friends, then I ended up not doing it. So now I don't say anything to them, until I make something/ some progress and I will tell people about how I achieve it. I think that Huberman also talked about this in his podcast or shorts.
@L.C.Griffith6 ай бұрын
I always stall out by worrying about learning the technology. Then I remind myself to take it one step at a time.
@ChrisJHintonphotography5 ай бұрын
Same
@StrooBerries7 ай бұрын
Life has a lot of uncertainties, but just remember that that's what makes it exciting and scary at the same time. You got this bro.
@GokuKakrot-ic3wz6 ай бұрын
Sure bro
@PhiloNova862 күн бұрын
Great video! As a small KZbinr, I’ve learned that starting is the hardest part, especially when you feel like you don’t have it all figured out. Early on, I thought everything needed to be perfect, but what matters most is showing up consistently and learning as you go. If I hadn’t pushed myself to start, I wouldn’t have made it to where I am now. Sometimes, progress comes from taking that leap before you feel ready. Thanks for the inspiration! Only 10 days to the end of 2024 but never giving up on the dream to hit 1000 before that point (currently at 109). Wish me luck guys
@morganseel6 ай бұрын
Part of the 20%! Man, been struggling with overthinking everything from my branding, my style, content formats, and so on... and I absolutely love the real candidness of this video. Makes me realize that documenting the process, sharing your true thoughts and feelings and simply being yourself is so much more valuable than attempting to paint some 'perfect' picture of what your life looks like. Great message and well done seeing it through
@solei47 ай бұрын
One of the 20% I have a long history of not finishing things due to perfectionism and lack of confidence. Thank you for this video ❤
@sonomipe7 ай бұрын
Hello, I also have those and fear in how it will be perceived by my close ones. I hope you are making progress towards your goal buddy :) if so pls share some tips that worked for you.
@julezle71336 ай бұрын
20% - “Instead of hoping you’re doing the right thing, make it the right thing.” was my take away. I fight the same battles of the back and forth in the head. Most of the things I start, I never finish. It’s a struggle I’m still working through. Keep this in mind when posting your videos, it only takes one person (maybe even a few) to have gotten something out of your journey/insight to make all the difference. You don’t need to win over everyone. I thank you for pushing yourself to post this. It truly resonated with me. ❤
@andrewd80266 ай бұрын
100% agree about that quote being the takeaway. Perfection is enemy of progress; it's so easy to beat yourself over picking the right thing in the moment, and even once you've picked the direction wondering if it would've been better to do it the other way.
@lovenotesbysam3 ай бұрын
Happy to inform I was part of the 20%!! To answer your last question @ the end of the video - what is stopping you from achieving that dream/goal of yours? Well, for me, (up until I saw this video) it was the fear of being seen. But you know what, TO HELL WITH THAT! I am gonna start working on my dreams right away!! Thank you for this!!!
@lerx19806 ай бұрын
What I never realized. I like being told what to do and like the comfort of just consuming and don’t take the scary step to start because I’m thinking of how it is not perfect yet and there need to be things to be done beforehand. What a great video because of the message. Thanks stranger to be so open about your feelings and insecurities. A video worth watching until the end on normal speed.
@MaxxRose5 ай бұрын
This was ridiculously inspiring dude! The biggest fear that comes to my mind is probably one of the most common what ifs that comes up when anyone makes a drastic change in their life "what if it never works out?" I just pivoted in my career and I'm terrified of that the most. Even so, with that fear in my chest and also knowing how much I'm going to mess up at first I'm willing to put myself through it just to show myself its possible.
@enwang48468 ай бұрын
20%! this was so relatable. thank you for sharing/reminding us of the inevitable CHAOS of creative work. its so easy for me to believe that this process is linear when its the exact opposite (even tho ive been through it hundreds of times). Nobody talks about the faith and serendipity required to turn your work into something worthwhile-- and tbh most of the time it does, miraculously! I would love to see a video of your end to end process!! all the ups and downs and the edits and rewrites and the unfinished scripts
@justyaelling3 ай бұрын
The shadow side of being an artist, not being sure what that role means to you (which will never be a fixed result) or what you will do with it, that shadow side is so important to share because many artist who experience this and blocking themselves because of the doubt and high expectations should know it all starts with just doing and letting go of all the outside expectations and voices… ‘just do it’ and that makes you and many artists brave. That’s the fundament of writing your own story. Thank you for sharing how deep your roots are going for the projects to shine!
@Kiaraallure_5 ай бұрын
20% club!!! This was such a beautiful video... thank you for still posting even with those negative thoughts popping up. Wishing nothing but love for you on your journey!🫶🏽
@Tim_Tundy4 ай бұрын
I’ve honestly been feeling discouraged about starting a Chanel about my truck, especially since my truck will take a while to get built due to finances, I’m working on a video and I’m absolutely very happy editing and creating the videos for KZbin and insta reels. Thank you, you help me see that I have to start somewhere and starting is already a leap.
@AndrewPaul14 ай бұрын
Make videos about getting your truck back up and running - if I’ve learned anything it’s the fact people wana see the process and the authentic opposed to the finished goal
@jigman59894 ай бұрын
I was a part of that 20% thank you for this video and it made me decide that I need to take a risk on just starting something which for me is drawing, I’ve always wanted to but never have because I “wasn’t good enough” but I realized that no one is until they take the leap to actually get good. Love all of you hope this video helped you as much as it helped me. ❤
@ExploringSumatraАй бұрын
20% here - and honestly, while I found the majority of this video really beautiful and inspiring, it was the last few minutes that I most appreciated. There are so many great videos out there about creating etc etc but this is the first time I've ever heard a successful creator refer to the process of creation and talk about that point where you feel like it's shit and don't even know if you should keep going. This is such a big hurdle for me in a lot of my content, but in particular KZbin, where my partner and I are so far out of our comfort zone filming in public, talking on camera etc. The fact that you experience this is such a lightbulb moment and a huge relief. Thank you for sharing that vulnerable moment that so many of us probably experience but never talk about!
@tasha37575 ай бұрын
7:32 The irony with what he’s saying is that not only did this video do better than his last “viral” video… it’s almost at 1M views! Goes to say, don’t let your doubts hold you back from completing your project.
@Kunishka-n3v5 ай бұрын
I so so agree with everything that you have to say. Some hurdle that I face is STARTING something, even if I am excited about it and think thats my future, I often procastinate or delay it as much as possible. Where your quote helped a lot - "Instead of hoping it is the right thing, make it the right thing." I am going to try doing that and stop overthinking.
@GoloAmoebe8 ай бұрын
the entire self development community wouldn't exist without coffee
@erinenk7 ай бұрын
Completely
@erinenk7 ай бұрын
My biggest fear is other judgement
@fishj3lly7 ай бұрын
@erinenk, just as others are scared of your judgment. A majority of people are focused on themselves and how others see them, to the point where they don't really have the "time" to judge others. I read a quote that says something along the lines of: if you think others are judging you, it's really just you judging yourself.
@acaciacookАй бұрын
your videos are so inspiring but the main reason they are is because of your humility and your realness plus expressing your gratitude to all your viewers at the end, this video is alot more inspiring to me then most motivational videos out there because its so real, i see myself in you because you allow yourself to be seen as just human and it makes me believe in myself even more because im also just human. alot of the people that are out here achieving their dreams, they usually hide the part of them that is uncertain or insecure and it just makes me feel like "yeah they can do that because they are them but im just lil ol' me, who am i too go for my biggest dreams" but when you express the difficulties and the insecurities, i see myself, so thank you for being real♡
@fadriandifaathallah41094 ай бұрын
the question that always coming up to my head is "can i? what will happen if i fail? am i ready?", on the same time i always think "just do it"
@WicakMifta6 ай бұрын
Last part of your video are super encouraging! We totally agree that the one that could be controlled by ourself is the one that we should be worry of.
@hiwa_sh68137 ай бұрын
20 percent. 1. How to finish something that we've started? They're a lot 2. How to determine what's really important to do and focus between multiple options?
@1tubax7 ай бұрын
1. Do you need to finish it? If you do, you'll have finished it. As long as you are making progress in something, you're doing well. 2. Take walks. Just go and walk for 1-2 hours and have a conversation with yourself and your thoughts. That's where all this "what's really important" stuff gets sorted out. It's a mess that you must sort out